I Haven't Used My Kitchen and Bathroom in 4 Years | Hoarders S1 Ep5 | Only Human 

He gave him a inch and he took a mile. So,so selfish 🙄. But as long as he gets what he wants then that's all that' matters. Total selfish 😒.

Now that his house is gone, his friend needs to have him deal with what he took there

I think they might be more than friends. Paul is a lovely person, and Simon really cares about him. I don't think he has the heart to make him move. If Simon ever becomes physically compromised, he will end up dying in Paul's squalor. Very sad.

OMG finally someone who let's their kid speak their mind and not immediately get upset about good advice just because it's from a kid...

Not too sure about this. My local libraries have become primarily places for people to use computers. There are fewer and fewer books there and many are new bestsellers I have no interest in. I used to go regularly and carry home bags of books. Last time I went, about 6 months ago, to do some browsing, and couldn't find anything I really wanted to borrow. I don't know that libraries are the places for readers they once were.

My thoughts exactly! His just taking his hoard to his friends house. His friend is a bigger person than I am because I just couldn’t deal with it, would do my head in.

Simon is just too good hearted to tell his friend off. Sadly, if he does not put his foot down he ends up like Paul did.The writing is clearly on the wall.

It's already hoarded at Simon's

And Simon uses a stick? Omg, an accident waiting to happen.

There is no place to put your foot down...

I agree; Hoarders don't usually recover and continue to hoard and re hoard for the rest of their lives; Simon doesn't look the forceful type, and will end up with a hoarded house.

Too late, I think 😢

@@shojinryori Right. I think that they are more than friends, so I understand why Simon has been putting up with it. Paul is a lovely person, but I don't think it is possible that he has changed.

@@pixie8653 Yes, they are definitely more than friends.

He put his underwear up to dry 12 years ago? Had to laugh at that. But he still wants it? That's not funny, that's sad

It's inevitable that Paul will fill Simon's house to capacity once he moves in; In most cases these people never fully recover from hoarding, and will carry on hoarding and re hoarding time after time probably their entire life.

@@gillianbrookwell1678 Not really, see the hardest thing here is, you don´t know where to start. There so many things, you get overwhelmed. The way your surrounding looks like same thing is for your head. We have issues and we are messed up, that´s why we do it. It´s basicaly cry for help.

@@BJKage, It does not matter where you start. You just start and keep on going to throw rubbish where it belongs, in a rubbish bin or rubbish bags. I know a few junk collectors, they are starting, but only move the stuff from one place to another and jump at anyone who wants to help them.

It is a mental illness. It's nearly impossible to heal yourself on your own BUT when they get help they can recover and stop hoarding for good.

​. Hoarding is never resolved 'for good' it is a life long issue that needs to be managed with cognitive behavioral therapy to prevent extreme hoarding to happen again

Hoarding is better than the best alarm system for keeping the burglars out. If they broke in, they would probably fall, hit their head, lose consciousness and perish. 😵 They are never heard from again. It would be an occupational hazard.😮

”Oh I think I left my leg at your place” 🤷🏼‍♀️

- not that it makes it any better but from the previous shows I've watched, I think he's talking cats or rats. 🤞🏼

@@shoujobarton7692 omg - cats??😮😥

Ann Cabras: I always say that about the American version of Hoarders when they walk into a hoarded house, some women wear sandals ugh

I think so 2 😊👍

@@-.-Sara-.- But even when they do this, some bring them back in again.

And sorted into categories. Do I really need 30 coffee mugs? Then they can pick their favorites.

No no no. The hoarders junk has then filled up another space AND now his house is open and empty for the hoarder to fill it up again.

@@garyklinger9734 not to store.. to sort.

I realize Im quite randomly asking but does anybody know a good website to stream newly released movies online?

@Henrik Salvador Ehh try flixportal. just google for it:) -terrance

@Terrance Daxton Thank you, I signed up and it seems like they got a lot of movies there =) I appreciate it!

@Henrik Salvador happy to help xD

I think I would kick him out in 5 minutes... him and his stuff... He has no respect for his friend.

@@MariaTorres-hc5uq This is not about being disrespectful, it's a sickness.

@@MariaTorres-hc5uq Yeah, not that easy, I have some mental issues myself. I always give the shirt off of my back and later cursing myself because I find out I need it, so at one point of my life I also´ve had tendencies to hoard, just in case I need it. And I fostered a child, well he was almost adult, but in very difficult situation and my flat looked like a wearhouse, but that is not the point. You feel bare naked without the stuff, it´s weird connection with it and than there´s the thing called clutter blindness, it´s a real thing. You don´t really see it. People from outside do. My daughter helps me a lot, she comes and say, you are a pig, but I do not see that. She says it´s a mess here, and I tell her, there are no adults here (I have an asperger syndrome) she says there are and I say there are no mentally healthy adults here and she agrees and starts to clean up. She is a golden girl. Saying you boys have fun, sending me and her son outside and cleaning up, so I do not see what she is letting go. But I am nothing like this man. I take my trash out and all. I just do not fold clean clothes, forget to water plants and stuff like that.

Same here, I like my own space with a clutter free home; I was married to a hoarder but I've lived on my own for eight years and I love it.

@@BJKage I'm hoping you're not relying on your daughter too much so she can have her life. Why don't you clean yourself after she told you there's clutter or get some help?

Sensitive? He’s selfish by not only hoarding his house, but, dragging junk over his friend’s house!

And Paul said he also wanted to use that money to go on a vacation. That's not retirement.

I'm a compulsive cleaner so this would really cause problems for me if I had to do it.

100% Both extremes represent people who are allowing the behavior too much control in their lives.

Hoaders are very selfish people.

@@judibienvenue1941 And you people are unbelievably ignorant, you may as well call a stroke victim selfish

Exactly. I would be furious if I lived in the semi-detached house next door. Imagine the fire risk!

A good guess. And it did add an additional element of entertainment.

LOLOLOLOLOL

Who did she end up leaving the house to?

Would be a good solution if he could afford to keep the storage facility.

He has totally been taken advantage of his friend. Totally inconsiderate.

I’ve never seen an episode where a hoarder didn’t do the same thing at someone else’s house. At least there’s more awareness now and people can say no to the hoarder!

Me who's bi and annoyed of seeing that damn rainbow

@@mirinah4719 warum? Er steht zu seinem Leben.

Like I said, I think that the two are more than friends. Paul is a lovely person, and Simon is such a sweet, compassionate soul. He doesn't have the heart to toss him out. By this time (2 years later), they are probably living in squalor. At least on the upstairs floor.

They don't show follow-ups because about 75% to 80% of hoarders re-hoard. Not a very cheerful picture.

@@JPKnapp-ro6xm There have been follow-ups on other hoarder shows. Some people do re-hoard, in one instance the lady changed her focus on types of objects, but others change the way they lived through the experience. It may be interesting to see who's who in all this.

With counseling and behavior therapy MANY have gotten 'over' it. I'm not sure it's a cure, like alcoholics they have to stay alert against it, but they go on to live normal lives.

Yes, as a behavioral psychologist I can confirm there is no cure. Therapy can help them understand it better, help them learn to fight the urges and help them work through any traumas that activated it. Some people are better at fighting it than others but as the narrator said, over 80% relapse within the first year alone, many more will fall back into it after that first year or with a new traumatic event. Its sad but its true, and I know a lot of people don't want to acknowledge this fact but that mindset is actually damaging because if loved ones of people who have this condition believe they can be cured with a little help, they will be continually disappointed and get angrier and angrier with the person every time they fall short. Accepting there is no cure will help people to have more patience and empathy for them which is what they need. Now this applies to people with actual compulsive hoarding disorders (like this man), people who love just shopping to much, grew up in clutter so they don't know any better, or are simply to lazy to clean can possibly stop it with enough motivation.

The show used the word "friend" lol

His house will be completely full now lol

@@iainooooo 😂😂😂😂

I would have thrown out a person whit those problems..

You must really love someone to allow all of that

It's not unusual for children respond to a mental illness by going the other extreme. It's like an overcorrection from trauma.

Absolutely. And the dogs have accepted him as their second human

Definitely

No doubt

Absolutely. Obvious, isn't it

It couldn't be more obvious, but why do you need public recognition for your deduction? Perhaps Paul or both of them shared only what they felt comfortable with.

The Hoarder is ruining another lovely home. Poor Simon. He needs to live his friend OUT... NOW!

Agree he is awesome showing a lot of empathy and a bit of tough love and humour, not to mention kinds hot

No.

Yes, it does, unless they had an agreement to pay her for her time. No sale, no commission.

It looked like a double sink with an attached dish drying area or vegetable draining area.

Thanks!@@rockyduck9133

That would be a crime scene lol