Danica was actually one of the more memorable guests, in my own opinion. She was very much down to earth and unequivocally herself. It was nice to a see a lack of pageantry when a lot of the guests are so focused on how many people are watching/listening to them. Cool gal.
I've been married 53 years. ONE LESSON for all men. NEVER, NEVER ask..."What's wrong?" That becomes like opening a trick can with a SNAKE in it that jumps out to EAT YOU.
I like that she is talking about managing a conflict,and not immediately taking offense or taking issues personally. Narcissistic, insecure people (of both sexes) take things personally, because narcissism is everything is all about you all the time. I like that. I like that she thinks in a problem solving way, rather than ratcheting the drama up
Exectly man, a lot of people in the comment section missed her point entirely, even though Joe didn't react to her comments, she was making a good point about open yourself during a relationship
My girlfriend: "What's wrong?" Me: "Nothing." Her brain: "He looks so lost in thought. Something has to be wrong, is he depressed? Is he not happy with our relationship? Did I do something?" My brain: *Carton of milk falls over*
"What if he's thinking about someone else." 🤣🤣 No lipstick on the collar. No perfume. No late nights at the office. They get suspicious if you just sit there.
Men are hardwired for stupidity, women are hardwired for jealousy. Side note, I've absolutely caught the same fish three times. It looked pretty darn worn out after the third release.
Mark Thompson absolutely done the fish thing twice myself with bass which are stupidly aggressive. Was a fly fishing guide and had two fellow guides catch the same 25 inch brown trout 2 weeks apart. Same place on the river, photo comps showed the exact same spot pattern/ hook jaw etc.
100% Joe, we take for granted our health and don’t appreciate it enough. I’ve been sick for over a month now and can’t train in jits, muay thai, strength training, studying and working my 11 hours a day like I was before I got sick, I’ll get better but the fact I can’t train and work those long hours really reveals how much I appreciate being healthy and injury free.
I’m 27 with small injuries nothing too major and I’ve been realizing how much taking care of your body and health is important! I’ve also realized how much of a blessing it is to have friends and family who aren’t on their deathbeds . Women, respect your husbands, husbands love your women.
Does anyone catch what she is answering to his question? The auto-generated subtitles are hilarious but not helpful and I am not familiar with the saying.
After spending a while starring at a wall, my wife asked me, “is everything alright, what are you thinking about?” That’s when I started explaining how a partial can be a wave, referencing to the duel split experiment, and after talking for about 5 minutes, I realized she wasn’t in the room anymore. I no longer get that question from her.
Thank you for all the funny comments about what men might be thinking.. I'm gonna use some of these next time I get asked! LOL My wife is wonderful and we'll definitely have a good laugh together. 😆
The issue with the “what’s wrong?” Question is that men are can be battling very intense emotions of insecurity, regret, inadequacy, etc. Some of the things that swirl through our minds, you may honestly not want to know. The worst thing about it is that it’s difficult for an S.O. to walk away from that without a changed view of that man- usually for the worse. Thing is, while women say they want us to open up and be emotional, they really don’t. We immediately lose our sex appeal, and they lose respect for us.
You need to use the pen to draw, because a picture is worth a thousand words. Alternatively, actions speaking louder is actually a bad thing, because you should be speaking softly while carrying a big stick.
4:07 it's so obvious that for any woman, they want to know "what you're thinking about" because they want to be fully prepared to use it against you, not for compassion for you as a person, unless it fits their screenplay exactly.
So glad I grew up around my four brothers. I grew up learning and looking up to them. Helped me turn out to be what I am and I can happily agree with you, just sitting or whatever and not have neurotic thoughts flying around all the time. It’s great
@Rei Ren it’s all relative to their life style but if they retain allot of information why tf can’t they retain the information that men are physically capable of thinking about nothing and just staring into space for 7 minute intervals
I can’t agree with what she’s saying more. I’ve been with my man for almost 7 years now and it’s taken me about this long to figure out when he’s going through something. If he’s having a bad day/sad day he just goes completely inward and then I feel neglected. But having this enough times that now I recognize the signs for it, if he would’ve just opened up in the beginning and said he was having a rough day it would’ve been a huge help. It was very very difficult to recognize. And it is important to remember every day not to take them for granted or yourself for granted, but having lost a sibling far too soon I think I realize every day is special and a gift. We don’t have much of this issue in our relationship! It helps just to start saying anything nice that occurs to you about your partner any moment of any day. (Voice to text if there are any grammar issues 🤪)
Ladies also try to “out macho” each other. Some may say that it manifests as gossip, publicly tearing down each other’s characters, nastiness etc. When u think about it, both males and females can be pretty dumb. Men hurt themselves or each other physically, women do it emotionally
@@TheTmnt1fan Oh it is wrong indeed. Being/behaving "Alpha" is not putting others down, hurting or destroying them. It it ascending over such trivial things as ego and kicking others in order to fly higher oneself. Real respected and appreciated men actually show love, compassion, honesty and appreciation of others and oneself, as well. Think about it. Who you respect more? The one tearing others apart with actions and words. Or the one helping others to grow themselves, supporting and sharing constructive thoughts for a better co-existence? We need to have a ruthless side on us, yes, in order to have something to tap into when we face ruthless people. Think of it as self-defense and being able to perform it. But if you speak with people being in martial arts for a long time already, they usually come across as balanced people, who not at all intend of hurting anyone. They could, for sure and I don't wanna mess with them. That commands respect. But they choose that they don't want it because they have figured out that damaging others will only damage themselves, too. That commands even more respect. So speaking about men and women going at each other physically or emotionally, it's actually a sign of being controlled by the own ego too much. Pride, aggression, rage, sadness, apathy etc. make them lash out and venting, but you will never see them happy & joyful after it. So it's their job to ascend from these lower emotions and lower circles, as they only bring more problems and more negative stuff to deal with. I personally found, that as soon as I stopped fighting my enemies in favor of just standing up for myself, the number of enemies reduced to basically zero. What you nurture through your attention & energy, grows bigger. So one gotta choose carefully where to put our attention onto.
@@zaxlorax7605 as males we need a tough male figure to look up to so we can aspire to be greater than we are. We can be alpha and macho and not be douchebags
@@mikemyon3570 my point was we can do that and not be douchebags, we as men need to be strong physically, and to challenge other men to be strong as well. We men were made for three things , to protect, to provide, and to confront. We can be pacifists and still be alphas, but I don't believe in being a pacifist. But we need to be strong for the women and children in our lives.
Joe is such a Jedi mind master watching his interviews he asked questions that I would ask and joe has so much more insight than watching the dumb ass media if u haven’t got it by now we want unbiased opinions and have some people on your program that u disagree with and he always finds common ground that’s what people are starving for not separating us as much as possible but find something we agree with and move forward. I love Joe he is the best man keep doing your thing Joe we will eat it up
Never tell a woman entirely what your thinking. Give little bits of insight. Nothing will turn her off more than oversharing. Stay mysterious. As long as she keeps asking that means she’s interested. When she stops asking your finished.
@@Magnificoooooo No. You got to come up with some sort of formula. Truth 50% of the time. When she catches up, change the number quickly and make it 60/40 etc.
The thing is, that isn't true. In most instances they want to be told you're thinking what they want to hear. That's a Pandora's Box waiting to happen.
Q. Lawrence 100% true, girls love a mysterious man, they also don’t know what they want the majority of the time so when this woman says she wants to know what you’re thinking, she actually doesn’t, it’s a test.
One thing on that note is that there are more male idiots than female ones. But there are also mote male geniuses. The intelligence system is more spread out in the case of men.
What don’t women understand about men? Well, here’s one area. It’s about the different ways men and women think. Say a woman has a problem, and whatever it might be, she has to talk about it. She talks with her friends, her sister, her coworkers, all the women in her life, and they talk about it. To a person, they will validate her problem and her emotional response to it. It’s all VALIDATION. She turns to her husband/boyfriend/male acquaintance, and he will offer a solution, exactly what she needs, but the one thing she doesn’t want. She wants to know that she matters, her problem is genuine, and that her feelings are appropriate. So he gives her his answer, what he would do in that situation, and she gets mad at him. Yells at him. Says, “I just need you to LISTEN to me!” which is pretty much all he CAN do at that point, because by then she’s stopped listening to him. Because his answer puts the responsibility of implementing the solution back on her, right where she doesn’t want it, especially if the problem is something she caused. And solving her problem would deprive her of something to talk about.
@@holliswilliams8426 That's what the whole topic and video title are about. You can take it for granted that it's a generalized discussion. People shouldn't have to keep saying "some women", "many women", " 60% of women", etc.
Awesome........you just described my partner to a tee. This is exactly how she behaves when problems occur in her life.....exactly....!! I got a good laugh out of this because its so true, she's still a peach though...!!!
@@holliswilliams8426 On a core fundamental pyschological level they are all the same, in that same regard all men are the same as well, not to say we don't have our individual characters, but if we take ourselves back to our most primitive state that's how we inherently are & we are probably wired that way for survival reasons that we don't completely understand in modern times because they aren't needed as much, but the mechanisms & drives are still there.
The difference is that when men are going through shit before they talk about it they try to rationalize or make sense of it. The annoying part comes in when a woman demands you say what's on your mind while you're still processing it. I don't want to talk about something that I am still in the process of understanding...
@A M It's not to say that all men and women are of one separate type, from my experience it just seems to be the majority of women and men differ in this regard, but that is all anecdotal. Although to your point I can see the difference even among the women in my family, some are like you and others not so much.
Very well said. I have the same thing. I think the best way to talk about it when a woman demands it is to explain this process. Tell her that you still don't fully understand and are trying to figure it out. If you tell her this and shes a good person she'll already just be happy about the fact that you let her into your thought process instead of shutting her out.
Because the suffix *ing* is added to verbs to make noun forms so building is a noun form of a thing that exists as the result of the act of those who built it
Realising this is my 2nd time viewing this video don’t think I’ve ever done that and kept watching such an interesting dude joe hmu I got some ideaaaas
That is so sad. Yet also so terribly true. I am in my 50’s and am in the dating world again. I can guarantee that one of the first three questions a women will ask a man is “ What do you do for a living?” EDIT: To clarify...I understand how common a question it is but I don’t think men would rate the question as high as women seem to. For as many women who just want to make sure you are not going to rely on their finances , which is a legitimate concern, there are at least twice as many who use the question to to facilitate their own hypergamy.
Reminded me of ERB :Adam vs Eve. In one of the verses Adam says "You cry about everything, but don't know what you want ,"I'm hungry " "I'm fat" "I'm cold" "I'm hot". You call it complex, Yo I'd call you a mess. You take 2 hours to cum and 3 more to get dressed. You got a cream for this , a lotion of that , do you have. Aperfume called get the fuck off my back".
If a woman asks a man what's wrong and he says "nothing" then it's usually nothing, but if a man asks a woman what's wrong and she says "nothing" then you're in deep shit.
They do this when something is wrong , or her needs aren’t being met , or most likely she doesn’t feel important to you. You’re in deep shit because in her mind if you really care and are paying attention then you should already know. This is partially true. No you are not a mind reader, but you don’t have to be , stop and think. You will likely come up with one or two things that might be the problem, call her on the most likely one in a caring way. Even if you’re wrong it will show you care and will usually disarm her, then she’ll likely tell you what’s up. Then you can hopefully have a calm discussion about it when she’s ready. Did you fuck up ? Be honest, own it apologize and amend it. Just don’t self deprecate or appeal to her sympathy, they hate that ! However there are times when you aren’t wrong where she wants you to fight back and assert yourself to show you are still able to lead . That’s a shit test and requires the appropriate response. Most of the time you want to demonstrate strength and assertiveness, however she still wants to feel important to you. So do and say things that show that.
@@unorthodoxweldingtrades2336 No , Just keep it simple . If she say nothing say "are you sure '". If she wont talk then leave it . Now it on her and she has to come to you . You have done nothing wrong ! If she wont have the respect to talk and be up front when you ask then that is a red flag . If this happens too often then you should consider breaking up as necessary .
Do you buddy 👍 she’ll check out of that relationship mentally, or dump you altogether long before you do. Their primary language is not overt communication it’s covert. The laws of game are in effect whether you acknowledge it or not.
I actually had the opposite experience with my husband. He would say nothing is wrong and then take out his shit on me passive aggressively to the point where I had to start figuring out what was wrong on my own and pushing him to the point of exploding to tell me what the fuck was actually wrong. Turns out there was something wrong every time. Turns out he also had a gambling problem he was hiding from me and hiding money and lying. So maybe men aren’t as simple as you guys like to portray yourselves.
"What are you thinking about?" is one of those classic bad questions. It asks that you reveal your soul like it's showing off new shoes. It's open ended, so you don't know where they want to go with it. A thousand different questions would be better than trying to get into my silent dialogue with myself inside my 'you can't hear me' coconut.
This escalated pretty fast… I truly believed she was interested in her partners thoughts… but all she wanted to know that there is no other woman around SMH… humans are done
One I have learned recently myself: Our ability to just be content. At the end of the day I am just as content sleeping on a cot and eating MREs or something when I am out camping and fishing; as I would be doing the same at home while I'm playing video games or working on projects. Some girls just want to go out all the time and/or waste your money on everything instead of getting a constructive hobby or work towards a goal. Sometimes it's because we're in a bad financial situation, or sometimes because we just like to enjoy simple pleasures and relax or because we are working towards something big. Don't underestimate a man's ability to subsist
Her: How was your day? Him: Fine. How was yours? She then proceeds to tell him about every conversation, text message, email, and meeting she had that day.
