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My Son & His Wife are Making Porn (Have I Failed as a Mom?) 

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My Son & His Wife are Making Porn (Have I Failed as a Mom?)
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@ENCwwe
@ENCwwe 3 года назад
Can you imagine them explaining to Dave how they payed off their debt?
@blackbutterfly233ify
@blackbutterfly233ify 3 года назад
Paid**
@cammy60467
@cammy60467 2 года назад
😂
@greatvid4648
@greatvid4648 2 года назад
This comment needs more likes
@actuallyterry
@actuallyterry 2 года назад
I'm imagining the debt free scream now.
@daltonbrasier5491
@daltonbrasier5491 2 года назад
@@actuallyterry More like a debt free moan
@sarabear7828
@sarabear7828 11 месяцев назад
The fact that they felt comfortable telling her makes me believe she’s been a good mom
@user-ih9dg3uz5y
@user-ih9dg3uz5y 11 месяцев назад
What a great son. Does Mom look at the Sex Movies hes made? That would be awesome😳😳
@hmmm2564
@hmmm2564 4 месяца назад
Lol nope
@saintoflastresorts2272
@saintoflastresorts2272 4 месяца назад
There are levels and she has failed but she can excel as a granny when her grandchildren rebel against their parents. Such is nature. She seems so nice too.
@Dire_Hit
@Dire_Hit 4 месяца назад
@@saintoflastresorts2272 its just porn, guys
@leanneedwards3047
@leanneedwards3047 4 месяца назад
@@saintoflastresorts2272she hasn’t failed. If they did none of this before 18 then she succeeded. they’re adults they can make their own decision. God damn their not drug smugglers their just selling pictures online, what’s so bad.
@edhcb9359
@edhcb9359 3 года назад
I love John’s response “Oh…what is it like Fan’s Only…or Only Fan’s? Like he doesn’t know! 😂 Nice try there John!
@juanmartinez-ts2bg
@juanmartinez-ts2bg 3 года назад
I am sure he looked after the show.
@MsBlackcat33
@MsBlackcat33 3 года назад
hahaha exactly. He probably looked her up after this call lol
@juanmartinez-ts2bg
@juanmartinez-ts2bg 3 года назад
@@MsBlackcat33 i hate when people pretend to be a saint. Lol, it’s human nature .. geez lol
@donnawin9002
@donnawin9002 3 года назад
😂😂😂😂😂
@madisonandthespirits
@madisonandthespirits 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@supernova11711
@supernova11711 11 месяцев назад
“Welllll, I can’t say I feel like I succeeded.” LOL! This woman is actually a real gem, I love her. I hope everything works out for them.
@100jakkk
@100jakkk 4 месяца назад
I LOLed completely at that moment :D
@derekmyers423
@derekmyers423 3 месяца назад
She's awful I cannot stand her
@sherwood9917
@sherwood9917 3 года назад
Parents need to realize that, as adults, their children are not compelled to live by the values with which they were raised. Tough, but true.
@iironhide6209
@iironhide6209 3 года назад
Yeah but you have to wonder if you raised them right or raised them incorrectly based on the morals that they show
@sherwood9917
@sherwood9917 3 года назад
@@iironhide6209 Wonder away. However, you must then realize that they are adults and make decisions for themselves. For example, if you raise your child as a (insert whatever religion you want), your child, as an adult, may choose not to accept said religion.
@iironhide6209
@iironhide6209 3 года назад
@@sherwood9917 correct
@scullyfox4271
@scullyfox4271 3 года назад
Yeah each generation is more degenerate than the one before. How long can this continue before this empire falls?
@Carolina_Berean
@Carolina_Berean 3 года назад
This 💯
@krobdawg
@krobdawg 3 года назад
Never thought I would see OnlyFans being mentioned on this channel but here we are lol
@chanj2109
@chanj2109 3 года назад
Im here for it! Lol
@RudyGold
@RudyGold 3 года назад
Lol welcome to 2021 where anything can happen 🤦‍♂️
@whistlepiglet
@whistlepiglet 3 года назад
This is the most 2021 episode ever 🤣😂🥲🥲
@grod805
@grod805 3 года назад
The first episode had a dad calling in about his son's open marriage 🤣
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
@@grod805 Open marriages are actually pretty common you just don’t usually tell your parents
@juliaclaire89
@juliaclaire89 3 года назад
People make their OWN decisions Carol. Not your fault. You're a great mom.
@andrewbranham
@andrewbranham 3 года назад
Best comment so far. I hope she reads this.
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
The questionable part is why she thinks she has to go tell everyone in her circle.
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx Год назад
imagine defending this
@GameChanger597
@GameChanger597 Год назад
I think the wife is the one who's convincing him it's a good idea so he just went along with it even though he knows it's immoral. It sounds to me like he's a pushover and she wears the pants.
@YesYesYesJeff
@YesYesYesJeff Год назад
A great mom would understand that her children are people with their own values and not her property.
@EmpressMermaid
@EmpressMermaid 3 года назад
She needs to stop making it about her and her identity as a mom. Kids are not machines that, if you follow directions assembling them, will automatically run a certain way. Humans don't work that way.
@joreyn7656
@joreyn7656 2 года назад
Totally agree. She is way to wrapped up in the lives of her adult children. She needs to have her own independent identity outside of her adult children's lives. And why would she think she needs to have a conversation about this with her preschool-aged grandchildren??
@christinebutler7630
@christinebutler7630 2 года назад
True. She needs to let go of the kids and jut try to forget them.
@skr8674
@skr8674 Год назад
@@joreyn7656 are you forgetting they told her, she didn’t ask. I don’t know if you have children, but I don’t know how you can be too wrapped up in your adult children’s lives. You’re either involved in their lives as a parent or you are not. I don’t have kids, but I would be mortified if mine ended up doing that for a living.
@AC-mp7cx
@AC-mp7cx Год назад
imagine defending this
@WidgetWW
@WidgetWW Год назад
Given how much of her identity is wrapped up in how she raised her kids I’d wager she was a controlling type mom. Son prob couldn’t wait to get out of the house and get freaky
@mareehutchin2702
@mareehutchin2702 3 года назад
Her whole identity is wrapped up in motherhood… she needs a new purpose
@katelyndefreitas2810
@katelyndefreitas2810 3 года назад
Maybe she should start an only fans
@danbiddick9610
@danbiddick9610 3 года назад
@Jack Tapley it was a joke
@pooja350
@pooja350 3 года назад
@@katelyndefreitas2810 😂
@followthefiddledavidbathen6012
@followthefiddledavidbathen6012 2 года назад
@@katelyndefreitas2810 😆😆☠☠
@marcalexander6450
@marcalexander6450 2 года назад
@@katelyndefreitas2810 hahahha
@Matt-cr4vv
@Matt-cr4vv 11 месяцев назад
Ironically what she isn’t totally grasping is that the fact they were comfortable enough to tell her about it rather than carrying on a ruse to hide what they were doing says a lot about her raising her children well and being trusted enough to be transparent about this. So I hope she doesn’t walk from their relarionship because as of how it is now there’s an incredible comfort between the parties to communicate this stuff
@AustindGreen
@AustindGreen 3 месяца назад
They don't believe they did anything wrong
@jojo2007ish
@jojo2007ish 3 месяца назад
​@@AustindGreen They didn't. 🤷‍♂️
@vaska1999
@vaska1999 Месяц назад
​@@jojo2007ish Pornography is intrinsically damaging and wrong. Creating it and participating in it makes a mockery of intimacy and sex.
@jojo2007ish
@jojo2007ish Месяц назад
@vaska1999 Porn in moderation is absolutely fine. And in my relationships has been great! Then again I'm polygamous and kinky so I doubt you can relate. But you should still stop yucking people's yum.
@yasch3696
@yasch3696 Месяц назад
​@@vaska1999 No.
@christiangarcia01
@christiangarcia01 3 года назад
“It’s not your fault “ Immediately leaves to watch scene from good will hunting
@L0kie94
@L0kie94 3 года назад
I've never heard someone do that before
@donnellehall6093
@donnellehall6093 2 месяца назад
What scene???
@christiangarcia01
@christiangarcia01 2 месяца назад
@@donnellehall6093 have you seen the movie?
@suetucker9264
@suetucker9264 3 года назад
They are adults now. They are responsible for their decisions.
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
Yeah but mom is still making it all about her wanting to run around telling everyone.
@TheBusttheboss
@TheBusttheboss 3 года назад
The mom is right to be concerned.
@suetucker9264
@suetucker9264 3 года назад
@@TheBusttheboss She surely is. She did her best raising them, and they are ultimately responsible for their decisions now, be they good or bad.
@snoozyq9576
@snoozyq9576 Год назад
I think we all know that
@Carolina_Berean
@Carolina_Berean 3 года назад
This is one of the harsh realities of parenting. You can do everything “right” but your kids can still go left.
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
Adults get to live their own life. Doesn't mean you have to like it but nor do you have the right as a parent to throw a fit about it.
@michaellastname3924
@michaellastname3924 3 года назад
No one does parenting completely "right" but how would we know? If you go off what society/culture promotes then you'd be raising narcissists with victim mentality. Point is doing it "by the book" is still wrong.
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
@@michaellastname3924 Agreed we all make mistakes as parents since we all have our flaws. Probably who makes the biggest mistakes are those that try to be the "perfect" parent. At this end of the day all you can do is do your best, give them love and security as children, and teach them how to make their own decisions and be self sufficient. When they grow up it's up to them.
@whitneyw.7919
@whitneyw.7919 3 года назад
Yah, better to do your best, but not get your identity too wrapped up in their choices
@thedadlife247
@thedadlife247 2 года назад
yeah free will comes at a price
@AngelPerez-jm3yg
@AngelPerez-jm3yg 3 года назад
They gonna be on the “Dave Ramsey show” *The Every Day Millionaire* after all this money from only fans 😂
@stephensantiago603
@stephensantiago603 3 года назад
🤣🤣🤣
@joepatrick3092
@joepatrick3092 3 года назад
😂 😂 😂 😂
@DanSealana
@DanSealana Год назад
Maybe her stripper name is “Gazelle Intensity” 😂
@momof1576
@momof1576 2 месяца назад
Is there a chance that there’s a market of guys who will pay to see overweight middle aged women on only fans? Asking for a friend.
@carylhalfwassen8555
@carylhalfwassen8555 3 года назад
Mom needs to not talk to anyone about this situation unless somehow it comes out that a third party discovers how her son and daughter in law make a living. Then she needs to put her hands up and say that the situation is out of her hands and control and what else is there we can talk about.
@donaldlyons17
@donaldlyons17 3 года назад
I agree her kid and their spouse seemed to have more money problems before they started but now they have money and options. I would much rather see them with options than without!!
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
Yeah that was the confusing part was she feels the need to go tell everyone. Something else going on there.
@jones2277
@jones2277 3 года назад
it's still embarrassing.
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
@@jones2277 which is one the reasons you don’t need to go telling friends and grandkids. Some people just haven’t learned to keep your mouth shut about certain ways things.
@happycook6737
@happycook6737 3 года назад
Great advice. I hope Carol reads and applies your advice!
@belindabullock4060
@belindabullock4060 2 года назад
Dr. John is really good at his job. This one really hits me in the heart because one of my friends died in early May. We could talk about anything. Talking through things with a friend can help put things in perspective.
@aquaabundance4077
@aquaabundance4077 Год назад
Sorry for your loss, Belinda.
@mjgutierrez
@mjgutierrez 3 месяца назад
GOD BLESS
@josiahmanigault920
@josiahmanigault920 3 года назад
Sounds like she put too much of her self value on her “success” as a mom. Hopefully this is a good life lesson for her.
@DClark-zl8xb
@DClark-zl8xb 3 года назад
Many stay-at-home parents do this because they gave up a paying career. The children become the success measurement, just as much someone who builds a business/career and then retires sees a protege as a measure of their own competence.
@josiahmanigault920
@josiahmanigault920 3 года назад
@@DClark-zl8xb both are equally dangerous. Contentment & sense of self-pride are internal processes that can never he attained via external results.
@EmpressMermaid
@EmpressMermaid 3 года назад
@@josiahmanigault920 good point. That's why we need balance. Too much either way can be harmful.
@DClark-zl8xb
@DClark-zl8xb 3 года назад
@@josiahmanigault920 I agree.
@AllIAm1
@AllIAm1 3 года назад
Life definitely gives us the lessons we need
@tinalindsey1598
@tinalindsey1598 3 года назад
Every mom can benefit from John's words. Thank you for this!
@intrinsicdistinctive6725
@intrinsicdistinctive6725 3 года назад
There will be alot of Onlyfans mom in 10 years, and it be the talk of Middle school kids around town…🤣
@brutustantheiii8477
@brutustantheiii8477 3 года назад
So much more thanks to the pandemic, it’s so mainstream that being on online star will NO LONGER be Stigmatized anymore than trying cannabis is now in a parent’s past. It’ll be the old fogies that muleheadedly insist on judgmentalism
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 4 месяца назад
And Heaven forbid! multigenerational porno... decadent society we are in, what a sewer.
@illenejoseph7958
@illenejoseph7958 2 месяца назад
Why do u let middle school kids on on only fans and letting kids talk about it around the town. Why didn't we teach not to disrespect anyone's mom regardless of whatever
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 месяца назад
​@@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381Really??
@CalebsCars
@CalebsCars 15 дней назад
And some of them won’t care because their mom made a couple milly
@cursedhellspawn362
@cursedhellspawn362 Год назад
She thinks she failed because she raised children that don't hold the exact same value systems her, but that's literally how she succeeded. She raised children into adults that grew their own value system. Rather than always believing what they're told, they forged their own path. Just because it's something she doesn't agree with doesn't mean she failed. And it also doesn't mean that that topic has to be the only thing talked about at the dinner table.
@dartyr
@dartyr 3 года назад
I've seen and listened to you for a while. This clip is all anyone needs. Helpful. No judgment. But also aggressive and direct. The world needs more delonys
@araineacutebrownnurse7315
@araineacutebrownnurse7315 3 года назад
Why did they even feel the need to share that information ? Carol please take yourself out the equation. This is definitely not about you.
@kwalters3557
@kwalters3557 3 года назад
Yeah. There is something about this woman that is super irritating to me and I think you found it! She's making it all about her and her identity and her life's purpose! They need to tell her to get a life! You can just tell she is a real piece of work. Or as Dave would say, " A travel agent for guilt trips" or "A test driver at the broom factory"!
@redfuse8369
@redfuse8369 4 месяца назад
This sounds pretty common and normal to me. What is a parents job? To make sure they do everything right for their kids and to make sure they grow up to be the best version of themselves, etc. So when a child starts getting into terrible things, parents can be tempted to feel guilty, that it was their fault, that they didnt do their best or enough to help their kids, because all of this hurts them... so normal i can imagine, i dont even have to be a parent to see that ​@kwalters3557
@daltonoftheyear
@daltonoftheyear Месяц назад
@@redfuse8369 yea but people are also born they way they are born. serial killers don't choose to be serial killers.
@Matt-ug7nb
@Matt-ug7nb 3 года назад
I love John because even though most of these videos are situations I'll never be in, I still find things about myself or close people around me that I can personally work on for improvement in life
@ItsEmmaAkuffo
@ItsEmmaAkuffo Год назад
Same here
@veeshoo2880
@veeshoo2880 2 года назад
I feel like Carol is not really concerned about what they're doing, but rather how it will make her look. Her mistake is she is making it about herself.
@star85827
@star85827 Год назад
You're twisted and id be shocked if you even have kids... Porngraphy IS Prostitution. And, He's pimping out his wife or GF, with the greed justifying the cause... The mother, as any GOOD mother would look at it and say where the hell did i go wrong that they are living a a-morel life style , AND EVERY good mother is disturbed by bad choices and problematic children, like having a child who cant stop committing crimes and in and out of the legal system.But of course your so twisted you want to blame the good person and say it them with the problem. You a hooker also sweetheart, cam girl?
@TheRealdal
@TheRealdal 10 месяцев назад
I think most moms don’t want their kids doing porn and would feel some embarrassment telling their friends what their kids do for a living. Parents live for bragging rights.
@joimonae4090
@joimonae4090 9 месяцев назад
I’m pretty sure most parents would want their children doing porn and they have grandchildren whatever is put on the internet will stay on the internet forever so one day those children of theirs can see their parents doing that crap the things we do do not only affect us but the people closest to us
@anthill1510
@anthill1510 4 месяца назад
@@TheRealdal "Parents live for bragging rights." Only parents who have no life or identity of their own. She said herself right in the beginning that she saw being a mother as her whole purpose and identity. Her kids are adults now, she needs a new purpose and occupation and leave her kids alone and talk about anything else to her friends.
@donnellehall6093
@donnellehall6093 2 месяца назад
@@anthill1510when your grown child is groomed into this crap, you will be entitled to an opinion.
@Mcyoloswaggy69
@Mcyoloswaggy69 3 года назад
This is a spicy one
@k-mart7475
@k-mart7475 3 года назад
🤌🏽
@barexampasser
@barexampasser 3 года назад
Indeed.
@annafisher6874
@annafisher6874 3 года назад
Some things are just best not said to mommy and daddy 🙃
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
That’s what I was thinking. I don’t judge them for doing it. But telling mommy is a bit much.
@annafisher6874
@annafisher6874 3 года назад
@@johniii8147 the only thing I’m going to judge him for is telling mom. That was insensitive and inappropriate. And look what telling her made her feel, I feel sorry for her! Definitely can tell she’s a good mother!
@grantarmbruster6591
@grantarmbruster6591 3 года назад
@@annafisher6874 I am thinking they did this as a face rub to there parents moral standards. What person doesn't know how their mom/dad feel about it? Her kids belong in the "you better love me no matter how horrible my actions or you don't love me. "
@annafisher6874
@annafisher6874 3 года назад
@@grantarmbruster6591 exactly!
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
@@kaydefreese7586 Exactly.
@crazeekids9744
@crazeekids9744 3 года назад
It’s very hard to see your kids do things that you know will hurt them in the long run.
@jacksonlemay4418
@jacksonlemay4418 3 года назад
It’s not hurting their pockets that’s for sure
@VanJR.
@VanJR. 3 года назад
@@jacksonlemay4418 it will come back to bite them sooner or later
@christopherburgos1959
@christopherburgos1959 3 года назад
How exactly is it gonna hurt them?
@madisonandthespirits
@madisonandthespirits 3 года назад
Temporary fame, when it dies down then what? Those clips will never leave the internet, they will haunt them…
@christopherburgos1959
@christopherburgos1959 3 года назад
@@madisonandthespirits Bro unless you're worth remembering no ones gonna care
@patrick-gc8ew
@patrick-gc8ew 3 года назад
He answered this very well
@marisolpooh1
@marisolpooh1 3 года назад
Sad for their kids when they grow up and realize 😩
@CalebsCars
@CalebsCars 15 дней назад
They’re debt free I think they’re chillin
@Treerootz1
@Treerootz1 3 года назад
Your children are their own person
@tacooflove6175
@tacooflove6175 3 года назад
Even God was a perfect parent and gave his kids everything but they still messed up.
@BlessedbytheKingofKings
@BlessedbytheKingofKings 3 года назад
Love this. So true!
@LL-lj1kq
@LL-lj1kq 3 года назад
😂😂👏👏👏❤️
@lorettanewman9904
@lorettanewman9904 3 года назад
My husband says this all the time. It is heart breaking.
@rookie4582
@rookie4582 3 года назад
No, he just gave us free will.
@WildVikingMarauder
@WildVikingMarauder 3 года назад
He gave/gives them freedom to choose between life and death
@lv8902
@lv8902 3 года назад
Adam22's mom sounds nice, bless her heart. ❤❤❤
@taram4414
@taram4414 3 года назад
This comment is underrated. 🤣🤣
@hannahlove1562
@hannahlove1562 Месяц назад
Crying!!!!!!
@user-ll5yg1fj7p
@user-ll5yg1fj7p 19 дней назад
Hilarious!! And nobody here has a clue😂😂😂
@johnf.kennedy
@johnf.kennedy 12 дней назад
looooool
@agx8447
@agx8447 16 часов назад
Lmao
@14lexquez
@14lexquez 3 года назад
Sounds like a really wholesome lady. Hope she understands that everyone is free to choose what they want to do. Definitely not her fault.
@heatherboggio2180
@heatherboggio2180 3 года назад
wholesome? she sounds like a controlling uppity boomer
@14lexquez
@14lexquez 3 года назад
@@heatherboggio2180 lol
@hoademo965
@hoademo965 2 года назад
Wow! Men! John, you are very gifted in helping others. And you are really blessed with good words and knowledges to guide others in a great way of all kinds of situation! Bless you brother!
@errickreives4103
@errickreives4103 3 года назад
That sucks u can tell she is hurt😰😥😢😭
@user-de8fy1gy2e
@user-de8fy1gy2e 3 года назад
** 𝘛𝘏𝘈𝘕𝘒𝘚 𝘍𝘖𝘙 𝘠𝘖𝘜𝘙 𝘊𝘖𝘔𝘔𝘌𝘕𝘛 𝘐 𝘞𝘐𝘓𝘓 𝘈𝘋𝘝𝘐𝘚𝘌 𝘠𝘖𝘜 𝘛𝘖 𝘎𝘌𝘛 𝘐𝘕𝘛𝘖 𝘊𝘙𝘠𝘗𝘛𝘖𝘊𝘜𝘙𝘙𝘌𝘕𝘊𝘠 𝘐𝘕𝘝𝘌𝘚𝘛𝘔𝘌𝘕𝘛 𝘞𝘐𝘛𝘏 𝘛𝘏𝘌 𝘈𝘐𝘋 𝘖𝘍 𝘔𝘠 𝘛𝘙𝘜𝘚𝘛𝘌𝘋 𝘛𝘙𝘈𝘋𝘌𝘙 𝘖𝘕 𝘞𝘏𝘈𝘛𝘚𝘈𝘗 𝘈𝘕𝘋 𝘔𝘈𝘒𝘌 𝘎𝘖𝘖𝘋 𝘗𝘙𝘖𝘍𝘐𝘛𝘚
@user-de8fy1gy2e
@user-de8fy1gy2e 3 года назад
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@JV-bc8um
@JV-bc8um 3 года назад
Bro this reminds me of my uncles ex wife who use to brag and flaunt her two daughters like trophies. One ended up having 3 kids with all different dads and in an abusive relationship. The other ran away with the first guy she could and had a kid before marriage. Now she has nothing to brag about.
@CMM726
@CMM726 2 месяца назад
She clearly was a narcissist, and the effects of her abuse on her kids manifested in those ways.
@girlygirl1890
@girlygirl1890 3 года назад
Dr. John Delony is the male Oprah. Loooove the advice he gives. He was spot on with this one. : )
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 4 месяца назад
Oprah puts some people down.
@mr_guy661
@mr_guy661 Месяц назад
This channel is helping me and my family more than I could hope to ever express on here. I've been trying to get through to my mother for over a decade, due to her traumas and paranoid thinking. I'm finally learning to approach it in the right way, and things seem to finally be heading in the right direction. These days I actually feel I know what to say, and she genuinely listens to me now, thanks to you and your videos. Honestly, I can't thank you enough.
@jeremystuckey6173
@jeremystuckey6173 2 года назад
Pretendships is a great phrase. Nice work
@twinny555
@twinny555 3 года назад
Pretendship haha I love it. All I can say to the caller is they’re not putting themselves in danger, they’re probably not showing her face. Don’t sweat it. You sound like such a lovely beautiful kind mom. I can see how it must be difficult but just remember they’re still the same people they always were.
@daltonbrasier5491
@daltonbrasier5491 2 года назад
There have been hundreds of husbands who killed their wife because they can't handle that their wife is doing porn, after they agreed to it and supported it.
@blacklily624
@blacklily624 3 года назад
John gets some calls boy …
@CalebsCars
@CalebsCars 15 дней назад
Bruh for real wtf 😂
@ThatCho
@ThatCho 3 года назад
What’s their household income???
@tmusa2002
@tmusa2002 3 года назад
It’s helping them with their debt snowball. 😆
@MrMlbfan6
@MrMlbfan6 3 года назад
Dave would have been like well they paying the debt so I see no problem
@arfriedman4577
@arfriedman4577 4 месяца назад
None of your business to know salary.
@MsMak03
@MsMak03 Месяц назад
@@arfriedman4577you must be new here
@loufeather8326
@loufeather8326 Год назад
Thank you for your help. I needed these answers.
@kimmiekats22
@kimmiekats22 3 года назад
“Carol, Carol”…. 😂 and “pretendships” were the true gems. 💎
@KennTollens
@KennTollens Год назад
What they do as an adult has nothing to do with how good of a mom you are or not. My mom thinks like that, how I am is a direct result of how she was as a parent and fails to recognize that I have my own brain, that I'm not just a piece of software that she coded.
@piyushagarwal1350
@piyushagarwal1350 Месяц назад
Love my man!!!!!! This is exactly what I wanted to hear!
@bethanybrowne3803
@bethanybrowne3803 3 года назад
Try not to judge too harshly. Just be there for them in case this implodes in which case they will need a soft place to land and not “I told you so”.
@Ingcivilcarlos
@Ingcivilcarlos 3 года назад
Sounds like she used to brag a lot about her kids with the other Karens in the neighborhood, now that they are doing shameful stuff she's afraid she's going to get made fun of. It's not her fault tho, they are adults.
@leatherface9377
@leatherface9377 3 года назад
Did your mom not brag on you to the other Selina’s in the neighborhood?
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
There would be no reason to tell them anyway just as the kids shouldn’t have told mom
@linjubar
@linjubar 3 года назад
Why call her a “Karen,” if as you say they are doing something shameful? It’s perfectly normal for a mother to feel disappointed and uncomfortable when her children are publicly doing something Indecent. Think if it were your daughter or daughter-in-law.
@bassandswitch6367
@bassandswitch6367 3 года назад
You really think a mother's only thought is she doesn't want to get laughed at? She doesn't at all care about her kid selling his body? Use your brain
@kwalters3557
@kwalters3557 3 года назад
Bingo! Early in the call, she seems to be saying that the only reason she had friendships was to talk about/ brag about her kids and now she can't!
@mareehutchin2702
@mareehutchin2702 3 года назад
“Pretendships” love that
@jasonvandyke5401
@jasonvandyke5401 3 месяца назад
It's calls like this one on the Dr. D Show that make me want to go back to school to be a therapist. I want to sit with people in the tough situations when they have no idea what to do and tell them, "Hey, you didn't fail. You're a good mom." And then figure out next steps from there
@stacyreneebreaker583
@stacyreneebreaker583 3 года назад
I needed to here this. My 2 children are making moral choices different then me. Hope she sees this.
@severinstarrs4125
@severinstarrs4125 3 года назад
The money will not be worth the lifetime of shame and embarrassment and the consequences that God will put back on you.
@cess4089
@cess4089 Год назад
I guess it’s still true that one’s actions can shame the family. Her son is causing her shame. It’s a very old idea that is now practically obsolete but it is a real thing. Children who abandon the values their parents taught them actually do bring shame on their parents. Now, do I think she should take responsibility? No. Do I think she should try to get involved, no. But she should condemn the bad behavior and reach out to her son with love. But yes this kid is shaming his mother. It’s silly to pretend that he’s not.
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 2 месяца назад
There are some values that must be abandonned if they are toxic.
@agx8447
@agx8447 16 часов назад
@@blueStarKitt7924 Indeed, like most modern values.
@blueStarKitt7924
@blueStarKitt7924 12 часов назад
@@agx8447 Most "modern" values? A bunch of "modern" values absolutely.🤷
@dartyr
@dartyr 3 года назад
You are such a good person. The end
@justinthyme7275
@justinthyme7275 3 года назад
I have done far worse and I had the best father in the world. He definitely didn't fail. As I get older, I didn't fail either, I just made some stupid choices.
@kaliki76
@kaliki76 4 месяца назад
I would feel like a failure too. And it's more than "they're making decisions you don't like." But all children have to make their own choices at some point and sometimes the devil just gets the stronghold. Rebuke their behavior and pray for them
@Sum-dude
@Sum-dude 3 года назад
John acting like he doesn’t know what only fans is hahahahahaha
@sueblack5794
@sueblack5794 3 года назад
He explains what it is later....he also fully said what she couldn't communicate. Don't know where people are getting he is pretending he "doesn't know"
@johniii8147
@johniii8147 3 года назад
He finally said it but didn’t go into detail. What adult especially male hasn’t looked at it?
@grantarmbruster6591
@grantarmbruster6591 3 года назад
@@johniii8147 I don't think my letters of correspondence look at it... lol jk.
@cc8071
@cc8071 3 года назад
@@johniii8147 Males who have morals.
@jay6920
@jay6920 10 месяцев назад
Delony thinking fast with that "fans only?" lmao
@josephburton3232
@josephburton3232 3 года назад
All the people I know that went off the rails when they became adults are the ones who were raised in super strict religious households. From this lady's perspective, she probably thinks she did a great job instilling good ol' fashion traditional religious values into their kids. From the perspective of her kids, they would probably describe it much different.
@RealGalaxyGamers
@RealGalaxyGamers 3 года назад
@@rxses7714 No
@icantthinkofascreenname3064
@icantthinkofascreenname3064 2 года назад
@Joseph Burton Being raised in a strict, conservative environment does not make a person go off the rails. People of low moral character are going to do selfish, immoral things regardless of upbringing.
@aimeeglatt3299
@aimeeglatt3299 2 года назад
I agree with you, but I don’t think this particular lady sounds like she was hardcore militant like that. She sounds heartbroken and worried, but I don’t hear any anger or contempt in her voice. She just sounds scared and sad, not scornful. I do agree with you about those type home environments causing kids to rebel, though. I’ve seen that exact scenario play out 100 times.
@FernandoMartinez-pv1id
@FernandoMartinez-pv1id 2 года назад
Eh the way I see it, it's a Husband and Wife monetizing their Marriage.
@daltonbrasier5491
@daltonbrasier5491 2 года назад
Have three brothers that are all drug addicts and violent criminals. We were not raised in a conservative environment lol
@janetcross2797
@janetcross2797 3 года назад
This is not what you taught them this is a big decision on their part you did a great job
@InvalidPersistentName
@InvalidPersistentName 3 года назад
If she had failed, they would not have been open with her. She has succeeded, and so has her son.
@IseenDejaVu
@IseenDejaVu 2 года назад
Bingo!
@snoozyq9576
@snoozyq9576 Год назад
I don't think telling your mom about your porn is a great definition of success. Maybe they're successful but I don't think that's a good indicator 😅
@midnightblue117
@midnightblue117 11 месяцев назад
Exactly!
@donnellehall6093
@donnellehall6093 2 месяца назад
Been going through this crap and this has been extremely helpful.
@Adunca37
@Adunca37 3 года назад
John wanna post her page on here so we can have a look see for ourselves?
@z31Joshyman
@z31Joshyman 3 года назад
Carol.......you didn't fail.
@alaska49girl
@alaska49girl 2 месяца назад
I understand where Carol is coming from, as a mom with Teens, I take all of my kids "failures" very personal....it's SO HARD not to.
@ForAncientKingAndElvishLord
This made me, a stranger, feel so depressed and weird even though I myself am dealing with some serious philosophy on my own at the moment. Humans are so frigging complicated.
@ladykemma3
@ladykemma3 3 года назад
I had to ask my roommate to leave because she was doing this. Not in my house. Bye! When she started doing this, the vibe, energy in the house changed. The other roommates of the house could sense it too. A real evil energy. If there are children involved I would report to child protective services.
@greenfly0917
@greenfly0917 2 года назад
That's not grounds to get your kids taken away from you though. Unless the kids are involved in the videos or photos which I'm guessing OF wouldn't allow to be uploaded. So the only thing that does is waste CPS' time & energy.
@aimeeglatt3299
@aimeeglatt3299 2 года назад
CPS won’t do a thing. It’s not illegal and they don’t police morality.
@blackbutterfly233ify
@blackbutterfly233ify 2 года назад
Wow I would have taken you to court
@ladykemma3
@ladykemma3 2 года назад
@@blackbutterfly233ify month to month lease...I am a teacher with a morality clause written into my contract. I only rent to fellow teachers (big high school of 5000 kids). During the pre move in interview, I clearly state no drugs or weird behavior. I had to kick out a roommate who was using kush, even though it was "legal". It's my house.
@OkayBilly
@OkayBilly Год назад
Good for you. You set good boundaries.
@frankm2385
@frankm2385 3 года назад
Well Mom, you told him to do what he enjoys and he'll never work another day in his life. He took your advice and is now living the life. BTW, what is their Only Fans screen name? Asking for a friend.😊
@patriciairwin9491
@patriciairwin9491 3 года назад
disgusting.
@joshuasanchez2039
@joshuasanchez2039 3 года назад
@@patriciairwin9491 😂
@TapoutT
@TapoutT 2 года назад
@@patriciairwin9491yup. Onlyfans is a dreg on society.
@KnowArt
@KnowArt 3 года назад
If you raised your kids to think for themselves, they'll make choices you don't agree with once in a while. If you didn't... that's when you failed
@andreaayers4285
@andreaayers4285 3 года назад
This makes me so sad. I feel for her. But they are adults and will do as they please. Pray for them momma
@andreaayers4285
@andreaayers4285 3 года назад
@Kendl huh? I think you misunderstood my dear. I'm saying, they are leading their own lives now, with a questionable moral compass. Doing things that Jesus Christ would want us to repent for. So I say, pray for your kids, mommas!
@frankcb11
@frankcb11 3 года назад
Something missing in this is the part that they choose to tell her. That should be a win, surprise the Dr didn’t talk about that. It must not have being easy for them to do that and she probably did raise him right for him to even bring it up. Not a fan of it and can see it from her perspective. But something worth noting, they didn’t try to hide it from her and she finds out from someone else.
@vaska1999
@vaska1999 Месяц назад
I think they told her to rub it in her nose.
@michaelreyes6821
@michaelreyes6821 3 года назад
This is devastating
@alexatedw
@alexatedw 3 года назад
Why
@edb484
@edb484 3 года назад
Delony show is so wild lol
@69429boss
@69429boss 11 месяцев назад
When John said FansOnly I was like bro.. you KNOW!
@MR3DDev
@MR3DDev 3 года назад
Carol you didn't fail, the one making the most money is his wife and you didn't raise her
@jasonharris2363
@jasonharris2363 3 года назад
What if they're doing it to work the baby steps?
@saintfrancisco
@saintfrancisco 3 года назад
😂
@ladykemma3
@ladykemma3 3 года назад
Filthy earnings.
@brutustantheiii8477
@brutustantheiii8477 3 года назад
@@ladykemma3 So much more thanks to the pandemic, it’s so mainstream that being on online star will NO LONGER be Stigmatized anymore than trying cannabis is now in a parent’s past. It’ll be the old fogies that muleheadedly insist on judgmentalism
@juless7807
@juless7807 2 месяца назад
​@@brutustantheiii8477Being a SW will likely always come with a stigma. And the more mainstream it becomes, the more people have begun to realize the plethora of problems it can create.
@consumerdebtchitchat
@consumerdebtchitchat 3 года назад
I'll have to watch the video and then determine whether or not there is failure. But in all seriousness it is not the parents fault what their adult children choose to do. You should carry no guilt in that at all.
@punkrocksmidge
@punkrocksmidge 3 месяца назад
She's being forced to confront her own shame about her body and sexuality and is projecting that onto her children. They are not ashamed of their bodies or sexuality, but she definitely is. It's a great example of how each generation triggers the previous generation, allowing healing to occur.
@juless7807
@juless7807 2 месяца назад
@punkrocksmidge When you look at the data on p0rn actresses, it is much more likely the daughter-in-law has unhealed sexual shame. Maybe the caller does too, but someone who has an issue with their family member doing p0rn doesn't automatically have shame around bodies and sexuality. It's a great example of how you can't stop your loved ones from making self destructive choices.
@brightpage1020
@brightpage1020 Год назад
The fact that they felt they could talk to her about this was A) so brave and 1A) a testament to her awesome relationship with them. They’ll need to lean on this fantastic communication openness of hers if and when this decision ever turns bad for them. And they can count on her. Because she doesn’t judge. And they trust that she’ll be there for them. Meanwhile, she can brace herself for her friends’ husbands, friends, and family members who will inevitably see this at some point or might already be the wife’s “fans”. Because with the massive proliferation of porn since the pandemic - like 800x the opportunity there that it already was before that - it’s a sure thing that somebody who knows this mom will or has seen her daughter in law and might mention it or avert their eyes after enjoying their viewing.
@racheljames7
@racheljames7 11 месяцев назад
The fact that they do it at all and had the barefaced gaul tlto tell her and expect her to be OK with it is degenerate and disgusting. They're pigs and vile to put her through this.
@brightpage1020
@brightpage1020 11 месяцев назад
@@racheljames7 maybe you're the judge in your religion, bit God's the judge in mine, and I feel confident He has every soul He needs on a path to His plan, even of their path doesn't match my own or the plan I'd make for them. I pray they get and learn whatever they need from this experience. I once saw a woman who had been trafficked through porn going out on the Vegas strip, once converted, talking to women or victims in the life who felf they could open up to her and trust her, because she had been through it. She's connect them with resources as a ministry. Her pain became their salvation from it. I have no idea what droves some down that road to hell, but it seems like from their honestly their path is paved with good intentions. I pray God keeps them safe enough to spark a light in somebody's darkness through their experience.
@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933
@donnaallgaier-lamberti3933 3 года назад
My adult son made the decision to participate in a lifestyle choice that I have chosen not to be involved in. He came home from Oregon a few years ago to visit and we had a deep conversation about his decisions. He wanted me to know, and I believe he was hoping that I would understand. It was hard to hear but I appreciate that he told me his truth. Internally I struggled with this info. for some time, but I finally made peace with his choice. I came to realize that this is his decision and my job now that he is an adult is to support him and not to judge him. I met his paramours and they are actually really nice women and they take good care of him and they love him and he loves them. In the end, this is what I want for my son. He is hurting no one, everyone involved wants to be involved. He does not tell me how to live my life and I made the conscious decision not to tell him how to live his life. He is a good, solid, hard working and productive man. I will focus on that and my love for him and his love for me. He was very relieved once he knew I knew. He wanted to be able to be open and real with me about his lifestyle. I made the choice to give him that.
@aquaabundance4077
@aquaabundance4077 Год назад
That's great!
@SwimSweetie100
@SwimSweetie100 2 года назад
He’s married so clearly an adult. There’s nothing for you to do, disagree but you aren’t gonna be able to stop them
@JavierRamirez-ks9ji
@JavierRamirez-ks9ji 3 года назад
Can someone tag their only fans for research purposes
@Black_Jesus3005
@Black_Jesus3005 3 года назад
Get over yourself carol, You did your job raising them. Now they’re grown and they’re allowed to make what you think are mistakes you’re allowed to be disappointed. Don’t ruin the relationship
@AAA-ng3qk
@AAA-ng3qk 7 месяцев назад
Says the person that most likely subscribes to OF.
@Black_Jesus3005
@Black_Jesus3005 7 месяцев назад
@@AAA-ng3qk what in the goddamn?!
@sobeliever1638
@sobeliever1638 2 года назад
This sucks. I feel bad for her. As a single mom her son should do better in terms of honoring her instead of making her feel ashamed.
@Sadows12
@Sadows12 Год назад
No, then the son would be living through what his mother wants. Mom needs to accept that sex work is not something that should be seen as taboo anymore. Everyone does it, it sells, and it's only getting more profitable.
@OM-or3im
@OM-or3im Год назад
“Everyone does it” Is an overstatement of the year 😂 Mostly lost people who have zero self respect do it. Peace ✌️
@umiluv
@umiluv Год назад
@@OM-or3im - 100%. Just because everyone jumps off a cliff doesn’t mean you should do it too. I find the whole OnlyFans thing absolutely disgusting. AND they have kids?! It’s horrible.
@redraven8963
@redraven8963 3 месяца назад
The sad truth of it is only fans has been known to break up relationships. And those kids are going to be endlessly tormented because it is not a matter of if but when people find out and they are going to ruin those children's lives.
@danacooper779
@danacooper779 4 месяца назад
Don’t sit on the furniture at their house, Carol!
@ominous450
@ominous450 3 года назад
Who are these ppl paying for OF? You can find anything on the internet for free
@coltonjobes
@coltonjobes 3 года назад
This
@kazzhulse
@kazzhulse 3 года назад
I'm sorry but my first thought was ....huh wonder how much they make together haha
@TheFlyingZulu
@TheFlyingZulu 3 года назад
Same ahaha... It sounds like a lot if she was able to quit her job and they were really good on money now.
@samrusoff
@samrusoff Год назад
Imagine being part of a family where she would actually go to the site and then poke fun at them about it to break the tension.
@CarmenBuenrostro
@CarmenBuenrostro Год назад
She just has to accept that her children are now adults and are able to make their own decisions. She raised them to be confident enough to make their own decisions and they have.
@soulistic87
@soulistic87 3 года назад
Lets be real, they probably told her to get some kind of reaction. Why else would you nees to reveal that level of detail
@purrfectnails2473
@purrfectnails2473 Год назад
Sometimes people feel super guilty and the secret weighs on them. Also, they may not want her to be surprised if she finds out thru somebody else.
@Micrazygirl
@Micrazygirl 11 месяцев назад
As a mom I’m always worried if my kids will grown up to be a good human, and make good choices, I think she has the right to be heart broken. I would too, but we can’t control what they do, when they grown up.
@usernameheda
@usernameheda 20 дней назад
making porn does not make you a 'bad human'
@agx8447
@agx8447 16 часов назад
@@usernameheda Maybe not on its own, but good people can make bad decisions, and it is unequivocally a bad decision.
@usernameheda
@usernameheda 6 часов назад
@@agx8447 on your metric, not on everyone’s.
@amberrose1789
@amberrose1789 3 года назад
I would have never even told her...
@rickthomas422
@rickthomas422 2 месяца назад
She sounds so much like my former stepmother. Voice and everything. I could see her having this exact same reaction. This is about control that she thinks she's had and should still have. But you gotta let adult children be 100% responsible for themselves regardless of how bad the decisions they make.
@catcat9582
@catcat9582 Месяц назад
I don't think it's about control. It's weird that you can birth someone and the whole universe could see up their butt if they want to
@magnusmagnusson146
@magnusmagnusson146 3 года назад
Failed as a mom? They're grown. They're going to do what they want. Nothing wrong with them wanting to do that. They might as well try to be the best at it that they can be if they enjoy it. Wouldn't tell mom though. Lol Don't know why they thought that was a good idea.
@vanguardvaluist2614
@vanguardvaluist2614 3 года назад
Kinda tough to explain to mom how you paid for the brand new BMW.
@k-mart7475
@k-mart7475 3 года назад
You might as well promote your onlyfans too since you’re defending it
@magnusmagnusson146
@magnusmagnusson146 3 года назад
@@k-mart7475 Nah. I would but I don't have the body for that. Lol
@bradleyquinonesbrandt3302
@bradleyquinonesbrandt3302 29 дней назад
exactly. They are adults, legally working and paying their own way. I just don't know why they thought they needed to tell mom. Keep that crap to yourself!
@grannyary
@grannyary 3 года назад
I so want her to be the ganster granny and love but mock them.
@GratiaPrima_
@GratiaPrima_ 3 года назад
Could you imagine?! “Oops, forgot to zip your fly! Don’t want you to have to charge me.”
@kwalters3557
@kwalters3557 3 года назад
You know what... the longer I listen to this the more I think that Carol going to the site to join up is a great idea. I know people who have done similar things and been embarrassed when Mom found out. Well, honey, you put it on the internet for everyone to see... so here I am!
@kathyalex778
@kathyalex778 Год назад
Haha you know what, you’re actually right. How would they feel if mom started watching and paying? Would the couple then feel like maybe their intimate parts of themselves shouldn’t be online?
@fml5910
@fml5910 Год назад
True, and I wonder how many have lost a job over this? A lot of people don't care, and will let anyone, and everyone watch them have sex lol.
@adjectivenoun12
@adjectivenoun12 5 месяцев назад
Man I saw a thing where the OF girl found out that her stepdad was spending all his money watching her stuff
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381
@jugendamthamburg-ggkonform381 4 месяца назад
Worth a try. Heaven forbid! anyone in my family got into porno/prostitution I would try anything to get them to stop. I am also wondering if they are filming at their home and if yes is their child or children in the home at the time. @@kathyalex778
@tasia3236
@tasia3236 27 дней назад
Wish i could find the full episode
@pigeon4208
@pigeon4208 3 года назад
God help those kids if their classmates find out about that, seen too many stories of families being broken up over that
@timothythompson4036
@timothythompson4036 4 месяца назад
Trust me they will regret this long term. She needs to stay away from them.
@bradleyquinonesbrandt3302
@bradleyquinonesbrandt3302 29 дней назад
If everyone "stayed away" from their children that made choices they didn't like there wouldn't be anyone in the world who spoke to their children.
@timothythompson4036
@timothythompson4036 26 дней назад
@@bradleyquinonesbrandt3302 This stuff is very serious. If someone is using drugs, you stay away. If they get arrested, you get arrested.
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