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Making Meaning of Heartbreak | Sarah Curtin | TEDxDenisonU 

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This talk is about why it is important to make meaning of romantic relational heartbreak. Sarah thinks that suffering is inevitable and can be intrinsically isolating; in spite of this, she argues that there is a sense of solidarity between heartbroken people. Heartbreak can seem trivial, but it isn't. Instead, it is an essential feeling and experience that allows for us to sense our own strength overcoming our heartbreak. It allows for unique personal growth and a test-run to make meaning of our own sorrows and suffering.
Sarah Curtin is double majoring in Religion and English Literature as a member of the Denison University class of 2018. She loves flamin' hot cheetos and laughing at her own jokes. She nervously picks off her nail polish and can't sleep with socks on. On campus, she is a Doobie DJ, tour guide, Tri Delt, and editor of Exile. Off campus, she lives in a yellow bungalow with a teal door on the northwest side of Chicago. She loves to meddle in a good way and can nod her head and smile so that everyone feels listened to.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx

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Комментарии : 32   
@jobinjoy1579
@jobinjoy1579 7 лет назад
I just want to thank you Sarah,for sharing such a deeper and a meaningful insight....."heart break breaks your boundaries and connects you with other better possibilities" that's what I learned....thank you again :)
@megibg890
@megibg890 7 лет назад
The pain is intolerable. 💔
@PraveenSBombay
@PraveenSBombay 7 лет назад
It always is... but you eventually move on. Challenge yourself to be a better person, and to not let the pain hurt you. Help yourself.
@prettygirl_me4699
@prettygirl_me4699 7 лет назад
MegiBG it sure is 😥😢
@asif42224
@asif42224 6 лет назад
Have you ever been through heartbreak?
@sashilemla6229
@sashilemla6229 7 лет назад
watching one's beloved leave is wretched..
@PratikShende91
@PratikShende91 6 лет назад
i broke up 2 years ago and it feels amazing .doesnt need to think at all before doing any thing and doesnt need any once permission.
@jamesgentry13
@jamesgentry13 7 лет назад
I'd rather not deal with it again
@megibg890
@megibg890 7 лет назад
James Gentry me too
@Leelz247
@Leelz247 7 лет назад
You know what? Heartbreak doesn't get easier as you age, in fact I think it gets harder.
@thedollofthemonthseries
@thedollofthemonthseries 5 лет назад
Be strong. You are worth it.
@facetedperspectives9950
@facetedperspectives9950 5 лет назад
Leelz247 I agree with you. It gets harder because of expectations we pick up as we move through fuel by societal conditioning that doesn’t work in anyone’s best interest. The sooner we as individuals see the fallacy of this thinking, the sooner will be able to bounce back into balance. Any heartbreak, regardless of the nature, doesn’t have to hurt more than it reasonably should. Of course this is unique to each person, but keeping certain elements in perspective is a wise course of action. Thank you.... your words gave me pause for thought. Blessings 🙏🏾😇
@sumedhasengupta6703
@sumedhasengupta6703 5 лет назад
One of the strongest causes for that is because you know that you're never going to find the exactly same person in anyone else, despite almost every similarity, but alas! never the same again. That does leave an eternal void within you and that's completely fine. But, so will that person as well. He/she won't find someone exactly as you in anyone else and that regret of him/her will be way more than what you have, for all the things that that person made you experience out of the heartbreak. As rightly said by Ms. Curtin in this video, it is required to have a heartbreak atleast once in your life.
@MegaJae
@MegaJae 5 лет назад
Think the same. She was 14 teen
@MM-mn1uv
@MM-mn1uv 4 года назад
Heartbreak at 14 and heartbreak at 28 is so much different. I respect her sharing this talk but my god the older you get, the worst it feels.
@facetedperspectives9950
@facetedperspectives9950 5 лет назад
Such wisdom coming out of the mouth of babes. Never too early to learn hard lessons..... sometimes the most painful and hardest are the best life teachers. Thumbs up to this very sage young woman‼️💯💯✔️✔️✔️✔️👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽👊🏽
@renabeck
@renabeck 4 года назад
That was a very good talk. And it helped me as it indeed is very true that poems, books and art becomes more meaningful. Thank you for that
@san_tino
@san_tino 6 лет назад
Shout out to chi-town
@Chickchick-fv7nh
@Chickchick-fv7nh 7 лет назад
how if you broke at 25yo while a lot of your friends getting married?
@kakitan8132
@kakitan8132 7 лет назад
It is better and more important to marry the right person even if you marry at a later age. Marriage is not a solution to life's problems; Marriage is not a race. Choose well, you are still young..build you career, travel, spend time with your family who truly love you... life has so many opportunities, try looking at the big picture. Good luck!
@Chickchick-fv7nh
@Chickchick-fv7nh 7 лет назад
Kaki Tan thankyou for your advice. It's help me a lot
@mahasamutadmin9578
@mahasamutadmin9578 5 лет назад
Animesh Das That is terrible buddy, I hope u are now in a better place
@unzahid
@unzahid 4 года назад
awesome vibes.
@sanisanib.4753
@sanisanib.4753 4 года назад
Yes
@mirellavidriezca1119
@mirellavidriezca1119 3 года назад
Mine was a Romantic betrayal
@chony93
@chony93 5 лет назад
21 days after she broke up with me.... it gets better
@setapartgal8298
@setapartgal8298 4 года назад
45 days after our break up, kind of okay but it is still hurts and i am still angry with him, hope you feel better now.
@theresaehrichs8843
@theresaehrichs8843 4 года назад
After 36 yrs of marriage..... my husband told me he had a girlfriend and was moving out! In the same night.....
@MrMolecularscientist
@MrMolecularscientist 6 лет назад
This young lady hasn't really tasted emotional pain.
@Shekharanima
@Shekharanima 5 лет назад
Thanks. Please come with me.
7 лет назад
Maybe ur ugly
@evalyneva5566
@evalyneva5566 5 лет назад
She is beautiful
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