If Someone DOESN'T LIKE YOU For Who You Are REMEMBER THIS! | Jay Shetty 

So sad but true

Authentic Self Guide -that is so darn true

And to confirm their true colours, their true intentions behind their actions and behaviour. And also, whether or not they want to make life improvements, changes, and be open minded.

BrotherTree1 -I agree and true with you

👍👍👍

Agree!

Very true

You got that right!

Yeah you are so right,,I had a female friend I loved and cared about and was their for her anytime she needed for a year,and it turns out it was never a friendship but instead a usership

Can’t agree more

What if they PRETEND to ' want ' you.. 🙁 ??

@@avarose2038 yes for people who like drama in their life ,they do such things.Some people prefer drama in their life (like my x gf) and some don't ( like me). So i live a drama free life so i don't chase such people. For people who like drama let them chase and risk it.

Don’t chase anyone.

I pray that you started your channel.

Bro I have a girlfriend well we both love each other when it comes the bad time for us like our parents doesn't know about us so when it time to choose me or her family she chose them!! And I got so restless end of the day I can't leave her coz she's my life and she repeated this thing for atleast 3-4 times What should I do??

I needed this!

If someone really cares about you they'll find time for you, they wont be to busy....thats just a b.s. line they feed you to keep you baited so they got you on back burner for second choice, move on you deserve better male or female!!!!

@@shirleyware9059 exactly. Those kind of ppl are total bs themselves

Your Favorite Lifecoach 🌸 beautifully put and quite potent, really touched something in me, thanks for your kind words 👍🏼 Sub’d

Gail Fisher thank you so much gail ❤️

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me , I 100% agree.

Amen to this

what if they are the ones who trick us into believing they are a bful person and turn out to be narcissitic to us..manipulate us without even our knowing...by being so subtle that human brain could be easily fooled... how...i mean how.... and WHY do some boys behave in this way...!!!!

@@missmishra6622 I think its more like when its new...due to the adrenaline rush and the butterflies that we get....our brain is soo high on emotions that we tend to ignore or be blind to the red flags they are portraying. And how can u be sure? Just close ur eyes and go back to the initial times as a third person ans watch that situation where u met him....u will see the red flags that got ignored. Its not your fault...they are narcissistic due to their nature or situations...we need to get out asap and tell ourselves...thank god I came to know before...😊😊

O'SSÉIN - Master Your Mind With Me the right people will come to and stay.

Same here I left my ex cos was no more interested in me.. N that taught me to love myself more n respect myself more

I wouldn't say most but many are, yes.

thats me

To be honest women prefer abusive boyfriends subconsciously, so they can have some drama in their life. When good guys approach them, they don't give a shit. Now that's the real problem, I am seeing this even in my work place

@@jithunair4526 Too true. Seen it happen to so many of my friends.

Have you tried like... Seeing how the life of being single is like? Maybe that's the only thing left... 😭

But if you truly want a bf... Maybe try dating apps...

Di you're no less than a diamond. Don't settle for pebbles. One day you'll meet a man who will respect and admire you as he'll have the same qualities as you possess. When you're vibes will match with that of the correct man, you'll both attract each other. People who are meant to be there in your life will always gravitate back towards you no matter how far they are. 😊😇

@@the_hanburger yeah I've been single for some time now. I low key hate it but its helping me to grow

@@the_hanburger dating apps dont work. I used to use them. They just suck

Me mum drilled this in me brain lol her whole life your worth everything you want in life

self love is enough for surviving and living. greets, e.

Thank u for saying that

Just look at me loving emptying all goodddd 💥💕🙌🏼🥀

shiwangi_shyra rajus - I agree 💯 percent

Same here

I agree with u, it’s taken me years to come to terms with that , I settled for third best. Don’t waste time free yourself from a useless relationship 💕

reni singh very true 👌👌👌👌👌👌👌🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️🏃🏻‍♀️

shiwangi_shyra rajus Could I ask you for a favor? It would really mean a lot to me

Yes yes yes. Of course yes

Yes. Exactly my thoughts!!

I love u also 😍💏💑👫🌹🌷❤❤

I learned to say NO too. Its helpful and powerful

Its A Power Too If U Are A Beast

Do not be too nice they'll eat you... its a jungle out there. I love you . Start saying no to others, if you don't, you will be saying "No" to yourself....

@@Princess_Lilly13 That's the best piece that we all should take. Being too nice to or trusting somebody too much will only get us in trouble.

@@danacarter9147 Exactly dear, and believe me, i learned that the hard way... struggled sooo much! Love from Algeria 💓

Damn.nice advice

You deserve the best of course

Right 😣

Only fools fall in love

He is from India too right?!

@@arwerr2674 oh yeah... Indian English Speaker.

That must have been a very difficult thing to do, but I think you made the right decision. You deserve better than someone who treats you like that. Keep looking forwards.

Do not go back. Even if he comes back. It will eventually get worse.

kimberley ibale Stand in who you are, your standards and value. Thank goodness you didn’t settle just to become their a prop, a void filler. I don’t know but personally experienced the devastation from staying in the wrong place with the wrong man for way too long. Assumes all was good 20 years marriage children then he became someone I didn’t know, some days didn’t like who he was. Why was this happening and it’s not all of sudden it was my intuition I’d been ignoring. I’d been the wife who sacrificed when he didn’t, he started drinking more and more, this was 10 years ago we’d both joined Facebook and that was a catalyst in our relationship. I didn’t know his need to be validated and loved was as deep as it was. He stayed online with old friends and women he’d known years ago stroking his ego became a problem I saw wife and children weren’t priority and he’d miss meals and events for attention. Our world the life I thought he’d keep his promise to was a facade, anyone would do. I was a disposable broken and with teens I’d planned with therapist due to alcohol and verbal abuse that when I said leave I wouldn’t ever look back where he got a message I’d accept less and less and I’d be his launch pad doormat. That was 4 years he’s a drunk lost his job and doesn’t see his children but talks online to women all over the world and thinks he’s a God. It’s all I can do to forgive myself for doing my best at the time with what I knew based on years of letting one thing slip at a time, I’d become a people pleaser miserable at that. I’m alone in relationship status but I don’t have to carry anyone but me and I’ve learned who I am all over again. I would advise anyone to be vigilant and don’t sacrifice yourself or your standards it’s like predator prey, kind and vulnerable are meant for those who share the same with you.

Dont ever go back to him.he doesnt respect you and is a prick

You are far better off.love and happiness to you🙂

People like that don't last for long no matter how hard we try or we try to break the moon for them they won't realise...they are just selfish and will never appreciate it. That happened in my relationship too I was just an option for him I was so good to him I never complaint or create scene for replying late his replies varies from a day to 9 hours just for s reply he use to take that much of time. I felt so bad it hurted me to my stomach now I never text him he doesn't either even though it hurts I still remind myself he doesn't loves you but it's really hard..are you still together?

@@tubisa0234 sorry to hear that ☹️ And no, we're not together anymore

@@kritarthasarma8252 good you are away from the toxic person I hope you are doing good since it's been so long..it's been 8 months for me but I am still haunted by our memories really each day is painful... Wish you all the luck save your heart and don't fall in love.

@@tubisa0234 I hope that u too get out of it very soon☹️. I still think of our memories. But yeah now I don't get as sad as I used to get then.

I like u really 😍💏💑👫🌹🌷❤❤

I hung on to a guy for 3 years who came in and out whenever he pleased. He’d call me everyday on Skype as he was overseas. He was a first class player. In the end I cut him off when he ignored my calls and stood me up on Skype for a month because he met another woman. I was silly for ignoring all the red flags 🚩 as he was a useless jobless broke dusty who lived at home and dealing with a baby mama. What could he have offered me?

same, it happened today, i feel you

Same thing happened with me on June 15th.. dealing with it

@@alinakhan2859 u going to be fine in due time.. I ddnt think I'll be fine but I'm doing good now

@@masegomorobe6761 I hope so.. this thing is killing me from inside

@@masegomorobe6761 I just hate love

I feel the same

Leave the people who don't want you. Why to care for them if they don't want you any more. Don't worry, time heals everything.

Charlene Bernard me too xx