r/Entitledparents "GET PREGNANT OR I'M DISOWNING YOU!" 

I hope that OP is doing better

I don't think they can. The car is under the mother's name, which means she legally owns it so long as payments are made. OP is also an adult, so it wouldn't count as child abandonment for kicking them out. It's a bad situation.

@@scottbecker4367 It could fall under tenant laws though, like OP could have tenant rights

@@Ikajo if they weren't paying to live there then I don't think it could, unless they were to present the deductions on the car as costs.

@@scottbecker4367 There doesn't have to be payments though. If you live in a place long enough, you gain tenant rights. OP could argue it was unlawful eviction

Personally if I was that 18 year old, as soon as the "mother" (and I say mother loosely to include this sack of shit) tried to use my car, I'm pulling a Trevor Phillips and going crazy on her.

Who the fuck says “not disabled enough” or calls anyone that? Who wants to be disabled?

What the hell.. I have an older sibling who is special needs and can't walk without help. She is one of the purest souls ever and she makes me smile every day. I've seen the stares that she gets in public. Most are just people looking cause not many people see people in wheel chairs let alone special needs people. If anyone had even *looked* at my sister the wrong way I would be glaring at them in disgust and dote on my sister even more so she knows that I love her to pieces. Even then I'd still be ready to kick their arse just for looking at her the wrong way. If anyone had just started screaming at my poor sister, you can bet that I'd verbally whoop them. Now if they dared to lay a finger on her, they'd be on the floor with a black eye at the least. I get that taking care of someone with special needs is a lot of work, it can be tiring. But that does not mean you can scream at people to get out of the way and cater to the special needs person. I can see both sides of the story, the mother might just want to take care of her daughter cause it's hard to get someone out of a wheelchair. But that does not give them the right to scream at other people with special needs too. The girl had a metal bar in her leg, I get that it's not like being bound wheelchair but it's still something they have to work through everyday. No one deserved to be yelled at. If someone had deliberately cut infront of the girl in the wheelchair and the mother, then *that* is grounds for being angry. She shouldn't have started yelling at the people who were already in the line, that line was for people with special needs and the girl with the metal bar had every right to be there. The mom was crazy but I see where she was coming from, taking care of someone with special needs is a lot of work, 90% of my life was me helping to take care of my sister. I can't speak for the mother because I don't know if she was tired of taking care of her daughter with special (which is a little stupid considering how it's the parents responsibility to take care of the child because it was their choice to have them, the child didn't ask to be special needs), but for me and hundreds of other families with special needs children, taking care of my sister is the best and I wouldn't trade it for the world. Yes it can be a lot of work and stress but that isn't an excuse to yell at people, especially when they are special needs too.

@@Palkia8-Bit THANK YOU! Someone finally saw that!!

As someone who gone through osteosarcoma. I do not have a knee but they created a knee bone for me so that I can walk. I look normal but when I wear shorts people would tend to look at my scar. One time at school we had a dress code rule. An administrator came up to me and told me that my shorts were too “short” I moved my leg a bit and her eyes widen when she saw my scar and said “Yea you shouldn’t be wearing shorts, you need to wear pants” and I asked her why and she just hesitiated (I knew exactly what she was refering to) and just said “Well so your classmates don’t feel UNCOMFORTABLE.” I just stared at her blankly, I was very upset that this woman had the guts to hide my strength that I fought so much for. The next day, I came with shorts once again just to tick her off

@@nightingale4637 the hell? I would have called her out and told her how disrespectful she was, and reported her above all that. Who the heck shames a student for having a scar

"You don't look disabled" "Not all disabilities are even visible, and not all the visible ones are obvious. Disabled doesn't inherently mean wheelchair"

I fairly recently developed chronic fatigue syndrome, and I struggle a lot with asserting my needs because I both don't look disabled and am not used to thinking of myself that way. So even knowing that "not looking disabled enough" is sonething people think can stop people from using and asking for things they need out of fear of being harassed.

you truly have met the most tame of karens then, and for that i envy you lol

"You don't LOOK like you have ADHD" "Oh I'm sorry let me just crawl on the walls like Spiderman real quick"

You should have been able to get accommodations at school, e.g. additional time on tests, a quiet space to take tests and study, etc. Unless that’s just an American thing and I’m blind to my own privilege?

My last name is Americanized Italian from when my ancestors came through Ellis Island. Almost everyone tries to pronounce it with a K or a G instead of the Q in the middle of the name because they think it's Spanish.

My birth name is clearly a half-literate Anglicization of what's basically Smith or Jones in (cultural) Russia. Spent my whole life just answering to my first name at class roll call!

My completely Finnish mom has had the same problem with her Polish last name. The last native polish speakers in our family moved to Finland over 450 years ago, and after that all our ancestors have been as Finnish as they can be. She has still heard comments during job interviews that, "wow, you speak really good Finnish (and Swedish)", because they think she's a recent Polish immigrant. Half of the family tree actually altered their name to sound more Finnish after WW2, but my great-grandpa kept his. My brother had an idea at some point to switch from my dad's last name, given to him at birth, to my mom's last name "to keep the name going", but idk if he seriously considered it. Personally, I don't care that much what my last name is, I think I'll make it a double name when I get married next year.

I suffer from the long polish last name and mispronunciations

@@trigger424 My mother has a Polish last name too,

If OP was male, I wouldn't be surprised if the Karen screamed "P-DOPHILE!!!" for doing the exact same thing

Yeah Karen, that was totally mean. That’s why you don’t touch my swamp

Edit: my onions

It's spelled *That WAs sO MeEeAaAaaAAN"

Young kids' hands are inherently dirty. Kids, even good ones, rarely wash their hands unless you remind them. I would hate to have a random child's hands in my food. Gross.

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Those parents don't love their kids. They just put up a good enough act so they can hopefully get something out of the kid later

I never understood some geriatrics' obsession with biological families to the point it's not "real" family if there's no blood bond

@@ahstiasummers5583 exactly, i have a really close friend from the Philippines who refers to me as "kuya" which basically means "older brother" Like in other Asian languages it's one of many words that means a specific thing however its the one used to convey respect Now she's the one who started using it first, and my friends sister said "she really looks up to you, she loves you like you're a brother" And i love her like a little sister, so what if it isn't a blood relation, we are really close and we feel like family, i was really happy to gain two sisters and i was honoured she looked up to me that way

@@Tommyboi01 that's so nice and sweet

That's how fast R/EntitledParents turns to ProRevenge or MaliciousCompliance😆

@@no_L_in_sight exactly! You wanna tell the Dean? Don’t worry, I saved you time, I did it myself!

@@ZombieSazza Perfect Title! Sounds just like something RSlash would use

My smart assed retort I know someone higher up in power than the school's hierarchy

Even funnier, it would only take me one to three minutes tops to look up the dean of whichever college/university I end up attenting, take screenshots of *all relevant conversations* involving it, and then send all of that off to them (including the one who bought whatever I was selling) so that the turd can suffer the consequences (what a surprise who the "daughter" gets her attitude from)... and keeping all of that on hand in case of the eventuality where I would need to fight the dumbass in court if she tries that route. Maybe not all that effectively (not keen on dealing with people; I'd rather someone else deal with it and carry on with my life), but you'd be hard-pressed to pressure me into complying with classic bullying.

I have kidney failure and on dialysis and I’m not disabled enough for the government. You are absolutely right. We have to just not let it get to us.

@@Gravelark the VA told me I didn't loose enough limbs for the housing modification Grant 🤷

@Mike a guy walked out of his physical therapy office to storm across the parking lot to yell at me for being parked in handicap parking. When I told him I was missing a leg that did not make him back down. Sometimes the level of stupidity in people is dumbfounding.

@@fletcher0411 🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

@Mike Oh that's some top quality big brain logic there.

E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E Ee E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E .

I'd just disown parents like that...sexist and misogynistic

honestly I think they should either have another child or adopt another one. Not because of their insane parents, but because of the little girl. Growing up as a single kid sucks, so I think they should reconsider. Whatever the case I think the parents shouldn't be allowed anywhere near any of the kids

Also, the wife can easily get an abortion if she does end up getting pregnant.

@@spydersoup8447 if she wants to, sure

It took my wife and me a long time to conceive our first child. We tried for a second but it never happened. Our son ended up passing away from cancer when he was 4-1/2. A few years after he passed away, we started the adoption process. In 2017 we adopted a beautiful baby girl. We don't see her as adopted. She is ours. She is as much a part of our family as our biological son IS. Our entire extended family loves her unconditionally. The story about the entitled grandparents is DISGUSTING. I can't believe people can be so cruel.

@@burdar78 I am so sorry for what you had to go through with the loss of your son. Cancer sucks and can eff right on off.

I hate people like this. They make demands and expect them to be followed through with the hopes of some delusional belief in what? Lineage continuance? So apparently the little darling of a girl that was adopted by two loving parents isn't real family? If SIL did get pregnant with biological children, what did these two buttheads think would happen to the little girl? That she'd be returned because she no longer had any use? And what if SIL had all girls instead of any boys? Would those girls be forgotten because girls are useless in carrying on a family name? Those entitled parents sound gross.

Yeah, I also wonder if they thought that they were using their adopted daughter as them practicing and preparing to have a real kid and so, the grandparents were just using her to practice being loving grandparents, not even realizing that she was going to be their son's only kid and she was going to remain in the family, which is sad. Also the fact that they clearly think that men are the only ones who can carry out the family name while girls can't, which is really sexist. In one well known video game, there's this family whom the women are actually the ones who carry the family name and the kids would have the surname of their mother, not their father. Yeah, these two parents saying that only men can carry out the family name is complete BS because in some cases, it's actually the other way around.

@𝘿!𝙘𝙠 Riding ǤƗяℓ Sophia why did you just copy and paste the comment?? what the actual heck

I hate how people think elderly people are entitled to stuff for just existing

@@tidepodpadthai2633 have you seen what the Boomer generation has been doing to the housing market?

@@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement and this has what exactly to do with the handicapped parking topic? BTW, the boomers have nearly quadrupled the value of my property from when my folks bought and built 30 years ago.

@Mike yeah, usually my walker's enough to shut down most idiots it was worse when I just used a cane. It's like my doctor decided I'm disabled, the DMV agreed what my condition is is no one's business but my own. . . and my doctor, social security, the DMV. Okay, a few people know but it's none of Karen's business.

Right, swear at you for successfully proving that she's objectively wrong and being needlessly rude. Totally doesn't validate your point at all. People are the worst.

BECAUSE IT’S THE EMPLOYEES’ JOBS TO BABYSIT. WHAT DO YOU EXPECT ME TO DO??? BE A PARENT???

We eat out often and i couldn't even imagine letting my child run wild, it would it be super embarrassing for me and i would feel like a failure as a parent.

Right? Now I know why my mom used to threaten us before taking us to stores, restaurants, theaters. 🤣🤣 We knew better than to act crazy. And if we forgot, ONE LOOK would remind us!

EPs: [go literally anywhere] EPs: It's free childcare!

@@fdm2155 Your parents sound like mine! One does not ignore *the look of death!*

Wait til shes old and wants help from OP. Hope OP tells her to F-OFF.

Old and stuck in the worst nursing home, wondering why nobody visits, not even the nursing home workers...

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Lmao this is literally what my partner's mother did, very very similar situation and behavior. Today none of her children speak to her and after 3 years she finally has accepted that she's a bitxh. I doubt her newfound "enlightenment" would keep up if they started talking to her again, though

**apply water to sick burn**

"This is my seat and I'm keeping it" is a legit excuse, too.

What? There no need for excuse here, simple no should be more then enough, you are not entitle to anything here.

@@jenniferann7212 I think it's not an excuse, just a valid reason. Just because someone asks nicely doesn't mean you HAVE to agree

Uh, no one needs an "excuse" to not give up a seat they paid for.

Yeah, I agree with the others who have said that not wanting to give up the seat that they booked is a valid reason to turn your parents down. They don’t have to be “unable” to give up their seat. Sheesh. 🤪

And an excellent revenge.

Should have gone to the police on that one.

for clarity, extortion is the process of obtaining something, commonly money, through force or threats

@@deepseagargantuar1373 precisely!

Yes, definitely extortion. But I think the revenge aspect was great.

I’m not even disabled and have threatened to disable a Karen more than that person she’s yelling at. It’s just not acceptable. My daughter is autistic so that comes with some struggles. But at least I’m mouthy af and not scared to fight. Lmao 😂 I have pent up anger with no where for it to go. I’d love to Dennys parking lot fight a Karen.

I'd be glad to hold you up for stability while you smacked a Karen. :)

If you did hit a Karen with your cane I would call you Chief Smack-A-Karen of the Slap-A-Karen Nation.

@Mike I believe Atlanta Cutlery, if they're still around, sells canes that have a handle that is shaped to look like a medieval warhammer.

@Mike tell your wife she’s a buzzkill. If you can’t hit people with it what’s the point!!! And hitting a Karen is justifiable.

That sucks, hope you're doing okay now. And good on you for freeing yourself of her toxicity.

@@lacko623 Yeah, things are a lot better now. It's been over a year since I last spoke to her and it's been easier.

Sounds like getting rid of her was worth paying for, in the end.

@@rachaelautera5150 ah yes. Another parent that’s never gonna hear from their child and then go saying „idk why he doesn’t contact me anymore since I’m a good parent“

@@wessexdruid5290 It was worth every penny

I can’t entirely blame the guard for asking though. People pull that nonsense everywhere that there is a line, but he didn’t have to be so smug about it.

Frankly the security guard deserves to lose his job

@@dethkruzer For doing his job?

Sucks because people actually do lie about stuff like that to warrant him even having to ask

Yeah people lie but there are also people who can't prove it because their disability isn't something you can see.

Agreed. They are many people who essentially lose interest in their adopted children/family members once a biological child comes along. Its disgusting

@@charliedavis5787 @disgusting ksbsjydhdgd a a a a a. E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E E Ee Ee E E E Ee E Ee E E E Ee E Ee Ee E

Yeah. And I think its sweet that they adopted the kid

Also if both of them are girls then they would say "get her pregnant again or I am going to disown you

@@md.abulkalamazad6847 - Yeah, I hadn't thought of the outcome if the baby turned out to be "only" a girl. Maybe the parents should adopt a boy of their own if they're so concerned about "the family name". Happened to someone I used to know, he was adopted purely because the couple only had daughters.

I don't know if this is even true or not but I read somewhere that the word barbarian comes from Romans not being able to understand those other people's language, it sounded like "barbarbarbar" or something like that.

@@annika5893 True, but it was the *Greeks* who thought that, not the Romans. Barbarian is basically a Greek word for anyone who doesn't speak Greek.

Yeah, it literally meant anyone not associated with the big civs at the time: Rome, Greece, Egypt, etc.

@@lomax343 No, it comes from Latin. That would make it Roman.

@@Richard_Nickerson Latin is Greek based, I would not be the slightest bit surprised that the term was something the Greeks used to describe the Romans at one point.

„Whoop Whoop“ That’s the sound of the police🎶

And "Decency"

This honestly scares me, i have a specific condition that among it's affects, comes. With a risk of cancer In my leg I have always said I'll just remove the leg or bone, it's my personal preference not for getting a handicap plaque or anything like that, but for personal reasons But i honestly worry that if it does come to that and i end up with a diabled plaque, then im gonna have arguments with karens everytime because "im clearly able to walk so i can't be disabled and i don't neeed that spot"

Wouldn't even bother sending anything, real or fake. Probably would extort her back, they need to realise there r consequence to actions.

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And essentially give her something of greater value than her cumulative existence in comparison? Nah, OP did the best job.

*Great grandfather and great grandma

Great*

@Sharee Mitchell he was a member of the IRA.

I'm a birth mom and you're a kind soul ❤️

He's a whole mood. Yeah my family moved from Germany to the US around the mid to late 1800's. Not sure if the last name Stefans just came off too European. But yeah they changed it to Steves. So if people from the 1800's didn't give af about changing their last name..then maybe it doesn't matter? XD

@@alexandrasteves3847 my last name has a deep history with well incest unfortunately because bell island is TINY and basically any galway is My cousin or uncle.... ....

@@Silver_wind_1987_ Oh damnnn. That must be a bit freaky if you meet a relative randomly

@@alexandrasteves3847 oh I did during my college time....before other issues and I had to leave and redo stuff long Story.

Honestly, i would accept the loss and cut her out of everything, move away, change my number etc. The whole deal.

I don't think there's any shame there. They pushed their child out of the house, then reclaimed the car they had been paying for. It sucks, but the best thing to do is probably just drop it and move on.

@@scottbecker4367 I personally would make the car undriveable. Remove the lugnuts on every wheel, drain the engine oil and transmission fluid, remove the bleeder screws from each brake caliper. No one steals $25k from me and gets away scott free. Scorched Earth, since that's the game the mom wants to play.

Technically even if the car doesn't work, he was still evicted (which was within the parents right) but was not allowed to take ANYTHING of theirs from the property! that can be considered theft, and small claims court is iffy since itd vary from judge to judge but if OP shows that he has been paying for all expenses and that his mother already recived compensation for living there in the form of child support and she took the car as a form of him paying to live there all his life then any judge will be like the fuck is wrong with you lady, you cant charge a kid at 18 for living with you till he became an adult

Actually for the last story. The car was in HER name. Therefore I would have just had OP not make the payment at all. Knowing the mother's type she would have refused on principle. So the bank would repo the car and HER credit would be utterly destroyed.

Well it appears like it helped so it was definetly the name

*random or *rude idk which one XD

I think there is a better response to being called a terrible human by an entitled parent: "Hello Pot, name's Kettle, you know the rest."

@@SkyEcho751 If my visage doth offend, I must confess the fault is mine; I hath polished my surface every day, the reflection seen is thine.

@@williambarnes5023 Okay, is that original or did you take it from shakespeare? Because if you made that yourself, great job, I am really impressed.

@@thereal_aidenvsau2004 lol! Random*

“You see.....”

So you see

Blood does NOT make a family. LOVE does.

You mean adopted grandkids?

@@SchererProductionServices -Dhar Mann

Some people out there still believe in the outdated belief that the fabric of family is built upon sharing DNA. Hell, some believe that it’s “selfish” to not have biological kids and “you’ll love them more when they’re you’re own”

Unfortunately this is something that people with disabilities face a lot, either because of the boxes a lot of people tend to place upon us due to main stream media, it's worst for those who have a invisible disability because since it can't be seen some people think the person must be faking.

I really hope you mean piss or anus juice/sweat by 'special sauce' because that's what I'm imagining. Lol

@@Center-For-I.E.D.Mismanagement I immediately thought of semen...

Wait, soap is the special sauce?

@@ItBePatYo an excellent staple though I find it a little conventional. But hey, you do you! Lol

@@ninjabluefyre3815 if you want it to be...

*Stolarczyk

@@mcaeln7268 thanks. 👍 I'm not familiar with many Polish families. 🐾🐺🐾

Public Service Homicide.

Nice job OP

Its 15:40 for me

What time does this come out in your country? It's 2pm in Ireland

It's 914 am been up since 4pm yesterday so I can feel yah

I haven't slept since yesterday morning. My significant other was in serious car crash so he has 4 broken back bones with bruised ribs so been taking care of him and my teething baby daughter plus full time job so it's a handful plus got one on the way. Definitely exhausting though but will make it

hi

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Morning

MORNIN!

Good morning!

Most of the US is part something.

Well if you change your name to sherlock...

"Maybe they would like to pay my medical bills, especially the $5k a month for medication" No, they would tell you that you don't actually need that medication, and that you should stop pretending. You have to stop trying to argue with them, as if they're mentally stable. These people are completly incapable of understanding logic! The people that scream at others that they don't look disabled, usually have an undiagnosed mental handicap themselves, and are projecting. They want to believe that their own disability is normality and that only people with extreme physical disabilities are actually disabled.. Because if they'd accept your "disability" as a real disability, they'd have to aknowledge their own mental handicap as well... Which most of 'em aren't mentally capable of, due to their handicap. As long that we don't declare Karen an official mental handicap, they'll consider themselves mentally healthy, and those opposing her to be "retarded"

“Look with your eyes, not your hands” And it’s a choice changing your name when you get married. It’s not required”

@@chrissmith6097 thank you. It like my family forgot that rule. I'm tempted to just let my brother grab the hot food off my plate but he's just a toddler and doesn't know any better. And besides, my family would probably ask why I didn't stop him.

Patriarchal families or those that come from patriarchal cultures generally are ingrained in old sexist beliefs that inheritance/property/surnames are passed down only through sons. To varying degrees, daughters would essentially leave her birth family to join her husband’s. It’s all a load of bull

I see this a lot unfortunately. And I agree with you.

Yeah do it

Have to say, its refreshing. It went the opposite way in my family.

It's just an empty threat and a lack of respect, she probably the type that thinks older = smarter and that college kid op would be gullible enough to believe her bs and saw it as an opportunity to extort money.

One who believes they arent disabled

Dzień dobry z Ameryki! Uczę się mówić po polsku

Did you get Grandpa's last name? Was it Stolarczyk? :D Pozdrowienia z Gdańska!

@@mcaeln7268 super! Powodzenia! 😊

@@Nataliu663 I replaced mine With an American one after my husband! 😁

@@Nataliu663 Tak, jego nazwisko był Stolarczyk. Przepraszam ze mój zły połysk

Perhaps but most Americans are terrible at distinguishing non Anglo names and words so I could see someone assuming a Slavic name is German. 🙄

Yeah not let's be real, like FDM said, the average person in America (Australia too, so many name changes here after ww2) aren't exactly well versed in where names come from. To them, if it sounds northern European, they're going to think German or Russian. Don't forget the cold war, so a lot of Americans were opposed to Slavic people of any kind too.

I wonder how the name is actually spelled. Im Polish, and it seems that maybe it was Stolarski?

As a longboard user, they are simply longer and wider skateboards meant for cruising long distances due to faster speeds.

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