Mum Steals Spotlight And Tries On Wedding Dress Too! | Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

Yeah for sure

Yeen lyin bruh❤

When you say period and im on my period lol

Alot of mother's treat their daughters like crap but idolize their sons.

@Nurah Sayed hah what day are you on im on day 4

I WANTED TO CRACK THE SMILE OFF OF HER MOM'S FACE! HOW DARE SHE HURT HER BABY GIRL LIKE THAT🤦🏾

Yesh she's fake asf

It amazes me that women like her mom can actually find someone to marry them. SMDH

that must be sooooo suffocating 😟

ALLLLLLLLLL her life...🥴🥴🥴

Exactly, couldn't have sed it better myself.

Idk, she might not be aware enough to realize it. If she’s a narcissist, she really might be only capable of seeing things from her perspective.

@@lisahannah3175 i agree. I honestly dont think she meant to hurt her daughtor, shes just wildly oblivious and narcissistic. If shes willing to make up for her mistake, which she did, i definetly think she meant her apology

@@sadiaaa1373 sorry but i have to disagree she knew what she was doing she was literally saw the way everyone was acting and rolling their eyes and even the dress seller rolled her eyes and told to "lets just focus on the bride" and no more then 10 minutes later the mom is putting on the dress .

@@lisahannah3175That’s sounds like a bad thing learn how to see things in other people’s perspective because what she did was…. 😕

You're telling me. My mom made a comment to me when I was around 13-14 that my chest was bigger than hers while slightly glaring at me. While she was competing in a bowling tournament 🤷‍♀️ Then a few months back she made a comment to the guy she's seeing, in front of me, how EVERYTHING is smaller on me now since my weight loss (and her eyes wandered to my chest)

@@callanightshade8079 girl you definitely got a jealous mother. I can you tell this from experience because i have a mother like that too and I think it best we leave these type of women Alone because their miserable and unhappy with themselves. I feel sorry for you😔

I’m not surprised…sadly 😞 My mom definitely didn’t come with me when I went wedding dress shopping though. You have to protect yourself. At least if you can afford your own dress.

​@@callanightshade8079I feel you girl. When I hit puberty my chest started growing as well. Although my mom wouldn't comment anything, she never bought me new bras for my size. I had to wear those tight suffocating bras till I finished school.

Such a good thing she lives in Japan, far away from this woman's hurtful behaviour.

It could of been the moms freinds are close and love the bride and the bride could have wanted them there

Absolutely ...

@@user-xe1nr6er5q yeah but with the given info you can guess that’s not the case … her mom is pathetic

I would not want my parents’ friends there, just feels extra uncomfortable where they are close like aunts or uncles but way off because they are my parents’ friends and not mine

@@XenaAndKin if you grew up with your parents friends as your own with there kids too you wouldn't understand.

Χδ she reminds me mine mothers 😂

I cant imagine when she gave birth to her daughter. Imagine her stealing the attention back then when the attention is supposed to be on the baby and welcoming the baby to the world.

Sad that she could do that. It can't be taken back.

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Wow my mom and I went shopping alone for my wedding dress. What a mom that lady is. Its her daughter's day.very rude 😒 😑 😤 🙄

Yup don't even let it go there. If it's 2 brides, then fine, they can tell them that. One bride? Only one trying dresses on.

Exactly. Like they shouldn't have let this happen. But hey, it's tv.

It's all scripted

I agree. but then they would have less crazy material for episodes lol

@@vineeshavikram6827 those tears weren't fake.

is that what they said? i didnt understand that part.

@@nickorange4881yep she said that her husband plays basketball there

The dress Chassidy chose looked absolutely beautiful on her!

@@nickorange4881When she’s talking about her husband playing professional basketball in Japan.

Helloo How are you doing? Hope you and your family are safe

I was just going to comment this but I’ll just thumb up yours 😄 👍🏽 my mother is the same exact way 😖

@@roxiewatters1161 im so sorry for you

As for someone with a narcissistic personality disorder, this hurts.

@@lizzygreene5023 If you have narcissistic personality disorder you are constantly making it about yourself anyways so why should I care

”Cause it looks good on her due to having better shapes’

RIGHT

I thought that what she would do on first dress

Spot on lmao

I think she's jealous of her own daughter

its HER DAY SHES A GROWN ADULT she can choose what she wants

same my heart broke when I heard those

It makes me so sad when I hear almost all the brides on this show say that.

In her case, sure. But not every child who wants his parents' approval comes from an emotionally abusive fam.

@@Ananya-cl6wh Yes, that's true. But having abusive parents in one way or another is mostly the case nowadays

how about all three? She’d be the person who found a white dress and decides to announce that she’s pregnant and engaged.

Girl this sounds so true 💀 she seems like the type to make everything about her

Rachel from friends

@@swetharam905 who is?

@@nala7658 there's a tv show called 'FRIENDS' and there was a seen where one of the character(Rachel) found out that she is pregnant when her best friend's wedding was going on

Hey Linda how are you doing today?

Fr

Yea

Yeah ...

AGREED

Oop-

I don't think she is? She came off more as an ignorant mother to me. I think the dress trying was staged(the timing was too perfect). And the rest was selfish, I agree but it was selfish in a way where she was thinking of herself as a friend(a bad one) rather than a mother. She made self-centered and uncalled for comments but it wasn't meant to hurt anyone and once she realized her mistake she corrected her behavior. She was being terrible but she isn't as bad as you put her out to be.

It’s all scripted.

You wanted to say Narcissist? Because yes

Same bro. OUT I SAY, OUT

@@nutellacelery8830 agreed. i also feel like considering it's tv, none of us actually know her or how she is most of the time. i feel like people like to make statements describing how someone on tv is as a whole based on one portrayal of them. a lot of the times it just feels kinda exaggerated or kinda shallow because it's as if you actually know that person, ya know? i'm also not sure how many people would completely ban their mothers from coming to their wedding because of something like this, i guess it would depend on the relationship

I thought the exact same thing! I dont think I've ever seen a dress look so good on someone on this show!

Yesssss, I was stunned by it. Absolutely Gorgeous 🤗

Her mom is still 21 in her mind, disgusting really, trying to compete with her daughter.

I didn't like it. It was that tie in the front. Not my style, BUT take that off and she would rock that dress. Oh and her mom would have walked out wearing a black eye if she tried that on me.

i agree, it was absolutely gorgeous and that vintage style she wanted

Even evil people have standars

@@sukano1600 indeed they do

Wow nice comment you comment so good tell me where are you from?

I’d probably feel like a villain too if my narcissistic behavior was recorded on camera for the whole world to see and criticize me about.

Not even

Lmaaooo ngl thats prob whats gonna happen

Shoto Dodoroki --- The mother is certainly no celebrity but she IS some SHIT. I would hate a mother like her.

she probably already does -also stan Todoroki

😐😐😐😐

LMAO

It amazes me that pretty much all of them say that. The mom seems like an awful person, and they're still looking for the approval! I never understand compromised on this show, you don't have to compromise with your mom, the day is about YOU. Im glad this bride got the dress she wanted

@@bleechrcreechrr it's difficult when you live in this type of abuse... i grew up in pretty much similar shit family my whole life and i must tell you, im pretty fucked up and i know it, but still my brain seeks my mother's approvel, which will never come and i know it and still i cant stop seeking for it....

@@attyart4785 I'm sorry I hope you are able to break the cycle. My mom was verbally and emotionally abusive, but it had the complete opposite effect on me. I didn't care what she wanted, didn't even care to talk to her. Now I feel guilty about that because she's passed, but it is what it is

@@bleechrcreechrr sorry to hear that... but at least you didn't stuck in the circle you know... you were able to hold on to you life... it's sad when people have children and don't take care of them properly or streight abuse them.... Also the circle of seeking the approval is mostly caused when the parent acts sometimes good and sometimes bad... like when you have a bad day, they are gonna get you even deeper by harsh words, then next day they ask you how the problem is getting solved. And when you are able to work it out, it's ok and you feel for a while they care, until next time when you get too happy or problems again and they get into their psychological war with you again.... it's like constantly trying to prove them wrong and hoping they will finally stop with guilttriping you and finally start praising you for once.... some fucked up stockholm syndrom

Poor Chastity.. I hope her time away from her mother, in another country, gives her the space to see her mother’s behaviour is competitive and toxic.

The most unexcusable behavior I've ever seen in this show mother and fathers needs to know their place cuz it's not there wedding

idk who would engage someone like thst

unrelated but i love your pfp

I mean it’s just one dress. I’m sure the mother did so much for the daughter and one dress she puts on she can’t handle it?

@Adelita Verdonck I see you a lot going above and beyond defending her. You’re both wrong , goodbye

Are you agreeing with the mother?

@@notimportant2072 did you even read the comment

@@notimportant2072 No; sorry if I gave that impression. I'm saying that the mother was stepping out of line when she told her she "looked like a virgin" in a degrading manner. There isn't a problem with "looking like a virgin", and if the dress makes her feel good, she shouldn't be criticized for wearing it. Also, what is a virgin even supposed to look like? How would you be able to tell from an OUTFIT?

@Sara M, this mother is covertly trying to hurt her daughter and get attention for herself. This is not within the realm of normal mother behaviour. It is aberrant!

@@PrincessGold1 I don't think she's trying to hurt her or steal the attention. It's more like she only thinking about what she wants without realizing the consequences. She doesn't realize that her actions would hurt the bride because she's not seeing herself in a motherly position. She was inconsiderate and ignorant not a villain.

Exactly right

My mom is so toxic. She don't even express that she is sorry then. She still make it about her, and act like I'm the one that is wrong. Because I became agitated.

“I didn’t think it would bother you that much”, so you knew what you were doing was wrong. Total emotional abuse

Exactly.

my mom doesnt even say sorry, she goes sarcastically "I'm ALWAYS the villain, you will look back at this when I'm dead and regret it"

As a victim of a narassistic mother, I definitely relate...

@@axelblaze6950 same :/

@@cotton7507 it's a struggle aha

@@axelblaze6950 it rlly is ;/

I bet she's overjoyed that she'll be moving oversees, away from her mom. I hope she finds happiness.

I know that feeling. It's very upsetting and eats away at any confidence you might have. My mom is extremely manipulative, usually with an ulterior motive.

Agreed

@@sarahalbers5555 just how she was talking about herself the entire time was so tone dead

I know the feeling quite well.

PERIOD

@Twicexxiii It wasn’t an apology. Her, “Sorry,” was laced with phrases like, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much,” and, “I didn’t mean to hurt your feelings,” which actively works against any apology she would’ve given. It places the blame on the person who was hurt over the person who caused the pain, and, honestly, I don’t think her mom believes she did anything wrong. An apology is meaningless when you follow it up with, “I didn’t think it would bother you so much.”

Typical narcissistic behaviour all round

She said “I’m sorry I did that”

@Twicexxiii the mom was gaslighting her

I think that they definitely can be used in an apology. In my opinion the main issue with her apology wasn’t what she said, but how she said it. It just came off as quite insincere and not genuine.

She could possibly even fake the engagement just to get the attention🥴

Oh goodness I said the same thing.. lol

I am betting

My husbands mom to a T. She was never married, and had just broken up with a borderline abusive man two days before we got engaged. When we announced our engagement she took us out to a movie to announce her own engagement to that same guy and they got married the next day. She even said in her own wedding she couldn't let her son be the first one down the aisle.

I thought it was fishy that the moms friends were there , even though it's not her day

This is deadly accurate

Exactly. You can see it. Yet she is clearly over the hill. Disgusting behaviour.

She really would, and would say sorry i didn’t know your relationship was that serious

I agree , i felt really sad when she saw her daughter and called her vergin....

And not feel any guilt about it either.

I lovr your profile pic

@@lianavillar3881 I've noticed it after reading your comment. Glade I did !

Absolutely !

“I feel like a villain” even at that point it’s still about HER feelings

Exactly. You ignore narcs. Their only food in life is attention and approval. Actually very weak.

Does anyone like this on me??? I would have said something but most of it would have beeped out. Nope ugly will always look ugly no matter what dress you have on

@@melrobertson2743 geez ugly isn't just outside, it's words too and saying mean things although you think they deserve it isn't pretty either... just ignore them. They handled it the best way by ignoring her, not being uneducated and cussing her out 😒🙄

@@ericag5346 how does cussing someone out make you look uneducated?

@@snesquiks I can explain it to you, but I can't understand it for you

I was thinking that she wanted to start drama or something lol

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂

Someone should have told her the dress looks better on her daughter.

Nobody wants to clap for a clown 🙄

I never thought a mom could be so cruel to her daughter. For her to come out smiling and expecting feedback from everyone then she’s definitely the villen

Where's her grandmother at ?? ( her mother's mother ) ??? she would have say something bad to her mom ( the daughter ) bc it's bout ur baby girl getting married NOT about you mother just because you're engage as well

I bet she is the kind of person that only got pregnant for attention

It’s like they expected the mother’s behavior

@@lifeofneacy3891 not everyones granny lives that long or maybe she isnt present there? who knows

I'm your 1k like

Lol

Lol. Judging by the amount of interfering mothers, they'd have plenty of content to start a new series 🤣

@@kerrystone7375 🤣🤣

They shoukdve called it that

This is a brilliant comment and sadly so true .👎😱

I would have given “mom” such a bollocking. I would probably have landed up in jail. It’s bad enough when so-called friends try and steal a bride’s spotlight but when their own mother does it 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

I thought the same thing. The friend didn’t egg her mother on at all. She was there for her friend, and only her friend.

@@smileymctrashbag CYLI LOSPTI GIRLFRIEND MELISSA OILER MOTHER-IN-LAW

Why is it always the mum

@@jacquimaclennan3254 bollocking ?

That evil lady didn't want to see!.... actually she wanted to show!

Because she’s a narcissist. The type that should never give birth.

I personally never get why american brides always want all the attention on them. But if thats what makes them happy then pop off!! And noone should take it away from them and hurt their feelings

If she wanted to try that very dress on, she should have booked her own appointment. Her 1 job was to sit there and smile when her beautiful daughter showed off the dresses.

@@elizabethg2062 exactly

@Adelita Verdonck ​ A loving mother would NEVER try on wedding dresses on her daughters fitting day UNLESS the daughter okay'd it whether she's also engaged or not. Dress shopping is supposed to be all about the BRIDE, it's a super special moment, finding THE dress. The mom was sneaky and made the DAUGHTERS day about HER which is incredibly inappropriate. She clearly was trying to upstage her daughter. The fact that everyone in the comments and the damn owner/employees understood how inappropriate this should tell you that you're missing something. The mom IS a villain, she's a narcissist, self-centered, and mean to do that to her own damn daughter.

@Adelita Verdonck bruh, her mother is narcisstic asf🤦🏻‍♀

@Adelita Verdonck If you do not get why this is inappropriate and sad...please do not have children. The mom has every opportunity after that day to make her own appt and try on dresses. You want the spotlight on you as a bride with your mom being supportive and lifting the weight of preparing for wedding off of your shoulders, not embarrassing you and making it all about her. She is self-absorb and you can see it in the daughters eyes

@Adelita Verdonck on which era did you exist before this one?

@Adelita Verdonck di

bro you could see the RAGE in her eyes but she kept her cool for her girl ❤️

@@erikahunter652 yesss exactly

Cause those were her moms friends .

@@Jadoreeee no? It was her friends and her mums

Ikr right. And ayyy I’m the 3 thousandth like

What's the meaning of chasity ?

@@dupinderdhindsa4331 purity

@@dupinderdhindsa4331 its chastity. Sorry i am a bit of a grammar nazi I just saw that they spell it as chassidy

@@raina2319 tf is chase"tity" Lmao you really saw & pronounced that word and thought that was her name

@@raina2319 why would tity be in her name lmaoo

I agree, it’s beautiful. I would love it with long sleeves, but that’s just me.

My “mother in law” threatened to wear white to my wedding. Her sister had to severely scold her and tell her it would be in very poor taste to wear white to the wedding. Furthermore, her son , my husband would be pissed 😤 for eternity.

Is anything wrong with that.... Sorry if it's sounds stupid because in our country we were red colour in marriage... And it's ok if some other women were red too

@@guddikumari3505 It's considered really disrespectful.

@@guddikumari3505 in American culture as well as European and other cultures the bride wears white. It’s just about not wearing the same thing as the bride. Some people would show up to a wedding wearing something bride-like to draw attention to themselves away from the bride.

no, not a white dress. one of those who could even go wild with her daughter's fiancé .. if that fiancé doesn't have enough common sense ..

Ugh ikr

What a comment! Did you think mothers and daughters don't have momentary, small disagreements??

@@dianebalch5369 she STOLE her day, the day was about the daughter finding her dress not her mum

@@dianebalch5369 This is not a small disagreement though-- this is a mother whom clearly is the child in the mother-daughter relationship taking over an appointment that clearly meant a lot to the bride, and not only that, but rather than using constructive criticism or explaining her dislike of the initial dress the bride chose for herself, tearing her self-esteem down, and this behavior has likely gone on for years. If the mother wanted an appointment, she could have made her own following her daughter's or at a different time. She's so entitled and self-absorbed she didn't even have remorse for her choice to steal the dress and the appointment until she realized by everyone's disapproval how her image looked. The daughter should stand up and kick her out of the wedding, in my opinion at least.

@@dianebalch5369 everyone has small arguments...this is the mother crossing the line and not thinking about her daughter!!

I think kids with mean/abusive/narcissistic parents know what its like to be treated that way and treat people the other way cause they know how horrible it is

@@Kyndall_Marie25 facts but some also pick up them ways you ever met someone horrible and then you meet there parents lol

@@prettyhandsomegang5227 this is so true my grandmother is like that sadly

Sometimes that happens.

The graphic said “Step Mother” so maybe she didn’t actually raise her Actually never mind I misread it

Narcissists don't..if you tell them there are other people on this planet and that they have feelings too, they stare at you like you're joking

@@shrgh1876 - Exactly! This mother is definitely narcissistic.

Of course she does! The Mother knows and DOESN’T CARE!

@@shrgh1876 You are right on this mother!

The mom is the definition of an entitled narcissist. like hi hello, mother, I'm the one getting married, let's make today about me. your engaged too, but we're here for me. sit yo ass down.

THIS 👏😭

I DIdNT ThInk It WOulD BothER yOu ThaT mUCh

The mom's a complete clown. I bet she's engaged to a 20 something year old.

@@ZeeBug15 she really said THAT much so she already knew it was gonna both her smh 🤦‍♀️

Aaht!!!! 😂😂😂🤣

Lamo right

Ikr

@Sophie L seriously, I mean it’s one of the MOST IMPORTANT day of her life, not her mothers. If her mother wants her special day well, she can wait after her daughters day.

Right there is her admission that she knew it would bother her daughter. She just didn't know it would "bother her this much."

I know like if it hurt a little mom would be ok with that.

Nope, I heard her. The lies

If my mom did this to me she would've said "get a grip its not that deep stop crying." And I'd cry more because knowing her,she wouldn't care how upset id be. She would think I'm overreacting and it's not a big deal.

The mom was Totally Wrong! She Was Jealous and Intentionally Inflicted Emotional Pain on Her Daughter. Mom Went Way To Far!!! She Forever Left a Permanent Stain on The Beautiful Brides, Emotional Memory Book. I Am Sure That The Bride Will Be Very Happy Living Away From Her Jealous, Controlling, Intentionally Inflicting Emotional Pain, Immature Mother..Smh

I agree. I know how she feels. She desire a healthy and loving and accepting relationship with her mom. But sometimes we have to accept people for who they really are. And if they bring us down and attempt to steal our joy. We have to let them go. It's sad really.

It’s simple really, isn’t it. But she might not have been able to have that choice. She deserves much better.

Many parents shoehorn themselves into big situations like this in their children's lives. She probably knew that her mom was likely to have a dramatic meltdown if she wasn't invited onto the show with her and just decided to bite the bullet and take her instead of seeing if they could try for two different episodes

They have them there for the drama. It's part of the show.

They only get the chance to stay being toxic in your life because they manipulate you. If she could choose (i mean, i don't know what was the situation here) if the mother went or not to the apointment, she still would choose yes. It messes with your head and everything the toxic person does it is like "not a big deal" or not that bad.

GORGEOUS

I agree with everything you said

Yesss her first dress was stunning

@@semajjphilly88 p

Literally, who wouldn’t want to look pure and innocent and radiate joy on their wedding? For her mom to say looking like a virgin is a bad thing… ugh. It almost felt as if she was shaming her daughter in a “I can’t believe you’re wanting to project a fake image of yourself.” To say my blood boiled is an understatement.

it reminded me of a horror movie, just how she said it

@@villalbapatinomariamilagro7351 ikr...cringe

reminded me of a tik tok sound 😭🤚 “Hi chass...”

How was that sadistic?

@@dancingfirefly7761 maybe you should consult your dictionary.

I know😭

That was down right LOW and MOM KNEW THAT! It’s your DAUGHTER’s Appointment! If I were the daughter I’d tell her “You broke my trust, get out of my dressing room and out of my appointment! Now!”

Narc

That's my mom in a nutshell

@@Cheddar_Shred Damn. I'm sorry man. Im only 11 and parents sure can be that way. :(

Right

army

This is not the first time the mother has attempted to upstage her daughter and try to be coy about it. The mother doesn't see her daughter as a mannequin but as competition. I know that feeling first hand. Every opportunity the mother gets to hurt and humiliate her beautiful daughter she will. It gives her pleasure causing her loving daughter pain. IMHO

@@gmcfarland4341 the apology was not sincere. she has a body of grown woman but a persoanlity of a sick person. that doesnt love her own child. or doesnt have the capacity to love her own children

Yassss 🤗🥰

its to symbolise wealth

@SarahdayZ totally agree with you ❤️

@@buttonmarie7808 the one that symbolizes wealth is gold, purity is for white

@@buttonmarie7808 No...just no.

Originally it was actually a symbol of wealth. Queen Victoria wore white on her wedding day and after that nobles would wear white to display their wealth and status. That’s why we wear white wedding dresses.

Good! Someone said it

You are much kinder with your wording then i would be

Notice how it's "I felt like a villain" and not "I felt ashamed I hurt my daughter." She only cares how she's percieved.

That part!! Her mother could have made a separate appointment so that she could have her moment and let her daughter enjoy her moment trying on dresses and sharing that with her.

That’s exactly what I’m thinking- Generally white is known to symbolize purity, and in most cases virginity means being pure.

in greek mythology the word “virgin” usually refers to an unmarried women, so you are exactly right

@@tracy9492 you rlly thought that? Lmao

You rlly thought that? Lmao I think youre supposed to wear white on your wedding day

@@joliearanda6481 Last time I checked a white dress isn't a requirement for your wedding, just a tradition.

Ohhhh…. Believe me, those words won’t last long. She’s done that to chassidy all her life.

100% first dress. So beautiful

That dress literally took my breath away shes STUNNING in it

So rare for that to happen, but holy shit it was made for her.

It was perfect 🥰

I liked #3 to be honest. But there's too much drama attached to it now.

That’s why it’s good to just do what makes you happy because society is always going to be unhappy with what you do. People insult virgins for being virgins and insult non virgins for not being virgins, it’s crazy.

@@unofficialbeautyqueen6624 ikr? it’s so weird how guys are made fun of if they’re virgins, and girls are called sluts if they have sex. I wish people would just leave others alone and let them live their own lives.

At the end of the day let's all just be happy with ourselves and not care about what society expects us to be we're all beautiful as who we are 🥰💕😍💗☺️

It really shouldn’t be an insult or a compliment

@@mahnoorahmad1690 patriarchy

i literally said the exact same thing- this day is about YOU, who cares if you’re mom doesnt like it

exactly!!!

You know what’s worse she wanted to compromise but the mom was not there and she tried to please her mom yet the mom f**ked big time wanting to try on the dress knowing that the all her daughter wanted was mom to be a mom and enjoy the special moment with her.

My mother tried to get me to compromise on the color of my dress. I want a black dress, she is like "How about blue or red?" I told her off, not her day it's mine. If my SO and I wanna have our goth wedding, we will have it. She ain't paying for it so she gets no say. If she pulled the crap that some of the mothers on this show do she can leave and not come to anything, refuse to put up with it like these poor girls do.