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If They Cheated On You WATCH THIS! | Jay Shetty 

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For a relationship to work, both sides have to work together and communicate. It
should never be about one person neglecting their own needs and values just to keep the other
person satisfied. Letting go of a relationship doesn’t mean that you’ve failed or that you’re weak.
Strength doesn’t only apply to couples who are able to successfully work through problems
together. Strength also applies to those who pick themselves back up even when someone they
love has failed them, and in spite of their fears, move forward into the unknown.
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@abundantras6287
@abundantras6287 3 года назад
“They say: You don’t know what you’ve got till it’s gone. Truth: You knew exactly what you had; you just thought you’d never lose it.”
@vincec.202
@vincec.202 3 года назад
Great quote.
@melis.j.
@melis.j. 3 года назад
Very true. Bless you
@uncle_trust_gwishiri
@uncle_trust_gwishiri 3 года назад
Ummmmm so powerful and true
@seandimailig2976
@seandimailig2976 3 года назад
Winner
@c3ciliacorrea80
@c3ciliacorrea80 3 года назад
Facts
@EscapewithAj
@EscapewithAj 3 года назад
I know how it feels when the person you love the most cheats on you 💔
@kpzunjare9704
@kpzunjare9704 3 года назад
Yes I know
@ivywang416
@ivywang416 3 года назад
he cheat. I let him go.
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Truee
@ShineShine1200
@ShineShine1200 3 года назад
But how if already letting go but still keep on coming and wanna stay but also still holding on to the other.
@melleniethornton5171
@melleniethornton5171 3 года назад
Hi !!!
@enricadorsey5284
@enricadorsey5284 3 года назад
Cheating is really disgusting. It can go both ways. Especially if somebody loyal to you
@TheT151
@TheT151 3 года назад
As my mom said I'd rather be happy living in a cardboard box then to be miserable living in a castle.
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
👍👍
@natalierodriguez3438
@natalierodriguez3438 3 года назад
Well said 👏
@lorireed8046
@lorireed8046 3 года назад
Amen! That's me! Much happier in my car than that 5 bedroom/3 bath home! The torture of being more alone and sad IN a relationship than really alone is nothing people will never understand unless you've been there.
@ericaaubie860
@ericaaubie860 3 года назад
@TheT151 That is so well said! Your mom is full of wisdom! I would rather live in a shack than be in a mansion, and be miserable!
@RupyAvaani
@RupyAvaani 3 года назад
I’d rather be left crying in a castle than a cardboard box tbh.. and say buh bye to the one who some me wrong time is a healer
@karimlababidi1
@karimlababidi1 3 года назад
It's real frustrating when I see someone being mistreated but they choose to accept it and FIX THEMSELVES. Like it's not your fault, you deserve better!
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster
@karimlababidi1
@karimlababidi1 3 года назад
@@dhairyashah1044 I mean, it's really important to change to the better for our own self, but trust me, never change for someone....
@doctorajaiy6226
@doctorajaiy6226 3 года назад
Did you need help to get your ex back? If you need any help I can introduce you to a Wicca who helped me get my ex within 3hour's!!!
@karimlababidi1
@karimlababidi1 3 года назад
@@doctorajaiy6226 sorry what😂. No thank you i moved on.... but I'm curious how did Wicca get ur gf back in 3 hours? Like some magic or manipulation?
@BwalyaTheCreator
@BwalyaTheCreator 3 года назад
I pray everyone seeing this will be successful
@monirulislam8267
@monirulislam8267 3 года назад
The like begger
@mizpahmatiaha1773
@mizpahmatiaha1773 3 года назад
I've seen the same comment on different channels lol. RU-vid is out the gate
@BwalyaTheCreator
@BwalyaTheCreator 3 года назад
Okay, i am sorry to disturb or irritate you on this.
@BwalyaTheCreator
@BwalyaTheCreator 3 года назад
Just felt like doing something interactive to have my channel active
@mizpahmatiaha1773
@mizpahmatiaha1773 3 года назад
@@BwalyaTheCreator thank goodness your not a Bot like on Instagram. You have my respect and follow
@nicoleonfeels
@nicoleonfeels 3 года назад
It is at our lowest point that we are open to the most growth.
@williamsjames3002
@williamsjames3002 3 года назад
True
@williamsjames3002
@williamsjames3002 3 года назад
Life can be so hard especially when it comes to choosing life partner It seems so hard been through ups and down It is hard for me to trust again I built my self and discovered my self Now I want a Good relationship A God fearing woman One I could trust and love I hope I find one soon Distance is not an issue but must be God fearing
@doctorajaiy6226
@doctorajaiy6226 3 года назад
Did you need help to get your ex back? If you need any help I can introduce you to a Wicca who helped me get my ex within 3hour's!!!
@BibliLit
@BibliLit 3 года назад
You just can never satisfy someone whose not willing to be satisfied with you !!!!
@TanvirAhmed24
@TanvirAhmed24 3 года назад
Healing from a breakup is one of those things that doesn’t have finite ending. No gong goes off and no buzzer sounds when you’re done healing. The process, like life, is fluid and unique to you. Be patient with yourself as you try to figure out what to do next. Don’t put pressure on yourself to ‘get over it,’ or preemptively offer forgiveness. There are no time restrictions. Talking about it and processing what happened is most helpful in starting the healing process. You’ll heal and be happy again on your own time.
@PandaSketch42
@PandaSketch42 3 года назад
Thank you for these words.
@TanvirAhmed24
@TanvirAhmed24 3 года назад
@@PandaSketch42 My pleasure.
@milind6621
@milind6621 2 года назад
Perfect words
@TanvirAhmed24
@TanvirAhmed24 2 года назад
@@milind6621 Thank you.
@mervesahinn13
@mervesahinn13 3 года назад
Rule 1: if they cheated on u,dont be so stupid and let them go
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
Couldn't agree more
@needsomedetoxforgate
@needsomedetoxforgate 3 года назад
i dont know about other people but i am a kind of person who does not forgive .if someone hurt me then they should get ready for worse which will come in their life sooner or later.
@user-pq4uw6pe4k
@user-pq4uw6pe4k 3 года назад
Definitely
@kartikyadav701
@kartikyadav701 3 года назад
Right
@Idgafap_dilip
@Idgafap_dilip 3 года назад
@@needsomedetoxforgate agree with ya
@bizdrip-truebusinessknowle9068
@bizdrip-truebusinessknowle9068 3 года назад
It feels bad.. but life goes on and so should you. There is always someone better
@PuraFilmus
@PuraFilmus 3 года назад
Well, I can tell you: there is not. There is simply nobody.
@MisterPol
@MisterPol 3 года назад
If you read this, I hope you have a very successful week! 💯
@MisterPol
@MisterPol 3 года назад
@@oshilh38 it can be difficult but eventually you will get over them. Take care 🙏🏼
@zealottrue
@zealottrue 3 года назад
Love ❣️
@lhunkhohaokip7738
@lhunkhohaokip7738 3 года назад
This is exactly my real story 😭 everyone who read my comment please do remember me in ur prayers 🙏🙏🙏
@joycewalter4144
@joycewalter4144 3 года назад
My relationship was restored by a powerful Dr who helped me got my partner back permanently with more love and commitment. He can also help you and bless your relationship perfectly❤❤💕
@joycewalter4144
@joycewalter4144 3 года назад
Whatapp him,,
@joycewalter4144
@joycewalter4144 3 года назад
+1 4 7 8 2 4 1 0 3 8 7 ..,,,
@joycewalter4144
@joycewalter4144 3 года назад
+ 1 4. 7 8 2 4 1 0 3. 8 7
@lhunkhohaokip7738
@lhunkhohaokip7738 3 года назад
@@joycewalter4144 thanks for caring me but I'm moving on to single life a healing day by day 🙏
@Ladyjojo695
@Ladyjojo695 3 года назад
The worst feeling ever. Then you live for years never feeling good enough or able to trust anyone again. They turn everything around to make it all about you not giving them enough. Don’t forgive a cheat. They just do it again and make the pain even worse. For anyone whose been t cheated on you are good enough and you deserve better. Don’t betray yourself and ignore the truth. Cheating is a choice. So leave them and love yourself more. ❤️
@tenzindalha5440
@tenzindalha5440 3 года назад
I was in relationship fr five year with a girl..she promised me so much that she will never leave, yet in the end she cheated on me with an other boy, i still told her i will forgive her mistakes but she still ignored all my words and blocked me from all the apps, spent a lot of night crying, doubting myself.. heartbreak really changes a person no matter how strong a person is...im still not moved on yet..but im hoping i will see the sunshine soon..till then i have to keep on bear the pain. Ps: Feels good to share.. we all are different people with our diff lives..but its the same pain that brought all us together right here..don't worry every one of you will heal as the time goes. Just have faith in yourself. bless you.
@lordcathankavanah7786
@lordcathankavanah7786 3 года назад
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@lordcathankavanah7786 3 года назад
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@vspeupeu1443
@vspeupeu1443 3 года назад
How can they do it being in a relationship from 5 years and they do break up? I always try to find answer of these things,the person with whom you shared a lot of memories, your good and bad,everything with them, then why they do this? I was also in a relationship it was short,the person to whom I loved he was cheater within same time he has so many girlfriend, n i didn't know these things,I can understand your feelings that how painful this situation is when you truly love someone,but dude I think the person who ignore your love for another guy,she doesn't deserve you, God bless you may God remove all pain from your life. My English is weak for that I am sorry🙏
@goodshepherd3508
@goodshepherd3508 Год назад
I can say that when we put that person on pedestal that's why the person feels like celebrity and treats us like trash, and this is the most painful when she rejects and ignores. But I can say that this are painful moments that builds us up instead of tearing us down. It develops in us the ability to handle with anything that happens. But how we choose to react to this situation really matter.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 Год назад
Tenzin Dahla, Did you treat her well? Did you make time for her? Did you LISTEN to her? Did you TAKE HER SERIOUSLY? Did you truly pull your weight with housework and childcare? Did you support HER career, dreams, and ambitions? Were you a considerate lover? Were you affectionate and attentive? Were you truly romantic, not worthless, impersonal, mass-produced, ten a a penny 'gestures', like flowers, chocolates, jewellery, or meals out'? Or, did you demand loyalty, support, and affection from her, whilst being lazy, mocking her, disregarding her, never lifting a finger for housework or childcare, going out drinking with your mates every night, being sexually rough, and selfish, demanding sex on tap? The latter, I suspect. Men on Reddit always claim to have been saints, and refuse to take responsibility for THEIR behaviour, and THEIR contribution to, or cause, of break ups. Cue the usual abuse, sarcasm, name calling, patronising, and ridicule, because, shock horror, a woman, and a non-American, dared to comment. None of you have the balls to reply in a civil manner..
@machomota
@machomota 3 года назад
Don't be a simpleton. If your girlfriend cheats, that relationship is history
@heartsquaremusic2953
@heartsquaremusic2953 2 года назад
If she cheats in the absence of past parental issues or past trauma/personality disorders (meaning, otherwise normal/well-adjusted), it means her smv is higher than yours. The MOMENT her smv is higher and preselection is not immediately present as a buffer, hypergamistic impulses are triggered which actually present as narcissism/borderline and even bipolar disorder. In the wake of such events, you must accept that, in order to once again have a pair bond with someone as attractive as she was, you need to level up your physique, income, social status and even hair/height.
@Vera-dg3hf
@Vera-dg3hf Год назад
@@heartsquaremusic2953 youre on point with this comment. You described my ex.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
@user-hk2fc4jv2g Год назад
Yet you think it's fine for MEN to cheat on female partners. Sickening.
@machomota
@machomota Год назад
@@user-hk2fc4jv2g Listen; if both men and women cheated on their partners, that's the end of the relationship. It goes both ways, miss.
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
@user-hk2fc4jv2g Год назад
@@machomota Wake up to the 2st century. Women are not 'Miss' or 'Mrs' now.
@brokerthanyou1
@brokerthanyou1 3 года назад
Thank you I went through this I feared being alone. It took leaving after being cheated on then I learned my self worth, learned how to be alone. It took 10 years of abuse and heartbreak but I finally found myself
@sialee5926
@sialee5926 3 года назад
Bad things always happen to good people.
@pathfinder750
@pathfinder750 3 года назад
then fuck being a good person. That's basically the lesson you get from that.
@goodshepherd3508
@goodshepherd3508 Год назад
But how good people handle that really matters. Ability to cope with anything that happens really matters.
@elcristoph7380
@elcristoph7380 Год назад
bad things happen to everyone, weak people just don't know how to move forward..
@christianferrer6004
@christianferrer6004 3 года назад
The fear caused me to blame my own self for my partners actions. I felt that one
@ilovegoddoyou7003
@ilovegoddoyou7003 3 года назад
Life is better when you are happy But life is best when other people are happy because of you! Be an inspiration. 🙏❤
@WE_LOVE_OIL
@WE_LOVE_OIL 3 года назад
My life sucks
@oliverscott7183
@oliverscott7183 3 года назад
Everything thing they say here about @elena_who_codes on instagram is entirely true , I'm really glad I found her , thanks to her i am out of a bad relationship I never know my boyfriend had been using me until today, I feel heart broken💔❌
@POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE
@POSITIVEMILLIONAIRE 3 года назад
I don't know who Needs to Hear This but " Greatness is often built when no one is watching ". So don't give up and keep going
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Thanks
@hannahnymous
@hannahnymous 10 месяцев назад
Thank you 😊
@russpeaknuckel9525
@russpeaknuckel9525 3 года назад
Definitely my ex-girlfriend , ..I'm glad I saw this video it makes me feel so much better
@ramon78433
@ramon78433 Год назад
Mines too
@TakeBackYourMind997
@TakeBackYourMind997 3 года назад
However your relationship ends, it's never because you're not good enough for someone, it's just that you're not the right fit for them. If they've cheated on you, then no one is the right fit for them at the moment, not until they sort out their own issues that led them to do that. It's not your fault!
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
@gurudra
@gurudra 3 года назад
You need to learn to love yourself, only then can you love anyone else
@ScarletFever109
@ScarletFever109 3 года назад
I’m still learning to love myself even despite others trying to pursue me.
@mono1534
@mono1534 3 года назад
BTS💜
@amanpotdar
@amanpotdar 3 года назад
@@mono1534 what's BTS
@mono1534
@mono1534 3 года назад
@@amanpotdar it's is largest boy band and K pop group
@dilfuzashukurova6145
@dilfuzashukurova6145 3 года назад
Life doesn't consist of only men. I am single and the happiest woman in my life. I've got sweet family, mum dad , bro and sister-in-law. They are my world. Enjoy every moment of life my friends. Life is given only once... Nobody deserves losing your brilliant nerves ❤️🕊️💞
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Exactly
@dhiaajalloul9994
@dhiaajalloul9994 3 года назад
I totally agree
@cathrinekatsigianni8823
@cathrinekatsigianni8823 3 года назад
They run after women like that and when someone is good to them they re not interested.. Tough luck!
@nashbreen
@nashbreen 2 года назад
This hit home. Unspoken expectations and lack of communication are relationship killers.
@Tracys2cute
@Tracys2cute 3 года назад
Dude you deserve someone to be loyal to you without begging, you need to be with someone that is willing to be loyal to you just because they love you. Don’t cry over a girl who simply can’t be loyal to you.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 2 года назад
He was neglectful. He ignored her, never took any interest in her work, never complimented her. He made only token gestures after she raised the problem. A bowl of cereal, a ten a penny meal out. These are standard, empty, gestures. If he had truly loved her, he would have made time for her, took a real interest in her work, complimented her, made gestures that were personal to her, and took time, thought, and effort. He did nothing.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 2 года назад
If this were a real situation, she deserves a man who pays her attention willingly, listens to her, takes her seriously, supports her dreams, ambitions and career, compliments her, makes truly romantic, personal gestures, NOT bowls of soggy cereal, or flirting with other women at posh restaurants, and truly pulls his weight with housework, and is a thoughtful, considerate, lover, NOT a 'man' who ignores her, disregards her, makes her feel like crap about herself, and who thinks that boiling an egg, ONCE a year, or throwing a shirt in the general direction of a washing basket, ONCE a year, is enough.
@srichey444
@srichey444 3 года назад
"If you put more Faith in God, instead of in people, when they let you down you'll be disappointed, but you won't be devastated". -Joyce Meyer-Evangelist
@amputee1967
@amputee1967 Год назад
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@sd02
@sd02 3 года назад
Yeah I don’t have the time and energy... if you cheat then I won’t even bother shouting or talk about it. I’ll just simply leave, move on to the next thing. You’ll be nothing but just an acquaintance to me I’ll simply remove memories that I made with you from my mind I can detach very quickly and swiftly.
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
I'll do the same as u. Don't have to waste energy on those cheaters who doesn't a bit of your attention at all. Just wipe them off from your memories and move on. I agree.
@shelveswithstories13
@shelveswithstories13 3 года назад
Very well said.
@williamsjames3002
@williamsjames3002 3 года назад
Life can be so hard especially when it comes to choosing life partner It seems so hard been through ups and down It is hard for me to trust again I built my self and discovered my self Now I want a Good relationship A God fearing woman One I could trust and love I hope I find one soon Distance is not an issue but must be God fearing
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Well said
@williamsjames3002
@williamsjames3002 3 года назад
@@IshaSharma11 can we be friends??
@AStarAlmost
@AStarAlmost 3 года назад
This video also goes to show, if you’re in a toxic relationship and you hate how your partner is constantly bringing you down, just break up. Either leave, or get rid of them. One day, you’ll end up thanking them for making you a better person.
@Codyk03
@Codyk03 3 года назад
No matter how much you feel like you need someone in your life that’s not the case. Don’t be sorry for the cheaters, they will never stop and don’t really care about and only want use you and then they’ll move on to the next person. Cheaters don’t deserve second chances, no matter how hard it might be don’t let that person get away with it and you can live without that person since it’s clearly not meant to be.
@ravibhosle8478
@ravibhosle8478 3 года назад
If u r thinking to hold on someone to urself, pleading them not to leave you!! This is the time to realise ,that u r with wrong person!
@Neophyte_me
@Neophyte_me 3 года назад
Don't worry it's not end, life goes on ⚡
@pramukhasl6497
@pramukhasl6497 3 года назад
It's better to be alone and focus on the dreams and career than this relationship which is null and void Stay safe Keep social distance with both corona and the people who are fake in ur life
@squeen988
@squeen988 3 года назад
My friend got cheated on by his gf two years ago. They were in a long distance relationship. I feel so bad for my friend. His gf was my best friend by the ways. She moved schools, and got a new boyfriend while still in a relationship. Now, he's happy with another girl who is faithful to him. Never cheat on your partner or you may have to face the consequences
@chandank439
@chandank439 3 года назад
Exactly my story...Jay. However, I do believe that whatever happens happens for good and this belief gives me the strength to embrace the pain.
@brendacampbell8438
@brendacampbell8438 3 года назад
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@eagleseye6576
@eagleseye6576 3 года назад
In most people life this will trigger spiritual awakening. Its will be a dark night of the soul. But for sure u will come back to yoir personal power. Keep going forward, no turning back. Whatever happened was for a reason. Thank them forgive and heal yourself and move on. A bright future awaits you.🌻
@your_lastdestination1859
@your_lastdestination1859 3 года назад
It truly believed that everyone wants best life but no one wants act.
@Februarybaby68
@Februarybaby68 3 года назад
People who cheat on their partner are not nice people! 🤨😠
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 Год назад
Nor are people who neglect, and ignore, their partner.
@ihatefacebook31184
@ihatefacebook31184 3 года назад
You should never try to change or be better for somebody who not only cheats on you, but treats you like crap in the process. Cheating partners belong to the streets 😁
@user-hk2fc4jv2g
@user-hk2fc4jv2g Год назад
Funny how you only think that about women, but think that MEN cheating is perfectly acceptable.
@goodshepherd3508
@goodshepherd3508 Год назад
I can say that when we put that person on pedestal that's why the person feels like celebrity and treats us like trash, and this is the most painful when she or he rejects and ignores. But I can say that this are painful moments that builds us up instead of tearing us down. It develops in us the ability to handle with anything that happens. But how we choose to react to this situation really matters, Either we choose to become bitter or better.
@chaitanyareyansh6538
@chaitanyareyansh6538 3 года назад
Absolutely true " Fear of losing the person" with the expense ...even though they are miss treating you.... correct I can understand. Each of your videos is so realistic & true...The best thing is how do you analyze what you want is so important...
@BoundInChains
@BoundInChains 2 года назад
Heard stories about her disloyalty. Still went for her. She had never changed. Broke my freaking heart!
@SheilaTrueLove
@SheilaTrueLove 3 года назад
When someone cheats on you, nine times out of ten it's because you're NOT what they REALLY wanted. When they say "Settling Down ", that's exactly what they are doing; SETTLING for someone they really DON'T want.
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
@DJvish01
@DJvish01 3 года назад
Totally agree with you 👍
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
@@DJvish01 have you contacted him and what did he say
@barbaramawinwin5287
@barbaramawinwin5287 3 года назад
Bad things always happen to innocent people.If you know someone is cheating you then let him out of your life.
@dhiaajalloul9994
@dhiaajalloul9994 3 года назад
But what if the cheater changes his behavior(becomes a good person/promise to never cheat again...),do you still let them go?or forgive that person or start a new life?
@korger1481
@korger1481 3 года назад
@@dhiaajalloul9994 I’m guessing someone cheated on you? You’ll never forget.
@abhishekg066
@abhishekg066 7 месяцев назад
Did you forgot? Still with same person?​@@dhiaajalloul9994
@heartsquaremusic2953
@heartsquaremusic2953 2 года назад
Choose wisely who you build a life/family with. Wise words.
@endermenon4836
@endermenon4836 3 года назад
Girlfriend: "yOU dOn'T evEn NotiCE mE" Also girlfriend: *is a jealous, ungrateful, hypocrite*
@richardfair5455
@richardfair5455 3 года назад
Hello
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 3 года назад
So it’s fine for a man to neglect and ignore, his partner?
@viavih2684
@viavih2684 3 года назад
@@tardislady9546 I don't think that's what Ender meant.
@thirukumaran598
@thirukumaran598 3 года назад
@@tardislady9546 so it's ok to cheat on him
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 3 года назад
@@thirukumaran598 Try READING comments before biting someone's head off.. I never said it was ok to cheat, I pointed out that he neglected, and ignored, his partner. Are you saying that neglecting, and ignoring, a partner is ok?
@gauravbhan
@gauravbhan 3 года назад
It's so easy to dump someone and walk away when they outrightly cheat. But things become so confusing when our partner is low on self esteem, in depression, and seeking validation all the time. On one hand the first instinct is to stick around and help them, but it becomes exhausting over time. It's very important for both partners to have a healthy self esteem and work as a team.
@airric166
@airric166 3 года назад
Exactly.. married 8 years and she betrayed me for over a year while breadcrumbing me and Future faking with counseling. I found out from her own nephew as he couldn't stand to see his aunt treat me like shit. Kicked her out and it's only been 4 months. Karma has got her though. No family support , no real job, staying at a girlfriend's apartment and isn't even on the lease, depressed, with a suicidal daughter and another from previous relationships. No help with child support and she's turning late 30s. She had some one like me who was stable and owned house, cars etc. I'm trauma bonded but know right now that the way she discarded me and all the shit and pain she gave me especially at the end. She belongs to the streets. I rather be single then be with that TOXIC person again. Thank God and all the people who support me including her entire family.
@andrewtan2598
@andrewtan2598 3 года назад
I love you Jay shetty. You've been saving my life, my mental health. These videos are as real situation as it can get
@atvidyas4744
@atvidyas4744 3 года назад
The best part - the explanation given by Jay in the end.... Awesome...so much of love
@lecrossiant4840
@lecrossiant4840 3 года назад
Once a cheater always a cheater.
@needsomedetoxforgate
@needsomedetoxforgate 3 года назад
☜(゚ヮ゚☜)
@thomas_malpass
@thomas_malpass 3 года назад
This hit so hard. Literally a video of my life except we were already married and separating at the moment.
@DrBrunoRecipes
@DrBrunoRecipes 3 года назад
Many blessings of love and peace to all. Have a lovely day everyone 🌻
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Same for you
@iamgoddessoflove
@iamgoddessoflove 2 года назад
If you’re giving your all and it’s not enough, then you’re probably giving it to the wrong person. 💙RU-vidr That Helps People Overcome Toxic Relationships
@zohebpasha96
@zohebpasha96 Год назад
It's crazy the conversation his friend had with him was exactly the conversation my best friend and I had. I wish I listened, 1 year later she cheated on a 'girls night' and I'm so devastated.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 Год назад
She dared to say 'hello' to someone at an event, and his friend labels her a flirt and a cheater. What planet are you on?
@nishan125
@nishan125 3 года назад
You know, it hurts. When you see your beloved is betraying you in front of your eyes , badly, so badly, you felt like you've lost everything and low self esteem occurs at that point of time. But when you'll liberate him/her , you'll be actually happy because you'll be your ownself then. You will not be burdened.
@lordcathankavanah7786
@lordcathankavanah7786 3 года назад
Get back your ex lover in less than 3days
@nishan125
@nishan125 3 года назад
@@lordcathankavanah7786 Gone crazy or what! 🤨
@StarEssences
@StarEssences 3 года назад
Partners who de-value their mate and fail to share their true thoughts of what is occurring in their relationship. They did not value me as a mate, my father continues to think poorly of me; all I have to do in the near future is focus on my own concerns and needs.
@alphyzqrw7222
@alphyzqrw7222 3 года назад
I've gone through alot in relationships and I've became completely APD (Avoidant Personality Disorder). I'll just deal with my emotions on my own. World is the worst place to be
@Steve-cb8nw
@Steve-cb8nw 3 года назад
Never, ever beg a woman to stay with you... Matter of fact stay out of relationshipss all together worked for me.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 Год назад
Yet you think that women should beg MEN to stay. Sickening double standards.
@millicentevans9232
@millicentevans9232 3 года назад
Jay thank you for your wisdom spending time alone and healing yourself in prayer. And seeing clarity is the best thing ever. Never blame yourself for a serial cheating partner someone you build your life on leading you up the garden path to heartbreak. Thank God I can stand up and say I will never allow anyone to let my face touch the ground. It’s good to see that person for who he really is and to know my size 6 shoes will never walk into his path Again. They say never hurt the hands that feed you. I am over such a evil hearted and dangerous individual. I know I am not perfect but I would never go arround hurting peoples beautiful daughters. The way I found out that a evil person heart of stone could do. My mother was right in all she said to me. But you get blinded. God saved my life and I will never get in contact with the devil himself. Ghost as you have been doing continue no one miss. A dispicable human being. God will always lead you to better. And I am thankful and very happy I AM STILL STANDING. 🙏😊🙏
@kishankushwaha6673
@kishankushwaha6673 3 года назад
You opened my eyes ......... The ex who betrayed me I'm still thinking to take her back but after seeing this i realised i don't want her anymore 🙏✌️
@matchesmalone9185
@matchesmalone9185 3 года назад
My ex's have all tried to come back but of they cheated I just say don't bother.....ever. Loving yourself sometimes means saving yourself from a so with false love for you. Who puts their inexcusable actions on you. Please be safe everyone.
@balikabhure5140
@balikabhure5140 2 года назад
This video is all about my life , I did everything I can afford to make her happy , but in the end u all know what happened
@mariejanequanico5497
@mariejanequanico5497 3 года назад
Yes move forward and value yourself. You worthed
@timorthelame1
@timorthelame1 3 года назад
That was me 20 years ago. I was that much of a simp with one particular girl. The only good news is that I didn't have enough for a ring at the time.
@Based42069
@Based42069 3 года назад
Im pissed that the cheater made her self the victim and the boyfriend actually gave her that power smh
@nanditapastariya9136
@nanditapastariya9136 3 года назад
EXACTLY
@valentinoKun
@valentinoKun 3 года назад
Every woman, likes to play the victim
@AStarAlmost
@AStarAlmost 3 года назад
Maybe it’s just me, but it’s these type of break ups that should be celebrated! From what I saw, she was just using him, and that absolutely cramped his lifestyle. I know he let fear get in the way, but sooner or later, he’ll thank her. He’ll thank her for helping him realize that toxic people like her don’t belong in his life.
@chijiokeochubili7279
@chijiokeochubili7279 3 года назад
I really really needed this. An amazing stuff here.
@IshaSharma11
@IshaSharma11 3 года назад
Truee
@lowellirish
@lowellirish 3 года назад
This guy USED to be me! NOT ANYMORE!! Alone for 6 years...and happier than ever!!
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
I can introduce you to the most powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
What sapp him
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
+ 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7
@Etigress
@Etigress 3 года назад
If you feel like cheating you need to talk to your partner and work out your feelings or break up with them BEFORE you cheat.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 Год назад
How can anyone talk about their feelings if their partner ignores, and neglects, them, as the man in the video did?
@tiffanyt4005
@tiffanyt4005 3 года назад
The moral of the story is if you loved someone only for them to stab you in the back, the hardest thing you have to do in the world is to set them free and move on with someone that would understand what you are going through.
@Richard-vq7ud
@Richard-vq7ud 3 года назад
I wish i had someone who cheated on me. They all informed me they were cheating with me.
@sasirao2725
@sasirao2725 3 года назад
It's not uncommon for people to spend their whole life waiting to start living
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
@prostyle1626
@prostyle1626 3 года назад
F.E.A.R. F ck Everything And Run This is what fear means to me.
@therawwarriorwithin6971
@therawwarriorwithin6971 2 года назад
One should never beg Communication is the key. Before there can be love, the foundation of trust must first Be established.
@javierortegon4425
@javierortegon4425 3 года назад
WHEN A WOMAN CHEATS ON A MAN ITS TIME TO MOVE ON ! MOVE FORWARD AND LOOK FOR A NEW WOMAN !
@sarahweaver7299
@sarahweaver7299 3 года назад
I had the problem of blaming myself even after I had broken up with him.
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
I can introduce you to the most powerful relationship restorer who helped me got my ex back permanently with more love and commitment. He can help you and bless your relationship perfectly
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
What sapp him
@aleciasimp9107
@aleciasimp9107 3 года назад
+ 2 3 4 9 0 6 6 1 8 5 7 3 7
@goofyjohn6191
@goofyjohn6191 3 года назад
Realize that person is of no value and wasn't complete and mature when you met them. There are 7 billion people on this earth choose wisely.
@shodan198
@shodan198 3 года назад
Don't beg mate when u see that stuff any sign of cheating as hard as it is walk and never look back
@krishnakumar-gg4iq
@krishnakumar-gg4iq 3 года назад
It gave me PTSD.
@VoiceoverByIvy
@VoiceoverByIvy 2 года назад
I cant believe I've searched for this after being in a happy strong relationship for 8 years. I believe now that whatever you do, you can neve be enough to someone who wants to cheat on u🥺 pls pray we can overcome this
@vitd5283
@vitd5283 3 года назад
she cheated, why did she turn it around on her husband? And then he apologized to her? And he begs her to stay?
@quickmaz
@quickmaz 3 года назад
Because she's a narcissist, and that's what they do, turn it around to the other person. They don't take accountability and they don't see that they did wrong.
@mista589
@mista589 3 года назад
@@quickmaz it's a headfuck for sure lol. The only position of strength is walking away, but that's the hardest part when your blindsided, and you get gaslit like a motherf$#@er.
@quickmaz
@quickmaz 3 года назад
@@mista589 FACTS 💯💯
@phiethoang2388
@phiethoang2388 2 года назад
That was literally the most hilarious part of the story.
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 2 года назад
@@quickmaz You would never call a MAN a 'narcissist, if a MAN had done this.
@RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq
@RobertoAlvarado-ok6kq 2 года назад
What an amazing presentation ! Saw my self few years ago . Guys it worth it , I went thru the pain is terrible but it will be a miserable life if you don't let them go . A women should be thanking God for sent her you Every Day. Never settle for less.
@husainabelloajir364
@husainabelloajir364 2 года назад
I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate
@husainabelloajir364
@husainabelloajir364 2 года назад
He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay
@husainabelloajir364
@husainabelloajir364 2 года назад
Whtsaap him"**
@RohitKumar-ji8lk
@RohitKumar-ji8lk 3 года назад
I don't understand why is it so difficult to talk to your guy/girl if it's not healthy between you two. Where are your efforts to fix it ? If you aren't interested to continue then do the closure & move ahead in your life. I think it's about lack of intelligence/maturity/sense that you sneak out to grab some attention from other person temporarily without thinking about its implications on yourself or if your partner gets to know. Weak minds tend to do this. Well, I am a victim & justification I get is 'its harmless & we were not doing sex' from the partner. Is cheating about getting physical ?!! I gave her a chance but later couldn't resist upon the same justifications whenever we fight so I gave up & came out of it. I don't know what am gonna do next but I love myself & having faith. All the best to me, I am awesome 🙂.
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
I agree with your statement. If not happy then move on instead of backstabbing your partner.
@RohitKumar-ji8lk
@RohitKumar-ji8lk 3 года назад
@@dallasyap3064 if he dint do good by not understanding you, did you make him understand? What good are you doing by seeking happiness outside! Toxic partner & their toxic mind then stupid justifications. It's better to step out of such relationships. But again, it's not easy to live alone, what's the remedy ? How to fill the void?
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
@@RohitKumar-ji8lk yes toxic partner with a toxic mind then come up with stupid justification. Living alone may not be easy, but its definitely better than living with a toxic traitor who is completely fine with backstabbing u.
@RohitKumar-ji8lk
@RohitKumar-ji8lk 3 года назад
Yeah! I am not happy 🤏however I am at peace ✌️
@dallasyap3064
@dallasyap3064 3 года назад
@@RohitKumar-ji8lk don't worry happy comes not just in a relationship, it comes in various forms. Peace is one of the first steps into happiness, u will eventually find happiness slowly. I'm glad u have peace, your happiness will come slowly, take care 😊😊.
@MrBeautiful2908
@MrBeautiful2908 3 года назад
One person’s ex is another person’s treasure.
@alexislaura9487
@alexislaura9487 3 года назад
Don't give up on life and the universe I know of a great man who helped you me fix my broken hear beat relationship and everything was restored to pormal in days without delay
@alexislaura9487
@alexislaura9487 3 года назад
+1=2=0=.4=8=0=.8=2=2=3=4....
@angelt9836
@angelt9836 3 года назад
Wow he was very forgiving in the beginning thats something that doesnt happen straight away in real life lol...
@talltree4252
@talltree4252 3 года назад
Cheating is all around us in many forms it's part of life's sources. just have to accept it,if it happens your partner is misleading you emotionally,unthoughtfully, financially, physically, verbally, deceiving the relationship you both have, then it's up to you not to lie to yourself it's what really matters move on or if stay and keep blaming who?
@VerenaSatriani
@VerenaSatriani 3 года назад
To the man: You deserve the best. The the woman: don't hurt your gentleman.
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
@tardislady9546
@tardislady9546 2 года назад
If he were a gentleman, he would not neglect and ignore his partner. He would make real gestures of love. A bowl of cereal, a meal out. These are standard, ten a penny, gestures, requiring no thought, time or effort. Real gestures of love are personal to the recipient, and require thought, effort, and time. Women deserve the best as well.
@bhawanpreetkhangura6886
@bhawanpreetkhangura6886 3 года назад
This comment section is giving me hope❤️
@ninja7206
@ninja7206 3 года назад
So she cheats on you in your house and you end up apologizing? How can a man not see how weak this makes him look? Simp, beta, door mat among the many terms that can be used to describe this behavior. If you don't have respect for yourself how can you expect your partner to respect you?
@rosskee1910
@rosskee1910 2 года назад
Thank you jay, this is exactly what has happened to me, I found out last night she was cheating on me, something I felt in my gut anyways, but ignored it..this video just made everything clear, my heart is broken but hopefully will heel, thanks again bro
@vishnur133
@vishnur133 3 года назад
Jay u r just Amazing 😇I was crippling to frame a solution with ma current scenario and boom u posted this content. Thanku from ma bottom of my heart🥰
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
Hey all hopes not lost I urge you to make use of the greatest relationship expert he can certainly put a smile on your face okay
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
He is very perfect at reuniting broken relationship I am a living testimony of the great spellcaster okay
@vishnur133
@vishnur133 3 года назад
@@hiltonbrowning1988 thanks yaa😇 his word are the ways to seak wisdom..hoping for the best..
@hiltonbrowning1988
@hiltonbrowning1988 3 года назад
@@vishnur133 ok dear
@vishnur133
@vishnur133 3 года назад
@@hiltonbrowning1988 😊🥰
@trbrm6319
@trbrm6319 3 года назад
I really love and appreciate Jay shetty's channel because he gives such good clear input conclusions(valuable lessons) at the end of every video
@drumsnbass
@drumsnbass 3 года назад
When a woman accuses you of any form of infidelity you can be sure she’s already involved with someone else.
@katvond6346
@katvond6346 3 года назад
Vice versa
@olessyasmarsa2422
@olessyasmarsa2422 2 года назад
Not true, I am generally a jealous person, I warned my partner about it, but I never cheated throughout our 15 years together
@dennytvv
@dennytvv 2 года назад
@@olessyasmarsa2422 I did same with my girlfriend who is now my wife. I never cheated on her while dating but she did and I only got to find out after we got married. I got crazy even though it's been long it happened. I was exclusive with her. It's still hurting me, cos I remember how I suspected her when I saw a chat then though not sensual but she denied having nothing to do with him.
@ywl1751
@ywl1751 2 года назад
I can relate his pain........
@KimMelanson119
@KimMelanson119 3 года назад
Love this, thank you 🙏🏻♥️
@ericgarrett1863
@ericgarrett1863 3 года назад
There is no excuse for cheating relationships are reflective and hard if something is wrong talk with the person before you cheat. If the person you're with in the relationship keep in mind the truth matters and it hurts moving on is not easy just move on be respectful.
@sauravsharma6411
@sauravsharma6411 3 года назад
I hearty ♥️ Appreciate ur work sir 😇
@pavanierza2762
@pavanierza2762 3 года назад
I have been cheated on knowing this fact i gave him another chance and he started to take me for granted .I left that toxic relationship because I was left with that only option ..Every day was so hard for me i used to feel heavy heart and breathing problem later after one mnth i started yoga and which helped me it took almost a year to forget him but i feel i made the right choice as that toxic relationship will be damaging mine and his life..But now i have a lesson with me that choosing the right partner is the most imp thing and just dont jump into any relationship..
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