Today we're gonna be learning a very important lesson from the land of tiktok from this person who tried to ruin a father's life for no reason Twitter: / xenoshot Twitch: / xenoshots
Right!! She has no personal context for a father who holds his daughter close him in public because he loves and wants to protect her from what!?!?! HUMAN TRAFFICKING 🤦🏻♂️ this woman is so sad
This infuriates me. My husband is 6'2 and a body builder. He's covered in tats and he looks scary to people who dont know him. My daughter is a huge daddy's girl. So if someone came up to my husband and daughter essentially accusing my husband of being a creep just because he's holding her hand. He would be incredibly upset. I wish these social justice warriors with daddy issues would get some therapy so they can see what is inappropriate behavior between an adult and child.
@@lockandloadlikehell Yeah, Karen wouldn't have said anything to you either. I'd be willing to bet the guy she confronted was probably a clean cut mild mannered, harmless looking man with a dad bod. In other words, a typical father of a six-year-old. Karens are stupid, but they still like to pick on people they think won't fight back. They like to live to torment the world another day.
@@candiceswanepoelcanmurderm5160 Yeah, that part is quite disturbing, yet not surprising. I hope that father went after her legally, as this kind of shit can spiral out of control real fast.
@@shinobi-no-bueno I think her insane behavior is somewhat funny…like I can’t help but laugh at the nosiness and lunacy of it all, but the fact that someone didn’t have a loving father and that it could contribute to them not believing a man can be loving and nurturing -sorry I don’t find that part funny. It’s really awful.
@@trinabina3900 I don't feel pity for adults that allow their "trauma" to dictate their awful behavior. Everyone has a sob story, and daddy not hugging you is not remotely close to being one of the worsts.
ok but honestly you sound callous. I don’t even like most people, but I can see how someone could feel bad for a person who had been through a lot of shit and see how it’s made a them hard. But when I say that, I’m not talking about this woman specifically. My initial comment and the latter part of my second one, wasn’t even about this woman. It was in regard to sophritoh’s comment making light of a person not having a loving father and therefore not being able to comprehend a man caring about them and laughing. I found that a sucky thing to laugh at. Because stuff like that can fuck a person up long term. But yeah I get it, you don’t give a shit. I got my opinion, you have yours.
This lady is exactly the type of person that I think a lot of good men fear. It makes me feel like crap that if I saw a child unaccompanied walking down a street looking lost that what's best for the child (for me to ask if they're lost or need help finding their parents) may put me at risk of looking like a predator. Simply put people like her are the reason a quarter of the men in the us say they'd be reluctant to help a lost child.
“Social media gives legions of idiots the right to speak when they once only spoke at a bar after a glass of wine, without harming the community ... but now they have the same right to speak as a Nobel Prize winner. It's the invasion of the idiots” ― Umberto Eco
@@WillyWonkaEater217 This has nothing to do with her relationship to her father and everything to do with white women trying to play savior to children, poc, and animals...all things they feel above and therefore in a position to "help".
I remember being in the car with my dad once and a man yelled at him for holding my hand because it "looked wrong" to him. I was set to leave for military service not too long after that and we were just spending time together before I left. Both of us got upset, so we confronted him and explained we were spending time together as family before my departure and he got so embarrassed. Some people's minds are just too corrupted. Can't even hold someone's hand anymore before someone starts thinking something bad is going on.
Maybe, just maybe, Dad was holding his daughter's hand because, 1. He loves his daughter. 2. He's protecting her from getting kidnapped by an actual human trafficker. This lady didn't even mention if the girl looked distraught, scared, or uncomfortable.
And she said he was holding her hand when they walked in the door a lot of parents will hold their child's hand when they're walking through a parking lot start with
My granddaughter loves holding her dad's hand. She's 12. It''s "This is my daddy and he LOVES me" pride Nothing wrong with it. There needs to be more of it. And FYI he is a single dad. No mother for 11 years.
I am a father, and I have a daughter who I love more than anything. To show affection to your loved ones, especially your children, is one of God's greatest gifts to share. To be honest, I truly feel sorry for this woman. She is missing affection herself.
This actually happened to me and it completely broke me into tears as a six year old child when a woman basically said she was gonna call the police on my father. It was more traumatic than helpful and guess what it was my dad and he’s a great father. Women like her are psycho
Happened to me when I was a little girl in New Mexico. I’m an albino and my parents are white but have pretty tan skin and black hair and dark eyes. I was dancing in a festival by myself and my parents were sitting down watching me, lady came up and grabbed my hand and walked to security saying that she thought I was being kidnapped. Obviously my parents saw and freaked out on her for grabbing me, but the cops believed her because I looked nothing like my parents. I obviously said they were my parents and my parents profusely said that I was their daughter, and after being question for what felt like forever I was finally allowed to go home with my parents.
She made herself seem like a creep more than the dad. Did it not dawn on her she’s a stranger asking a little girl questions that a real trafficking person would ask.
That is exactly what I thought. This woman doesn't realize that there are women out there who do human trafficking and she just had the possible behaviour of one.
THIS. It’s a tactic traffickers use to lure young girls in. They will send a lady, someone who is already in the ring, to essentially recruit other girls by saying stuff like “hey you look familiar, did you go to (whatever school is near by)” and then they branch out into getting favors with they’ll to the car or phone numbers or whatever. It’s just a tactic often used, so I think the dad was well in his right to be upset at her.
My dad is the father of three daughters, and has more than once wound up in situations like this. He's been accused of being a creeper more than once. It's genuinely frustrating from the kid's point of view, too, and occasionally traumatizing.
One day when my son was about 2 years old he fractured his arm on a swingset at his baby sitter’s house. It was mild enough to only need a sling for a few weeks. One day I take him to Target and a complete stranger comes up to me and says “What did you do to this poor child?!” I say “He fell off a swing!” She shoots me a dirty look and storms off. So crazy people like this really exist.
This kind of happened to me when I was 13-years-old. My dad took me to a Broadway musical and this old lady came up to us with this angry look demanding to know how old I was. I said I was 13 and old enough to watch the show (which is what I thought she was angry about at first). But then she turned to my dad and said she was going to call the police. Said she couldn’t stand by and watch a grown man dating a child. My dad just laughed and told her to call the police. He said he could take his own daughter to a Broadway show if he wanted to and it wasn’t a crime. She acted like she didn’t believe he was my dad, so she asked me if I knew the man I was with. I said, “of course, he’s my dad. I’ve known him all my life.” And then her husband came and dragged her away 😂. It was so surreal. My dad didn’t even have his hand around me or anything. He wasn’t holding my hand. I have no idea why that lady thought I was with some sort of predator.
She is the definition of Stranger Danger. You do not approach a child you don’t know and start asking them questions! I wonder what her childhood was like
Someone once tried to “rescue” me from my mother when I was a toddler because she’s white and I’m biracial so I couldn’t possibly belong to her 🙄 not only was I not a victim but my mother is a little person so the likelihood that she stole me from someone is slim to none. She’s still traumatized.
I feel this. My dad is a black Cuban while my mom is a white Ukrainian, I came out really white. One time at a mall, someone called security on him because they were convinced he had kidnapped me 😔🙄
The same thing happened to me with my daughter when she was a baby. I was at a public library with my newborn. An older woman comes up to me and starts accusing me of stealing my baby. Saying "Where did you get that baby". I was like she is my daughter, I think I would know I gave birth to her. Then I said to the woman my husband is Mexican. I am caucasian and my daughter was quite dark when she was born. I can kind of understand where the woman was coming from. Anyway its been a story to tell over the years.
Dad’s perspective: Crazy eyed strange woman getting uncomfortably close to his daughter and trying to false report him. Daughter’s perspective: Stranger getting uncomfortably close to her and trying to probe her for personal information
Old man I worked with was fired for Child Porn on his PC. Seems they were his Xmas pictures with grandkids - he got a massive payout as the co-worker Karen (20 years ago) was demoted then terminated for lying as she emailed him saying the Xmas snaps were nice on his screensaver.
@@lorraineaylward8167 Sadly this is all too common. I met the man in a whole new industry & he told me of the BS. The money he sought was $100K & then he was retrenched. To destroy a reputation because of "I thought" does not justify her actions. Make some enquiries & then make a complaint. A dozen staff were sacked for spreading gossip outside too.
Wow as a dad this would have to be the most uncomfortable thing I would experience and I would be the one asking for help to get this lady away from us, and I'm sure what this lady did to them is a perfect example of how real child predators do it by asking random questions to random children.
Holding a child's hand is a way to direct the child as to where they are going and to prevent them from getting separated. The woman's air quotes every time she said he was the father was so irritating.
yeah, even after confirming he was her Dad, she's still using the air quotes. Like she's thinking or saying "i KNOW I'm right; that little girl was sending me hand signals. She was sending me messages." This Karen should stay home, within locked doors, so no one has to suffer from her insanity ever again.
Fathers are literally damned if they do damned if they don't. Fathers showing affection to their child shouldn't be offensive just because y'all daddy didn't hold your hand don't bring that BS on anyone and shame them.
That seems to be the continuing trend for straight males. If we do anything it's not good enough or toxic, if we don't do anything we're heartless and toxic. There's no winning as a male.
Some of my most fond memories are as a kid holding my dad's hand.. when i was super little i would just hold his pinky finger and add i got older i just kept doing it hahaha
@@FreeWorldSpirit313 Right because men who happen to be gay don't get a bunch of BS thrown at them. It is men in general that these females have hatred for.
I was going to comment the same thing! If they don't change diapers, etc they are bad dads!!! If they are wonderful dads they are accused of being creeps! 🤦♀️ this world is getting wierd!
My BIL loves my niece so dang much that it was weird to me because my father and my older sister’s father were just POS who threw themselves pity parties and whined and never cared about their kids, so I’m more than positive my niece and BIL will be attached at the hip once she can walk and go out with him. I’m hoping they never run into a weirdo like that woman.
I held my children’s hands in the store all the time. His arm is around her shoulders and that’s totally normal. She’s a piece of work. People don’t let their children talk to crazy people. She definitely did the wrong thing. Happy New Year everyone. 🥂
Some people have so much issues and nothing to do with their lives than bother other people, thank you for letting us know about this crazy woman , she should be sued for defamation
These are the women who were super pissed when the mask mandates were lifted because they had no way to 1) virtue signal to everyone without having to talk. 2) start fights with strangers about how they are wearing (or not wearing) their masks.
There have been MANY cases of parents (especially Black parents) with children a different race than them being accused of human trafficking. These are cases where the children are adopted or the children are with their step parent. These women need to know that NO ONE IS OBLIGATED TO ANSWER THEIR QUESTIONS!!!!
My aunt was accused of being a nanny and kidnapping her daughters because she's got a darker complexion and my cousins are super pasty cuz of my uncle. It infuriates me when people just assume this shit.
You reminded me of back when I was about 8. I'm mixed race (Jamaican and English) and my aunt (who's English) took me on holiday and when we got to France, they stopped my aunt at the airport and interviewed her for a couple of hours as they thought she was trafficking me lol. She was terrified. She never complained about it though as we have different names, we're different ethnicities and for all they know, I could have been a victim.
This video made me subscribe. You're comments were hilarious and dead on. She so wanted to be a hero that she fabricates a situation so she can try to be. I'm glad the dad confronted her .
This "woman" is not only certifiable, she is a menace to society. The father is doing a good job following up and asking her wth was she doing? I am sure it wasn't as pleasant as she played it off. Conspiracy theories are ruining family time now ffs! ✌
this ^ he did the right thing as a parent/guardian.. the kid probably told him about this strange lady and as a good parent/guardian he got worried and questioned this woman on her creepy lurking behavior
My dad and I live in different cities. I live with my grandparents and my dad lives 40 minutes away. I'd say 3-4 times a month we do visits where he either comes down to my grandparents house and takes me out to dinner so we can talk and just have a fun "daddy daughter date" as he calls them, or I go to his house to sleep over and play video games or binge watch anime. It really bugs me when people like this get in the way of the time I spend with my dad. Its happened a few times, and its just so annoying.
Human trafficking is not a conspiracy theory, it's an out of control problem, but this insane woman makes a mockery of it. She looks so smug and proud of herself, she's disgusting
True! Or like, idk imagine the girl was Deaf even and she was using ASL. She did mention that both times she spoke to the girl she pulled down her mask (gross) so the girl could’ve read the lips. We don’t really know any of what happened besides a picture and what she chose to tell from her side of the story, and I wouldn’t be surprised if she ignored a lot of details and signs that showed this wasn’t trafficking.
We don’t generally show the hand signals everywhere because if everyone knew them they would be useless. Best case her “guardian” seems very controlling and possibly abusive. I hope the girl is ok. As a parent I don’t answer for my 5yo why would I? I’m standing right there, and she can speak. More people red to be paying attention to these things because it’s more common than most people think.
@@bronminett4042 Jesus dude just cause he answers for her doesn’t mean she’s being abducted. My mom used to do that shit all the time for no reason. It’s not that deep.
I'd bet good money that the same women who called the police on me for watching my kid's ballet practice also complain that fathers aren't more involved with parenting.
she's been reading too many "50 Shades of Grey" type romance novels and is a little turned on by the whole bondage/being dominated thing. Bored housewives who aren't getting laid enough
Like, my father raped my sister. But, I'd never project those issues onto actual loving parents. That's fucked up. I feel like she's been through some shit and she's hardcore projecting her issues onto everyone else. Add that with socal media and you have this bitch.
I still hold my dads hand and I'm 30. But my dad held my hand as a child to keep track of me and keep me safe, not to mention he loved me. I'm sorry that concept is so obscure to this woman.
I remember this story from awhile ago and just couldn't believe it. It's a good example of what's wrong with social media channels. I'm proud of the fact that I don't watch tiktok , Twitter, dating sites etc. They're a hot bed for crazy people.
My daughter's back yard backs up against one of the main streets in town. A convenience store sets about a hundred yards west of their yard. From time to time I will stop at the convenience store and grab a treat to hand over the fence to my 10 year old granddaughter and her friends playing in their back yard. They enjoy the surprise treat. That was until some woman similar to this nut case stopped and called me a pedophile and to leave those little girls alone. Even after hearing my granddaughter call me "Poppa" the woman continued making a scene and called 911. The police diffused the situation but not before it upset my granddaughter who didn't understand what was going on. The police suggested that in the future, go to the front door to deliver treats. Kind of takes away from the surprise.
I am a 43 year old woman. When i say this BS completely irritates me, it definitely does. The struggle for men to interact with their children, let alone take them out and show their love for their child, is very real. Especially for single mothers!! Crazy heifers like this contributes to the struggle. Obviously she has no children of her own because she references her niece, she has no business doing what she did! I am NOT shaming women with no children. I am stating that how would she know the signs of a happy, loved child in a situation like this? She is not around children all the time.
This woman has serious father issues. She saw a dad in a loving relationship with his daughter, she got jealous, and had to ruin the moment. It really is that simple. I have a feeling that all women who behave in crazy ways have father issues.
Yeah don't worry, I'll definitely stay away from this gaslighting creep of a karen! Being falsely accused is another prime example of why you can't trust people and is just reason why I try to avoid human interactions, as well as, me lacking faith in humanity! smfh Please tell me this woman got the backlash she rightfully deserves! 💯🙄🤦🏻♂️💔
@@isao_the_2nd Yeah, it does make one loose faith in people. I would go live in an area that has a high percentage of in-tact nuclear families. People from such families always seem to be kind and considerate.
I was accused of kidnapping my own son at Costco. Black mommy just so happed to produce a blonde hair blue eyed baby. I Was absolutely speechless and embarrassed.
I call BS on “he had his hand around her waist & was holding her hand when they walked in” I’m not sure it’s even possible to comfortably walk like that 🤔 He’s a pretty tall guy & his Daughters height is to his armpit. I think she added that little “hand around her waist” line into her story to make her “OMG you guys, I’m such a hero, I saved a child from trafficking at Walmart today” BS story more shocking & believable.
If this woman came up to me and my daughter and started asking her weird questions out of the blue and then asked my daughter if she was okay I would've called the manager over and reported her for harrassment of my child. My daughter is 10 years old but looks 14 because she's already hit puberty. I also looked exactly like my daughter at 10, way older than my age because I hit puberty at 10 also. I'm her mother and I am very protective of my child like most parents are and this woman was basically stalking this father and his daughter. My daughter doesn't like to talk to people in the store or anywhere really because she gets embarrassed and is kind of shy when someone asks her something so she looks to me to answer for her. I am a talker and always making friends with people and I usually do the talking for her. This disgraceful woman did the WRONG thing here most definitely.
I have 3 daughters. They love holding my hand when we go to the store or hug onto me as we walk through the aisles. I’d be horrified if some stranger came up and accused me of human trafficking. This woman probably didn’t receive the affection a child should get from their parents.
So true. I was horribly abused by my father when young and when I see fathers that love their daughters it beautiful it was weird to me when I truly seen a good father for the first time almost not comprehensible. But she is totally crazy! 💯❤ to all the good dads out there!
My dad and I were the same way. Especially if we’re having a fun or loving conversation on the way into an establishment he might have given me a side hug as we walked. As I got older he would still instinctively reach back for my hand as we crossed the street together, lol. It was his instinct to make sure I was close by and safe as we crossed a busy street. Sometimes, even as an adult, I’d grab his hand just to make us laugh bc he didn’t always realize he was still instinctively reaching back for me like he did when I was little. I always told him I’d always be his little girl. At 37, if he were still alive, and we went to lunch or breakfast together again, and he reach out for my hand, I would hold his hand. I miss him dearly. People need to mind their own damn business.
@@Chels-fz5uq I’m sorry you lost your father. That is amazingthat you still had that relationship with him into adulthood. I’ll be the same way because they’ll always be my babies ❤️
The idea of sharing an experience in which one can totally see that they are wrong and still feel the urge to share it just for attention and personal gratification is so unsettling. Back when we were kids we would see kids and adults feeling ashamed of their mistakes or misdemeanors and try to apologize or atleast be embarrassed about it, but now the entitlement is so high that they publicly share their stupidity and want appreciation for that.
As a dad of two girls myself, this infuriates me incredibly. The entitlement that allows this woman to think she can do any of this is off the charts. What if the dad called the cops on this crazy lady with no kids of her own saying she is trying to steal his daughter? Would she appreciate the notion that all childless middle aged ladies are out to steal kids and take them home to her multiple cat filled apartment?
We need to push for a “Karen GPS” system so that everyone knows when these entitled women leave the house and terrorize the community, so that we can stay away from them (or pull out our cameras and press charges when they start nonsense like this). Fathers cannot even parent in peace without a Karen accusing him of a felony. The dad needs to sue and press charges. Who knows what else this woman has accused others of? Get her name and send her to the nearest mental health facility.
My dad did too and he was asked, (Carefully) at times, if I was his because we had a slightly different skin tone lol and some people are ignorant, of how such can vary in close relations. I cannot imagine his reaction if someone came at him, this way- I know I'm glad I was raised to be articulate, I would have had no issue being clear and confident while out, with either parent .
That woman, while her intentions seemed good, came off and went about it the wrong way. I'm an uncle, like many of you are, and I hold my 5 year-old niece's hand in public. I haven't gotten stares or gazes, but now I cringe at the thought of being approached by a "concerned" individual. What a weird situation. I'd honestly be upset.
Her intentions were Not good. She was simply virtue signaling only to make herself appear as a hero. Posting the video after she realized she was wrong just proves it was only about her in the end.
I don't think she had good intentions at all. She was just looking for problems that don't exist so she can get kudos on her social media. The woman is deranged and potentially dangerous.
Wow. I used to skip holding hands with my Dad until he couldn't skip anymore, we would still try to skip but at least hold hands! I was blessed to have an amazing Daddy! I miss him soo much! Rest in Peace Richard Calarie You are so missed!
My husband took my daughter to lunch for a father daughter lunch. My husband is 45 he looks early 30's, my daughter is 16 an older women came up to my husband and told him he was sick and to date someone his own age. My lovely daughter told her off in very unkind words and made a scene so everyone around knew the lady was crazy...wish I could have been there. Guess that lady will not be assuming things in the future ..So proud
This woman is dangerous. It’s not just men involved in human trafficking, imagine your in Walmart with a daughter and a strange woman comes up and starts talking to her. She’s totally delusional.
From someone who actually IS a detective, I can deduce that she's clearly what we call a "Cat Mom" - fully explains her suspicions over a normal father and his kid out in public.
@@jotarokujo312 yes she doesn't have kids of her own or a boyfriend her life revolves around her pets and even then they only stay because she feeds them
Thsi happened to me as a child. for context, My Dad (Mexican) and I (white/mexican) were in the store and even we were already getting looks from people because i guess they've never seen a mixed family before. Then a woman walked up to me after my dad sent me to get bread. So without my dad around, she asked if i needed help and "he's not here, you can tell me". I yelled for my dad because stranger danger. he was there in seconds. she scurried away embarrased
I'm surprised she didn't pat herself on the back in the video. She is so damned proud of herself for her fantasy of saving a child but all she did was humiliate herself. Oh my aching head with this woman.
And probably scare the fuck out of the father- and even tho he won't want to- will NOW forever in the back of his mind, he on some level will question ANYTHING he may do with his own daughter in public- for fear of being falsely accused by someone with an overactive imagination.
I held my dads hand or put my arm around his waist up until the day he passed. If this woman had come up to me when my dad had his arm around my shoulder I’d have flat out told her off. Nothing weird about showing affection to your children ma’am.
These narcissists have no heart. They are not equipped to recognize fatherly love. The "human trafficking" she saw is only a reflection of her twisted mind where everything is perveted and void of love.
I’m 59 years old and ever since I was about 13 and started “dating” I have always had a really great “psycho detector” it has never failed me. I have helped friends, I’ve also had friends get really angry with me only to apologize months later when they finally see what I could see within an hour of meeting someone. All of these women on tick tock or wherever have these same characteristics. It’s in the eyes. No matter how nice and smiley they are being it doesn’t disguise those psychotic eyes. If I had been the father I would have said to my daughter,right in front of that woman “see this is why I don’t want you spending hours everyday posting things on tick tock”.
Happened 2 me, dark skinned Mexican, 16 yrs old at mall with 2 Blond hazel eyed nieces, 7 & 5 yrs old. Authorities called, showed up, found innocent, reporting people OFF scot free.
