Story 1: Should have sued his best man for the wedding incident too and asked for compensation for emotional trauma and infidelity since he and his ex were technically licensed with the marriage office before the wedding event. Also, the bridesmaids as well for encouraging the affair.
Usually people that are in situations like this don't know about it and don't even want to bother with it as they don't want to spend anymore time with the people that have essentially ruined their lives, whether that be in a courtroom or on a phone call
That's the thing I don't get with Cheaters. "Oh, they rizzed me up." "Oh, we flirted and things got heated!" My fucking God, are you a dog in heat, with no self-control? I was the horniest things on two legs from 16-30 and I still never went over the line with other peoples' partners or spouses, or with anyone too drunk to actually consent. What the fuck. What the actual fuck are people on that they think that's an acceptable excuse for that level of betrayal?
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Lack of self control and a society that keeps drilling it into women's heads than can have it all and do whatever they wish, with no consequences. I mean FFS in major MSM blogs you find articles about "Why cheating on your man is good for your relationship" and other insane crap. But that is not how life works and other people are not just here to be pawns to some deranged mentally 14yo, 20-40yo who cannot keep their pants on.
"too drunk to consent" being drunk doesnt mean you cant consent. If it did then you wouldnt be liable for drunk driving, crimes commited while drunk, or money you spent while drunk.
Story 2 is sketchy at best. A girl going out with girlfriends is to go dancing, drinking, and checking out guys! I think the wife wants to do more with other cute guys and maybe even already cheated.😮
The second story... yeah man. I say cheating. Even if I were to believe she felt safer with her girlfriends, can we just admit that it's very sketchy to "spare someone's feelings" over something like that? She could honestly ask him "Can you work out more to help me feel more safe around you?" Because wow... he's in the denial boat
I bet she is. They still go to the city together her her excuse makes zero sense why she won’t bring him to places she frequents. It’s literally non dangerous place. Also having a man with you automatically makes you safer than a group of girls. Men are more more likely to leave a girl alone with a guy then with girls. Even if she doesn’t feel safe with him she is still hiding something and the fact that he wouldn’t even look into it is ridiculous. He needs to follow her out one night and watch her to make sure.
Did the 2nd story remind anyone else of the Reddit story where the girlfriend wanted to fight her boyfriend to show how strong she was only to be held down and lost easily that it affected Their relationship?
Sometimes if it’s a public area that anyone could pass by, they’ll let you view it. Or if the wedding planner is associated with the hotel/reception, they may allow them an exception with good reason.
Story 2. Dude just look at your wife and say "I want you to really try and stop me, and I am going to come at you hard". Then come at her HARD. She will see that there is a real difference between an average dude who works out some and a lady who thinks she is fit and better. Unless she is in BJJ like every day then you have this. After that, just ask her what exactly her girlfriends are going to do? Lastly, what she is saying is BS. there is another reason she doesn't want you along.
Theirs a different reddit story with that premise. The bf overpowered his gf, and ended up getting an election. He tried to downplay it, and the gf broke up with him over it.
Yah, she has him by the balls, she called him a bitch and that any of her scrawny friends is more capable than him, and like, even if she knows self defense, doing a BJJ is really different when the other party gives fuckall about the rules of engagement, here in Colombia I once saw a dude out of his fucking mind bite someone's fingers off while the other was trying to do a submission, don't know what it was, it was horrible, but like, dude, his wife doesn't respect him, of this is outright hoe behavior, she goes to a restaurant, her friends have some skimpy clothes for her to change to, then she goes goblin, gobling some balls, and comes back to Mr cheesecake, unaware like a bitch
In the first real fight I ever got into it took three grown women to pull me off the other kid and that was in elementary school. Why do so many women these days think they are an Amazon or some shit just cause they do cardio.
2nd story. Man that girl is cheating may just be my trust issues but i fully believe she is cheating no doubt. Like even if you didnt feel safe with him you could ask him to work out so you do feel safe but idk
In the first story the biggest assholes were actually the bridesmaids for suggesting the one last fling imo. Like it seemed to me she wouldnt have done it if the bridesmaids didnt say anything.
Getting cheated on sucks. Yelling and "getting even" in the moment can be incredibly satisfying but never, NEVER forget that apathy and then success is the best revenge. The person who ripped your heart out seeing and knowing you are doing better now than with them is priceless. It's so easy to give up your dignity for short term satisfaction, resist the urge and come out of it a better person.
OP goes from one cheater to a single mom. 🤣 I can see OP down the road will eventually update that relationship goes bad too. OP needs to take a break.
@@TheReasonableLiberal-hn2rs How is it "red-pilled" to say OP needs to take a break? What he went through is traumatizing he should of held off dating for a little bit to make sure his mind is in the right place.
@@TheReasonableLiberal-hn2rswell, let me explain that to you...single moms by definition choose to have kid with someone unreliable or as a product of one night stand, maybe some "situationship"...that fact alone is telling me that she is doing very bad choices in her life...single moms are literally the worst option in dating. If she's hot, fine for recreation, but why should any man choose to raise someone's else kid?
story 2: the wife is delusional if she thinks she as a fit women (no fighting sports etc.) can best a fat tall man in a physical altercation. Source: did muay thai, bjj and mma for quite some time
Unless you are a trained fighter (not recommend even if you are) Don't ever try to fight a man. They are 100% stronger. I trained at muay thai Gym, and during sparing saw, a male beginner ate a female trainer kicks to the gut like it's nothing. He misses all the punch, but god damn if this is not a sparing, he would rip her apart. Stay safe and sane, ladies.
The first lesson in most fighting disciplines is humility; I don't think I've ever met a woman who had this attitude like she was an Amazon that actually had any experience fighting.
So her friends told her to have one last fling. Proof that if your woman is hanging around with single women friends, massive red flag. Single women do not like seeing their friends in relationships, and will try and end them.
That's not how annulments work. They're granted by the state, not a church, and can be done for a number of reasons including the wedding not being consummated after the ceremony...which this wasn't.
Is signing the marriage license before the wedding usual? All of the weddings I can remember, the license is usually signed at the reception, and often part of the pictures.
My takeaway 1st story : What happened with OP is sad, but worse can happen if he marry the mother of 1 child, since we head lot of stories starting like that, were the women still loves her past boyfriend/ husband and daughter take otherside and disrespect OP in future. 2 nd story: Why talk about such trivial info, guess she is cheating and does'nt want to take OP to restaurant they frequently visit, because she is afraid of leting secrets out, hence gas lighting with trivial unsafe/self defence crap.
wow, her own Bridesmaids suggested she hook up with someone before marriage? Even someone who is married would WANT to stay LOYAL and HONEST to the lover. But here's my question...Why did she even agree to the "hook up with someone before marriage" suggestion like what, they're literally about to get married and they decide to betray their about-to-be spouse right on the wedding day! And also i am curious why didn't the ex tell the op about the suggestion from the bridesmaids like there's nothing wrong with staying loyal to their lovers, she says it like she is going to be laughed at for not betraying their spouse. The Op's best man and friend/family just did it like why didn't he tell the OP about this.
Last story, OP makes Forest Gump look like a 250 IQ mega genius., His wife is cheating on him SOOOOOO badly and he is sailing down denial river. She doesnt want him in the same places she goes "with her friends" because having hubby there will blow her cover. LMAO
@@SirConium I got it, some guys are out of options and desperate so they choose woman with kid, because they can't have woman without being second hand...I personaly am not desperate so I choose woman without kid, because I have options
@@scaredpaul540 Good for you, if u only date virgins 🤔 But still, do love someone has still nothing to do with being desperate or if she has or has not a child 😑
Ah yes, you should always listen to advice from unmarried people about married life, cause that's always good idea, like taking health care advice from undertaker
Good thing you didn't cancel the trip to Hawaii because now you can go to court and have her pay for any money you lost on the wedding and money going toward the honeymoon or post marriage cost. Yes there was another guy in here who did that he sued his ex-fiancee and one she had to pay back all of the money that he spent on the venue caterer photographer honeymoon flight and hotel booking the ring that she destroyed accidentally and the wedding dress and everything else that he had to pay for during the engagement up to the wedding because she cheated and ended the relationship.
2nd story there are 2 things going on. 1.. the husband clearly is not doing his duty as a man to make himself stronger and more authoritative. He should be in the gym, doing MMA, etc.. 2) the wife is also a little delusional if she feels safer with her girlfriends than her husband.. even an average untrained guy is going to be much stronger and better equipped to fight than her or her friends. This is why play fighting and wrestling with your girl can be useful in some ways.. you can show them just how powerless they really are in comparison to you lmao
@@theunstoppableaxeofjustice3991 I didn’t say “we,” so I am a bit confused. If you are a very small guy I would suggest you get as fit as possible, learn a martial art, and use your brain and your words to avoid any violent situations.. But I don’t think that excuses you from trying to become the strongest possible version of yourself
@@steggy9651 What if I told you my bones and muscles don't work like that? I'm not against being the strongest version of myself, but it's crazy to assume that every individual is even physically capable of that even if they wanted to.
Am I bugging or is the first story not "I write sins not tragedies" by Panic! At the Disco? Because I swear that's exactly what happened 😂😂😂😂, if not 👋🏾🤷🏾♀️🙃😕 my bad.
Where's the epic revenge? False advertizing! And the single mother held her own against five boys when at school? Unless they were toddlers or her parents were martial arts fanatics who trained her from the moment she could crawl, bullshit.
Story otherwise was pretty good BUT some of those details were like huh? Just like you said. Only the door being visibly locked from the OUTSIDE would be legit bc some public restrooms show a deadbolt turning or say occupied and such. BUT he said he saw him call his wife so...
@terylsmile3642 he is just assuming that's what was happening, cuz like he mentioned there were other people trying to get in but it was locked therefore on camara he would see others wiggling the door knocking and giving up on using that restroom. Same for calling his wife, that's really the only reason his wife would have known that he was waiting on her to get to the restroom, not like he can send brain waves to her from the bathroom. Just thoght id clear it up for you 2
