If I Were Single and Starting Over, THIS Is What I Would Do 

Thank you for doing this 💜

I am SO touched by your words today. It's like you just read my mind out loud and know exactly how I feel in my love life. You really understand our collective pain and offered practical solutions as well as the much needed love and encouragement!! I'm so thankful that God brought you to my attention to help me and give me a reason to believe. This event is both therapeutic(better than therapy. to me)and extremely helpful! It was my lunchtime so I couldn't finish watching it but I watched the rest afterwork and bought the book right away! You are my love life hero and angel this year for sure! Thank you and I can't wait to learn more from you! PS. Already listening to your existing audio book and getting enlightened in my car constantly!! Thank you Matthew you are the BEST and you made my YEAR(not just my day haha)!

1.5 h talk. Just awesome ! Inspiring. Watching it before bed and now waking up. I am trying to order the book now And Greetings from Taiwan 🇹🇼

Hi Matthew, I am about to pre-order your Love Life e-book since physical book isn’t available in S.Korea🇰🇷. I’ve been healed a lot from my 6yr relationship break-up by watching your videos and internally learned from them! Can wait to read and learn from the book:) Thank you!

I do

Thank you.

Thank you x

Thank you so much! I’m still going to watch the whole thing but am glad to have timestamps to go back to .

@@msliltrinity you're welcome! I love having timestamps because it just makes navigating much easier haha

❤❤❤ THANK YOU SO MUCH!

I love this. I'm very happy for you ❤❤❤❤

Single six but I have two young children however this gives me hope

I appreciate your sharing this, I'm encouraged!

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I listened to Matthew and several other coaches. The book Attached explained my attachment style of being anxious and attracted to narcissists. I knew I found the right guy when I was able to be myself, wasn’t triggered and he was everything Mathew teaches to look for. We are a great match and get along better than anyone I’ve ever known. The over the top chemistry I was always drawn to, was my misinterpretation of what real love was. Listen to as much as possible, read Attached and Matthew’s new book, which I’m ordering even though I don’t need it anymore. Information is great to share♥️ Love to you all on your journey!

Amazing! 🙏❤️

How did u meet him?

I want to know as well! 🤣🤣

Hey ladies, via the dating app Hinge. I went for the guy I wouldn't usually date. He was consistent and we went on cute dates and we connected on a soul level first. Never settle for less🙏

Hey ladies, via the dating app Hinge. I went for the guy I wouldn't usually date. He was consistent and we went on cute dates and we connected on a soul level first. Never settle for less🙏

So glad you are here. Sounds like you’ve done an amazing job with your son. Congratulations to him! Now let’s help you find the love you want ❤

@@thematthewhussey Matt, if you google “Walter Eisenhardt” you’ll see a few stories about us, the most recent “one of Bellmore’s oldest houses is now fully restored, The Charles A. Frisch house”. My sanity project through the custody battle, 911 cancer and so much more. I waited so long to poke my head out and find love and I had a terrible experience with a woman who lied, cheated, and verbally abused me. I refuse to give up as I’m a fighter, I won’t be defined by what happened. You need to know that you are the one true sane voice out there and it shows that you really want to help, you’ve gotten me through some very rough times, thank you. You are an inspiration

@Millerscrossing - That is impressive, I have goosepimples from your story.

@@bumblebee_mrs thank you

God bless you for being that Dad!!!!

I truly thought I would be in a relationship with a loving, kind man by now. I've been divorced for over 20 years.

Superficial attention as Matthew mentioned?

No shortage of superficial attention

As a 50yo woman, I too still get attention from men in their 20s and early 30s. These men are just looking for what they assume will be easy, “no-strings” sex with and older woman. They are NOT interested in anything more. Some of them may pretend to be interested in more, perhaps because they want financial support also. But they are NOT. Superficial attention is easy to get. Take it as a little confidence boost and use that confidence to help attract the attention of the kind of man who is genuinely interested in a relationship with you in this stage of your life.

Now that's not fair. I haven't been married once and you marrying all of them 😂

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Thank you 🫂

Thank u die sharing that gives me hope at age 61 🙏

Absolutely!!

I love that Jeanne ❤

👏🏾 amazing

Thank you for sharing. Just turned 54 and my husband of 17 yrs dumped me via text. 3 months later, I'm still in total shock 😮and fear I'm too old to be desired. 🌹 never losing hope.

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That was personal 😭 … but true

RU-vid too? 😅

I got off there because I was getting way too many bogus come ons

Also loved that comment ......

Loneliness is so awful, isn't it? I totally know how you feel. I'm a nice person but attract insincere people with agendas. I need to know how to meet the RIGHT ✅️ people & make some great friendships with like-minded people...

I am too. At the age of 40. With 3 beautiful children

I am too. It is crazy lonely but I accept being lonely but I have high hopes for love.

Love it! And thank you so much for ordering my new book!

Interesting that he would say that but have a date with you if he really felt that way. Maybe he felt like you were superior to him in some way and wanted to notch you down to ease his intimidation.

@@kristilee7006 I was in a relationship with him. That wasn’t the only insult that he bestowed upon me. Perhaps, it did come from an insecure place with him? All I know, is that if you listen to someone long enough, those words can cause some serious damage. He also said to me that no one would want to marry me and that the only men I can get are 65 year olds (I have nothing against older men, he was saying it to be derogatory) and men who would just want to have sex with me. He told me that he was never going to marry me. So, with that being said, I left his house one day, never to speak to him again.

He was clearly abusive and said things with the intention to destroy your confidence and self-esteem. And he knew where to hit you where it hurts.I dated a guy once and I realize now that he intentionally did the same thing. I am now learning to love, honor and care for myself the way I would like a man to. I believe it starts with us individually, then we can add to that with another person. You did well to remove yourself from that poison.

@@kristilee7006 I agree with you and I am on the same journey you are on. I don’t want to attract those types of men any more, so I am working on myself. Thank you for sharing your experience with me and your kind words. ❤️

You’re welcome.☺️ We may still attract men like that at some point in our life, but we will value and honor ourselves enough to put up a boundary and protect ourselves from that when it shows up. We are worth that kind of love! I do think that as our self-respect grows, those kind of men will sense the change and will naturally look for easier targets.

He wasn’t the love of your life then, we are angry that they wasted our youth.

So sorry. That happened to you. Stay strong

He wasn’t the love of your life. Don’t romanticize who you thought he was, rather see him for who he really was. Some people come into our lives for a season, and help us learn something about ourselves. Thank them and move on. Wishing you happiness and health. ❤

I am a 911 cancer survivor, anyone I tell, runs away. I am also a single dad and raised my son alone after his abusive mother was taken out of our lives by the courts thank god. He’s 17 now and a national honor society student. You are NOT too old and you sound like a truly beautiful and lovable person to me. God bless you and my heaven shine light upon you, chin up, deep breaths and stay in the game of life, I believe love with find us both again

Thank you for your kind response 😭❤️ 🙏 fingers crossed for a good one for both of us! 🤞🙏

@@she_followsthesun yes, I’m with you all the way, where do you live BTW? Want to read a nice story? Google “One of Bellmore’s oldest houses is now full restored, the Charles A. Frisch house” That’s me and my son

OMG I made a New Year Resolution that this is the year of self love and trauma healing for me ❤

@@socol76We got this!!! 🔥Self love year!!🎉🎉🎉I wrote myself a love letter the other week to past me. I bawled like a baby😭 Then I wrote a list of all the things I’d want from a partner.. what words would I want to hear? How would I like them to treat me? What kind of things would I want to do with them? Then I wrote a list of ways I can give some of these things to myself. I’m determined to heal and find happiness by myself so I don’t feel desperate to just have anyone! I’m getting a converted van and going to have adventures and treasure this time. Good luck on your journey ❤

Don't give up,its out there

It can happen. I married after 7 years. A friend was single 14 years and met his mate who had been single for 20 years. They’re a perfect match and know that it was worth the wait

@@alitez960I swear to god, if I hear this bs line one more time…… “someone being out there” doesn’t do crap for me now.

You likely won't, or you need to date guys 70-80. It's just reality. Enjoy hobbies.

​@@barbaramyers8581lol !!! Barbara, you're a funny chick.

Truth… or I’d rather be alone

Yes... regarding a kiss 💋 Having the ability to kiss is truly an art 🎨 but the attraction to kiss that person presents itself. I truly need that for progression if the communication is, of course, in place in the first instance.

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It’s not superficial to want someone you want to kiss! It just means you want someone you are attracted to

In a similar place, my sweet husband passed suddenly leaving me with 2 young kids and a business to run. Your love for your wife is a strength! Any real prospective partner would be open to allowing you to cherish and honour what you had together. Still, you need to be ready to move forward and make room in your heart …and mind. I keep thinking my husband would want me to have someone in my life to love, cherish, partner with. You can’t find a Replacement but maybe a new soul to love! Wishing good things for you! Hopeful for myself. Sometimes feel down about my situation, but hold my head high. Limits are shackles we put on ourselves.

It's sad that the spot in your life for love is already taken by someone who is no longer in your physical world. There are many men like yourself out there hence the shortage of loving individuals... 😔

You're ahead of the game. You were able to meet and attract someone you loved dearly. There are so many people who can't seem to do that at all, but you - you know you have that skill.

I'm so sorry for your loss - that's is so hard esp. with your kids. But, honestly, if you know that you are unable to truly, deeply love another woman, is it fair to actually look for a new partner? Knowing that you can't really be there for her and how much you asking of her? Because you're right, your five children, while they are miracles for you, their father, ARE a lot for a new partner to deal with, especially with and for a man that is incapable of loving her with his whole heart. Why would you expect someone else to give so much for so little in return? I'm sorry to be harsh but it's actually being really selfish...

@codyfraser3850 - I am certain your children, family and friends want you to have a woman to love and be loved by, romantically. I am also certain your wife would want you to have a woman in your life romantically, to love and support each other, as she can't be there for you. A new woman won't be like your wife was, nor would she want to be, but she would be there to share love and life with you and your children. She wouldn't want to be a replacement, substitute mum to them. Any new woman would be unique and special, with her own amazing qualities. Your wife sadly died, but you are still very much alive, with the rest of your life to live yet, and to be happy. Do you - or do you want to live a shadow of a life? When you are ready and have forgiven yourself for any feelings of guilt or regret, you will be open and ready for a new woman and a different romantic love. All the best.

Yep, I'm 44 and many men are interested in dating me or beeing casual with me, but there's no one who is interested in love. Men in our age are single for a reason. Every man I could possibly be interested in is in a relationship or is avoidant.

@@diezuckerbackerin5112 Exactly, men being avoidant gets us women nowhere. It truly is annoying and exhausting.

​@@diezuckerbackerin5112same here in Italy or maybe worse

That sounds like blame. Blame is its own kind of avoidance. 🙏🏼

@@christopherlamott9351 I tried to avoid your comment but decided instead to address it. I would prefer it if men admit they hate approaching women rather than just dismiss us as "too blamey", the issue is REAL and not something to just be flippant about. This means you are ok if single woman never find love due to never being asked or they should do the only job a man really should do to kick the whole process (I know you didn't say that but it's a bit implied). I still don't get why men do not want women who are actively looking or wanting to date, like what is the point of acting like you don't want to be with a loving man??? I find it hard to fathom men I see in real life that dismiss women altogether. It honestly makes NO sense to me. When a woman has her cab light on it means we're good to go. Time to get to know each other and see if we're a good fit. Who wants to be single forever?

Totally Agree, my friend😔

😂 snap

I can relate. We were only married for 3 years

Good riddance to him. Infortunately you will still have to deal with him because of the kidds but this is your moment actually. Always thank the people who “stab” you in the back as you will admire so so much who you will become. You will love again and you will be loved by someone that is not weak…a real man. Be strong…do not shed tears for a weak link (because this is what he is). You are healthy, you are smart, you are beautiful.

Well, there's never a guarantee for a lasting relationship.

October will be 6 years since I lost my husband and same I’ve been single since then too

Your husband would want you to be happy with someone else. ❤️

Sept makes 9 years for me and haven’t even missed a man:(-

My husband passed 11 years ago. I attracted a man awhile ago who was destructive, fine with being mean, scary.

I was married for 23 yrs to the most loving woman. She passed away 4 yrs ago and I feel like you do . Doesn't look very promising out there

Too bad we haven't met

This is so true. Even within a relationship. My last boyfriend was giving mixed signals, not being respectful of my time, etc... I knew he had a big crush on my for a few years and was just getting in his own head and sabotaging now that we were actually together so I told him we needed a break and reset and to contact me when he was ready but he decided to ghost instead (and we had been friends for 4 years before we dated so that crushed me). I think he thought I didn't like him anymore because I wanted to take a step back but I just didn't see the point in stubbornly sticking the course we were on. We needed to pause, get some breathing room and perspective so that we could more forward from a better place

Keep going

Don't regret any of it. They weren't mistakes, they were just a path you took. Lessons that make you who you are

Glad you're here now 🙏

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