The truth is you fear rejection not that you don't want the person to know that you like them. Deep down you wish that that person knew just how much you do infact like them.
My crush is kinda awkward with everyone but with me she actually tries to talk to me. Also she smiles at me and has blushed one time when she felt down and I complimented her. She was embarrassed
I was so scared to get rejected but once it happened to me one time I was okay! It actually made me more confident and not care about rejection anymore lol Idk I'm weird.
3 signs since human civilization: 1.) She fixes / touches her hair. 2.) She transformed into 'anime' eyes while looking at you. 3.) She keeps on laughing (even what you said was stupid).
When I have a crush and since im TOO shy,I try not to show it.Like if I was looking at my crush and he looks at me I would act like I was looking at something else close to him.Also my teacher makes me sit with him so I try to get his attention but making him think that It was just an a quisidense all my friends ship us together and tells both of us which makes us so awkward and try to change what we were talking about especially my friends. /Story Time/ I have been in school with him for three years but I started to like him this year.It all started in class I had gotten to bed late so I...fell asleep in class.Then when I woke up I see him looking at me blushing..that's when my heart started skipping. Why am I writing this!!... Somehow I am shy but in the internet I act way different. This just me?
Hey! I'm going to be making a video where I give you advice and tell you if your crush likes you. So if you have any questions or wanna tell me the story about your crush and find out if I think she likes you, reply to THIS comment and I'll put it in a video and answer it!
I have a crush and what I do is when we make eye contact or I catch their eyes when they glance at me, I quickly look down or to the side and pretend I wasn'ta looking
There is a girl that goes to my church she shows pretty much the signs that you talk about and she will say she doesn't like me but be made if im dating or talking to another girl and also i complimented her smile once and she came back to church the next say smiling alot. I even overheard her sister saying i was her crush. She is definitely shy though and will be all comfortable around everyone else and really nervous around me. This has only been since i got divorced i went to the church when i was married and we got along great and she could talk to me but since i been divorced and have been available its been this way
my crush usually never talks to guys...she is probably shy...but she does not act very shy in class while talking to the teacher...today one of my guy friends approached her (so that i could talk with her later by knowing about her through him at first) and then she seemed okay and responded nicely to my friend but when they came in front of me she seemed slightly off and shy...i caught her looking at me at class for a long time and today i went on to give her a look...all of this is confusing does she like my? i really found your video very useful indeed..can you please give me ideas on how i can make her comfortable with me? is it that she is not interested in me or is it the opposite...it's all very confusing
It's hard to say when im not seeing how she is acting in person. to get her more comfortable, i think you could have short and casual convos at first until you see her opening up more.
This video is on point with my crush. I eased into making her comfortable around me for the last 3 month but this past week there is tension between us and she's back to shy. But she posted a hint to a song that relates to our relationship. I'm gonna ask her out tomorrow
I like the new format here Ayla, the tea time couch thing works makes it seem homey. By the sounds of it, it's really hard to figure out if a shy girl likes you. For a video idea how about "5 great first date ideas to go with a shy girl?" Btw thx.
JakesShowcase Go for woman your own age your nearly 40 years old pal stop asking dating advice from 14 year olds your subscribed to a load of them. Go comment on your own channel you ignore your fans because your too busy chatting up young girls.
You are very intresting to watch and the sometime helpful. If i am going to be serious I'm a shy guy. Guys find girls who is shy attractive in my point of view because they are hard to get. Thank you for sharing!😊
Thank you for the feedback from the other day! Sorry for another comment. So we went and things seemed to go well. We have messaged since and she said that she had a great time and it sounded like she would like to get together again (no confirmation yet though). She told quite a few childhood stories and wanted to wander the mall after breakfast so I suggested checking out her favorite store in the mall before the movie. We ended up being a bit late and asked her for spoilers for the movie but she said no “she likes to see people’s reactions”. A lot of laughing through the date before we went to the movie.
Ask a 40 year old dude. I say, Just put the damn hidden camera facing her and don't look at her. She'll stare the craziest at you when u r not looking. And btw., don't look at her at all, let her get comfortable staring at you a lot, cuz the more they stare the more they fall in love. And then just go for the kill, crack a joke and give her something when u approach. That'll sooth her anxiety, and boy they crap their pants when u approach and may actually stall in a catatonic state.
Hahaha Some girls are like that. I recently watched a video where two asian girls said thats a common thing they do to guys they like. If shes the funny type you can be SUPER flirty by giving her a wink next time. lol Or if you catch her staring again, smile then look down but still be smiling when you look down. That way she catches that you were for sure smiling.
DON'T WORRY ABOUT IT...YOU ARE AMAZING... YOU ARE VERY HUMBLE AND SWEET...THOSE ARE BEAUTIFUL QUALITIES TO POSSESS...YOU FINE JUST THE WAY YOU ARE...WISH YOU THE BEST...😊
This is old and I don’t expect an answer but a girl that I’ve been talking to for a few weeks has social anxiety (she told me). The conversation's kept going and I asked a couple times about getting together to meet and she ignored those questions (she answered other questions I asked though and continued messaging with both of us asking info questions). We talk just about every day (it’s pretty much just been one long conversation). I haven't asked again in the last two weeks since I don't want to scare anybody off. By the way we did start talking online and haven't met yet in person. Then last week, about four weeks after we’ve started talking she asks if I can go to a movie this coming Friday with her but she's already seen it. Thoughts on this? Love the videos by the way. You have a new sub.
Move on. She is not interested in you. Find another one. My next tip is you avoid too much friendly boring chitchat. Instead mix it with playful teases and mild sexual thoughts so she sees you as an attractive man.
I'm actually not a fan of moving too quickly when you're still only messaging her. My advice would be to keep her in the friendzone until they've actually met in person. But if he's worried she'd move on to another dude, that's the only time I would tell him to be flirty so she gets the message.
@@AylaBoswel Yeah I haven't asked her in a while. She's the one who asked me last week if we could get together on Friday. I'm sorry if my comment was a mess. I was just wondering about what you think she might be doing. I'm completely fine with being friends. In our messaging it sounds like we have pretty similar interests. Also, thank you both for the feedback. It's really nice to have an outside POV on this.
When a girl gives you one or two word answers when your working with her and say she's shy and doesn't give much eye contact in close proximity but does at other times like looking over at you from afar. Does this mean interest and I also find when I ask a specific question she will respond more but seems a lack of eye contact. I asked her on social media a month ago out for a coffee as friends but haven't heard back. Very hard to ask her face to face as I only see her for a few hours on one day a week. Also suspect some colleague's have got to know my feeings for her and maybe bad mouthing about me to her. Would appreciate any advice xx
Cause it's really easy to ppl to tell that I always blush and say that I'm an anime girl and say that when I smile I always blush or they say if I'm wearing blush I'm like no I'm not even allowed to wear make up until I'm 14
I said cya to a girl at work who is obviously shy, and it seemed like she straight up ignored me, she looked down as I walked by and said it. Am I screwed ? :S
Women are weird. Happened to me. But she was totally into me. But she was too shy for it to ever go anywhere unless I just walked up to her and said ok you + me = greatness, let's do it.
Smiles at me and when I look she runs and hides sometimes catch her in the corner of my eye looking lol just the other day I was looking at her and she started walking fast to try and hide that is what is confusing me I'm shy myself plus this is happing at work
there is this girl who keep staring me when ever we see each other, I was planning to talk to her but today when I was on my bike I spotted her we looked at each other for a second but she instantly started looking down, does this mean that she don't like me ?? please tell me.
It's hard to tell. she could have been shy about making eye contact or she doesn't want you to think she likes you. Next time wave and she what she does. If she doesn't wave back she probably doesn't like you.
I'm not really sure how to answer this because I don't look for a type. I guess someone with the same morals and values but opposite personality. I like outgoing and with a lot of friends bc I'm more reserved and picky with who I even speak to.
Miguel Santos stop being a creep or give out clingy vibes.... Trust me , dude ,focus on career and these bitches will flock towards you once you become rich. Sad , but true ...
Okay, never mind! I figured it out! You choose confident, visually appealing guys who pay more attention to girls without being too obvious about it! Hint: just be yourself and know that no guy is out of your reach! If he notices you and approaches you he’s worth a little of your time! You’re honestly very attractive!
Thank you! & I agree with what you said. As I get older, I learn to not stress about someone liking me back. If they don't, it just wasn't meant to be. I only want someone who wants me for who I am.
@@XxDeathcorpzxX being someone you're not/fake isn't good advice. Even I know they would push most people away. You shouldn't have to change who you are just to impress someone.
I want my crush to not like me and like me at the same time cause I don't want him to ask me out cause I want to wait until I'm 15....actually no or maybe yeah cause in the urban dictionary it says never let an Evelyn go and it said that I'm quite and it's true nah I bet the urban dictionary will help but I only talk to him and that's the only guy I trust and he says that my anime drawings are fantastic and he told me to draw him sexy I'm like in my mind OMG FINALLY HE TOLD ME TO DRAW HIM I CANT WAIT and he makes me laugh he always does and then he acts like he is gay and then says I'm not gay ok but I'm only trying to make u laugh ,then one time he called me beautiful and he didn't realized he said that l bet I was blushing and turned red maybe
I'm in a situation like this with a shy girl, we don't know each other but you basically explain what is going on my situation, what should I say if I am to approach first
It depends how well you know each other and where youre at. But it's a good idea to approach her with an excuse to talk to her. Like with a question that she would know the answer to.
it's the gym, we don't know each other at all, but I'm getting the some of the signs, I've experienced similar behavior from other girls before and my assumptions if they like me was correct but it was they who approached, so I'm kinda confident she has some interest but I have a strong feeling she would not approach first, we fidget the same way around gym, constantly pacing nervously, sometimes I try to get close, sometimes she tries to get close, we catch each other staring, esp in the mirror, but we both put effort not to get caught looking at each other, I took it upon myself to make more eye contact so far, some of her guy friends who come to the gym the others days will look at me like if they are analyzing me, nobody knows I like her, I'm a loner in the gym. And one more thing, she does not fit in the overly attractive gym girl sterotype all the guys run after.. but she is attractive to me, I dunno, it's like I see someone who I could connect to,
she saw me at the gym, I was working out alone and she came across and started working out the machine next to mine, I talked to her about something random, we talked a little bit, she kept eye contact all the time, calm but friendly, I was the shy one, then we was like ok she went one the other side of the gym to work out, so at that point I was about to give up but, but then she started to walk past me alot, and would work out close to me.she was looking at me too and that happened the next time to, like if she wants me to know she is in the gym, just not sure how to proceed from there,
I'm not too sure,this girl likes me.She is always pretty awkward, when its just me and her and she is more reserved therfore, I seem to be the one initiating conversation.But,in contrast when we are in my robotics group she seems to be more closed off and reserved around groups,and on top of that she looks at me and laughs.She also dosen't seem to me like she usually sends one word texts,therefore I'm not too sure about the texting part of whether she likes me.In,conclusion, I'm not sure, if she likes me! Any advice would be appriciated! Thanks!
One word texts is a bad sign. Someone can give the excuse that they are a bad texter but if she's actually replying but it's only one or two words i wouldnt believe that. She doesn't want to text you which isnt a good.
But can you tell me how to deal with shy girls... Because there's a girl in my class she is like you..that is comfortable with other guys but behaves super awkward in front of me...once I tried talk to her....but at first get fainted for a moment and then she asked why I want to talk to her ..... I told her that she seems interesting to me...then she said don't talk to me...then I left. But then the very next day I again caught her secretly staring at me...and other body language signs as well... I mean to say I know she likes me...but what should you I do?
Is she playing hard to get ? I asked this girl to meet me infront of her house for 5 mins, because I needed to talk about something. She started to giggle a little bit and she told me to text her and she will have a look at my text.
Wouldnt say " Playing hard to get " per say, Just Playing the Field. 24 Players to sample before deciding on 1 " ONE " make more sense ! Would i have her after a " Football Team " HELL NO!@@WanM786
THERE IS NO PROBLEM WITH YOU LADY. WOMEN GIVES SIGNS, IT'S THE MEN'S JOB TO DO THE MOVE. THE PROBLEM TODAY IS MEN ARE NOT TAUGHT TO READ NON VERBAL SIGNS A GIRL GIVES.
I wish there was a part 2 of this video because i think a girl likes me and she is just like you describe in this video but i feel like i want more conformation or something..
