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@beheshta_5953
@beheshta_5953 3 года назад
To anyone reading this: better days are ahead and happy moments will always come in your life ,You’re stronger than you can imagine ❤️
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
♥️♥️♥️
@fablihafashion6301
@fablihafashion6301 3 года назад
Same to you 🥰🥰
@beheshta_5953
@beheshta_5953 3 года назад
Rebecca Rushing your welcome honey❤️
@beheshta_5953
@beheshta_5953 3 года назад
Fabliha Fashion ❤️❤️🙏🏻
@Paula-be8ds
@Paula-be8ds 3 года назад
♥️
@milaalt1141
@milaalt1141 3 года назад
To all those going through anxiety, depression, OCD, CPTSD, or etc. Know that you are loved and that you do matter. You are special, and you are not broken, and you also deserve to be happy just like anybody else in this world because your are uniquely and divinely created.
@lisamccoy7227
@lisamccoy7227 3 года назад
Thank you for that, you have no idea how much your words meant♥️
@milaalt1141
@milaalt1141 3 года назад
@@lisamccoy7227 I'm glad it reached to you. You deserve to have that truth told to you and told to you everyday.
@milaalt1141
@milaalt1141 3 года назад
@Victoria Akoms I understand. It gets hard. Having a mental or other problem makes you feel less value or discardable but you are totally not. Their is only one unique and special person, "you." I get it having OCD myself.
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
Thank you for that :)
@cv947
@cv947 3 года назад
I don't think it's very polite to advertise another "coach" down of the video of another "coach", even if your intentions were good.
@dailydoseofmedicinee
@dailydoseofmedicinee 3 года назад
Research suggests that continuing difficulties - long-term unemployment, living in an abusive or uncaring relationship, long-term isolation or loneliness, prolonged work stress - are more likely to cause depression than recent life stresses.👍
@lisamccoy7227
@lisamccoy7227 3 года назад
I would fight to get out of bed before covid
@missmarisaferreira
@missmarisaferreira 3 года назад
That’s how I feel... when there is so much energy and effort to adjust and make things happen in your life ... when that doesn’t change for me ( it’s been years) there are moments of hopelessness for sure. I’ve been seeing an incredible therapist that I connect well with for sometime. She’s been MONUMENTAL to my well being and mental health. 🥰
@atiajanssens5654
@atiajanssens5654 3 года назад
Yes and all those things will be adversely affecting by the pandemic, so people experiencing depression will have a harder time now. I hope we can all get through this as best as possible
@spajas8092
@spajas8092 3 года назад
@@atiajanssens5654 you become numb at a certain point
@adelina7970
@adelina7970 3 года назад
@@spajas8092 yea thats me now.
@Anita-uf8lc
@Anita-uf8lc 3 года назад
I actually had the best advice from my therapist when I went to my talking therapy and she gave me a really good way to sort of get over my depression. She said: "Take a peace of paper and a black pen. It doesn't matter what size the papers or the pen is just take a peace of paper and a pen. Now take the pen and put a dot on the paper. It doesn't matter where on the paper just put a dot on the paper. Now look at the dot and either turn the page over or take another peace of paper and just write everything that comes up to your mind when you look at this dot. Take as much time as you need. And write as much as you want, whatever you want. What ever comes to your mind when you look at this dot. Now turn the page over to look at the dot again and compare the dot with your list and words of what you wrote about it. Take your time to do this. Now just look at the dot. And compare it with the white page that it's sitting on. " It did took me a while to do the list because I didn't know where this was going and what's the point of it but once I've finished doing all that she asked me to do and then she said: " You know that list that you wrote? All of those words and things is that dot. In reality it might seem really big and unbearable but it's just one small dot and the best part is that the page, the white page where the dot is sitting on.. That's you! Now when you take a step back and have a look at the size of the dot and at the white page who is bigger? The page... Or the black dot?.. you can draw a bigger dot if you really want to but still the white page will be bigger than the black dot! And that white page IS YOU!! All that list that you wrote about the black dot is still smaller that that white page because that list is the black dot but you are the page... Now the question is are you gonna let it to control you or you gonna step it up and do something about it?" I looked at the dot and said: " Hell no!! I am going to crush that flea size dot and live my life!"🤣🤣 She said: "Okay, and how are you going to do it?" So I wrote a log list of what I want to achieve in my life and what I want to do and every time my mood goes really low I do the black dot paper thing again and write my goal list even longer to prove myself that I am bigger than my negative thoughts and that I can do everything and anything I want because you live only once right?😉 So live your life my friend how YOU want it because it is your life not the black dots or anyone else's but it's YOURS!!! 💯💯So you better not waste it😘❤❤❤💯💯💯💯💯💯💥💪💪💪 xxx
@laluna424
@laluna424 3 года назад
My therapist exactly said the same but he had different analogy. And I felt more determined after that session.
@Anita-uf8lc
@Anita-uf8lc 3 года назад
@@laluna424 how did he put it?🤔 xx
@charlt111
@charlt111 3 года назад
Love this thku x
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
That's a great exercise! Either for tough moments or just for solving any problem😊Thanks for sharing!♥️
@zairamartinez5509
@zairamartinez5509 3 года назад
thank you so much for investing all that time to write this down and share it, just so people like us can have a way to actually improve our lives....I really appreciate you for having the kind heart to do so JUST TO HELP....THANK YOU❤❤❤❤❤❤
@tracyscott6078
@tracyscott6078 2 года назад
Know your are loved and you will get through this….you’ve survived worse. You’re strong. You’re brave. You’re a warrior. Be your own hero. You’ve got this. I love you. ❤️
@Ninitschga
@Ninitschga 3 года назад
I‘m suffering from both PTSD and chronic depression. I somehow managed to have a life that seems in order on the outside but man can a picture be deceiving... If you are one of those people like me - thinking something must be wrong with you cause everyone else seems to have it together - trust me you are not alone! What ever is your story, what ever you had to endure so far - you deserve to overcome this. You deserve a good life!
@TheOnlyHonor
@TheOnlyHonor 3 года назад
'it's ok to not feel strong' Thanks Matthew, definitely not feeling strong but sometimes you need a reminder. I miss those one great hours. Sending love to everyone who needs it, take care
@lovetomeditate
@lovetomeditate 3 года назад
For anyone struggling right now just know that you are not alone, and that you will get through this! 💛✨
@CartwrightFour
@CartwrightFour Год назад
Loneliness is both terrific and terrifying
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever 5 месяцев назад
Sadly it feel alone. No family and friends has helped, listened, and be there for me. Also people has made it stressful and depressing for me too. I don't feel I'm just depressed. My family and friends makes me depressed.
@justinebourke9449
@justinebourke9449 2 года назад
I'm so anxious, depressed and lonely for so long I just can't get a single positive thought, nothing of comfort to focus on. I can't find anyone who I can relate to and right now I'm even scared to sleep because when I do I wake after an hour at most with the most soul wrenching flood of doom and/or panic. If anyone feels like this then my heart goes out to you both in the hope of giving and of getting some comfort . No medication works for me and I don't feel any connection, help or real care or understanding from any counsellors that I've reached out to I so badly need some comfort from another human who understands and I want to be a comfort to someone who needs it. I'm praying for help for everyone suffering even though I'm not religious.
@HenriThibodeau
@HenriThibodeau 2 года назад
Thank you for sharing this, wish I could do something for you, can’t even help myself...
@justinebourke9449
@justinebourke9449 2 года назад
@@HenriThibodeau thanks for replying 🙏..that's the same way I am, I want to help others but I'm useless because I'm in the thick of it myself I hope you can find some bit of peace/ comfort.
@HenriThibodeau
@HenriThibodeau 2 года назад
@@justinebourke9449 thank you, you too
@ascorpio888
@ascorpio888 3 года назад
As someone with chronic depression for years, I appreciate your perspective. Thank you for a very helpful video.
@CarmenH-e3l
@CarmenH-e3l 3 года назад
" For everything there is a season " I don't know who any of you kind people are but wanted to share. Your pain. That suffering. It is NEVER for nothing. You have a purpose. God intends for you to use all of it. He did not cause it but will test our hearts as scripture says. 'What they intended for evil, God used for good" It breaks my heart those that suffer with anxiety and depression. Just know YOU matter and all this pain can somehow and will somehow be used for the greater Glory. I'm so sorry for all that pain. I'm thankful for His plan. I'm thankful for grace. I'm thankful for modern medicine to help regulate our brain chemistry. Your story matters to me. I'm thankful for you. ❤ ❤
@YasmineArt
@YasmineArt 3 года назад
Matthew, the only person online that says all the right things that deep down I need to hear and that help me, thank you 💜
@sihlem444
@sihlem444 3 года назад
🥺💔
@drjoshua7462
@drjoshua7462 3 года назад
+234. 9. 0. 7. 1. 5. 6. 8. 2. 8. 2💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
@kourtneyrhodes6398
@kourtneyrhodes6398 3 года назад
Sihle M understand
@KuozyMusic
@KuozyMusic 3 года назад
yes i totally agree. this almost brought me to tears 3:31 - 3:46 .What i have been feeling and @mathewhussey put it perfectly. I can spend an entire day with the heavy darkness and constant negative self talk. But there are moments, minutes in those days am able to pick up myself and be productive and its given me the strength to keep on going. "there's hope in 1 good hour, there's hope in that 5min"
@YasmineArt
@YasmineArt 3 года назад
@@KuozyMusic ❤❤❤
@SamElle
@SamElle 3 года назад
Yess I definitely isolate when I was going through a period of depression. Even though being around people is the last thing you want to do , when people pushed me to go to a social activity, I actually felt a lot better after that, especially after making a connection with someone
@abbydesouza4933
@abbydesouza4933 3 года назад
Being around people makes me feel so much better . Especially if it’s stepping out of the house to do something simple with a close friend / your partner it really helps .
@glueyossi
@glueyossi Год назад
Struggling with depression, ocd, tourettes, loneliness, trauma, eating problems, and a tough environment. Wish me luck, and luck to you all who have it worse ❤
@samiralush8991
@samiralush8991 3 года назад
What I really admire about you is that you make videos that resonate with the majority of us. I really have a lot of respect for u.
@lonewolfheart1697
@lonewolfheart1697 Год назад
Just cried my way through this... literally just hit breakup number 3 within 6 months after the end of my marriage last December. I had a fight with my best friend as well today. My heart is breaking and, at age 43, I'm terrified I will never find love again. I've been soaking up Matthew's videos like a sponge.
@stacyq7656
@stacyq7656 3 года назад
I used to be suicidal, until I learned to remind myself that is a permanent solution to temporary problem(s). People always have options. Even if you feel like there are no other options, there are, I promise. 😀
@footyfan101ful
@footyfan101ful 2 года назад
I am happy you are still with us!!
@funnygirlever
@funnygirlever 5 месяцев назад
Yes many options and choices but when it gets really hard and people makes it hard. It goes back to one choice. Working on it.
@AndyLovesJimin
@AndyLovesJimin 3 года назад
Was literally just crying and going trough my daily emo meltdown. Thank You for this video 💜💜💜🥸
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
I was in the same condition when I wached this.. Now feeling so much better! You are not alone ♥️🥰
@JenniferJones-hw9wu
@JenniferJones-hw9wu 3 года назад
Much love to you both!
@maggieyang3833
@maggieyang3833 3 года назад
me too, don't know why i have to suffer so much
@anitatodorova8563
@anitatodorova8563 3 года назад
I do come back to this channel. Every week. It's unbelievable! Gives me hope. A shoutout to all you lovely people working on yourselves and Matt! We are doing it together. Xxx
@moniquelauren99
@moniquelauren99 3 года назад
“Managing our relationship with something “. Wow. Very well said matthew!
@AlexandraTapoglou
@AlexandraTapoglou 3 года назад
I too isolate when feeling depressed or sad. Ok, I find great relief in crying, but what I also do to fight it back is to go for a stroll on my own with a cup of my favorite coffee or tea to “accompany” me. I prefer both the city and nature. In general, I try not to stay indoors. I find this very helpful.
@iliannamamali3482
@iliannamamali3482 3 года назад
I'm not depressed, but you are a fantastic guy! Thank you for being in this planet!😊🥰😘
@CaraK003
@CaraK003 3 года назад
The part about getting to be someone’s hero down the line is so true! I’ve only recently realized that I can get anxious, but my housemate is further along in this journey than me, and I benefit so much from everything she has already overcome and all the wisdom she has to pass on ❤️
@deborahchristine6855
@deborahchristine6855 3 года назад
I feel better when I do Two Things: (1) Sing praises to God ("put on the spirit of praise for [combatting] the spirit of heaviness", and (2) "That which is good and lovely....(etc), think on such things." These are both Bible verses that I have tested and they never ever fail. They work every time! But they must be repeated. It's not a "One and Done" for the rest of your life. The permanent healing comes with a lifestyle in which this is repeated daily. And if you're having a bad day, just repeat as much as you need it. Tell God he is good and thank him for being who he is. And sing of your thankfulness for all the blessings you do have. I was created to do this. So if I don't do it, it creates depression. I have a hole in my heart where God belongs and only he can fill it. When I sing praises to him it fills the hole. When I start to get sad again, it's because God is pulling me back to himself, saying, " hey where have you been My Love?... haven't heard from you in a while." The sadness God feels from my lack of connecting with him intentionally, is transferred into a sadness that I feel too. It's a reminder to go back to him (just like when we're in a relationship we have to keep going back to our partner in order to feel the good feelings that come from being with them....I can't just know that someone is my special someone but never spend time with him.... just knowing that a boyfriend is there and he is mine doesn't produce the good feelings if I never see him and hang out. It's the same with God, I have to be with him intentionally not just know that he's in the background.) So I just go be with God and all sadness just melts away. I believe we were all designed for fellowship with God. That's why I can have a great boyfriend and there's STILL something missing.. So oftentimes people try to fill the sadness hole with things other than God. But it's costly. And for me, nothing can ever substitute for the amount of joy that praise and thankfulness produces.
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@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
I can definitely can relate to that!.. The problem nowadys is only associating God with religion and not understsnding who He is and basically who we are :) And there are so many ways to connect to the Creator and to feel a part of that Infinite goodness, wisdom and love that brought us to this tough world to learn. Helping others, that was mentioned so many times, is one of the greatest ways to do that! As a jewish girl, I have so many Torah commandments that are tools to become close to God - but sometimes I feel Him more when I'm just walking outdoors watching the beauty of the nature :) or meditating or looking on children/babies, or doing any kind of self-development , even cooking healthier food! :) We always can just speak with Him in your own way and He will always understand, unlike many of human beings lol
@deborahchristine6855
@deborahchristine6855 3 года назад
@@estersitta one of the most important lessons we can learn is that there is a difference between being with God and doing something for God. Just like there is a difference between doing something FOR your boyfriend or just to spending time WITH your boyfriend. You can cook your boyfriend meals or clean his car or go take care of his sick mother for him. But that's not being WITH your boyfriend is it? That is SERVING him, with love actions. But in order to build the relationship WITH him, you have to simply just talk TO him. If you apply that to your relationship with God, all becomes clear. the way we get peace and joy is to be with him by having conversations with him about anything and everything under the sun. And by praising him when we feel sad. It's an instant remedy.
@SuperWoody33
@SuperWoody33 3 года назад
That was a brilliant explanation on mental health ❤ 43 suffered since a child. No medication ever used as was a secret sufferer. We have all got this. Please people remember it's normal to suffer mental health we all have it and we can all learn to live with it ❤ you've got this ❤😘
@TopGun_-
@TopGun_- Год назад
Wishing everyone peaceful thoughts and tranquil feelings. Learn to just be still and let life happen. Trust that this will all come together very soon. Meanwhile, know that you are loved and all of us here are pulling for you. Let go and relax right now, knowing that you are exactly where you are supposed to be at this moment in time.
@baghashvili
@baghashvili 3 года назад
Matthew please make a video on how to handle being single in a pandemic and the hopelessness associated with it (for people who can’t or won’t meet new people over apps). thanks 🙏🏻
@Beinformed99
@Beinformed99 3 года назад
Your video comes just when i need ❤️❤️
@bradycollins735
@bradycollins735 3 года назад
I love the idea of expanding upon the good moments and how us dealing with pain and managing that can make a difference for someone else. 🤍
@wildwoman4911
@wildwoman4911 3 года назад
Matthew, I appreciate your vulnerability here. I have had my own struggles over the years in healing emotionally from a dysfunctional family. And, as I was watching this I am thinking of a brave woman I am getting to know who has bipolar disorder and has a mission of outing herself to become a spokeswoman for bipolar people and to help educate the public about this disorder. Because of the adverse health impacts of her lithium, she went off her it is learning to manage her symptoms herself.
@julialewis7687
@julialewis7687 Год назад
Please, know how much this video means for me. how valuable it is to me, how thankful i am that i got to hear this from u. I have been having isolating episodes lately and this just opened my mind from falling in deeper into this hole of negative feelings. u rlly opened my heart, pushed me to continue to grow, develop,learn and live. Thank you. i appreciate it with all my heart.
@kkyang7515
@kkyang7515 3 года назад
Thank you Matthew! I have major depression and very bad anxiety. I’ve been seeing a therapist for a year and a half, but it just wouldn’t go away. It is part of reason why I had two breakups( out of three lol, one ended after a year) this year. My therapist always tells me to do things that make me happy, but I didn’t understand why since my brain is changed. Now I see. Thank you so much for sharing.
@dawnpearson565
@dawnpearson565 3 года назад
I have chronic depression and have dealt with it most of my adult life you made it very clear that depression and feelings itself are transient. Your spot on when it comes to looking toward positive input in your life and acting on it not only will it help your depression it'll make you feel confident. Thanks Matthew you're an inspiration to us women
@spacadet.
@spacadet. 3 года назад
my boyfriend was diagnosed with cancer today. it still hasnt quite sunk in. but its already so. so hard. i have a feeling that i'll be returning to this a lot over the next, well, who knows how long. i dont know when this will be over. i dont know how it will end. i dont know IF it will ever end, or what to expect. but i can try to look for and focus on those small moments of hope. thank you matt.
@ebethlouise2201
@ebethlouise2201 3 года назад
I'm so sorry. I just got word that my ex's cancer has metastasized. you are not alone.
@earthloveskin375
@earthloveskin375 3 года назад
Sending you love & healing. Your wishes of recovery will be granted. Hang tight. Love & hope from The Universe is on the way. 💕✨🙌🏻
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862
@jaxx-inspiregrowcreate2862 3 года назад
Sometimes when you’re depressed it’s a sign you need some deep rest
@Beinformed99
@Beinformed99 3 года назад
Guy on this pageee
@The_Moving_finger_writes
@The_Moving_finger_writes 3 года назад
Couldn’t agree more 🙌🏻😢😭
@BrunaSantos-ep8ko
@BrunaSantos-ep8ko 3 года назад
True
@heidilong8353
@heidilong8353 3 года назад
Not always. I'm depressed from a strange relationship & long term unemployment. I sleep often & a lot for years & years due to not having enough to do in the day.
@The_Moving_finger_writes
@The_Moving_finger_writes 3 года назад
@@heidilong8353 💔💔💔💔
@user-fp1on4bx6b
@user-fp1on4bx6b 3 года назад
Thanks matthew i appriciate you makeing me feel like im a hero for overcoming my clinical deppresion or at least managing it. It does get really scarry thinking you will always feel like this but what we forget to do is to step together and help eachother couse that is the best medicine.
@kateroth7154
@kateroth7154 Год назад
You are a good person for making these videos. Thank you!
@candicegriffith8522
@candicegriffith8522 3 года назад
When i was younger i was told i had manic depression, after 4 years of therapy with journaling i was told no it's cronic depression. It's been 10 years now since i stopped therapy. I have also had chronic pain since i was 8 years old. I have yet to meet anyone who can even closely understand what i hop thru everyday. Ive also been told my life expectancy is significantly shortened from the many medical problems i have.
@sharonb519
@sharonb519 3 года назад
There is hope in one good hour. I felt that. 💕
@lizogilvie8337
@lizogilvie8337 3 года назад
I think that this is such an important video, esp. at this time of year when lots of people are feeling low & missing loved ones. I’ve suffered with feeling low, postnatal depression & depression in the past. I’ve extremely lucky I’ve never had chronic depression but I’m familiar with the exhaustion of feeling like that. Lockdown has me desperately missing human ‘contact’ - hugs, kisses & being intimate. It’s a really hard time for everyone atm. Sending love out to all that need it. On a separate and totally superficial note ...nothing like a grey hoodie 😍
@stayslickwithkit
@stayslickwithkit 3 года назад
Absolutely stay stronger together. It's true how having an amazing person can change your relationship with depression, and can make us think that they've helped us resolve it, but it can still affect us. Matthew you've been such an inspiration for my content, especially during this time. I hope this reaches the people it needs. And anyone reading this, know that you're always only a click away from having a community to support you. Big Love.
@priscilla6977
@priscilla6977 3 года назад
Thank you soo much for this video Matthew, maybe you saved someone’s life today with this message...blessings!!
@patring999
@patring999 3 года назад
I'm a veteran and I have PTSD. We're learning this in Cognitive Therapy to take a step back and notice the patterns of our emotions and the level of intensity of these emotions. These traumas are like sticky notes that becomes less sticky when we keep pulling on it. We do the pulling by putting in the work of taking care of our mental health:theraphy, meditation, exercise, etc. It's a long way to go but I'm even more hopeful after hearing this video. Thank you🙏
@kellyannnoonan2674
@kellyannnoonan2674 3 года назад
I’ve been suffering with chronic depression for two years with agoraphobia. I’m a lot better than I was but this week has been a terrible week. I’ve stayed in my bed and not even left my room. I’m in therapy and as a therapist myself I believe so much in the power of talking. I’m trying to do the 30 day challenge I’m a member of your private group. I know exactly why I’m having a bad time this week but I don’t know what to do with it. I’m not seeing my therapist for another two weeks, three in total. I will not let this define me, it is not who I am, I’ve plans to go to Australia as soon as they reopen the borders to see my son his gf and my two grandchildren, that I haven’t met as yet. Thank you Matthew, thank you. Xx
@lorenarubio6624
@lorenarubio6624 3 года назад
This video reallly helped me this morning. I needed to hear that. Today I will be present in my body with all my emotions. Whether pain and sorrow ,even despair, or peace and joy, or anything in between. I commit to my healing and to focusing positively on those moments where I do experience happiness, peace and joy.
@triwid286
@triwid286 3 года назад
embracing....hard, but keep embrace things...struggling still but also still trying
@shirab788
@shirab788 3 года назад
I have been suffering from physical pain for two years and still have not found a solution to get rid of the pain, what you said in the video really strengthened me and it is really true that there are easier and harder days and need to focus on the easier days and what made us feel happier. Really thank you !!!!
@madeline9116
@madeline9116 3 года назад
Thank you Matthew. 🙏 You are so attuned to the collective by sharing this video. Almost everyone I have talked to are going through some difficult feelings and emotions right now. I rarely feel depressed or anxious, but lately I’ve been struggling, so thank you for reminding me and the collective that there is hope. I added this to my pep talk playlist.
@robertwillam6042
@robertwillam6042 3 года назад
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
@robertwillam6042
@robertwillam6042 3 года назад
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without any stress and delay he can help you restore back your relationship forever.
@robertwillam6042
@robertwillam6042 3 года назад
Text him on what's app
@madeline9116
@madeline9116 3 года назад
@@robertwillam6042 I don't want him back. lol. But I appreciate the offer.
@amiramahgoub
@amiramahgoub Год назад
I know what you talking about it. I feel it too. Esp now. When everybody is gone from my life What I'm facing during this time is being lonely.. Thanks for sharing and for your advices. It encourage me. I appreciate your videos. Its hard sometimes to open these thoughts and feeling with ppl who are close to me. I just came from the church and I met an old friend at the church this evening. I know them 4 almost 10 years , but we are not that much close to each others now. I used to share with them b4 .. Now I know they have partner and I can't spend much time with them. So i stay alone the most of the time trying to be positive and happy.
@SUSU-iq5qx
@SUSU-iq5qx 2 года назад
Thanks Matthew, I’ve come to the realization that the depression will come and it will go but to have access to someone so sincere and relatable makes me feel so much better in a lonely world thank you.
@vanessaacosta17
@vanessaacosta17 Год назад
Been feeling a bit off lately. Thank you for sharing
@موسوعةالمطبخ
@موسوعةالمطبخ 3 года назад
Just in time, really from my heart thank you
@glaizalandicho4746
@glaizalandicho4746 3 года назад
i love the advice you gave about depression. it was what i needed actually. thank you!
@joymae
@joymae 3 года назад
I mean, it’s another year having to explain to people why I am alone so yes naturally I think the seasonal depression is here
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
Lol yep it is exhausting.. But those people are not in charge on your life, they should give you some rest and do their own business (I'm sure none of them has a perfect life, even if it looks perfect on paper)😉 Stay strong ♥️ The right person usually comes when you almost gave up, I swear
@Bornforrebytale
@Bornforrebytale 3 года назад
hlo
@grx326
@grx326 3 года назад
Same
@J.5.M.
@J.5.M. 3 года назад
People shouldn't ask why are you single - that assumes the default is to be with another person! It's not healthy to always be in a relationship and I don't agree with how society seems to assume being in relationship equals "success" or that you're doing something right. We all gotta go at our own pace :)
@CrystalDatingCoach
@CrystalDatingCoach 3 года назад
You don't have to explain why you're Single. Any Woman can have a boyfriend. You're waiting for a High Value Man! 😉
@AM-lw6kl
@AM-lw6kl 3 года назад
Thank you as always. What really struck me here was that it is an opportunity to connect with others, to help others with what we learn.
@MusouWarrior720
@MusouWarrior720 Год назад
i love it when my youtube recomend me videos about big youtubers posting videos being sad or in bad mood. its like saying hey remembers these youtubers with big subscribers and rich people? they are in bad mood just like you so dont worry about it too much you are not alone
@melaniehubbard7095
@melaniehubbard7095 3 года назад
Exactly, I suffer from autism, my depression 😔 will never go away.
@ribidimi
@ribidimi 3 года назад
hugs, how old are you?
@tinkerz72
@tinkerz72 3 года назад
Matthew, I am a nurse working in a Covid unit at a small local hospital here in Colorado . I have had difficulty sleeping, all I see is the face of my dying patients when I close my eyes. My relationship failed because I can’t even relate to the man in my life anymore. I am isolated. I am not the same person I was 3 years ago. I’m just trying to get through each day, each shift. Thank you for this.. it’s very hard right now.
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without any stress and delay he can help you restore back your relationship forever.
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
Text him on what's app
@tinkerz72
@tinkerz72 3 года назад
Thank you, but in truth I don’t want my ex back. I left him.
@ebethlouise2201
@ebethlouise2201 3 года назад
I can't imagine, Joanna. I hope you get some support and relief soon. I know I am not alone in my gratitude.
@gabrielsalinas1077
@gabrielsalinas1077 3 года назад
Your words will help many others feeling these kind of ways going
@sandramichaelson1272
@sandramichaelson1272 3 года назад
Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too. Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I love and wanted in my life the most 💞💞☺️☺️💞💞
@sandramichaelson1272
@sandramichaelson1272 3 года назад
Whatsapp him
@sandramichaelson1272
@sandramichaelson1272 3 года назад
+2347030894892❣️
@siritalis4956
@siritalis4956 3 года назад
Thank you for this. I broke up with someone very special to me just yesterday. This helped keep me positive and hopeful
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
OMG 😱, i just got my ex back with the help of a spell caster,it worked without no delay.....✨✨
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp 💌💌
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
+2349020112341
@richelleagno6495
@richelleagno6495 3 года назад
Thank you Matthew! You have no idea how hard dealing with it especially now a days that we can't go out or talk much to a lot of people so that we can unwind, unfortunately. Let's all keep fighting and stay strong! 🤗
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
OMG 😱, i just got my ex back with the help of a spell caster,it worked without no delay.....✨✨
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
+2349020112341
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
text him on WhatsApp 💌
@kellylody7928
@kellylody7928 3 года назад
This advice has made a huge difference for me. I suffer from crippling anxiety and some days hopelessness creeps in.... however I will try from now on to see the good in the day even if it’s 5 mins. And understand even tho I’m anxious it varies in degrees - which in turn is something that brings me hope. I don’t know why I never thought of this before...... Words aren’t enough Matthew - But Thank you 😊
@katnisseverdeen2724
@katnisseverdeen2724 3 года назад
I just started an episode of depression recently and was struggling today to see the light at the end of the tunnel, then this video came up, I so needed this and am so grateful you posted this as it helped me today xo
@mahamnadeem3004
@mahamnadeem3004 3 года назад
Mathew Hussey I'm a big fan of yours.Such true things you ought to speak.
@marylennon1524
@marylennon1524 3 года назад
One of the true highlights of this year for me was discovering you and your videos. So uplifting and inspiring! Glad to be part of your community! I am learning confidence and competence! Thank you xoxo
@The_Moving_finger_writes
@The_Moving_finger_writes 3 года назад
Matthew is becoming my medicine literally on everything 🙏🏻 Your talk and suggestions always helped me and many of us all the time Thank you so much Matthew for saving many many souls in this tough time 🙏🏻 Will be grateful forever 💜❤️
@13to201
@13to201 3 года назад
Wow, He really hit the nail on the head with the whole description of what clinically diagnosed depression feels like. I was diagnosed with clinical depression/minor depressive disorder in my junior year of undergrad, I'm now in my late 20s and still struggling with it. I avoided dating and or relationships for so long, especially after I told someone I was suicidal and they told me I should just go ahead and end it if I was so depressed. That person is out of my life now, thankfully. But I always had this worry about getting into a relationship, going through a depressive or suicidal episode and having the other person say the same thing to me, that my former best friend said to me when I confided in them. I made the crazy choice to try dating someone during this pandemic, despite my fears about rejection and despite never having been in an actual relationship with a guy before. Long story short, it last a few months before we broke up. The hardest part is having my depression and anxiety come back even stronger after the break-up, but knowing that reaching out to him about it isn't healthy for either of us and moving on in our lives. All that being said, I wouldn't trade my experiences with him for the world. He helped me realize that it was possible for someone to like/love me, even in my darkest times. And as someone who has his own mental health struggle with anxiety, that there are tools that I can use to help myself and to help my partner understand what I'm going through and how they might be able to help me.
@julia.viterbo
@julia.viterbo 3 года назад
I have felt in this spot momentarily and I asked myself 1 question : What have changed on my life? , that made me realize that , I had changed as a person and what was on my surroundings didn’t match me anymore. It might me a simple question but sometimes is all it takes for you to work in your feelings! Hope this can add up to this great video!
@dare98
@dare98 2 года назад
Always been in denial about having chronic depression and therefore never took the time to try and learn what it even was. This is incredibly helpful advice! Now that I better understand what is going on with me it feels relieving to know there are things like this out there that can help! Thanks again!
@FabiolaVettese
@FabiolaVettese 3 года назад
This is so true, especially about the part that overcoming your difficulties helping others in the future. I had someone reach out to me thinking I was the one stealing her ex-boyfriend away from her, but because I had been through a similar situation and I was able to pull her out of her darkness of seeking to get revenge on the right woman and show her that that was not the best path to take. She may still be a little obsessed over this woman, but I'm trying to work with her to show her that this is not the way to a healthy future. Hopefully, she will turn around and see that the only way to happiness is to focus on herself. Love everything you do and represent Matthew. Keep bringing us the great advice that you do!! Much love...
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
Long story here
@FabiolaVettese
@FabiolaVettese 3 года назад
@@klintondonald6269 Whatever do you mean?
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
@@FabiolaVettese I'm sorry if you misunderstood me.
@lcco998
@lcco998 3 года назад
Thank you Matthew, I actually needed this. ❤️
@Vanjuska0212
@Vanjuska0212 3 года назад
Your channel is such a happy place for me Matt. If i could subscribe every day i would do it over and over again. 💙
@laylacollins4149
@laylacollins4149 3 года назад
I don't mean to be morose but I loved your line that 'our pain is the key to connecting to other people' because it's so true that we all have things in our lives that cause us pain, even people who from the outside look like they have it all figured out, could be experiencing pain about something you can't see.
@tomgg285
@tomgg285 3 года назад
I know someone who can help you ☑️☑️
@tomgg285
@tomgg285 3 года назад
Message him on WhatzApp ☑️☑️
@tomgg285
@tomgg285 3 года назад
+2️⃣3️⃣4️⃣7️⃣0️⃣5️⃣7️⃣0️⃣9️⃣8️⃣4️⃣0️⃣1️⃣✔️ ✔️
@joannacusi5128
@joannacusi5128 3 года назад
The current pandemic is a big factor why some people are depressed these days. I, sometimes, feel depressed. But I dont let depression rule over me. Thank you Mr. Hussey for the good advice.🙂
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
Hi Joanna, If you don't mind us starting a conversation kindly text back.
@joannacusi5128
@joannacusi5128 3 года назад
@@klintondonald6269 Hi Klinton🙂
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
@@joannacusi5128 thanks for replying me.
@joannacusi5128
@joannacusi5128 3 года назад
@@klintondonald6269Are you also an avid fan of Mr. Hussey?
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
@@joannacusi5128 yes of course, i have my post notifications on for his videos, been through a lot with depressions
@lunabechger529
@lunabechger529 2 года назад
A gronic depression CAN go away! As a teenager i got diognosed with gronic depression and thought it would never and. It took work but i did overcome it and so can you if you are willing! I had been really depressed for mannyy years, but with the right therapie i became a really happy person. Dont give up💪
@MsFrancescaF
@MsFrancescaF 3 года назад
The worst thing of being cronically depressed is that basically no one understands you. I did not say “help”, I said “understand”. Everyone says: be positive! Smile! It’s like saying to a guy with a broken leg to stand up and run. So you don’t tell anyone that you are depressed because all that positive stuff is irritating and because not feeling understood is a shitty additional pain. And because being seen as a loser is even worse. Amen.
@akankshamishra3318
@akankshamishra3318 3 года назад
So relevant Thank you Matt.. we don't only need relationship advice we need growth as whole.. ty for this video
@gaelynnvarney4663
@gaelynnvarney4663 3 года назад
I suffer from chronic depression and my boyfriend of 5 years dumped me a month ago for no good reason. I'm still grieving. He blocked me from everything so I have no way to communicate with him, though he mentally and emotionally abused me and I shouldn't want to communicate. But, my depression has got the best of me and I can't stop crying and sulking. How does one overcome this, Matthew? I faithfully listen to you and you do help me so much. I thank you for being on this planet.❤
@estersitta
@estersitta 3 года назад
I'm sorry girl! :( Breakups are so incredibly tough. You are not alone I promise! Keep sharing and speaking out, be around people who care even if it's online. Honestly, my best step in overcoming all kinds of shit and pain was to find one person that can really help, personally an professionally. It took me 33 years of my life to finally do that lol I'm so used to just being strong and positive and helping others, which is great and makes you feel much better with youself too. But I finally realized that if I don't help myself and fall to pieces , there won't be me to help others...
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
True love never die, don't give up anything in life all hope is not lost.
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
I know a powerful man that can help you get your ex back he helped me too immediately without any stress and delay he can help you restore back your relationship forever.
@chrischarles4112
@chrischarles4112 3 года назад
Text him on what's app
@LisaGemini
@LisaGemini 3 года назад
Thank you for making this, Matthew. The virus has isolated so many of us. It's difficult sometimes to have hope, even though the vaccine is very close to being here. The last nine months have been TOUGH.
@Hanna-rg1sy
@Hanna-rg1sy 3 года назад
Vaccine is not the solution it is a PROBLEM
@gitak3821
@gitak3821 3 года назад
Much in need for this video today.. dealing with chronic physical pain a bad news emotionally 😔
@hockeymadi1091
@hockeymadi1091 2 года назад
this dude is what keeps me alive some days
@Rahotep40
@Rahotep40 Год назад
I read all of the messages /comments and you all are amazing thank you very one
@itzjustjj
@itzjustjj 3 года назад
Thank you for providing captions to read in the vid!! It really helps. ♥️
@riivers8929
@riivers8929 3 года назад
Wow. I have been following you for a long time. In fact, 3 or 4 years ago I would tell all my friends that I knew about this “secret” and it was your videos. First, I want to say that what you offer women with dating and relationships is priceless knowledge. I don’t have a ring on my finger, but I’m also not trapped in the wrong relationship because of you. Two years ago I was at a very low point with substance abuse from chronic depression. I am now almost two years sober. The last few weeks I have been feeling pretty wretched to say the least. Because I do have chronic depression. And an hour ago I said to whatever higher power was listening “just help me because this is too much”. I have been talking to a new guy, so I came to your page to see if there was something about dating while not feeling so great about yourself. And then I saw that you had recently uploaded a video dedicated to just the subject of depression. I am in tears. But the good kind. And not only have you been a mentor in my love life, but now you’ve helped me with real personal issues. Matthew Hussey, you’re a gem of a human being. Thank you. Endlessly, thank you.
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
OMG 😱, i just got my ex back with the help of a spell caster,it worked without no delay.....✨✨
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp 💌💌
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
+2349020112341
@nightshade9977
@nightshade9977 3 года назад
?
@KNolsable
@KNolsable 3 года назад
We can heal and support others. Acting with empathy and respecting other ones feelings eventhough we haven't experienced them. I hope you to grow up and meet you more from the inside to reflect that outside ♡ You can!! 🥰
@SSR_LEON
@SSR_LEON 2 года назад
When a lot of problems comes at the same time...and each one is related to one another, it just sucks the life out of you. Breakup due to betrayal, blocks in career, family issues, social expectations.....all at the same time.
@kathrynmarsden2561
@kathrynmarsden2561 3 года назад
Thanks Matthew. That's a great mind set to change your relationship with those things, when for some of us it might not ever go away. And thanks for talking about those health problems in general. Sometimes I think there is still some stigma around them. But since, unfortunately depression and anxiety seem to be increasing, it's better to talk about it more openly, try and change your mindset about it, and also remember to ask for help.
@klintondonald6269
@klintondonald6269 3 года назад
Hi Kathryn
@MS-ns4ki
@MS-ns4ki 6 месяцев назад
I don’t get it
@curly2387
@curly2387 3 года назад
Thank you Matthew, I needed a video like that.
@Solivagant_AD
@Solivagant_AD 3 года назад
Everything you said makes so much sense Matthew...dealing with inner challenges is the most difficult
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
OMG 😱, i just got my ex back with the help of a spell caster,it worked without no delay.....✨✨
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp 💌💌
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
+2349020112341
@jesskween
@jesskween 3 года назад
Thank you so much for this. Means a lot to me personally to recover a bit from this emotional pain and depression I have this year
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
OMG 😱, i just got my ex back with the help of a spell caster,it worked without no delay.....✨✨
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
Text him on WhatsApp 💌💌
@lilyangel2896
@lilyangel2896 3 года назад
+2349020112341
@TatianeGarciaCoach
@TatianeGarciaCoach 3 года назад
Hi Matthew, I just wanna say that you have been an inspiration to me. Life is up and down, and when I feel low, you and your brother have always something to share that triggers my best self to achieve something amazing. I live in Ireland, and the weather here isn’t the most exciting as you may know. However, I am adjusting, and depression and anxiety kick in every time I put my guard down. Make sense? Single, living alone abroad is not always glamours. Thank you for everything!!!
@CN-rz2jr
@CN-rz2jr 3 года назад
Much needed for many of us. Thank you for posting this video! Golden!
@annepenaranda1287
@annepenaranda1287 3 года назад
This content help a lot of people who have been experiencing this problem 👍
@Betterboundariesnowteensupport
This is great value for so many people
@sushiluvrluvzme
@sushiluvrluvzme 3 года назад
As someone with depression her entire life, i used to hate the feeling and want to give up. I took psychology classes and even majored in it. Overtime I stop thinking it was a crippling illness but it is a part of who i am. It sucks more some days than other. Instead of seeing it as a burden, I see it as a flaw of mine just like any other flaws I have. It is a part of who I am and it is ok.
@sisadesigner
@sisadesigner 3 года назад
Please make more videos about this. It's really helpful. Thank you
@michaelmarquardotzen4241
@michaelmarquardotzen4241 2 года назад
I wish that men were welcome in your community as well 😔 not just women are sitting with a pit in their stomach every day, not feeling strong at all, let alone seeing light at the end of the tunnel 😔 thanks for.your supportive videos, Matt 🙏🏻
@danbaker7640
@danbaker7640 Год назад
The constant panic I feel knowing she is dating someone just to hurt me never goes away.
@sammargsarkhel6795
@sammargsarkhel6795 11 месяцев назад
I am feeling this now friend and the worst part is, I don't know if she is dating or not but clearly her posts indicate there's someone now in her life and also she was with me for 3years and its not even a year since our breakup but mere 9 months, hope this feeling ends soon
@evahoffmann5683
@evahoffmann5683 3 года назад
I’m glad I got notified of this video this morning.
@lex28lush10
@lex28lush10 3 года назад
What a lovely sincere man 🌟
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