defiantly the previous relationship.... kinda been trying to let it go for over a decade..... and find every time i dive deep into my the past for understanding i end up falling back madly inlove with my imagination of who i perceived her to once have been.....
Honestly, this is one of the things I am very good at. Since I am a sensitive person, I really need to let go of all the bad stuff I experience as fast as I can, otherwise the black world takes over. I will forgive, but I will never forget. And act accordingly.
What happens when that bucket can’t move due to questions that were never answered 😢Over the last 9 years I have managed to do everything you’ve said in my life but this video grabbed my attention and yes I absolutely agree but nothing helps even with new goals I’ve been angry, sad, weak, and it was the most crushing thing being without this person it always roots back no matter how far I’ve gotten in life it hurts deep down
Okay the perfect timing of this video is almost weird. When this was published, I was in the throes of getting over someone I fell in love with who never loved me back and took advantage of me in an awful way. We never dated, but it was almost worse that we didn't. You described exactly how I have felt about heartbreak, my previous mistakes, and the anxiety/depression ruts I keep finding myself stuck in. Granted, I'm doing better than I was, but I still often feel quite frustrated about how difficult it is to let go of previous realities and honestly, you hit the nail right on the head for this one. Thank you.
I didnt have the morals to just dump her. I kinda like the story as it is. I had to wait her out to leave. now I think story works just fine and dont want to roll back the clock to change it
oh... that is handy I am isolated. you got to think of the good and bad. it's like weird extra shield for pains during the meantime while I figure it out
The older you get the heavier the bucket gets, unless You change, But, When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change, (max Planck)
My ex's ex stalked and harassed me for 4 years. I can't get over it and it bothers me every single day through out the day. The worst part is I think they're both seeing each other now which kills me because he knows the damage she did to me. It feels like he couldn't have ever really cared for me that much. I'm going to try these steps, so happy to have seen this :) I just want to move on
Focus on your new goals and new life...the more your life aligns to where you want it to be the easier it is to let go of old things that currently might feel to strong to let go of
My daughter would rather have me live in a tree under a bush than go get some psychiatric help. Which I might add I arranged for us none less than 5 times of which she attended 0. She has many unaddressed mental health issues. It bothers me that she never followed my advice, because I know it was just. If she thinks I am stalking her for all the Pain, Misery and Financial Destitution she has placed me in then she is wrong...I am stalking her ??? Because I will never stop loving her...I cry tears every day in that regard. I don't give up ever. 7ill I am her Number 1 And then you can shoot M3
Thank you so much. I’ve needed this for so long. You’ve shown me how to let go of old memories that stop me from moving forward. Bless you. You’ve shown me how to forgive. That’s the greatest gift you could have given me.
Thanks so much for this. This is something I struggle with a lot and used to feel so weird and wrong for. You're so right abt how much building the new helps.
Im so glad to get caught up on these videos....i see i missed a lot bc i didnt have as much time to be online last year. Wow!!!! I needed this message. Im putting in the work to let go but to have the patience with myself is work itself. Those anchors want to keep getting re-anchored. 😔 Im grateful to have an understanding of how mind works, but even more grateful that you are educating us on how the INFJ mind works. But yes you are so right....every step i take into the new direction i gain more water into the new bucket. You are so awesome, Wenzes!😭
I love this so much Wenzes. You're absolutely right, we have to change how we see ourselves to let go of old drama. I agree it's so helpful to find a project, passion to put this obsessive energy into. Thank you for your content. It's been quite a trip to see you grow so much. Very inspiring!
this affect hit me with royal pains. but kept the ball moving and took things with it sense the 2000 . so it was rather a ball of raw energy that built up over 20 years. that helped fixed the world no matter great or small. but I will still able to keep the healthy bf appeal
Such a good video. I have set myself back so far in life by having high expectations of certain people, and carying that with me when they were not the people I knew they were or could be.
I don't like to think about the things I had trouble getting over - especially when it was relationships. But I can give a hearty thumbs up to the steps you've shared here. It's not always easy, and it requires self discipline and persistence. But it can be done, and I can say from experience that we can come out the better for it.
Great topic, indeed old memories stick. My solution is to put more emphasis on the good times and not the bad (to not get in a downward spiral of thoughts). A small point of criticism: the whole segment is a montage of sentences. It gives a strange feel/vibe like... not a normal/real conversation. With all due respect, I love what you do and hope you keep it up. Lots of love from a fan in the Netherlands
I seem to overwhelm friends. I think because I ruminate and many just say why do you keep doing that whatever? I'm good at seeing other people's faults but my obsessive thoughts are holding me prisoner. Thanks for pointing this out.
I pray that God helps anyone forgive the person that had a lasting affect on their lives forgive the person that may have brougut traumatic experiences to them and their lives that could be hard toblet go of.
Great Video! I really appreciate the atmosphere of your videos. Like your place is gorgeous. And your edits are very popping and it matches your energy. I went through a break up last year from a 8 year relationship and it was crazy hard at first. But I didn't break and I put myself together again and I feel stronger surviving it all. Anyway keep up the awesome work!
I had to turn to you agin Wenz.. no one really understands! So thanks for this video🙏🏽 I have done and tried so much and still up until today I’m going on with music here on my channel and I’m struggling big time! I feel like giving up with trying to be successful with it.. I’ll start watching more of your videos and see if I can keep going at it 🙏🏽
Remember it‘s a mindset thing...it‘s about feeling successful now and not waiting for it to happen...the more you declutter old beliefs the more energy you exude into the environment
Wenzes it’s so hard and I keep trying.. but still I understand what your saying and really as an INFJ I should have things sorted 🙁 Anyways it’s super helpful to check out your videos 🙏🏽
I wish weznez could answer this. Is there another way other than putting yourself in center of world. Problem is it goes against my natural hippie ways that are very very wary of the ego You follow?
this took a mas of energy and forces persona ... but you rather get the point of times effect and evolution. however I do not know what remained of the connection of other I had with the effect
imply world effect of AI. the direct fundimentals that might appear in mind that AI can leearn affects from evolution stands points so I think what to effect mostly importance of hash tags in order of operations like a string of important events
situational. like learning to write with both hands. what kinda of despreation might one have to write his final words in life in a new way? that if I never learned to write with my left hand. might not be the world i am in
