@@A_Ducky Well, he is a 'doctor' of course. His brain just thinks on a much higher level so she just wouldn't be able to understand why he has to take her left kidney.
The fastest way to lose a girl or really anyone, whether it's romantic or just a friendship, is to begin insulting them and talking shit. The fact that this guy had such little self-awareness that he continued to harass her and ask if they were still going on a date after insulting and borderline threatening her is mind-blowing.
Ugh this literally terrifies me... because online dating is exactly like this... like the guy could be the most fucked up person ever but putting on a false face.
@@lj0727 Not all online dating is like that. Sometimes it is, you're right on that, but i feel like it isn't fair to say it's "always" like that. Have a good day
@@FriendlySniperYT I think they mean "always like this" in the sense that you never know if the nice person you're talking to online is actually the creepiest living thing in person. you're always taking a gamble when you meet strangers online. always
Made the mistake of binge watching all the creepy dude videos here. As a man, it honestly terrifies me a bit that there's so many people out here like this who convince themselves their borderline psychotic behavior is justified and appropriate.
The problem is, all the "dating" advice available out here isn't aimed at building honest and genuine relationships with people. They take advantage of desperate young people who don't really have experience let alone have social interactions with the opposite sex. Desperate people are the easiest people to scam out their money and these dating gurus capitalize off it. Both men and women are getting 💩 advice online and making themselves even more unlikable to the opposite sex
I think optimal thing to do would give that impression without directly saying. If she senses that you are giving that information purposefully, its pretty much game over with any sane or datable girl.
Some guys really believe that women want a guy that other women want. Not true at all but someone on the internet convinced them so now they are doomed to play game "fck around and find out".
he is using guy logic on a woman. guys love the idea of "stealing" a girl so they may get competitive when a girl says she has another date. women are NOT out here fighting for dong, dong is a watercup at a fast food joint, free, available, and readily given. you cant STEAL a watercup. it MAJORLY backfired for him to think she would want to fight off an imaginary competitor for him
This made my soul cringe. If someone were to tell me that I'd magically get a girlfriend by doing exactly what this guy did, I'd rather be single forever.
Someone did. Just be yourself man. That guy was being himself and look what happened? As long as you're not an extroverted freak, you should be fine ;3
I was on tinder once. First guy to text me asked me if I wanted to get pregnant I was like bruh this is the first conversation we've started and you asked me that I was 19 at the time 😭
jesus damn, some dudes are weird and insane lmao. Like how delusional are these men to think that any woman would actually want to end up with someone who is seriously batshit insane? Honestly, I am not very good with women but atleast I won't go that far and creep someone out. If I am being honest with myself, I think in the past I may have come off as slightly needy and weird but I realized how unattractive that shit was and stopped doing it Edit: I am absolutely ashamed at how I used to be in the past lmao
"This could have gone better. This is sub-optimal. This is a rough start right here." Charlie must be the moust chill man to game with, even if you lose.
He went through all stages of desperation for getting a woman -Saying he’s rich -Saying he’s desirable -Getting mad in hopes of being a bad boy -“I’m so much smarter than you” -True desperation
@@nicocchi I bet he works as a plumber but calls Himself rich Wow, I just searched up plumber salary. Its actually pretty good. Maybe I should be a plumber too🤨
Man's just sent the most rapey danger signals possible, understandably creeped the recipient way out, and then used every excuse and guilt-trip possible to deny any repercussions of his initial stalkerish impressions. That is legitimately the most "milady" niceguy behaviour I've ever seen, and despite any attempts to sucker her back, he is his own worst "sucker-er".
This doesn’t make me feel better about myself. This makes me horrified at the thought that there are a lot of people like this. They have jobs and vote and shit.
The scariest thing is some of these guys seem completely normal until they feel the slightest semblance of rejection from a woman they’re interested in.
Calling it right now, he's not a doctor. He just pulled that out of his ass to try to score. Real doctors don't have the time to be playing these kinds of games.
She didn't block him after he told her the lie about the double book and called her a psycho??? The girl is such a nice angel lmfao 😭😭😭. I kept watching and the more i see, the more i realize how sweet the girl was. I'm still befuddled she didn't block him💀💀
Kudos to the girl for sticking around as long as she did. Most women on dating apps will block you after a bad line. But here she is watching this guy unravel bit by bit and still sticking up for herself.
she should have blocked him when he got that insecure about her canceling the date imo. i dont know why she stickied around. i think she should have explained that she is uncomfortable because he made shitty jokes and went insane afterwards and just move on with her life
@@nekosalad8308fr it's as easy as a block and move on. Some people claim this type of people creates them trauma and stuff, so we should teach them how to block, since sadly we aren't capable of fully stopping this type of people from existing, weirdos will always exist
@@MoonwalkerWorshiper He's outta line, but he's right. The man brought 10 of the world's top demolition experts to blow a hole the size of Texas for him to lay in
My favorite bit of this is when he tries to explain it away as because he's a doctor, his brain thinks at a much higher level than others. Like yeah, he can't even apologize for a bad joke without insulting her again 😂
He played all the cards at all the wrong times. He not only mentioned his money, shifted the blame, belittled her, but even pulled the "someone I know died" card.
He could also be claiming to have a PhD. I do actually have one but I think id be pretty reluctant to add that to my dating profile or mention it early on just in case they immediately start thinking I might be a compulsive liar.
@@jacobbellamy7640 oh for sure. I get this one a lot at work: "I'm a doctor." "Oh, in what?" "English..." Typically when arguing about meds lol. Not saying all doctors are assholes or anything, just that it's definitely believable
Watching normal people with maturity and decency breaking down and analysing these crazy people and their actions is so satisfying and even stress relieving. Like watching the bloopers of a horror movie that scared you.
@@CarpetHater if you mean the birth control "joke" said by the guy in the video, I don't think it was a joke actually pff he just played it off as one. If you mean the comment up there, though, they're saying "it's a good thing he said something so blatant _and_ that it didn't go well or else things probably would've gotten really bad," since (judging off his messages) he's really toxic
Oh, I reread your comment - I'm pretty sure it's not that; it's a sex thing I believe. I could be wrong but I think he's trying to ask in a roundabout way if they can have sex
@@thomasturner1065 Oh, well asking for sex isn't that bad, he was actually being really careful about it. His reaction to being rejected later on though was on his part though.
I had a guy like this and it went of for about a year. he'd randomly pop up asking when we were catching up for that drink and I'd of course say "Never". He'd then get whiny and then call me an idiot for not wanting to meet him cose he was so amazing. The silence for a few months and then "so when we catching up for that drink?"
As someone who worked for a Doctor, here's a real quick reason why you can tell this man is NOT a doctor... Any doctor who is able to secure a night off of work for a date that gets canceled, doesn't whine like a literal 12 year old. He fist pumps the air and is excited for a full nights sleep without having to be on call.
"Dude, chill out, it's just a joke." "Do you know how much money I make?" "Fine, your loss. I don't want to date a psycho anyway. ...please call me?" "You're just not smart enough to understand my sense of humor!" "My mom died, for reals, please pity me." Ah, yes, all five components needed to summon Exodia the Psycho Boyfriend, assembled in record time. Truly a speedrun for the ages.
how do u know for a fact? don't get me wrong that would be better than what he did here. it's just that sometimes that second chance doesn't happen. so how do you know for sure? and how do you secure it?
@@corncobbob2326 well i said "might've" . as for him trying to get a 2nd chance he should just lay low for a minute & accept the fact she doesn't wanna go on a date. Then go back to doing everything she liked about him prior to his fuck up. The fact that she kept messaging him back tells me she wouldve stayed in contact with him if he didnt keep fucking up
I like how she turned his BS back on him. "If you have an alternative date lined up with another girl, go on that and enjoy it". His needy panic ratchets up further as he realises such a childish response wasn't such a good idea.
This is the same type of guy who would call anyone who dares to show a woman some basic human decency a "simp", and call someone "based" for committing domestic violence
@@istealkids1388 based tends to change meaning based on application… For most instances it’s used to consider a way of thinking as “sound” regardless of whether it is conventional or not…
"Don't take no for an answer" is easily the most toxic pick-up artist lesson they teach. Sorry but once a potential date has said no, that's final. This isn't a fucking Hallmark movie where you can keep pushing and eventually win them over, that shit comes off rapey and murdery far far sooner before it comes off charming and cute.
To be fair, I was definitely going down that path of toxicity by trying to win people over and it definitely wasn't as romantic as I thought it was, it was creepy and abusive. I'm so glad that I realized that now and I changed. No definitely means no, not "try harder".
I disagree my parants got married after my mom said no multiple times, but my dad kept pushing to finally win a date, and actually meet her properly. They are now happily married for 15 years already, so being persistent is good sometimes.
She was far more generous with him than I would've been by gracing him with actual responses. I have absolutely no patience with unstable people like this who give me the biggest red flags when I hardly know them, I would;ve just called him an embarassment and blocked him. That being said, I'm glad he was exposed for the lunatic he is.
Pro tip: When a dude asks that and says it's a joke RIGHT after he gets the wrong reaction, it's 100% not a joke. Dude spilled all his skill points in medical science leaving none for charm or charisma.
Wow, it’s important to speak about birth control before one has sexual relations with another. However, this should not come up on the first date and it damn sure should not come up before the first date ever happens.
For those who may be confused as to why this is not a good question to ask: inquiring if she’s on birth control insinuates that you’re planning on having sex with her. And that you’re only asking to see if you can get away with not using a condom. Which is a big yikes to women. She was probably thinking that he was only going on a date with her so that he could get in her pants afterwards and that’s all that he was looking forward to, and so she panicked and called it off.
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Anti-jokes are actually a thing, like “What did the farmer say when he lost his tractor?” “Where’s my tractor?”. What the dude said wasn’t an anti-joke.
One of my favorites to say is "What's a pirate's favorite mineral?" I wait a bit and then say "Depends on the pirate". The reactions are the funniest part lol.
I never understood the whole "im going to act like a complete asshole now simply cuz you don't want to be with me" personality. Like all they're doing is digging themselves a deeper grave. I've never once in my life seen someone go back with a person after recieving messages like these
It's the sour grapes mentality. They probably think acting like you suddenly aren't worth their time would make whatever girl they're failing to impress change her mind since they're such a 'hot commodity'
@@tarotsushima3332 I mean, if that's the game plan you better be hot as fuck and doing it in person. You've gotta be able to ooze fuckability to try this last ditch effort of attraction.
It's possible that this is narcissism at work. One of their signature traits is not being able to handle rejection because it leaves them feeling powerless. A lot of these types of people were traumatized as children and felt powerless at the hands of their abuser(s), so anything that makes them feel that way in the present (rejection, being ignored, losing) can trigger an episode of rage.
@@aarons6935 it’s funny how men will deflect a problem that is right in front of them to disrespect women. But if it was the other way around, u wouldn’t say anything. Tighten up 🔧
@@aarons6935 Pretty great how she didn't even say anything to attack men and you still instantly felt like you had to defend yourself Literally saying "My insecurities are as big as my dick is small" is more subtle than what you did lol
I know, a decent amount of people are okay with having sex with someone they just met, but not everyone is, & he just assumes she’s going to. He probably would of held an even bigger grudge on someone who didn’t get the warning, goes on the date, & doesn’t want to have sex with him.
@@shreknskrubgaming7248 I would have waited until he sent messages asking where I am to confirm he actually showed up, laugh heartily, and block him.. but I think I like this one better!
As the type of guy that probably would have tried that kind of joke, I'd have just accepted the cancellation and asked if she'd like me to delete her number.
Sure, but you wouldn't go for the fucking sixth-dip I mean holy god, it's not even the first joke. Sure it wasn't that funny but HE KEPT GOING, guy in video is compensating for something by going on for so long.
If he just accepted the rejection then it would have been fine in my book. Joke or no joke. Wouldn't really shame someone for asking questions or trying to establish how they would like things to go, the problem happens when they try to force things to go that route. If he was like ''Hey I wanna bang are you on birth control?'' and after the rejection he was like ''Okay, gooday'' then I wouldn't really say it would be bad.
i don’t even blow my boyfriend up like this lol, I couldn’t imagine doing this to somebody you’ve JUST met before a first date….biiiiig secondhand embarrassment here lol
Can you really call it "maidenless behavior" if he's basically the antimaiden? (But for real though, 100% going to end up ether kidnapping someone, being the abuser in a abusive relationship, or dies alone. Take bets boys)
i dated a guy like this before, we were both 16 and that was the most dramatic, mind breaking moment of my life, i was exhausted, hes also the type of guy who does "revenge " thing and keeps list of everything i did wrong. At the end i got sick n tired of arguing bout the same shit over n over again bc he can't move on, I finally broke it off and goddamn was that the greatest decision I ever made. A year later I found out he's a drug addict💀
I'm glad that Charlie went on that slight rant about the importance of no. It's a shame that some people actually have to be told to take no for an answer instead of just accepting and moving on before it makes things worse.
Yeah honestly it's not that unreasonable to just respond with "aight fair" after somebody cancels something or tells you no. Seems like a pretty common courtesy
They take no as a personal attack. Some people won't like you and that's okay. You will do something silly and it will be a deal breaker for them and that's fine. We are all different and we all like different things. These guys should treat women how they treat men/masculine people. With respect.
@@jw9099 😂 we all experienced someone like this then? He’d always be the most stressful thing in my life at the time. Felt like walking on egg shells around him.
I usually think I suck at getting girls and that I will never get a girlfriend. I must remember that I will never be as bad as that organism. Thank you Charlie for lifting up my spirit and confidence.
imagine the sheer power charlie has to even read this shit, turn on the camera, re read it and explain it to a camera, edit the footage, then proof watch it, then upload it. this man is immune to cringe and im bowing in defeat. i am a mere pawn compared to this alpha male
@@mothernyxious7097 his videos are mostly only him talking to a camera, i dont think he needs an editor since he can do it himself and will save a lot of money
Her response to his first text and the fact that she said "jokes" implies this is not the first conversation they had that made her decide to cancel, which really makes me wonder what the hell they were talking about before.
It was probably going fairly normal up to that point. She hadn’t cancelled yet. Kinda good he did that though as it saved her a lot of time. Silver lining.
Tbh most girls take forever to notice the bad signs. He was probably a weirdo from the beginning but she was gullible asf and gave him a chance and now here we are
@@x7962 You never ask a woman if she’s on birth control before a date though even if it is a joke. You only ask that if she is the one who suggests that you’re going to have sex. I think he just assumed that he’d get laid like a jackass.
I love how quickly he's trying to deploy and all these different manipulation tactics in one conversation. It's like he's been studying how to gaslight but is failing so miserably. Flexing his career, accusing the other of being rude and sensitive, even attempting the ancient technique: "my mom died" oldest trick in the book... what a trainwreck.
