No contact is a win win situation in every aspect... Immediately after the breakup, it gives you a sense of hope in order to keep your mind in place and make the grieving process easier, and when you eventually find out, if they would come back or not, you would have healed considerably by that time, to the point of questioning if you really want them back. So you don't care either way and you are happy with yourself. If they come back, then maybe appreciate it and give it a try how it plays out, if not you would be 101% assured that this person never really deserved that much to be in your life in the first place. Either way, you have already overcome that person, and also walked away with decency. Keep it together people!!
Coach Lee, I followed your advice on no contact but took it to the next level. I hide in a doomsday bunker and went radio silent. Didn't go to work, didn't contact my parents, friends, not a soul... Next thing I know after a few days to a week. I'm getting messages and calls from pretty much anyone I ever knew asking if I'm ok and that they are worried about me. But I stayed strong and didn't respond. Next thing I know they got the whole damn town out looking for me, cops , search dog, the whole 9 yards. Anyway It was at this point that my ex gf contacted me. She started sending me delirious texts telling me how much she was worried about me fearing the worst. that she loved me, and that she wished we could be together again. Anyway long story short. I'm back with my ex after she thought she had lost for permanently. gave her a little taste of life without me. No contact really does work. Listen to this guy folks he knows what hes talking about.
You did the right thing in this situation. What that let you know is that she genuinely care about you. You put her to the test to see if she cared and she passed good for you sir.
He's the only relationship/breakup coach on youtube who isn't taking advantage of people who are in a vulnerable emotional state and trying to get them to buy some bogus book or program. The emergency breakup kit is fantastic (I bought it) but the information he just gives away for FREE here on youtube is they type of stuff you'd have to pay other breakup coached hundreds to get.
that's how my stbx felt for 2 years. that's why he left. not because he gave up but because he didn't feel loved. I won't give up on him because I was just as lost as he was.
Me & him, were just friends, (neighbours). He went no contact, February, last year. We had sporadic contact, through the last year. It was the cruel way he treated me after he went no contact. I got harassed, my cats were hosed, if they went in his yard & other harassment. He moved out, late last year. I have seen him driving around town with a young child in his car. I think the child is hers? I'm happy, single & childfree. I never wanted kids. I'm glad he left & moved on. I'm still ignoring him & I cut a friend out of my life, who still talked to my ex neighbour. I won't tolerate disloyalty from friends. No contact, works !!
It's like that bro after a while I'll just rewatch them and yeah it's like the first time listening.. but it gets better bro Also look up Dating Guy, The Love Chat and Corey Wayne.. even Alpha Male Strategies Look up hypergamy and it will make sense stay strong bro it's a Marathon not a Sprint Work on yourself and it gets better! I know she may have left an imprint on you and seems irreplaceable but she is that's why there's so many out there for us.. I still compare other women to my ex and they can't she was amazing but atleast I had my turn with her it's hard sometimes but I get through Oh an meditation helps alot bro!
I have been watching these and even rewatching these for the past week to really engrain it in. It can happen, lol😂 becoming a better person is hard, but it's worth it! It really makes you feel like you have more dignity in yourself.
I disagree man. These vids keep me strong. I tried to reach her over and over but didn’t get anywhere. No contact is what I learned from these vids. They keep me strong, helped me to compose myself and pick up my self respect. I’m now working on myself and learning to be a better version of me so if she comes back then I’m stronger or if I meet someone else then I’ll be better having learned from my mistakes
Man thank you for the laugh! Seriously! I haven't laughed In days but I read your comment and literally laughed my ass off waiting to clock In at work. It's so simple but true!
I’m 6 months in NO contact & I still miss her . The pain has eased with time but I do have days when I feel like breaking nc, but then remind myself how far I’ve came .
Luciano Mercado have you heard anything from her? If not I would remain in no contact and began seeking someone else. Sometimes women will break up with you and give you no closure so why should you. If I were you I would forward with life and seek another woman.
vdubman Smith no I haven’t heard anything from her . I have been staying busy focusing on myself and my career , been dating other women the past couple months but it just doesn’t feel the same .
@@ricasso777 you are doing the right thing for yourself by slowly moving forward with other women. Continue the no contact for little bit longer but if you dont start hearing from her it may be time to continue to move forward. It just depend on how bad the breakup was whether it ended on good or bad terms. Was you the cause or was it her having a change of heart. Either way just hope she reach out some day and if she does play it cool and have a regular conversation with her without bringing up the breakup.
vdubman Smith long story short she moved away from work , gave me false hope of a long distance relationship 1 month into her moving she slowly started to ghost me , texts and communication wasn’t the same and her excuse was she was too consumed with her new position & didn’t have time to balance work & a long distance relationship . But before she moved the last time we were face to face she was balling her eyes out . Which why at first I was confused by her behavior and demeanor soon as she moved . She went cold and distant
Coach Lee ,you just made my Day,thank you so much for all your advice,is so wert full.Want you to know there is lots of coach it out there,but sense I find your coaching,I made my choice,for me what you say counts for me,because it makes so much sense.Not only does your Voice sounding very soothing,you talk really from true Life,that makes so much sense to me.When I get uneasy with my Situation over breakup ,all at takes it seems turning in to your Video’,Emergency Kit,to building me back up,your Face expression often makes me laughing,and gives me Strength to hanging in no Contact ,to get me thru the Day’s .So thank you for that,you are truly amazing.I know with your advice I am in good Hand ,and I also learn patience,for what is important to me.Please stay safe and thank you so much for all the help you give us,I am so glad I found you and your coaching ,I would not want to miss that,that is how important it is to me.
Thank you for your help coach, its really comforting and reassuring to listen to you, please post more often especially in these depressing quarantine times !!!
I will say coach you helped me in understanding how to properly communicate and to not do vulnerable things anymore I more happier with no having my ex and feel it as a blessing that I’m able to be myself again
Hi Coach Lee, I just wanted to say that I've been binge watching all of your videos, you deserve a Netflix Special for the amount of quality you've provided in these videos. I was watching other coaches on RU-vid, getting advice from people who were telling me all the wrong things, I wished I had found your videos sooner, it would've saved me a lot of heartache. As soon as I can, I will be purchasing your emergency kits, even though I'm not married or currently in a relationship, I really just want the value of knowing what to do in these situations moving forward.
They send so many mixed signals... one day they’d treat you like you don’t exist, mean and that they’re sneaky. Trying to hide their “rebound”. Then the next they’d ask you to have lunch. Although she treats me like I don’t exist and rude I always have a smile on my face, super normal and polite. I’m doing everything you’re saying right before you posted this video. She’s also the first person to check my stories on social media. It’s really obvious that she’s faking her happiness.
If she's sending you mixed signals then its obvious she dont know what she wants. That's a waste of your time and energy so why give her a good vibe and she's being fake with you. What you could do is go no contact and dont post anything about your relationship with her on social media. Just back off and let her come to you. If her attitude towards you dont change then you need to dismiss her from your life and move on.
Hello King Coach Lee, I was looking today for another video and you’re here. Thank you. Love your hair and the blue looks good on you. No disrespect. Thank you , total relief watching your video driving home again from hospital. Stay safe 🥰
Make a video on first love and first breakup.. Cause many of your viewers are facing first love/breakup... This would be very helpful to alot of people
Hi coach lee.. I've been watching almost..i mean almost all of your videos now because I've been dump last month and now applying almost all of your NC and strategic rules and hoping it will work..btw i watch one of your videos that im doing wrong that when she dump me i keep on messaging her and she doesn't seen any of my messages and i realized that like you've said before that I'll give her time 1-3weeks..so, now ill applying the NC rule just today I'm making this message on you..and hoping for a bright future for me and for my wife🙏🏻..ill continue watching all your videos this is now my only sympathy because i dont want any of my family and friends get involved with this ill make it on my own way with the help of your videos.. God bless you more coach and more power🙏🏻😊
We still share the same apartment due to financial constraints on my part. It has been 7 months already and we have been through a lot of stages- from talking regularly and every day, sharing the same table on meals and etc. Currently, I'm using no contact as I can, because dealing with him every day and still sharing so much was hurting me and preventing me to move on. But I'm trying to dont act angry and being casual when we need to talk - but this is recent and these videos are helping me on that. I dont know if I want him anymore because I'm too much hurt for what he did and what I've been through, so this 'almost no contact' is to focus on me on the first place. Now, when me meet and talk there is a huge energy that surrounds us. It is almost impossible to talk to him as a casual and regular talk because of this energy on both sides. We still feel too much but I dont know what is up with him, I just try to focus on myself. I want to move out from here so I can practice the real no contact and then deal with whatever it will become of this. It is a win win situation and that is how I try to think.
Loved the video. First off, what should I say/do if I have an outing planned with my kids and they ask if mom can join us? Secondly, should I discourage the kids to refrain from trying to include me in their outings? Ideally, I would want my time to be with me only and her time with her only. We have agreed for family outings together once a month. Maybe twice depending on what's going on in the world.
Hello coach Lee 🤗 thanks for your help a lot! Could you please make more videos about married but about to seperation couples. I wonder why people live still together and still broken up. Also what to mention or not mention in a couple therapy, if it is the case. Im feeling nervous because i dont trust in couple therapies much, we are complicated! It can cut the interaction at all. But how will i react to a person who wants to leave me but stay after 3 months of break up. Am i helping to get them be better and move on? Or helping to get them be closer? I cant get the subtle changes in our behaviours like we both are being more and more friendly lately. Please, more video for on the edged people. ☺️ greetings and thanks again.
I sometimes see my ex at work as we like working at the same place. He can't even look at and I've backed off. He sits there so quiet and I carry on and have a laugh with everyone in front of him. I hope all this works
thanks coach lee, i'm feeling better everytime i watch your video, i'm still in the NC rn, it's been 2 weeks of NC, she has reached me out a couple of times and asked me how i was doing, she also told me to move on but i responded to her politely and simply. I hope i'll get her back soon.
Dont respond to her anymore based on what she said. Stay in no contact no phone calls or text. Let her have the break up and just move forward with your life.
Jelena Vecic when he first told me he didn’t want to be with me I pleaded. That afternoon I accepted it and went straight to NC. IT WAS HARD. first month felt like and eternity the second month was hard but I had to really tell myself either NC to get him back or move on. I was literally moving on when I got a text from him. Asking how I was during this pandemic. I was nice but followed coach lees advice in not being the one to carry the conversation so it kinda died out. Then a week later he asked to call me I said ok and he apologized for everything I said thank you and that’s it. At this point I said to myself he needs to be the pursuer so I never initiated to text him. I thought well I blew my chances but I don’t want to feed into his ego and make him feel like I’m the chaser. Next think you know he’s constantly texting me, yesterday we spoke on the phone and he’s flying out here in two weeks. We aren’t officially back together but I feel like all of e advice coach lee gives is honest and it actually works. I watched many of his videos multiple times to get through. Stay strong work on yourself and know your value. Wishing you the best! 🤍
Ace Lyp I was devastated when my ex broke up with me. I pleaded for him to stay but he was sticking to his “no”. I went into NC right off the bat. Watched all of coach lees videos to get me through the first month. This pandemic is also making it THAT much harder. I wanted to reach out multiple times but as coach lee says we can’t be the ones to pursue. So I held my ground. Just when I was feeling like I was moving on he reached out. One text here another there, I’d respond but never carried the conversation. Our talks have been small. Last night he called and we spoke for 2 hrs. In coach lees video on LDRs he states that the big gesture has to be done face to face, can’t be something done over the phone. In our conversation last night he asked if he could come visit and see me. I agreed. I have a lot to clear and get straight but his action of coming to see me speaks volume. I can’t say we are going to be back together but I now know that I have the advantage.
My ex wife and I exchange our son, and our texts are generally pragmatic. When I do talk to her in person, she's anxious, dumps her fears on me, and is borderline in tears almost every time. There's a lot of confusion for both of us at this point. No contact is good simply because it prevents outbursts in anger.
Keep it short with her and dont let her know anything about who you may be currently seeing. Your conversations with her should be strictly about your son and nothing else. Good luck to you sir.
So I just got out of a video call with my ex. We hadn't spoken for at least 3 weeks, but I sent her her copy of a magazine which came in the post along with a book she had left here. When she received it she asked if she could video call me. We had a fun conversation just chatting about coping with the quarantine and how everything's going, I was a bit cheeky with her throughout and at some point I just stopped her and said "btw, can I just say you look gorgeous today", which she appreciated. She did say that she thinks the breakup was the best thing that could have happened at this time, because since we are physically separated by the quarantine we couldn't even meet up if either of us wanted to or see each other randomly in the streets, and therefore we both got time to just get on as individuals. I said I agreed of course, but just changed the subject as I wanted to avoid talking about any relationship issues. I then said let's just leave it there, and it was nice to talk to her and let's do it again some time! She said yes and we said our goodbyes. Though just now after hanging up she sent a couple more texts just asking about my family and how they're doing, but it seems like maybe she is opening up the channel for communication. I just thought I wanted to share, since I don't have many people around me who actually give constructive, unbiased opinions haha Any thoughts on how to go from here?
Give it some time i would go in strategic contact with her. The good thing is you guys are talking and texting at times but it seems like she don't want nothing serious at this time. So what you could do is go no contact for a while just to see if she will check up on you from time to time. If she dont want a relationship with you after a while and that's what you want then you may have to move on to someone else. The best thing at this time is to give her the breakup and dont force a relationship on her until she brings it up. If she dont want a long term relationship and you do and she's not talking about going to the step then you need to fall back and let her really miss you.
Hey, Coach Lee. Do you think you could make a video covering what to do if you broke up just before the stay at home orders were started, and how we can keep our exes from getting over us during this time? I literally can’t see her to remind her of the good times or the guy she fell in love with. I feel the fact I have just been a name on a phone for two months is not helping in my favor. I think it’s worth noting that the topic would not be about whether or not it’s okay to contact them during the corona virus, as you already made a video for that, but rather what to do to keep them from moving on during this time.
Its hard when she’s my boss, I still have to see her at work everyday. I haven’t finish my project so I cannot quit for now. I dont think no contact will work unless I totally disappear. Stuck here, guys. Seeing her everyday it hurts me so much.
I just need to get business done. He's completely silent. He's alive, posting, not blocking, just ignoring everything as polite and business oriented the messages are.
@Coach Lee Shall I wish her Happy Birthday even though she is the mother of my child and we meet regularly? Thank you! Highly appreciate your reply! All the best
Hey Coach Lee, appreciate your videos man. They have helped me recover from a fallen relationship 2 years ago. I have used your tactics to move on to a new relationship. We started dating in January and built up amazing momentum. I was going to ask her to be my girlfriend, but then quarantine happened and I haven't seen her in person since. I know she is really really into me, but the connection has faded since quarantine. Most likely because she is a nurse in an epicenter and overwhelmed with the tragedy. We have texted here and there but nothing of substance. I have a note drafted out stating my intentions to pick up the momentum when this is said and done. This feels different since we never started a formal relationship. What would you do? Again, much appreciate the videos and advice
Aaron Jones in your situation I would try strategic contact. She could be very much overwhelmed with the covid situation or maybe she had a death in her family. I would text her one time and wait for a response. If she responds then that's good let the coversation flow naturally. If she dont respond after you have reached out a few times then I would go to no contact. Dont give up if she care anything about you she will respond at some point just be patient and dont force it let her call you.
@aaron jones My ex and I started dating in January as well. We live in the same neighborhood so we never stopped seeing each other during quarantine. If she doesn’t live too far away it’s worth a shot to start trying to see her again. Especially since things are slowly opening back up. I know you wrote this a month ago, but a month in a pandemic changes more rapidly than usual. Good luck!!
Hi Coach Lee, I was about 110 days into no contact until some of his insurance paperwork and insurance bill were delivered to my address. I guess he forgot to update his address with the insurance company to his current address. I thought the right thing to do would be to let him know about it, so I broke NC. I left the paperwork outside and he came by to pick it up. We didn’t see each other or talk and kept it strictly about that during our text exchange. Did I mess up my chances by breaking NC?
It's been 7 months since my wife announced we had to separate, 2 months later I was told she was involved with someone and 6 weeks ago she finally moved out to her own place. I am in limited contact due to us having 2 children. But she seems as cold as ever. In process of taking her off the mortgage and I recently fitted new locks. She was not happy at all and messaged "what's the rush" to change the locks.
My ex and I do not have children together, but I have a son and he does too and we like each other's kid. So, today was his son birthday and I sent a gift via Sedex and an email to my ex with the tracking number just saying it was from me to "D"s birthday and should arrive soon. One line short, polite and not personal. Did mentioned us or our breakup or anything. Signed with my bussiness signature with full name.
Coach Lee, So my wife and I are separated, per her request. It’s very fresh. Been on NC for 4 days now. But the complications of my situation are, the kids are not mine. She doesn’t allow me to see them. Even when I ask. Then on top of that, she has recently said that I do not care for the well being of her or her kids, because I haven’t sent money to help her. She states that I only would help her if she lives under my roof. And that I am controlling. I don’t know what do. Do I send money? Do I continue with the NC?
He left me because his mental health is bad and that he has no interest in a relationship with anyone atm, which I partly think is also because of his mental health. He told me I didn't do anything wrong and that he really enjoyed the 2 months he was with me. We're both 16, so it's not like this relationship could have become anything serious like marriage or kids. I slightly hope things could bloom again in adulthood where we're both more mature and he's ready for commitment and has a better mental health
Does Couch Lee have an email? I have bought the kit, but I need to know if I can break NC due to my situation. I’ve read all the articles, but I need his advice
Hi Coach Lee me and my husband are still living together he gives mixed signals there are times he laughs and jokes around with me but times he’s distant and we never go out what do you suggest
Is this a linear process? My ex contacted me on her birthday a month after break up and then again a week later about something else. I was sick on her BD(covid) then when she contacted me the next weekend, I was still not ready to talk. So followup on linear vs non linear.TY. Great advise and Videos.
It has been 8 months now , my wife applied for a divorce already, and we have a baby together, do you think doing strategic contact will still help me ? Thank you for all your videos.
Are you going to make calls again? I see that it is no longer available for now. I have already bought the breakup guide but I have some questions still
@Coach Lee Thank you for your videos and replying to me Coach Lee. I wish I had found you sooner as after watching your videos I now realise I have caused alot of damage. Is there any other way of contacting you so I can make plans for a private session, I do not have FB or IG. Wishing you all the best Thanks again
Dear Coach Lee. Thank you for your videos. I love them! Do you have a video, if husband divorced his wife, , but is still her best friend? And it is hard for her to only be in the friendzone?
Hello, coach Lee i have watched all your videos and am in 8 months of No-Contact. Apparently he has a girlfriend, but he asked how i was doing and if i was dating anyone through a mutual friend. What could this possibly mean.
Kristen, it sounds like his REBOUND didn't work and now he wants you again. They ALL do that. If you take him back, he WILL CHEAT AGAIN. You don't need him. Let him go. Good luck, honey..⚘️
I’m on close to the 3 month mark of no contact. However my ex is a nurse in the hospital on the covid unit. I saw her on bumble a month ago. I don’t think she’s dating because she’s taking the virus very seriously. Does this make this time count less because she’s not dating and focused on work? It’s a super confusing situation:( . I’m laid off aswell so nothing but time to go stir crazy.
I don't work with or was married to my ex, however we have to see each other regularly. I work in a place that he frequents on a regular basis. He is there pretty much everyday. I do not work there everyday so I do not go unless I am working or that is what I try to do. We do have many!! mutual friends that also frequent this establishment. I am trying to use the no contact rule but because of this situation, totally disappearing is not practical. Any advice would be appreciated.
I have a question to ask is there any exceptions for the no contact rule, like when you are In a no contact rule can you break it by wishing them a happy birthday and after that still continue with the no contact rules or where doing business before the break up happened do I have to continue the no contact rules or I do it apply in terms of doing business together.
I followed ur advice. We have been thru a variety of the stages. Been 10 months. He is drinking alot. And started being very disrespectful. So I stip taking calks. So now he calls every couple of weeks just to see how I am doing. I never call him am I handling this correctly. He says his is not drinking now. With contact being few and far between it makes me think its not going to happen.
I can contact my two adult stepkids myself, so I’m not concerned about that. But my oldest cat lives with my ex-partner (her choice because she hates my other cats, LOL), and she’s an old girl. I miss her and don’t want to give up seeing her, plus my dog loves visiting his “daddy”. I haven’t contacted my ex since he dumped me about a half a month ago. Should I contact him to arrange “visitation” for the pets?
We have kids so I use strategic contact but what do u do when she starts texting or talking about random stuff that isn’t necessary? I know u don’t ignore them but I want as little contact as possible so she might miss me.
Hey coach and fellow subs! My ex broke up with me in anger on the phone. I said ok bye and hung up. Should I send a text that says I don’t agree but respect his decision? Or say nothing?
Hello coach, i just had a quick question i hoped you could answer. Im currently doing no contact with my ex and i did it for 7 days but yesterday i had an urgent question i really needed answered and she is the only one i could get it from since the nature of my question is her actual profession. Anyways i sent her a text and she responded almost instantly, after which she asked me how i'm doing. I kept it short and laid back and told her everything was okay, and that we could talk in person. She said she does not mind that but that it is still too early for her to meet. Is this a good thing? I responded with a *if you ever wanna talk about anything don't be scared to talk to me, i won't bite. Good night.* and left it at that, later she posted sad posts on social media. Was my response in any way bad? I wouldn't break no contact and will not but i really had to ask that question for something work-related. Thank you for your awesome videos and support you give me strength in those cold lonely nights :)!!! Keep up the awesome work!I
No. You shouldn't have. This is the case of you lying with yourself. There is no such thing that you can get only from your ex. And if it is, it's not your business. It's just you making excuses for contacting them. But that's past now. Try to go offline or at least mute them on all the social media. Don't post anything. Be a mystery. And don't contact her again. Never. Take care ! Stay strong ! Everything is going to be alright.
What if you're married and you're children are homeschooled, spouse breaks up with you but can't leave to separate or get the space you need cuz you have to be there for the homeschooling part? And spouse has deserted you at home while they only come home right before you have to work...how do you deal with something like that? This is so painful. @coachlee
SonyMouse they only going to know what you tell them through a phone call text or social media. If the person is not communicating with you how you going to know what going on with them.
coach, what do i do when my ex sent me money during no contact from a business we had together during the relationship LOL is he moving on or feeling guilty?
I’m not an expert but I’d say he feels inclined to give you money as you both created that together and as a last thing he could do after things didn’t workout so well
i love your videos they have helped me understand the breakup dynamic i wasn’t giving him the breakup but i have and it has helped me not care so much and he’s reaching out and being decent side note i think your nose is cute lol
Coach Lee, I went online and ordered your emergency break up kit. After I completed I went to book a call with you and it gave me NO options. can you please help with this. Thank you!
Maybe I might have to. Just sucks because I already paid for the breakup advice he was offering on the site. Just wish it was a real way to speak to them. Maybe I Should’ve saved my money 😕 and just watched the free videos
Hey coach thank you so much I had to enter strategic contact because we have kids together and today she had coffee with me and we talked alot about things that are coming up and she offered friendship I shrugged it off and I said yeah right and she didn't know how to respond and she told me her family has been telling her to cut me off and she refused them we spoke a little about the relationship but I kept it short and changed the subject my hope has been restored a little. My question is what do I do now?
Dont except her friendship. If she's the one that broke up with you then stay in strategic contact due to you having kids with her and move on. If she's not talking about you two working something out then you only need to worry about your kids not her feelings.
@@lucaborgese2695 Im sorry to hear that. Sometimes women just lose interest. At least she let you know where she stands and now you got to start thinking about what's best for you. Maybe in time she will have a change in heart but I wouldn't wait for that if I were you. Things like this don't feel good especially if you got a lot of time and energy invested. Give yourself some time to heal you will eventually be able to meet someone that will genuinely care for you and not someone that string you along selfishly and waste your time.
i am in nc in a ldr since 2 months, she texted me alot of times in between but i always kept my interests level below hers. She also told me she misses me alot of times and that she still loves be but always moves out of the idea of us together. We have an instagram page together where we post our life sometimes but she posts some trying to talk to me. Should i do a complete NC and not reply or post in the page too? or now that she texted me multiple times i approach it differently? Thanks
Hello! I dont know if im going to get any answers from you but i Will try anyway! My ex left me and our 3 small children about a month ago, i of course want him back. In the beginning i did some misstakes as begging but went into no contact. Anyway he has contacted me a few times asking what car i want and so on. I now Have to move as i can’t stay in the house we rented. I have gotten a new place but its over an hour away. Should i try to stay in the old town or move? Him seeing the children won’t be a problem wheter i move or not. He wrote a text today saying ”i dont think you should move as they will be figthing with you”. ”They” is my mother and sister. Im now very confused as to what i should do. There is no apartments available in the town We live in or nearby. I of course would like to Ask him if there is any chance that We Will be getting back Together but im in no contact so i guess that is a no go. What should i do? Sorry for vad grammar and so, i live in sweden.
My ex contacted me yesterday after 43 days of NC. He was asking how I've been during quarantine and asked lots of questions about my job etc. We spoke for over an hour but I was not acting too keen and let him carry the conversation. He ended the conversation by saying he's going to bed and if I ever need anything to please message him and don't be afraid to talk to him. I don't know where to go from here I know I need to go back into NC but do you think he will reach out again?
Coach Lee its been about 40day of n c since he broke it off Togesther for 3andhalf years.he still has my slippers at his place and i have something of his at my place. I feel like calling him but i am told and when i hear you i dont thi k i should ? When do u thi k i csn. Ty
What if you’re married, you’re separated but you have pets, no children together , is there a way to make contact , or should I keep the three month rule ?.
Hi Coach Lee , I'm in high school and my girlfriend broke up with me about a week or two into quarantine . Since alot of us in the world are in isolation and have an idea of what each other are doing , will no contact work for me? Today I have been in NC for 22 days
Well day one is over of the no contact and i made it no calls and only two texts but she texted me first she also is interrested in what im doing this weekend going out with a friend and I have been super nice no anger or sad poor me stuff i am strong and i can do this but it isn't easy to not it hard but it must be done
Tried to book a call with you. It referred me to your other material that you had to purchase other than a call. It said you're taking a break from calls and working on RU-vid.
Coach please what is the best thing to do when you accidentally meet ex at the marketplace.There was not actual break up.She always wanted me to call or to make a move at her.I stopped all calls and text.Never head from her for 3months now.I don't know how to behave when I should meet them some place. Should I be cold or friendly?
