WHY MEN ALWAYS GO GHOST ON YOU?! 

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A man's rejection is God's protection. Let him be someone else's problem sis

Ladies be happy if a man goes ghost is better than him wasting your precious time , Atleast the trash took itself out !!!

“Someone’s actions should not change the way YOU feel about YOU.” 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

If the conversation gets shorter with you...It's getting longer with someone else. Usually men ghost because they are busy becoming someone else's problem. Let them. Never chase a ghost!

I’ve been ghosted many times and I don’t care. That just means HE wasn’t the one. I don’t need “closure”, the “closure” is; he’s NOT THE ONE.

*Rejection is God’s redirection. Also if a guy ever says “let’s go with the flow” or “let’s see where this takes us”* *run*

“You have to be okay to walk away from anyone that has walked away from you” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

Answer: they lack respect for you. The end .

Being ghosted really crushes your self esteem tbh 💔

The worst is when this person has ghosted you and stalking you on social media.

I really needed to hear this. Rejection is God’s protection.

Boys go ghost , MAN speak up and tell you whats what keep that in mind ladies

If you’re scrolling through the comments I hope y’all have a phenomenal week. Get ya bread and all the crumbs too. Stack and act broke Ladies and Gents 😤🔥🙌🏾

A guy i liked alot ghosted me this summer. I tried to reaching out to him a few times. He never called me back or responded. But he continues to watch my ig story even reacted to my pictures a few times. About 2 weeks ago he texts me a video of myself he took while we were on a date. I was surprised he even still had my number. So i asked him what happened. He said he did really like me but turns out he got another girl pregnant and didn't know how to tell me. I thanked God it wasn't me. Its so hard not having closure. Im happy i do now.

My therapist has spoken!!!

Rejection is temporary. Not knowing is forever

There’s a billion reasons these men go ghost best thing for us ladies is to not care and move on!! #Next

Hi Breeny, Could you do a bunch of videos on: •self esteem •how to make friends/ social anxiety •how to manage your emotions

A man ghosting is a blessing in disguise so many men have wasted my time and then decided to change their mind about me after me investing time into seeing them and getting to know them for months so it's better when a guy decides early on that he's not interested enough in you to stay in contact with you and keep seeing you.

I'm from the school of thought if a man ghosts me, he wasn't in to me to begin with. I will NEVER chase or beg a man to love me. I'm worth more than that foolishness.😏😌😙

I NEEDED THIS. just when through a rejection by a guy who once liked me back.

“He can’t do u and do him at the same time. He got to pick a struggle! Pick a struggle” LOL, I love Breeny 😂😂 #VeryTrueFacts

"God will not take anything from you that you need", does this apply to everything in life? including losing loved ones?

I was so hurt when a guy I liked ghosted me, he treated me so badly, and ever since then, I can't hang out with men anymore. Not only did he ghost me, but he kept telling me how he really liked me, he forced me to admit my feelings for him by telling me he liked me first. I wish he would have just been honest, now I can't deal with the disrespect. It'd not the fact that he didn't like me, but the fact that he used me, ;ed me on, strung me along, love bombed me, used me to make other girls jealous, and manipulated the fuck out of me. There is a lot more to the story but he traumatised me so bad, I haven't been able to get close to guys ever since. He made me more of a coward, made me feel like having etiquette with people was weird. He messed me up a lot and took advantage of me at a really hard time in my life. I haven't been able to see myself the same way ever since. I was really open and honest for the first time. I empathise with anyone going through this. EDIT: Guys, I haven't replied to every comment yet even though I want to, but I want you guys to know, I think that the support that has been demonstrated for each woman in this comments section is truly uplifting and beautiful. Never let anyone make you feel unworthy, all of you beautiful ladies really touched my heart. I want you guys to know that even though this particular dude was a pig, not all guys are (I know we know this but sometimes we need reminders), and treat yourselves the way you deserve

"You have to be okay to walk way from anyone who has walked away from you" LOUDER PLEASE. 💯

They go ghost because they're dealing with someone else or have found someone better for THEM.... It's awful and such a coward move, they're whimps.

Then they want to come back & start over 🤦🏾‍♀️ like no keep it pushing ✋🏾

I figure if he ghosted me he was not interested in the real me... I decided to wait until marriage to have sex and they go ghost real fast.., I don’t even worry about it anymore.. I ask God to reveal a MAn’s heart and He does

"Don't daydream only go by what this person is giving you." Noted. What's the best way to stop the daydreams especially when you're always thinking about the bigger picture/future?

Men ghost because they don't owe you anything unless you're married. It sounds hurtful, but the real tragedy is that us women think we do owe to them.

No a man or women doesn't owe an individual anything but it's about having the DECENCY and RESPECT towards another individual. Being MATURE.

I really beed a break from dating. Focusing on myself and then when I’m ready and feel good about myself and my life, maybe then love will find me 💓

What if he hasn't ghosted, but just became suddenly distant/slow to respond? Should I just ghost? I don't like trying to force conversation with someone who isn't trying and interested

Nothing suites you like a black wig chileee!

Breeny what if no one asks me in a date? That's another situation where you don't discourage yourself because of a ghosting situation but because no one is interested in you :(

Girl God was speaking through you to me and it hit my souuuullllllll!! When you were like “Rejection is God protecting you from something!! 🙏🏾” “Nope you’re not going to mess with my daughter!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 girl I felt that in my heart! “

I haven’t watched yet, but I know I need to hear this. This summer I fell for a guy and it was my first time opening up to a man emotionally and physically. Him ghosting me hurt so much and sent me into a mental breakdown. I feel much better now, but I can’t seem to stop thinking about him. I’m hoping your video will give me clarity and help me heal, you always speak straight wisdom 💕

This happened to me a year ago. He was the first serious love for me and we were in a situationship. I was so sure about him. All of a sudden he started acting strange. A couple months after i found out he was still in love with his ex. I cried for months, knowing i was his rebound whilst for me he meant so much. 1,5 years later I am mature enough to know that it was not my fault and im never blaming myself again for being rejected. He cant be alone and i know he has dated other girls. He just cant be single. I still think about him from time to time because i havent found anyone else that it just clicked with. But its okay, because i know i will find my true love and God is protecting me. Day dreaming is my worst enemy but someday my mind will be all clear from him. ❤️

If they ghost you, ghost them back and DO NOT UNBLOCK THEM FROM ANYTHING. Remember why you blocked them in the first place once you start feeling sentimental and go back and forth with the decision whether you should unblock them

Only grown boys go GHOST but, a mature man would be honest with you & you can’t do nothing but, respect that & move on

Even if your heart is broken, once it's healed, which it always will, you're stronger than ever before.

*THE LORD knows BEST I truly feel the LORD protects US from negative ppl places & things that he does not want us to be involved ALSO which are good reason why things happen as they do for a good cause, look at it this way the person whom walked out your life ghosted you WHY he wasn't meant for you REGARDLESS if there's not been any closure this is the LORD'S way of protecting you from negative person, when we meet someone that's karmic this person is NOT meant for us only meat to teach us a lesson this is the LORD'S way of preparing us BEFORE meeting REAL LOVE.*

i needed this. breeny, can you also make a video how to control emotions and not be too attached to a Man so quickly? Also maybe a video of finding yourself, your hobby, how to be happy with yourself and stay motivated in life? Just a couple suggestions, i love and depend on your advice. you've helped me through my last breakup and im So grateful for that. thank you 💓

I’m literally begging you, please do a video on procrastination and motivation in terms of studies

Breeny this reminds me of one of my favorite songs, named "unanswered prayers " despite it being a country song, the lyrics are amazing. Garth Brooks sings about bumping into a woman he used to date and how he'd pray God would keep that woman in his life, but seeing how the woman didn't turn out all that great, he thanked God ultimately for not answering his prayers back then, but instead giving him a different woman that's now his wife. 😍 it's a sweet song that lays out how rejection is Gods protection.

MY ABSOLUTE QUEEN 🥺i have never tapped so quick

“He can’t do him and do you at the same time... He gotta pick a struggle. Pick a struggle okay”. This got me rolling mehn 😂😂

an entire 18 minutes and 34 seconds of the truth and nothing but the truth! Thank you for this video Breeny!

rejection is god's protection!!! thank you so much breeny i'd like to thank you, lizzo and ariana grande for helping me thru my breakup HAHAH

"he was muslim but he read the bible. Some kind of confusion" LOOOOOOOOOLLL

I’ve been ghosted twice 💔💔 I’ll get over it

'If at first you don't succeed, try & try his friend' LOL 😂 that was hilarious 😂great video as always girl 👌🏾✨

"God is protecting me from something I cannot see." Now that's a Word!🙌🙌 Ghosting is a dutty habit, and you are so right - common courtesy in dating/relationships is definitely lacking nowadays. The fact of the matter is, you are not always going to get the "closure" that you seek from certain men hence, as you pointed out the need to have/develop a healthy sense of self.Thanks for another great video Breeny👌

Yes sister Breeny! Come to teach the masses. Slay girl!

You speak w such grace and certainty. You just KNOW these things like it’s in your bones. I hope one day I will feel that confident and positive about love and dating. Love your advice so so much

I’ve been avoiding this video for a little while now and while I was watching it I felt so uncomfortable but towards the end that changed. you are God-sent hun and He is using you tremendously. you have no idea how much your words mixed with scriptures have helped me.

Omggg I had a run in with a dude we dated for months, then he mysteriously just stopped hitting me up. Long story short the same baby mother he said he hasn’t been dealing with called me and said they were still in a relationship. On top of that had four children that I wasn’t aware of. Never again !

I have never felt rejected..for some reason I always go beyond the guy's words and exterior and overanalyze.. oh that guy is scared, intimidated, struggling..etc and all of a sudden I am in my wonder woman suit getting ready to rescue the poor guy (who does not give a daaaamn about me) wasting my time and mental energy on someone who never asked for my help! It took me a long time to learn to leave everyone alone to walk their own path and deal with their issues.. they always come back but by then I am over.. I am wondering if I would ever meet someone who is suitable for me and does not need rescuing

Needed to hear this today! Thanks Breeny❤️. I don’t need a “man” to validate me! I know who I am and my worth! I just keep it pushing. Thank you... NEXT!!💯

I swear you know exactly what is going on in my life at the moment. Perfect timing, this happened to me like 4 days ago.

I literally cried when breeny said about God protection cause is so true ♥️♥️

ok so what ill say is that as i read these comments alot of people have advice that seems to be pretty common. YES. on the outside looking in you can always tell someone what to do and how their worth isnt tied to someone else's view of them and be glad that person ghosted, etc. this is all true but also (not for everyone) but i see alot of judgement as well. When we are in these situations we know right from wrong but we also are human and make mistakes. to anyone that has ever felt worthless not enough , etc im not here to judge you, i am here to tell you i have been there and have experienced it as well. YOU are human and it is okay to experience pain and confusion in the moment. my one gem is to try not to dwell on it too long, continue to focus on your growth and development, and eventually when the dust settles you will see alot more clear. YOU CAN do it !

Always on point Bree! As people, we really need to understand and let people make choices for themselves. Even though rejection sucks, it's a blessing! Unfortunately, you only realise this when you find a great thing. I also agree that the problem arises when people aren't honest with how they feel and instead just ghost you. Such people have no respect and must be canceled!

This is my favorite video you've ever done. I can't even count the number of times I've been ghosted and it's always worked out for the best.

In my experience they ghost because there’s someone else in the picture! Period, point, blank lol. That literally happens to me anytime I’m ghosted 🤷🏾‍♀️

Don’t cry, don’t beg 😷

You always post the right topic whenever I need it😭

Breeny you’re out here preaching!! The shoe bit had me 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏾

Woooooooooooooow I was just dating a guy who wanted to go with the flow he’s a gentleman, however I told him I don’t have time for the foolishness! He acts like him and I are in a relationship he doesn’t want me talking to other men, however wants to play games forget that !

His rejection is Gods PROTECTION ❤️

Breeny, i swear you're psychic! I've been struggling with this for so long, thank you for helping me move on... ❤️

Woaw breeny, another great video, this really helps a lot, relationships are complicated, thanks so much for putting these out, therapy is expensive but your video’s are free

Help me sis ,why all this guys who ghost come back and saying im sorry can we work this out ,to make matters worse i will be done with all the crying & the heartbreak & probably i had moved on

This is so relatable. I remember the first guy I loved, we were knew eachother for 6 years, he was a few years older, then he started to pursue me. I had heared let him chase so I kinda rejected him but not really. Then 1 year later he was engaged. My heart lol, was shattered. I was so naive younger , men always overlapp/talk to multiple women. And another thing I learned is men don’t do closure, you just got to move on. I wasted so much time trying to get closure from him.

This put the biggest smile on my face. I needed this. Thank you❤️

Girl! The gems you drop Shine and Shimmer my spirit. Thank you

I needed this so much! Thank you! Gave me my closure!

Trying to accept this slowly but surely 👏🏼👏🏼

Can we just take a moment to appreciate how stunning Breeny looks! 😍😍 Breeny he’s really treating you well.. girl you’re glowing 🤗❤️

I looooooove you so much breeny Lee😢❤ You helped me so much.

This is so true. I've TRIED to put myself in bad relationships because I was desperate and lonely and God took them out of my life before I got too deep into it. He's looking out for me, and I sure don't deserve it XD. Thank you for your message Breeney, you've helped me strengthen my faith.

The camera quality of your new phone is amazingggg! I love it and I think you should keep on using it

BREENY You’re the elder sister I never knew I needed in my life ❤️ love you!

THIS CAME AT A PERFECT TIME IN MY LIFE 💖💖

I'm married . And my husband recently stop talking to me . We have kids together . And he's with other woman. I'm learning to move forward. It so hard , cause I recently gave birth two months ago

I am happily married but still love your channel because you give great advice! I love the pep talks you give and they still teach me lessons and remind me of the empowerment of being a woman.

This video has so many gems 💎 in it!! Thanks Breeny 💜😁

HE CANT DO HIM AND DO YOU AT THE SAME TIME!!!!!! DAAAMN! Well said!!!!!!!

I’ve been ghosted so many times this year!!!

I’m literally living for these peep talk/car videos xz

BREENY YOURE ALWAYS ON IT 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

This is interesting because i was watching a similar thing but reasons for why women ghost and the explanation are the same lol. This suggest that men and women are more alike than we think. Personally as a man i’ve been ghosted on many times from women and understanding the potential reasons makes it easier to accept. The only thing missed on this vid if i’m not mistaken is depression someone could died etc and also because it has now been normalised and i find myself ghosting because i am put off the girl and since it was done to me i just do the same to her. Personally i love the dating game because its full of rewards and challenges. Lastly people prefer rejection in different ways and personally i feel the ego would be stroked regardless. Rejection is a notification that reminds me to step up my game.

That's just how it's done Right.. Ghost the Ghoster.. I Promise he's gonna come back texting (red flag) do not give in.. Thanks Breeny😘

I needed this. So grateful Breeny

I'm trying this six months of being single. (No dating apps, or pursuing anything) And Breeny these videos are just healing me slowly through this

God will never take away anything that you need! - Truth! 🙌🏻💯

Why I ghosted her: there was no resolution between us after a year of trying. She has a long-time male best friend who she friend-zoned but who is still hoping after seven years to hook up with her attached to her hip like a conjoined twin who she refuses to cut the cord with him and put some healthy space between them. He continually tells her it probably won't work out between us, anyway, and insists she stay loyal to him. (They are the same race and I am a different race than them). She continually chooses him over me, and makes it obvious that he's more important to her - but strings me along. He lives with her in a reserved spare room in her house at least six months of the year every year (for at least three years now - when he's not living at his parents house in another country) and they text constantly everyday regardless of where he is, and he plans on that situation continuing until they are old and there's only the two of them, making it apparent they are a packaged deal for life, regardless - even if we marry. And all signs from her show that she's in agreement with his life-long plans. (And it not working out between us just proves him right.) He's atheist and I'm Christian. He mocks Christianity and God often but anything about sin and apologizing for him being rude, verbally abusive and offending her to the point of her crying and I'm being judgmental and she's guilt-tripping him. (She lies and covers for him and his behavior often.) And worst of all, she profusely and even boldly and blatantly says "G-ddamn" - even after knowing it's a definite deal-breaker for me, and then boldly claims she doesn't say curse words (when she has vids of her making that claim and of her boldly saying that curse word). It just wasn't getting better or working out. But damn is she fine, tho. But that's just way too much bs for me. And talking about it multiple times throughout an entire year did nothing to improve or change anything. I felt I had to walk away, and it best for me to just wash my hands of the whole situation. But she seemed happiest the times she and I were getting along well. And I loved seeing her happy. It's not easy just walking away.

I love this Sis!!! Thank you! I shared this with my daughters. I'm 53 years old and this has delivered me❤

i love you Breeny!!