r/Nuclearrevenge I Watched Him Die 

2023: The regulatory body further calls BetterHelp to pay $7.8 million to consumers as a part of a settlement over allegations it shared sensitive health information with third parties such as social media platforms and digital advertisers. The FTC says the company doubled down on deception by falsely denying it had shared consumers' personal information - including their health information - with third parties. The eight-count complaint details how the FTC says BetterHelp's allegedly deceptive and unfair practices harmed consumers. The professional RU-vidrs, who shared personal mental health struggles as part of their ads, faced backlash when it came out that they were paid for each customer who signed up for BetterHelp through their unique links-sometimes up to $200 per person. Do not trust the BetterHelp therapists. They are so sketch," said O'Hara. "My one session with a BetterHelp therapist retraumatized me to the point where I don't know if I'll ever go back to therapy again." O'Hara alleged the therapist was confused by her diagnosis of CPTSD (complex post-traumatic stress disorder), seemingly not understanding what the term meant, and expected the patient to describe the differences between CPTSD and PTSD.

Story 4: Holy sh*t, OP took "So you have chosen, death" quite literally. I honestly don't blame her for doing that. I have no sympathy for people who commits foul acts like this.

"For cheating, not for being gay. Let's keep this straight" Great wording choice.

Honestly can't even blame the people that dislike videos solely for the BetterHelp ad. That company is horrid and accused of selling your information, and the "therapists" on there are horribly unprofessional.

Wasn't Better Help caught up in some controversy some time ago? I'm surprised they're still doing sponsorships.

Oh honey no!!!! Better help is predatory and not something you should have as a partner!!!

To hell with BetterHelp.

The saddest thing is, if he'd been honest, she probably would have agreed to an open relationship.

Story 3: The best salt in the wound was the fact that he got rejected by his mistress. So his cheating was worth NOTHING, ABSOLUTELY NOTHING! Meanwhile, OP is living her best life with a much, much better man. Oh, and again, unrelated to the post, definitely don't take anymore BetterHelp sponsorships. I don't know why they're still giving them out, but don't take them.

RSlash, Blink twice if your stuck in a contract with BetterHelp!

Hey R/Slash, I would probably try to not partner with better help, they have been known to doxs the therapist's that work with them and just give all of their personal information out. Just a thought and just to give you a little bit more information, love your content❤

Dammit R/slash, I love the video but stop it already with the Better Help promos. It's well known how scummy they are, their therapists are not licensed and only out for their own gain. They're a huge danger to people who are ALREADY in an extremely vulnerable mental state. I don't know how much they're paying you, but it can't be enough to put people in danger over it. This is more than just a bad product, it's actively dangerous. Please stop promoting them. EDIT: I honestly don't care much about the "contract" excuse, even if it's true. First of, it's up to the creator to inform themselves about a sponsor, and to have a contract lawyer read them over before signing anything so as to not get screwed. Secondly, they should always make sure they have an out to end the sponsorship if they feel the sponsor is being shitty.

That last story reminds me of one where it was a teenage boy at school who got you know what from a female teacher and no one believe them. Then 1 day I think it was from the stairs that the same teacher fell down onto the floor and was bleeding. OP saw it and then step over her. I think I can't recall what was said but the principal asked why you didn't help and he responded, you all did not believe me the first time. I wonder what was going through that Grandpa's mind when he realized he wasn't getting helped

PLEASE stop sponsoring better help.

You did NOT just transition from a story about a girl leaving her abuser to die immediately into a BetterHelp ad 😂

Story number 4 sounds like a very similar story from a while back. About a girl who was in girls scouts or something like that. Grandfather was the terrible person. She saw him having a heart attack in the living room. Recognized the signs due to some training from girl scouts or something. And sat in the chair and watched the life leave his eyes before mentioning it tom someone. Only bring it up cause I've heard so many off shoots with slightly altered details. This story lives like a phoenix in the nuclearrevenge sub. Rekindling the story anew every so often. Still a great story. Just caught the similarities.

As a homosexual i honestly approve of the way the wife approached the situation in the First story, good on her

The better help sponsorship right after that last story is crazy 😂

Hey r/slash I really would not support betterhelp. They are known to really not care about you and actively have harmed more than helped. I get a paid advert is a paid advert but the health of the people who watch you is far more important than a few dollars. Phillip had to come out and say why he doesn't support them and some of the things they've done and if anything I'd recommend giving that a listen to. x_x

The last story... I was mollested from the age of 12 to 16 years old by my grandfather my dad's dad. You're probably thinking why I grew up to be a teenager until he stopped... he was the leader of the family and everyone feared him. I strongly believe my aunts knew and let me be the scapecoat while my dad was overseas so their daughters wouldn't be tainted...I tried telling people but didn't fully know how to talk about it and people told me to shut up. I was a sheltered Arab girl. When I was 16 I finally managed to squirm and act like I was going to help my grandmother in the kitchen. I think he sensed I didn't want to be around him. I started telling dad when he was around if I could skip going to my grandparents. One time I was going to skip but my little sister and brother, my sister being 6 and brother being 3 wanted to go. I suddenly realized I HAD to go to protect them. My grandfather kept trying to have them sit on his lap, to have my sister go to his room, etc. It was heart breaking watching all this unfold to my little sister so I would walk with them and not let them out of my sight. I told my sister my grandfather's knees hurt so don't sit on his lap, but after a quick bathroom break she was on his lap and I felt so sickened. Anyways... fast forward to being 19 years old, and I told my dad after we went back to live in the states. My dad wasn't a good guy either and said "so you'd put your old man grandfather in jail?" And after years of boiling pain I responded "Baba if you ever touch my kids like that I will kill you." I said it with such poison in my voice. He knew I was serious. He made me go to my room. My grandmother fell ill. He went back to our country to see her and told her before she died. She cried on her deathbed... she wasn't the best person in the world but she wasn't evil so I hold no mallice to her. She managed to find peace with it and died with a smile on her face. My sister who still lived with my mom in our country came to see my dad and grandmother , and my grandfather tried to get her in his room (they had separate bedrooms) and my dad pulled her away and said "NEVER go in his room alone." My dad acted like he didn't believe me before but suddenly I think it clicked and made sense for him. He didn't let my kid cousins sit on his lap. He watched alot. He never faced him though. My grandfather remarried within TWO MONTHS of my grandmother's passing. My dad didn't go to his wedding. He also didn't go see him. He stayed in the states, even after recieving news that my grandfather fell ill. He waited till he died. My stepmom texted me while I was at work that he died. I was living with my mom and sister who came to live in the states. I felt numb for a while. I felt like justice was not served, that he simply escaped any repercussions. That wasn't the case. He died of testicular cancer that went untested for years until it spread into his bones and blood. His leg literally shattered one day. He went to the hospital and died there alone. His new wife had went home, my dad's cousin had come to visit but left the room to grab a drink and he died there, alone. The doctors told my dad's family that he developed testicular cancer 9 years before. I was 21 then. And did the math. I was 12 when he developed the cancer and when he first began doing these things to me. He developed cancer possibly the moment he touched me! It was God's punishment or Karma. Whatever y'all believe in. My dad never faced him tho, and the day we found out we were all called to my dad's house where he asked if I could find peace in my heart and forgive my grandfather. I said no. I cried as I told him how alone I felt for years. He started crying and said "why are you telling me this? Now I don't want to forgive him!" My dad flew back for the funeral and ofc for the will reading. He got mostly everything as the oldest son. I went into therapy, and was also in college for Psychology. I'm a vocational specialist for people with severe mental illness now and am aiming to get my Masters and become a therapist to go help the people in Gaza when there's passage. I would've loved to witness his death, but maybe I can simply live a life well lived. I had nightmares, and my mental health was so bad. I finally found peace tho. I'm engaged to be married, despite people saying I'm used goods, 26 years old, a great job doing what I love and yeah... that's my revenge. Thanks for reading.

Ohh man, I was listening to the video while running around hatching eggs in Pokemon Scarlet, and the verbally visceral reaction I had when I heard BetterHelp-- 💀 Unless it's a contract issue, guess the backlash received from the last video that had the sponsor at the end didn't get through. Then again, I personally don't think it's a contract issue, and more of a 'easy money from a sponsor' ordeal, considering the gambling app sponsor from weeks/a month or so ago, give or take

*Horrible Grampa:* _BLARGH!_ I'm having a stroke! *OP:* I missed the part where that's my problem.

Hey Dabney, I really hope you see this. Better Help isn’t a good company to be accepting sponsorships from. They were giving away client information. HUGE no-no! Love the videos so much and I doubt you even know about the controversy but I hope you see this from if not me someone else.

that last story is killer. she got her revenge, without directly causing an issue, which is like the best revenge anyways.

This is the third time you have brought up betterhelp after your community told you its not good and yet here we are. There are way better sponsors out there but I guess if you get paid then you don't care.

Story 2: Geez, Alex really tried to ruin OP's life. I mean, I'm glad that the wasn't hostile to OP when they learned about OP being outed, but it could have been much worse. Funny how the valedictorian became a nobody in one fell swoop. Intelligence doesn't equate wisdom

5:45 "let's keep this straight" interesting choice of words

BetterHelp again? Yeesh...

Day 41 asking for r/LetsNotMeet

Wait...the first OP., she doesn't want "to destroy his health" but what do you think is gonna happen once OP dropped the bomb? That he wouldn't drink even more? I mean, she is the victim, he is a liar/cheater but don't feign being a martyr then kamikaze his entire life. Normally, I'm all for raining down fire and brimstone on the cheaters but this woman and story...it doesn't leave you feeling good, also...she was fully aware about the cheating. She decided to guilt-trip and torture him because she liked her lifestyle. OP is far from innocent in all this.

When i see rSlash and i see nuclear revenge, I know its gonna be a good morning :3

If the grandpa didn't wanted OP to say anything about what he did, then i guess he would find it only fair that op didn't said anything about what she did >:)

again you're advertising betterhelp after the backlash you got and all the people telling you what that corrupt company does, that is beyond disappointing, it's disgusting

As a bi woman - not exactly the same as a gay man but still have lived in fear with being queer. I fully side with the wife. She was understanding of his fear and essentially turned a blind eye since the marriage was mutually beneficial. But she was still betrayed, she was cheated on. He chose to stay and repeatedly lie to her. There are people saying "oh well she shouldn't have outed him", and the thing is, she didn't... for 10 whole years. He had a decade to decide to leave. He had a decade to get stuff sorted. It was only when he literally was trying to commit his life to a new partner and drown himself in booze did she step in. She was kinder than I would have been. Of course there is nothing wrong with being gay/queer, but it doesn't matter who the partner is, cheating is selfish and the highest form of disrespect. Edit: Multiple people are saying "she stayed for the money!". Yeah. And he stayed for her body, technically, for appearances. He wasn't in love with her either. Why does the woman have to do perfect things to accommodate the man who is cheating? They both stayed for non-love related benefits. They both could have left whenever -- except she wouldn't have been able to support her kids at the time. She guilt tripped him, giving him time and time again to just be goddamn honest. It really feels like you guys are victim blaming. No she didn't act like an angel, but she doesn't owe him that 🤷‍♀️

Honestly, as a gay man, the first story is quite satisfying. You don’t get to hurt somebody because you’re too scared to be you. Man up or stay faithful. The second story was fantastic too.

That transition from the last story to the better help ad read gave me whiplash

(Cheater Story): I'm an openly gay male in a rural area. You would be/wouldn't be shocked at the number of married and partnered men are on the NSA/discreet online gay hookup sites. (And, no, I don't pursue them. That's bad juju.) It's social conservatism, the fear of ostracism, and the fear of physical violence that forces these men into the closet. Everyone has seen way too many conservative senators and TV Evangelists getting caught with men to deny that this is true. I don't condone their actions of cheating. Some men don't have the psychological character and fortitude to be who they really are; self-hatred is a real issue. If people want this to stop, then knock off the homophobia. I don't condone his actions, but she is also a gold-digger who uses people, probably a result of an abusive household...which is another problem that is rampant in rural communities. Just evil.

I'm wondering if RSlash still has these BetterHelp ads because he took out a payment/contract from them that he still owes publicity/sponsorships on, or if it's worse and he genuinely doesn't care much to stop the sponsorships just to get the revenue.

So... in her desire for revenge against a cheater, she ruined two lives, potentially made her children's lives at school unbearable, but that's all okay because he... didn't drink too much? "I want to ruin his life, not his health." Umm. Ma'am. People take their own lives over crap like this. But I guess it's not "ruining his health" if there's no more life or health to ruin?

Hey not sure if you know but Better Help is a absolutely atrocious company, please do not do work with them

Its a shame you promoted a scam business. A bit of research shows this company doesn’t even check if their therapists are actually licensed to even care for people

For story 4, Fate handed op revenge on a silver platter, and im so glad she took it. It must of felt so good to finally have power over someone who had stripped hers away for so long. Well done op, im glad you got your vengeance, best of luck on your journey of recovery

Man.. The woman of the first story gives me serious sociopath vibes. She epitomizes the consequence she spoke of if he had came out as gay, and then when she figures out that he feels ra*** whenever they slept together she loves it. Normal people don't revel in that stuff.

Final story: If I were OP I'd lean in towards grandpa's ear and whisper: "How do you like the taste of antifreeze?"

Wat, betterhelp :/ You're "better" than that, man, come on.

My dude, cut out the sponsor asap. They're really shady

*Husband:* _[Literally fucks around]_ *OP:* Time to find out, 'honey'. 😈

Damn, props to that southern church for NOT getting on the guys case for being gay, but for cheating. A surprise to be sure, but a welcome one.

That is a traumatic childhood. This is one of the reasons we need to stop censoring speech. If we could trust our government I would argue that CPS could do more. But they would have to rotate staff and ensure they have no gains from doing this job.

that last story - couldn't have had a better outcome. OP didn't do anything to her abuser. literally. hope she got some therapy

I don't understand why closeted men don't find a lesbian to fake a relationship with so they can be each others beards, at least there's no betrayal.

Story 1: OP is definitely a legit psychopath

5:48 "He was fired, the congregation turned on him (for cheating, not for being gay, let's keep that straight)" I died laughing at that 😂😂😂

People have been constantly commenting on your videos with Better Help sponsorships for months telling you why you shouldn't partner with them. It really dissapoints me to see you ignoring us since you are so quick to rectify things when you're over the line on your opinions in a video. 😕

Man, I've missed r/NuclearRevenge Then again, the lack of it makes the stories hit harder when you eventually do cover them.

That first story just shows how “killing with kindness” could be taken literally!!!

The girl who's grandfather died of a stroke...I'd bet he did the same to her mother when she was a child. Abd is now an alcoholic as a result. My heart goes out to them both.

Story 1: OP missed the obvious joke by not saying her husband "was caught between a rock and a hard on." Especially since seconds later she said "his church turned on him, for cheating not being gay; let's keep this STRAIGHT." 😂 Story 2: Is this the husband's side?

If you want to out someone for their skeletons in the closet, you might want to not have any skeletons in your closet that you’re ashamed of

1st story: OP seems the Kill them with kindness type... literally XD 2nd story: OP did the Uno Reverse trick XD 3rd Story: Best revenge is a life well lived. OP is living very well XD 4th story: OMG best Christmas gift EVER!

Story 1: You don’t just let someone keep doing something bad and then punish them. It’s like letting a thief steal from 5 more places, then act like you cared the first time they stole and punish them for it. Really manipulative and disgusting behavior. You even manipulated him into giving you pity gifts. You know he feels bad about it, and you know the reason he does it is because he is too scared to come out. I hope OP gets help.

"The congregation turned on him, for cheating, not being gay. Let's keep that straight" I see what you did there

I genuinely don’t know how many times your viewers have to tell you that BetterHelp is not good before you get it. It’s genuinely disheartening as it feels that you’re either not reading the comments or ignoring them.

The first story was wild 💀 From the pov of op I can see that she stayed with him because he provided for they’re family, was a good father and was good at doing the deed. What the husband did was terrible, wasting someone’s life to cover your own ass is a cowardly thing to do when the solution he could have took was to leave the town with the love of his life but he didn’t. She tormented him by guilt tripping him in a secretive way as her revenge for 9 years which I think it’s reasonable since the husband was still cheating but she didn’t go to far so his mental health didn’t decline. She then later says she doesn’t talk bad about h to the kids because she still wanted them to have some sort of relationship with him. From the husbands pov he is afraid of coming out of the closet because of his homophobic home town (which I can understand since I’m bi and haven’t come out to my parents or family members) so he then married a women while cheating on her through the marriage and before. He then finds the “love of his life” who encourages him to leave op as op also hinted at but the husband refused…in the end the husband made his bed and he had to lay in it, I don’t blame op for what she did but I feel like this wouldn’t have happened if the husband just ran for the hills the moment he knew of his sexuality so he could live his happily ever after but he didn’t so…sucks to suck I guess and I’m not saying op is a saint because let’s be honest nobody in this world is but I still think she is way less of an A hole than the husband.

I do think after listening to the story again we all need to reavaluate what she did and what he did. I'm starting to think their isn't a permanent position of who's a victim here. They both did some pretty fucked up stuff to each other but she went OVER the limit to what you do to a cheater. She even said she just wanted to ruin his life not his health but she definitely did ruin his health at the end of it. (Not protecting nor justifying his actions) She did out him to the public,cheat and use him for years like an atm machine,manipulated him,had intercourse with a man that she knew didn't enjoy it so that doesn't sound consensual and more. I think this is a everyone sucks situation but she went far and beyond!

I think both the husband and OP sucks in story one. She had no problem with the cheating ad long as she got her luxurious lifestyle, but as soon as her business took off, then suddenly "*GASP* gay cheating!! How horrible!!!" And of course the husband sucks for cheating.

The rapid transition from the last story to the ad was utterly iconic

Damn that last story….love u rslash. Have a nice weekend everyone

for cheating not for being gay, lets keep it straight XD that pun unintented or not just kills me LMAO

Story 1: talk about ice in your veins! OP was a monster, and I mean that in the very best sense and with great admiration.

You're really promoting BetterHelp, a company caught selling client information to third parties such as Facebook. I wouldn't trust a company after a stunt like that. So why do you?

Rslash, for fuck's sake, you're STILL shilling BetterHelp?! This is the third time (I've seen) AT LEAST! Please lose this sponsor or I cannot guarantee you won't lose subscribers over it.

The thumbnails are quite hard to decipher! I appreciate how straightforward this one is❤❤❤

Rslash, drop the betterhelp sponsorship. They’re awful; half the “therapists” have no formal training and many of them give truly terrible advice. Get someone that at least gives customers what they pay for.

"turned on him for cheating, not being gay, let's keep that straight." - Nice pun, OP.

Please do some research on better help before sponsoring them. They've had quite a few issues and some RU-vid videos on the company.

I love how all of the youtubers have terrible mental health now that they can use mental health as a sponsor.

Last story... Hope it hurt every bit as he laid there.

Story 1: What the husband did was wrong at the same time he was in a hard situation seeing as coming out could hurt him and to be honest about his life would mean abandoning his kids to move somewhere more accepting or becoming the target of discrimination. I still don't condone cheating but do acknowledge he was in a rough spot. Story 2: Yes Alex was a bad person but OP even admitted that he invited everyone including Alex to follow his twitter which he had liked gay posts on, so OP kinda outed himself then took it out on someone. I also have to add buying drugs from someone and then selling them out is a hypocritical thing to do.

damn, first story was genius last story, she was lucky he died, because if he had survived, he would've said she left him

“For cheating, not for being gay, let’s keep this STRAIGHT” nice pun

"The congregation turned on him (for cheating, not for being gay, let's keep this straight)." HAHAHA! No pun intended, I'm sure, but I bust out laughing with that last bit!

God DAYUM. op for story 1 was fucking vicious. Not that she didnt have every right to be, but daaamn.

I think that the first story has to be really rocky. in the other hand, cheating is not justified but i think that exposing one's sexuality out in the open is really extreme, dangerous even, while being in USA.

God I remember now why I stopped listening to Nuclear Revenge stories… nothing like someone doing something pretty messed up and petty to you, only to respond by decimating any chance of them ever having a happy life ever again. That level of vindictiveness is nuts to me.

It's been years since the last nuclear revenge, hope it sticks around

last story: OP saw her abuser dying right in front of her and decide I WATCH YOU DIED and I bet grandpa knew OP wasn't going help and have fear in his eyes and I bet even if OP told the family they won't believe OP to well deserver it like Kamra came and left

Let's be honest. The congregation in the first story didn't abandon him because he cheated. It's because the affair partner was a man. Not that he didn't deserve it, but we should be realistic about what really happened.

The first story: this is the very DEFINITION of “killing with kindness”

I felt bad at first for OP in story 1, but she was just being vindictive and evil. Way to take advantage of society’s hate for gay people. I don’t know, she might be cheated on, but she was a real evil person about it.

Story 1: I think this is the first reddit story where I have more sympathy form the cheater than the wife.

I get that sponsorships are important but don't get them from a company that is a known hack. Do your research regarding your sponsorships so you can make sure you're not peddaling harmful stuff to your subscribers. You've got over 1M subscribers and once you reach that point you do sort of have a duty to make sure you don't advertise frauds to them

ngl, i couldn't stop laughing for a few minutes after i read,"He was fired, the congregation turned on him (for cheating, not for being gay, let's keep that straight)" Was that intentional? lmao

BETTERHELP IS A DATA MINING COMPANY. They sell the "confidential" questionnaires and don't vet their therapists. Get your bag, D, but this info has been out for AWHILE and it's disappointing each time I see it on your channel

For SOOOME reason I feel like something is wrong with the first story. I cant just shake that feeling off. I dont know call it a writers hunch.

Wow I am surprised how rslash is weirdly supportive of first story. She never confronted him and used weaponized homophobia to ruin his life. Also isn't it a bit... rapey to make someone have sex with you KNOWING they don't want to?

The last story is a treat that I live for. 😈

Rslash this is the second video that I’ve seen you sponsor BetterHelp. Please reconsider ever sponsoring them again. They have some pretty shady business practices and some of the people associated with the business don’t even “help” like the name implies and only make things worse. I understand sponsors help with you and your videos, but it’s definitely not good to sponsor a company that potentially does more harm than good and could ultimately harm you as well.

hi r shash, i know this will probably be drowned in the comments but i wish you didn't take better help as a sponsor. idk if you are able to choose your sponsors and i get if not, but they have been involved in violating patient confidentiality, which is a big deal when talking about therapy. There is an FTC article about the case. They pushed patients to reveal personal health information in an unavailable way and then proceeded to sell it to Facebook and other social media platforms.

Disliking because of the BetterHelp ad.