Yeah I don't think much of it. If anything I usually called Northerners snowbirds(people from the North to the South during the winter or in Florida fall)
Yeah good, now here's a question for you. Think the average American is as non - annoying as you are? Especially abroad? They are known a certain way for a reason, unfortunately for you.
Yeah I don't know where the horse story is I am also wondering why at the end of this video it cuts off very early is it the editor forgetting or not to cut the audio correctly
First story: That guy definitely needs to grow up. Yankee has a lot of meanings in history and some people do use derogatorily. Like if you hear someone in the UK say “Bloody Yank” or “Typical Yankee” they’re just calling you a dumb American. And, frankly, we do earn that title sometimes. The guy in this story especially. 😂 I looked up “the y-word” and I got way worse results, none of which were “yankee.” One was an anti-Semitic slur and the other was furry terminology.
@@notfamedtvpersonalitydrphil yeah! Google john mulaney From Scratch. I know he's touring around the US, idk anywhere else or which states. I just bought some because I happen to live in a city he's visiting
What I hate is that people use "I was drunk" as an excuse for their reckless behavior. Being drunk doesn't excuse you from breaking someone else's stuff. You are still responsible for replacing it.
Agreed, he should pay for what he broke. I've gotten drunk before, but I still had a clear mind and was able to think straight, so if that's how OP's boyfriend was too, then he had no right to do stupid stuff like that.
Judge: so, for killing this person I am giving you 50 years, anything you want to say? Guy: I was drunk and it was an accident! Judge: ohh, okay, in this case its all okay, you are free to go
Couldn't agree more. Had to cut out several family members because of the "I was drunk" excuse. Being drunk doesn't give you a free pass to be a butthole or aggressive.
Some people just need to feel offended. And I don't mean that in an anti-woke sense. Racial slurs are disgusting. This guy just wants to turn Yankee into one so he gets to feel victimized. I find some white Americans are just so desperate to not feel like the bad guys for once. As individuals they're not but historically their hands are stained with the blood of the indigenous people, African slaves and most immigrants.
Okay, so I'm not alone in this. I was worried I had disassociated again. I haven't had an episode of that in over a year, so I panicked a bit. Thank you. I like the sarcasm.
The weird thing is I already heard the horse and boyfriend story on one of the other Reddit reader RU-vids, so I was going to comment on it as if it had also been on here and I just tuned it out because I'd heard it before.
@@josephwisniewski3673 same here! I just wanted rslash comment on it but I already heard it. I hope he changes the thumbnail and everything soon tho, I find it pretty annoying.
I don’t know any Americans who are offended by the name Yankee. There’s a prominent baseball team called the New York Yankees. There’s also a company called Yankee Candle. So it’s not a terrible name unless you’re a Boston Red Sox fan. As for the Horse… Short answer NO I chose my dog over my fiancé and I never looked back. The dog passed away of old age years ago and I never missed my fiancé at all
I could see it being an insult to a northerner if it came from a southerner, but from a foreigner I think most wouldn’t think twice about it. Also in the US I think the more offensive term is “Yank”, I don’t think I’ve ever heard “Yankee” outside of candle store, baseball team, or song
Only people I could think of who would use yankee as a derogatory term are the less than handful of Brits who still hold onto the idea that America is apart of the British Empire (which to my understanding no longer exists) and that the United State of America is an illegitimate country. So even then, those few Brits would be utterly delusional anyway.
The model ship story has my blood boiling. It doesn't matter how old anyone is, or how intoxicating anyone was in that story. A basic level of human respect and decency was denied, and OP got hurt for it. 3500$ is a lot to pay someone back for, but OP's boyfriend isnt the only one at fault. Any one of those dudes could have done the decent thing, but they all participated in the "game" even after OP made it clear that she wanted them to stop. They're all liable. Some might think that OP's boyfriend especially is responsible, and you might be right, but ultimately everyone there had a hand in the way things turned out, and so they should all pony up to replace it. At the MINIMUM. I get that OP's boyfriend might not have known the real value of the item, both monetarily and sentimentally, but there's no conceivable reality where that would excuse his behavior. An honest apology from the gang was a good start, now them all making it right and at least replacing the item is where it needs to go from there. If they can't even do that, then fuck 'em, they deserve to go to court, and OP would need to reevaluate their relationship.
Also, besides from sentimental and monetary value - nothing excuses treating his girlfriend this shitty and "ganging up" on her with his friends. She let them party in HER apartment on HIS birthday, doing all the duties and they treated her mean and horrible. They weren't good guests before they broke her stuff. If thats how my boyfriend would treat me with his friends over, he'd be out quicker than he can say "it's not that bad". And thats not considering the value of the ship.
Also for the BF to say 'we were drunk' does not give him a pass. A: The ship is sentimental and valuable as well as fragile, his inebriated state is a recipe for disaster and therefore he is liable as you said. B: "We were drunk", is not an excuse if you assault someone/ become violent... that rule can apply to the ship situation, and yes someone got hurt... the GF.
It's OPs fault alone! I'm totally on her BF's side. It's so obvious what she should have done: When her boyfriend - no everytime a guest - is invited the first time, they get an inventory list as well as a complete room tour. On that list there are all her posessions categoriezed in qudrants: "high sentimental value AND high monetary value", "high sentimental value, BUT no high monetary value", "low sentimental value, BUT high monetary value" and last but not least "I don't care if you break that". So her boyfriend as well as all guests would easiliy only pick her cheap non-sentimental belongings to play "pranks" with and break, and leave the other stuff alone, even if they're intoxicated of course. Duuhhhhh! /sarkasm, if you did not get that up until now
As a side note. It was originally a derogatory term the British came up with for Americans way back in the Revolutionary war era but those early Americans just went with it and adopted it as their own way to refer to New Englanders. Just like the song Yankee Doodle. It originally was sung by the British officers to mock the colonial troops. Basically it implied that the colonists would stick a feather in their hat and think it was high fashion or something. But then, early Americans adopted it and added verses that mocked the British and praised then General George Washington, turning it from something used to mock them into something they sang with pride. That's what Americans used to do when insulted.
On that note though, it very much is a derogatory term in the south still. It's akin to calling a northerner a redneck or hillbilly. Not wildly derogatory. But just offensive enough to start a fight if enough alcohol is involved.
Evolution of the term aside, it really is not ideal for the pet to change their name. I have rescued pets that had been called unfortunate names and try to assimilate them to a same sounding name. It has worked well. But for a work animal, no. They must have complete assurance of self to understand orders. Also, Yankee is only an insult from Southerners who still have bitterness about the Civil War. Well over 170 years ago. Grow up. Give Yankee a good ear rub from me!
The fact that they are saying the word Yankee, and then calling the n-word the n-word and not using the actual word clearly shows these things are not equal in their vileness. Case closed on the crazy BF.
@@nine9nine9 I mean it's not neglect but he is a butthole he can leave and pay child support he doest have to take care of them if he doesnt want to doesnt make him the butthole but he does deserve some for lying rslash is on something thinking its neglect
The guys who smashed the ship in the bottle... lets remember that this wasn't an accident, this was someone essentially bullying their partner, with the final result being the ship getting smashed. Poor OP, questioning herself whether she mistreated her bully by asking him to take responsibility for his action, and pay for stuff he breaks!
Yeah... I have all the favorite coffee mugs that belonged to both of my grandmothers, they're on a dedicated shelf in my living room on display.. The OP handled this better than I would have. If someone came into my home and started playing catch with my grandmothers coffee mugs they wouldn't have made it out alive. I would have showed them the Colt Python that belonged to my grandfather.
@@drew77997 he still mistreated one of her possessions and bullied her like they were in middle school. who cares if he didn't know it was sentimental, it was still him and his friends mistreating, and eventually breaking something that op owned. it doesn't matter if he didn't know what the object meant to op, because i'm sure anyone would be upset that something they owned got damaged by an idiot. anyway, as the saying goes "you break it, you buy it."
Dead ass, when I first herd of this I thought “you’re offended over the baseball Yankees??” To be fair I never knew it was a slur in the past, but I’ve never herd ppl use it as such
i love OP's revenge in the third story, just like rslash said, if you care about the family, you can take care of them. nice how the parents sided with you too! hilariouss
Last story: Play stupid games, win stupid prizes. Op didn't ruin the brother's engagement, he ruined it himself, up just exposed his behavior, I would say op wouldve been the butthole if they hadn't told Natalie
If OP didn't tell her then, Natalie would've likely found out about probable 5th child he's neglecting later down the line and things would've gotten even messier then. Same case when decides to stop paying child support or when Natalie finds out through financial discussions, taxes, or the inevitable abrupt arrest for not paying child support.
Exactly. People saying it’s his decision to tell her are enabling his bad behavior. When was he gonna tell her, their wedding day? It’s been 3 years. If you ask me him saying anything at all would’ve probably been in the form of a guilt trip on their wedding day so he could be the one to say “she ruined it over something trivial” if she wanted to back out. Disgraceful.
First story: That guy being offended by Yankee is off his rocker. Signed, A New Englander. Second story: NTA. Absolutely take him to court if he doesn't pay and drop that absolute child.
I live in Boston. Around here, the word Yankee is considered _very_ offensive. ...but only because that's what you call a member of New York's baseball team. ;)
Yeah, I've been called a Yankee many a time for my weird "accent" (I've been told its weird I guess, it just from Northern michigan) and it's gotta be one of my favorite names out there.
@@Flightcontrol96 But that's a catch-22, because the word is only offensive because it's the name of New York's baseball team, so if the team get renamed, the word will instantly lose its offensive connotations, leaving you with no reason for having renamed the team. Then New Yorkers would start clamoring to go back to the old name, and....you see where this is going. Also, if the team is renamed that means they'll call it something else, which would have the undesirable side effect of making a previously innocuous word offensive. The only way to avoid that is to name it something that's already offensive, which would defeat the purpose of renaming it in the first place. So, I'm afraid that won't work, and if we want to shut down the Yankees we need to get some good pitchers.
The Yankee story had me rolling on the floor and laughter. my mom was born in the south and lived there for the first few years of her life. but did spend the majority of her life in the Midwest but she always teases my dad telling him she married a Yankee because his style of living is just so much different than what she grew up with as a kid when she lived in the south.
"But I was drunk!" Well, did someone hold a gun to your head and force you to drink? No? Then you chose to get drunk and then chose to do something stupidly childish. Pay the damned money you owe. Consider it a stupid mf-er tax.
If he had respect for her he wouldn't have been tossing around her stuff. It doesn't matter how much it was worth or if it had sentimental vaule (that just makes it worse). He should have respected her home and her stuff. Also, playing keep away from her with it was the real proof he didn't care. If they had just knocked it over and it broke that is understandable bc accidents happen but what he did was just showing his true colors in my opinion. Also, what man in his 30s has a pillow fight with his friends?!? They were acting like girls at a sleepover.
As a longtime modeler (I am 65 now) and serious about the hobby, I can commiserate with OP. She needs to take the EX-BF to court, and have him pay. This was beyond idiotic.
But I mean, come on, what kind of dumbass sees a collectible of _any kind_ and decides to toss it around? If you see an object, and you don't know how much it costs, the general rule is that you probably can't afford it; that's just common sense.
When I was 10 or 11, my Dad made a model of the Cutty Sark. It was prominently displayed in his dining or front room for over 40 years, and two moves. He spent a lot of time making it "just right" and never made another model that large/involved.
As an American, finding out a foreign friend named their dog yankee would bring a star-spangled tear to my eye. It's not an offensive slur to us... well yanks
I laughed so hard at the first story… I have a dog named Yankee. He’s a rescue and came with the name. It’s not necessarily the name we would have chosen, but he knows his name and we’ve grown to love it! Definitely NOT the asshole.
With the ship in a bottle story: whether you've been told of something's value or not, you should always assume the stuff in someone else's house is the most valuable item they own. If you don't respect a person's belongings, you don't respect them. Period.
Right? What adult (37yr old at that) throws around someone's else's stuff as a "joke" ?? Especially when you're a guest at their house. I'd be upset too
Surprised that his parents backed him up in the last story, but at the same time, it kind of explains WHY he is such an asshole, if they were condoning this kind of behaviour since childhood. And I think the situation is very much clear cut. He did NOT have the right to NOT tell his girlfriend about his kids, nor decide when to tell her. Period. That's a super important information he had no business withholding. He HAD TO inform her about the kids before they started going out. OP just fixed how mistake.
I was having the exact same thought when I scrolled down and saw your comment, it just feels to strange than there would be 2 people who find this offensive.
@@Roctev Yeah. It's rather he's the guy or he knew him or he read the article or something and just gained the opinion. You're right though, it just feels weird that there would be more than one person out there who finds it offensive.
@Chris G I would say in any service industry but I think customer service people get it the worst in my opinion. I wouldn't go as far as to say most people are like that though.
That last story. I am surprised either of them didn't talk about children at any point in the three years of dating or during the engagement. It sounds like the brother wasn't going to bother telling her at all until the ring was on her finger, the union consummated, and she couldn't escape. She absolutely had the right to be informed by any family member about his four children already.
I am 100 percent confident that it isn't about who's place it is to tell Natalie, but who else would tell her. Honestly she has every right to know and the ones who's place it really is to tell her what kind of guy she's marrying aren't telling her so OP had every right to tell her. Honestly I think OP acted perfectly in this.
Eh... I would give OP in the last story 1 out of 5 buttholes. Simply because she didn't care that her brother was a horrible cheater who couldn't bother to wrap up. She could have told any of his previous girlfriends that he was a cheater. She should have let Natalie know about his earlier cheating.
Legally OP's brother is obligated to inform Nathalie, if not the resulting marriage would be fraudulent. So OP would naturally assume his brother has fulfilled his legal obligation and told her. OP is not an asshole for unintentionally preventing his brother from committing fraud.
@@puppetguy8726 Why would OP's brother be legally obligated to tell Natalie? I mean it's generally a good idea for partners to be informed about kids from prior relationships so that the partner can be fully aware of what comes included with a relationship, but I'm not aware of any laws requiring this disclosure.
It's better to find out he's a dead beat dad before marrying him than after having kids with him. It doesn't matter how she found out, I would have said something to her sooner.
100% !!! So my brother has 2 kids from 2 different women and he’s a shit person who has no actual interest in being a father. My brother’s 1st baby momma, was friends with the 2nd and would obviously talk about how my brother was mistreating her. 2nd baby momma didn’t listen, ended up pregnant and moved in with him. Luckily she just moved out away from him, but god I wish she understood sooner. Don’t get me wrong, I love my nieces and nephews, but they deserve a better father who actually loves them.
@@imaspecialgirllalala Exactly, I know a lot of people in similar situations, I feel sorry for the kids, I wish there were legal repercussions for men who do this kind of thing, cause they're basically tricking someone into becoming a single parent
@@tangletallonmeow ugh yes. Unfortunately, you can’t just throw someone in jail for being an asshole. Last court hearing my brother had with his first baby momma (my nephew’s mom who is basically my sister) my brother didn’t get 50/50 custody and wants to fight it again. He doesn’t have a job or any real interest to be a parent. He’s literally creating a toxic and traumatic environment for my nephew but I don’t think the judge will hear testimonies from the family this far into the custody battle. Plus, I live in another state now, but my brother has been the same deadbeat dad for 7 straight years now.
Last story: OP didn't go out of her way to reveal something she knew was a secret, she was just having a conversation with her ex-future-sister in law and discovered she didn't know about the kids. Even if OP had intentionally told her I still think that would've been the right thing to do, but the way it happened just makes it impossible for her to be guilty of anything. Also, I think rSlash neglected to give the parents a butthole score for blaming OP, so let's rectify the situation: they get 2/5 buttholes for being unreasonable
"Doesn't want kids", my ass. He has them now, doesn't matter what the fuck he wants. Besides, one unplanned pregnancy is an accident. Four is a pattern.
And the parents siding with him also shows a lot of old misogyny on their parts. None but op thinks he take responsibility, be there, pay for them, none of that most likely because they label it as the women's fault and responsibility. Honestly I wouldn't be surprised if after they were married the brother would get a secret vasectomy and gaslight the shit out of his wife...
@@spiderymantis4226 but its not clear from the story l. maybe he did, the girl get pregnant and didnt want an abortion. in that case he is the father but he didnt want the kids
Technically 3 unplanned pregnancies (one was twins), but the point stands. I have no sympathy for guys who refuse to take responsibility for the children they helped create.
The fact the parents are on The brother side. I would argue with them saying." What about the other geanchildren? Did u help them? Be thankful i dont call the cops on him
That Yankee story had me cracking up🤣. Okay first… I heard the Y word as “why” and wondered why anyone would take issue with such a core part of vocabulary… Then your research on Yankee protests really had me going because I’ll bet this one protester was the very same dude upset at OP 😂.
Honestly telling Natalie was a act of kindness to her, better than letting her be duped and then abandoned with the 5th fatherless kid of that asshole. Also where's my fellow horsegirl's story? Ponies before homies
I love that Rslash completely exposed the real name of OPs sisters bf because he was literally the only American in history to be offended by the word yankee
On the first story about the dog Yankee. During the revolutionary war the Americans took this somewhat as a compliment. So I don't know why the guy is annoyed.
Second story: why does it matter whether or not it was sentimental, who’s going to someone else’s house and starts throwing their stuff. And when you break something you should have the decency to pay for it if you’re really sorry, not try to weasel out of it.
You know what, the OP who told her brother’s fiancé about his “accidents” didn’t take his choice away because she actually just VALIDLY ASSUMED HE HAD ALREADY TOLD HIS FIANCÉ. Like that’s a W I L D thing to omit.
Second story: OP gets 0/5, her boyfriend gets 3/5. Drunk or not, he should realize his error and make amends for treating OP's property as if it were a toy. Better yet, since his friends were in on it, they should pool their resources and pay the full amount together.
Second Story: NTA The phrase “You break it, you bought it” isn’t just true, but ALSO a rule in stores and shops these days! This guy BROKE OP’s bottled ship from their late dad, he should PAY for it! He’s ignorant and a jerk about it, so take him to court. Story Three: NTA So the “FaMilLy” weren’t alright with Brother’s mooching and assholery when they had HIM at THEIR homes, but they’re PERFECTLY ALRIGHT with forcing OP taking in the Brother because “FaMIiLy HeLpS fAmIlY”? Nope! Family got what THEY deserved, especially the Aunt! They’re not just idiots, but they’re hypocrites as well!
One of our most patriotic tunes was and still is sung called “Yankee Doodle” I’m guessing this dipwit is from the south and trying to equate it somehow with that other group 🤦🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️. Or he’s literally the epitome of a privileged Caucasian man desperately reaching for something to find insulting or offensive?! 😆😂😆
@@PtwibbieN09 no, southerns wouldn’t find it offensive, rather he is probably from up north and thinks it’s offensive. it wasn’t uncommon for people down here to say things like « damn yankees » (this has fallen completely out of style and no one says this) but i still don’t see how it’s offensive! 🤷🏾♀️
Add another song called "Over There" sung during WWI and WWII. The Yanks are coming is one of the lines. Brits were inspired when they heard Americans singing it during the wars and the composer recieved the Congressional Medal of Honor from FDR.
Natalie would've shared the other women's fate and gotten stuck with children while Jamie moved on to the next woman. OP was a hero who saved her from that fate.
I don’t think it’s her fault for telling her, because the way she was chatting made it sound like she assumed her brother had actually told his GF the truth. She just pointed out he was a massive liar and saved the GF from an awful experience.
I'm an American living in Australia. I have never been offended by "Yankee," however, many people have used the term "Yank" and "Septic tank" towards me and other Americans in a derogatory way. I work in retail selling tobacco products. The amount of rude, entitled people who scream at me is insane. I now have very negative feelings towards "Yank," but I've never really thought of it as a slur. Being mad at someone naming their dog Yankee is just silly.
and we took that name from back in the day and stopped it from being derogatory they were calling us yanks and Yankees so we started calling ourselves that too they made a song called Yankee doodle to make fun of us and we took that as one of our songs cause we loved it and found it funny
Every time i think of the word Yankee, it has to do with Yankee Candle and the old singing rhyme about Yankee Doodle riding into town. And i guess the sports team but im not big on sports
About the same energy as naming a dog limey. I mean it's not really ment to be nice but I'm sure there aren't to many people that would be overly offended by it either.
Okay, about that last story: Natalie had every right to know about those kids. And when OP told her Jaime wasn’t fathering his kids, they didn’t know Jaime hadn’t told her so they just explained themselves. For me, personally, if I was in Natalie’s shoes and I wanted children with my fiancé someday, I’d want to know this.
Absolutely. The fallout was going to happen eventually no matter what. Dude is a deadbeat dad and thought he could hide it from natalie. He deserves it and Natalie deserves better. Glad she found out as soon as she did and not after they were married
Last story: I would ask her how she feels about being a single mother, abandoned by her husband, and that he wouldn't visit their kids. Because that sounds like her future had OP not saved her. I can't imagine being such a dumpster fire that openly states he hates children while having 4 of them and potentially more in the future. You saved her OP. Good on you!!
Op you saved Natalie from married to a irresponsible dead beat "Dad". If she would have ended up pregnant who knows what would have happened to their marriage.
I’ve heard British people use the word “yank” as a derogatory term, but it doesn’t seem to be a massive sting if the general consensus in the states is that it isn’t an issue
There's a sports team called the New York Yankees, and that was the few times I heard it get used as a Noun. Though I do hear it get used quote often as a Verb.
Story 1: How the heck is "Yankee" offensive? Yeah, it refers to people living in USA, but how? We literally have a *baseball team* and multiple places with that name! I'm American, and I'm not offended by that. I'm more confused at the boyfriend's reasoning.
Well it is used as a slur, but it woun't be offensive to an American. Here in Latin America calling someone an outsider is a common way to insult people, so people call white people Yankee. But it's no where near as bad as the N-word
As someone who’s been on the receiving end of a significant others lie, I’d be so happy that someone said the truth before it was too late and I’d dump the guy so fast.
@@RiveroftheWither No, I did. OP didn't speak up for any other victim of her brother. Not even her close friend. Despite knowing her brother is a cheater and a deadbeat.
That last OP absolutely 100% did the correct thing by exposing the brother's reckless reproduction. Can you even begin to imagine how that poor fiancee would have felt when she realized, at some horrible future date, that her betrothed/husband was hiding FOUR KIDS? I think most of us would flip our wigs over even one child being secret, let alone four of them. This guy should be the centerfold for "Keep Tabs on Your Sperms" magazine.
That and OP said she had seen him see a bunch of girls even while in a relationship. so its not impossible to think he could also cheat. and for three of those four kids he is just nowere to be seen. whats to say he wont just leave her in the ditch as soon as it seems she got one in the oven?
*First OP:* I figured the Y-word *was* that word. It doesn't bother me personally, but I know at least one person who doesn't like that word. *Third OP:* I love a good r/maliciouscompliance in an AITA post. OP is not the BH *Fourth OP:* OP might've helped Natalie dodge a bullet. OP is not the BH BTW, what happened to the horse story?
Okay, so if we're saying Yankee is a derogatory name for Americans, then I guess as a Scottish guy, I have an issue with everyone that names their dog 'Jock'.
@@hero-bo7qc good job not understanding etymology! England is actually Angle Land, as in the Anglo-Saxons. Englishist sounds dumb, and foreign words/names that are 'converted' to an English spelling are referred to as anglicised, establishing its use as an adjective for English related stuff; hence, anglicist. As a side note, given the places named after the saxons are typically converted into sex, as in West, East and South Saxony becoming Wessex, Essex, and Sussex; sexism could be read as being racist to saxons.
Yankee Story: I do know that, in other countries, yankee is sometimes considered derogatory, but I don't think it's ever considered a slur. For example, I think it has a negative connotation in japan, and is used kinda synonymously with "delinquent." But, again, there's a huge difference between naming your pet something derogatory, and naming them a slur. Hell, I know plenty of people who call their pets "asshole," or "shithead," affectionately.
1st story: not the butthole! The fact they both took the time to come to your house to tell you what to name your dog is disrespectful. Brother and aunt story: GOLD. I would pay to see it in theaters lol
The only way I can think of Yankee being offensive is if you're Japanese. It's supposed to be used to describe girls who act like, for want of a better word, like gangstas. Long skirts, dyed hair, etc but even so, it's fallen out of use.
What you are thinking of is Sukeban. Different word and spelling all together. Yankee is used in some dubs as a equivalent but its not entirely the same.
@@ashleightompkins3200 No worries. To go even further, Sukeban is the female version of a Bancho which are both delinquents. Its an interesting sect of Japanese culture and fun to research too.
Yeah, as a horse owner, I’d rather choose my horse over a person, because horses won’t stab you in the back, there friends for life. I can’t imagine a life without my horse
Unless the person with the horse literally can't afford to care for the horse properly, or had injuries etc that prevented the same thing. Sometimes people you're close to need to tell you hard truths. Otherwise, anyone saying "It's me or this" needs to be gone
1: I guess his sister’s bf doesn’t like the New York Yankees, or Yankee Candle. And yes the Brits did create the word, but Americans took it and ran with it pulling one of the first reverse uno card in history. 2: Being drunk isn’t an excuse, and yeah he needs to pay OP back for that ship. 3: There was an agreement, and he didn’t meet it. As for family helping family there’s a difference between helping and taking care of a grown ass adult. 4: Jamie is a piece of garbage. If he doesn’t want kids put on a condom, or get a vasectomy. Stop being an irresponsible child! Natalli was gonna find out sooner or later about the four kids and it’s best she find out now than before she makes in his words “a mistake”.
