Mum Tries On A Dress During Daughter’s Fittings! I Say Yes To The Dress Atlanta 

Yes, that's my point exactly!

Right selfish and rude mother. Saying your as important as the bride like no no your not.

So embarrassing. Do not people know this is on media forever?

Her mother is so selfish 🙄

@@brookelynnenewcomer943 If I were the future mother in law I would immediately offer up the $200 to see her happy and get off on the right foot. Of course, that runs the risk of causing a rift with mother of the bride, but damn how can you do that to your own daughter!!! And to smile while doing it.

she showed that the minute she quashed the budget so SHE could get a dress because "i need to look good." she doesn't care what her daughter looks like walking down the aisle because she wants all the attention on herself anyway. honestly surprised she didn't pick out a wedding dress for herself.

@@dietotaku 😊, your comment put a smile on my face cuz I totally agree with you Nobody's going to pay attention to her mother all eyes is going to be on the bride

on the other hand she was giving her plenty of money for a dress AND the bride could pay the extra $200 HERSELF- GADS! How about she had to pay for the entire thing? She wouldnt buy a dress at all?

She was completely selfish

@@kathymcel True, but I think the bigger issue is that she was disappointed "again" (did anyone notice that "again" in her comment?) that her mother put herself over her daughter. If the strict cap on the budget was because she truly couldn't afford more than that it would be one thing, but the mom frankly states it's because she's more interested in looking amazing herself than in how her daughter looks or what she wants for her wedding day. Mom is clearly a narcissist and has done things like this to her daughter before. Frankly, Talia's best bet is to cut Mom out completely and pay for her own dress, but we always hope our parents, and moms in particular, will live up to what we wish they were.

I don't hate her but she's a real narcissist

She's a true "bitch" and that's a word I almost never use.

@@libertyjustice4847 that's what I immediately thought. She has a deep insecurity and can't let her daughter shine.

The mother in law picked out a dress for herself too..

@@roberthaalexis5741 the "Mother" Picked the dress not the "Mother-in-law"

@@roberthaalexis5741 no she was just holding it

I love how the sister in law kept sticking up for the bride from the get-go.

It hints the type of mother in law she will be.

That "dream gown" is not so pretty lol it can be recreated for $500 easily

But....I feel like the daughter should pay for her own dress. Is a mother automatically obligated to pay? In this case she was willing to put down $2000 - that's already a lot of money. If you're grown enough to get married, you're grown enough to put down $200 for your dress. That's not asking a lot.

@@Varaidzo1 It's not what she's doing, it's the reason behind it. She's willing to put down 2000 knowing she could put down more but wants the good money for her own dress. The fact that she keeps bringing it up is shitty

@@Varaidzo1 baby there’s teens that can earn that money many ways yet not married

@@Varaidzo1 exactly its absurd that at 29 she needs mommy to pay for it. at 23 me and my husband bought our first house.

It's not just childhood. It's the daughter's entire life. A narcissistic mother is toxic and crippling.

I know. Hell on wheels 🔥🔥🔥☄

i couldn't even shave my legs for my own graduation because my mom chose to get her hair done professionally for my event instead of taking me home to let me shave. if she started lookin for her own dress for my wedding, she would be uninvited 🙂.

She thanks her mom for teaching her how to thrift shop in a recent article.

@@L.Spencer That's not as important, however, as making her daughter feel loved. That mother was only concerned with herself. She didn't look like she cared one bit for her daughter, while the daughter seemed to badly want some sign from her mother that she mattered to her. If all she ever got from her mother was how to thrift shop, that's mighty little.

I would totally wear the second dress for sure

Ngl I thought the others were gonna help her out to get it.

@@ben6217 Mom was horrible for what she did, true true; however, I couldn't believe no one offered to chip in, call the fiancé, bride's dad, future in laws, whatever/whoever, to make up the small difference.

Very much so

Exactly she is beautiful!

The “again” made me angry!

She seems to have had a great wedding.

@@L.Spencer She deserves happiness.

If my mum made me feel that way I tell her to leave

I would not invite Mom to my next bridal party when trying on dresses. She was awful, selfish, inconsiderate and jealous.

you think this show isn't scripted for drama? Mom was paying out $2000! Sheesh!

Yasss girl I agree if I were the sister in law or the consultant I'd get the two hundred and pay it so she could have her dream

Same, and if my mom were to behave like that too, I wouldn't even think twice about uninviting to my wedding. Period.

@@kathymcel and the daughter had to think about getting the dress instead of adding $200 to get her dream dress

@@anitamorin6255 really? Even though she's paying $2000? So many mothers dress to impress when their children marry, though not to outshine their daughters

If the daughter could afford to do that Iris F.

She clearly doesn't know the difference between embezzling & embellishing 🙄 What clearly does know how to do is crush her daughter 😢 She's so petty

So true. It makes me so angry. I hope the daughter came back for that dress and fully embraced her wonderful day.

If I were the daughter I'd go back by myself and get the dress, work some overtime to pay for the additional $200 plus the alterations and accessories, and make sure her diva mom not steal the spotlight.

If my mom tried to wear a white/ wedding dress to my wedding I'd be spiteful and have my bridesmaids and most guest wear white while I wear a colored gown

@@sandrasignorelli5960 I agree with your feelings, but my intuition is that the mother would find some other way to steal the spotlight. I feel so sorry for that poor bride living her entire childhood and adolescence with a self-absorbed mother such as that. I hope her in-laws are loving to her.

rmdebora, I agree with.

It's her money. If she only wants to put $2000 that's her right. Her daughter is grown.

@@annie6891 sure it’s her money and I’d back her decision to keep to the budget in most situations but she clearly and openly cares so much more about how she looks so she can live her wedding dream that she doesn’t care about her daughter the bride she wants to try on dresses at her daughters appointment admits she’s living through her daughter and is open about having the money for the dress but believes how she looks is “ just as important” as the bride that’s her kid she’s a narcissist straight up

@@blackgirlmagicc let's remember that the show is EDITED. It's a show for ratings. 2000 for a dress?? I would never expect my mom to pay that for me. You wear it only one time.

@@blackgirlmagicc Exactly, the mother just irritated me

@@annie6891 True but it is not like she wants $1500 more. $200 is nothing, especially when she is holding a pricey dress for herself. It is clearly not about the money...it is about control. She should give her max to the daughter and let her daughter pick out a dress and pay the difference. If she were my friend I would do whatever it took to give it to her!

Let's just say, "I KNOW ABOUT IT!" My mom made this woman look like an angel. Been like that, all my life! Very Sad! She'll Never know how much she hurt her daughter, but I Do! 😒💔

I can see why the mother isn't married. It's all about what she wants. But it's suppose to be about the daughter.

She didn’t get to say yay or nay ‘cause someone else is paying. She’s 29 yrs old….if not paying for her own, could at least pay the over mom’s budget amount…duh. Mom doesn’t look loaded.

Mom is a narcissist!!!!!

@@ThePrincessWorrior I agree

@@ThePrincessWorrior I agree!

Best comment ✨💯

Love that movie!

Mom was giving the daughter $2000! That's a huge amount of money! Daughter can put $200 towards HER OWN DRESS! And so what if she got up while daughter was changing to pick out a dress?! Big WHOOP! GET OVER IT.

@@kathymcel i feel bad for your kids :( not everything is about money. This appointment is about emotion and a daughter’s connection with her mother in her most important and most emotional hours. You cant force someone to love and appreciate you by throwing money at them.

@@atxmic25 Maybe Kathy is really the mother in this episode.

My intuition is that the mother never had her own wedding because there never was anyone to get married to, let alone renew vows with.

I have a feeling that if her husband is still around, he'd rather go skinny dipping in lava than to renew anything with this horrible woman.

Also, just shame on this mom.

Was looking if anyone also caught that 😂

Was looking for this comment😂

In this witches case maybe she does embezzle

@@albanarimsu4736 Same...got a good chuckle from that. Maybe WE got it wrong....embellishing your clothing is illegal. Confiscate those bedazzler kits.

Yeah, noticed that too. And Lori's eyeroll...yeah she heard that!! LOL

EXACTLY.

LOL I heard that! ;)

She definitely meant to say embellishment lol.

🤣

The bride could have paid 200, there is nothing selfish about sticking to the budget and the rest of the attendees can contribute

@@jemmaj2919 that's right!! Could have paid the $200 to get her dream dress also everybody there could have grouped together to pay for it

@@jemmaj2919 The mother sat her ass down and let her daughter have her day but she didn't.

@@twistersurvivor the bride wasn't there, they were seated when she came, if you had to wait there for hours, you wouldn't care if ppl are wondering around

Don't forget her future mother in law helping her mom out. 😒

This is the first comment about how beautiful the bride is. Such a shame her mom ruined this moment for her, especially knowing there was going to be an audience! I pray this beautiful young woman found a dress she loves.

@@Loveismyteacher Tes, but more importantly an in-law family who will give her the love her mother can't.

Her mom is a selfish, self centered narcissist. Never once did she say her daughter looked beautiful. Her daughter is just gorgeous!! Shame on this mom for ruining that special day for her daughter. Mom, you can't hold a candle next your daughter!!

I agree! Beautiful!

This girl is gorgeous. It sucks to have a mother like her

I would too. They don't stop, unfortunately. Christenings, holidays, family visits, they bring drama. I hope the bride had a wonderful day in a wonderful dress, nonetheless.

Check this episode out. It depicts one of the most narcissistic Moms I've ever seen: ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-Q61fj0yEx38.html

There is one where the daughter went to 80+ plus stores without finding a dress. Then, during the episode we understand why. The mother was despicable. The daughter found a dress, which the mother thought it beautiful in the mannequin before but found fault in her daughter. Randy was so messed up over it.

Usually, they are busy focusing on the dress that they like and not what the bride wants. I would go solo before would allow some of those "crews" to accompany them.

@@Willowy13 Yeah that one took place at Kleinfield's. That mother was a nightmare and you wonder what her situation had been as a child, that she would treat her child in such a horrible manner!

You should the see the episode where the MOB who is also going to get married walked on the runway in a bridal gown while her daughter was trying on hers and was already on the runway. There was another episode where the sister is whining because she too did not have a wedding having gotten married at the courthouse so without asking or telling the consultants that she was the sister of the bride who had the appointment they put the sister in a gown. You guessed it they both walked on the runway at the same time. The bride told the sister off that it was not here day and to sit down: if she wanted to try on dresses, she had to get her own appointment.

She gave her $2000, she's far from selfish.

@@annie6891 money isn’t everything when she purposefully sabotaged her daughters wedding dress shopping. Please.

@@annie6891 you’re really the type of person to think that money fixes everything. If a man cheating on you and throw money at you you’re gonna feel better?

@@idontcare-sf1vb 🤣 you entitled broads kill me. How did she sabotage it, by sticking to her budget? Sorry, but I can't relate, empathize or sympathize with spoil brats or their supporters. I was raised differently.

@@idontcare-sf1vb Whoever deleted your previous comment with the terrible analogy did you a favor.

👏 EXACTLY 👏

I literally don't like her mom now urghh

Yes. Absolutely 100% true.

It's definite

Mary: This made me wonder if this appointment was real. A $2,000 budget is a really generous gift. It didn't make sense for the bride to not pay the difference and get the dress that she really liked. And nobody else in the entourage was willing to chip in either? The above plus the mother's outrageous behavior makes me think they just wanted to be on TV.

@@Tes7000 Yeah, I would have thought the group would pay the difference. If it were me, I'd offer especially if I was the MIL or grandma.

This doesn't come close to the one with the daughter that travelled the whole world and visited 80+ stores and never found a dress. While you watch the episode you understand why. That has to be the most despicable mother I've seen.

There was one episode where the mom tried on a wedding dress too. The daughter was crying and the mom didn't seem to care all that much.

I wonder how you live that down after you're on TV behaving like that? Move? Change your name? Change your behavior?

This isn't the wedding day, it's dress shopping day

@@tsukilunamoon Yes, but the dress shopping day is still her day. The appointment is booked for the bride not the entourage.

Lmfao came here to comment this 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Let's add some laundering and racketeering while we're at it.

I caught that too.

😂😂😂😂

Lo lol lol. I was saying the same thing. 😆

Right

Somebody could have chipped in the $200, even if they took a collection btwn each other 🙄😒

Agreed. I would have just paid the $200 myself.

Or the nasty mother could of just paid it! Her darn dress is not that important till bride had hers!! That mother needs to be less stingy snd selfish!!

@@deblavan4190 Or the bride can pay for her own dress?? Dafuq? If it's "her day" she can PAY FOR ALL OF IT.

I would be in trouble if I worked there and that occurred frequently because I'd pay it out my own pocket. I'd want to see that smile and this girl is great for promoting the store because she is stunning in that dress.

Exactly.

Exactly and pay for your own dress. Half the drama would be avoided if they would.

i would've waited til she purchased the mob dress and then told her she was uninvited from the wedding 😂

I agree completely. The bride should pay the $200 difference at the very least

it's a holdover from the days of a bride's family paying a dowry in order for the other family to take on the "financial burden" of providing for their daughter. not to mention the only reason she's being such a stinker about the budget is because she's more concerned about her OWN dress. i feel so sorry for that bride having to deal with such a narcissist for a mom.

@@dietotaku The mom does come across as a narcissist in so many ways... but that is a separate matter. And it's good to be strict with the budget because if you go over for one thing... you might go over for everything else and be left with debt. At the very least, if the bride is old and mature enough to get married, she should be responsible enough to follow the budget or be able to pay for her own dress if need be.

The bride's family paying for the dress is a custom in a lot of families - I was in my 40s when I got married and my parents insisted on paying for my dress. No talking them out of it. :)

@@pramaroy5289 I have a feling growing up this mom didn't care about anything in regards to her daughter, so for once she can stop being selfish and give her daughter something she wants and not what the mother wants to live through her daughter

That was the sentence that the mother said, that made me so angry. No it is her daughters and her son-in-laws wedding day. This day will celebrate their love and not the mothers or someone else. For me, it was not about the 200 $ over budget, for me it was about this mother disrespecting and suppressing her daughter the whole time while they visited the bridal shop. My mum would have never done so!

My thoughts exactly!!!! When u don't depend on someone else 2 pay 4 something, u have total freedom do get what u want.

200 she could have paid, I don't think she liked the dress that much

@@jemmaj2919 Maybe her mood was spoiled from her mom's behavior however, if the dress was as amazing as she think it is, she would pay for it. Then again, I don't really care about my parents opinion 🤣 if I like the dress, I like it so if my mom was like that, I wouldn't care.

@@aurie4894 she’s probably paying for the rest of her wedding. Not everybody has extra thousands of dollars

@@kittyonpointe2347 That may be the case & obviously understandable, however if she is going 2 b dependent on someone else 4 funds, she has 2 respect the limitations & budget that it set 4 her & not ask 4 additional funds or automatically expect that they will b given!

Good plan. I say most of these shows their entourage is of little help and can be cruel and they'd be better off solo.

I would have gotten dressed, and left. Leave her mom sitting there!

I totally agree an adult 'getting married' should be able to pay their expenses if not the whole amount then atleast some amount..

@@ishanika3038 Generally it was tradition for the father of the bride to pay for the wedding. I believe it was because it was the last time he would be taking care of his daughter prior to her getting married. It's not always about whether that person can or can't afford something. And even if someone contribute they should still be respectful to the bride or whatever the case maybe.

I couldn’t agree more! 2k for a dress is a generous gift already! Anything above it should be paid by the bride or the groom!

Your right the worst thing you can do is ask a parent for your dress then they feel they have power over you

The mom was going to buy herself a dress. Selfish in every way! She couldnt steal the show, so no one was going to get anything! shame on you. Your antics, and behavior written all over her face were nothing less than disgrace, and sickening. The poor daughter probably wanted to vanish right off the stage. The moment was loss, when selfish mother got up from her chair. Pray she went on to find the most beautiful dress thru her eyes, and grace may her fairytale wedding be all that she dreams 💘

Yeah, I couldn't stand her smirking either. Enjoyed trying get all of the attention. She thinks she's something....she's something alright, but not what she thinks.

Yep his future MIL is a bulldog or a bulldozer. Not sure which.

I said the same....mooove far away, because you don't need that energy around your children. You don't need it causing issue with your marriage either.

I did think about that, too. They often put them in a dress over budget and then nothing else compares. I saw one of these shows and the dress was $20 if I remember correctly. The dad upped his budget to make his princess happy.

I've just watched that video before this one. She was hands down the worst mother I have ever seen on this show.

Yes, but that is not the point. Your missing the fact that her mother seemed to enjoy telling her no while clutching her own dress. I think one of the other poster hit the nail on the head...she was hoping that they would put her in her dress and "embezzlement" her dress and do a mother daughter piece. After all she and her dress are as important as the bride's. She already tainted the appointment before the price came up by trying to steal the spotlight.

Another armchair psychologist. If she’s a narcissist, you are one too.