Indian Parents , Unki Sewa And Next Generation 

Sir appko thank you bahut sara. Aapki videos maine regular dekhna shuru Kara h aur ek attitude me bahut change aaya h. Aapne ek video banayi thi jisme kaha tha ki apne 101 logo ko list karo and then cut people out. I have started that. I have also started noticing how most of my time was taken away by people who were absolutely free in their life and they were feeding on my youthful, cheerful positive energy. Aapki video thi jokes k naam par log taane toh nahi de rahe, i have also started calling out people on that, aur jo nahi sudhre unko block kar diya. Aapne ek alag video me kaha tha dosto ristedari isme mat nikalo ki kal ko kaam ayenge, time suckers hain bahut log. Toh ye bhi notice kara maine. Aur ab life mostly sorted lgti h. Time h, usme ya toh nature k sath spend Karo ya career ko dene ka and there is less clutter in life. .. Just wanted u to know that aapka work change la raha h. And for that I am grateful to u💞💫

Current senior citizens are main reason for divorce and social problems in this time. They enjoyed nuclear family and now expect joint family with same self centric attitude. This has spoilt many families by spreading toxin in their son's or daughter's married life... Hope in next 10 years our society will be better once these senior citizens will move to heaven.... HARSH BUT TRUE....

Some parents are so toxic by the time the children discover, its too late. The damage is done

A very important topic. My parents worked a lot to settle us. Even after settling they used to help and wanted to die without illness and our service. But it didn't happen. At the end both were bedridden for a few months and required service and attention. We did it willingly out of our love.

We are a 50 plus year old couple and we follow ur philosophy completely with our kids .. we hope to be completely independent as we grow older !

Aaapne mere 15 years ka guilt feeling dur kar diya... thank you sir for sharing wonderful thoughts :)

Such truthful statement no one will say and admit in Indian society.. Baghbaan effect was so spot on !!!!

Aapne is video se mera guilt khatam kar diya. Main apne parents se pyaar karta hu lekin vo bahut zyada kamiyaan nikaalte hain aur instruction dete rehte hai. Maine abhi unki saari baatein maan ni band kar di aur mujhe uska guilt feel hota tha. But aapki video dekh ke help mili

My parents are among those few parents,a blessing ...They are so calm and love us unconditionally...We all 3 kids always ask them before proceeding with any big decisions of life .. They give us guidance without seeing their own benefits..They both have great wisdom and we feel very positive and love sitting around them any time...They never ask for any help for themselves rather extend their hands for our help every time.

Excellent video sir!! I wish I could forward it to my in laws.because after my marriage (24 yrs back)my mil's tagline was,"ab tak apan ne bachchon ka kiya,ab bachche apna karenge"since then she is on that"sewa"mode.😃😃.I feel like,main apne pati ki parvarish ka karz utarne hi aayi hu

Mujhe to laga tha sirf humare parents hi aisa Karte hain humare saath but apki baatein sunkar to lag raha hai Har Ghar ki ek hi kahani hai aaj

Very Practical video sir but there's a catch here... Sir sometimes parents are not interested in learning in anything and play victim card everytime one say something to make them understand 🙏🙏. With due respect

Sir, the previous gen parents who are around 75 /80 are the most selfish .

Every word you said is golden. I was so confused just blaming myself and bitter all the time. Can’t believe how parents can destroy their own children’s life

Wish everyone gets a dadaji like you❣️❣️

Wow uncle ji....I wish aapke jaise samjhdar yaa apke 50% samjhdar bhi in laws jisko mil jaye wo bahu depression aur mental illness jaisi problem se bach jaye. Great work.

Uncleji if all older people think like you families will be much peace living🙏🙏🙏 hats off to you and your thinking

आपको डेली सूनने लगा हु बहुत अच्छा लगता आपकी बाते सुनकर आज कि सारी बातें मेरे घरवालो पर एकदम सटीक बैठती हैं मेरे घर वाले मेरी शादी ऐसी लड़की से करवाना चाहते है जो घर के सारे बर्तन साफ कर दे आने वाला समय कैसा है उससे उनको कोई मतलब नही है , वाकई मैं समय बहुत बदल गया हैं

Jo independent parents hai wo jyada khush hai....self respect k saath jeete hai

Problem is that some parents do not want to learn and become independent because fir unhe lagta h ki humne seekh liya to beta hume poochega hi nai... us scenario me kya karein? Unko sewa ka rona bhi rona h aur empower bhi nai hona hai...

Movies ka bhi thoda kasoor hai guruji...mujhe aap ek movie bataiye jaha bete/betio ki pareshaani dikhayi gayi ho...yaha movie banti hai BAGBAAN...BAGBAAN ek esi movie hai jise family ke saath milke dekho to 4 galiya to movie dekhte-dekhte mil jati hai... Kahi bhi modern human ki modern problem nahi dikhayi jati

The day we learn to be self dependent, 90% of problems of expectations will die naturally. The remaining 10% also can be solved if we put systems in place through learning and adequate monetary returns which the doer desperately wants. Nice topic Amitji.

So true Sir...also in India we have this stupidity of glorifying our parents....they are jus humans with their own faults...but nahi koi bhi comments section padh lo.... it's full of toxic comments like "parents must be given more importance than wife" etc..... imagine that poor biwi ka haal....the selfish husband is trying to make her repay the so called "loan" that he has taken !! She is an unpaid servant brought to do free seva of his perfectly fit parents.

My father is so dependent on my mom for almost everything.. Bank wrk, serve food ,mobile wrk etc He does bazarr and physical wrk outside and inside , help in cutting veg But can't do without mom, doesn't want to learn to use apps, only knows to talk on phone and everywhere

Sirji, this comment is on your most favourite movie Bhagban and am sure will be of great interest/information to you. Baghban is a remake of an old Kannada movie, POSTMASTER- which was released in 1964. It is a complete rip-off, including the famous 'broken spectacles" scene 🤣🤣🤣 What we in the south left behind in the 60's was recreated and glamorized by the Bollywood in 2003 😭 Regressive much? 😜 Love your channel, Sirji! Kabhi kabhi South ko bhi include kijiye ji 😀🙏

एकदम सही!स्ट्रेट फॉरवर्ड और सिंपल सोल्युशन.कई बार मै भी मन में यही बात सोचती हूॅं की हमारे हाथ पाव चल रहे है,कितनी अच्छी बात है!हॉं थोडी थोडी देरमें थक भी जाते है,स्लोभी हो गयी हूॅं,फिर भी यह सुकुन मनमें रहता है की हम अपने पाव पर खडे है.जरुर सर आजसे यह प्रार्थना भगवान को करुंगी की हमारे बच्चोंको हमारी सेवा करने की जरुरतही न पडे.आपके विचार सुंदर है,सही रास्ता दिखाते है.इतने सच्चे विचार ऐसे बातमें कोई नही बताता था.

the bestest part of the video for me starts at 15:49. Me bhut hi jyada pareshan ho chuka hu apne ghr ke mahol se. completely mentally exhausted

Uncle ji kash aapke jaise parents sabke hote.

Nice learning..the issue in our society is jo maine Saha wahi agle generation sahe..

Sir ji aap dekhne m to bujurgh lagte h pr aapki soch bahut hi young hai.great job sir ji🙏🙏

You are amazing Sir. Every parent material should watch this. The reality is they are happy. But they want to ensure that their daughter-in-law is not happy and should be struggling 24×7.

Thankyou SO much for this video... My parents have the idealogy of being independent and are actually happy in their life... Seeing world demand sewa I used to tell them why they don't demand.. It would actually make me upset.. I would find ways to do their 'sewa' ...But they say the same thing, we pray that not a day comes where we need sewa.. I'm even prouder of my parents today :) I'm one of those very few kids like you mentioned who go and ask for opinion of my parents for every small thing in my own freedom.. Not coz I was ever taught to do so.. But Coz of their wisdom and maturity..

Very nice words of wisdom..but I hope parents watch such videos and try to understand the situation of their children who are struggling in their lives...Instead of troubling the children,parents should guide nd support them

Humurous with great practical knowledge

Such a good piece of advice. I'm so grateful to my son who has bin constantly teaching me using paytm, uber & lots more before he left for Canada. Till date very patiently he on video calls explains whatever queries I have. His latest message is ' Mama please dont fortget to get your drivers licence before coming to Canada. ' we are fortunate to be blessed for having him in our life. Self help is the best help. I love watching your fun filled videos with great messages. With kind regards....🙌❣

Very nice and progressive content. Very truly said that ladko ko apni wife se seva karwani hoti hai apne parents ki, khud nahi karni hoti... I also feel that it's bit too much expection that a woman should do household chores, earn money, manage the home, attend to husband, and in-laws. It's unfortunate, and this is the reason we are so low in happiness index

Excellent, much needed video. Very sound thinking Sir, thank you for sharing your thoughts.

Very good sir Very practical advices

Bahut sundar Vichaar

The best video I've watched so far among all the motivational videos I've come across.

Jai Jagannatha sir ji. Excellent job 👏

I wish aapke session sab k kaano tak pahuch sakey... Life will be so peaceful if every body understand their part in life...

Bahut hi badiya Sir. Thank you so much Sir for speaking the truth of relationship 🙏💐🙏

Thank you dear Sir! Most fantastic video ever 👍.

Meri saas aashirwad deti hain "khoob seva karo humari"😂

Very good video. Thank you ❤️

Thank you for this eye opening video 🙏

Your way of looking at things is very modern and upto date. These days unfortunately there are a lot of parents who believe it's their right to get service from children because they themselves worked hard to please their parents/ in-laws.

Valuable guidance.

Superb video sir...aisa hee hona chahiye...thanks for the guidance...kya kamaal ki sooch h...🙏

Your thinking is highly practical.

Thanks for sharing and educating us 🙏

definitely a needed video for youth.

Very good my salute to you from Mumbai, very simple explanation and you have very high level of understanding and observations about India society.

Thanks for the video.

Excellent suggestions

I forwarded this video to parents of all ages starting with my parents and my brother ! 👍

So practical in current time Sir You are genius

Very nicely explained ..🙏

Excellent

Ekdum pate ki bat kahi sir apne, hamare parents to proudly hame khte he ki tumko bada isliye kiya he ki tum hamari seva kar sako

Sir Aap ittni jaldi jaldi videos la rahe hain uske liye thank u, kaafi achchi hoti h aapki videos.

Great video sir, Nice topic

Bahut badiya sir ji

Useful info Sir. Thanks 🙏

My mother says Buda Bacha ek Barabar. Now pamper her like a child. Whole day she is on phone watching, watching and watching. She is dependent on brother for online services. My brother in turn gets cooked food from her and inheritance promise. My brother is playing divide and rule.

Great 👍 sir ji. You always bring important topics related to society in prevailing scenario. Your talks are definitely immensely helpful to overcome such difficulties of day to day life. Hats off 👏 to you. Best Wishes and Regards.

Very niche and well researched content... Hats off

Really very practical points and not Bollywood types.

Sir please make video on that ... In-laws want their daughter to live separate but Interfereing in beta bahu life.... Very toxic in-laws.... Calling their son in law and daughter many times but not caring about son and daughter in law.

Bahut achhi advice thankyou aankhe khol di

You are great sir

Too good sir,great video

Excellent Presentation

Thanks for the video Sir😊

Thankyou, wonderful advice, Mann ki baat kehdi aapne sir

Very good advice 👌

Great video Sir...

Wonderful

Great Great video sir every single word is so genuine... hatsoff

If we say to parents " learn technology and use it ".. that's it. It's a WRONG STATEMENT by children. Children just cannot say this thing.. what's wrong ? Every single word u said is True sir .. very much true especially this situation is more WORST for DAUGHTERS. Our grandparents never visited our parents till end. And they never demanded our parents to visit and take care of us instead .. my grandma use to get up at 5 in the morning clean kitchen and make milk coffee tea in the morning for all of us... then cook .. of course a little help she asked.. but always wanted our parents to be happy and take care of their families. But now parents wants us to do each and every work .... small things and CURSE AND SCOLD us in front of neighbors/ their friends and relatives... if this is thing why should we marry and have our family?? They want us to call 4 times a day and entertain them When we were children in 80's 90's.... just one dialog we heard "chup Baitho" " padhlo" " zyada bat mat karo" " don't ask too many questions" .. but ab they want many things in RETURN. OUR LIFE ..In return. If we say I will call u later .. they LAUGH at us... what work do you have? Always busy busy? They always wants to CONTROL CONTROL in laws wants to CONTROL husband wants to CONTROL children want to CONTROL ... worst life worst situation. They don't want to come to daughter's home because they need to help and they start feeling like MAIDS AND HOUSEKEEERS .. even when they help a little or take care of our children.they just don't like it and want to be free but we should work under them.. variety /new concept is leave ur kids with us we will take care ???🤔🤔🤔🤔😬😬😬🙄🙄🙄 NONSENSE

Excellent 👍🏼

So practical... n m glad to have parents, from whom I can seek advice and they are really helpful 😊

Sir, Thanku very much, Aap ne jo sujav Diya ha, Koi bi person Kisi bi chanal par nhi dikhaya

Excellent video 👍

Very nice analysis

Great advice.

Sir, thank you for your guidance.

Bahut mazaa aaya, sangoji

Thanks... I requested about this kind of video in the previous video...

Sir you are just amazing , outstanding

Nand ka maike mai interference pe video banao bahot kalesh ho rahe hai. Maa beti ka sunti hai nanad maa ke kan bharti hai. bahu sas mai zagda our ghar ka satyanash.

You are very intelligent,Sir 🙏✅️

You choice of topics is very realistic and core to the current scenario.

Much needed advise of a bujurg i needed in life

Sir you are amazing!

Thanks Kaku. Learnt a lot

Super topic liya h apne.... 👏👏

Great 👍 sir u r champion 🏆

So true..commendable