I Think My Husband Is Bisexual (What Should I Do?) 

You’re 100% correct. I have a trans-female friend, who’s on Grinder. She tells me all the stories of “straight” men in marriages who enjoy hooking up with other men or trans-women from time to time.

I love this

It’s scary bc it’s often “the perfect man” that’s dealing with these things. She probably felt like he saved her from shame having 4 kids and no husband…..

Same dude. Grindr is the wild West.

Pls tell me why married men who are gay will go that far, having that secret life behind his wife? I appreciate your insights. If he is gay, why cant he be honest to his wife or to himself?

Exactly. Poor thing.

Run. I you can find potential in someone else.

Wishing you healing and peace now that his reign of terror is over. Poor child he tainted.

I’m so sorry. That is so incredibly painful! Prayers for peace for you and your children 🙏

Wish you and your family the very best.

Sounds like my situation except that mine also never did much of anything valuable. So lazy and entitled.

Im so sorry. Prayer for you and your family.

Unfortunately too many women want to change a man. I would bet he is sick of her frigidity and needs the real thing. I hope he can find true love

@@pinnacle1717 whether he bi or straight, he’s married to her. The man she should be worried about is the closet case who trolls the ball bathrooms and truck stops doing bareback sex. Being bi doesn’t make you a slit. And being bi is not the same as gay. Jeez!

To be fair, as a gay man (who also grew up in Texas) who was also married to a woman in my 20s, he has probably lied even more to himself. Especially those of us who grew up in conservative environments try so hard to make ourselves what we were always expected to be. And it's not fair, and it is deeply hurtful, but it's also not malicious. He's fighting a huge battle (but I agree that she doesn't need to fight it for him.)

I agree. Liars rarely change!

Right? Easy choice I would think.

Yep, I mean he is gay but in denial. Can you imagine being in the ER and telling staff the she stuck whatever it was up his ass just to cover for him!!! Just leave and let him deal with being gay to hisself.

Exactly. I would be totally disgusted, and I have no idea why she's putting all of this effort into this relationship.

My guess is there hasn't been a lot of opportunity to pregnancy due to the "fetishes".

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I felt that

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Hearing it was a harsh reality for her, but she needed to hear it.

@@pinnacle1717 ANOTHER instance of me reading a comment as soon as its said outloud

Horrible

My God.

I'm so sorry to read.

Absolutely tragic.

That's so sad. Praying for her

so true

Hopefully, he hasn't sexually a used he children

But when you're in love that's not so easy to do. You hold on sometimes and just hope things will work out. It's so sad but so common

I mean, if you get home and your husband is f****** himself with a toy, I think that's your clue.

@@pneron2032 😂

Pretty sure at that point, most men would have no more fluids left in their body lol

I thought the same thing! Once a day for years is a high sex drive. 4-5x a day? Screaming sex addict.

For most men, if they can get laid 4-5x day with a woman there is no reason for men to look elsewhere for that. The fact that the husband still has to look elsewhere to get off just tells you that he is not into her.

You make room! :)

Or AIDS those types catch that.

She is kind and caring to her husband, but unfortunately not to her kids for putting them through this awful relationship.

Very judgmental. @@nt3833

@@nt3833 Ugh gay people have heterosexuals so afraid of their butt and that does not mean you are gay or bi and even if he’s bi who cares America is so sex negative. As long as he’s not cheating . She should not have a issue with this the church culture has many people brainwashed

Well that's what happens when we justify perversion. And we call it caring and inclusive. It will destroy you too.

LOL, we always say that when women have loose boundaries, they are sweet and kind and caring. Women with strong boundaries are biarches.

A wife can check her man's sphincter. If one fingers slips in easily, he has been compromised and is cheating on you!

Because he feels shame duh She doesn’t like anything that he likes exploring

That’s because he doesn’t have the range to really cover that aspect of the topic. Communication is more well rounded

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Where does it say that he cheated?

@@noone-dv1jo , I never said he did.

@@noone-dv1jo Porn is cheating.

Loyal to his marriage most definitely means not continually telling lies

Agreed. She probably already knew the answer but is having a hard time leaving. She has a choice to leave, she doesn't have to wait for him to divorce her. She can choose to go, but since she's codependent, she finds it difficult to leave. She needs major counseling. He's going to be who he is, it's up to her if she wants to tolerate it or not.

Yup

Yup and very low self esteem

IF you ever saw? Are you typing from the trailer in the woods where you lived your whole life?

Yes! Very true. Seeing his “potential” is such a waste of time. Reality needs to be accepted

It’s a damn shame so many men play games with women’s lives. Then they wonder why so many choose not to marry in this day and age

Men are opting out of marriage. Not women.@@LisaLisaCJ

Pointing the finger is usually much easier than self reflection. He lied to you? So you’re telling me not once did you see any red flags? You didn’t catch him out on a lie?

@@LisaLisaCJthat it is, how many of those men had terrible childhood experiences is quite astronomical. What’s worse is when people peg genders against one another. This isn’t a battle between men and women, the battle/war is men and women together against those with terrible ethics. Both boys and girls have been traumatised, both men and women have been in and/or also inflicted pain on to others. True healing isn’t about forgiveness, it’s about understanding.

Maybe but it’s good to note gay people have heterosexuals so afraid of there butt anal stuff does not mean you are gay or bi and even if he’s bi who cares America is so sex negative. She should not have a issue with this as long as he’s not cheating .the church culture has many people brainwashed

So did he end up coming out as gay later?

@@nita_alva No, he is in a thruple, I think that's what its called. Two men and one woman. Our son is the one that told me. My son struggled with his relationship with his dad for a few years but thankfully they have worked it through and still have some contact. I've heard he crossdresses but Ive never seen it.

She's too busy living on her back for that. She was having sex 5 times a day, when did she have time to be a mother? She glossed over her kids like that phase of her life barely comes into her thought process.

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@@CrystalM1917- wow you must be perfect!

@@bcent5758 being a present mother and being perfect are not synonymous but go off!

My mom got left when I was 2 and she never stopped prioritizing that man over us. I was 2, my sister was a baby. Kids shouldn’t hear “your daddy doesn’t love us” what it sounds like is “your daddy doesn’t love you.” Knowing he’s going to jail because of child support is another thing I don’t think the kids should have to carry. My mom used us as therapists.. slaves!

I agree with you. The caller is strong, intelligent, understanding and loving. She has the stronger weapon that a mother could have and it is her children.

As a gay man, sexually is fluid. Maybe this person never realized his attraction to the same sex until recently. I've had tons of sex with women when I was a young man and I wasn't in the closet but oblivious to who I was🤷.

My little brother died 8 years ago and he was gay. I wish he were back. I loved him unconditionally.

​@@elisedunstan2080 woah, what happened?

​@@boogerbrains138You are bisexual. And guys just like you: 1 - Call yourself "gay" while having sex with women, affirming the homophobia that "being gay is a choice, you just haven't found the right woman yet". 2 - Or they marry women and cheat on them with men/trans (and the blame falls on gays too) "Fluid sexuality" = Unassumed bisexuality

I shut down a guy 2 min ago cause he in the closet. Some ppl r rlly bad at seeing the signs

"And now she's a *beard* " wtf??

@@bluebellcrushedvelvet A beard is a woman who goes out with closeted gay men to make them appear like they have a girlfriend.

Or a wife who thinks she married a straight man who is married so he is socially acceptable, has kids, etc. The beard is a disguise to make him look straight. Run sweet lady!!!

Or he's just a bad partner? Straight guys can be kinky and like things in their backdoor too. That doesn't make you gay or bi. But he is a bad partner and that's really all that matters.

Bingo!

Ok first off, if your partner is bisexual yet they love and married YOU, that is not a red flag. Their sexuality is not a red flag. They may be into the same sex as well but it's you they picked to be with out of all the people out there. Many people assume all or most bisexuals get jealous or crave the other gender when they are with one partner. That is not the truth, and bisexuals that harm their partner are bad because of their actions, not gender. Just getting it out there bc there's so much biphobia on the internet and I can't with it. So with this, I would say the guy shouldn't blame his partner, that's just shitty. He has his interests and thats fine, including sexuality wise. But pointing fingers at the wife is an @sshole move. Also he should learn to trust his wife, unless his wife isn't supportive, then he should be open with his wife. I understand his hesitant, I'll be hesitant to, but grow and learn to trust your partner. Honestly, they should either separate or he should really go and see an lgbtq therapist who can help him through that. She should let him process things and go her way, he clearly has a lot to figure out.

Within reason, sisters of men who date beautiful women will always say something nasty no matter how kind the girl is

@@Angelina-pi2cc no they will not always say something nasty, fool1sh words from a fool1sh person. Sisters of men, no matter who they date, can be good or bad, their sexuality doesn't define that.

this is a red flag dont give bad advices@@baristaz8834

If this was on a billboard

Great words!! Thank you!

To a point, some “truths” are vile.

I think more people should try and live the truth not their truth. People base whatever they think their truth is and whatever emotion they're feeling and that is a dangerous game. No one can grow from that. We need to base our lives off of actual truths so that we can actually get somewhere instead of just running around in circles

Many men are bi, we are not gay.

See I don’t fall for that. He tries so hard to deflect his fault into gas lighting, learned from his screaming mother. But I was there, I’m not an idiot.

@@annc.3908 Well you deserve way better. You sound like a sweet person.

Agreed. 💯💯💯 Even if she wanted to fix him, she couldn't. He has to fix himself. She needs to understand that she can't fix other people. Some people have a hard time accepting the truth, accepting that they can't fix someone else.

@@terriesmith2616I always ask people, if you have such a hard time changing yourself why do you think you can change someone else? Also, I don’t know why we ladies think we are so awesome that we think we have the power to change another person. We aren’t that special. Lol

Yes but you made promises and are bound to him even in the afterlife OR does that not count now?

@@DawidKellerman the man doesn’t even want to help himself and tell the truth, all of her support is in vain. It’s clear this is unhealthy for both of them. Plus if she didn’t sign up how his sexual fantasies she shouldn’t have to accept them “just because”, at this point fulfilling his pleasures are more important than his marriage unfortunately

@@kmariamv Hmm you missed the previous episode .. where they did not want the woman to divorce her TBI husband but the moment he is bisexual its ok .. I was pointing out the double standard

He’s not into her

Exactly. She already knows the answer but doesn't want to accept it. Sounds like she's codependent because she has a hard time letting go.

Right right, he’s gay and using her & her children to cover that fact. If you cannot be honest, you suck.

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well gender doesnt really matter, if you feel you need to compete its not good anyway

​@@Puuwsexactly.

Ohh honey, I say that too, but reverse, I don't compete with women.

The thing is some gay dude don't go for bisexual dude as well because they are afraid that they will just left them and marry a woman ultimately.

THIS! She has no boundaries and love him better than self! She needs to give everything she is trying to give him to herself & identify why she is obsessed with healing others and being responsible for others! This is heart breaking

No, she should be the one who leaves, she is not sexually compatible with him. She said it herself, they had a very engaged sex life until she changed her mind about it and him.

@@instahamx684 I think she should leave too, but she's forced to leave due to his actions. Maybe if she knew the extent of his same-sex fetishes and desires from the beginning she wouldn't have married him. Although, she does acknowledge that she ignored some red flags. If he acknowledged that his issues like lying, porn addiction, and the fact that he's not straight was unfair to her, then I think he'd take the responsibility and divorce.

Facts

@@emilyk.5664 He married her because he wanted to have a relationship with her. She is not interested in a relationship with him based on how he wants to interact with her sexually. He did not reject her, she rejected him sexually she and is wondering why he no longer goes to her and now seeks positive reinforcement about his physical fitness from men. If he was entertaining women who complimented his fitness she would accuse him of being emotionally unfaithful with women. She is the one who decided she could not tolerate the sex they were having, she is the one who is saying he is attracted to men and wants to have sex with men even though he married her and is trying to have a married sex life with her.

@@instahamx684 she doesn't have a penis, so I don't think she can please him the way he wants. It's totally reasonable for a straight woman to feel uncomfortable with her husband wanting anal penetration lol.

May I ask, was it gay porn? I’m assuming the answer is yes but just curious because the caller also didn’t emphasize that it was gay porn. So John just assumed that it was gay porn.

For sure!!!

@@frankalmanzar3492 no, I found transgender porn. To trans woman with full on penis’. Then I found bisexual threesome porn. Two men and one woman. There was so much more and it just got worse. I personally think he would be down to do stuff with men in the right situation but only wants to actually date women.

Thank god you got out before marriage and kids. Fetishes, extreme porn and so on are not “he’s just bisexual”, it’s “something is really off with this man mentally” and you definitely shouldn’t have kids with a man like that (if that was on the table).

@@nothanks1945 nope, we have a daughter together. I actually found all of the porn and website stuff when my daughter was 3 months old. If I can advise anyone it is the vet your partners very seriously. Also, waiting till marriage to have sex is the best thing you can do. As uncool as that is today, we had it right before.

Lmao I caught that too I was like I wonder what object that was

@@gilmendoza8092 I have so many questions...lol

Yeah. Wtf this guy emotionally abusive and that’s a nice way of saying it.

She is completely gaslighted

@@gilmendoza8092hopefully not a gerbil.

I so agree with you. I've realized that in myself.

Totally agree, she is a doormat in this situation & can’t help herself. Sounds like she will never give up trying to “fix” him. It would be a relief for both of them to go their separate ways.

Yeah. He's gay.

​@@chriscanavanii9064he's bi

You could catch something from them too. 😳

@@stuff1784 and from you too, 8ts not exclusive bud

@@baristaz8834 Higher risk among the MLM community. It's a well established fact.

Correct. She is deeply invested in being Florence Nightingale for this wounded bird and he knows it.

18 years sheesh why didn’t u leave?

​@@brianbest6097 she said because the situation in reality is confusing and complicated. Can you read? Rewind 18 years ago it's not like it was easier for anyone to learn or discuss such issues

@@jibbyjabs I bet you one thing if she contracted HIV or Aids it wouldn't be confusing or complicated. No different from women who choose bad boys or who stay in abusive relationships. There's too many resources and alternatives.

It sure is. I can’t be one of these delusional married women. I’ve been one before. Men play too many games.

Right?! If he doing too much then better to be single, than to be cheated on and get a disease. Better to wait for a man of high character or alone.

For real! Just there dying with him when he ask you to. Smh

Misery loves company 🙂

@@IMBIue yes these males do!

RUN

Time to take ur white hoods out the closet babe

Ruuuuuun

He doesn’t have to be fixed. He just has to learn to accept himself. They can sepparate amicably.

Was that literally a ‘lightbulb’ moment?

He slipped and fell, it wasn’t his fault. Falling is not gay.

@@butreally289it might have even been a lightbulb out of his body.😂Most likely a small rodent, though.

@@victornieves1794 slipped and fell on a cucumber, perfect aiming for the rear hole. Through pants and underpants, too.

@@livingonhighvibe He had just come out of the shower, it was an honest mistake.

Yes she needs to leave Before she gets HIV😅

💯!!

She said she gets herself tested periodically

Agreed

I agree, I think somehow these 2 are connected, when it ends, the man will be who he really is. My heart goes out to this woman who’s trying so hard to fix him, and it can’t be done.

Thank you. Me too!! And there are kids in this home. I feel sorry for them. This man is gross and has a sex addiction and other issues.

Just because he’s bi, lol?

​@NoName-jq1ru there is no such thing as bi. This is simply a side effect of a bigger issue.

​@@NoName-jq1ruYes, that's exactly part of it

Agreed 💯

they also end up alcoholics. I'm currently see a FWB who was married twice and has 3 kids. He has a pronounced heavy drinking issue so i won't consider him as more than a FWB. The end zone of living a LIE is sadder than most people think.

​@@FriendofDorothyI wonder if bi men struggle more with shame than gay men do. If just because they don't get past the sense of what they can and can't change, needed to get past shame from our society about not being hetero. The boundaries are blurry for them and they feel confused. I feel sorry for bi men. I heArd they get loads of stigma. Really unfair. And a shame on our society.

What's the results of the physical doc? Well, Joe. The good news is, your sperm count is fine. The bad news is, it's coming out your ass.

Yeah if it's a dildo hes too fargone

She's a beard. She needs to leave. Women need to stop letting this happen.

It is not easy to figure out unless you follow someone 24/7 and track everything on their phone- it is impossible. My fiancé told me after I got pregnant he is into that but isn’t gay. Who knows what the truth is; I feel like he has closet gay friends and a kink lifestyle on top of it. Sex addict sums it up. Selfish individuals.

I find it disgusting when people do that. Using their spouse as a toy just to cover their fetishes or take the attention off of their orientation is awful. They see their spouse as an object and not a person, ignoring the emotional damage they did/do to them.

If he is bi, he likes a bit of fish and beef. But for prudish wives, they can check their man's sphincter. If one fingers slips in easily, he has been compromised and is cheating on you!

I have EVERY idea how widespread it is. I am a straight guy, I only date men, and I can almost instantly recognize these guys on sight...lots of them have tattoos/piercings.

What do you mean you are a straight guy who dates only men? Means you are gay. And how else to recognise a gay in a closet , besides tattoos and piercings?

​@@Robert-vf6ny "straight" and "I only date men"? Porque?

@@gachamansama3703 ok I accept I'm gay now. I'm very naturally masculine though 🤷‍♂️ Guys are in denial at first because we are normal guys. But yes, we're gay or bi nonetheless

@@Robert-vf6ny yes acceptance ….Good; you were thé one to Be in denial and no women are not stupid ; just drawn into so many layers of lies ; beurk

😂 Freddy Mercury 😂 Get right with God

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@@GardenerEarthGuystop believing fairytales and stop judging. Breeder

@@kw1257 That's right... Humans have children. 🐣

The thing is that if a person is lieing or being deceitful about their sexuality with their sexual partner… that’s where the whole can’t be trusted part comes in. If a bisexual person is open about their sexual preferences from the beginning that’s a whole completely different type of person. That’s an honest person- who is honest with themselves AND HONEST WITH OTHERS.

Maybe her dad did not love her like a father should or she feels she needs him for other reasons. I am unable to comprehend why she is accepting him playing with other males. It’s disturbing.

@@alluringbliss4165 Hm. Good points. Those reasons are plausible, for sure.

You get! She is acting like she is Jesus who who died for our sins. She must be getting something out of it.

@@shachede6828 she is. She wants to be a martyr.

When some women make a vow before God “til death do us part” they actually mean it. And they will sacrifice themselves to honor that vow. I’m not saying if it’s right or not but it is what it is.

Hope you're doing OK now...

A wife can check her man's sphincter. If one fingers slips in easily, he has been compromised and is cheating on you!

I think this shows the terrible consequences of believing in a delusion like Christianity does to people. It causes people that would be perfectly happy being gay or bi and turns them into monsters who destroy their own life and destroy the lives of their spouse and children. Not only is Christianity a delusion, it is also evil, a scourge on the society and the individual that embraces it.

I passed by a van that said 'bottom demolition' on the side of it lol 🤣 💕👍xx

Yeah, we're all imagining what those toys were. LOL.

that's when the aliens abducted people in South Park and Mackey was begging to have the "bigger metal one". And also Butters got examined for multiple personality disorder with the said probe. HAHAHA.

that was not accidental. I nearly wet myself

I did too

Agreed 💯

He's not gay he's bi

Good comment. It happened to me. And these men pretend they're bisexual, when they're not, they are gay. The deception and betrayal is soul destroying. I have zero sympathy for these liars. None. It ought to be a criminal offence. The level of FRAUD.

@@ItsCoreyLynxxYallno he’s Gay. He would talk about WOMEN if he was bi. He talks about MEN only & hides toys the size of prize winning cucumbers. Wake up

Not everybody married for love for sure. That's why there has been multiple trends of abuse, resentment, and mysterious spouse deaths that occur for centuries and around the world. Frankly, I can't blame them. You shouldn't advocate for two people to stay together that genuine don't liek each other or genuinely see each other as constant work and duty to be around. When they celatky want something totally different. There is needed work in marriage but marriage shouldn't feel like work or an act

Exactly. Blaming the mom who can’t defend herself. Wife doesn’t realize he’s bashing her too to his gay “pals”.

Whether mom is to blame or not, isn't really an issue at this time and his age. He's a - presumably - mature adult man, not a grown boy. With issues. HIS issues more so than hers. HE needs to step up into his manhood, hetero, bi or gay - or what ever else gets him going, and be who he truly is. He'll never find happiness otherwise - and dragging any unsuspecting partners down with him, is just soo destructive and wrong. He is not only ruining his own life and happiness, but hers too - and by association - his relationship with her children and extended family as well.

Even if it is the mom's fault, it doesn't matter anymore. It's his job to fix it.

She saw the potential in him that he can go multiple rounds a day so she obliged.

Yeah, I think that right there should have been her first red flag. She also should have listened to her friends because they knew something was up.

I know right! I had a friend who told me her husband loved to do it 3-4 times a day. She said it was so raw down there ⬇️🩲 she had to get a prescription for topical lidocaine! 😮

​@@kensmith2796Why is that a red flag? I wouldn't have thought it was but am I missing something?

You are right but wrong about one thing...being straight means you have zero desire for people of your own secs, being straight means you have zero homosecsual experience and there's no way that's ever gona change unless you're duped into it. The truth is , most of the men you describe much like women who claim to be straight but are curious, or engage in homosecsual activity for the fun of it, all these people are bisexual but falsely identify as straight, knowingly or unknowingly...self identification is problematic for this very reason...if you so much as question your secsuality, you can't be straight. Straight doesn't come in a spectrum...that's a lie being told out there.

Very well said. And truth. We don’t know this guy, so unfair to make assumptions or dissect him. And, her husband may be still trying to figure himself out. But… The fact he is leading a secret life is a clue. Chances are slim that hey can stay together. She has to let this man go free…esp. since they have no kids together. One thing we do know. This man has a big sex life. And apparently little of it includes her NOW. it did before. He is in a much different place now. This happens. If religion stopped pigeon-holing men into pigeonholes they cannot comfortably live in, it would do much less harm to men. And those men would do far less harm to the women they choose to live a straight life they cannot make work for their wives or themselves. I know. I am one of those men. I know. Dating: I like women. But I’m sexually attracted to men. But, I do not want to pay the price to be gay. And Then: the woman takes the lead. Ignoring ALL the signs, the woman (listening to her friends telling her to squeeze the sponge and get wet) and finally she gets his nut. And he says: OMG! I CAN have intercourse with a woman!!! Now, I can be straight! Engagement: We’re getting married! Marriage: For me, the sex was broken before the end of the first year of marriage. Sex with a woman gave me an orgasm, but less and less satisfaction. Only sex with a man was going to satisfy me. I should have known. But I was too easily confused, aggressively courted by a woman. Too afraid of being gay, too afraid of disappointing her, too naive to try to figure out or even ask, “But what do I want? What is best for me?” Years 2-10: more advice from girlfriends…if you really love this guy and don’t want to lose him you have to get pregnant, then he’ll stay… so she did…so I did. In a terrible marriage that challenged us both, and wasted our youth. But, I did hang around for my son. It wasn’t all bad. I loved being a Dad. Raised my son. He is still my best friend. I did finally fall in love with a man, and it was everything I hoped for and more. Soul-mates. It was worth the wait. Christianity and the other judgmental religions cause terrible heartache, and drive too many people to suicide, mental illness, broken families. Christianity is killing people. The idea that human sexuality is binary, “black and white” with nothing in between is idiotic. Human sexuality is a spectrum. So White is good/Black is bad is Medieval, Foolish, Wrong, and condemning all the people in between to a life of hell on earth, triggered by the condemnation of the ignorant ‘churched’ folk. For anyone who doubts that, see Sigourney Weaver in the film, “Prayers for Bobby”. This lady who is at her wits end and called in. She needs to set this man free. Of course it’s a huge loss to her. But she cannot ‘fix’ this man or this marriage. Thank the Maker she did not start a second family with this man! She still has plenty of time to find someone to love. And so can the man who is realizing he is/was trapped in a marriage with a person who could never satisfy him…through no fault of her own.

I'm not sure if we listened to the same call, but the one I heard, she desperately wants him to feel safe and to open up about everything. He's just too ashamed to do it. Also, I'm guessing that she didn't sign up for a marriage with someone who's bi. If I'm right, you're right too. She needs to start the paperwork ASAP.

I pray you can break that spirit

@@Texas_Made91 break what spirit? The Holy Spirit? Nothing to break there since it isn’t real. Alcoholic beverages are called "spirits," so maybe you want to break some vodka. Is that it? Or are you talking about the kind of spirit that you have when you cheer for the high school football team? Breaking that would seem sort of sad. But then you didn’t go to high school, did you? And how is it broken? Do you drop it on the floor? A bottle would break, but the spirits inside wouldn’t. Break the spirits of your child by destroying their dream of doing better than you by finishing middle school? Your inability to communicate in a way that provides the reader with even the tiniest shred of information shows us that you have nothing worthwhile to communicate. Typical of all "Christians." Not being able to even use your own language properly is unbelievably pathetic. Are you ashamed of speaking English? Would Arabic be better? Russian? Mandarin?

I hope they get the help, and life they deserve.

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Most of us bi and gay men you wouldn't know. We are normal, masculine men.

@@Robert-vf6ny hm... sorry but no

@@martusia4594 keep fooling yourself, bigot.

@@Robert-vf6nylol dude so can gay men be masculine but are gay. Not bi

No kidding. My wife is exhausted after once every 3 weeks 😅

​@@stealthswim223😮

She has 4 kids they didn't spawn out of nowhere 😅

3 times a day is my max and that's on the weekends because I work too much during the week to be putting in that type of time lmbo 😂😂

If physical touch is a woman’s main love language, sex is extremely important. She will expect it daily as a confirmation of love.

I think she is denial or is afraid to be alone.

beard

I think he’s fully gay, yeah.

​@@stuff1784What makes you think that? She felt he was very attracted to her, and they have a lot of sex.

He did need to be hospitalized to remove the large phallic instrument from his butt

He already is

Grooming yourself.

Bisexual! We exist!

He likes penis

Very masculine men who are ALSO into women, can and are, very often secretly bisexual. Jokes on you. I personally, would never be with a female who wouldn't accept me for who I am. But I'm rare. I'm an honest man. Most men you are with, including your husband, are liars.

@@Robert-vf6ny That wouldn't be a loss to the female. 😆

Freddie was never married but Elton John was!

Fact

No Freddie was never married. He had a longtime girlfriend named Mary, whom he loved deeply and never cheated on. He was very faithful to her as both a boyfriend and then a normal friend till his death. After he discovered he was bisexual, he let her go and broke up with her. It’s a sad backstory though, because he discovered his sexuality via men in the industry molesting him :/

Wait a minute, are you saying Freddie may have been gay?

@@MiamiChicaIf he “Discovered,” his sexuality because he was molested, was he ever really bi? Or was it really just behavior he picked up in response to the abuse.

It’s not a porn addiction he’s gay and trying to hide/mask it with porn

@@kellyeverett Disagree. He was obviously satisfied with his wife's body until he started consuming porn at which point he began pushing for more and more unusual sex acts because porn must get more extreme to be satisfying.

He is gay! And sexuality matters.

Bi-sexual is definitely a problem and so is the porn addiction.

​@@shachede6828Does being gay mean he can't properly love his wife?

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@@evelyndaisy9722 🤣 she's a better person than I am , taking the blame for that!

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Def not a red flag so much as a pink sock ....

@@timw7256 🤣

I think an opposite sex marriage can absolutely work between a couple where one of them is bisexual… it happens all the time. But like any secure relationship it requires honestly, openness and love, which this man isn’t giving.

@@ChardeeMacdennis339 Women can never compete with men. If a man is any kind of queer, he will always crave men.

​@@ChardeeMacdennis339As a bisexual man, I agree with you. As long as both people are monogamous, bisexuality should not matter.

@@Alexander44665 As a woman, I would never be with & especially marry a bisexual man. The fact that he may have had sex with men or wants to, is disgusting. I'd be repulsed. Amd most normal women would be like that.

@@mjkingofmusic from the perspective of a man, it's disgusting when a woman has been with every guy in town. Women always want understanding when it comes to their past but won't reciprocate. Basically, if you areca bisexual man dating a woman you need to act like a woman who is asked about her body count-lie, lie, lie.