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@jessicasnyder4507 6 месяцев назад

80k in porn.. ghosts her while in rehab.. but he gets the house, 50/50 with the kid AND she had to pay 15k in his credit card debt? She had a crap lawyer!!

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Maybe just maybe... The house was his before he married her. That would make sense for him to get the house especially at 50 50 custody. 😅

@shannonobrien9922 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828don't matter in community property state!

@bhutehole 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828 they have no idea how the law works. its sad really. its all emotion

@lelamaciolek1166 6 месяцев назад

@randybobandy9828 So if you are a young woman that would like to start a family, don’t marry a guy with a house but just focus on career and buy your house and then be too old to have children? Great.

@TheNuclearBolton 6 месяцев назад

Yes, I know women that are as young as 19 and own their own house. Most people waste their money on entertainment, fast fashion, and depreciating assets. The average person in the US spends north of $300 monthly on impulse purchases. That’s $3,600 per year. The average tax return is about $3,100. Thats a combined $6,700 per year. The average down payment is $34,000. So it would take about 5 years for the average person to save up enough money to buy a house, even less if you have roommates.

@TylerAkers88 6 месяцев назад

The point nobody is talking about. This guy spent 80k on porn and went to rehab, yet somehow got 50/50 custody. A lot of normal dads fight hard and don't get that. Wild.

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

This is why I have full custody. Ain't no way he doesn't expose his son to this crap even by accident

@jee911 6 месяцев назад

My dad won full custody. It's rare. He fought for it

@RepentImmediately 6 месяцев назад

@@jee91129% of men are awarded full custody in a divorce. It's not rare by any means.

@Dutch_Garrett1221 6 месяцев назад

Also porn is free so wtf?

@RepentImmediately 6 месяцев назад

@@jee911if you look at the actual stats you'll see that it's not at all rare

@87alock 6 месяцев назад

Sleeping in separate beds didn't affect my marriage. I was dealing with my wife snoring for years before I had enough and discussed separate beds with her. I stayed in the king-sized in the master bedroom because I'm a lot taller, and we bought her a full size and put it in an extra room. Only bad thing is I found out our two dogs must love her more because they both sleep in her room every night smh

@flexjohnson18 6 месяцев назад

She probably needed a cpap machine

@8bluedge 6 месяцев назад

Feed them more than she does,,,,,

@scullyfox4271 6 месяцев назад

A carnivore diet cures snoring. Give it a try for 30 days, and you'll get a new life.

@jewleecos69 6 месяцев назад

I hear you completely! I’m getting tired of the reminding him over the cpap machine. He will also take it off in middle of the night. We have a fantastic marriage, but not sleeping is exhausting. Plus! I could have the dog with me! ❤

@vanmamawannabe6360 6 месяцев назад

Get a kitty!

@jarjar45123 6 месяцев назад

Honestly this sleep convo is insane. If one partner isn’t sleeping well that will ruin a relationship way more than someone butthurt because they’re in separate rooms. You want a cranky, sleep deprived partner that’s forced to sleep next to you?

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Thank you omg

@ellamackinnon6484 5 месяцев назад

Yeah I think John did kinda bad on that one. I think he should have offered practically examples of how to make it a health practice for both partners. For example 3 nights a week they could have like a 45min cuddle time before one leaves the room and once or twice a week they could sleep in the same bed with no pressure to stay if there having trouble getting to sleep that night. I know for me one of my favourite things in live is waking up next to my partner and having a moment of emotional or sexual intimacy but I don’t need that every day even just once or twice a week would work to keep me happy if my partner could sleep well with me. Also one could crawl in bed with the other for like a 20min cuddle chat before work some days. There’s plenty of organic yet intentionally compromise that will make both happy if it really is simply about sleep to her which I assume so cause I know I’ve had the same issue before.

@jasminehouston-burns1691 3 месяца назад

I don't have a relationship but it would seem to me that sleeping together is an expression of desire, even if that's not exactly true for all couples, and it's worth asking a question about, especially because it's come up at the moment of engagement.

@Ayaa29048 2 месяца назад

True. I can't sleep with a partner either.

@iridegonzalez205 6 месяцев назад

I'm so sick of hearing about porn. It's the big destroyer of families, marriages, and ultimately the biggest destroyer of hearts, as I've never heard of anyone who isn't heartbroken by this problem. Our world is sinking in this perverted sickness and I wish we took more urgent care of this issue.

@starrycat110 6 месяцев назад

I feel this so much. You know it’s bad when people literally equate porn to sex.

@dompernickel 6 месяцев назад

@12-stringchords porn is dirty. Sex is not. Porn is a perversion of sex.

@danilaroche1156 6 месяцев назад

Are you serious? My marriage 16 years ago and present relationship ended because they were porn addicts. They had little respect for women & incapable of being in a relationship.

@piaaadah 6 месяцев назад

You're not alone in thinking that, there's subreddits where people talk about feeling the exact same way.

@eiwagarciabrito495 6 месяцев назад

@12-stringchordssex and porn are not the same 😂 in case you haven’t noticed

@vannisworld 6 месяцев назад

The first caller resonates with me so heavily. Ive also dated a sex addict, but instead of cam girls, he cheated with multiple strippers. After putting me in a position that i ended up in a womens shelter because he drained our resources, it was the worst time of my life. After this was over, i was super angry for years at him.. thinking that he would somehow feel remorse for his actions. Not only did he not care, he married the next person he was with after me (another affair), and cheated on her too. I spent 6 years being single, and it was the best and most healing thing ive ever done. Now, im independent , happy, and in a relationship with a man that treats me like a queen with appreciation. It takes time to heal. Also, its only been 5 months being divorced. After she's able to let it go, she will be the best version of herself. ❤

@Nope-gw7kc 6 месяцев назад

Wo hope you got tested for STDs

@girlygirl1890 6 месяцев назад

@vannisworld I am so happy for you that you have moved on, and have found a partner that appreciates you so much more. How were you able to find someone else? How did you two meet each other?

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

What do you mean "our resources?" You said dated, not married.

@vannisworld 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828 we were commonlaw partners

@2Ryled 6 месяцев назад

I've known so many who divorced and found someone much better, and their lives were much more than they thought possible. As soon as they let go of the anger, and focused on themselves getting better.

@fire12731 6 месяцев назад

Girl it’s only been 5 months. It will be awhile before you “move on.” Be patient with you

@jasminehouston-burns1691 3 месяца назад

Yeah, it was useful advice but what has her holding on? I think the answer is, duh. And, she got the house. So maybe she needs to be the dog with a bone for a while.

@Veracityseeker7 6 месяцев назад

This is why I don't date dudes who are into this stuff. There is a growing number of people who understand that this is an addiction, a tool used by the elites to break up the family, and make male/female relations about lust and objectification. Discipline, self respect, and honoring your partner are goals.

@netpunk5890 6 месяцев назад

Use of those kinds of materials is a dealbreaker for me. I have been firm and I am not dating anyone because every man in my age bracket is a user.

@miketheyunggod2534 6 месяцев назад

Every dude is in it. Don’t kid yourself.

@kyliewhite2248 6 месяцев назад

@miketheyunggod2534 They are out there. I feel like some men like to say all men do it to feel better about themselves. My husband is very against porn. My dad blew up our family when I was a kid due to porn addiction and associated financial debts and eventually cheating. No porn in our marriage.

@jennyj0007 6 месяцев назад

Feminists have been telling women that it's ok to do sex work. Ok, your body your choice. But then we turn around and call men dogs when they want to watch it or interact with girls who are selling sexual fantasies to them. We have lower our standards to get male attention. Men need to work for our love not giving it up for free.

@deeannb3735 6 месяцев назад

The problem is they hide it pretty good in the beginning then once your in a committed relationship it becomes more noticeable it keeps revealing itself more and more until your so broken and feel so unattractive and unwanted until one day you find out the problem is he has a porn addiction. So heartbreaking for the whole family my breaks for our families these days. I lived it unfortunately we never married so I got out before it totally destroyed my self-worth completely. Not dating now because I am so scared of this happening again 😢

@marshareed1438 5 месяцев назад

The loud sleeper usually wants the quiet sleeper in their bed… They’re not the ones losing sleep… If someone loves you they should want you to get your sleep, period!

@KneeSlapperEntertainment 4 месяца назад

Just such a tough problem, seems like there’s a winner and a loser in this situation :/

@dannelle17 6 месяцев назад

How the hell did her lawyer fumble this one…. It was on a T

@gemintherough555 6 месяцев назад

Likely a no fault divorce state, which gives both parties 50/50 everything even in paying off debt.

@sueblack5794 6 месяцев назад

Yep...the lawyer matters more than anything in these types of cases. I swear the "Better Call Saul" types know how to get this type of stuff done.

@IAmALawyerToo 6 месяцев назад

Amen to that! Signed, A Lawyer

@trianglesandsquares420 6 месяцев назад

Most divorces aren't like on TV.

@christophermorse7554 5 месяцев назад

Two different sports

@GreenBean3141 6 месяцев назад

( 80 k porn ) she wants the ex husband to validate her anger and he won’t , he never will. Girl remember who you were before you had a ex husband or became a mother and become her again when your son is with his father and become happy again you deserve that.

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

I had to realize this myself. Solid advice.

@KAT-wm3ce 6 месяцев назад

WELL SAID!

@rustyshackleford6637 6 месяцев назад

I'd like to have the luxury to spend 80,000 on jacking off

@paigepeterson3383 6 месяцев назад

It takes years to find that person again. Average is 7 years post divorce after a bad deal like that.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Why would he?😂

@maryellendoran8806 6 месяцев назад

$80k could have paid for their son's college education some day. I would be furious. I think porn is being accepted as ok. I know several marriages that have been destroyed by porn. Usually, the men blame the women for not being cool enough to accept it. So demeaning to women. The divorce laws are disgusting too. All a divorce is about is dividing assets. There is no accountability for what people do to their spouse. I can't believe he gets 50 percent custody.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Why wouldn't he get 50 50 custody? He didn't do anything to his kids that we know of. You're just bitter and would use your kids as a weapon against your husband if this happened to you.

@Ricciroc 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828i kinda agree, how does that affect him being a good parent?

@j.t.1086 6 месяцев назад

Ghosting his wife, and presumably by extension his child, while in rehab, seems like a major, relevant flag.

@mr.noname3073 6 месяцев назад

If you don't care about your kids future keep him from his dad, 🎉

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Bro my friend was 23 and female. She was so addicted to porn I could totally see how it ruins peoples lives especially with a guy hiding it and lying

@melissahelsel4728 6 месяцев назад

What I love about Dr. John Delony is that he treats each caller with respect, consideration and mercy. I could learn a lot from him.

@cutehumor 6 месяцев назад

Especially when Dr phony balony laughs at people suffering and pain

@TheCanorVoidwalker 6 месяцев назад

What

@tjackson1210 6 месяцев назад

To keep it entertaining he's very fast paced, sometimes it looks like he gets the tone a bit wrong for some callers (like has the story, but not yet their feelings on it) , but it happens surprisingly rarely.

@bhutehole 6 месяцев назад

you are watching the equivalent of a christian dr phil. this is entertainment and nothing more.

@trianglesandsquares420 6 месяцев назад

Same

@karaa7595 6 месяцев назад

Im one of the original women who divorced an internet sex addict when there was literally no help in this department at the time. Therapists didnt know what it was. Church leaders were completely LOST. Friends thought I was over exaggerating. I was only 23 and totally alone in it all. Just sitting with myself here and giving myself a moment.

@danilaroche1156 6 месяцев назад

Therapists and church leaders, like most people are just realizing the harmful effects of porn.

@tkane5510 6 месяцев назад

Right with you. IN 2002 when I was divorcing - they had no clue. Male lawyers didn't see it as a problem. He also had hidden recorders, cameras and hacked my work laptop. They want to see and hear stuff they shouldn't be able to - so much easier than being a real person, I guess.

@flowersinherhair 6 месяцев назад

❤ Hugs

@belindalocklear509 6 месяцев назад

It ended my 23, years of marriage. So sad.

@paolaristori6179 6 месяцев назад

How brave of you

@soul1380 6 месяцев назад

She was victimized. Having to see your perpetrator with your children every other week while you're without them feels like continued abuse... and then to have responsibility, financially, for his immorality is a slap over and over again. He's a big pervert. I'd get a different lawyer and get the kids under supervised visitation.

@snuff2023 6 месяцев назад

@jasonyork9966 there's definitely ways around paying child support! My son is 15, soon to be 16. I took a child support order out at age 5 because when I broke up with his bio when he was a year old, he didn't bother asking about or seeing my child let alone even TRY to support him (he knew my parents address, my dad's business address and my address at the time was in the phone book so he could have wrote or tried to visit on plenty occasions). Idk how this dude has not been put in jail yet. He pays a little here and there, then gets a doc to sign off saying he's so depressed and needs 30 days off etc. Then he all out stops complying with applying for jobs or going back to his job. So then I'll get papers from domestics saying he's not complying and there needs to be a court date and it just keeps going from there. 😂😂😂😂 it's fckn wild. I did offer to have him sign his rights over in the past and he refused.

@djlivvy46 6 месяцев назад

@@jasonyork9966- most women don't leave 'for no reason'. You just don't care about the actual reasons.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Nonsense... It's his kids too

@debfox 6 месяцев назад

@@jasonyork9966Imagine trying to justify a man like this getting 50/50 custody. You have some issues you need to work through. It’s not normal to jump to something like that from THIS video. Stereotypes don’t help anyone.

@Samsungsamsung-ec5gl 6 месяцев назад

@@djlivvy46THANK YOU for speaking truth

@andrewhurley7118 6 месяцев назад

John, you gotta drop the BetterHelp sponsorship, they suck so hard...

@chem3066 6 месяцев назад

They do suck you are correct

@trianglesandsquares420 6 месяцев назад

What sucks more is not having sponsorships

@danaldogericke3382 5 месяцев назад

Agreed 😑😑😑

@TASmith-ou3is 5 месяцев назад

I have thought the same thing. It looks bad on him for recommending them

@TASmith-ou3is 5 месяцев назад

@@trianglesandsquares420Worse would be not having listeners

@mango7966 6 месяцев назад

The name of my ex on my phone was "Let it go". It really helped me

@sarahjaye4117 6 месяцев назад

Ive changed names sorta like that in my phone too

@coonhound_pharoah 5 месяцев назад

You kept the number? Bad idea.

@Shane542 5 месяцев назад

Mine says “THE BASTARD WHO PUT YOU OUT” hahahahaha!

@daryls7656 4 месяца назад

Damn, they all dodged a bullet.

@charlesbell5500 2 месяца назад

@@Shane542 Why do you still have your ex's number? That's fucked.

@Loredana3005 6 месяцев назад

Some have 80k to spend on porn, and then there is me, trying to save and pay off my mortage 😂

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

Thank you! 😅

@angielogan1923 6 месяцев назад

Dude I've been trying to figure out why we are living paycheck to paycheck and my husband was paying about 500$ monthly for porn ... I didn't do the math yet but this happens in the middle class

@arfriedman4577 6 месяцев назад

I wouldn't be surprised if he ran up credit cards for porn and he's still paying it off.

@Joe-jc5ol 6 месяцев назад

And then there's me who worked in a porn company for 80k a year. Circle of porn?

@ilykepink 6 месяцев назад

she sad he had to pay $15k on his credit card debt

@lnlywriter9618 6 месяцев назад

Wow --- what is wrong with being married and sleeping in separate beds? My parents have been doing that since I left home over 30 years ago and they get along just fine. They both have said they each rest better. My dad has terrible sleep apnea and the noise of the CPAP kept mom awake. so they compromised and they each sleep and rest so much better. They are marking on 55 years of marriage and are doing just fine. Worrying about what people think of your life and home is nothing more than a total waste of time. -- They are NOT living your life or paying your bills. You do what is best for you and nobody else.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Well ya... CPAP makes sense to sleep in separate rooms, im assuming your dad has just put up with a sexless marriage...not a good idea for a brand new marriage

@kristinewberg7656 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828 If there aren't any kids in the house, sex can happen at other times of the day. Especially if they are retired. Just saying.

@angelatandfam9308 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828you don’t have to actually sleep in the same bed to have a sex life.

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Thank you. The dude was SO MISGUIDED and John started feeding it. Like bro get therapy. You are smothering this lady

@fantasea114 4 месяца назад

No man with a porn addiction should have custody of children, EVER.

@charlesbell5500 2 месяца назад

Almost all men have a porn addiction. It doesn't have anything to do with your ability as a father. lol

@bellaforyou6061 2 месяца назад

He probably only got a pass cause he went to rehab.

@Ayaa29048 2 месяца назад

Agreed.

@bcc7777 22 дня назад

My husband had a porn addiction and ended up doing something to our two year old foster daughter. After I called the police he commit suicide. Since then I've truly realized what a slippery slope porn can be.

@wonder12374 6 месяцев назад

Separate beds is a great idea and more couples need to try it. Just because there are separate beds doesn't mean the relationship is over, it just means happier people who get better sleep.

@FriendMariaAdrianna 6 месяцев назад

Yup 👌 Me and my hubby sleep in separate beds because it gets too hot and I can't sleep with him in there. I now get much better sleep and I am a much happier. Mommy 😊 I think it's all in the reason for separate beds. If you start sleeping in separate beds because of relationship issues, that may be a problem.

@shaunadumelle1624 6 месяцев назад

We also sleep separately :)

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Omg factttttt

@ravenofthewild 4 месяца назад

Once my partner and I tried separate sleeping it raised our intimacy because we were finally well rested...😊

@douglaswild3852 4 месяца назад

💯

@lifeaccordingtotheo9643 6 месяцев назад

The mom (porn widow) must of had the worst lawyer on the planet or completely folded in mediation that this guy got 50/50 custody and the house while she paid off the credit cards. W. T. F. You need to get a better lawyer and fight for your kids, they aren't safe with this addict! Fight already! And be cautious in your rebound relationship.

@mistermanman 6 месяцев назад

Exactly. I am SO ANGRY for that woman.

@jayhutch5186 6 месяцев назад

There must be more to the story!!! How did she go so long without any hint?

@lifeaccordingtotheo9643 6 месяцев назад

@@jayhutch5186 Exactly. If she didn't know then the credit cards must be in his name right? So why did she pay them off??

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Or... She's lying.

@txbre8758 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828you’ve commented on every comment disparaging things about women. You must be the ex husband

@OGA103 6 месяцев назад

We need to destigmatize sleeping in separate beds! I get the best sleep of my life whenever I sleep in bed alone.

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

It’s so normal and healthy ❤ I agree

@lindagliott5838 6 месяцев назад

For women every hug or touch does not mean that we need sex. Sometimes we just need to be cuddled without it leading to sex

@kevinglazier8950 6 месяцев назад

A lot of men are rarely ever touched affectionately outside of sex. It is so tied into our self-worth and sense of purpose. I’m not necessarily speaking for myself, just trying to add a perspective. This is difficult for men and women.

@djlivvy46 6 месяцев назад

@@kevinglazier8950- because being touched is automatically taken as a signal for sex. It would be good if you could learn to touch and be touched without that expectation.

@yourgirlfae 6 месяцев назад

@@kevinglazier8950you really cant speak for anyone BUT yourself bud

@Jewls1000 6 месяцев назад

Thank you. So sick of men "comforting" you then trying to have sex. Its so violating. Like wow this whole time you were just waiting to try that.

@cyn5962 6 месяцев назад

This is so true.@@djlivvy46

@marciabernard3820 6 месяцев назад

It's ok to be single.

@madisonandthefarm 6 месяцев назад

My ex husband bought an entire house without my knowledge during our marriage. I found out when the lawyers sent over documents to sign for closing, by law they have to notify the wife….it was wild.

@abcdefghijklmnop514 6 месяцев назад

lol so he didn’t buy it without you knowing.

@toomuchinformation 6 месяцев назад

@abcdefghijklmnop514 He pretty much did. He certainly didn't ask her opinion or inform her that he did. Stop splitting hairs.

@normantheforeman9866 6 месяцев назад

And then what happened?

@AlyssaTaylor9 6 месяцев назад

@abcdefghijklmnop514 With everything that has to happen before closing to buy a house, yeah he pretty much did.

@sarahholland2600 6 месяцев назад

My BFF's husband did this too. It also turned out he had huge gambling debts & was secret bisexual. Someone later told my friend that her husbands "whole family swung every which way" so they werent surprised he was bi too.

@jenjen282 6 месяцев назад

The first caller... Please dont think that holding on to that anger and resentment wont spill over to ever other relationship. It will 100% show up and those other people will feel it in some kind of way. Find healing and let it go.

@vannisworld 6 месяцев назад

I was just thinking this. She's in another relationship, but she's still crying over the heartache of everything. Maybe she needs to take time single to heal.. but we all grieve different. Hope she's able to let this go one day

@Syndilouwho 6 месяцев назад

Not just for her but for him even if he is physically abstinent aka he thinks is sober. I spent 29 years in that mess. I love ya girl, find me if you need a sister thru it.

@mistermanman 6 месяцев назад

She's mad as hell and should get her vengeance

@chriskozak7356 6 месяцев назад

Eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. She just needs to find peace.

@Jewls1000 6 месяцев назад

Okay I don't think he understands how betrayal like this haunts you. She doesn't want to be angry, she can't help it and she's asking how to stop. Make the thoughts stop. She can't help but have these feelings.

@Veracityseeker7 6 месяцев назад

I'm frustrated that this woman is already in another relationship while she's still harboring resentment for the other one. That cannot be good for her new partner. How come nobody can take time alone to heal?

@IamOkayla 6 месяцев назад

Yeah

@bres9977 6 месяцев назад

I agree. 9 years together, 5 years married, 5 months divorced and already in a new relationship. She hasn’t healed from the last one.

@photographyenthusiast9941 6 месяцев назад

And yet nobody bashes on men for having new screw buddies the very next week!!! People need to quit shaming women for their choices. It’s none of your business what she decides to do.

@dtschuor459 6 месяцев назад

@@photographyenthusiast9941Personally, don’t care the gender of the person, when you launch into a new relationship so quickly after a long and obviously dysfunctional one is not a smart decision. I don’t care who has “new screw buddies” whether it is the man or the woman, that doesn’t bother me. But, starting a whole new relationship so quickly? Doesn’t bode well for resolving the issues that remain from the previous relationship…that’s just my opinion.

@nikstar1313 6 месяцев назад

Yessss

@Kdkat2024 6 месяцев назад

My husband and I have separate rooms, and it saved us. I don't agree that you have to share a room at all. We've been together 20 years. 😊 To each their own.

@sarahjaye4117 6 месяцев назад

I will always have my own room, horrid insomnia

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Yea 11 years!! ❤

@TASmith-ou3is 5 месяцев назад

It used to be normal years ago to have separate bedrooms

@colorsflight6432 12 дней назад

My grandparents who have been married for like idk 40 years have had sleeping together and not sleeping together over their marriage at different periods that I remember quite well. Now currently at this time they do sleep in the same bed.

@TNMountaingirl 6 месяцев назад

What kind of lawyer did this woman get about her husband in the porn addiction. He’s the one that faltered and spent the money. He’s not responsible for the house or for him to be able to have his child 50% of the time. People like this don’t stop watching porn, they don’t stop paying for it. And then it gets worse and it gets weird and then your child could be involved. I agree visit that. With a good lawyer.

@saywhatnow57 6 месяцев назад

Judges are honestly probably numb to the porn argument. They'd have to take children away from almost every man in a divorce because it comes in up a very high percentage of divorces now as a primary reason.

@Cynnas 6 месяцев назад

He went to a rehab and unless you actually know him personally you're just talking out of your @ss. 🙄

@erismana2105 6 месяцев назад

@@Cynnas ditto to you

@yingyang7448 6 месяцев назад

As someone that has had a porn addiction in the past and has paid for porn, there IS hope for some guys that are in real deep but unfortunately the caller’s ex husband just isn’t one of them. Maybe there’s hope for him in the future.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Why do you think him watching porn is somehow an acceptable reason to keep his kids from him. It's amazing how women think the kids are 100% theirs and they get to decide IF the father gets to see the kids.

@ebhs2202 5 месяцев назад

Let her know she got off easy: There's the Grant Amato case in my area and this man spent over $200,000 of his parents money on a WebCam girl and then shot and killed his family when they tried to stop him. She will probably end up with full custody at some point. Pray girl.

@zeal4god402 6 месяцев назад

5 months divorced, in a new relationship and still frustrated over her ex? She's not healed yet! I wonder if she was hoping her new relationship would facilitate her healing. I pray she isn't emotionally bleeding on this new man due to emotional wounds still open. If she is, she needs to be single and get healed prior to being with a new man

@nataliianezhynska5119 6 месяцев назад

My husband is a resident that has to be up at 4 and be in bed by 8pm. He has a separate room where he can rest on time and not hear our absolutely wild toddlers. Separate beds don't ruin marriage, they give you more sleep:)

@mistermanman 6 месяцев назад

I actually disagree with Dr. John on this. Her ex husband needs to be publicly shamed until the end of time for what he's done. Men should not be able to get away with stuff like this with impunity.

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

Other men would have to do that and hold them to that higher standard. Because men usually don't listen to the women they've hurt. Unfortunately many men today make excuses for p@rn and cheating.

@elisegothlix1183 6 месяцев назад

Shame doesn't actually change behavior, it buries it. Pointless to shame.

@RyansReaper 6 месяцев назад

Men? Nobody should be able to spend that much lmao

@brandonbrodbeck6688 6 месяцев назад

My ex spent 80k on absolutely nothing. She would buy shoes and clothes and not wear it. And sell them 2 or 3 months later for nothing on Craigslist. Was strange and took a while to put the peices together. Over maybe 4 years. Would buy $200 shoes purses and sell the for like $20 just to buy stuff and have it. We were together for 15 years. Was just weird. We made decent money and wondered why she always was out of money but I just made enough that it didn't hit me until we had a kid and needed to watch our money and she just didn't want to even try to budget which we had always done together. She just turned into a different person and she's still doing it just with her parents living at their house

@fallon7616 6 месяцев назад

@@brandonbrodbeck6688 Not all good Wives do that. 😊

@MBJean 6 месяцев назад

Their child is in danger with his father, rehab or not.

@soul1380 6 месяцев назад

100% agree. He's a PERV.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

You can't make such a claim at all. So every parent who watches porn is endangering their child? Ya ok...

@MBJean 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828 lol I love your username, love TPB. In regards to your comment, of course not, but just like all over vices it’s a spectrum and spending that much time and money on porn is definitely a problem. Studies have shown the dangers of pornography and the slippery slope of desensitization.

@blackosprey2219 6 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828"Just watching porn" downplays the fact he willfully wasted $80k on it. He could've blown $80K on yu-gi-oh cards for all I care. It still shows his judgment and priorities are suspect at best.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

@@blackosprey2219 you don't get to decide that he doesn't get to see his kids over that. It's bullshit

@jes7058 6 месяцев назад

Porn should be illegal. It is in Dubai. MAKE PORN ILLEGAL!!!

@SimbaAliaye 6 месяцев назад

Anger helped keep me going and safe. My husband of 30 yrs dissipated $1M similar to caller. He was living a double life. The anger is part of the cognitive dissonance we experience when we recognize Mr. Hyde.

@Bespoke-z8g 6 месяцев назад

Our society has become so desensitized and normalizes the very things that are destructive to the mind, body and soul. Not to mention relationships and marriages. Porn has become something that we should think is “no big deal.” That’s a lie. Porn is like a chemical addiction. Like an alcoholic, it may start with beer or wine, but when their effects start to dull, harder liquor is the replacement.

@simonelimaUSA 6 месяцев назад

I have been happily married for 22 years, we sleep separated for about 10 years nothing changed in our marriage but we always make sure we have night dates, anyway you have to be awake to date 😂

@samusvikerness661 6 месяцев назад

80k on porn? I just don’t get it. 80k on cocaine or something I can actually understand.

@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist 5 месяцев назад

I personally dont have anything against Pron. i would like a partner to try new things with. But if they spend money on it, or cheat, that is a definite problem and things definitely need re-evaluated, or ended. I think its important for people to find someone they are on s*xual wave length with, which can be incredibly hard, you can get along in almost every regard, but s*x or finances seems to be the dealbreaker for most relationships. I think it would be nice if we could actually cut through the superficial stuff, and people would be more honest. I could tell you exactly the kind of person I am within a day, so I dont understand dating for months/years really. I’m a bit more agnostic, I’m frugal and like to save/invest, plan to retire early, I’d like 1-2 kids, I’m Pro choice, I’m Pro 2A, I’m pretty kinky as an individual. XD I like Anime/Cartoons/games.

@elettramia6380 5 месяцев назад

@@XFizzlepop-Berrytwistthis sounds like a poor character description on a dating app. good luck 👍

@XFizzlepop-Berrytwist 5 месяцев назад

@@elettramia6380 Mind explaining what is untruthful about what I said though? I dont think my way of thinking is exactly wrong? You dont think its important to find someone you are compatible with?

@JennaP-y8j 6 месяцев назад

I agree for the last caller on taking a break, my ex fiancé and I did 3 months before our already paid for wedding for 3 weeks. When I came home he physically abused me for the 1st time out of anger that I was the one to leave..and as PAINFUL as it was going through that/ cancelling the wedding/ moving, God gave me some great discernment during that time to protect me from a potential lifetime of abuse. Take the break. See how you both act/ feel at the end of it. Stay with someone that cares about you and understand no one will judge you for doing that.

@LauraSnow-in3nx 6 месяцев назад

Can I just say to that first caller I am so freaking proud of you! I don’t know you but I’m proud of you!!

@IAmALawyerToo 6 месяцев назад

Me too!

@justinfay3011 6 месяцев назад

Those women deserve better.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Doubtful

@Eric_Bassett 6 месяцев назад

You can’t really presume to know what anyone you don’t know deserves lol. Generally most of us deserve nothing. People don’t deserve anything. The entitlement is why the world the way it is today.

@mr.noname3073 6 месяцев назад

Chase that tail of perpetual happiness women! It's a lie the pursuit of happiness is all we have in life and the road to moments of happiness is the joy of life. No one is happy all the time that's a lie being told to women these days 🎉

@Rotting12 5 месяцев назад

@@randybobandy9828neck incel

@jamiewilding6979 6 месяцев назад

To the guy that doesn't want separate beds I suggest a divided King bed. It is like two XL twins pushed together. You have separate covers, if you get adjustable beds one can sleep elevated and one flat. My husband and I love it.

@blackosprey2219 6 месяцев назад

That's exactly what I was thinking too.

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

He’s smothering this Lady

@veebliss1266 6 месяцев назад

Porn is so TOXIC and men justify anything . This is absolutely disgusting , and I feel so bad for her and her son!! They don’t care who they damage ! This poor son will become just like his disordered and toxic perverted dad! This is why women say stop watching porn! Stop jeopardizing and self sabotage your family!!

@whowearereally6494 6 месяцев назад

Girl, I wasted so much time while my son was gone visiting his fathervyears ago, all that time I could’ve been out having fun, making new memories for myself and smiling, being upset got me nothing, nothing, nothing. Go have something something and smile… make the best use of your time so you can and you will be so proud of yourself!!!

@mymia1027 6 месяцев назад

I went through something similar but honestly living well is the best revenge. Make yourself smile even if you don't feel like it. Do something you have always wanted to do. You are going to be OK. The anger and hate will become dull with time. Good luck.

@ellie1984er 6 месяцев назад

💯 "living well is the best revenge, make yourself smile even though you don't feel like it" this. 😭❤️❤️❤️

@cowwhisperer8927 6 месяцев назад

Andrew Tate took his money 😅💸

@barbiesergio7663 6 месяцев назад

Every man ever: "My love language is physical touch...." 🙄

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Ya and?.... That and acts of service. Welcome to reality you bitter old lady.

@kevinarodgers 6 месяцев назад

Yes! 👏🏻

@nichole_danielle2083 6 месяцев назад

It’s awful

@sofiabravo1994 6 месяцев назад

But that’s mine I love being touched in an affectionate way 😅

@FriendMariaAdrianna 6 месяцев назад

@@sofiabravo1994absolutely. Women don't realize how bad touch starvation is because women naturally get touched more. I think everyone would start going a little batty if they went through a time where they were not being kindly touched in any way by anyone ever.

@GAFB1122 6 месяцев назад

I understand the first caller. It is so hard to put down anger when you feel someone never got their comeuppance even though intellectually I know the people I'm angry with don't give me a first or second thought. See, while not perfect, I'm still the good one, the one that can be counted on, the responsible one, the one who stays out of trouble, etc. It is part of my character, but I also have concerns regarding negative consequences should I cross the line. I'm also the oldest of all my siblings if you believe in birth order character traits. Unfortunately, many in my life have crossed lines with one bad behavior after another, AND it seems they never get their comeuppance. It makes me angry, and it can be hard to put down. But I continue moving forward!

@danilaroche1156 6 месяцев назад

The Lord says we reap what we sow. The Lord won't let evil doers get away with it.

@saladboy1465 6 месяцев назад

COULDA GOT THE REAL THING FOR THAT PRICE MY MAN

@rg1whiteywins598 6 месяцев назад

My parents slept in separate rooms because they had incompatible sleep. Dad snored, mom like the room freezing cold. They were both light sleepers. They made a way around it for intimacy when I was asleep. But dad had a business and mom did all the work at home except repairs, so they needed bedtime to be for sleep.

@glion7792 6 месяцев назад

That woman had the worst lawyer on earth- I am proud of her that she has a her own home-and another love interest- God bless her!

@Bebedollie 6 месяцев назад

The consequences of sexual sin are like no other. Be careful out there. Pawn addiction affects every one and everything. Its spiritual, and i truly believe that the only way to be free is with Jesus. No matter how much therapy you have or rehab, that will not truly set you free.💔🙏

@danilaroche1156 6 месяцев назад

I agree. My 2 marriages and other relationships all failed because my partner was a sex addict. They weren't willing to seek God for help and deliverance. Jesus saves.

@DevHazy 5 месяцев назад

Jesus isn’t real but nice try

@janethartmannjones4781 6 месяцев назад

I carried a cement block around a labyrinth and could let go of a major grief, was so therapeutic. Putting feelings into art/physical actions really moves through the "in the head" resistance

@j.t.1086 6 месяцев назад

Literally carried cement through a labyrinth? Interesting concept

@FriendMariaAdrianna 6 месяцев назад

This sounds awesome. It reminds me of going through a hard time and I got into lifting weights. In my mind. I pictured myself lifting my problems off of me. So I understand the concept, I'm glad this worked well for you

@tinaf600 Месяц назад

The blessing is Rebecca only had one child by that man. She still high-value enough and blessed enough that the right man will come and love her and her child the right way. Thank God she didn't have three or four of his kids and now is divorce. She was able to buy her own home herself and provide for herself. Having one child is way easier to manage when you're by yourself. Trust me I've been there and done that. My baby boy is 17 years old and I'm remarried.

@valenlevalenle6394 6 месяцев назад

I love my husband but I sleep better separately. He doesn’t like this and wants me to move back into our room. How do I convey that I still love him but I love having my own room and space too. HELP 😢

@plousia 6 месяцев назад

Just keep reiterating that it has nothing to do with how you feel about him, you just need to sleep as sleep is necessary for life. Make sure you spend plenty of time cuddling and don't stop being intimate with him. He'll be ok with it eventually.

@jellyrcw12 6 месяцев назад

I did not even spend $80k on my house and bachelor's degree combined!

@Eric_Bassett 6 месяцев назад

You must live in the middle of nowhere.

@jellyrcw12 6 месяцев назад

@Eric_Bassett I live in the second biggest city in my state Which is a top 5 population state

@meg894 Месяц назад

Okay but reality check, thats not most peoples situation. You got lucky and had some priviage to get here. 80,000 ridiculous amount, your comparison worthless because the going rate for a house is not 80k but over it and you know it. Come on man, not the vibe.

@jellyrcw12 Месяц назад

@meg894 this video is about $80k on freaking p*** which is the definition of frivolous. I was smart enough to get a 90% ride to college and graduate with $11k in debt, both a fixer upper for $60k all within the last 6 years. These things are possible, most people don't look for opportunities or pursue them.

@beebeelicious 6 месяцев назад

Thank you Dr John. Currently in the sewage and needed that kick.

@WaterWitcher 6 месяцев назад

Been watching a while and I love the growth and have gained soooo much listening!! Thank you so much!!! Also, I love the energy in your opening! I love the shouting, hollering, yelling.. whatever your team calls it! Don’t change! It makes us feel like you are excited for us to be here! 👏👏👏💯💯💯💯

@brightpage1020 6 месяцев назад

I'd like to invite you to premier if you haven't already: MWF, 9:00 AM EST. Cheers 🎉Friendly fan!

@ef366 3 месяца назад

The first caller's ex spent 80K on porn and he STILL received 50/50 custody? She needed a much better lawyer. There's no way she should have accepted that arrangement.

@johannesswillery7855 3 месяца назад

You're funny.

@lboston4660 6 месяцев назад

I could spend 80,000 years watching porn and still never spend a dime on it... my god why do people pay when there's literally more free porn in any given genre than anybody could watch in a lifetime

@bufficliff8978 6 месяцев назад

Interaction, personalization, power, control, and getting a reaction

@sarahalderman3126 6 месяцев назад

Very true. But the money aspect of this is only a fraction of the problem. There is zero place for porn in a grown man or woman's life let alone in a married couple's life. Pathetic.

@toomuchinformation 6 месяцев назад

Why do you resent paying for it? Do you also resent paying for other entertainment online?

@RepentImmediately 6 месяцев назад

@@toomuchinformationwould you pay to watch podcasts when so many are free?

@RealThunderberg 6 месяцев назад

Lol truth right here. Great comment.

@jee911 6 месяцев назад

Woah!!! 80 K? And I really love this PODCAST. It's not that far from predator catches, but it's a little different! Gotta catch up on them!

@victoriakennedy4811 6 месяцев назад

the problem is it is hard to forget the past when you have to pay back all the bills - especially his bills and no one helps to make him pay.

@frederickvalencia4976 6 месяцев назад

Married for 11 years and i am super inlove with my wife. Intemency 2 to 3 times a week. I sleep in the sofa 😂. She sleeps alone in a king size bed. My defense i have a 125 gallon aquarium in my living room that i enjoy. Also we wake up and sleep in different time. Almost 4hr difference because of work.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

As long as you're getting intimacy that's fine. The problem is 99% of marriage would lack intimacy if they slept in separate rooms.

@Armandolorian93 6 месяцев назад

Did anybody tell him that you can watch porn for free on your phone ?

@catwoolf11 6 месяцев назад

This reminds me a little of my own struggle after my divorce to not continue to replay and relive my anger. At first the anger helped propel me to do what I needed to do to get out of the marriage even though I worried that breaking up the family would hurt my kids. I was worried about all the conflict that would persist as we co-parented our kids and I was so depleted emotionally and psychologically (and financially) from all the conflict. After the divorce was finalized I was mad at myself for still being angry. I had gone through everything horrible about a high conflict divorce including several calls to the police and a need to obtain a restraining order, and my soul was still contaminated with rage. Now, 16 years later, my adult son has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and it's really clear to me he gets it from his dad. In my own case I think the rage came because there was an undiagnosed mental health issue that was chipping away at the marriage until there was nothing salvageable. With help I did figure out how to shut off the rage though. When the thoughts would come on, I'd recognize they were there and they were doing nothing to promote me. I'd get up and do something that offered a sensory experience I could focus on. For example, a friend at work had given me some really awesome moisturizing hand soap with an amazing smell. So one thing I'd do is get up from whatever I was doing and wash my hands with the soap. The sound and feel of the warm water along with the texture and smell of the soap gave me something I could focus on that was distinct and powerful enough to distract me. I'd remind myself that I'm not the same thing as the bad things that happened to me and that my thoughts were not the boss of me. I needed to become the best version of myself. My kids needed that from me too, in fact, the whole universe probably needed that from me. Another thing I'd do is sit in a chair position against a wall and focus on the burning sensation in my legs. Eventually I got tired of burning legs and getting up to wash my hands all the time and figured out how to quiet my thoughts without taking those measures.

@Mr.mathias693 6 месяцев назад

Super tough

@sugarshannie623 6 месяцев назад

Much respect to you!!

@chloeaviva 5 месяцев назад

I’m Jewish and we sleep in separate beds for about two weeks of the month. It makes the two weeks sharing the same bed even sweeter.

@Cosmicvzn 6 месяцев назад

Oh man i could never sleep in the same room with a partner who snores LMAO

@velvetfaerie 6 месяцев назад

I slept separately from my butthurt ex due to being unable to sleep next to his snoring. And he used porn excessively. It destroyed our sex life. He also did the bare minimum in our relationship emotionally and in the home. I also suspect infidelity on some level but I have no proof. Oh and it was all my fault. 🤷‍♀️ I don't miss this person AT ALL. I am physically and mentally healthier than I have ever been.

@wicklander855 6 месяцев назад

Writing letters or texts that you never send is really beneficial. For me it takes the weight off my shoulders. I can say all the crappy things I want and play the argument in my head and "win". Then I just don't send it. It fulfills my stupid ego. Somehow it works every time.

@alaska2026 6 месяцев назад

Same for me with comments on facebook. Long time ago, i had to comment on everything. Now, i only comment and leave the page without posting. It does so good and it helps with the social media addiction..

@Pheonix1111 6 месяцев назад

Katy needs healthy self-esteem and to confidently state and maintain her standards and boundaries. Her fiancé will never respect her for backing down. He just sees this as a green light to cheat on her in the future. But if she stated and expected him to abide by her boundaries permanently, he would respect her. Personally, I would leave him. I do not trust him. He was a coward by starting another relationship with someone else behind Katy’s back. If he was brave, he would have been up front and direct with Katy about his need to break up. Katy deserves better.

@ayea28 6 месяцев назад

I rarely watch porn, but even when I do it's free. I can't understand paying for something you can get for free...there's good stuff too. Either he was scammed or isn't savvy enough to search for it and got lazy and spent money on ads he saw. Porn addiction is no joke, its scary he got 50/50 custody, I'd be worried for my children being accidently exposed or worse...

@netpunk5890 6 месяцев назад

So you support commercialized grape by consuming it, but you refuse to pay for it. Stay classy, babe!

@Black_Samurai-fish 6 месяцев назад

@@netpunk5890porn is a horrible horrible thing but most of those women aren’t victims. They do it for a quick buck and they don’t care they’re helping to ruin families and the minds of children. They’re guilty of a lot too.

@EveryoneIsEqual101 6 месяцев назад

Cam girls and only fans

@ayea28 6 месяцев назад

@netpunk5890 why specifically are you saying "grape". 🤔 Did I say what I watched? If that's what you're into...you do you.

@ayea28 6 месяцев назад

@NerdyGirlLiveLove I guess I'm too poor or cheap. Lol! I usually read my "content". Watching it is rare for me.

@evandegenfelder4554 6 месяцев назад

I want to say that Dr. John is right when he discusses with Rebecca about 'holding on' to her anger and the situation. She is trying to retain a sense of control and have some effect on the outcome. My husband and I are 6 months past D-day when I discovered his *30+ YEAR addiction to PMO*. At the time we had been married 38 years. My world was completely blown apart. Recently I've come to realize that I've been terrified to stop focusing on our situation, stop watching every move he makes; if I take my eye off of ANYTHING, he will hurt me again, betray me again with more lies and secrecy. It is completely exhausting and not solving a damn thing. We are in therapy. We are trying to heal. If we had been married only a few years, who knows? I would probably left. I've known and loved him for 42 years, we had children together. It's not too late for Rebecca. It's too late for me.

@Silvermoonscorpion 2 месяца назад

I'm not trying to be a jerk but what does PMO stand for?

@evandegenfelder4554 2 месяца назад

@@Silvermoonscorpion PMO is the acronym for Porn/Masturbation/Orgasm. IE, a secret solitary sex life.

@barbiesergio7663 6 месяцев назад

I've been carrying this for 14 years with a narc ex. Boundaries, more boundaries, increased boundaries. I keep writing letters it's so hard.

@sherrywilliams409 2 месяца назад

John, you nailed it when you told this girl not to allow this guy to hitch a ride on her soul by allowing herself to be angry! He’s not worth the stress it will cause! Stress is horrible on our bodies!!

@ajones8008 6 месяцев назад

80k on OF + 80k for a divorce attorney = 50% of all his stuff not getting taken away. 160k to have your cake and eat it too.

@BobSaget-ig6dt Месяц назад

$80,000 is hard to judge this man that could be chump change to him for all we know. No one is talking about what the hell is wrong in this relationship that caused him to even need to go to cam girls in the first place. Am I saying it’s right? No absolutely not but there’s two sides to a story and she doesn’t sound completely innocent. Also just because he has an issue with watching camgirl doesn’t mean he’s a bad dad and doesn’t deserve custody of his child what he does in privacy is his own business as long as he’s not doing drugs or alcohol, or watching that stuff in front of his kid then he’s OK. There is a shortage of good dads and for all you people know he could be number one dad whenever that child is over at his house.

@shopnstuff8228 6 месяцев назад

john is so genuine.. his empathy for ppl.. he is amazing God bless him we need more like him in this world

@coonhound_pharoah 5 месяцев назад

So I'm assuming you haven't figured out yet the show is 100% staged and fake?

@polkadolt 6 месяцев назад

Dr John PLEASE tell people about the Cardboard Butterfly Experiment and how this artificial ‘super stimulation’ of porn or even looking at Instagram models all day skews and reduces men’s motivation to form, grow and maintain bonds with a woman IN PERSON and feel satisfied. It’s so important. Everyone loses here.. unless all someone wants is attention, cash and material stuff

@beckyperkins7393 6 месяцев назад

I’m going to share your channel with all my network. I love everything you say. Thank you ❤

@erra1645 5 месяцев назад

My God. How narrow minded and Conservative is this show? The second she mentions he watches porn and something about sex addiction John acts like hes a monster. If you really regard porn as an unhealthy addiction, why was there zero sympathy or compassion???

@christinao8877 6 месяцев назад

Caller should get supervised visits for the kids when they are around the Father considering everything.

@randybobandy9828 6 месяцев назад

Wrong. They are his kids too.

@tiredallthetime1636 6 месяцев назад

I’m dying to see a full picture because there no way he did all of that and got primary custody and the house and she had to pay off that debt. There’s got to be another element to the story

@elisaprado4501 6 месяцев назад

He made a great point in asking her how she missed this giant red flag. How in the world???

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

Liars are great at lying until they arent

@arthurshat7793 6 месяцев назад

i CaN fIx HiM

@debbielockhart7762 6 месяцев назад

@@blueseptember2174People are good at lying to themselves. There are always red flags getting ignored.

@juless7807 6 месяцев назад

@elisaprado4501 Sex addicts tend to be incredibly narcissistic, and until you have experienced the mindfunk that is a relationship with one, you can't understand. But, those of us who have been there, know how completely possible it is. The manipulation is next level.

@janethartmannjones4781 6 месяцев назад

Addicts are very beguiling and are experts at hiding the ugliness

@kristin55watson 2 месяца назад

This woman got screwed and it sucks but she needs to be grateful that she's rid of this creep and start enjoying her life again.

@HeidisHereAndThere 6 месяцев назад

Get rid of the devil horns. 🙄 She obviously isnt over him yet, thats why she still has feelings. Yet, she bounced into another rebound relationship?? LET THESE GUYS GO, AND FOCUS ON YOURSELF! And quit giving new age advice!😮

@Will-ef2tw 6 месяцев назад

Bars, I was thinking the same thing

@mistermanman 6 месяцев назад

She is angry that he ruined her life and took her money and kid for half the time in the process. Wouldn't you be angry?

@celrocc8766 6 месяцев назад

Heavy on the first & last line

@HeidisHereAndThere 6 месяцев назад

@@mistermanman Of course! But why bounce to a rebound relationship when she clearly isnt ready to let him go?? Foolish

@j.t.1086 6 месяцев назад

I agree she shouldn't jump to another relationship while still angry, but implying that being angry at someone who hurt you means you're still romantically hung up on them is messed up.

@demgphix 4 месяца назад

In my opinion there is nothing sadder than someone who has everything... then gives it all up for pointless selfish wants.

@archangelpastor 5 месяцев назад

I am a MSW student. I am learning more from just listening to you than a lot of classes over had. Thank you for what you do. And I know it’s more the Dr. Delony who makes this happen. Thank you to everyone.

@CeceBiche 3 месяца назад

Sleeping in separate bedrooms is awesome. My husband loves the space, I love the silence, and we’ve built evening and morning routines that are just our favourite times of the day. I really recommend testing it !

@miscellaneousme 6 месяцев назад

I know a couple who put two twin beds side-by-side in their room because the husband moved around in his sleep and the wife was a light sleeper. It helped them be in the same room but have their own space to sleep.

@scarletoracle 6 месяцев назад

Porn may be free, but you and your loved ones will still pay for it in other ways. Its a blight on humanity.

@aimeehamby828 6 месяцев назад

Happy Monday Morning Everyone ☀️😊

@ivnehaas 6 месяцев назад

1st caller: There are sooo many people trapped in relationships with sex addicts unable to leave due to trauma bond. Proud of you for leaving! Now, let it go! 2nd caller: life is long, there will be lots of bigger fish to fry. Sleeping in different beds sounds difficult now, but you will probably find it to be useful once in a while, when you need a break from a crying newborn, or you want to give your wife a break and be on dad duty for the night, when one of you is sick and need to quarantine, or when you simply need some rest. Also, bad couples are not bad for sleeping separate, they sleep separate because they are bad. You, in the other hand, sleep in separate bed for a purpose. That's a completely different thing. Sounds like you have a healthy relationship, congrats and good luck! 3rd caller: Get out. Do not get married. Your relationship is toast already. This will haunt you for the rest of your life. If for some reason you can't, seek therapy.

@dorino9057 6 месяцев назад

I think it’s unromantic so you sleep together then get up and leave. No, I like cuddles and falling asleep in each other’s arms.

@itswhatever6950 6 месяцев назад

Y’all just be marrying anybody 😂😂😂 then a lot of these women then come on the internet to make us single women feel bad about not being married… meanwhile their “husbands” are out here cleaning out their bank account for virtual 🐱 😂😂😂

@blueseptember2174 6 месяцев назад

There's alot of liars out there. I hope you never encounter one ❤

@EveryoneIsEqual101 6 месяцев назад

Hubby n i have two long twins side by side. It works great

@Pinky_1212 6 месяцев назад

Good Morning Everyone ☀️

@anaa03899 6 месяцев назад

Good morning 😊 Stay safe

@jee911 6 месяцев назад

Checking in, have a good day

@Pinky_1212 6 месяцев назад

@@jee911 Wishing you a good day too ✨

@Pinky_1212 6 месяцев назад

@@anaa03899 Hope you do as well ✨

@amandakimsey9013 Месяц назад

Thank you so, so much for the advice on the discussion about emotional cheating. I went through a similar situation a while back. Your conversion showed me how to change my thinking process from focusing on the cheating aspect and appreciate that what he did “peaking over the ledge” brought him back to reality. Ever since he did what he did, his actions have shown his intentions. He’s sincerely apologized and we have worked on building my trust back. He’s being patient and understanding. He’s never looked back and has put me/ us as his number one priority. Unfortunately , from time to time, I still struggle to put it completely behind me with the fears creeping up in my mind of what if he does it again? Thinking that this situation boosted us into a closer connection and the start of something better is how I need to view it. He’s a great man and our relationship is worth fighting for. Thanks again for the different perspective of viewing that mistake has led us to where we are now. Next time the worry creeps in, I can tell myself we are in a great place in our relationship and totally devoted to each other and the life we are building together.

@thatsiamesecatgirl 6 месяцев назад

i found the advise about the first story about letting go of resentment very helpful.

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