Signs of an Emotional Affair | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans 

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Congrats sis! Yes. Healthy people erect boundaries and narcissists hate boundaries.

Girl I feel the same way! When a man is concerned emotionally about a woman and her well being, that is a deep and heartfelt thing.

The devil is all about secrets..dark places.. not telling... and hiding!

kikibabiidoll this is what my husband I are going through right now he decided to give his number to a female that neither of us knew. its hard to get over but with Jimmy Evans ans his wife Karen we both are learning what we need to have in a marriage

kikibabiidoll so true

Also he said about bringing up your personal with your spouse to another (the wall goes up towards the spouse). Good way to put it.

kikibabiidoll I agree and my husband sees nothing wrong with having a friend I had to discover and it’s on going. I don’t want to deal with it any more

So true

We are all human and make mistakes. We give grace. However, we should know this is true, spoken or not.

@@TheBlessedOne23 Let me make it very clear, betrayal is not a mistake! It is a choice that is deliberately made many times over. It entails secrecy, omissions, coverups and lies, lies, lies. Each one requires a choice each time! The longer it goes on, the more choices that are made to continue the betrayal. The guilty conscience is subdued each time with rationalization of those choices! Any way you cut it, it’s a deliberate CHOICE! NOT A MISTAKE! The only mistake is entertaining the thought of betrayal in the first place! Please don’t try to minimize the pain that those choices caused me by calling them a “mistake”! Those choices my unfaithful husband made, robbed me of my choices!

@terrywade3696 Relax! What are you talking about????? I was referring to her comment that Jimmy Evans "forgot to mention...." Wow. 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 Jumping to conclusions....hmmmm.🤔 Stay in your lane and this won't happen.

@@TheBlessedOne23 Since you tagged on to my comments “in my lane” instead of making an independent comment, how else could I take it? Maybe, you need to learn how to make comments to the person you intended to respond to. And by the way, I am the “her” that made the comment that Jimmy Evans “forgot to mention”! So much for “jumping to conclusions”! You seem confused.

Yup- he was helping her and her daughter and ditched me and the kids at their concert while i saved a seat and had to make up excuses to my parents why he wasnt there. It wasnt until a week later i found out where he was because he was drinking with a friend and talking about it. Later i found his text long conversations - yet he can’t text me- and they ended - i love you - i love you too.

I'm crying too, I'm scared this woman at my husband's work is trying to move him towards doing this. I'm doing my best to work against this, through prayer and moving closer toward God through my brokenness.

@@theonlytruetuhlulah9062 Satan's goal with ANY marriage (be it Christian or non-christian) is to DESTROY that marriage. He will use any weakness that he finds within us to try and accomplish his goal. TOTALLY RELY UPON GOD. Confront your husband, honestly, not with wrath, but with love, about what you are feeling and experiencing. You have every right to do so, after all, it is your marriage you are trying to protect.

I agree but sometimes the other party is not ready or chooses not to tackle the problem quickly. That is a very difficult challenge. That happened with my spouse and I. Then I would become scared and anxious and keep trying to push the subject which would lead to frustration for both of us. Talking through is ideal. But if you hit a wall then pray. God can softened both hearts and the right time.

sowmuchlove. Some men jst want attention from every and anything except their own... smh nothing is ever enough.good luck

I'm sorry that you were unequally yoked with a narcissist. A person who truly cared and had empathy would have picked up on your turmoil and understood your anguish and would have made changes to support you rather than to turn away. If he can't love you like Jesus and meet you with love and compassion and give him your all, then he's giving to the world because he is of the world, swayed by the lust of his eyes and blinded by the prince of this world also. God can change all that, but sometimes you just have to hand them over and let them go like the prodigal son left and hope the pigs don't devour him. Mine was called up before he could add more sin onto his report card and sometimes God will also do that. None are beyond reproach. I had warned my husband and he laughed and scoffed. Now he's gone. Just left a bitter taste in my mouth.

Never jst a emotional affair especially when they leave u for the other one.... thats a affair. My husband is a dirty snake also .funny how we as woman are expected to close our eyes to this and accept it from men. Smh

Yeah. It's common but something that is not talked about a lot. I'm guessing that he began to confide in her instead of her mother when she was very young. This pattern is well established and they're not going to stop. The only thing you can do about it is pray. Good luck.

Yep.

I doubt it was intentional, I think he was just doing a quick run through. He's talking about forsaking all others, throughout the whole message. Also, remember this is a part of the message this video shows, not the entirety.

Mac Gelz Dang! Hang in there man, my wife of 15 yrs wasnfull blown cheatin on me for 8 months and filed for divorce on me twice in the last 4 months since her double life collapsed. I chose to keep fighting for her and got her back. Its a terrible feeling. I couldnt function the first 2 months and i've probably only slept a total of 2 weeks in the last 3 1/2 months. Hope i survive.

wizard sak thanks man. Right now she is so "addicted" with the affair that it doesn't matter if I suffer. But i feel better now and more equipped with knowledge and understanding on how to cope with and tackle the problem after reading and watching any available materials I could find. I am fighting for our marriage! Hope everything will be alright with you too man. Keep the faith!

@@ayosakmet6570 how are you doing now? It's just been 3 months since I found out she was falling for another guy.. I'm still feeling the hurt and fighting to keep the marriage together. she is staying with me but she doesn't know what she wants at this point. Please pray for me.

@@mikefigueroa4075 I had let her go. I did everything I could to save our 15yrs of marriage and for the sake of our 2 kids, but she made her choice. I realized that I was just prolonging my sufferings, the longer I held onto her. It was hard, but I have to accept it, for myself and for my dignity. I trust God that He's in control of my life right now. I am hoping and praying that you can still save your marriage. You will be included in my prayers brother! God loves you!

@@ayosakmet6570 right back at you man Thanks!!

So sorry you went thru that

I absolutely love your comment!

Sounds judgey. All the CAPS makes it seem VERY condescending.

+cathie romero They do deny that they are flirting.

This has happened to me. Too often. When I pointed it out as an offense to me,I was told to " just get over it". Not sure what God is doing in his heart now, but we are not together. My pastor told me ,if it offends his wife. He stops.

Marshall Stephanie Gudgel women are guilty of this too j.s.

Both parties need to hear it. Just bc you got hurt every man isn’t like that , women too

3rteenthdisciple are you guys still together? How did you overcome the affair? I'm currently having the same issue

u I went through the same thing six years ago. Caught my wife cheating and we reconciled. Now its six years later and i wish i would have left then. I feel depressed the majority of the time. Ive been miserable for 4 out of last 6 years hoping it would get better well it hasnt just worst. Long story short should have left when she cheated.

Get rid of her now and save yourself the heartache. Been through it and she just got worse and lied more

3rteenthdisciple sorry 😐 man

Hear... not here.

Old phone like when you were still with him as married couple and he was flirting through phone ?

@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 yes while we were married and after the divorce I found another phone ..

@@waterbaby6786 ok....sorry to hear that,i found disturbing things on my husbands phone too but it was before i met him...

@@waterbaby6786 i hate it when married people do dirty shit,it just kills the purity of marriage

@@kyipasbeautyminati4172 it hurt so much ! He was always accusing me of cheating , I never did ! The old saying if you are constantly accusing, your the cheater . That being said , I have a lot of regrets about how I handled it . Because I loved him . I don’t believe he ever physically cheated , but I believe emotional affairs are just as damaging.

Ok

+Veronica Cruz ???

Same here but I'm religious anymore but the guy hit everything 100% about emotional affairs. My wife of 15 years was hiding one from me for well over 3 months before I found out. Telling one another they love each other and plans to leave me so they can be together. Both of them married at the time and still married now and having the affair. The whole excuse from my wife that she is cheating cause she been unhappy for years yet just last valentines she posted all over her wall how in love and HAPPY she is with me and how Im a great dad and she hopes for another 15 years. But all a sudden she went from this happy and love me for life stance to saying she hasn't been happy years once she flirted on facebook with him as she flirts with guys in general and hugs up on them in public at stores even when I'm standing there but she never did that to me in public and has so many guy friends all the time. She knew and has known I have not liked how she hangs on guy friends and only prefers more guy friends. She says its her being outgoing and I need to get over it. I'm outgoing and way more outgoing before I met her over 16 years ago and yet I didn't have to have girls hang all over me or I never hanged all over my friends that were female. I didn't have friends that were female coming up to me slapping me on the butt and picking me up all flirty like. No, that is how she was when I first met her and outgoing works for her. I don't like that sort of nasty outgoing and told her that. She always says I will never change and I guess she means by not liking how she is none stop looking for dozens of guy friends and so many on her facebook that she has removed me her husband from and blocked me while keeping the affair guy a OLD FRIEND from me seeing what she is doing and talking about on facebook. I guess how I became disabled mentally for major anxiety, social phobia dosorder, panic disorder and depression with a little bipolar in the mix. Now I seem to replaceable to her since I won't just get a job like her family has said to me many times and her family has tried to chase me off ever since I was forced here to her home state to be with her and her controlling step dad the cop family. Its like a Meet the parents movie the first 5 years being up here. Then always trying to chase me off and being mean constantly to me cause I had to get on disability and they hated it. So tention built and I was told by therapist to stay away from them and I did. So now I'm the one that won't change for her to be on a puppet ideal man to put up with her mean family. So I guess this other guy will satisfy daddy for her cause he has a J O B working at a fast place flipping burgers at near 40 years old. Romeo burger flipper. Well she won't change and its apparent those two cheaters deserve each other. Im just feeling bad for my kids to go through their moms mid life crisis seeking a twilight love story with a stranger she hasn't know in over 15 years. But what ever I'm tired of the mental struggle with her ways and her judgemental family and her flirty with guys every 2 seconds and even leaves the house for hours on end to visit then old man next door for coffee. The guy I have chewed out several times cussing at my kids to were they come in crying cause he's screaming at them. Now the wife is all buddy buddy with him and just loves sitting over there belittling me. Its a small town so word gets around what she says to him and he says to the neighborhood and it comes back to me. As they say nice guys come in last and get treated and walked all over in a relationship. Man is that true. That step dad of hers after her and I got married went to Arizona to pack her stuff up cause he wanted her back where he was. We had child then just a few months old and I just got us a nice place was working and his controlling self comes down and takes off with them. I had quit my job and sell almost all my stuff and drive to where she was cause she calling me begging me to come here that she needed me and sorry she left like that and wanted to be by her family . Its been hell and I've been here since for 15 years. Every time over the years if I mentioned I wanted to move out of the state she would start up how its not working out and bla bla bla. Now with this so called romeo he lives several states away and she is willing to go there but never leave here years ago when I mentioned it. Just tired of being used and walked all over. Its making me so moody and snappy and just not myself. Used for 16 years. Love makes you stupid and blind I swear. All those warning signs how she is before we married and I never took the advice and warning signs to heart. Ignored it cause I loved her and though she would change. She should never marry she never listens to those vows and seems to think life is one big college party for her. She stays gone from home now like she has no kids at home. I'm just mentally tired of it all. I need to move on!

+BLUExEYEDxSLICKT Meant to say I'm not religious anymore in the beginning of my super run on book post before. Android keyboards are so annoying.

sorry for all those typo's and different wording like I'm some Chinese dude learning english for the first time. These auto correct stupid keyboards on android phones is really starting to piss me off by always changing around my words and not being accurate. I need a iPhone bad lol.

No Gods plan it’s not for abuse 🙏🏽

This sounds a lot like my life. But according to my husband I need help for my jealousy. I thought I was the only woman that had this fear. He has changed a lot since Jimmy Evan's has been part of our lives. But his eyes are always wondering. He says it's ok for him to look just don't stare. But in the beginning when we foun Jimmy Evans teaching he agreed about everything including lusting was not OK. And now we're back to the beginning again.

Never...

@@cryptojihadi265 AMEN!🙏

Find another husband and that's when it will happen. No really , But maybe you both need to lead.

@@thomasgallegos2832 horrible advice

@@RepentAndBelieve1437 Why ?? It takes two people to have a good relationship. If it's all compliance its a runaway train.

Maybe he is bisexual and wants to test the waters with her.

I fully relate to this from personal experience, it's very important that people know that emotional affaires are just as dangerous as physical affairs. Immoral is immoral and it is shocking how people try to justify their wrongs, temptation is real however I feel like people who have a desire to cheat shouldn't get married in the first place. I found this website called Ashley Madison which created for cheaters, so many unhappy people looking to cheat rather deal with their issues head on.

@@devonthomas6737 I don't think he sees himself as cheating (no physical involved) and I doubt that he has desire to cheat like going on Ashley Madison but again I didn't think he would do porn either. When I met him, he seemed like a good Christian quiet guy because his mom is very religious and he was involved with all kinds of church activity growing up. Even now, he is very lazy with our sons. Therefore, I signed my sons up for scouting so they can learn more guy stuff. Of course, with 3 sons in scouting, at least one parent should volunteer. Since my husband doesn't , I have to take over. I work with many dads all these years and have to keep a friendly distance, even I admire many of them so much.

@@lifeseries7944 I fully understand, I think porn shouldn't be done behind the spouse back and my views is it should only be done together only during (making love) if both husband/wife are comfortable with it. I just feel like us married couples need to be completely honest with each other, as a father with 2 sons I agree it's very important to be involved in the those things they have interests in plus it builds a loving connection with them as a father. I've been married for 13 years and I'll admit it takes hard work and communication to make it last, having unresolved issues in a marriage can lead to problems. How long have you been married?

@@devonthomas6737 We have been married for 17 years, known for 21 years. My husband is quiet and doesn't communicate. I always have to drag him out. He's very passive, lacks of initiative and social skills, is non-driven at work and unmotivated in life. He doesn't discipline, parent or teach our 3 sons. He has good relationship with them because he doesn't expect anything from them and tries to do things for them and please them. I am this crazy mom who tries to push the kids to do better so they can reach their potential, figure out what to do like a dad. For the first 10+ years, I kept finding excuses for him....oh, maybe this is a guy thing; oh..maybe this is an American thing; oh...maybe this a small town boy thing (he grew up in small town)...I finally realized that he really can't lead our family because he failed our oldest son in Boy Scouts miserably, as he always takes a backseat. I also find that as the boys get older, it's more effective for the dad to encourage/push them to go beyond their comfort zone and learn "man" skills. When I do that, they fight and argue with me all the time.

@@lifeseries7944 Yes communication is very important in a marriage and it can make or break it, many times most men keep things inside and shut down when they are challenged to communicate on issues that require urgent attention. There's this perception that the wife is nagging when she wants to communicate which I totally disagree with, communication is a issue for many people. I grew up in a home with 2 older sisters and that in itself gave me the skills to understand the emotions of women so communication comes natural to me however it is a fact that majority men fail in that area. From reading your words I can tell your frustrated as a wife and you have every reason to be, we as husbands are suppose to be the leader of the home within reason by working together as a team with our wife. I totally understand the parenting side of things too, boys need their father to be involved emotionally by teaching them from a young age how to develop into respectful hard working goal oriented men. It's obvious your a loving mother who wants what's best for her 3 boys and I respect that fully, I'm going through challenges in my marriage and these videos on marriage etc. has been like therapy for me lol. I like honest respectful conversations like this to where both married people are able to identify with each other without being judged, you ever envy single people who never got married lol.

Try a different approach to get through to him, I have a few possible advice if you're willing to hear me out. I posted a comment, read it might help with what you are facing.

Where can I read it?

@@shereennoever927 One of the most disrespectful thing in life is when your husband isn't loyal to you. I always had a feeling my husband was cheating but I never caught him red handed so I searched for a way to be certain, until I met a hacker in the dark web “Jamiehacking99@ Gmail . Com” he helped me hack his phone without him knowing, I found all his chats with his lover.

Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse.

That's sad. And that can happen wife with father. Wow, don't know. Pray, pray, pray. Ask another guy who's a strong Christian to pray with you about this.