I agree totally. We have to take his life experiences into account though , and it shows you what type of foundation that man is standing on. He's true to his words and that's the type of man she married and she knows this. Eventhou I agreed with you , that man stands on the foundation of truth , and that can't be denied. It's like nature , the truth can't be defeated. Perhaps now she will actually be the wife he deserves , appreciating him for the man he is and not just the mother of his children. If not , you will see them get divorced and then he will appear to be the bad guy. It's funny ( but not ) but this should be a lesson to women who overvalue themselves , to look into the mirror and take account of reality and truth. So many in social media weighed in and women were trying to drag him , saying all types of stuff they knew nothing about , all the while , inside wishing and praying they had a man who cares and care for her the way this man obviously cares for his wife. She came back because reality hit her. When will BW take note and face reality , as well as the truth and stop trying to disrespect BM?
Facts. She knows that , she knows how much that man loves her but NOW she knows that no one is checking for her. Kinda reminds me of Stephen Currys wife and how she was giving off that energy but actually broadcasting it , knowing that she wouldn't get a man anywhere near Steph's status or someone who has the same energy towards her in loving , caring , nurturing and compassion , much less thought process. It's crazy because women are supposed to understand these things , but these days , they use the excuse of not being taught , all the while , you can't deny nature. Nature is undefeated.
They just won't deny Zaddy's philosophy , at the same time , calling for us as BM to stand up and overtake this structure. They can't leave it alone , we will defeat the structure , only to end up laying next to it and having it taught to our children. SMH , I don't think it takes a person to bump their head to learn , it's called by many names .. awareness , knowledge , wisdom and foresight , but sometimes , I guess it's necessary for a true understanding to take root.
@@riddickj16 We already have equal rights under the law, so there’s no need to reinforce the same thing within an already defined concept. Yet, at the same time a lot of bw claim to be Christians. The irony! They want men to pay for dates, but want to call a marriage or relationship a partnership. The word partnership from a romantic standpoint stems from homosexual relationships NOT heterosexual!
That's what's supposed to happen. It's elder speak , you are supposed to glean from your elders. Elders are meant to be a valuable part of society , that's what the saying , It takes a village came from , the gleaning from the elders. It's why our women are so screwed because they can't get that value from older women and they don't care to listen to men. At least not Black men. SMH.
@@kubbykush9401Bw stopped listening to the elder ladies since before Sister Shahrizad Ali! Otherwise, the insights from her book would have blanketed the country from coast to coast!😑
"Partnership is not a covenant. Partnership can be dissolved. Marriage is meant to last a lifetime." Jimmy and Rosalynn Carter (she just passed) were married for 75 years. Marriage 1.0
BGS, I see the knowledge 📖you share here in reality every day. You have said "America does not raise wives anymore." That's abundantly clear to me as a young man looking for a wife. It's so baffling the quality of women I encounter and see that I have no hope for the US. I'm planning my life to move overseas within a decade to find a small-town wife. Realistically, I still have my doubts about those prospects because of how American culture is spreading by social media. The mainstream has caught on to the problem. Look up Louise Perry for another in the same vein as Suzanne Venker. I'll add that colleges and universities now function as wife dismantling schools. Add to that the effect of social media and it's a wrap. The entire culture is against lifelong wives and strong families. I'll further add that America does excel at producing a certain type of woman. The anti-wife. The "304s" as they say. But I also can't put it all on the women. A lot of men are enabling the problems, *funding* the problems, and contributing to producing women who are not wives, but anti-wives. America *does not* raise wives anymore. America produces anti-wives.
This is all sad to me. Watching marriage of years end. 10 plus years of marriage ending, makes no sense. I have been married 29 years. I'm only 54. Marriage should not be hard. It's hard when you're in it for the wrong reasons. It's definitely not about temporary happiness.
BGS is Spot On!!! I've always looked at the words PARTNER or PARTNERSHIP as a term relating to co-owners of a business, or an same-sex couple, not a straight married couple.
Another gem dropped what BGS says about the term partner is spot on and the talking point of this video is 💯spot on and for the youth listen up well done 👍🏾 BGS teach them Tell them and very well put .
Society is falling apart globally because they are looking to ones Hollywood and where is Hollywood based if not in America 😂go ahead let me hear it we're number one USA😢😢
You're absolutely right and correct in my humble opinion BGS. We have been damaged. All I can do here is state the obvious...... 2.0 isn't working too well, for most of us Old Fashioned Heterosexual people at least. Whatever we put in place in terms of roles and responsibilities moving forward, it has to conform to our Biology if it is to be effective and efficient. We have to be honest about what our Biology calls for. So what is that? I don't think some of us are being honest about what that actually is currently. I think some of these Modern Problems are partially the result of very deliberate Social Engineering. But why? That's a different and longer discussion. Hope we have a very pointed one on this channel one day soon. You've already mentioned the various components in your past posts ( both Esoteric and Secular) going back years now. Thank God for that, because you've laid what seems to be ALL of the ground work for the discussion from what I can tell. Some of us however, need a very unambiguous Neon Sign for final enlightenment. I can't put too fine of a point on that. If anybody can tackle it properly in this space, it's you Master Teacher. Great commentary.
I think women discard the marriage specially, in a traditional sense that a man would have more than one wife, and everybody would pull their weight in the marriage or if it’s a polygamous marriage, and for men, he would cherish a woman, just like he cherish that classic automobile, he would just want to keep it, maintain it and still take on a new vehicle, but we’re in a individualistic mind state as a group that does not grow
Modern day women don’t respect the institution of marriage so it’s almost completely foolish for men to get involved in one. It’s pretty much a one sided contract where men take all the risks and responsibilities for little to no benefit so unless you’ve been married for 5-10 years prior to this current era why would you want to put yourself through that as a man 😅.
@@Andre416Reformed She's the mother of his kids. He's gonna HAVE to have some contact with her... unless he's willing to abandon them completely, and start over again with someone else. Would YOU want to deal with the prospect of getting into a new relationship??😏
@@patriciacoley3801 she’s the mother of kids and also practically bragged about divorcing him. Yes he’s going to have some level of contact with her but I’m not sure how you changed that into him abandoning his kids when she left him 😅.
@@patriciacoley3801 miscommunications happen very easily online but when I hear the term abandon I always think of the usual tropes/stereotypes. If that question was directed to me I’ve started again minus a new family before so yes I would.
Ps about the psychologist career what I have seen heard witnessed i don’t want to give bad advice but after therapy sessions you may need a therapist yourself if what we are witnessing is to go by 😂😂
