Mistake, you always know the cheater will say that. Mistakes only happen when you don't mean to do something. Like getting the wrong color paint. Cheating is a choice.
@@samolofsson2401 A mistake is an active choice, it's a choice that you admit was wrong or misguided...saying something is a mistake is more akin to saying you regret it than it is to saying it wasn't intentional. Saying something was a mistake is like saying "damn I wasn't thinking right when I made my decision." The reason saying it was a mistake when trying to earn forgiveness is stupid for the same reason doing anything other than apologizing and admitting you were wrong is stupid, they only serve two purposes, to garner sympathy in hopes to receive some amount of forgiveness without earning it or it's a coping mechanism that you use on yourself to not feel as bad about your actions as you know you should.
If she can’t stay faithful, then she doesn’t deserve love of a romantic type. Many people believe in second chances, but personally when it comes to cheating in relationships, I do not believe in a second chance.
@@Popcu1tYt I only do if I can insure her, take her to a foreign country, and she "disappears". Damn those wild predators we encountered on the African safari, oh well her screams didn't last that long when they were eating her... luckily all that insurance money will allow me to get over her with a younger, prettier, and temporary replacements all over the world.
This is why i can't stand them.... The amount of lies and gaslighting is unbearable! If you as a man have standards or honor you simply either have to bend over and break them or avoid women because putting up with them means accepting and tolerating their NEVER ending lies! They can't even go out without lying in a form of applying make up to fake their appearance!
It would kill them to admit their faults. I’m thinking now “more” guys atleast admit their screw up. Never heard of a woman apologizing in my life and they cheat the same rate or more.
If a cheater says they'd do anything to win you back, all you need to ask is, "Would you remain faithful to me?" Of course, they will promise yes. Then you respond, "That's what you promised the first time." Maybe they never said those words out loud, but when you get married or enter a monogamous relationship, it is implied.
In this particular story, op and his ex did promise. They were married. It's safe to assume infidelity was mentioned in some way in vows. Op could have used that I suppose.
Personally, I wouldn't do that. I'd ask them: "You've already lied to me and proven untrustworthy, why should I believe you when you say you'll do anything to be redeemed?"
Sorry to say, ex WAS stalking thats too close to be a coincidence. I'm glad OP took his power back, and polished his spine to boot. The last story I read similar to this the idiot took the ex back, and now is miserable thinking its marital bliss. I wish original OP all the best and continued Good Luck in the future!
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Homie is weak af. His partner cheats on him and even after divorcing he's nervous in front of him instead of antagonizing her ass with facts. Bro's too sympathetic or just dumbed down
@@Papa_Straight the sheer level of social awkwardness in that situation must be unfathomable though. I would definitely WANT to be all cool and prepared with blunt responses and hard boundaries, but this did catch OP off guard.
I don't like this story. I was on board until ex tracked OP down. "I hugged her", "I'd be open to giving her another chance in a few years" Fuck off! I hate stories that end like this. I wish that the last thing OP said to her was to stay the hell out of his life.
Having been put in that position, trust me you want to but can't. The sad truth is that it doesn't matter who did what to whom, the moment a man looks apathetic to an emotional woman, he is presumed the ahole. Done in a place he frequents, it's like poison to a watering hole. Therefore, the purpose of the fondness was not to rekindle emotions, but to keep her outbursts to a minimum, keeping control of the scenario and lingering outcomes.
When your cheating spouse comes running to you crying and pleading to fix the relationship, do not ever meet them alone or touch them in any way. If they ever really cared about you, they would have stayed loyal to you. They are gross, disgusting, contaminated. They did that to themselves. They are suffering the consequences of their actions and are most likely only seeking you out because the life they thought they would get from screwing you over, imploded in their face.
Cheating is never a mistake or a accident, it's a premeditated crime. As long as the person isn't caught, they will never let the cheated partner know and won't ever feel guilty about it, they will even treat the victim badly and feel somewhat superior, a little smug for doing that and getting away with it.
I can say the same for any kind of wrong doing, you'll never feel guilt for when you never get caught, the time you're caught by then you'll feel denial
@@maxobsidian6313 Right, people who has a conscience and regrets their crimes or mistakes confess and seek to make amends and gain forgiveness, if you only regret it after getting caught, you aren't regretting the crime, you are just regretting getting caught.
@@paulofaquin The witch in this video is not regretful (only regrets getting caught) But there are very occasional examples of people regretting their cheating and confess. Although it is rare. Because when a woman cheats, she doesn't respect the man that she is with anymore, so she doesn't think he is worthy of guilt. When a man cheats, he doesn't want to ruin a good thing (2 or more women at once? why would I confess?) Some people do it once and immediately confess and regret it. My former sister in law cheated once (my brother was being an absolute prick) she regretted it and told him the day after. He didn't want to be with her anymore. Turns out my brother's future wife set the whole thing up hoping that she cheats and they break up. She was then with him for years and cheated on him countless times, abused him (physically and emotionally) and had her brothers beat him up to keep him from leaving. When he finally left just last year, he admitted that he should have stayed with the first one and has since forgiven her and said that he treated her like crap and drove her to do it. He's now with a 3rd person and they have a child on the way. My first nephew is about to be born.
As we say here, the wolf may lose its fur, but never its vice. Cheater once, cheater forever. If it happened once, it's only a matter of time before it happens again.
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I disagree. While I do believe that most cheaters would cheat again, its only because they haven't attempted to change, which makes sense, cahnge is difficult. I believe anyone is able to change, we are biologically made to do so. I encourage you to have an open mind, maybe not about cheating but atleast other things.
If it was me in this man's shoes and the ex found me, I would have just told her "No, I do not want to talk with you at all, or see you at all since a pile of shit is worth to me more than you ever will be". When I leave anyone behind me and move on, it literally means moving on. I give absolutely no attention to them and say only the things I need to, nothing else. Some people I will never give any sort of attention again, not even as little as hey.
The story being narrated is actually from "Literoctica" in Cheating wives stories! I actually read the story in early 2023 and the guy did move on with a younger, more beautiful Lady and cut his ex-wife permanently from his life. It was a great story with a perfect ending for the guy and his new wife! Kevin. Australia
Why do cheaters always say "it was a mistake", thats like the stupidest answer to give to SO. They should just say that it was their decision to chose not a mistake. A mistake is something that can be corrected and never do again because now you know what not to do and prevent a problem from happening in the future. A decision to cheat is something you can't come back from, it will always be their no matter how much you try to forget about it. Cheaters need to start learning themselves in choice of words. I'm happy OP is finally happy and he should have just told ex to stay the hell away the very moment he saw her. That should have been the end to that train wreck. Let's just say what we all think men have more options than women. OP has the company of women left and right while the ex is experiencing depressing, angry emotions and that's her fault, not OPS. Good luck OP and live a happy successful life without the toxic drama.
The first thing cheaters what to do is shift blame if it was a mistake then it's no one's fault not theirs. And ya I like OP's will he didn't back down from her manipulation about starting a new
Whenever as a betrayed man you think of forgiving the Jezebel, remember that she would beg him to put it back in when it slipped out. Remember she would moan when he did. Remember she availed her body in every intimate way.
Women's math always makes me scratch my head. She says: "You broke my heart, but i guess I broke yours too" Heart being broken by a cheater is Equal to cheaters heart being broken when partner leaves?!?!? We are even, lets get back together!
This relationship had so many red flags 🚩 getting married so soon, getting sexual right away there is no way he did not see this coming She came back to make herself feel better and she could not find anyone else to do what op did for her
Actually, fast marriages can last longer. Theres something kinda toxic and unhealthy about long extended engagement. Plus its almost guarenteed to fail for a long time.couple to finally get hitched. Maybe it has soemthing to do with two non comittal prople finallu getting cornered then freaking out.
It's not something we can generally state that could affect the relationship long-term. A more important aspect is the way couples work together, talk, and resolve problems that directly affect longevity.
@@jebes909090 I don't think that's true. Especially given fast marriage data contains arranged marriages under threat of religion too. Ending a marriage could easily be excommunication from your entire family support structure wherein you're brought up to believe its one of the most required things of a human being.
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Wrong. Married my wife after 9 months, proposed in three. Fifteen happy years and counting. Her Brother in law married her sister in 3 months,...30 year anniversary this year. Key to both marriages, let God come first and let Him pick by His standards and stop picking after your own. We both did that for over forty years before we realized that we are not good at seeing the future but there is someone above us who can. Be blessed.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022Amen. I married my wife this past Feb. 29th, 2024. We met February 26th, 2023. It’s a blessing to be led by The Lord in this life. Especially when you’re with the woman whom you love.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022 the plural of anecdote isn't evidence. You got lucky. The vast majority of marriages that take place this quickly fail.
@@lolocaust4967the majority of marriages in general fail, especially in the US, regardless of how long dating and engagement took place. I know plenty of Christian couples that only dated briefly and have happy marriages. Absolutely depends on if both husband and wife were brought up with good, traditional morals.
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She’s gaslighting she knew she was hurting him and in fact relished hurting him. Denying bedroom time while getting it off with Chad who fiancée in a cheap hotel.
The real question he should have asked was "If the OP had turned out to be a great guy, and someone who was single and had a lot going for him, would we be here discussing you wanting me back today?"
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Exactly, you can always tell which stories are fake because of all the flowery words and unnecessary details. This story sounds like it was written by a middle school English teacher, not some guy who got cheated on by his wife.
Eh. Had a friend who got cheated on. Bro was an avid reader and overanalyzed his life way too much. at one point despite all the listening constructive and not so constructive criticism he wouldn't shut up about it. 😑 Like bro what will help ease your pain? She wasn't worth all this. Bro got hit on all the time.
People aren't perfect, that's why you hear so much about people cheating, and many don't consider the consequences. I'm sure there are plenty of cheaters that truly regretted their actions, but unfortunately the doubt will almost always linger. It would take alot for a cheater to earn back the kind of trust they broke, and it's a gamble for whoever they cheated on to ever even begin to trust them. At this point, it's all about if you think it's worth it to believe a cheater once more.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
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You'll get over it. It was a 5 year relationship. It was 3 months since you posted this, 5 months now. The average time to get over a relationship is 3 months to 3 years, depending on the relationship and the person. You will get over it, though, as long as you allow yourself. If you keep chasing her, you won't. Focus on yourself. You'll be fine.
@jaypritchett3414 My dude. Wtf. You really got broken up with and said to yourself, "Hmmm, ya know what would be a great idea to get my ex back? Some BLACK FUCKING MAGIC!" If that shit did work, then you're literally with someone who has no desire to be with you, they're just under a spell. I'm a pretty massive piece of shit, but even I wouldn't try and put someone I claim to love and care for under a magic spell for them to be with me. Talk about a pathetic fkn loser.
'I broke her heart' she got what she deserved and if anyone thinks cheating is just a pushover and a cheater should get second chance is a big no and it's always us men who get short end of the stick
One of my all time favorite stories. Another fav is the one where the business guy is stuck in Asia mostly Japan because of covid and ghosts his childhood friend/fiancé who wanted an open relationship.
Dude expects the wife to be a keeper and starts the story by saying immediately after he met her the clothes flew off. The chick was easy but he expected her to hold up the fort.
Good to hear… I’m also divorced with 6 kids I am taking care of. Now she wanted to reconcile but it’s already 6 years. I have move on, meeting other women and having fun with my children and life. Not going to go back to that life anymore
The thing is you never really trust the person the same. I stay once. It could be something small and boom... the question come out. I left and later got with my husband. He loves me so much. So as I love and try my best to make him happy. He does more to me. Like buying me a beautiful coffee cup set😍 but the most loving thing is carrying me
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They do if they think they can get away with it. That's literally the only thing stopping them. They have to have a very selfish reason for them NOT to cheat again for them to stop, such as wanting to stay in a house that they like, or often for financial reasons. Trust me, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. People don't change.
Women will always play victim. It's never her fault. That's why I never talk to any ex that comes back just tell them to get lost. A simp is a simp tho.
When your wife is never home, you know she is cheating. It does not take a genius to figure that out.
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The Ex stalking and knowing his whereabouts, dude has a rat in his midst. If he told any friends or family one of them must of spilled, that or she went out of her way to trail him after work or something.
A friend married young but divorced 2 years later cos she cheated on her husband. But she remarried him 4 years later. She didn't pursue any relationships or slept with anyone just subtly trying to win her ex back. Her ex got into a relationship but it ended. She changed a lot. Although i dislike her old personality and what she did i respected her perseverance(4 years is damn long) and willingness to change. Her new self was a much better person by a long shot, total 180. However her world revolves around her husband. Its kinda creepy but i guess that's one form of loyalty right there. And trust me, in this day & age, you'd want loyalty rather than love. They've been remarried for 7 years now.
hopefully he keeps her on a tight leash. i know a guy who took back a cheater too. she knows better not to question him on anything. but he never married her told her point blank he never will
As a 25 yr old man I’m more understanding the importance of sex. It’s literally the most important act to women. If you can make her organism she will never leave
I have been there. It feels like you will never love again and that your life is over. IT IS NOT! You will forget before long and will be better off for it. Just make sure you learn from it and always respect yourself
You don't marry a woman after 8 months of dating. Should be a minimum of 2 years relationship or more for reasons that no woman can keep an act for 2 years her real attitude would slip through eventually.
As a former bartender, let me tell you, a great number of men go there alone to drink away their sorrows, mostly from their wives and girlfriends cheating, few are grieving from the death of a close relative/family member or their friend.
I wanna say that this is exactly what I would do if I get cheated on, but the number of my friends who told me that I'm that woman in Gone Girl if I get cheated on tells me that I'm wrong.
We may forgive but we damned sure aint going to forget. My ex really tried to reconcile last christmas by offering me to watch god of war with her (my favorite game).
When you’re thinking about taking back your cheating ex, just remember. At one point it slipped out and she helped him put it back in. That’ll bring you back to a clear state of mind. Keep your head up.
i just realized that disclosing to your partner that cheating is a no go for you and there will be no forgiveness for it is such a terrible idea. the loyal one didn't need this said to be loyal, and the cheater will just keep their secret more closely
Ah, the "Mountain Man" story. Why do these morons not take pictures when they see evidence of their wives/girlfriends/fiancés cheating? …and please don't come back with _"They were in so much shock."_ Nah, this is a sign of the same weakness that made these 304's confident enough to pull this kind of crap on them in the first place. In this particular case, it turned out great for him, but it's a pretty good idea to be ready to get the drop on these 304's. In some cases, it could help you get favorable terms from her before a divorce (blackmail?), get the story out before she can paint you as the bad guy, and protect your reputation if it's important to your profession.
Let me please, please tell anyone who may be confused about what to do in such a situation: They will always cheat again. Yours won't be the 1/100 exception that makes it. It has to be over, as painful as it may be, when someone cheats. And choose life, dont fall to drink/drugs. You can truly make or break yourself afterwards by how you deal with the split. But when there's cheating, there had to be a split....
Those who give cheaters the benefit of the doubt after they just witnessed the act, they deserve everything that happens next. Its a policy for me to drop all contact with anyone I deem an ex. Be it an ex friend, ex family, ex lover, it doesnt matter, I drop all contact and I forget them entirely. It's the best I can do for them that'll lead to some sort of better ending for everyone involved. Just because i forget you doesn't mean you are forgiven either, moment I remember you, better believe it only goes downhill from there on out.
The issue with the lady is her cockiness when she was cheating. If she had a little sense of guilt or unwillingness it would have showed that she didn’t want it but all she did was deny deny deny. And worse she said she was using the exec that is disgusting, did she want to sleep with him for a promotion or something
I just don't think it was a good match. People high up the corporate ladder are elites. As he describes her - smart, articulate, good looking and 'almost' out of her league. She may have been initially charmed by the OP, but charm wears off. And then she starts having an affair with her own kind (someone more powerful than her in her office).
