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My house burned down and although my bf at the time did come over immediately, after about 10 minutes of me crying he said "That's enough, it's not that bad" LIKE WHAT. Why even are men
@@Falany oh hunny.... Red flag🚩🚩🚩 I've been in a few of these relationships, this isn't love. They are just settling for you and that's why they don't care about your feelings. But God forbid they went thru the same situations and they would be a 100x worse and they would get incredibly upset if our response was "that's enough, it's not that bad". We deserve better, best wishes to you hun.
@@angelabarnes1675 Yeah that relationship didn't last 😂😂 I was young and stupid so spent another 1,5 years with him after that sadly. It's been 12 years now since we broke up and every time I think back to stuff like that I get annoyed all over again
I picked up on the cheating vibes with him no willing to come because of simple as a fishing trip AND it was 30 minutes away. He must of gone pretty far away and literal couldn't come back fast enough and that's why he stood his ground. And if he was lying about being far away it's likely cheating.
exactly. i’m a guy who likes to fish but a fishing trip 30 minutes away isn’t anything special. there’s no way that it alone is a reason to not go to the hospital when your girlfriend’s sister is doing badly. honestly, if you genuinely love someone, there’s very few reasons to not be at the hospital when something like that is happening. even if you can’t get there right away, you should get there eventually. major red flag from him.
@@jaelmao2214 My husband has always dropped everything when someone is in the hospital - so much so that when I called him at work (he works over an hour away) when his mom was in the hospital, but was fine/stable I told him he could just come see her after work. Nope he rushed to there. 😂 But I don’t blame him. I listen to these stories and he is just ashamed that some people don’t care about people closest to them. 🙄
Totally!! If you are a loving husband, on a fishing trip with good friends, you leave immediately and support your spouse. Period. If you don't do it, you know that person doesn't love her/him. 🤷🏻♀️
Everybody knows that friend didn't choose morals over anything... He just wasn't really that man's friend... He told her everything cuz he wants to fuck her...
I don't care HOW good friends we are. We could have known each other since fucking birth, been practically siblings our entire life... If they came to me and told me they were cheating, asked me to lie to their unsuspecting wife/husband, I wouldn't do it. Unless their partner was a completely abusive asshole, I would immediately go to the partner and tell them everything. I don't care if it costs our friendship. My morals are more important at that point. ESPECIALLY in a situation like this. If I was friends with this guy... Well, I wouldn't be after this situation. I can't imagine being friends with someone who treats their wife, the mother of their child, like this.
It's non of your business honestly. I would not go along with the lying, but I wouldn't snitch either. I would just stay quiet and see him/her crumble by the weight of his/her own lies. They all eventually get found out, no need to meddle or get involved
@@marinmarinhola so if you were being cheated on by your partner, and their friends all knew about it, you'd rather no one lets you know? even if it takes you months or years to find out? idk, I feel like most people would rather know immediately. fuck that "it's none of your business" thing, if your friend asked you to lie to cover them then it HAS become your business.
Honestly, it’s getting hard to trust men. When my dad past away, my boyfriend refused to take me to the airport because my flight was too early. Two weeks later he was making out with a girl in a Denny’s bathroom on a boys trip while I was crying in his bed over my dad… When I was finally told, all I could think about was what I going through while he was apparently sucking her toe in front of everyone 🙃 ugh the sting of disappointment in love. He’s my ex now
love when the chapter ends with "he’s my ex now" 💗🌈 you got put through hell with a trash bag like that, I just know you’ll end up with an absolute gem 💎 rooting for you
Honestly, when I was with my ex my sister had surgery and was hospitalized for a week or two. She asked for him to visit and he never came / said he didn't want to be bothered. SMH. I am married now and my now partner is someone who would drop everything to support me or my family.
One of the worst things about the cheating was the fact he was on the phone to his wife whilst she was screaming, crying & heartbroken over her sister whilst refusing to go home to her and also having his mistress in the background of all that!
The worst thing is that after hearing that from his wife, his next move was calling his friends to get a cover story for his affair instead of dropping everything and at least being there for his daughter. Disgusting behaviour
I picked up on the cheating when he reacted as if his “fishing trip” with his buddies that he sees every week was something that he couldn’t reschedule. Most likely was his and his mistress’ monthiversary and nothing was going to stop him from spending it with her. I’m glad OP is taking the trash out 🗑
I called the cheating, and yelled "Knew it!" with the third update. What usually changes a loyal spouse and makes them do "uncharacteristic" things? Cheating. He lied about where he was, and who he was with. Who knows, maybe he and the cheating partner invested a lot of money in where they were "fishing". All I knew was when OP was saying, "This isn't like him" and the husband said he was staying and not going to be there to support his wife and help take care of their child, I was like, "Yep. He is prioritizing his penis over his family."
That’s the best reason of all to be loyal to your spouse. Anything that causes you to abandon your values, and have a total personality transplant is NOT worth it!!!! Even if you don’t care about your partner’s feelings, you should care about your values and your identity as a person.
I guessed cheating the moment he put a "fishing trip" over a spouse's family member being in a coma. No one turns so selfish that quickly without doing something they know they shouldn't be. Plus him being unable to make it within the 30 min. timespan is very telling.
Like you aren't allowed to bring small children to that part of the hospital (Nor should you it's traumatic for adults in my experience) so he's basically saying you can't visit your sister.
@@elvamariarodriguescordova3033 Intensive care Nurse here - technically it's the same thing, because people on life support are sedated into a coma in order to try to preserve brain function. So you're both right!!
This is one of those situations where “blood is thicker than water“. This was a major family emergency, and he decides to stick with his side piece? Really shows where his loyalties lie. Disgusting pig. I feel bad for the daughter. She’s a toddler, confused about why she can’t be with mommy, and wondering why daddy won’t come home. I really hope this doesn’t affect her long-term.
Not to shit on your comment but the entire phrase is "The blood of the covenant is thicket than the water of the womb" Meaning the family you choose is stronger/closer/ more understanding& supportive than the family you're born into. On everything else, right on point & absolutely! I hope she's much happier & safely away from that jerk.
@@rhymeswithwltch that's backwards family is blood water is the people you choose to have in your life. Once you marry and have children your wife and children are blood. I'm confused about your interpretation of this comment. Maybe you can divulge.......? Edit: the interpretation you sighted isn't one I or most have ever heard or would even understand. Having some special ideas about what something widely shared it seems you are the outlier here.... Ie: citation gravelly needed
Here is a citation of the meaning of blood being thicker than water. I don't find any citation that depicted this meaning that the womb is water.... lol If I did I would be surprised as a woman I would always choose my children and would never consider them less than blood. Yes that child is swimming in amniotic fluid, which isn't actually water but that child is also feed directly from me my blood sources. You shit the bed here. It doesn't quack like waddle like or look like a duck because your interpretation isn't a duck my dude. Good try tho..... hahaha
@@rhymeswithwltch also your choice to change what the poster said to some obscure proverb.... weird. The poster didn't say any of that shit. Also..... citation needed. Wtf are you on????
I also had cheating vibes. My friend who lives half an hour out from the hospital and out of town rushed to the hospital when she heard our mutual friend had ODed. He had literally zero excuse to not arrive sooner if that's where he truly was.
Just based off the title, I got cheating vibes but after hearing him being 30min away & refusing to come home I KNEW he was cheating. My Sister got kicked in the face by her horse, this horse is about 18-19 hands Quarter Horse, built like a brick house & my sister got the full force kick (accident with the dog spooking her when my sister went to catch her & she spun and kicked, got my sister right in the face). My mom seen it ALL through the window, she said it was the scariest thing she’s ever witnessed. She went running outside yelling for my dad who was also outside. She didn’t know if she would find my sister alive out there or dead. Thankfully she was essentially okay, she had half her teeth busted out, her neck was messed up, not broken but seriously injured, she had a concussion & a few other things. She got life flighted right out of my parents horse pasture. After my mom called 911, I was her next call. We live a couple houses away in the country so less then 1/2 mile. By the time I got home, my husband was ready to take me wherever it was my sister was getting life flighted too. He had a bag packed for us incase she got sent to Portland (3 hours away) or Boise (4 hours away). He was ready to take me wherever it was we had to go. Thankfully she got sent to a City an hour away. But that’s what a good person does, not say “Well Monday I’ll be there”.
Remember in Brokeback Mountain when they were “fishing” and his wife figured out he was cheating bc she put a note in the tackle box and it was still there when he came back- this reminds me of that. If it had just been a boys weekend he would have come back
*flashback to the OP that had a high risk pregnancy after repeated miscarriages and her husband refused to come home to rush her to the hospital because his friend/girl **_needed_** him*
I realized he was cheating when he couldn’t leave. He probably makes the other broad feel like he’s not in love with his wife anymore so how would it look for him to abandon her? She’s even worse for being the other woman and for not telling him to leave also.
I'll be honest, I almost immediately thought "he's clearly promised his mistress that she could have him for the entire weekend, and he doesn't want to upset his mistress by choosing his wife over her or abandoning their romantic plans" Because why else would be just outright refuse, rather than make excuses, or give a "I'm not sure I can drive/ I've got to finish this thing up before I come home, but I'll be on my way immediately"
I got cheating vibes, too. Here's why. .. He was supposedly with his boys. She is friend with them by associate at the least. If so they would have told the husband to go. Maybe even drive him there and go with him. Because of that it would explain why they lied about the cheating, not only did they knew it was fucked up, they knew it would put his marriage on the line. So they "pretended" to be assholes by not pushing him to go. Instead they are assholes for helping him lie.
Good for her for leaving. And I'm glad one friend came forward with the truth. That's honestly rare these day's. So happy her sister is healing and her family had gotten closer. That will help her daughter through this so much as she grows. I hope her dad rethinks his behavior for his daughter's sake.
What a piece of s*** husband. A few years back I had a severe reaction to medicine that put me in the hospital for 5 days. My husband demanded that I go to the hospital(I am very stubborn and don't like to inconvenience anyone) after I was admitted he got his mom to watch our children for my entire stay(love you MIL)He stayed by my side and only went home when visiting hours where done and to also not completely freak out our kids. Wow. just wow.
I called the cheating simply by the fact that he refused to come home from his fishing trip. That was a dead fucking giveaway for his disloyalty. People who have been cheated on by men just know, we view men differently and always have our guard up. It's fucked and I feel so sorry for her.
The first thing I thought of was cheating. “They have one weekend a year to do whatever they want.” That was my second red flag. First red flag is that he refused to leave the guys and go to the hospital. He probably has cheated on her in the past. I hope she really did leave his sorry ass.
I dont think he did! The fact he panicked and acted the way he did instead of just rushing to the hospital, actually suggests he didnt cheat before. Cos he wouldve been a better liar.
@@megafone11 why don't you think she should've left him after he cheated on her and chose his mistress over a HUGE family emergency that very well could've led to a death in the family.
@@mccnt9918 Cos when there are children involved, its no longer about them. He cheated, thats not ok but still (of course circumstance matter), if its not an habbit then... And the fact he didnt come back I dont think Is.because he prefered be with the mistress rather he panicked or spento Money for the occasione and was fare away, or both.
@@megafone11 I agree that it's no longer shit then when there's children involved. It's about the children and raising them to know their self worth and self respect. Children learn those things by watching their parents. What's that teaching their daughter if she sees the mom stay with someone that obviously doesn't respect her? The daughter would be much more likely to grow up thinking that it's okay to be cheated on and disrespected in relationships. It causes a cycle of unhealthy relationships. It's very unlikely that he would be 100% faithful moving forward. Her staying after he confessed just shows him that he can do it and she's not gonna leave him and she's never going to be completely happy ever again. She'd always have trouble trusting him and would likely drive herself insane wondering if he's being honest and faithful or not. I don't think there's happiness in that. Being separated doesn't mean the child won't have both parents in their life. They can both be active and present without getting together. There's so many negatives staying could lead to and only positives leaving could. Whatever it was, he put something before his family and a terrible emergency and his wife needed him. That's unforgivable in itself. Neither guys mistress nor money should've been more important to him at that moment. The distance shouldn't have mattered either. He already lied so he could've very easily lied and made an excuse about why it took longer than 30 mins to get there. I just don't understand how anyone could forgive their partner for allowing them to go through this scenario alone.
My mom and aunt were there for my grandma’s last breath. My mom is so grateful that the last time I saw my grandma she was doing so much better and talking to me and laughing. Because at the end of my grandma’s life my mom was like I don’t think she would have wanted to around. She probably would’ve told you to go away..
My aunt passed 3 days before my 16th birthday. I loved her, she was my world, my house hold was abusive and I spent every summer with her, she was my safe haven. I was alone when I was told she passed, my dad (her brother) just texted me saying "aunt so and so passed away today, funeral will take place on your birthday" which was another hard blow. I spent the next three days leading up to the funeral alone as my mom was out of town and I lived with her at the time. My father lived less then 45 mins away and had a key to my mother's house so he could have come and see me but didn't, he knew I was alone. This was a very traumatic experience for me and I was practically an adult could you imagine being a child! I couldn't imagine
How awful that they chose to have it on your 16th birthday! But the one who left you alone was the one who was closer to the one who died, so he was probably in shock and was too busy dealing with the grief and planning a funeral. So you being left alone could arguably be the same as you leaving him alone too. When my grandfather passed earlier this year my dad called me and said in a very matter of fact way that he had suddenly passed during breakfast and that the funeral probably would be held then and then. It was a complete shock for me and it was made so much worse because of how he said it. It took me a moment to understand, then I started crying. My dad said it was sad but it is what it is. That it was expected, since my grandfather was 89. We hung up and I was bawling for a good hour. I was devastated, I had lost my beloved grandfather. But my dad had lost his dad. So I contacted my sisters and we all went to our dad's place. We brought him food that he likes, dessert and flowers. And we spent the evening and night with him. He never cried or showed any emotions, but he wasn't himself. And while he never said anything about it, we could tell how much he appreciated having us there. Many men are so extremely bad at expressing their feelings like that
Cheating was actually my first thought. Actually, I though ‘cheating’ When I heard about their ‘wonderful independence’. To me, it was a HUGE red flag. Having time with just your friends , or to be alone, is great- but the way she talked about it- it just sounded like the foundation of an open relationship to me. I mean, it makes it sound like they don’t have a group of mutual friends. I bet this wasn’t even close to the first person he’s cheated on her with. When he refused to go to the hospital I thought to myself that nobody would refuse to come home, like that, unless they were hiding the fact that they COULDN’T come home in time because they were somewhere else with someone else.
Maybe I’ve been around too many toxic people, but cheating wasn’t my first thought. I genuinely thought he wanted to spend time with the boys because I’ve seen it happen many times and there are enough stories on Reddit showing the same thing. Interesting how perspectives work.
When my mom passed away my friends rushed over the same day driving hours to visit and comfort me. I didnt even have to ask them to. Im blessed with incredible friends im lucky to have them. Could not imaging a husband not willing to do that on a supposed "30 min away trip". My friends drove literal hours to meet me. That poor woman. Glad her sister survived. But seriously thats aweful
When a man's actions don't make sense, my first instinct is always to question if an affair would explain it and that's exactly where my mind went in this case.
As I’m reading through the comments it’s dawning on me that my partner isn’t a nice person. My dad passed away unexpectedly earlier this year. My partner stayed the night with much persuasion. The following day he said he was going home. I snapped at him asking him to stay with me for a bit longer. I didn’t want to be alone. He got his overnight bag, looked at me and said life goes on. He then didn’t contact me for days, I ended up having to reach out to him. We’ve been together for 12 years. He’s not fully invested is he? He was a pallbearer for my dad, I’m realising he didn’t deserve the privilege.
Sorry, but your partner is an awful person. Please leave him. You shouldn't have to persuade him to be there for you in the first place. I get he probably can't take too much time off from work, but he wouldn't even stay the first night without you begging him? Why are you with this man?
Oh wow. That's bad. Your partner should be your biggest emotional support. The person to lean on. Not the person you have to spend extra energy on trying to persuade him.
On my gosh, I’m so sorry your partner treated you like that when you were having a personal tragedy. I’m so sorry to say it. Those are not the actions of someone who is invested in you. For perspective, my cat just died. My cat has been my best friend for over 10 years and I’m so devastated, it’s only been 3 weeks. The day it happened, my bf dropped everything to be with me, and he called into work because I was just not okay. He spent days helping me get food, eat, rubbing my back, and help support me through my tragedy. I’m on a work trip right now which was hard because I’m grieving, and he sent me with a surprise care package with snacks, a handwritten card, lottery tickets, a magazine about mt favorite band, and spending money in the local currency. He did it because I was worried about being sad on my trip. He has not suggested once that I should move on. That would be unacceptable to me. And that’s just for my cat. That was your DAD. I’m so sorry for your loss and really sad to hear that your partner was so unhelpful. He shouldn’t have wanted you to be alone. I’m not saying this to brag but to point out the contrast. You really do deserve better. The fact that he didn’t contact you for days is so hurtful.
5:07 I totally agree! Even if you don’t care about your wife at all, if you care about your three year old, you should get there immediately. That mother is not going to be able to care for her three year old properly during this traumatic event. Thank goodness the girl was able to be with the wife’s friend, but her daddy is going to be so much better.
When I found out my mum was dying of cancer my husband took the week off work so he could be there for me and our kid, he knew I was going to be a mess. As soon as I messaged him that it was bad he rang me and told me he was coming home. The fact that this man did that to her is infuriating. What a piece of shit.
You can reschedule a weekend. He can get another weekend in a couple months. And maybe just give in this way, I mean, isn't he supposed to be willing to die for his wife? What's giving up a fishing trip compared to that?
So is she supposed to just take their child to go see her mangled sister and traumatized the kid? Like... car accidents and their injuries can look HORRIFIC!!! A child should be with a trusted adult after they get the news "hey your auntie might die" Yes they had a friend to go to, but still... if her best friend was also close with the sister and wants to visit where does the kid go?
Literally first thought when you said it was only 30 mins away was he must’ve been cheating. There’s no way… a “fishing trip”??? There’s not enough fishing in the world to make it make sense
Props to that one friend of his that did tell her though! Im sure that wasn't easy for him snitching on his own friend to the gf. Not many people would have the unbiased integrity to do that to their friend, men and women.
From what she said, it sounds like “his boys” are around a lot. What was stopping them from accidentally slipping on the fishing trip of the husband hadn’t told them to keep it quiet?
damn... I knew where this was going as soon as he didn't want to come home asap being only 30min away. His friends would have told him to go to the hospital. of course it was another woman... What if her sister hadn't been in that accident? would she ever have found out about his cheating ass? someday maybe, but how many years could that take.... Edit: "cheating" is not the only way people could have mentioned he might be cheating, they could have said, "maybe there's another woman" "unfaithful" something like that.
It’s not even the sister part- it’s the coming to help out with your kid so your wife can be with her sister part. It’s the not caring that your kid may be exposed to her dying aunt and a terribly sad mother part. What about the well being of the kid?
My man called in from work the day after i was in th ER for an asthma attack so he could take me to get my precriptions and make sure i didnt have another one. Even now if he hears my nebulizer he slightly panics and checks on me.
I had a bad panic at a crappy job and my fiance left a cookout with family friends he was super close to growing up. He sped the 20 minutes to my work, he was freaking out since this was my worse one
This was appauling to me. My mother has been struggling with stage 4 cancer for the entirety of my two year relationship and i am her main care taker so i have to do long distance with my partner. This man sees a text about stuff to do with my mom having a bad day or something happening with her and he immidiately calls me asking if he can do something. Keep in mind he has not met my parents my mothers health and covid have restricted his ability to meet them but he still asks about them how they are doing and he lives in another city! How in the fuck can these asshole men have the audacity to treat anyone (i read comments and became enraged) who is losing a family member or whose family has an emergency like this?!
When my uncle broke his neck for the second time with his cancer my wife dropped everything and went to Ohio with me, 600miles, and once more for his funeral. I couldn't do that alone, I would break it off or demand therapy
This is why I strongly believe everything happens for a reason, if her sister hadn't had an accident that specific weekend, she would probably still be thinking he was faithful and a nice man...
Immediate cheating vibes!!! Cheating was the first thing that came to mind!!! it’s the emotional detachment and lack of empathy that goes into carrying on an affair and not coming home when your spouses sibling dies if that makes any sense it’s just clear indication someone doesn’t love you which means they’re likely holding out of an affair
What tipped me off to the affair was the fact he sees his friends weekly and yet couldn’t tear himself away from his buddies when his wife’s sister is on life support? Nope. Fishy.
Cheating husband was definitely way further than 30 minutes out. It probably also took mistress a long time to clear her schedule, maybe on her own husband. Didn't want to give up the weekend so easily
As soon as the OP said her husband's reaction was "its his weekend and he'll be there Monday" and was "adamant about enjoying his weekend" alarm bells went off that he was maybe cheating but when she talked about how he sees these friends regularly and this is strange behavior for him I knew. He doesn't usually act like that and the context of the situation was very serious so there would be no logical reason for him to act so aggressively on a behavior he hadn't displayed prior unless he was hiding something that's not covered enough, like not being with his friends. The best defense is a good offense in a person acting on high levels of narcissism and this response is generally a product of panic in those lying for personal gain so it seemed obvious he was cheating or committing crime, though I guess depending on where you are adultery is a crime but anyway that's how I knew 🤣
If your partner is being stubborn and refuses to come back for something horribly life changing like having a family member in critical condition…throw them away. Cheating or not. They don’t think about your feelings. Let’s say the fishing trip part was actually real, even with the excuse that this was his ONE trip. She would have probably helped him schedule another trip during the year or let him have two trips the next year.
My bff was in relationship for 5 years and was engaged to this guy. Her dad pass away because of heart attack on his army duty. It took 2 days to reach his body and one more day because of all the arrangements to be done. I begged her bf to go and be with her because she was devastated at that time. She needs him but he went to a road trip and his answer was he can't cancel it because he will loose all the money while apparently it's a hotel money only and that too he didn't give a whole amount just a reservation amount. He wasn't ready to loose that much money too.
If somebody called me and told me that there’s sibling/other family members were in an accident and they were that severely injured I would be jumping in my car to get to their house to help out with whatever they may need. Just ask my niece, I went on a three state trip when she was in a car accident and nearly died.
Wow I was shocked when the cheating part came up like tbh I did not get any of those vibes I thought he was just a selfish awful person I hope she files for divorce soon or has already filed for divorce and hope she gets full custody of their kid too smh
Hell to the naw. You don’t want to be there for my family on LIFE SUPPORT?!? Fine. Don’t ask how they’re doing again. He won’t know anything about a death if there was one. I would not speak to him at all and he’d be in the dark. “Oh I didn’t know she died” - of course not. You didn’t care to begin with. That’s divorce worthy to me.
It's kind of cool to know that people who are giving advice on reddit are not automatically jumping to the conclusion that a spouse is a cheater :) It is obviously horrible that in this case he was but it's it's still good to know that that's not what everybody is ready to jump on.
I thought he was cheating, what husband would choose to not come home when his wife calls him crying. Doesn't matter what she's crying about, your wife is in distress. Go make sure she's OK. I dislocated my knee and called him at work, he left right away and he was an hour and a half away from home, he got home within 45 mins. He carried me out to the car and stayed with me the whole time even when a and e told him he had to wait outside because of covid rules, he stayed outside until I was finished
As someone who lost their brother in a serious car accident, if my SO didn’t drop their fishing trip for something this serious, I would be reconsidering the entire relationship. Edit: just found out he was cheating. Trash
Guy in group chat to the guys "sorry for leaving fishing early guys, SIL is still in critical condition. Wife and lil girl are doing ok" And then guys know what they need to know and won't look sus to anyone who sees it
No. I would've demanded him to come home and care for our daughter while I was too distressed too. I don't want my poor daughter to be at the hospital the whole time. 😞
I would be by my partner’s side the moment they asked me to or if they hinted at needing my support. But coming from a family that isn’t close AT ALL, I wouldn’t think it’s THAT big of a deal if my man didn’t come back if my brother or mom got into a car accident. I’d be worried, but not to where he’d need to change his plans for me.
I honestly hope all men aren't like this , I hate when they choose a girl they barely know over their wife, mother of their child , that sacrifices so much. It's so disappointing and disgusting.
That once a year weekend could have been rescheduled since it was a family emergency and his wife clearly needed his support at that time. She was not the AH.
People that love him and love/care about his wife would’ve told him to go. Additionally, saying “no” was very cruel as well. Both, are indications of another woman being involved.
What could be more important than being there for your wife while she’s struggling and probs having a hard time caring for a child alone while dealing with a maybe dying sister
What has happened to OP is super shitty and I hope her future is nothing less than amazing. As for shitty husband's friends I would bet more than one of them has cheated as well. If they are so ride or die to keep this secret at this kind of time. And kudos to the one friend for speaking the truth. Not only did he speak up against one friend but maybe the whole group of friends wishes. I hope he finds better quality friends in his future.
It’s soo much worse when u consider that they probably WEREN’T further than 30 minutes. She’s a co worker I doubt they would fly to another country together just to have fun.
I would like another update to explain if she found out where he actually was with this woman! What could she have gave him in one month that he didn’t have in six years. This just goes to show you how guys switch up and don’t care about what they normally would care about when they are cheating!
