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Asian Mom: Why can't you be like your cousin? He cured cancer when he was 2 and got into Stanford when he was 3. The cousin's mom: Why can't you be like your cousin? He started his own business when he was 2 years old and got the noble prize for curing the coronavirus. When in reality, the two ppl are just ordinary kids 😂
Asian mom: Why can't you be like your sister? She's in biomed and you're a youtuber! Also Asian mom: Why can't you be like your brother? He's already earning money while you haven't paid your student loan yet! You're IN SCHOOL, like some damn child, and you're already 20! So what if your school is called Harvard? You can't even provide for yourself, FAILURE
@@michaelschneider8201 Brother: Well my sister is still in school and she isn't making money, I'm making money right now. Asian mom: HOW DARE YOU TALK BACK TO ME 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡your sister studies biomed, she's way smarter than you, she will make way more money than you. Sister: Well I will get a degree in biomed and then get a good job that can pay off my loans... Asian mom: HOW DARE YOU TALK BACK TO ME 😡😡😡😡😡😡😡you can't even make money yourself right now, and you have to pay off money later, look at your brother, he is already making money and he doesn't have anything to pay off.
One time, I asked my mom who was her favorite child and she said she loved us all equally. I didn't believe her for a second so I kept telling her she had to pick. She wouldn't budge so I asked her who was her least favorite child instead and she said all of us. I can't blame her though, none of us are doctors.
Man, I was the favorite of three, it was awesome and I knew I was given special treatment and made sure to use it, lol. And then my brother got into medical school........... how the times have changed...
The Asian mother is super intelligent ngl, she has so much hatred for her 2 children, she pretended to favor the other to display her hatred to the brother and sister. Legendary, reverse psychology.
As an Asian it is not actually hate. It is more like a challenge the parents do for the children to aim better in life if one wants the approval of the parent they will strive to out do the other to please the parent. It's like when you get sick they will scold you and throw words at you and call you stupid but deep down they are worried like crazy they just don't show it. They have a very different way of showing love. Hahaha.
@@silviaherondale4102 aren't every sibling like that though even outside Asian household?? You tell me except Asia the whole world are loving cuddling and nice and kind and sweet siblings??
@@euchiii3596 From what I've known, siblings would pull pranks and dummy jokes on each other, but when shits get real they will be there and help you. This is my experience.
My mom always is like "I love both of you equally!" while always picking my brother's side in arguments just because " he's older so he knows more " and always complimenting him and saying how he is such a great child to my other relatives, and always comparing me to my him.
Don't let it get to you man, I'm sure she actually loves both of you equally, and age is a very good reason to treat both of you differently. She compares you to him because he has more achievements under his belt; since he has had more time than you to get those. Also this is totally natural. If the older brother is already successful in her eyes the mother will try to support him as much as she can, because you will get support from both her and your brother, so you don't need as much support from her as your brother does. It's evolutionary and logical Focus on your relationship with your brother instead of dwelling over how your mother treats you, your brother will always be with you, while your mother will eventually retire and you'll live separately.
I went through the same thing except I’m the other (Golden) sibling. I see how it really got to my sister. Despite how hard I’ve worked to let her know that I saw our childhood the same way she did, Today, she doesn’t trust anyone, harbors toxic levels of resentment, acts like a child emotionally, and every time she’s in a disagreement she calls it “taking the opposite side of her” as opposed to genuinely having a different take on something. So while I cannot and will not understand your experience, my advice to you is to grieve what you didn’t get but absolutely deserved; move forward understanding you may never be loved the way you deserve by your family, and love yourself the way you were always meant to be loved. I may be the golden child but our family was all types of fcked up. So I removed myself from the family when I turned 18, became my own person and learned more about myself, nurtured some of my childhood wounds and when I returned, I was able to see things clearly. My mom tried her best with what she had. Your parents are human too. They messed up, but it doesn’t mean they wanted it to be that way. They just don’t understand what you need the way you do, and you may not know how to articulate it yet. Do you. My sister didn’t do that and ended up the way she is now and tbh she has huge woe is me energy, is super selfish, can’t maintain relationships with others, has emotional outbursts etc. You may have been dealt a shitty hand as a child but when an adult, you are free. You a get to choose your actions. if you want to be better, it’s your responsibility and no one else’s. And what you gain was a result of your choices. If you stay the same or become worse, that was your choice too. They made a mess in your house. Does matter more that your house is clean? (The right choice) Or that they be the ones to clean it up? (The egotistical choice) The house is you. If you want something better you have to accept may have to move forward without them.
At least she cared enough to lie...? The irony for me is that my older sister was a handful, she was the first one, the beloved one. My mother took her side regardless of if she was right or wrong. The worst thing I ever did was outperform her in school (thought I could earn my mother's love at least.) But it made me more hated 😅 It's better to let it go (I know it's not easy or completely possible.) Some things aren't worth trying to change or can. If I realized that sooner my childhood might've been a bit better.
@@toothless8809 I know that feeling. I got top score in math and top of my class it was a hard math I was so exited to tell them. Long story short my cousin is top of all classes and won a medal for joining a spelling contest.
@@tulip811 The neighbor's kid is perfect in their eyes only because he/she is not their own child and they just want a person to compare their kid to. As a result, they only see their good points. If you point out the neighbor's kid flaws, they'll perceive that as talking back.
Son : RU-vidr with more than a million followers, also endorsement. Mom : Crying 😢 - My son is jobless, that's why nobody marry him. Waiiiit....maybe he's also gay.
As a middle child i see this as a win, it's better than being abused like your older sibling until they failed suicide or be childish immature jerk like the youngest. I love when my parents neglect me! More then when they are on my ass.
Me: you guys don't love me! Mom and dad: yes we do! Also my parents: *will take my younger siblings to a hospital with the tiniest scratch but will force me to go to school when having a bad fever*
@@sennie6296 That's extremely unusual for a child to ask that, why don't they know their parents gonna say try asking me in English instead of Failure.
I know these are all jokes and I do laugh at it myself. But just a reminder, that I personally know some of my friends who actually have these kinds of harsh parents who said similar things. It's really sad to know that it actually happens to some people where their own parents degrade them without a second thought
Lol as an Indian, my parents will choose my brother over me, a girl, anyday. I can find cure for cancer, win a noble prize, win multiple Olympic golds, do more than necessary, and my brother on the other hand decides to become a serial ki*ler. He'll be loved all the way. This is how it is in some Indian households, girls are k worded even in the 21st century. (In the womb itself)
My mom is Italian, from Italy, and it is like that with my Italian cousins too growing up. So it's a Mediterranean thing too. Not sure if maybe today it has improved a little.
The Asian part is soo relatable 😂 Each time I study with my mother she tells me “why are you slow at studying?be faster like your brother!” And when she studies for my brother she says “why don’t you be like your older sibling? YOURE STUDYING TOO FAST!”
My sons asked me who I loved more and I asked them which do they love more hamburgers or pizza? They couldn’t pick. I told them I couldn’t pick a favorite either. I do love both of them equally but different.
Pitting siblings against one another by playing both and then both of them being confused when the other one says 'mom loves you more.' That's actually really clever. I was just recommended this channel. Love the comedy. This is the 3rd comedy channel yt has recommended that's been really funny.
Clever? My mom do this to me and my sister and it made me hate my sis fiercely with with all of my guts and end up bullying her verbally and physically too cuz my mom do that too to me and I can't retaliate her so I'm venting it on my sister cus she's younger and I regretting it so much! Turns out she also got the same treatment like me from our mom and plus from me. She doesn't have anyone to vent it so she vent it on herself, aka self harm. I'm so shocked when I know about it. Thankfully we are able to rekindle our relationship later and clearing all the misunderstandings between us, ofc when my mom works overseas.
i’m south asian, and my parents are a mix of the two. they’re like “we love you both equally” and then tell my sister to be more like me and me to be more like my sister
We're a little more honest in my family, especially as adults. One of my relatives admitted it too, even though I was in the car. We laughed, and I said the same thing. Now I was extremely close to my grandma who is not attached to our favorite--as we're half-siblings, but the rest of the family upholds one. This is because she doesn't whine, is the hardest worker in our family, and is the most attractive. If she saw machines, dirt, leaves, and broken furniture piled up to the ceiling in mom's garage, she would just go to it and pick it up like nothing.
I'm the middle child in an African American family... and the introverted one. I am literally no one's favorite in my immediate or extended family. Hurts so good.
I was crying while watching this... I am a single child... But my parent's always compare me with my friend's and classmates and they say that i am intelligent but not pretty like Elizabeth... They only love me for who they want me to be...
As I was growing up, my mom kept on comparing me to Eva, my BFF who was also the top kid of our class. Then one day when I was at Eva's place, I overheard Eva's mom comparing her daughter to me! So you'd better check out what Elizabeth's parents tell her. It might be "Why can't you be like (your real name)?"
Asian parents actually love their kids a lot, they just dont know how to express it. After all, they want us to get straight A and encourage us to become doctor and lawyer, but thats because they want the best for us. Every parents love their kids, and we Asians have the tradition of loving and caring for each other
I cant tell if I’m my parents favorite or least favorite. I have the best grades and I always get all my work done all of the time. But I’m easily ignored and my siblings have more social special interests or need more attention that I apparently don’t need.
This is the question. Is it necessary to be mean to your kids to get them to do well in school? I personally think kids only do as well as their IQ in school, as well as some other personality traits. So I don't know that abusing and yelling at kids is going to make them do a lot better in school, than they would otherwise. So I don't know if the Asian technique is so great. I hear in Germany, they separate the kids out at Middle School by their test scores and that's it, so they don't even get the chance to get to college. So less stress for them, I guess.
As an Asian, the technique is not necessary but it's somewhat effective, since it forces the kids to study and some learning because of fear. Not saying they doesn't have side effect, like the stress is quite high. And the kids may get high score in class but we don't know about their speaking/social skills. Since all they know is studying. I remember in my school days I was crying in the middle of exam since I barely can answer the exam questions so yeah, and my parents was not that strict I think, if you compare it to tiger mom type. Personally I don't want my kids to go through this tho, and some new wave of Asian parents actually already thinking the same and becoming softer to their kids. Not all tho, only some.
As a Chinese, luckily my mom never say such mean thing to me. More like the American parents. They will say love us equally. But in reality treat me much better than my sister.
Throwing my hat in the ring for West Indian and Latino kids. Me: Hey mom who do you like more? Mom: (villain laughs) That’s hilarious. I can’t stand any of you! But somehow still cooks and does our laundry. I take what I can get lol.
한국어도 하시는 거 같아서 한국어로 씁니다 ㅎㅎ 혹시 부모님들이 성인 자녀에게 결혼/아이가질 것/육아에 대해 걱정(?)이나 훈수, 잔소리 두는 부분에 대해서도 영상 만들어 주실 수 있으신가요? 꽤나 극적으로 차이날 것 같아서요. 남친/여친/결혼할 사람 소개...도 재미있을 것 같아요 ㅎㅎ
"just talking to you makes me feel like Will Smith" how can you bring back this old dead irrelevant meme noone talks about anymore and still have it remain funny
