Stereotypes Chinese Have of Foreigners - Intermediate Chinese - Chinese Conversation - Audio Podcast 

I learn something new everyday. Like that I speak Chinese. LOL. I am joking. I actual am from US and watched a ton of Serpenza. He has talked about the cultural differences. I try to look at various cultures, as to broaden my understanding of different people of the world. Something most people do not do, including other Americans. By seeing and understanding these differences makes us all more understanding and excepting of others.

Facts it’s projection

This video was too politically correct so let me tell the hard truth that people know but don't say openly. Men do not go to china for an obedient women, men go to china to sleep with chinese women because chinese women think foreigners are more attractive than chinese men especially white men. The idea that chinese people think all foreigners have blonde hair and blue eyes is just a lie. It would be more accurate to say they are aware of all people but they find people with blonde hair and blue eyes the most attractive. Chinese women just don't want to be shamed for admitting that they think white people are more attractive or that part of them wishes they were white but they cannot hide their beliefs, you can just observe their actions. Whenever a white man is in china, many chinese woman approach the white man, asking for hugs, pictures, and to sleep together. You are more likely to see a white man walking around with multiple girls around him than a chinese man with multiple girls around him. Not only that, it is more likely for a chinese woman to approach a white man than a chinese man in china. Also the white man can earn much less than the chinese man and still sleep with hundreds of chinese women ( this is not a joke, it really is in the hundreds and if you don't believe me go speak to a white man traveling to china for the purpose of sleeping around) a good example is the youtuber Serpentza who used to teach english in china. Serpentza taught english in china for a while than he had a child with one of his own students. This behavior is generally not tolerated especially in the west but the problem is you cannot blame the men when it's actually the women that are pursuing and initiating this behavior. Normally in china teaching english is a low paying job and a chinese woman would pretty much never date a man (especially a chinese man) that makes so little money but because they think white men are better than chinese men they can overlook this shortcoming and instead the tradeoff is that they get to brag that they have a foreigner particularly a white male because you clearly don't see chinese women running to black men. Also in china they prefer to hire english teachers that are white men and won't even hire chinese americans who are fluent in english even if their english is perfect. It's also very common for these english teachers to sleep around with the students and other teachers but only if the english teacher is a white man, and this is so well known in america that white men make sure to tell other white men on the internet that if they want to get laid and treated like kings they can just teach english in china. Here are some other actions that allude to the fact that chinese women view white men as better than chinese men. They prefer to speak english and not only that they usually learn english with another european language like italian or french and sometimes they brag that its better than their own chinese language. All chinese women think the best type of clothing style, fashion is european fashion, you can see they spend much more money on european products and go out of their way to travel to european or white dominant countries. When a chinese women leaves china with a white man she pretty much will never go back to live in china, she will only go back for family and thats just direct family like mother, father, sister. Alot of women that leave china never want to go back and this affects the nation because not only does it decrease the chinese population in china, it slowly destroys the community because now a system is created where chinese women will stay single well into their 30's "waiting" for the right partner but what they really mean is that they do not want to be with an unattractive chinese man they would rather be single, make money and then eventually either run into a white man in china or travel abroad and find a white man there. Many chinese women do this today and with the internet, social media, dating apps its become easier. If a chinese woman can not find a white man she will than go to a sperm bank and ask to be impregnated with sperm from a white man and raise the child by herself instead of trying to find a chinese husband. People know this but since this issue is such a sensitive topic it would be like the biggest elephant in the room to try to have a discussion of how chinese women would rather marry a white man or be a single mother than marry a chinese man. Also look in chinese television. The foreigners in chinese television are white men and women and the men are usually using their whiteness to achieve fame. It's become clear that if that white man had been an asian person he would not even get noticed. These social dynamics are a very big reason as to why chinese society is fractured with a dying culture. China now is just a reflection of western society, its culture is being destroyed and replaced with heavy western influences. Even if china has been isolated for many years, this doesn't effect human behavior because human behavior is universal. For example any society you are in, the people that are considered beautiful get a different type of treatment than the ugly people. This behavior is easily seen when it comes to fashion, media & marketing, even dating life as you can see how chinese women treat white men like kings but treat asian men like an item at a supermarket. It would be much better to lose face and have an actual honest discussion but chinese women are not even ready for that because they benefit from this system and they don't care about chinese men they only care about themselves, their own looks, and wanting to be white so badly they would give up their own culture and people. The irony is when they have children and their son ends up looking chinese and ugly. When these chinese women have children with white men where the child looks asian the chinese women is extremely disappointed, that's why many chinese women with white men express how they prefer a daughter because once they have a son they have to face the reality of how they have been marginalizing their own sons themselves from their own choices. Imagine being a chinese woman with a white man and a very asian looking mixed child. The child grows up and is trying to understand why he struggles with relationships in society and has difficulty connecting with other chinese women. As the son grows older and pays more attention he starts to notice a pattern that chinese women treat white men differently and then he realizes, his own mother is with a white man and everything starts to make sense. The son realizes he will never live up to a chinese woman's expectations of masculinity and attractiveness because his own mother's relationship reinforces the idea that he is undesirable. This really does destroy society and it's become quite clear chinese women don't care about the future at all. Look at all the chinese women that travel to study now, they travel to europe, america, australia and they usually never want to come back. They make excuses saying chinese men are "feminine", small, quiet, shy when they don't ask themselves a simple question. What type of reaction do you expect when you see all these women leaving their own country and people for foreigners only because they have better eyes, better hair, better bodies, etc? If you think western society respects china you are living a fairytale story. Western society only wants chinese women. Just look at western society and show me how many foreign men are in western society media, pop culture, music, fashion, art, etc. I already know this is going to go way past mandarin corners head because at the end of the day she is a chinese woman but Kirk probably sees what Im talking about.

@@tonylee1393 stop worrying my friend, white people are on the verge of extition. It is not the people of China who are disappearing from the face of the Earth.

@@tonylee1393 as in so many stereotypes there is also some truth in your analyses, but as in so many stereotypes there is also a lot of prejudices and misconceptions in your analyses

Thank you you really helped me

You mean EILEENtening

Eileen, does he have some others you can link us to?

PS. As for me, I went to China for the experience. Even though I earned more than my Chinese colleagues (which is unfair), I earned less than a quarter of what I was earning back home (if Chinese businesses paid foreigners from wealthier countries any less, they probably wouldn't come. So although it's an inequitable practice to pay people of different nationalities different amounts for doing the same job, I can see why they do it. Obviously it makes sense for the business to hire people they can pay less... But often they get around it by promising more, and then not delivering. They deceive you in order to get you to sign the contract and then to cancel your visa if you complain that they are not sticking to their side of the agreement). Anyway, I definitely wasn't there for the money. Apart from dishonest employers and bureaucratic related struggles, I really enjoyed my experience in China! It's best to break away from the expat groups if you want to make the most of your experience. The Chinese people are generally way more hospitable and accepting of foreigners (and their habits) than the other way around. I'm surprised at how favourable the outlook is towards foreigners, and how accommodating the Chinese are (especially considering some of the very bad behaviour, i.e. disregarding of the rules/laws, excessive drinking, predatory sexual practices, lack of respect, unwillingness to integrate, and constant complaining from some foreigners). If you abide by the adage "when in Rome, do as the Romans do" you will endear yourself to the locals, in time. Just as in any other country. Respect the locals and their customs, laws, etc. and you will be well received.

我是中国人，我完全同意你的观点，大多数来到中国的外国人都是屌丝这是真实的数据，然而这些外国屌丝身边却能吸引不少女性，包括黑人身边都能围绕女性，一个外国男性和一个中国男性同样的条件下，中国女性会优先选择外国人，甚至一个条件比很多中国男性差的屌丝也能轻易找到中国女朋友，中国女性崇洋媚外的心里极为严重，中国社会目前对男性压迫太大了，大部分女性现实拜金，但大部分女性并不是想靠自己的双手创造财富，而是想直接不劳而获找个有钱人。所以中国也有句很现实的话，在中国有钱人从来不缺漂亮女人。目前中国女性的问题要比男性大的多，社会发展太快，而中国大部分女性思维还完全跟不上，相比来说中国男性总体思维更加成熟，中国女性缺乏独立思考独立自主自强人格。

谢谢你！

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