How To Tell Stories That Make You More Attractive Than Most Men 

I need to collect all 6 infinity charismas

When you collect all six charismas you can snap your fingers and all the other guys will leave the bar immediately.

Girl: Hi Me: So, whos your favorite Marvel Avenger

HOW TO TOUCH MEN AND WOMEN? A book by Chris Hemsworth.

You forgot mine "awkward virgin"

Tom Hiddleston - The Gentleman Type.

When the girl is not Yours : Be Robert downey When a girl is your Girl: Be Chris Evans

No one: Jennifer Lawrence: HAHAHAHAHHA

Sebastian Stan on the outside: * totally cool* Seb on the inside: I have no idea what i'm doing where am I

Storyteller: And that's why Tom Holland can't keep a secret.

chris evans doesn't laugh. he gets fkin heart attacks

6:06 Chris Pratt raps better then every Souncloud rapper

Chris Hemsworth is probably the embodiment of the best charisma. He can be the cool, the giver, and the goofball all at the same time. Just look again.

Also helps that most of these are professional actors.

Jen lowkey looked so scared when Chris took over the agent question and the relief on her face when he says "9" is priceless.

i came for bucky, stayed for sebastian. i love him more now

Here are six types of charisma that women find INTOLERABLE: 1) the fake cool guy 2) the fake giver 3) the fake Goofball 4) the fake suave 5) the fake attention grabber 6) the fake storyteller Pretty instinctive but should be mentioned, not a lot of people seem to get the difference

To be fair, Evans laughs at everything, part of why he is amazing.

Holy shit I'm so attracted to Sebastian Stan it's insane.

Omg I find it so cool that you put so much effort in all of your videos like studying all the interviews, realizing why they all are so charismatic, cool and popular and teaching us silly gooses the same

Sebastian Stan *is* A pretty suave guy😁 he's flirtatious and calm when he's around women. But the moment somebody calls him attractive or handsome, he immediately grows embarrassed and smiles shyly. It's like his cutest flaw ever😀😆

I love how Seb is the 'suave guy' and Mackie is the 'attention grabber' especially since Seb is absolutely smitten with Mackie as shown by their relationship throughout the years, Seb was way more quiet before he met Mackie but after getting to know him Seb starts to be more playful and naughty because Mackie is so charismatic, I love their bromance!

Please do this with women as well! It's incredibly interesting and well done - I'm surely a fan!

Mackie mixed with some Hemsworth and just a little sprinkle of Evans. Def feels like me and it has worked out so great. I love group settings making my presence known and really hitting my messages home with some light touching and then bumping the people around me up so I don't seem like my ego is too big.

Chris Hemsworth collected all 6 infinity charismas.

Anthony Mackie is the MCU version of Will Smith

6:05 mad freestyling And he looks hi

I definitely do the story telling version. I tell a lot of funny stories about myself to share my human experience, but also to make fun of myself in a subtle self depreciating way. I also do the cool guy a lot just because I'm a lot more rational and collected and love to use my inner mindfulness to be in the present. It's just a lot more natural to me than the goofball or the giver. I respect all the styles, I just use the ones that are more natural to me.

Ok, but Tom Hiddleston?

Watching as a woman to figure out what kind of charisma I like 😂

The actors play and imprint themselves on the characters so well, sometimes I forget if your talking about the actors or their characters.

Even as such, I think it can be useful to master all the elements so you can switch up your type of charisma when it doesn't have the desired effect. This makes you more versatile.

Dont be boxed into a type of charisma. Don't try to be someone else. Be your own person.

SEBBY THE FLIRT AHAHAHAHAHA YOU ARE NOT WRONG THO he's a flirty dork and that's why people love him imo

I love these videos because I can easily pick up on which one is me, then I can use the tips given. I take quizzes all the time and they never get it right.

This made me realize I’m a mix between Story Teller and Giver, with a mix of Cool guy.

Sebastian is awesome.

You should have named this the infinity stones of charisma

Chris Pratt & Paul Rudd both display the goofball perfectly, and they are always so genuine in their interactions, which makes each interaction feel special

I feel like Chris Evans is the male version of Emilia Clarke

Jennifer Lawrence's laugh sounds so fake

can you do a video on charisma types that men like in women?

Love these vids, using people's favorite actors and characters to help better people's understanding of communication and how they portray themselves is p great

Just saying that Chris Pratt and peter quill are so underrated in the MCU like someone should at least acknowledge them instead of Blaming infinity war on quill Plz like if u agree

Ironically, Black Widow and Scarlet Witch fell for none of these guys.

Could you cover the charisma of Jack Sparrow?

Honestly one of the reasons I really like Sebastian is that sometimes he goes really shy/quiet/not so suave??? (I don't know that just how I see him sometimes like when he starts to look down and start to"emmm.. ahh you know") and so suave which makes him really just adorable when he is being suave?? What's wrong with me lmao

"Gee I wonder which one I'll be!" Cool guy: nope. Definitely not. Giver: maybe? Goof ball: god damn it.

idk i just see sebastian stan and i click...

wait wth was up with JLaw's fake laugh????

great video! thank you so much!

I think that one interesting way of studying these is thinking of them as either “steps “, or “variations “. Steps: depending on what stage of a relation you are with ‘people you are interesting in’, or variations: depending on the type of person you are treating (e.g. an introvert, a comic person, a shy one etc). Could work

is there a female version to this?......because my personality is in DIRE need of assistance.

Notes: 1 - The Cool type People want to be liked by them Jokingly elevate themselves Harder to make laugh - creates natural desire for others to impress them. Relatively difficult to captivate - don't give anyone complete attention - People often feel insecure of their status around the cool guy. - Women may get the impression that you're not that interested in them, and lose interest in you. 2 - The Giver Tend to jokingly elevate others Laugh easily at other people's jokes Tend to be warm in the way that they touch 3 - The Goofball Crack jokes in moments when others are literal and more serious Answer questions jokingly to create humor, rather than share personal background They don't have to turn on the humor because it almost never gets turned off. Start by doing things first that amuse you. - There is just a more seductive edge that is just missing from goofball 4 - The Suave Guy Unashamed Flirt Comfortable with tension rising in situations and still remaining cool Not like this with everyone - that would be creepy Usually a leader in conversation, introducing self proactively to others Proactively includes others in different conversational threads 5. The Attention Grabber Everything they do is big - voice, gestures, even facial expression Thrives in group settings Can be very hard to talk over Thrives in group settings - Not afraid to speak up Have no problem approaching a group - simply walk up, listen for a moment, and wait for a chance to jump in. Tend to think pretty highly of themselves - Does sometimes exclude quieter personalities Good to use in group settings, then tone it back for 1-on-1 conversations 6. The Storyteller Realizes that a well-told story is always more interesting than a simple, direct answer - Droning on and on can be boring May liven up stories by making the dialogue present tense. Will raise questions in the mind of the audience You can sort of guess how the story ends, but want to see how it plays out. (Good to get attention before telling your story) Mix and match, you can't use all at once, so choose carefully based on who you want to be and how you want to be perceived. Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" to learn how to be a giver and not a pushover. Check out Charlie's link to audible in the description.

The Suave is definitely my main type but add the giver in and it’s perfection

the way you lead into new paragraphs, leads me to believe you did really well in english class, and payed alot of attention

How to be charismatic? Be named Chris. Lol

Mixing Robert Downey and Sebastian Stan will make you unstoppable

I can watch all of these videos over and over, they're entertaining and it's information I can reevaluate again and again🤘😎👌

Loving these.

Long Story Short: I am screwed.

also see Sebastian stan as shy though like when he broke the glass door recording civial war in the bloopers he was so shy and adorable

This literally boosted my confidence so much. I got three of these bro. I’m almost there boys. I’ll have all of the six infinity charismas.

I love the interview with Sebastian I’m falling in love every time I watch it

Anthony Mackie and Sebastian Stan have so much chemistry. I love seeing them do interviews together!

Holy heck a more in-depth analysis of sebastian stan would be amazing

Smiled throughout Sebastian's suave

James spader is great at the commanding cool guy behavior and story telling and has this unwavering confidence

RDJ is just.....I have no idea how he's as charismatic as he is. It just WORKS. I know from his castmates (and also even snippets I've heard from when his wife talks about him) that he's not like Tony Stark. ScarJo said that she has observed RDJ and says that he puts on the Stark personality as a front in the public to protect not only his private family life, but his true personality as well. He's very emotive, sensitive, eccentric and affectionate. He *IS* quick witted, he's a fantastic improviser. His brain works a mile a minute; but he's not arrogant. At all. In the public eye he's adopted the persona of Tony Stark, but that's not who he is. All that being said, when I see interviews with the cast, my eye is automatically drawn to him. Maybe...just maybe he'll reveal something about himself. If I watch close enough.

I find Sebastian Stan irresistible... that’s it.

The secret of the goofball is like the secret of The Hulk: "Wanna know my secret?... I'm ALWAYS goofy"

Well done video...you have a new subscriber.

SEBASTIAN STAN IS MY DRUG!!!!!! He is a very shy guy who gets embarrassed and turns into a mess when complimented tho but he has his amazing sexy suave moments! And where is Tom Hiddleston tho?

Suave + Giver = the best combination.

So I made it to the end and have a very honest problem, I would love to see if you can help me adresse with a video of analysis and advice of experience. You mentioned the attention grabber can overshadow or push away the more quiet types. In my Personal life most my friends are the quiet type and I really appreciate and find them fun and exciting. I have used charisma on command a lot to improve building group settings in general and am currently working on for these people specifically who struggle with groups and tend to rather do one on ones as a consequence. In my friend groups to start with I have had to ward of attention grabbers with cross and garlic or I will have to tell them to shoo, shoo or behave and be quiter, so as too not scare the others away. However I would like to be able a have an interesting and more inclusive friend group. As a volounteer youth group leader we have a huge problem with this too and it has been a struggle for more than a decade as we have had a few more natural attention grabbers these years, while general social skils seem to be declining too. The attention grabbers typically build a group of our strongest youth. They have been an incredible ressource and are much appreciated. However at the same time we see that they push a far too large an amount away, as the more quiet types might get too overhwelmed near them or miss their chance to use and develop on their social talents and makes their contibution and on both sides they struggle to mingle well. So I would love to hear from either or both of these point of view. How as a leader do you create a space that lets attention grabbers feel authentic in expressing themselves and preserve their contibution and talent, while at the same time helping tone it down to create a welcoming space for everyone. I suppose we should most succesfully focus on teaching everyone to have better self and social awareness and skills, but if we where to focus right now particularly on the attention grabbers how would we do it? I believe in them being kind heard kids who wants everyone to feel welcome, but they lack the awareness and skill for it. I just imagine from their point of view some could struggle with how to feel authentic and realize and continue contibuting the talent they naturally have, (as it really is a tallent,) while working on avoiding the downside of pushing too many people away. I dont want these youth to feel bad about themselves, in a negative way, but help them see their weakness in a contuctive way and help them realize their wishes to be inclusive too. Its not easy for the youth as not even all the leaders have awareness to understand there is an issue and in either case we want to avoiding feeding the flames by overpromoting and supporting one type of behavior too much or too harshly and onesidedly critize one too. I want to find out how we strive to for the middle ground. If you made it to the end, thank you for your care and time in getting there! Any further advice/ video is much appreciated!

The thing that confuses me the most about all of this is that I have the ability to switch between the different types of flirtation. Not to come off as cocky but I feel that I execute them well, given my decent track record. The confusion comes in when determining which one to go with when speaking to different types of people. For example: My current interest is an introvert and she is particularly shy. She's told me before how much she admires my confidence and how attractive she finds me but having gone through practically all of these scenarios, I can't seem to get her to move to the next stage with me. Not really sure what to do.

Please do one for types of charisma men find irresistable (in women). The ladies in your viewership would much appreciate it. We like to be charismatic and attractive too :)

Anthony's personality reminds me of Will Smith's.

That is the phoniest laugh I've heard in some time 4:56

I love how they have another video you should watch to understand this one

Sebastian isn’t really a conversation leader though, is he? He’s usually really quiet during interviews

What if all of these types were combined 🤔

Nice video, thanks! My husband is a mix between the Giver and the Gentleman (as mentioned in the comments. :-)

Omg watching this video again I never realized that last week tonight's marlo bundo bedtime story appeared in the best selling audible books

chris evans is gonna laugh too hard one day and just morph into the floor

Jennifer Lawrence's laugh was cringy.

Pretty cool watching this knowing that I knew Sebastian Stan when he was 17 ✌🏼he was talented then and so it’s not surprising 💕

This was a great video.

I'm a simple girl, I see Sebastian Stan I click

I love these videos, but I wish you guys would take a look at vintage hollywood actors one of these days. People like Paul Newman, Sean Connery, Cary Grant, etc. That type of Charisma is lost and not seen anymore and would be a valuable video to create especially for the old souls that look up to these actors.

I LOVE YOUR CHANNEL. Could you please make videos about women personalities and charisma?

Chris Pratt is my spirit animal since I was a kid

Guys just a tip if you avoid questions by being “goofy” girl’s will think you don’t care...Pratt is funny but he’s also serious. Sebastian Stan is seductive but he is also funny and cool and adorable.... Just. Be. Yourself. Girls can see it when you’re not true to yourself or are not comfortable with who you are. If that doesn’t work be Chris Evans, Chris Evans is always right!!!!

Could you do something similar for female charisma?

I collected all 6 infinity charismas like Chris Hemsworth

I'm both the storyteller with amazing stories, and the giver of kindness and more giving more credited parts to other people.

Where's Loki at?

I think I act as all of them at different points in the day apart from RDJ... Like he is one of a kind

8:29 wow that laugh

You should make a quiz on which MCU charisma you would be best at that would so useful