MrBeast Is Evil Actually | Sad Boyz 

thanks for all the love everyone

This aged beautifully. Ahead of its time, truly

I want to say this is my first time watching this podcast, and it's so refreshing to see men be intimate with eachother, sharing their fears and feelings, being empathetic with one another, no toxic masculity, and having intellectual conversations. I hope that more men are inspired by y'all to feel like they can be themselves and share their feelings.

I teared up when Jordan was talking, I can feel where he’s at, that level of exhaustion, the worst fears being worse than imagined, thank you for opening up about that, I hope you have the support and care you need throughout this process. There is a freedom in your worst fears coming true, what else could you lose that you can’t handle. Loved this episode guys, always appreciate y’all

I love the dynamic Jarvis and Jordan have, it makes them super fun to listen to when they're joking around but it's also just really oddly comforting to listen to them just casually talk.

sometimes getting physically pulled out of spiraling is what we need. keep ur head up jordan, we’re so happy you’re back

Absolutely love seeing two emotionally articulate men not afraid to share their feelings in front of others.

It makes me feel better when other adults are still getting their license or just starting. I feel very behind my peers in that aspect, but I'm reminded by cool people like you that everyone takes life at their own pace!

I was so far into the video until i realized why they weren't talking about dogpack

Hey Jordan, this is my second viewing of the podcast and I don't know what is going on with your life and more specifically your mom. However I lost my dad to cancer in October, it was rough and it still is. I miss him every day because he was the one I went to about everything and now he's gone. The best thing I did was be open with my emotions and lean on the ones who matter. I don't want to get parasocial but I hope you have safe people and a safe space to break down when you need it.

"If you could gaze into the future"

I appreciated the braces phases of Jarvis and Jordan. It was refreshing to see two people grow comfortable in their own skin and no longer care that their braces were on display in their videos. In the two years that I had braces, there are only three existing pictures of my braces are showing. I wish I hadn't hidden them so much.

jordan’s joke that jarvis sits in his garage after being out because he can’t figure out how to get out of the car was too funny not to be recognized lol

Jarvis talking about how eating in his car makes him feel is me but with eating while sitting on the floor 😭 Like I have chairs and tables that I could eat on but there’s just something about sitting criss-cross applesauce on the ground in front of my tv 😂.

goated thumbnail 🎉

Is this foreshadowing

The mudblood thing literally is a biracial slur, it’s saying the person has some muggle blood instead of pure wizard blood, so they have two different races instead of one.

Sending love to Jordan, not sure how exactly his situation affected him but he's in a transitional period and those famously suck balls. I have the same mentals as him and it can be more difficult to get through when your brain is working against you. Weirdly enough stability can be scary. Sending good wishes and success to both of you always!!

...I am glad you are doing well Jordan, even though you didnt go into detail about it, I have been evicted and moving is stressful and life can suck so I totally sympathize with your plight. I also am neurodivergent and cant deal with sudden changes well so I have been there. I live very paycheck to paycheck on the edge of poverty so I really felt it when you were talking about your struggle.

I literally JUST finished relistening to Shaun's Harry Potter video and to have them bring it up is so wild. How did this happen. This is my first time tuning in to this podcast for a full episode and this happens

as a person who takes normal pills, it feels comforting to hear other people talking so casually about it because sometimes i feel like im failing at being a person bc i need meds

The dream segment aged like MILK my god (I’m binging old episodes)

It been pretty nuts seeing the snapshots of your struggles over the last few years Jordan. It's nice to hear that a lot of your work is paying off and you've got more support. I know the future is gonna have more struggle, but here is hoping the days are more good than bad for here on.

As a person who just got their license at 25, I also find so much joy in eating in my car watching RU-vid. There’s a sense of freedom and calm that you’re enjoying me time isolated.

The milticam setup and soft lighting looks nice like a Lysol commercial. Keep it up guys, love ya.

sitting in your car with a little snack and youtube video is very calming it’s a safe little closet for you wherever you go

Man, parasocial relationships are so weird. Obviously I don't actually know Jordan, and he will never even see this comment or know my name or face, but at the same time I had this moment of emotional connection when he was talking about the struggle of not feeling securely set in what he has, and having experienced his worst nightmares firsthand. Though in a completely separate way, I've 100% experienced that sense of fear and insecurity and loss, and only recently am at a place where I feel solid again. He owes us nothing, so I'm incredibly grateful to see him open up about something so vulnerable, that I have felt so alone about for the past 3 years.

Lack of imagination is such a good term for that mental roadblock that people seem to get around imagining a better way to live.

ok,, this is just my opinion ofc but i dont think anything can be apolitical. the act of trying to be apolitical is political lol. like you cant pretend we dont all live in a world where our actions and words have consequences. it just bothers me that some ppl cling to being apolitical,, its cowardly imo. it shows how little those ppl really care abt politics in general if theyre willing to throw them to the side constantly yk again just my opinion but i feel v strongly abt this. im queer and trans and neurodivergent. just by existing im seen as inherently political, so i cant just ignore this shit. thats why im so passionate abt it, but i understand why some, esp rich, ppl have a hard time standing up for what they belive in since im sure they know its not popular

Toooooootally get Jordan's emotions here. So glad you felt able to share because more people support you and want you to win than you know. And, Jarvi (because that's what I call you in my head, little brother), love the way you held space for Jordan here.

and that thumbnail is still insane lmao holy shit

jarvis’s patience with jordan tearing up made me so happy. i’m happy that other people can have the comfort i’m stripped of. love you two

Ever since moving to a big city (from a town to Ottawa), I have noticed I enjoy eating in my car, I feel the exact same Jarvis and Jordan, I legit shed a couple tears there with you,, just had something unexpected happen and had to take the day off to stop shaking/freaking out... you both calm me down on this podcast and for that and everything else you guys do, thank you, sincerely 💜

As someone who worked in homecare and hospital care in the US, the lack of access to in home care for Americans is heartbreaking. Everyone who needs it should be able to get 24 hour in home assistance for free. So many people die in the hospital when in home hospice or palliative care would have been possible if money wasn't an issue. Doing 24 hour in home care is actually more cost effective from a public health standpoint as well. It costs a lot more money to put someone in a hospital bed than it does to provide in home 25 hour care. The US just doesn't have the infrastructure and foresight to make in home care more accessible. Most in home care is private pay when it is 24 hour. Either that or someone has an incredibly good health insurance plan. From an ethical perspective, allowing someone to die in their home instead of the hospital is so much better for the patient and the family. Being in the hospital is a dehumanizing experience no matter how well staffed and good your care staff is.

I don't mean to complain, and I don't know anything about recording and sound mixing, but I can hear *every* mouth sound. It's very... moist. I don't know if it's just worse cuz headphones. Just a note.

Jarvis you’re so valid for car eating. I fucking LOVE, taking my break at work, and SLAMMING my food to a youtube vid in the car. There’s a solace to it. Feels uniquely human.

abt sir beast: i think its def different with vision stuff but i am thinking back on a video i saw from a deaf creator talking about receiving hearing aids for the first time, and how painful it was to hear the world. that they went to a quiet room on their own to do it and spent the first ten minutes in agony. and they spoke about how this is why theyre so uncomfortable seeing parents film their HOH babies getting hearing aids: because the baby is quite possibly in pain, but youll never know that from watching it, and everyone is just cheering regardless. i sort of wonder if part of the reason why this could be uncomfortable is that. regaining your vision is probably a very emotional experience and might not be all positive, so what would happen if someone opened their eyes and it hurt? would they say that? would mr beast cut it out? this is coming from someone who is very likely losing my vision, just to a diff disorder. (most likely keratoconus but they cant be sure because it only started rapidly worsening recently and i had to get a new doctor after moving.) ofc i want to see as well as i used to. im exhausted that i buy new glasses and within weeks i have to turn font sizes up on everything. reading and looking at light is physically painful to me, but i can hardly see in the dark. it would be amazing to have this fixed. but without surgery (which is likely not an option for me) the only option to correct my vision once it exceeds what glasses can fix is a pair of incredibly expensive contact lenses that are the size of my thumb and made of rigid plastic. most people ive seen who wear them say theyre painful and hard to keep in. some people even choose not to wear them, or go to specialists to have a second, softer lens created (EVEN MORE money) to wear underneath so they can avoid the pain. so like... if my vision gets that bad, as it likely will, am i going to do whatever it takes to see? yes! but is it an easy answer with no turmoil to know ill have to deal with that pain? no!! it sucks!! so i think part of the issue is just that initial response. i dont think cataract surgery would be as complicated to deal with emotionally as this, but it doesnt really say what kind of blindness on the video cover. you also have to remember everybody in that video wanted the surgery, bc i do legitimately know of low vision people who do not take issue with their impairment and see it as a part of their identity, and would not want to be "cured." theres just nuance methinks

Hearing Jordan speak his mind and open up and be honest and open about his feelings was such an inspiring experience. ❤

funny clickbait title but the content still held up and and the points you guys made seemed really valid. Also really valuable hearing about how you guys are able to manage stress and anxieties of life.

I grew up in a cult so I wasn’t allowed to read Harry Potter. I read the first book about 3 years ago and I was so upset about the Dudley thing. Like, Hagrid never took the tail off. So Dudley has to have surgery to remove it. That’s a general anesthesia surgery. I had a bunch of surgeries and stuff when I was 12 so I was like damn that’s a shitty thing to do to a kid

i only just clicked play SO EXCITED SINCE I FINALLY SUBSCRIBED AND BEEN BINGING SAD BOYZ FOR TWO WEEKS and i just wanna say YOU TWO LOOK SO PRETTY. A SIGHT FOR SORE EYES.

i can agree with jarvis that people cant be critiqued for being apolitical, but in this situation i think the main thing for me isnt the fact that mr beast didnt publically criticize american healthcare, its that he used the people who that system is fucking over for content. and theres the argument that its because he's a good person or whatever but if that were the case he wouldnt need to post it and get thousands of comments praising him about being a good person. if i was a person who was blind and had been for most of or my whole life, and i was filmed and posted for millions of people at an intimate moment, looking back with vision i think that would feel violating and exploitative. i dont know, public acts of charity will always rub me wrong. its an unspoken contract that you submit to being public entertainment in order to have a basic human right like housing or healthcare or whatever it may be. it feels wrong.

I enjoy hearing you guys talk about influencers and weird TikToks and stuff but I think my favourite part of this podcast will always be hearing you guys just vibing and being honest about how you're feeling. It takes a lot of guts to put that on the internet and it's always refreshing to hear men doing that stuff without hangups. I enjoy our parasocial relationship.

what i don't understand is why/how people manage to not think about the world at large until they're fully grown adults who have been contributing to society for years, and what, they just don't think about it? am i just autistic? what is going on? because in my view, Mr. beast is a fully grown man who should already understand the socio political/economic conditions that got people to the place of needing his help, and the ramifications of what he's doing as well as the message these things send. i think he is fully responsible for what he's doing and i dont think we should be affording him so much grace about it. i'm also pissed that he followed up that tweet with some self aggrandizing shit about how generous he is and about how twitter just "thinks he's bad". i'm really tired of being told to give grown ass people so much room to figure this out, particularly the ones who are prominent/important

I like the idea of the private safety of eating in my car, but the anxiety of worrying about looking like some weirdo usually wins.

the camera quality is so crisp, i did a double take to see if jordan and jarvis were real

Jordan, thank you so much for the recommendation on the Shaun Harry Potter video! WOW the number of things that just somehow went over my head as a little 12 year old nerd just trying to pretend to be a wizard.... omg

Just randomly had this podcast recommended and decided to give it a try. REALLY enjoyed it, subbed, and look forward to more episodes. Cheers

y'all sit like you’re having a sleepover and I love it 🫶🏼

Oh Jordon. All the hugs!!!!!! You're just the sweetest ever.

today i learnt that me and jordan cry the exactsame way "intense ugly cry scronch" "uncontrollable tears finally let out" "make a joke or say something outrageous to take away the sadness in the moment"

sitting in your garage too long is sooooo real... also me when i drive to a store, like imagine thinking i'm going to immediately get out of my car... sitting in the parking lot for 5-10 minutes while getting in the right mental state to go out into the world is where it's at

the emotional awareness you both carry is realllly something special. Best of luck navigating health stuff. Personal side note, I hate eating in my car because I feel vulnerable and like out-of-control messy, the opposite of Jarvis lmao

Love ya jordan. I lost my dad a few months ago (as a result of terrible healthcare in america actually) and it has sent me on a spiral and it's just rough dealing with tough transitional phases. Keep your head up my dude

In addition to how it highlights our lack of accessible healthcare, I think Mr. Beast's content is fairly exploitative. I'm glad those people got the surgery they needed, but it just has a disturbing focus on spectacle.

He tries to make rich philanthropy look like a good thing meanwhile the majority of the time it’s not at all, Mr Beast isn’t coming to save everyone- I don’t care that he does this, I just wish he didn’t try to act like he’s some Jesus figure, and he fills the news with these heartwarming stories and it distracts from real life issues- He acts like he’s the solution to everything, and he gets really defensive when you say otherwise. Edit: in her video Tiffany brings up some of your exact points aswell so she probably has better responses to what ur saying than me 😅

I got braces at like 26/27... i had a front canine that was behind my row of teeth and a slew of other problems of "too many teeth not enough room." But ever since braces I've been grinding my teeth super bad. I've woken up my husband sleeping from the sheer sound of it. It only happened during/after braces and my orthodontist was just like 'No. That's not a thing." Just ignored it ??? Years later with a different dentist in a different city he comments about how grinded down ALL OF MY TEETH ARE. It could be unrelated, whatever, just be aware is all. I don't regret the braces I just wish I had an orthodontist who actually listened.

Love you guys. Love you guys being so open about your mental problems, the struggle of it all, the constant displacement, the inner black hole/vacuum that seems to never go away, the apathy and at the same time the pure sadness of everything... Anyway. Thanks a lot for everything. Lots of love from a Brazillian Sad Boi™ ❤️

The idea of sitting in a cafe or restaurant alone eating gives me major anxiety, but I feel peace sitting in my car to eat, so I feel you on that! Only time I feel uncomfortable is if lots of people are walking past looking at me

I’m sorry Jordan, you aren’t alone. A lot of us are struggling and it’s an uphill battle. Thank you for sharing, I feel less alone❤

1) the production on this episode is great 2) I'm here for sitting criss-cross applesauce on the couch lol

There is no other media or podcast that makes me feel so connected to other people. We are all trying our best and all dealing with things and all taking things at our own pace. Its comforting

I really appreciate Jarvis talking about his journey with weight loss and gain and self image. I'm in a very similar situation minus the boxing training. I've been getting into yoga again, and moving my body helps me appreciate my body

Jordan describing super tall white let's players as "long" tickled me to no end

I love when a new season of Sad Boyz hits and we get a ton of episodes at once lol Edit: PLEASE have Noel on

My boyfriend agrees with you on the topic of eating in the car! He said it's like having your own little restaurant. :')

can't believe they brought up twolegs. brought me back to my warrior cats phase.

I have Invisalign, so I have definitely felt that nice feeling looking at my teeth... and the absolute horror of doom scrolling through tooth based trauma posts. Gnarly stuff out there.

God do I feel for Jordan so hard! My dad got dementia when I was very young and it’s a Hell of a disease. So sad he knows the frustration and sadness of it too.

I really like this set-up. But I also want to say that I'm glad the two of you are prioritizing your well-being and generally kind of feeling better. I also appreciate that y'all are open about some of y'alls ups and downs. Take care and as always, wishing you both the best 🧡

Jarvis, I need you to know that I was listening to this episode for the first time today and as I was getting into my car to eat my lunch during my break (it really is so safe and good solitude) is when you started talking about eating in your car and I felt validated.

Oh shit, my first time seeing Jacob, always thought he was some kind of cybernetic tendril monster

I don't understand why everyone tip-toes around Mr Beast's poverty porn so much. People are measuring their words so much, as if they're talking about the President, not a guy who generates tremendous waste and makes money off of poverty.

Jordan, I had to leave the audio version on Spotify to comment! Life sucks, but your potion resonated with me SO MUCH. Just had to come by and say be strong, and keep taking those head meds!

it was so amazing to hear a shout out for shaun to an audience that might not know him, he's a favourite youtuber of mine and its awesome to see other creators being a fan of him!!

the shaun video on harry potter slaps!!! one of my fave videos. jordan is so right, jkr uses some horrible fatphobic language mocking dudley for failing a diet

Love the production, hello and welcome Jacob! Excited to see more of your work on the pod!

I love your big omelette pillow and kitchen nook. Sickass colors on that kitchen nook Jarvis

Just want to say I absolutely love that you switched to video and in person format. I can't quite get into the podcast audio only but I will for sure watch every video episode

fuck yeah they upgraded to a couch, this is great

What's up Sad Boyz fam? So excited to see another podcast episode so soon! Gonna practice some mindfulness and try not to anything while watching... we'll see how it goes 😅 Timestamps: 0:00 Welcome to Sad Boyz 0:51 One new camera per episode (also hi new producer Jacob!!! 💕) 1:51 Momentum and doubts 2:36 Welcome to Teeth Boyz 🦷 7:54 Dream is a good looking man 9:39 Jarvis killed a man! (jk jk but liking eating in your car is normal. sometimes it's really nice to just chill in there) 11:22 Jordan and Jarvis are actually the same person 😂 11:59 Dipper keeps saying weird slurs and trying to get them demonetized 12:33 Debating the evilness of 'mudblood' (also fuck jk rowling; TW FATPHOBIA in the hp books; shout out to @Shaun_vids) 16:53 Mr. Beast and addressing systemic healthcare issues within capitalism 35:07 How is Jordan doing? (I hope you feel secure soon. It seems like you have an amazing support system and I hope to find people like you guys one day to form my own. Wishing you the best Jordan 🥰) 41:14 How's Jarvis doing? (We're proud of you and cheering you on! 💪) 56:48 Jarvis is a Jake and Jordan is Logan (Paul brothers talk) 59:28 Fuck Keemstar 1:01:26 Eminem has a musket for home defense 1:04:17 Jarvis has to go to therapy; Send in cringy moments for Pen Palz Mindfulness goal achieved 😁

9:38 Jarvis I just wanna say I used to do the exact same thing all the time in college. Get a meal of some sort at a drive through, park my car, balance my phone on the dash, and watch a YT video in solitary bliss. I also used to sit in my car and scroll through my phone sometimes for an hour or more whenever I pulled into my driveway. I’d even recline the seat. It’s not weird at all and u shouldn’t feel embarrassed. I have ADHD and autism tho so it might be a neurodivergent thing. The only reasons I stopped are 1) I have some unhealthy food relationships and that routine was incentivizing me to eat the kind of food you can get at drive thrus more frequently, 2) I don’t drive nearly as much as I used to, 3) delivery became way more common and affordable, and 4) I have my own place so the car is no longer my go-to location for solitude.

just got out of two midterms back to back this is the perfect lil reward 😭

Jordan is perched on that couch like a mama bird

Is that Jordan Parentheses, the right wing conservative?

Bro eating in the car is just so much more relaxing. I am in like full control of temperature, posture, ambience, etc. and I don’t have to hear background chatter or see people also eating. I know nobody can see me, it’s just perfect.

this set up feels really acoustic

Thanks y'all for talking about getting adult braces. I need to get adult braces and jaw surgery and it's encouraging to hear about your experiences.

"they wouldn't call themselves tories, but the ideology's basically indistinguishable" isn't that just Labour now?

molly being one of the "good" fat characters also plays into the cliche of the only positive fat female characters being motherly because a woman can only be appreciated if she's nurturing or "sexy" (skinny) apparently

"He called me a two-legger" Every person who was a Warrior Cats kid: ***clenches fists***

I started driving at like 15/16, but man my car is my safe space. being able to sit in my car and hang out before driving home has been a saving grace. I was so depressed and didn't feel comfortable at home, that I would drive for hours at random to feel something lol. oh, and I half miss working at Krogers bc I could walk out to my car for my 30-minute break. I work at a huge airport now, so it now takes like 30ish minutes to and from my car (security and employee bus) although, I feel super conscious eating in my car. as a fat person, it feels like I'm contributing to the stereotype or whatever. it's just a lil embarrassing to be seen shoving some chips or sandwich by strangers. I still do it though. I did it not even 50 minutes ago.

I love Shaun's Harry Potter video. It's a fantastic analysis of a bunch of weird things Rowling out into her books, not just the fat phobia. Even if you don't have a stance on the trans contraversy id still recommend it

i love sitting in my car too. it really does feel like a safe space

First time listening to a Sad Boyz podcast. As a fellow sad boy, I love this. I really hope you read this Jarvis: you're a great person! A genuinely decent human being. I've watched you for many years and I love that not only comedy is the core of who you are, but so is decency. You're always conscious of how your words/viewpoint handles people and social issues. You're very careful to not offend anyone and I wish more content creators and just people, in general, cared that much about everyone else's feelings. The world would literally be a better place. Also, I love Jordan. He's amazing and so sweet! I'm so happy things are looking up for him!

this is the first episode of your podcast i've watched and it didn't feel like an hour had passed :) yall are engaging keep it up!

Yes Jarvis, yes I LOVE eating in my car. It’s because of my break during work, I’ll buy food and go to my car to eat it because it’s private, I get to watch videos or listen to music however loud I want. Just truly a great feeling

ik you probably won’t ever read this and that’s fine but i feel the need to say that i hear you, jordan. i cried with you while listening to you speak about your struggles. i can only imagine where you’re at headspace-wise right now and my heart is with you for real. know that so many people are rooting for your success and well-being who want you to do whatever you need to do to take care of yourself. so to whatever degree you are able, take it easy and be patient with yourself. more people are in your corner than you know ❤️

Fun fact: Rick Rubin was in fact the original 4th member of Beastie Boys before becoming a producer

not the point of anything but just wanted to mention how great a Jarvis look this is! great outfit great accessories, very stylish. A+