A women's girlfriend's can destroy your relationship with their twisted views of how your relationship should be, especially if their own relationship is broken.
I 100% had a women do this to my ex. She poured constant poison in her ear, cause she was miserable and alone, and I shit you not, the moment she destroyed our relationship she went and found a dude and stopped hanging out with my ex.
Dude. I used to be a file boy at a law office when I was seventeen. The shit I heard from the twenty-something secretaries was just fuckt. I mean fuckt. I never heard the word cum so many times in a lunch break. I took to eating outside on the steps of the office. Those fuckers followed me out. So gross. I learned that guys who regularly go to strip clubs were stand up guys compared to these women...
Joe's ability to hold conversations with a vast calibre of people is amazing. I think he gives himself less of credit for that but i think it is the best so far.
So true, I was just thinking the same thing. It's literally quite the super power to have that'll make you at ease no matter what social situation you're in. I wish I have that😔
That's pretty much because he will just agree with whatever his guest is saying even if it contradicts what he just agreed with a week earlier. Not calling him a hypocrite or anything, it's his interviewing method. It's also the reason his show is good because he gets all these guests with varying views to open up. Joe himself isn't that interesting, he's just good at bringing it out of other people.
I got a call from my stepsister who's working in Costa Rica, so I stepped out to take the call. A day later the girl I was with confronted me about the girl I was sleeping with, after she went through my phone and found the name in my friends list on Facebook. I let her make an ass out of herself before telling her she's my sister and even if she wasn't she's a lesbian. Then broke up with her. Why wouldn't you just ask who I talked to?
[Redacted] [Redacted] That’s typically an indicator of projecting. Projecting her fears of what she’s doing (cheating) onto you. She’s checking your phone because she’s up to no good on hers. Had it happen too many times and that’s always been the case. Smart move on dropping her.
To be fair if a woman is too stressed and she doesn’t ovulate she can’t make enough progesterone which acts like nature’s valium, extra estrogen causes anxiety. It sucks yeah but there’s biology behind why they can be more upset easier.
This is so true for me. Worked in an office for 6 years and it was majority women, about 21/22, and about 8 men including me. It was fun and we had freedom since the supervisor hated his job and always left early. But it got bad when flirtation happened because the jealousy followed. And yes when women are the majority in the situation, they will fight over the men just like how men would if the roles were reversed. It was flattering but also a disaster at the end of the day
Yup, I've been there. As a married female, working in male dominated fields, I saw men get jealous and hateful too. The few females always became a target for the men to see who could get with her. The women that like the flirting will be such bitches to the other women, not realizing being easy to bang doesn't make them top dog, it makes them look stupid.
No, it's really weird when a workplace is completely imbalanced towards either sex. I've had that experience a couple times in my career: female-dominated environments are catty as hell and male-dominated are like being in middle school.
I've worked in men only jobs most of the time and it's never been like middle school. That's so alien to me it's like you made it up. I believe you just added that to balance out the catty as hell comment. Or maybe that's the vibe you bring so that's what you find, ever consider that?
100%, I'm a woman who has no problem working and friending either. In fact that's healthy and shows a normal level of emotional IQ. I've worked in mining, fishing and construction, business environments and retail at one point. People just need to grow the flock up, and appreciate what each of us bring to the table. It's not rocket science. 🤷🏼♀️
I think it is not just women, men could potentially create drama too. At the end of the day it just depends on the person and their personality, but I see what you are saying.
If that's how you feel about working with woman than you are a weak man who is not centered. I get it's a joke but some jokes hold truth and it seems this particular joke has people quoting it as if it's true and ground breaking.
My job in construction is 100% men. Was there 20 yrs. For about 3 months I was once sent to the office to work there with mostly women. It was a shi&$show. Women that are attractive tend to think all men are supposed to just kneel down and worship them. One such girl needed help and started bossing me around with a petty bad attitude and tonality. I told her “come get me when you are ready to ask me politely and are willing to say please ..I don’t work for you and you don’t pay my wages lady”. After that she apologized and that was that. Working with women can be a nightmare. I’m glad I’m on the trades working with 100% men and I pity all the guys who have to put up with that crap
@@nicholasbogosian5420 there's NO SUCH THING as toxic masculinity, you 🤡. Toxic FEMININITY is a VERY BIG THING... These walking garden tools act like they don't have a CLUE wtf ACCOUNTABILITY is.
Me and my wife are like that. It's great. It isn't weird. We can talk about old gfs and bfs or about anything really... we don't care. Been like it for ten years. Completely honest with each other and it is just normal. We do weird out other people with it when they are around us though. It is like they are made uncomfortable with how comfortable we are with each other.
I have worked in a female dominated field for over 15 years and have had no real issues. I will grant that it requires some basic boundaries that may not be as rigid as in a male dominated environment, but it's nothing burdensome or weird. But then I am currently married to someone I used to work with, but that relationship didn't develop until long after working together.
Nah he knew what she meant but he just wanted to bring up the jaw bone surgery....when Joe decides he wants to bring up a story he is going to take it there anyways lmao
It's so ridiculous. Some guys can make leud and very suggestive comments in the workplace and nothing happens to them. I've been hit with an HR case for telling a female coworker that I was friends with that I liked her new hairstyle. Another time I got nearly fired for telling a female coworker that I liked her shoes, I had no interest in her, they were just really cool shoes. The biggest kicker for me was when my manager told me that I smiled too much and it made people feel uncomfortable. He literally told me not to smile so much. I was so shocked I didn't even ask if he could legally tell me to do that. So then I stopped smiling and got pulled into the office and told that I was too serious and it made people feel uncomfortable. I think the universe just doesn't want me to have a job.
Being a man and treating a wiman right takes work. It takes effort and it requires him to remain emotionally stable and grounded. Men are supposed to be gentleman. When men are working amongst other people doing a job there is already stress. Now when you bring a wman into the picture who has needs and a way she is supposed to he treated, the stress mounts. Both m and w have different stress responses that oppose one another and it become toxic, dark and sad very quickly. Relationships between m and f are sacred and fragile. But when a man is dealt with the responsibility of dealing with other men, then add multiple women to the situation it is a mess and burdensome. Stress does not do good things for either. Wmn absolutely deserve the ability to make their own money but we need to go back to having jobs typically made for each gndr. They are absolutely not meant to work together. I know that is clear to you but you are having trouble accepting it because you're worried about your survival. Please trust God and he will keep you safe and guide you to find purpose, meaning and safety.
@@pk56403 Well I was with you until the end there. If God does exist, he absolutely will not lead you to anything other than misery, loneliness and depression. The best thing you can do is fight him as best you can to try and find some degree of happiness.
@@MRJTD99 No need for that, I got fired from that job a long time ago. Thanks for the show of support though, you're a super empathetic person whose existence on this planet benefits everyone around you...
I think part of the reason that it is "hard to sexually harass men" is because the Vast Majority of men do not use Harassment as a power play and tend to downplay when they are feeling harassed due to people seeing them as weak for not being able to handle that situation.
i do agree with that. even with a girlfriend and many friends, i do find men more fun to hang out with. But, they are not necesserely the best friend. I think woman have better interpersonel skills, they are just fucking annoying most of the time
Each of these JRE clips I try to determine how high Joe is. Here he seems medium high. A little slow and slurs here and there. Goes off on a "jawless" surgery tangent. Yeah, medium high.
I don't understand why people assume someone's high or stoned or anything else related to substance when they speak, behave or produce art that is a bit on the fringe. Like people are just like that sometimes, doesn't mean they took something.
Only reason Joe has been so successful is his honesty during these podcasts. He is honest and doesnt mind disagreeing and is not afraid of sounding a certain way. He is not looking for apporoval and that has made him successful. Also means that almost everyone else is playing to a crowd.
I never really agreed with the "toxic" arguement for masculinity and femininity. What they describe as "toxic" just sounds like basic mental/behavioural/emotional disorders, that obviously vary with genders.
bodd boward Not necessarily. Lots of people don’t use full grammar when texting or talking online, and when they do it’s with the intent of showing seriousness or that they’re pissed off
@bodd boward When it comes to texting and online conversations the way you write is as important as what you write. When it comes to conversations with friends i deliberately break 'proper' grammar to express emotion.
Dude's listening too carefully to what she's saying lol, shows he has much experience with interacting with women. Must be from home with his wife and daughters
I feel the urge to have strong female bonds the older I get. I see the issues that often arise with sexual compatible persons being friends over long periods of time. It often gets too messy. I’ve been married 10 years, together 15, I would not want to put that idea in my Husband’s thoughts by even attempting it. I’d rather be happily married and a little bored at times over destroying the lives of many for my own need for excitement.
Joe hits it on the head here.. in the office, you cant talk about nearly anything (religion, politics, you cant even make jokes in case you offend someone).. Happy to be working from home where you cant offend everyone all the time..
That’s on god. And I guarantee you she is definitely talking with a guy or guy(s) there. Ask her and see what she says. Don’t even ask angrily. Ask curiously and watch the answers you get.
I've worked at places where they will fire you if you even go on a date with somebody else in the company even if there's no direct reports and you're in completely different departments. That was ridiculously extreme. But banning relationships between people who report to each other in some way is a bad idea and just opens a company to all sorts of legal hassles.
30 years in the entertainment industry and I have seen with my own eyes that some men are relieved when a woman joins the "team". There are men that get sick of looking and dealing with other men all day long, week after week, year after year. There are variations in personalities among men. Some guys like being aggressive and fucking with each other talking shit, talking locker room. Not all guys like that or want to be around that. Some guys just want to do their job un harassed by other smart ass aggressive guys. No all women like to gossip, not all women want to analyze relationships to death, not all women like being in groups of other women. There is variation in personalities among women. That is what people mean when they say men and women are the same. There are stereotypes in both groups but there are also many individuals who do not fit anything like what Joe and Michelle were describing.
If anyone believe these two are speaking in generalities then they shouldn't be watching podcast and talk shows discussions. Also their talking specifically personality characteristics, when it comes to social and private it is vastly different between men and women. Also stereotypes are speaking about a majority meaning 60-90%.
I think when *the majority* of women say “We’re the same as men” , they say it to mean, “Our worth is the same as men”. And differentiating that between “we’re the same as men” is super important.
Alas, that distinction is rarely made, because a great many academic and mainstream feminists actually believe that there are no inherent differences between men and women, and that all gender differences are due to social conditioning, and that biology or hormones do not play a part.
Yep, and I do believe, on a behavioral level, men and women are more alike than they are different. Now, the differences are stark, and maybe that's why they're exaggerated, but in my experience both sexes are pretty predictable in the same ways. People act like we're separate species when we aren't. Humans are sexually dimorphic, but we're also all humans. Frankly, in my experience, the ones that treat men and women as separate species tend to have divorced parents. That's purely anecdotal, of course, but really paints a picture.
But by insinuating a need to clarify as much, we imply that there was even a question, and, perhaps more significantly, women stating this or asserting it sound as though they are trying to convince themselves out a of a complex, and it almost sounds like a nervously-repeated mantra, or a need for reassurance, or a concern that others don't see your worth, which means that it is not on a stable foundation, or that you are otherwise not sure of it!! ..just a morsel for thought..
@Proud Goy No Soy Boy O and A when patrice was on. intern david was gonna do kosher sports. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-F0QHJnKZZog.html Around 1:12:00 ish
She’s soooooo right about this. Men can lift 45 pounds 28 times in a row much more quickly than I can, and most women can grow people in their bodies. We aren’t the SAME, although we absolutely should have equal rights.
Michelle Peacock I think it’s lazy to assume that there are large groups of people that believe men and women - insofar as the physical bodies of a female and male human - possess equal capabilities. People just want the balance to be a little more fair in regards to rights and privileges - is it not worth restricting men slightly in order to level the playing field? Depends on who you ask.
I was a supervisor at Walmart and my partner was an associate under me when I got transferred to his area, we started dating secretly very shortly after I got to his area and we’ve been together for over two years now, totally life partners. I ended up having to transfer stores because other managers saw him walking me to my car one night (for my safety, not for any sexual reason). But the store manager had in the past gotten someone under him pregnant and got bailed out, so he bailed me out and let me transfer.
My sister is one of those “I found a jawless man”! She not only wore the pants in their marriage but she drove. She told him how high to jump. And then she resented him because he felt he had to wait for her instruction before he could actually father his own kids and she couldn’t stand that he didn’t know what to do. Divorced. He’s happily remarried 🙏 I’m happy for him. They are great cop parents and their kids are phenomenal!
@@weinstocksart6155 Go to a hospital and visit the stage 4 cancer patients. You'll see that all the stuff you think matters really doesn't. Like they say....a healthy man wants a million things, a sick man wants only one. Live your life to the fullest. It's a countdown and we are all in the clock. You don't know if you got 60 years, 6 months, or 6 minutes left. Believe that
It's rare, but it sometimes works. I'm the only female at my current job. Two men old enough to be my dad and the rest are little brothers in my eyes. We have funny stories and joke around like children! Recently there was a little drama where I confronted one of my favorite guys about something he didn't do. He got upset, we stepped away from each other and then later were both apologizing. There was another female worker who's gone now but man, only the kiss ass boy got along with her. Everyone else kept distance. Working with her made me understand the whole "bossy" conflict. I got along with her until one disagreement happened and she wouldn't even allow me to hash it out or apologize, playing the total victim.
Michelle is the bomb! When I was a young lad in the Air Force, I frequently visited the girls dorm. Heard some very interesting conversations, and got harassed too. Loved every minute.
The problem I have with working with women is that they tend to bring their personal life to work, they’ll be mad and act rude to you or customers because they’ve had a bad day at home. I do miss working where it was all guys, we would joke around a lot but when it was time to work we worked hard together.
Speaking of jawlines: I recently realized that Jackie Chan doesn't have much of a chin, but keeping a low body fat percentage makes it much harder to notice.
imo jackie chan has a regular jaw. Maybe it's also the fact that we usually expect a typical asian face to have softer traits. So yeah maybe he does have a smaller chin but my brain doesn't really registers it because it feels "right" lol.
Being a male in a workplace where 90% of the staff are women and the another 8% are " jawless" men is so weird, being 6ft 4 220 pound rugby player I'm constantly touched up by women staff, sexual comments are made and hot drinks made for me 24/7 (to this day I have never had to make my self a cup of coffee in my workplace) and I do enjoy this! BUT if I for one second indulged in the same behaviour as my female co-workers I know I would be sacked and made to be the villian, men working In the same working environment as women have to be sqeeky clean unlike there female Co workers.
Women don’t see how they overly sexualize men without thinking of the same consequences we face. Man makes comment: jail. Woman makes same comment: playful.
I'm one of two men on a floor full of older housewives. The first week I was here, the oldest coworker (who is retired now) told me "You'll run into a lot of drama here. It will be over the dumbest shit, and it'll get bad if you get caught up in it, being one of the only men here. If someone says or does anything, just stay quiet." Boy am I glad I took her advice.
I totally agree. I'm not saying it's right but I think it's as simple as imagining a baby rabbit offering to lick your toes.. And then imagine a bear offering to lick your toes... Same question, different reaction. Doesn't matter the bears intentions.
Too funny, cause I work in male dominated field. And 99% are great & respectful cause I conduct myself professionally, dress as a lady not like a man or thirsty girl.
It's much more uncomfortable when you're a man to be flirted with by a female co-worker when you're loyally married. Some guys don't want to cheat on their wives, but it's almost like you've committed some unspoken social crime when you complain about a woman co-worker being inappropriate with you. Look, maybe I'm happily married and I have been trying for years to build this family and all it would take is one rumor about a coworker to destroy my marriage. That's a crappy situation to be in when you're a guy.
If someone (men or women) cant separate work and mating then they cant work together. Its normal to scope if you are new and single but not foever. I work with a guy that cant function when atractive women was in room. He was physically not able to work. He was fired in 8 months.
@@koray6261 my bad large printing like photo walls, wall pictures to biznis cards. He was cutting them to size using box cutter. Basicly the lowest skill based position. I manage to operate cnc router combination with flatbed printer.
@@Emma_madison Hey it is not necessary to be a low self-esteem man. A lot of men got nervous when a girl they like is around, it is not necessary to be a bad thing as well...More of the guys who are ultra-confident with women don't actually feel anything special about the woman and just trying to get into her pants, and they are confident cause they tried THIS thousand times. The fucked up is actually that women like you are in hurry to judge and even insult who is confident and who is not, and at the end of the day, they made sex with hundreds of strangers and still no serious relationship and still single.
It's weird seeing her talking like a reasonable person here. Her segments on other people's shows (Samantha Bee, Daily Show, etc.) are always super cringe.
Nooo i think she had great ideas. Her comfort zone is mean. The reason we al, hate her is the frequency of her voice. ... also picturing her ... a certain way... is better than all her jokes.
@ Extant Sanity you are right. That voice she uses is so fake, and it`s easy to tell. It`s not even cute at all. Her Jokes are pretty funny, but that fake voice ruins it for me.
This person having career essentially doing nothing makes me, a college-educated, terribly exhausted, extremely misanthropic laborer, EXTREMELY disappointed and, frankly, homicidally upset.
Why women have to ask for equality? In doing that the same as dogs begging for their owners when they can eat? Just do it, don't ask for permission, If you wanna do something go for it, don't look aside. "But he gains more money than me." Well, then why does he gains more than you? How many hours does he work and how effective is he? ANY boss in the world wants the best employer, show your value with results, not words.
I taught high school, and most teachers, even at that level, most instructors are female. That said, most men teachers avoid "hanging out" with female faculty.
@Karen Aguilar After being an adult for awhile I'm increasingly more convinced high school should end before kids also become adults. Especially if their first workplace experience is what they see at school, cause the amount of toxicity from elementary to high school that I saw between staff was insane. It just got worse with each new environment.
Karen Aguilar yeah take your paranoia with co-workers and multiply that times 10. That’s how men feel when working with women. We constantly wonder when we’ll receive some sort of complaint.
To be quite honest, things were generally clicking along just fine for about 40 years regarding how men and women interacted in the office. If you asked a person out and they said no, you dropped it. If you persisted then you took it to HR. And it's been generations since claims of workplace harassment have not been taken seriously in the workplace, contrary to how those decades have been portrayed in popular culture. Thanks to that, we have an entire generation (or two) of people who honestly believe we were swatting women on the ass in the 80s like it was nothing and that women were regularly walking into police stations claiming they were raped and the police ignored them.
Only if you would sleep with literally every woman. I've had bosses who were fat and ugly try to hold my hand and shit. Get your fat fingers off me. Coincidentally the vice versa applies. If you are a good looking man you aren't harrassing them because THEY LIKE IT.
I feel I have no jaw when I shave but everybody assures me I do. I'm just so used to having it "enhanced" it's kinda like a good looking woman who still feels the need to wear makeup despite her natural beauty.
Allyssa Cinquina alot of females, yes. That’s why when you’re talking TO them they seem like the exception, but they’re really not. Vice versa for guys though, it’s not female specific
if she wants to survive in that climate she'd kind of have to be the same no? or just not have a lot of female friends, which she mentions are very needed
I don't think a relationship is healthy when there are constant passive aggressive or sarcastic "fine" and "sure". I use them too, but everything is good - say what you want, be honest. Sarcasm doesn't translate in text!
@@airoHYT no, at least double that. I mostly avoid or inform people that do. Consequences are real and sometimes fun. Curious as to what are you trying to imply?
The HR comment is so spot on. I just retired from a marketing/PR career in local government. My job was to speak. I got in so much trouble...and I'm respectful. Office suppression and social media aggression is a dangerous combination.
This is how it used to be in the past...women hung around with women all day doing the chores, while men hung out with men doing the farming. Then they got together at nighttime.
@@Strangestthing1 I work well with women, but also get myself in a lot of trouble with women. I lived with a lesbian for like a year, was the best times of my life lol
