It's super gross that folks expect women to still look like their 17 year old self as an adult. Thinking that looking like a literal child is the peak sex appeal and beauty is extremely disturbing.
I have struggled with this! Not so much anymore but my body has changed in the last 2 years. I am 25 now and I have more curves than I did at 17! I spent a year absolutely hating this bc I am petite and any extra weight was considered a flaw to me but I am accepting my body more and more. I want to be healthy and get exercise but I’m a woman now!! Not a child
Yeah it’s crazy I’m about to turn 21 and I long for the body I had when I was a teenager, it’s actually kinda gross like, I was a child, why am I obsessed with having that body back?
I have to say that Gigi is probably one of my favourite models/influencers. I really commend her for not giving into the insane amount of pressure, that her mother and the public has put her under, for not being "perfect". She's kept her appearance really natural and I think she's even more stunning for it. I hope she continues to the be the confident and beautiful women that she is. It really is so refreshing to see. Especially in these times, when so many women in their 20s just don't feel good enough, and continue to put themselves under the knife.
I cannot believe hip dips are considered a “flaw” to some…no one can choose whether to have hip dips, cause we cannot control the way our bodies change as we get older!! that’s so ridiculous to me.
I was just about to comment this. Lilly Sabri, a fitness influencer on RU-vid who eats very healthy and works out a lot (literally her job) has them and her body looks AMAZING, so I don't understand why hip dips are considered a flaw by some. I truly don't get it.
I always wanted them. I remember a cover shot of Cindy Crawford when I was a little girl. She had them and I could wait to grow up and have them myself! 🥰🥰🥰
The part with Yolanda and the cake genuinely made me want to cry :( Gigi's mom should be encouraging her daughter to celebrate and live life, not restrict herself during a special moment. And the way Yolanda kept making her own piece smaller and smaller and taking off the frosting...it's so clear what a toxic and honestly sick mentality she has for her daughter and herself. I'm so glad that it seems like Gigi was able to come out from that relatively unscathed
I can see why Bella would have felt the need to get so much face work done. Like, how did the mother treat her? I can imagine their mother treating Bella like she wasn't as gorgeous as Gigi. I've never watched that show, so I don't know, but considering how bad she was with Gigi, she was likely bad with Bella.
You are one influencer I can stand, and I can agree with. All women are equal. I suffered E.D.'s for most of my life. Women come in all shapes and sizes. They are all beautiful.
I love the point you brought out about Bella being a supermodel takes really good care of her self so that already debunks the myth that cellulite comes from not taking care of yourself. I’ve heard guys say this so much and it’s so annoying because I literally had cellulite when I was 90 pounds and worked out every day. It doesn’t matter how you live it’s literally genetic
it is literally female anatomy - the way our connective tissues are structured. you pretty much can't be an adult female without cellulite unless you have a mutation of normal female anatomy.
Also, I didn’t realize “hip dips” were even a thing until Instagram. I have them and I’m not even close to being ashamed. The fact that normal anatomy is considered “wrong” is so gross.
Artist here. The shape of natural hips is one the most beautiful and satisfying things to paint. Some artists deliberately choose to accentuate that shape for aesthetic and style purposes! When I see the cosmetically enhanced hips with filler to achieve a round shape, I feel uneasy. It's uncanny.
I like how Yolanda don’t wanna eat cake at her daughter’s birthday but is ok with wine and champagne and she drinks a lot . Alcohol is extremely high in calories and sugar. What an hypocrite.
The hip dip part just made me so happy! I have a healthy relationship with my body, but my hip dips sometimes make me feel insecure, because I once heard someone say, that hip dips are embarrassing...so dumb, but I got stuck in that mindset. I never thought about the reason why they are even existing in the first place.
@@genevaxo Depends on what you depict as a flaw. Pimples are something everyone gets, even celebrities who get expensive treatments for their skin can get them. I don’t think it’s a flaw at all honestly.
I have to say, it was sad for me to hear that Gigi' mother was against her going back to volleyball. How can you stop your kid from doing what they want, especially such a great thing as sport, especially when you have no issues with money. I was a professional athlete for 12 years and it was the hardest, but greatest years.
Right? If I was THAT rich and my kid told me they wanted to do sports, art or heck, raise goats on a remote island for fun, I'd be all "go for it kiddo, life is short and you're in the privileged position to do what you want to"
I feel like Yolanda was forcing Gigi especially to become a model. I’m sure Gigi does like modelling but if she loves volleyball too, she should play volleyball. Yolanda was FORCING Gigi to fit the “supermodel beauty standards” which is very very hard to attain
probably bc she would have inevitably missed many practices and games and the time and effort she would have had to put in for it wouldnt be in gigis reach as she was out going places and traveling
One of the aspects that supermodels, influencers, actrees etc is to look beautiful and they have all the resources. Do not feel guilty. We are beautiful with or without make up and we need to concentrate with things that we like or need time and work to get it.
The fact that you get demonetized and age restricted tells me you’re doing great work against these “machine”. I’m 32 and have very minimal body issues and even I find you fantastic. ESPECIALLY hearing your studying nutrition and your husband is a trainer. You promote REAL health, physical, mental, and emotional and I effing love that. Keep it up. Keep “breaking the wheel” like the Australian Daenerys lol
The reason she gets demonetized is more to do with the fact she shows half naked women. Any channel that shows half naked women will get demonetized whether they are playing into "the machine" and objectifying women or going against it. Now whether or not this is right is up to you.
I like the message that you give when you post these videos. It's hard being a female while also being on social media, and sometimes we can't help but compare ourselves and then feel terrible. I said all that to say, I would love it if you did more personal videos like your channel used to be. The castle explorations, the beauty tips, etc. I miss those videos. 🤗
When I see those types of posts I just think about those people. They have photoshop and filters then, I’m like they are not the people I know in real life
I feel as if it’s not just woman, it’s guys aswell, not all guys have the abs and the muscles that influencers are always posting and photoshopping , even tho most of them r on sterioids, social media affects everyone’s self confidence, either youre a woman or a man
Here's a message to RU-vid. Stop taking these videos down! The message being conveyed is needed. Thank you, Stephanie for your continued work on these areas we need to regard as concerns.
this is the first time in a long time i feel good about the way i look and these videos have helped a lot in my journey, is not about putting other women down to make yourself feel better is about feeling amazing because no matter what your opinion is the only one that should stick with you at the end of the day
i remember a video where gigi called her mum and she sounded and felt really weak and was super hungry and the only thing her mum said was “too eat 3 almonds and chew them really well”. her mum and the model industry are super toxic. it’s nice seeing that they are still “normal” people and have their flaws. i love your videos and they have helped me so much with my own body image and the way i feel about it. thank you so so much !!!
Oh my god hearing her mother talk like that around and to her (A YOUNG AND IMPRESSIONABLE GIRL) makes my blood boil. That's the foundation for an eating disorder and a lifetime of low confidence. DIDGUSTING BEHAVIOR FROM A PARENT.
@@stephanielange oh I'm sure she did think she was doing what was best! It's just in light of how damaging we now know that kind of stuff to be to young people.. very bad parenting in hindsight.. I feel so terribly for people who had/have parents who drill diet culture into their heads 😖
Gigi looks like a supermodel any weight she is, it’s her height, bone structure & innate features. Christie Brinkley was told she was overweight at 508 115 lbs, I idolized her she was so healthy vibrant. It’s an evil industry. Men do not have the same standards in any world.
Wtf, then Im obese since I weight the same but Im shorter by a few cm, Im gonna tell my doctor that he is wrong and I dont need to put more weight, man people in fashion are so mean and unhealthy
Gigi has such a powerful presence and personality. You could tell she has a good heart and she’s just trying to live life on her terms, in the healthiest way possible. Good for her!
I'm 32 and thanks to your films I finally am accepting how I look!! Whole life I was wearing shorts at a beach and swimming pools, long pants and skirts in summer (and I was literally boiling in them) because I was embarrased for my stretchmarks and cellulite. I couldn't understsnd why I am thin and still have those "flaws" BUT NOT ANYMORE!
Beauty is a marker of reproductive fitness. Teens are always praised by society cause they are the most fertile. The goal of a species is to propagate itself and flourish.
I have very rounded hips and was always made to feel like there was something wrong with that… it’s so weird and ridiculous that “body standards” change so frequently. At the time “heroin chic” was a thing and I hated my curves. We can never win.
@@blueeeeeeeeeee Oh honey don't be. The feminine ideal has been killed by many gay male designers that idolize....pubescent boys. They dont really like real women, they want to create their sick fantasy and degrade the feminine form. Dont fall for it sweetpea. We live in a sick world. You, yes you, are the genuine female. Glory in it!
I’m so glad we didn’t have all this social media as a teen, but it genuinely concerns me now as a mother for my daughter 😔 Stephanie these videos are so important, thank you for keeping it real, it will help so many young girls and men too actually x
One piece of advice I would give is to say what my mum said to me when I was a kid. She was always slim when I was a kid a size UK 8/10 but has cellulite, and I remember her saying to me when I was really young that basically all women have it and there’s not a lot you can do about it. I think that’s why I’m not bothered with my own cellulite now. I knew this whole time that it was normal because my mum told me it was!
I think Gigi NOW looks the best she ever looked! She is a mother, a happy and a healthy woman, and she has a bigger purpose now more than before. So I think now she looks the most comfortable being a woman and that’s why this is the best she ever looked.
Please keep making these! No matter how often I tell myself these women aren’t as perfect as their instagram feed, actually seeing these realistic photos of them proves it to my brain!
I didn't know my hip dips were a flaw until I kept seeing videos and pictures online demonstrating how to get rid of them. That messed me up for a long time. Thanks for making me feel a bit better about it Stephanie
There are some toxic beauty standards in kpop industry, female idols and male idols are mostly affected, so are the adolescents who are watching them. Can you please make a video on that 😊
The incessant pressure to remain looking youthful in order to be considered beautiful is beyond toxic. Thinking that because I'm in my 40's I should be trying to still look 20 is absurd. I can be just as beautiful now without looking "young".
My doctor has always described me as having petite frame, though I'm 5'6 which is considerably tall. Petite literally means small, so yes you can be tall but have a small frame
@@courtneywerkmeister3040 Petite is less than 5'3". I'm 5'2" but also slightly underweight. I am the definition of petite. You are tall and slender, not petite.
@@WheatToast 5’6” is above average for women in the U.K. Petite is 5’3” and under. In the UK, average height is 5’9” for men and 5’3” or 5’4” for women.
About two days ago I saw cellulite on the back of my thighs in the mirror and felt bad. Then you addressed that feeling specifically in this video and lifted it away. Thanks for that. :) You're spreading really important messages!
Ok I'm an old girl at nearly 39 but I have to say what a REAL inspiration our girl Stephanie is!!! What you do for younger girls and women who did not get to grow up without the pressure of social media like I did is amazing. You are truly doing us all a great service doll, lots of love from Ireland 💚☘💚☘💚☘💚
WOW. The fact that Gigi now could’ve been a professional volleyball player, and probably a great one too, had she chosen her own path instead of her mother choosing it for her and telling her it’s masculine. Im astonished.
Both sisters are amazing to have survived that environment with their mother. Poor Bella had to have soo much surgery and basically starve herself to be a model (I imagine her mum would have thought her a failure if she didn't achieve that), I feel even more sorry for her I think.
I deleted my Instagram in early September and my mental health has been SO MUCH BETTER! I think our perception of what is “normal” is so warped because of editing, Facetune, filters etc but when I’m out and about seeing real people I feel so much more happy with myself!
I appreciate these videos so much. I’m 32 and basically my entire teen & adult life thus far I have completely picked my body apart. I grew up when “heroin chic” was in and now as an adult when “slim thick” is in. I’m currently pregnant with my first child and have looked back at pictures when I was in my mid-late 20s and in the best shape of my life. When I look back at these pictures I think, “oh my god. I looked SO good”. Whats so, so sad is during that time I still would look in the mirror and completely pick myself apart. I would find anything to be disappointed in. I would compare myself to fitness influencers and feel defeated. I had what I’d probably consider my dream stomach and legs, but at the time I’d look at them and find something, anything wrong with them. After getting older and having some life changing experiences that have helped me realize what’s most important, I feel it’s easier for me to look at my body and be proud. I’m growing a little human which I feel extremely fortunate to be able to do. My body has survived some pretty scary things. I still am critical, but every time I see one of your videos I feel so much more confident and it makes me think “f*** that. I’m not going to talk to myself like that again”. Thank you for creating this kind of content and putting positivity out into the world. You’re wonderful. ❤️
Thank you for saying that you can't compare 17 year old Gigi to adult woman Gigi. Like you said, women aren't supposed to look 17 forever! I've had people close to me try and do the same thing. I was size 0 when I was a teenager. I'm now in my early 30s and I'm about a size 8. Guess what? I'm gorgeous, happy and confident, according to ME. Yes, I have some more pounds than when I was 18. I also have more confidence, boundaries, higher standards, a bachelor's degree, a master's degree, a career and nothing to prove. I'm not interested in looking like I'm 18. I'm interested in living my life as the woman I've become.
Beauty is a marker of reproductive fitness. Teens are always praised by society cause they are the most fertile. The goal of a species is to propagate itself and flourish. So yeah women can't look 17 forever, but evolution is not gonna delete fertility awareness from our brains either. Those instincts exist for functional existential reasons.
I’d like to precise that Gigi didn’t voluntarily lose weight due to the pressure but she was diagnosed with Hashimoto’s disease which made her lose and gain weight multiple times during her career, and people basically shamed her for looking ‘ too thin ‘ and she replied that it’s not a choice that she had made, she’s trying to gain weight and that it’s due to circumstances. I think that it’s very sad that she has to explain to people every time what’s going on with her body since it’s not their business and I really respect her for staying natural and not giving in to the pressure from the industry and the public. Furthermore, unlike most celebrities she didn’t make me feel bad about my body a single time. ❤️ I love her so much. PS : Sorry if there’s mistakes in my comment English isn’t my native language. I wrote this comment before seeing that you explained this in your video 😭
That sounds like something her publicist would come up with, and she wore a lot of shirts to show off her weight loss. You don't know these people personally...it's sick to form parasocial relationships where the celebrity is some kind of angel in your mind.
I know you mentioned Gigi's Hashimotos but also worth noting Bella has Lyme disease! I'm pretty sure she's also spoken about how it's affected her weight in the past too, it's fairly common for Lyme Disease to cause drastic weight loss. I mean none of us can know if that's truly why she lost weight, but it's a possibility. They're both gorgeous and honestly seem like pretty well rounded and kind individuals given the environment they grew up in, Yolanda is a bit of a terror sheesh
Seeing these clips of Yolanda and Gigi kind of reminds me of my own mum and me when I was a child. I developed anorexia at age 11 and still to this day struggle with it. (I'm 27 now). I was horrified when Yolanda made such a fuss over a small piece of cake!
When I was 16, we did not had instagram & co. I can imagine being nowadays 16 and having instagram and seeing only "perfect" influencers can make them really insecure.. Your work is amazing! I hope more men yould see them!!
I don't wanna be a boomer but same, we didn't have any social media and people specially teens didn't have that much trouble. I just want kids and teeens to grow up healthy
I was obsessed with my hip dips and thought I had them because I had gained weight, but honestly turns out everyone has them, even though they depend on the structure of the bones and are less visible on a lot of people. I even asked my bf if he thinks it's ugly and spent so much time checking other girl's photos.... Thank you for reminding us all people has flaws.
What’s extra crazy is how much their professional model magazine images are edited too. I know with Barbara Palvin, she has similar moles on her stomach to Gigi, and they are edited out quite often, so I’m sure Gigi has probably had hers edited out as well. The way people micro-analyze women’s bodies is insane. Thank you for these videos and the lovely message you share!!
I've been feeling really down this past week and haven't been feeling confident with how I look lately. Which deeefinitely isn't like me. Thank you for this 😭
Thank you. When I started doing cosplay and photo shoots by myself for fun during the first stay at home months, I realized how much “goddess “ ness as you so perfectly put, was to do with creating the image with light, art direction (I like to think lol), correct for medium-makeup, and being open to trying poses or expressions to yourself. It made the models and ads so much less incomprehensible. Less fulfilling in a way, which is disappointing, but kind of cool, because a beauty look or prettiness can come down to self expression, and how you do that w accessories costuming etc. Looks really are that mutable and context-driven, which is different than how I learned!
Thank you so much, seriously, your channel is helping me tremendously in my self-love journey. Thanks to you I want to look at myself as an healthy, normal, beautiful woman. You help me so much to get rid of this "guilt" I have for not being as beautiful as them. I am, I'm different, and it's beautiful! You're a gift to us, seriously, thank you ❤️💞
The Hadids, Kendall Jenner etc. are all beautiful. BUT I agree that they are completely normal women who are being glorified by media as "the most beautiful, perfect etc.", whereas their looks I think are fairly attainable. It's just toxic esp for younger girls / woman to somehow see themselves as less than..
OMG, I love the pics of Gigi with a pushchair and happily getting on with the most important role of her life - being a mother! I do wonder if she (or any other child prodigy) will be as consumed with diet/looks/the "industry", as her own mother was with her? I like to imagine that she will be the complete opposite and will encourage her child's personal dreams. My goodness, I've been enjoying this series so much, I honestly don't want it to ever end! You've done a remarkable job of shining a huge light on the lies of IG and the modelling world. THANK YOU. Love ya guts 😉💗💗💗💗
I always appreciate these videos. Even at 41, it doesn't matter our age, we will always feel like we are never good enough when it comes to our appearances and our bodies. I dont even use social media much other than youtube, but even still, my confidence has never been great even when I was considered thin and before babies. I cant imagine being young and most of my time being spent on social media (I have a 17 yr old daughter so I know lol) I would feel so disgusted with myself after viewing all of these influencers and all these stars and models. My mental health certainly couldn't handle it, that's for sure! So please know, even us "middle aged" women appreciate that you cover this topic. 💜
Ugh you are such a wonderful RU-vidr. I feel like I'm being re-socialized watching your videos because you reinforce positive associations with things we are taught are bad or unattractive like cellulite and non concave stomachs. I always feel like I'm one step closer to being confident and loving myself when I watch your videos
Stephanie YOURE beautiful! Not only are you gorgeous on the outside ( love your hair and makeup 😍) but also inside, you’re so cool !!! Funny, sweet, kind, respectful, and positive. Thank you for being such an amazing friend to all of us ☺️ Blessings and hugs all the way from Atlanta Georgia ✨🌸
Back when I was modeling, I was a 00 and still called fat. I watched friends being fired for getting “fat” (at 50 kg). During our public weekly weigh-ins and measuring sessions, I watched girls get shamed and forced not to eat for a week. Some of them were 16 years old. The mental impact was so bad. Thank you for reminding everyone that they are enough. You’re fantastic! 🌸 #bodypositive #everyoneisbeautiful
fun fact? There's a phase of Hashitomoto's Thyroiditis called Hashitoxicosis that causes hyperthyroidism (overactive thyroid)! It usually occurs during the first few years of Hashimoto's and then slowly you flip over to hypothyroidism, an underactive thyroid, which is the main hallmark of the condition. What is very rare though, like you said, is when hashimoto's manifests solely as hyperthyroidism, usually that's Graves disease, but it can and does happen. So gigi could be that very rare person with backwards hashimoto's or she could very well be in the hashitoxicosis phase still, it'd explain her weight loss and why her reasoning for it doesnt make laymen's sense. If she is in hashitoxicosis tho I cant imagine it's gonna be easy to deal with it once it flips, with the kind of enviornment she seems to be in, not to mention her mother. Honestly, for her sake I kinda hope she just got the names mixed up or is one of those rare ass ppl who got Hashimoto's backwards. Hollywood never gives a shit if women have a medical reason they can't lose weight, they gotta lose it anyway, they practically killed Carrie Fisher when they made her lose 30 lbs for the new star wars, that rapid and ill-advised weight loss likely caused her heart attack. I'd hate to see anything like that happen to gigi or anyone else again but i wouldnt be surprised (Hashimoto's and Grave's both run in my family, I know too much about it now lol)
This is the exact reason I never was and never will be subscribed to any of those "influencers". They are lying to each and everyone of their audience, yet they get tons of appreciation. For obvious reasons they will keep lying and posting stuff like that. You do such a great job making these videos! Thank you!
I am a female truck mechanic and have worked alongside a lot of males in their late 20s. I hear them judge women on a daily basis. They seem to think these influencers/suopermodels/actresses etc are better than mere mortal women. I suspect they are generally single because they are secretly waiting for Margot Robbie mangically materialise in their lives. I have never heard any of them ever discuss real women with the same "enthusiasm". 😕
Same experience. I used to paint houses and the way men talked about women celebrities and cheating on their wives and dating high school girls...really affected the way I see men. I don't appreciate when people on here comment how it's only women doing it to ourselves. My real life experience is different.
This video is wonderful 🙌🏽!! I actually shared this with my two grown daughters ages (29, wife & mom of 2 children under 2 yrs. and 20, newly “adulting” and traveling the world ) because although they both have great 😊 self esteem and I raised them to love themselves for who they are and I also tell them that they are beautiful inside AND OUT… I still worry (as most mother’s do), that they sometimes put too much pressure on themselves and don’t necessarily always “feel” as beautiful as I know they are. Thank you for showing the REALITY OF THE MODELING WORLD and also TEACHING women/young ladies that their own bodies ARE ABSOLUTELY NORMAL and that 95% of females have cellulite and also explaining how different posing positions and sucking in etc… are all “tools of the trade!!” You’re body positivity and motivating speech is fantastic!! I applaud 👏🏽 you for a job well done 👍🏽. 🔥😍✊🏽👌🏽
I have Hashimoto's and I have not heard of anyone losing weight as a result. Usually the opposite. I guess if you take too much of your thyroid hormone you could lose weight , but I just don't know.
She said she started thyorid hormone and lost the weight. For my Hashimotos, I did not loose weight when starting the hormones, but I was not tired all the time anymore
yolanda took the dieting so incredibly far i think it was very easy for gigi to smirk and satisfy her mother in the moment like “okaaay mom right right right…” but she realized very quickly her mums a looney
Referring to Gigi as an example, not sure why we use the teenage body as a beauty standard ..this is what needs to stop..you are only 18 for 1 year...this is about a much larger health conversation and discussion.
Yeah that's what frustrates me too when we use 18 as the ideal look for women.... Like women only get 1 year of their entire life to be allowed to feel beautiful? And you don't even realize it when you're 18, then everyday after 19 we spend our whole life's hating ourselves wishing we were still in that one year and could've enjoyed it while it lasted but spent that whole short time feeling insecure even anyways. Like for real tho, I wanted Botox and filler at 19 years old,I thought I was too old at 19...
I think it is literally amazing that you included these clips of Gigi and Yolanda, cause boy that women had a rough child hood. Mentioning the past history of someone can really help to understand their current personality and being. Love the Video, you did an amazing Job Steph
Hi! I was recently diagnosed with Hashimoto's and Hashimoto's actually causes weight gain and retention, not weight loss. Once you are diagnosed and are given treatment and/or change your lifestyle to cater to the dysfunction and are more conscientious of what is going on with your body, it can potentially lead to loss of the extra unexplained weight whether it was intentional or not
Personally, I think these videos stay up because you’re genuinely kind and fair and not tearing anyone down. You’re actually performing a much needed service for many many women. We love ya ❤️
I was literally just binge watching your channel at the moment and like I just saw you uploaded and got so happy cause I ran out of videos to watch 😂 And fun facttt I was today thinking “when will Stephanie post a video on Bella and Gigi Hadid?”. Made my day
I just want to say that I appreciate you for using the word "preference". It helps people understand better that at the end of the day, it's up to you wht you do with your body... And hopefully, whatever that decision is, it's not coming from a place of pain and insecurity but as a sincere effort to feel good about yourself in a psychologically and physically healthy way.
I definitely disagree that she's had a glow down - I think she looks so beautiful and healthy now and you can tell she's a lot happier in herself. I also have a round 'chipmunk' face and she's made me feel so much better about it so idk I'm probably biased lol
We're saying "social media" should give us a break, but it is important to remember that people are behind those media articles, and dare I say a large number of women supporting these trends.
I cannot thank you enough for the videos you put out it's honestly the only thing that makes me feel a bit more confident. Cause it was very frustating to work out really hard and still have cellulite. So thank you so much for showing us how society loves and hates womens bodies at the same time.
I did Kenzzi and it sadly didn't work for me =( I'm pale with dark body hair so I'm the ideal person this is made for. I followed the instructions and did it religiously for the time they said to do it for and really saw no results. Reviews are about 50/50 of it worked or it didn't. My suggestion is to wait for a sale. Don't pay full price if you're going to try it. It might work for you! It just didn't for me personally.
Years ago, in a discussion with a friend, he said "believe me, if a man is lucky enough to have a woman, naked, in the flesh, he does not see flaws, he sees only what he desires and the beauty of it". This stuck, and whenever I started feeling dissatisfied with that extra 10 lbs or that cellulite here or there , I would remember..words are powerful, and when I watched Yolanda on that show I truly wanted to slap the hell out of her, the inference that a fit, toned body says "lesbian" is so incredibly ignorant, not to mention the other toxic shit she was bleating. No wonder Bella had her entire face reconstructed, and in the end the words she heard as a kid are the same ones she hears now, in that place where our insecurities lurk
We don’t have the idea of the perfect body and face in our heads. It is put there and I am starting to resent the whole industry big time. The worst thing is, that you can’t escape that toxic perfectionism it is everywhere and we all buy into it one way or another. Your videos do help but they don’t change what has been engrained in us since childhood. I have no sympathy for rich kids who make millions of of it tbh. They just keep making young girls insecure.
please dont say that, her videos are the reason why I didnt kms for being ugly" for real, and I believed alot of her viewers can at least can breathe normally in their body and just accept it for 5 minutes instead of showing hate towards it all day. Of course she can't change the industry her own, we are the one who can possibly change, and in the future, things might change too. So it all came down to, if all those women who were insecure about her/their bodies and can't see a way to accept it and live a miserable life and the toxic cycle keeps going, then NOTHING can be changed.
I really think her videos are great, don’t get me wrong. But what I see on Apps like Instagram or TikTok is the opposite of Stephanie’s refreshing positivity and just and endless perpetuation of unrealistic body goals. What I do have a problem with is excusing the influence of people like the Hadids and Kardashians for that matter. They had a horrible mother but they do have the means to change things and still try to sell us on their ridiculous glow ups. I think you can understand their struggles but still hold them accountable. If we keep calling them beautiful nothing will change. They would be if they weren’t so hypocritical about the surgeries they had and they time and money that goes into looking like that.
Beauty is a marker of reproductive fitness. Teens are always praised by society cause they are the most fertile. The goal of a species is to propagate itself and flourish. The industry has little to do with it. If you are fit you are fit
i hope u know just how amazing and how helpful these videos are. i’ve struggled my entire life with eating disorders and comparison. always thinking i’m not pretty enough, i’m not skinny enough, my bone structure is odd, etc etc. your channel has helped so much w my confidence and my ability to accept myself, not bc u expose them or w/e but u show genuine love for women. i see too many “body posi” influencers who drastically alter their photos or promote unhealthy eating habits by telling us that five asparagus stalks and a tiny piece of chicken breast is enough for us. i love food and it’s liberating lmao. thank u so much for all u do. i hope u thrive the way u deserve to.
The world needs more of these videos to go viral since lockdown I’ve actually gone off social media life has been a lot better since I’ve disconnected from the like machines and focused on myself instead of chasing Society imposed “perfection”
Gigi is probably my favourite 'big' celebrity because she seems so down-to-earth, self-assured, and just nice. And also I've always thought she's soo beautiful (even now she's older *gasp!*). Btw, remember in Real Housewives when Yolanda complained about Gigi's eyes looking 'Chinese' during her photoshoot? Lol
Stephanie, I love that you have such a huge following and still responds to your comments. When I write something here I actually feel like I can get in touch with you and that really keeps me subscribed. Keep up the good work, girl
I am always happy when I watch your videos because it reminds me that my so called „flaws“ like hipdips oder cellulite are absolutely normal and every normal woman has them. Makes me feel better in my own body. Thanks that you make such awesome videos without shaming anyone 💝 keep going and to anyone out there you are beautiful ✨
Absolutely LOVE this series! Also maybe dive in to “banana rolls” I’ve noticed I’ve gotten them as I’ve gotten older. 🍌🍌 as well as I don’t have a “sharp” jawline even tho I’m not overweight, I just have more fat around my neck? Making it look like my neck and face are one?
thank you so much for taking time to make these videos! you have no idea how many girls you have made feel so much more confident and okay with our imperfections. you are amazing 💕💕💕
I always love watching these videos from you! I definitely got emotional on this one when you talked about hip dips and how they are normal. I grew up always hating mine and thinking they were a flaw. Hearing over and over again that it's completely normal and other women have it makes me feel like a million bucks. I hate that people constantly photoshop them out. Which always made me feel like there was something wrong with mine. Thank you, Stephanie! ❤
@@stephanielange Thank you, thank you, thank you! You are incredible, kind, and beautiful inside and out. Sending you so much love, positivity, and hugs right now! ♥️♥️♥️
The reason why I think people see Gigi as ‘average looking’ and not deserving to be a supermodel in my opinion is because she hasn’t got any work done, doesn’t do any extreme diets or workouts all the time, doesn’t dress super flashy and fancy all the time, nor does extremely complex makeup looks all the time. And what really does it for people (again, only my opinion) is Gigi is happy to be low-key, relaxed, and embracing her new life as a working mum and doesn’t want to give into those pressures.
