Once A Cheater, Always A Cheater? Here's What You Should Know... 

Yep

They don't think they are awful ❤😉

Dealing with this at the moment and it almost broke me. Never thought this person would cheat on me after 2.5 years. Could have just broken off the relationship and go get fucked by the same guy but nope... Tell me she loves me and ghosts me the same day, only to find out a week later she's already fucking a sugar daddy.

@@coutureleotards they should. Someone who's not able to respect others, is not able to respect himself, and has no to be respected by anyone. Pretty sad, actually.

Thank God for Creating Hell

It is a choice but there are some people who don’t cheat again and they straighten up there act

But the trust has already been broken.

@@JoshuaCapin96 true. That’s why as the cheater you offer to go to therapy or give access to your location

Give yourself time to heal,trust me,ÿou will meet the right one

Everybody should be free and single and eliminate marriage so the Village can raise children

Has anyone ever told you look like Alyssa White Gluz.

Story of my life lol

Bruh 😅😂

It is possible but the number of people who are like that are very rare. Almost negligible. Majority men and women who cheat or have cheated in the past with their exes will do it again with you as well.

They are not capable of evolving

Yes its possible, a one in 100 cheaters.

@@the1stmetalheadthat why you don’t take people who have cheated - however long in the past seriously. I don’t care what anyone says. I have always and will always punish the behaviour eventually

They're welcome to try again, but not with us! Because we are above that. :-)

I learned the hard way these men will lie about not cheating.

​@@Alixir1228People (men and women) will most likely lie about something like that. I've not been married, but did date a separated man once years ago. At the time, in my 20s, he hadnt seen his wife in 3+ years, they just hadn't formally, legally divorced yet. We had mutual friends from high school so I knew all this to be true. He was in the military and his wife cheated on him and admitted it; hence the separation. But I guess the point about people lying or withholding it from new people, I'm not sure it's anyone's business. It's definitely an ethical debatable question, isn't it? How much IS anything in someone's past a new person's business?? 🤔

“Believe them the first time”.

Reminds me of the J Cole song. Fool me one time shame on you. Fool me twice can’t put the blame on you. Fool me three times f**k the peace signs load the chopper let it rain on you.

Genuine question. Why are you still with them if they make you feel unsafe? 🤔

@@taraz6786sometimes domestic violence is an element.

@@ekayaniperforms Oh god, just another reason to stay away from men. I honestly don’t know how women stay hopeful and look for male partners when they are so scary to be around, especially for long periods of time. 🤦‍♀️

@@ekayaniperformsjumping to conclusions about why someone feels unsafe is extremely immature.

Not really your business

You look good and have had sort of makeover but is it it the influence of living in the states? Ps you looked just as you’d before

Don’t normalize cheating please

Sorry but there is truth to this especially with social media and online dating nowadays. Almost everyone experiences cheating at some point

@@jennaprovenzale254 Of course :)

This is so common - to blame you in not trusting, when they cheat...

social media can say a lot about identity,also relations meet them in public places until u know them well enough and their social cycle that's basically all u need

Love this view! And I agree. I feel a lot of people tend to focus on the past… a lot. Yes it is important to acknowledge and take accountability for our past mistakes, but at some point we have to focus on the future. We can’t change the past, but we can change our future.

I agree, or what if it was a mistake someone made when they were a teenager? Does that depict their future as an adult in relationships?

i think he is just not right for you,he might enjoy spending lots of time away and that's okey,find someone who can be more present

Did she fall out of love with you? Did you ask about the reason?

sad to see how blessed a person was and still wasted it

Dude, I feel you. Trust me when I say that most of the time it has nothing to do with you in regards to cheating. I had to come to terms with the fact it was just her character. Taking into account all her actions and how she moved in the world added up to an attention seeker that needed continuous external validation. Not sure what your specific situation entails or if it even pertains to cheating, but it sounds like you were willing to do what it takes to make it work. Remember it takes two people who are willing to accept responsibility for their part in making a relationship work. You deserve someone who’s going to show up for you even when things get rocky. Keep your head up man and just focus on making yourself a better version of you so when that next relationship blooms you’ll be able to give/receive a higher love😊

Tell me more about it... i am so lost

Honestly, it's not that complicated. There's only one person who takes the choice to cheat. If there's a problem in your relationship, just be honest and talk about it. Or leave. Don't betray someone, lies are only a waste of time... And we don't have enough time available for this kind of stuff, you only live once...

it is sad to see people throwing away such a blessing to be forgiven, when a person does it more than 1 time they don't deserve it. you are an angel, I'm sure you will find absolute happiness in the path.

he can use therapy, but also open communication helps a lot. wish the best for you 2.

better to cut your losses now than later when your married and tied down with kids. He will do it again and you will wonder years later why you wasted your time with someone like this.

@@anthonypalafox2062 you are basically saying that people can't change,i assume that's your story and that's why you think everyone else must have the same outcome.

@@angeldust_4518 no they can change slowly but if they don't face consequences for their actions they are way less likely. Why do you think a lot people don't have a huge change until they hit rock bottom because everyone enables them on the way down.

If that person asks you and you say you haven't you're introducing lying into your relationship from the beginning. If you've done the work, explain it. The why's, the accountability, the changes you've made, and what makes you proud of who you are today. A partner that loves you or knows what it is to do internal work, will love you more for who you truly are today. If they don't, they might not be the right person that accepts you for who you are. If it's a new relationship or may be the moment you simply say I need to know someone more before I get into that heavy of discussion.

​@@succulentlife3343exactly this. People have the right to have dealbreakers.

@@succulentlife3343 absolutely, hiding details of the past is not right. A relationship is based on trust and honesty. If you’re hiding stuff from them now, who knows what else will you hide from them in the future? You need to completely honest about your past with your partner. Don’t hide things just because you want a commitment. It’s a very selfish thing to do. And if the truth comes out later in a relationship. It will hurt the partner even more. I’ve seen relationships where guys wanted to marry a traditional woman through the arranged marriage route. But the woman hid details of her past college exes and casual sex lifestyle from her arranged partner. And then when the husband got to know later about this. He felt devastated. That his wife was hiding things from him for over a decade. He felt his trust betrayed. He couldn’t even leave the relationship and had to spend a lifetime with a person he does even trust just because they got kids now.

Sad to have to agree with you here. Audrey is beautiful and smart, but there is something lagging and lacking in this format.

Respectfully disagree.

You are just insecure and promiscuous, not poly

It must be a weird balance to work with your wife. I always think it’s a bad idea to work with a spouse. I hope they can make it work

It’s his show.

So harsh brother.❤

Really?

I agree, I commented similar, not from a nasty place, but constructive feedback for his business

The decision to make Matthew’s spouse a co-star has significantly changed the dynamic of the content. As a viewer, I feel this shift was made without considering the audience’s attachment to the original format. This change seems to have overlooked the reason many of us followed the channel in the first place. It’s disappointing to see a successful brand being altered to this extent, as it now feels more like a dual act which we didn’t sign up for.

I love his wife in it. It gives a women’s perspective. The interactions between them is a compelling dynamic I thoroughly enjoy.

Disagree! His wife makes it more interesting.