Girl!!!!! Those photos are old ! Not defending Kim but she actually have a very nice body look at the videos ,interviews, the VOGUE video for the Met gala you can clearly see you should fix your nose maybe you can be a bit happier 😉
Saying that stretch marks are ugly is like saying every woman that's ever had a child who ended up with them is ugly. They're beautiful because it's what makes us who we are.
It’s offensive to me when Kim says her butt is natural and that she’s incredible “disciplined” and works out a lot. Like girl if working out made your butt that big you would also have leg and arm muscles.
I agree. She might not have invented beauty standards but her lies are perpetuating the false ideal that women are born "perfect". None of us are born to fit the mold of conventional beauty standards. All of us need to alter ourselves to fit these ever-changing standards. I feel like she needs to take more accountability for the unhealthy body image she pushes onto young people. It might not be her whole responsibility, but how difficult is it to just admit "yes I have my photos edited, yes I got plastic surgery, yes I got a BBL, because it makes me feel good about myself". How refreshing would that be?
I remember her saying, that her butt was so big due to doing squats. What an utter BS. Fake, fake, fake. It make me very angry, coz I workout and I will never will have bum like that. All because its not real. Just own it
It could happen, i know friends from Brazil who look like that. But normally the butt become fat disposal so they can't get away from celulite. And it's ok, they remain beautiful.
Have you? Sis bye? Has she meet Kim? I'm sure this lady " " adores her and she can't stand be like her....... To be honest I'll be doing the same TAKING ABOUT EVERYONE IN PERFECTIONS but mines that is what she does..... oh well lovesssss
So, I'm 41 and I rarely go on Instagram anymore because it makes me feel horrible. You'd think at my age I'd know better, been when you see flawless skin over and over you think your own skin is horrible, when in actuality my skin looks exactly like Kim's real skin. Thank you, Stephanie! I've been watching you for years and these videos are going to help so many women.
They have pride. They want to appear to be superior to others. They compete with other influencers to look better. They don't care how it affects others. They just care about protecting their egos.
@@k92aida not only that. They're just a part of our society. They are not the trendsetters, lets be honest. Unrealistic beauty standards is what the human race has been about since time immemorial. Kardashians are just a reflection of our society and they're just as trapped in it as we are. It's enough to see their reaction at their real pictures, it's not even about feeling superior to everyone else, it's about losing that infatuation that people have with them. I bet they're quite miserable when alone and behind close doors. Constantly being worried about upkeeping your perfect life must be tiring.
I got the best advice years ago from a hairstylist, he said “if I had their money I’d look like them, If they had my money they’d look like me” preach queen
my cousin has the same bum as kim but she has lots of cellulite and she’s really happy and satisfied with how she looks, she’s literally mental goals to me, learning how to love myself in every shape, weight and form…beauty comes from within
I grew up seeing my mom constantly weight herself and call herself fat and it really affected my body image. Kim spent SO much money altering her body and she still photoshops herself. Remember when Khloe got upset that her grandma posted the unedited picture of her online? I can't imagine the body dysmorphia their kids are going to have.
exactly, Khloe brags about her family's body dysmorphic disorder (BDD) implying it's a good thing that keeps them looking their best, but I truly wonder if she will feel similarly when their daughter's begin to suffer from BDD. It's sad to seem them not only hurting themselves and the general public, but it's very sad also to watch their very own children grow up in the spotlight who will be impacted negatively by their poor choices and flawed perspectives.
Me and my 15 year old daughter watch you! I made her start watching you about a year ago because being a teenage girl is extremely hard with the “beauty standards” that are pushed on everyone with the fake reality of insta, Facebook, TikTok and all of the other platforms. To make a long story short my daughter is very beautiful inside and out and I didn’t want her to get a misconception of what real beauty is, anyway I want you to know that you are absolutely amazing and I appreciate you and everything that you do for women of all ages! You definitely do more for peoples self esteem than any influencer that we have/do watch ❤️❤️❤️ thank you so so much ❤️❤️❤️
I have 2 daughters myself and I’m worried to death about how crazy & unrealistic the beauty standards will be when they become teenagers. It’s a sad time we live in
I don’t pity her cellulite dimpled ass. She created it. I realize 99.99 percent women have cellulite I have it! But butt lol her butt was normal then it became a THING
To ever made that nasty remark about me you don’t know me, you didn’t like a comment I made you got nerve you mad, cause I don’t like that plastic family grow up! Me nose is really cute I think your a moron who needs eye glasses x don’t ever make a personal remark bout someone you don’t know t it’s disrespectful. Next time I won’t be as nice! Don’t get mad ! 🔫
Literally they wouldn’t be able to handle it, i think she should do videos like these but for men, shaking them. Have u ever seen an action actor during “off season” let’s pick apart make bodies!!!!
They dont. have you seen the bodybuilding community? Guys have died/gotten very sick from steroids and doing shit like injecting silicon in their arms.
@Furiosa Because we're expected to be emotional. So when we show emotion we dont get shamed exactly like men do, but people still look down on us and see us as weak in condescending way. We're women so weak is all we're supposed to be. We're fulfilling our sex role while men who show emotions other than anger are defying it. We both suffer from not knowing how to express our emotions properly.
Your videos have literally made my life a happier better place. I've had three children, breastfed them , raised them I'm 5'1 and 130 pounds and 36 years old. I've battled with hating my body for not being perfect no matter how much I work out or what I eat for a long time... these videos have undone every lie I've believed for a long time.😭 Thank you !❤
The most important thing is that you FEEL good. That your digestion is on point, your hormones and balanced and you’re nourishing your body with good food. Then you will feel amazing and who cares what society says about YOUR beautiful body 🔥😍❤️
@@stephanielange thank you for your videos. I’ve taken breaks from social media because I stopped working out and I’m not feeling myself and I find myself comparing myself to all these fake bodies and it just makes me feel like shit. But I always remember that these girls including the Kardahsian are very insecure because if they loved themselves they would’ve never rebuilt their bodies
I've always been skinny, it's just my genes but since I got closer to 30 I've started storing more fat in my thighs and now I have fat on my knees and my thighs have doubles which I never thought possible for me (because I was skinny). It's a conversation that no one has with anyone that bodies change, that it's normal and that you shouldn't beat yourself up about it! What we should be encouraged is to have a healthy lifestyle and do exercise (the latter I'm guilty of not doing lol).
as sweet and humble as Kim can seem at times, does anyone else find it down right evil that she will go as far as having the paps under her control to maintain this idea that she is physically perfect just because she is massively narcissistic and egotistical or is it just me?
You're my hero, Stephanie! The research you do for us, the way you deep dive into these topics, and the way you've changed people's lives and confidence is something heroic.
Hey you! 👋 Looks like we LOVE many of the same creator's 🥰❤! Stephanie is one of my definitive favorites!! Have a wonderful day ..would love to come over- 👽51 sounds Fantastic !
I really needed this video today, I have been in a very deep depression for the last 2 weeks because I just can't seem to lose the weight I gained from my last pregnancy so I'm definitely really hard on myself and just not in a happy place right now. I still want to lose the weight, but this video definitely helped me not hate on myself as much. Thank you.
Agree. I have no idea why it became beautiful to have a morphed and unnatural butt. It looks insane to have huge hips that stick out this way. Its not a good look at all and I don't know why anyone would think it is. It looks disturbing
Every person has cellulite. I'm 5'10" and weigh 128 lbs. and I have cellulite. I don't even care. It's a shame that young women are so obsessed with what they look like and go to such lengths to photoshop themselves.
No, you're not the only one! I don't know, their bodies seem kind of artificial to me, and now I've understood why, it wasn't and it still is not in my goals list
Being from an older generation, I can say we had some of this to deal with when I was growing up in the 70's and 80's, but before the proliferation of social media, you didn't think EVERYONE else looked like that and you were the only "imperfect" one -- so I can't imagine how damaging this is for younger women.
As much as I agree everyone is beautiful, I just wanted to say that we are not obliged to be pretty or beautiful and we don't owe it to anyone but only ourselves. That's it.
My daughter made a life size doll modelled on the Instagram beauty standard as her year 10 art project. She started with a body made exactly to her own (very beautiful) body measurements, & then modified the body to turn it into the super big boob and butt, super tiny waist picture that we see - her intent was to try and show how ridiculous these ideals are in real life. The act of actually packing stuff on to the butt and boobs, whilst thinning the waist in ridiculously was really eye opening for both of us! The doll could barely stay upright it was so off balance, & it honestly looked ridiculous… but if you held up photos of influencers like the Kardashians next to it it was pretty close to identical!
Honestly getting a percentage of the paparazzi’s earnings is brilliant in the sense that they are using her image to make themselves money. The fact that her image is always edited makes me sad for the people that look up to her. Plus it’s just a shit example to set for her kids. Love the message that you promote in these videos Steph!
Im 20, not a kid, pretty matured by now, pretty in the light about the fact that instagram is not reality. Yet after all these years, your videos were .. helpful. U are the one who first told me that i should not feel guilty about eating, showed me exactly why and how ig photos are fake, difference between long and short torso, about goodness of cellulite, etc. U not only show facts but you also kindly but straight forwardly encouraged me that my body is normal and i should not be ashamed of it. I only wish that i had found your channel as a kid when i was at the peak of hating my body. And i wish more young girls come across your videos Love you, and god bless you ❤️ I wish you prosperity in life stephanie
I've always been super self conscious about my cellulite and watching these videos made me realize that it's super normal and now I've been wearing my shorts with more confidence. Thank you! 😊
My mind has been severely messed with by the beauty standards in media all around the world and I've never even had an instagram account. I want to see myself as normal or even pretty so badly, yet I can't help but compare myself to these other people every time I look into the mirror. Thank you for your videos, Stephanie 💖
I think Kim K is beautiful however her legs and thighs don't match her rear and hips. To denie her bum and hips are natural does indeed set unrealistic beauty standards and can be very harmful to younger people.
i’ve been saying for years that a woman simply can’t have thighs that small and a bum that big. given that muscles work in pairs it’s just not possible naturally without much more muscular thighs. i just wish celebs would be honest about work they’ve had done, especially “influencers” who make money off of being ~body goals~ thank you so much stephanie for these videos, they’ve really helped me and definitely others as well
Hey Stephanie, I can't tell you how much you have helped me. I have become more confident in my own skin and I fell really happy. My self esteem has been more and i am very confident. Thankyou for everyone ❤️❤️
I share your videos with my 8 year old daughter in hopes of instilling a positive body image. She says "A waist that size will not fit your organs!" LOL I'm afraid for her generation. And I hope she takes this information with her and helps her friends too. Keep doing what you're doing! We really appreciate all your hard work!
It still doesn’t look good with clothes on trust me, seen that in person and it’s still a big no for me lol only left me question the whole purpose of life because why 🥲
Her image as well as her family images are their money-maker. They use their perfectly filtered photos to sell their products to people who believe them. Women believe Kim’s body is realistic and achievable (labelled as “body-goal) while men believing it’s normal to look “perfect” like that (fat in the right place with super tiny waist and no cellulite whatsoever). I live in a country where nearly 80% women would go under the knife to achieve a “perfect/desirable look” just to marry rich men in hope their life would change for a better. Plastic surgeries become a hot trend and a mean to be rich (through marriage). It’s frustrating and upsetting to witness people like that.
How much these videos unfolded my eyes about this illusional influencers world. I wish it didnt affect these many young society, i wish more people see this so they feel at least better about themselves and realize that influencers create false reality for them… love ur work sis
I have terrible body dysmorphia and an ed. Watching your videos (along with deleting my social media) has been so so helpful, thank you for what you do 🖤
Dear Stephanie, Just want to say thank you. Watching your videos is a blessing for me it's like you're talking sense in to me I was so disgusted about the way I looked and felt so ugly Icouldn't even look my self in the mirror .Every one i knew my family my teachers and friends were body shaming. I was really healthy as a child and still now I remember clearly that when I walked into my primary school the kids used to call me fat. At home when my cousins used to come the also shamed me . I was never confident about my self and lost all hope and confidence. Watching all those influencers made me feel I was nothing worth of.But one day I started watching your videos and I just wanted to say thank you so much I'm in such a better position now than I was in before. If you're reading this I want to thank you from the core of my heart. You are truly a blessing for me.💗❣❤
I have a neighbor who is quite overweight and she is gorgeous! She wears minimal mascara, eyeliner and lip stick, and just uses lots of moisturizer on her face, and swears by drinking a lot of water. She says she refuses to use foundation on her face as it clogs the pores and ages the skin. Her skin is amazing without having any surgeries and she's 46. She also chooses the color and style of clothes to compliment her body type, skin tone, and hair.
Please could you do Kendall Jenner? These videos help me so much with body image struggles and Kendall Jenner is my dream body so it would really help xx
It’s surprising to me to hear someone regard KK as someone who is “goals”. Not saying anything is wrong with it but I’m just around people who have very different opinions of her lol.
Kim Kardashian is anything but a victim. I really appreciate your videos though and also hope you get as high a following as ppl like Kim, so at least people have all the information they need to form an opinion about their bodies. Social media needs people like you to bust this illusion we've all put ourselves under.
I love and respect the videos you make so much. I have been ‘too small’ and ‘too heavy’ in my life and at the end of the day we are pitted against ourselves so often. It is really admirable the way you make these videos. You not once tear down or negatively critique another female, but I see how you debunk these unreal beauty standards - remind us we are all normal and stunning, regardless of ‘sizes’ Thank you Stephanie!!
After watching this I came to conclusion that even Kim Kardashian doesn't look like Kim Kardashian. How lost must she be with herself. This is so sad for her, and all those young girls and women who struggle with self-image, then look up to her and wish they had a body like that.
I honestly love your videos, and I would like to thank you for uploading them. I have been suffering from anorexia nervosa for almost 3 years now and from time to time I feel really bad about my body. But whenever I feel bad I always come across your videos and they surely make me feel good and make me think that I have nothing to feel bad about. So, thank you again♥
The scary thing is, when you put the edited photo next to the unedited, the real image that would usually look amazing makes me think she looks fat - which she totally isn't! I know it's not real but it warps your view of what's 'normal' and attractive.
I thought I was the only one who felt that way. I'm glad I'm not the only one who realized that my perception of "normal" has been warped by all the filtered/tuned/blurred stuff that makes up the whole of social media.
Thank you as always! It's the spotlight on cellulite that always helps me. Every model, from really thin to plus-size, seems to have a totally smooth body, and I don't think I realized how subtly that influenced me until I watched this series. Seeing how much effort it all takes is super helpful too.
I love how you're unapologetic about explaining things. The internet is a place where you can be whatever you want to be and whoever you want to be until someone finds out. Although that is the reality of the era we live in it is not how reality is. And that's really hard to get through to people. Too many people want to hide behind the camera and not be themselves. Thank you for reminding women especially we are human and perfection is a matter of perception.
This is absolutely true they were filming when she was on the beach and she was so upset about the pops being there and her cellulite and her friends were comforting her it's in an episode of the show!!!
I really appreciate all the research that goes into these videos. Even me who is an adult, has very terrible body image of myself, needs this reminder constantly! Keep posting!
I’m so glad I’ve discovered u recently girlll I wish I came across u five years ago I went through a massive breakdown the past 5/6 years but you have definitely put me at ease thank u so much for all your work u are a star ❤️❤️
Just love your content Every high-school and college young woman should be a subscriber !!!! Women you are all beautiful and you are all different and that’s PERFECT
I feel like all of this (like the Kardashian and just instagram issues in general) doesn't just impact women and their body goals, but it hugely impacts men who think these women exist, and expect us normal people to look like that
Her comments about her body looking 'awful' in the pictures of her in Mexico made me sad. I thought she looked great and natural! It just shows what she thinks of people with a little bit of cellulite. The Kar/Jens love body inclusion in their marketing when it's earning them money for their brands but will turn around and shame the very women they hired to model for them. Love your videos, Stephanie! They always help me feel a bit more confident! 💖
I love these videos! I always feel so good knowing I LOOK normal. Even just reading the others here talk about it, makes me feel normal. I also like how you don't shame or degrade people you just speak facts. The room has a bit of an echo hun but the rest is fine 😁 😍
Unfortunately many of them are pressured to be a certain weight and they use hip pads/butt pads to create curves. As for plastic surgery, a lot have done something. It’s not uncommon in K-pop and idk why a lot of stans are in denial
I absolutely love you, Stephanie. Your videos have brought me so much relief. You are stunningly beautiful and seem like a really down to earth and classy girl
I love your videos so much. This kinda stuff really does need to be talked about & brought to the forefront. I couldn't imagine being a teenager now w how social media is. I'm 38 next month & I still have many insecurities about my own body but I look better now than I did when I was younger so I'm pretty happy w myself regardless & we really all should be!! ❤️❤️
Just how appearance is idolised,why aren’t we just grateful to have bodies that function, won’t lie as a teenager I looked up to people with perfect bodies but only now when I look back at my teenage pictures I feel kinda stupid for thinking I needed to change. This is sad,these insecurities are sad and bizarre are humans fearing and idolising humans who fear and idolise other humans😭
As someone whose body has never been perfectly healthy due to several chronic illnesses, I have always envied healthy people. It took me a long time to figure out that these beautiful people are not the healthy people. But I also really hate people moaning about bodies that care for them the way a body is supposed to. Edit to say: I appreciate it's more complex than people just disliking their body. I know low self esteem can ruin someone's life. It just still upsets me
So true. I used to think I was so ugly back in my teen days 😭 Now 15 years later I look at my pictures and I wasn't or ugly at all. It's crazy how our perception can change our reality.
Being a young girl in the days where size 0 was “body goals” and not being able to achieve that, the Kardashians came along at the right time for me. Everything real that made me love them back then is gone now. I wish they could see the positive difference they made when they were real, Kim could literally change so much for women
