Ladki ke parents ladki ke sasural ke matters me naak fasana band kar de to shadiya jyada success hogi Mayke Wale sochate hai ki vo ladki ki madad kar rahe hai, jabki asliyat me vo anjane hi uski life kharab kar rahe hote hai
@@ganpatchopra7554 यही काम पैडकेवकों को भी करना चाहिए। बेटे बहु की जिंदगी में अपनी नाक घुसाना बंद करना चाहिए। लडकी कोई कहीं की फेंकी हुई नही होती है कि लड़के के मां बाप तो उसे राजा बाबू बना कर जिंदगी भर रखे, बहु को उसकी सेवा में लगाएं और बेटी के मां बाप को बेटी की परवाह ही न हो। इतनी टेंशन हो तो पितृसत्तात्मक सिस्टम छोड़ कर बीवी के घर जाकर रहो और अपने मां बाप से कह जाओ कि तुम्हारी ससुराल में नाक न घुसाए।
Indian guys have not realized that the power has shifted a lot more than what it used to be back in the 80s or 90s nowadays girls are earning much more and also taking on much bigger challenges in the corporate roles, professional roles due do this an equal amount of housework must be shared between both the genders otherwise no girl would be needing a husband anymore since everyone is financially independent.
Meri sister ke sath hua hai. Shaddi se pehle sab kuch pucha aur bataya jaise Salary slip, education documents, immovable property, bacche karne hai ya nahi, job karni hai ya nahi. Shaddi ke 2 saal baad divorce Lena pada due to mental issues with my sister. Reason was Boy was impotent and couldn't satisfy women. Wohi hamne check nahi Kiya tha.
Sir, I salute your enthusiasm and the guts you have, Indian society really needs more people like you who are not stuck in the 19th-20th century and following the same traditions with their eyes closed. I'm a happily married woman and now I realise that my parents were not aware of the things you spoke of when they got me married. Turns out I just got lucky. Please keep up the good work, we need more educated and sensible people like you in our country.
Loved the first two years concept ❤️. Finally a woke speaker. We need more counsellor like you . I hope the society understands this . God speed . Can’t wait to see more videos like this , will definitely share it .
U r right sir… Shaadiyain bahut he chalaki se ki jati hain by hiding things from both sides which leads to conflicts later on. Best is love marriage where one should decide their own limits before marriage. At least kuch toh compatibility clear hogi.
The working girl faces so much problems and taana from the in laws side. The non working ladies comment about hlthe character of the girl, that she won't be responsible for home, will not take care of the kids etc etc etc and the list is endless. Moreover ladka thinks he is the king and will be guided by his mother and sister not to even listen to the wife - " biwi ka ghulam mat karo" advice.. And also nirupa Roy type Saas and nanad would sit and do the naatak " iske saath kaise jeeyoghe" nonsense. Itna problem hai kyun saath me jeene ka hai. Divorce leo. Woh nahi lena kyunki paisa milraha hai naa biwi ka.. She ends up totally loosing her interest in life, just living like a slave, sleep, cook, rear children, earn money and give and don't say anything.. that is all. So any earning girl, live your life. Don't maary stupids in your life and spoil your peace. Atleast apne jindagi mo jo kuch karna dekhna aaram se apne paise se karo, kisi ka taana nahi sunna pade.
I got married 6 months ago. After 2 and half month of marriage due to gradual weight loss we decided to test sugar level. Unfortunately he is detected with diabetice. Even he and his family was not aware about it. It is just a misfortune.
Stress se blood sugar level badhta hai......unko bolo stress na le . Carbohydrates ekdum reduce krwa do, Rice khana chudwa hi do Protein badhao Fast food band . Sb kuch normal ho jayega All the best
@@AnkitKumar-kk3iw plz don’t speak any bs. you don’t know their age, if they’re young and in 20s, it could be type 1, which exactly presents with weight loss. Type 2 dm which u see in uncles and auntys of 40-50, is associated with weight gain and obesity. It is manageable only to a certain extent with diet and lifestyle control. Type 1 would require stringent control with insulin, at the very least drugs would be required. Don’t spread WhatsApp gyan to people with real world problems.
This is so well said.. sp the last point being a single girl child obviously i dont want my parents to suffer in their old age… which is so well put forward Even the concept of medical checkup and being forthcoming with diseases and choices on child birth… this too I’ve seen ppl think as every woman wants a child bt many don’t and in 21st century women r taking equal part in career growth and a child is last thing they want.. Very informative indeed
Sb. Kuch shi bol rahe hai sir aap chahe kitna bi investigate kr lo but in the end adjustment Krna nhi sikha to sb barbad hai as adjustment karni hi padti hai
Make equal : girl should also come with properties and same boy now equal . Bhai itna discussion hoga to kisi shaadi nahi hogi even small negative goes for toss from girl side .
True, but seems clear that marriage has lost its purpose. Finding a perfect match is impossible so we find lots of well placed boys & girls unmarried 🤔🥲
Sirrr!!! Gender equality is about creating equal opportunities and rights for both gender... Ppl interpret and perceive it in a misleading way... Male and female can never be same, as both are different in physical, biological, hormonal and psychological senses... There cannot be competition between a male and female as both have different competency... Yes both gender can be equal in terms of opportunities and rights.... In today's date.... There is a need on educating ppl on how both gender should be treating each other.... Basically learning about gender differences, strengths, weaknesses....may help in establishment of balance between them... This is vast topic.... But keeping it short...
If Evey boy should marry a working girl then every boy should share the child rearing and household work equally. But in reality girls are burdened with household work, child rearing and also earning responsibilities in recent times.The struggle for a girl is too very much.
Sir, Accotding to you Judges, Advocates and Doctors should all retire at 45? What might hold good for someone might not be good for others. Some are born with silver spoon while others are born in poor family. Children of filmstars and industrialist did not need to work at all. Some are born physically disabled. One suit doesnot fit for all. Every book has different story. Kindly do not generalise the things that Worklife is only for 45 years. These type of funny concepts are being floated by Govt who has miserable failed to protect the economy and to create jobs. Population is another factor for which citizens are themselves responsible. Instead of being a preacher rather try to be a learner. Because there is other side of the coin also.
preaching is done to normal people only not to exceptions..since females want equality with males they have to upgrade themselves in all ways and match the male in all respects..hitherto they were in a position of considerable advantage with all risk responsibility on male..for a happy living in current times they have to share all responsibilities in an equitable manner according to their strengths for which both have to be open progressive compatible well educated and reasonable.
When did you last read any case about this? There have been instances in India where women have been asked to pay alimony to men. It all depends on how much both the individuals are earning and what kind of lifestyle they have.
Marriage should only take place between people who are socially and economically equal. Marriage is no more a sacrosanct relationship so legalize a prenuptial agreement + make divorce easier.
Yes this topic is good but sometimes after marriage girl is blamed for applying makeup,shaping her eyebrows,waxing the body,wearing contact lenses..etc.Husband after marriage starts blaming wife that shame and her house people cheated them.Though it's grooming which every girl does.Situation gets tough.Every minor detail cannot be revealed but sometimes issue is made taking these things you were looking beautiful and fair the day our family came to see you but your skin texture was not that good.What to do when such problems arise after marriage.Do make a video on that...
Multiple visits, each occasion in a different setting, lighting, daytiming. Girls to make sure that they’ve met them with all kinds of looks, very minimal to no makeup too. Also will help in gauging the guy
@@scifigal1actually its not about liiks but its about inferiority complex and domineering of grooms n his family. Such persons ruin their own life with such subjugation.
Sir, it's good that boys should marry working girl & share household responsibility. However now issue is due to comparison with working girls, even girls who are not working also expecting their husbands to share household responsibility. How do we handle this?
Learn household works. Fir most household eirk is non paying, non respected, monotonous and mundane. You always hv a choice to do work of ur choice. But girls are forced to like. Share household responsibilities to make her feel wanted and respected.
