Couldn’t have said it better myself. I feel the same way. It is lovely to have this to guide ourselves by and try to do better. Thera is always room for improvement.
This is so good. Very timely, I have fallen off the wagon when it comes to these things because of a long vacation. I am going to take the time to do more for my family.
I had a mens meeting last week and this is what we talked about. I thought you and others would find this helpful. If you were looking for a bride,what would you look for in her? Christian - John 3:3 Friend/Friendship - John 15:14-15 Loves God/Jesus - John 14:21-23 Loves the world - John 8:31,15:7 Obeys the word - John 14:23,15:7 Loves me - John 14:21-23 Internal beauty - 1 Peter 3:3-4 A witness for Jesus - Acts 1:8 Loves people -Romans 13:8, John 4:7, 21 Servant Heart- Luke 22:26, Romans 14:17-18 Common interests -Matt 16:23, Acts 4:32 Submissive spirit - Ephesians 5:22-23,James 4:7 Humble/meek - Romans 12:16, Phil 2:6-9 Not worldly- John 12:25 Not an adulteresses- 1Cor 6:9-10 Jesus first/ family second - Matt 10:37
I like this..... I am a divorced mom of three after 9 years of being a SAHM. I miss that. I rarely did these things to care for my husband though. He never cared for me either. We started young down an unhealthy path that turned into a cycle and he couldn’t let go of addiction. Now I make the money and am again with a partner who doesn’t value financial stability and can’t keep a job. I understand where the traditional husband is coming from now.... feeling so much pressure to keep everyone happy and keep it all afloat. Totally wish I had a person who kept my clothes clean!!! Lol yes that would be nice. I am grateful that my partner takes care of me in many other ways though. You are very inspiring. I’m glad I dropped in to your channel, very randomly. Thank you
To the lady with the question of laundry. My advice is pick a day out of the week that you do laundry. Depending how many people in your household you can do 2 different days through the week. Every Wednesday I do laundry. I make sure to change the bed linings in both room. I usually wash the kitchen mats and bathroom mats and shower curtain every week. I have a lot though, so once I wash ____, I replace it with another and change it up so its never the same style. I am not condemning anyone. Just sharing what works for me. Be bless!
I feel very strongly about serving my husband, but working full time outside of the home makes it very difficult to get everything done. How do you feel we as Christian women should handle serving and supporting our husbands and being a good homemaker with so little time left after working and cooking?
I don't know your entire situation, so please don't misunderstand what I'm about to say as judgement towards you, but this is why women shouldn't/shouldn't have to work full time outside of the home. We were never meant to do it all! I'm sorry I can't personally give you advice for your specific circumstance; I just had to put this out there. I hope maybe someone else with experience can give you the advice you're looking for :)
@@corachristel I completely agree! My Mema and I often discuss this during our coffee time and while my situation at this time doesn't allow me to stay home, I pray that God will work it out so that one day I can. I think this world would be a much better (and less stressful!) place if women were able to stay home more often! I understand that there are some "career women" but I am definitely not one of them! Thank you for responding! 🥰
Imagine what the church would be like if this were the norm. Or heck, even if it were taught at all. The world would be beating down the church doors trying to get in.
Hello! This was such a great advice. I am so glad I came across your channel. I'm finding all marriage and faith related videos and going to take notes while I binge watch. God bless you
You're the kind of selfless wife a husband would happily die to protect. How has your quality of woman become something to be shamed!? But in spite of those who call your way of life sexist or something, keep it up! Your husband has truly found a great thing! One day I pray God brings me a high quality biblical wife. That'll be one of my greatest gifts from God.
I try so hard to do everything for my husband and it seems like nothing is good enough... or if it is I mess up somehow and then we keep coming to the point of being miserable and not knowing what to do... I’m so close to leaving but I know God doesn’t like divorce at all. Idk what to do and I don’t even know if you have any advice that you haven’t already said... I’ve watched all your videos and everything and so has he. We both think they’re great! But it’s something about me that isn’t good enough ever and idk what to do..
I don’t want to speak for Alana but, I’ve heard her mention “The Excellent Wife” by Martha Peace. This is a great book. I actually went back to one of the chapters over the weekend.
