Let my divorce story help you navigate yours

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In this video, I open up about how divorce affected me and share tips on how to navigate life after divorce. Don't let it cripple you - watch for advice. I discuss my numerous divorces and the pain that each one caused. I go into detail of each of my marriages and the warning signs that showed the marriage was destined for failure. Additionally, I discuss how each divorce that also included children ultimately hurt far worse than without. And lastly I discuss how learning that you can be replaced so easily just cut to the bone . Men seem to always be the one that is on the receiving end of divorce. I pose this question and invite viewers to chime in on this observation. Why is it most often the women than want the divorce? Why are women so easily dissatisfied with the men they committed to spend their life with?

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@dystopia-usa 13 дней назад

4x shows a profound lack of judgement. Hell, 1x does that in today's environment.

@reekinronald6776 12 дней назад

True. I've never married, but I remember in my youth the madness when you are in love with a woman and the allure of the fantasy of marriage and a family. It's probably as close to an addiction as one can get without having the physiological reactions associated with an addiction. I don't judge men too harshly who have gone through multiple divorces.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

just because most guys go throughout a whole lifetime only getting Divorced one time doesnt mean anything, after the Divorce most guys will continue to have multiples partners throughout their lifetime all the way up till they pass away. Most guys are not celibate. Your not special.

@MrRadiodio 12 дней назад

a lot of people have gone through things like this

@Mpower31 14 дней назад

Thanks for sharing!

@QuickandDirty 13 дней назад

Bro loves living on the edge. When you put the drone controller on that ledge I knew you were a man that likes to take risks.

@mursegeorge 13 дней назад

lol, nice observation. Yes I do enjoy living on the edge. Thanks for watching and commenting

@SALFXEF 12 дней назад

I'm one and done never again. Anybody who would keep going through this again and again is too needy and need some one. you need to be able to be alone.

@mursegeorge 12 дней назад

You’re about that. It just takes some people longer to learn than others.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

One and Done? so what? does that mean for the rest of your life your going to be Celibate? of course not, you are going to continue to see people, your not special, your not better than us

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

Dont be ridiculous, nobody after a Divorce becomes Celibate, your not a better person because you didnt marry your bed partners

@emiliaescobar7652 13 дней назад

Yes, after 2nd one. Thats it!

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

thats a lie, your not going to be Celibate till you pass away, your not special your not better than us

@davidgray1515 13 дней назад

Anyone married 4 times with kids with each woman, just needs to stop. Just stop. Live alone and keep it in your pants. This behavior should be illegal. And then blame it all on the women. Disgusting.

@cajbaf 12 дней назад

I agree 💯

@sixfootse7en248 19 часов назад

All of the women were cheating/monkey branching and filed divorce on him. Let’s not pretend that his wives were innocent here.

@janfair2601 14 дней назад

4x?

@JonHill514 13 дней назад

Just watching and listening to him makes me want to scream and divorce him a 5th time! 😅

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

🙂 yes four, one of mines was Malaysian, the other three were Latinas

@johnkennedy4023 12 дней назад

That sky looks painted. Amazingly beautiful

@mursegeorge 12 дней назад

I’m really impressed with the cameras on the dji drones. I’m still learning how to capture really good footage with it because it’s still new to me but I can already see the quality in its photos and videos. Can wait to become a better landscape photographer with my flying camera

@nickmayhew9722 12 дней назад

Dude, 4 times? Not to be negative. One's enough for me.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

nobody is telling you to remarry, just because we had 4 doesnt mean we want that for any other men, im telling my Son to completely stay away from any serious relationships, never ever.

@jimtwodogs3084 12 дней назад

I now know the meaning of a legally binding contract. 3x

@jacolbyjohnson128 3 дня назад

Thanks for sharing again!

@sixfootse7en248 19 часов назад

Women initiate breakups/file divorce 80%+ of the time. Getting emotionally involved to a woman is nuts, but getting married to one and leaving yourself legally vulnerable is ludicrous.

@user-lf7nm9gj5l 15 дней назад

Hiya... ❤Watching from nagaland Northeast India.

@mursegeorge 15 дней назад

Awesome, thanks for watching and commenting. Stay safe!

@user-lf7nm9gj5l 15 дней назад

@@mursegeorge share more videos. Eagerly waiting to watch.

@mursegeorge 15 дней назад

Thank you, I certainly will.

@user-lf7nm9gj5l 15 дней назад

@@mursegeorge 🥰

@Spice1_ 12 дней назад

Great video thank you

@mursegeorge 12 дней назад

Glad you enjoyed it, been getting mixed reviews. Some like it, some think I’m the scum of the earth. 😉

@FracturedReality777 12 дней назад

Any man who gets married more than twice is a fool, regardless of age. If that man doesn't learn a lesson after the second divorce, I feel no pity for him.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

Broh, Nobody is asking for your pity, we dont care what you think of us, we are mearly sharing our storys

@FracturedReality777 3 дня назад

@@MrSamadolfo I don't care what women like you think. I suggest you go elsewhere to continue your deception of men.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

i can relate, some of the stuff you say overlaps my story, yes the worst pain is not having sole full custody of my Son which is total bs, i have 4 ex wives as well over the course of 30 yrs, most commenters will ridicule us so just ignore them, they dont get it unless you have done the Tour of Dutys themselves, i dont have to explain myself to nobody, you shouldnt either, if you guys want to learn what its really like to be behind enemy lines you should be listening to people like us that have actually done Four Tours of Duty. I have many scars to prove it. I've been in the belly of the beast. 😊

@mursegeorge 13 часов назад

Well said my brother. Thanks for watching and commenting.

@MrSamadolfo 12 часов назад

@@mursegeorge 😇🙏 your welcome brother, if u ever need to talk to someone like minded im available

@joncarbone 12 дней назад

So glad I never been married. Dated a girl for 6 years. Was thinking about proposing then I found out she was cheating. Wasn't hard kicking her out my house. She promptly moved in with the new guy. Would have been so much more difficult if we were married.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

You dodged a bullet, Cohabitation is dangerous too, lots of times they will clean out your house when your at work, everything stolen, then take a sledgehammer and destroy your home just for spite

@morganbrickwall7902 15 дней назад

The family court's job is to surgically remove the father from the family and home leaving only his wallet behind with the wife and children. 50/50 doesn't exist in America. My wife would piss me of constantly by forgetting to tell me about atm and debit transactions, she could not balance a checkbook to save her life. Or so I thought, when she served me with papers she knew where every cent I had was and the value of everything I owned and she wanted 1/2, but never revealed were a single cent of her money and assets were. Her and mother LIED EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. It cost me hundreds of thousands of dollars; women can be evil. I was just concerned about my children at the time, I should have stood my ground on everything because children grow up faster than you will ever, if ever, financially recover.

@mursegeorge 15 дней назад

Man, I’m sorry to hear you were treated that way. It’s true men’s rights are definitely disregarded when divorcing these days. Something needs to change for sure. Unfortunately change is so very slow coming

@cptcosmo 12 дней назад

NEVER GET MARRIED. Thus endeth the lesson.

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

sorry to hear that but thats what happens to most husbands when they become fathers, they become really stupid with the Divorce and after the Divorce, and if you tell them to cut off the kids and stop being a sucker you are attacked by most fathers, How Dare You, most fathers just dont get it, they dont care about you, nobody is going to help you especially if both your parents have passed away, your up the creek and there nobody coming to save you, but it falls on deaf ears, oh well

@themick6586 12 дней назад

I'm married to the second one for 45 years, I know that at could decide that she wants to leave with cash and prizes after busting my ass for all these years. I have an ex that tried to separate me from my child, she cheated, and ended up married to a buddy, boy did he get screwed when they got divorced. She is a wreck, divorced for the third time, has a criminal record, and her own kids don't want anything to do with her. She even tried to paternity fraud me, anyway karma caught up with her. She is now broken and alone at 65yo. Life has been good for me, I made a promise to myself that this marrage will only end in death, whether natural or not.

@cajbaf 12 дней назад

Of course it's all the woman's fault 😂. Whether it be man or woman, if you're married four times, YOU my friend are the common denominator. Maybe look inside to see what you can change

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

What are you talking about? I am who I am, I am not going to change for nobody, they can all go back to the streets

@OLCarmel 14 дней назад

4X, yikes well keep your body healthy. And your heart in love with life. Sorry .

@mursegeorge 14 дней назад

Yup, I'm exercising regularly now. I see people even younger than me falling apart in the hospitals and many of them loose their lives to chronic disease, drug and alcohol abuse. Thanks for watching and commenting.

@user-ys1jr3et9i 10 дней назад

Im 62 and of all the women in my life I have won the man women chess game. Because of the book the myth of male power, that book taught me. That you only trust them to the degree they are really submissive

@MrSamadolfo 3 дня назад

checkout these books also: The Manipulated Man & The Predatory Female , accept it, live it, Give No Quarter, Ask No Quarter

@user-ys1jr3et9i 3 дня назад

@@MrSamadolfo thanks

@vasyls1767 2 дня назад

I think I would've learned to not marry again after a second divorce

@KS-kr4ok 14 дней назад

Choose wisely, treat kindly and a marriage can usually last. My son is 34 and thinking about getting engaged. I told him to pick a women who he never wants to call a name, never swear at her and always put her on a pedestal. Calling a women a name out of anger is a deal breaker and will cost you. smoking anything if your wife does not like it is a NO, end of. Obviously you cared more about being a baby than being a man.

@mursegeorge 14 дней назад

Yup, I still had some growing up to do even at 40 years of age, but I made it. And I'm a better person for it. Now I'm letting my hard learned lessons help others by sharing them in videos just like this. Thanks for watching and commenting.

@heithwatkins 13 дней назад

That sounds exactly like what an entitled woman would say. "Put her on a pedestal"......... How about the man putting himself on a pedestal and loving himself first. Modern women are toxic. You're a wonderful example.

@internet6695 12 дней назад

No human should ever be put on a pedestal. Marriage is two people working together towards a common bond. They may have to point out each other's flaws at times in order to grow. Married to a wonderful woman for nearly 30 years before she passed. I knew it was a red flag when I was young and dated others when I would hear the words, "I want to be first in your life". Only God should be first in our lives, and then our children and so forth..... .

@themick6586 12 дней назад

Never put a woman. On a pedestal, that only makes them think that they can do better, only marry a woman that you know will hurt more than you, women file 70 to 90 % of divorces. Best to never get married. Why sign a contract with someone who benefits from breaking it. A recipe for disaster..

@themick6586 12 дней назад

@@internet6695married 45+ years, I agree, my wife knows that for her, replacing me would be almost impossible.

@gerimartinez2737 14 дней назад

It does hurt my husband cheated on me we where married 34 years and the hurt he treats me better now than he did being married I never want him back we do have a grown child so we are nice to each other but I never want another man because of the hurt

@mursegeorge 14 дней назад

Yeah, I guess men feel themselves getting older and maybe loosing their manliness and it causes them to go out and conquer one last piece. Then the rationality kicks in and we want the one that we know is true back. Stay strong you sound smart, thanks for watching and commenting

@Sue-zf5uu 13 дней назад

When my husband and I divorced forty years ago, I took half of our bills, the house and house note, asked him how much child support he WOULD pay and that's how much I requested. I signed over all the savings, all claim to stocks and his retirement, and shared custody of our two children. After 13 years of being together, had he stopped throwing it in my face that I did not work outside the home and telling me to get a job even though he was now employed by Exxon after driving a dump truck in our early years, then we would still be married. So, be careful what you ask for. I kept the accounts and he had 5 star credit, I kept the house, cooked, did yard work. All he had to do was go to work.

@enaid54 13 дней назад

I have known women that did not have a job but they were worth a gold mine from all of the work they did at home. Being a home maker is not always being lazy.

@elladeon 12 дней назад

@@enaid54 aside from raising us, my mom took care of my grandparents (her parents *and* my dad's), which no one else in the family could. My dad is the first to say that their entire life was possible because of her at least as much, if not more, than him.

@enaid54 12 дней назад

@@elladeon Wow, that's so hard.

@themick6586 12 дней назад

"All he had to do was go to work" just shows that they don't appreciate the work that men do.