Straight Talk: Should You Share Past Relationships? || STEVE HARVEY 

OOOOOOOHHHH I love that one!!!

Never heard of it but that quote is soooo true!!!

Shelli Kalton Sweet!!

I get so annoyed when I hear that😂

I met a guy who wanted to be my first…. He thought I was a virgin but he just had a baby and wife he tried to hide… dude knew me for 2 weeks and was lying but the red flags went off… crazy how he was going real hard, rushing and he was married with children by other women and he’s trying to date because his wife was dating and he’s like I wanna date too! Hell you looking at me for 😐🤔

osama darras I thought the rule was two tho lol

Right lol...👍😀

Girls it’s 2 now ✌🏾

I was seeing this girl since a year we are together, we both shared very good loving bond with each other she is very much fond of me❤ but out of nowhere she is talking to a man who is older age (45) for about month now and you know what happened that man purposely shared all his text messages involving kissing talks etc and he wants me to go away from her.. And when I saw the texts it just killed me from inside, should I continue with my gf or not, because after knowing this I'm feeling a bit different for my gf and if I do continue with her I'll loose the self-respect for me in my own eyes.. we both are in our early 20's.. This older man is trying to destroy my relationship.. I'm very confused..

I agree. What if he was abused or has a baby mama? Does he have a jealous or psycho ex? I would like to know as much as possible so that I can either protect myself, help him overcome some things, or leave.

I do not want to know.

Women should understand this isn't how men think

Good woman

But he is not obligated to either. He may share some but you don't need to know everything. Thats his business and you can't force that.

Sleeping around immediately means they never loved you If they’re a woman.

@@bobbyseasons451 same goes for a man I seen this time and time again this applies to both

I was seeing this girl since a year we are together, we both shared very good loving bond with each other she is very much fond of me❤ but out of nowhere she is talking to a man who is older age (45) for about month now and you know what happened that man purposely shared all his text messages involving kissing talks etc and he wants me to go away from her.. And when I saw the texts it just killed me from inside, should I continue with my gf or not, because after knowing this I'm feeling a bit different for my gf and if I do continue with her I'll loose the self-respect for me in my own eyes.. we both are in our early 20's.. This older man is trying to destroy my relationship.. I'm very confused..

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I told a guy who kept asking about my past relationship super early it didn't work out. Communication issues and incompatible personalities. That wasn't enough for him. He questioned ed why I would change the subject and revealed he was judging me on that info. Funny how he was judging me but didn't like thay I wasn't obsessed with talking about it so he could know. That's nosy AF. Yet he wasn't talking about his past often.

double standards strike again

he is just passing through so it doesn't matter

Pagan Worshiper Did she tell him her number though?

That is nasty

adbc1f72 actually she lied about it, she was dumb and asked him to help fix her phone or something & he found the list she keeps on it

T M lol, true I could also think of a few more as well

It's not what they THINK they know. It's what they can prove or what you admit to. Chris Rock said if you ask a woman how many men she's been with, She'll tell you how'many boyfriends She's had.🤣 Now imagine all you've been with in one room. If it bothers' even you, it's too many.

Yeah, hard to trust someone who had tons of Relationships in the past.

@@bechsteinwaypetrofazioli3885 yer sure... because failure doesn't teach people anything? I get car advise from people who've had many cars and real estate advice from people who've bought many houses... but yer sure I understand your struggle

@@bpheta to each his own. The impression to me is that that person has terrible judgment and hasn’t learned at all from those 30 mistakes (WAY TOO MANY).

Yup or they assume and judge you based on those things..

Hey girl I have a question do you feel that you can recognise them now ? Do they act in a similar way, what are the thing, behavior that can make us recognise them easily .

It is your fault.

@@paceyourself5652 someone cheating on me is not my fault, actually. You get to decide wether or not you’re going to be loyal, or cheat and lie to your partner, or to leave. They could have left at any point but wanted the benefit of having someone do wifely duties for them while also not being tied down. Grow up.

@@noneofyourbuizness I feel like there’s a few things that lead me to question someone’s loyalty, I think having an upfront discussion before committing to someone is important, about what they want and are looking for out of parter - as in do they want to date casually and continue getting to know other people, or are they looking to settle down and do we see a future together. If the later is established, I think some things that can be red flags are not wanting to meet family, lying, being secretive with their phone, being oddly close with a certain friend of the opposite sex, and being insecure about past partners are some things that looking back should have raised alarms and I won’t settle for at this point in my life.

@@amys1063 why did you keep Going into those kind of relationships running up Your body count? That is your fault. You should’ve taken time to look at what you were doing wrong vs continuing to make soul ties and sleeping around with a bunch of different losers who cheated on you. Own it, and realize where you stand with most men.

Wife her up dude, past is past

Lol what happened ? Spill the tea

@@user-jl9hy5yg4c Aye ain't no tea spillin' up in here, now that you're curious, just head over there!😉😀

@@Shiddy lol im too lazy 😂 thanks though

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Rachel Vincent girls run that term in the ground but men have a million we can complain about but don’t stop being a brat

They justify it with being a “Man”. I just recently found out my boyfriend lied about how many girls he actually slept with. Told me 4 for 2 years, 3 years he finally confessed to it being over 10+. He was so butt hurt for those 2 dudes I slept with he’s my 3rd, I came in transparent because we met in school. I told him to be honest, if I knew that earlier I wouldn’t had talk to him. He found it weird that me as a woman would say that because they feel women shouldn’t care about body count like a man should. I have morals, that just shows you have a lack of self control especially if you had sex with 10+ girls in a span of 5 months. That’s not normal to me I don’t care what no one says.

I just let them sort it out at the baggage claim. See ya.

How would you know if she lie

@@gabrielkg5681 I think its the best to really say its No problem and that all you ask is honesty If she Lies about that Relationship is doomed to fail

hahaha yea spending your life with one woman does not mean you dont want to have sex with other women. especially a high value man like him (a good looking dancer)

Damn,that's what u got from that?I got the exact opposite of that.

@@sirjoejoe8813 I went to school for psychology 🤷🏾‍♀️

@@Mrsqueen876 Ooooh...all grown up..."I went to school for phsycology"...lol He did say "his wife"...check around 2:19... Finally, when a European says "that woman"...he is making a strong statement of connection - whether you understand that or not. Spin the ring thing? May you not be so quickly judged when it comes your turn to project a behavior you didn't intend. Like..."I went to school for physcology" to explain yourself makes you sound immature and foolish. I'm sure you don't feel that way about yourself.

@Nimbuzz S no dude ntg like that....

Lol good luck with all that baggage

But why though?? Why lie about it

Danielle Greer Lol you said your just going to ignore them. You sound like me. 😆

But we men will never take u seriously just we will use u like ur ex and then theow u dont worry no hymen no diamond

Depends on the female yall dealing with smh, yall don’t understand that though

you are correct. the more sexual partners a woman has the more likely it is for her to cheat or for your marriage to end in divorce.

Are you insane?

This is the most ignorant comment on here and makes no sense

@@carekkbear He is right. Women have more estrogen than men (10-20 times more). Estrogen works in conjunction with oxytocin (the bonding or cuddle hormone) which makes women more attached to men through sex, so even when they think its just casual, their hormones are binding themselves to that man so that they can be provided for and protected during the possible pregnancy that can occur from sex. After a woman has released this hormone, it becomes harder for her to pair bond with the next man. When these casual relationships end, women tend to face more depression and mental anguish. The more she casually does this, the more jaded and cynical she becomes and the less likely she will ever be satisfied in a long term relationship, which makes her more likely to cheat as she looks to get that same 'high' from sex from previous partners

What an ignorant statement, please for the sake of humanity don't reproduce, we don't need more copies of your ignorant ass roaming around.We already got more than enough.

You equated her having a lot of sex with her making bad decisions that was probably caused by her childhood conditioning and becoming an addict from her pain & trauma?