The 3 SECRETS To Improve SELF-ESTEEM & Confidence TODAY | Marisa Peer 

This is so wonderful to hear thank you for sharing darling

Congratulations ma'am so happy for you, I'm trying to get started I know it takes consistency to be successful. It's really so hilarious. Sadly there's actually people still living paycheck to paycheck

Great accomplishment keep it going , you said it all right there!!

Antoinette NY, 39 . I Just started at my six figure job after being in and out of the poverty line. I really hope I don't end up like this. I'm scared really scared!!!

Don't panic, start out easy, don't buy things you don't need, budget every money, always save a portion of your pay atleast 5%, Invest from your pay check; it grows and helps you accumulate wealth easily.

Sad to hear that, i can't understand that violence. It was not your fault, you were just a Child. it's Tim e you realize It was not your Fault! Start loving and praising yourself.

I would love to give you a big hug xx

I know we don’t know each other but you truly sound like an amazing (young) lady. It sounds like you are the sunshine ☀️after the storm. 🌧

Remember, you are awesome!.

@@nanali7245 thank you so much, even if I don't know you either, I love your kindness.

Thank you very much

I am proud of me,I am beautiful,I am love,kind n joyful person.

💖. Someone said to me “ I’m to deep and sensitive “. The person made it seem it was bad. However, I am. So what.

Ok , you can say ALL of those nice things , except "perfect" cause #1 , nobody is perfect and #2 your spelling needs improvement. I hope I wasn't too harsh. That's just me.

@@juanitamorales4570 I have Dylicixa, learning disabilities. What your excuse for bad manners. Troll.

@Carolyn Aitken..Wise words.. so tell yourself I am beautiful and gorgeous inside and out..i wish you blessings of peace love along with your family..

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@@sidlove5798 you are gorgeous Sid, gorgeous and unique and there will never be you existing ever again - how special is that! ♥️

You can be proud of yourself.

I'm so sorry you endured a difficult childhood but it sounds like you learned how to be a great mother by not repeating your own mother's mistakes. Well done! 👍🏼😁

@@robbymitchell805 Thank you Robby! So kind of you to say! It was really difficult at times, because I kept hearing my mother’s voice in my head when they were little. But I sought counseling alone, their father doesn’t believe in therapy. 🙄That was probably a big part of the problem. He came from a very dysfunctional family as well. You have to acknowledge the problem in order to fix the problem. He was not willing to see or admit that. He thought that since his parents were still married, not divorced, like mine. That they were perfectly ok. That couldn’t be farther from the truth. It’s hard when only 1 person is trying to make the “good parenting” decisions. I tried medication at times, as well. Sometimes it helped, sometimes it didn’t. Most anti-depression drugs have side effects. Weight gain, etc. That was not helping the situation either. I finally found Bupropion, also known as Zyban. It is known to help smokers quit smoking. It is a more neutral. It helps with cravings, etc. I found that the “Slow Release” works on keeping you on a more even keel, instead of a big jolt & then it would be virtually gone the rest of the day. In any case we separated after almost 20 years of marriage & then we tried reconciliation for 3 & a half years, but to no avail. You can’t keep a marriage going if only 1person is trying to make it work. We stayed married on paper for 10 more years, until he met someone online. Now that he is remarried & has a child with her. He’s seeing things a little more clearly. His wife rules the roost now. She is 17 yrs younger than us! We have 11 grandchildren, older than his new child. He is definitely a more submissive father & husband this time around. I have no issues with his new wife. She’s not the reason we got divorced. She also encourages him to visit our daughter with special needs now. He really wasn’t seeing her much in those 10 yrs after the reconciliation failed, unless I took her to him. He’d see her for 5-10 minutes only in the car. Our daughter lives in a residential home now, due to the fact the I was diagnosed with a rare form of cancer in October. That’s another story though.😊 Anyway, whatever it takes for him to go & see her. I’m happy he does. Beebo (her nickname!☺️) has taught us a lot of things. She has made us better people! We are constantly learning about ourselves & what’s really important in life. Her siblings are better people for having had a baby sister like her. They learned to not take their physical or mental gifts for granted. It can literally be taken away in a blink of an eye. Well, thanks again for your kind words! I greatly appreciate them!😊 Take care!🌸

You broke the circle and you should be proud of yourself 🙏 Denise

@@maltymaharaj5735 Thank you! I greatly appreciate your kind words. : )

Good luck!! We're with you and for you !😋

I hear you honey & l relate 💯 you are a beautiful sweet loving soul, l know this because at 70 you are still carrying this hurt because it mattered so much, l believe the deeper we love the deeper we hurt , this is how iv found comfort in my hurt, that l love myself & am proud of the fact that l do hurt that much because l do love that much & that is a really beautiful & precious thing. I dont need to.know u to know you if u get what l mean & l am very proud of u, l mean that with all my heart. All my love to u 💌

@@tanyadixon3248 What a beautiful heart you have.

Its natural we are manipulated to believe we need to be praised. I understand that you do not need others love you but you need to love yourself. I am teaching that to my kids. Their father never praises even if they achieve a high mark their father will say you should have had 95 or a 100 etc its never enough I always go back and say you have done fantasticly well. You must believe in yourself that you are smart wonderful and you are clever fantastic and great. You have to love yourself, you will feel fantastic

Loretta, I am 72 and I could have written your paragraph. I was raised the same way and my passed away years ago but the old tapes keep playing in my head. I to am going to try this because nothing so far has helped me.

You are amazing to have overcome what you have been through. You should be proud of yourself. I wish you peace and happiness

To have compassion and love and empathy Is Truly "A Blessing ".For those who have gone through difficult circumstances within their own lives,To have "empathy towards other's "💕, Is Beautiful!!💖💖💖God Bless You.🙏

Amazing person. What an inspiration you are

Wow' you are amazing! I am a foster parent and I have so much empathy and, love for foster children! You matter. You all matter! ❤🙌👍

Dear Alisha , I read your reply on your extraordinary life , u are to be commended how u came through life’s adversity unscathed. U become a wonderful mother , nurturing , and keeping yourself and children safe, when u could have so easily turned in another direction. God bless you for sustained strength of Character ,I wish I had the privilege to know you personally. God speed, you certainly inspired me to be a better person . Lynda

Yes damn well you are!

Yes you are .

Thank you for your words. I copied P SM words. I've just started to repeat them: I'm a good mother, I'm beautiful. I am intelligent and promise to add some more I AM....... on a daily basis, as soon as I wake up! Listening to you, I remembered that there are quite a few things that make me feel proud of myself and it's about time to remember them. Thank you so much for your help and advice.

Yes you are

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Thank you that’s so kind.🦋🇬🇧😘

Thanks for that 🤗

Second that 😍. I love myself so much so that you can love me so much (can’t remember the other 2 lines) 🤣🤣😂

Your a awesome person

I know I know!

@@emh8861 ,very true insight.I so agree with you. 😆

I was a teacher one of my subject I taught was self esteem and to see people who had low self esteem become assertive is really great

@@user-cy4vw1qj9m Yes, assertiveness, seems to be, a lost gift, nowadays.

@@user-cy4vw1qj9m How did you teach your students about self esteem?

Well you Learnt one thing from it Andrea as sad as your mother was, how not to be, so you are a better mum for it!!

@@carolynaitken7632 Exactly Carolyn if she taught me anything it was not to treat another human being the I was treated and I broke the cycle.

That ‘hurts my heart Andrea… Be well dear.

It is an uphill battle to break the cycle Andrea. I know that. Humiliation is a horrible form of abuse and emotional neglect. Mother 's then had not a clue and could be rotten. My parents have alot to answer for. I understand. Mary

@@favouritemusic8959 Thank you Mary

Agreement Bless you 😇 so much ❤️.

@@Dd-po2ij :)

I agree. Writing it down helps. I journal sometimes.

I agree. I have "I'm a fighter" and "I deserve the best" by my bed and so I see it all the time. If you see it you'll believe it and we all deserve to be happy and living as our best selves.

Great but say it to yourself not me 😀

@@carolynaitken7632 I was practicing😅😍

@@elizarodriguez2876 I wasn’t being serious you can say it to me 😂

To Love❤ our inner selves with peace and Confidence and Much Love.💖💕Love surpasses all understanding.Amen.🙏Then we can be there for other's as well.Hope I can touch someone's soul/heart.May each one of us heal.

@@marymaher4036 €

I tried and never got it back. Must be a Dutch thing or the way they grew up. God bless

@@leonaleona1628 I can totally relate

Me too. I can totally relate.

I was just like you until I saw a post online and it said 'whatever someone else thinks of you is none of your business' and it worked for me.

Fabulous darling x The fact that u even mentioned integrity had me in your corner 💯 immediately, all my love & respect to u, u are magnificent 🙌

You are so so welcome darling

Same...I still kinda do that....can't help it.

Thank you

@@asarerebird8480 you are very welcome beautiful😇

Don’t waste anymore time! Let’s do it together!

We shouldn’t worry about what others think of us for 2 reasons 1 They are going to think anyway, 2 what other people think is non of our business.

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If u find it hard perhaps starting with, " you are worthy" will help because l even know u are worthy & lm a stranger who knows nothing personal about u but l do know that! U on the other hand know your gifts, your strengths, your talents & achievements , l am SURE of those you have many, all my love to you x

@@tanyadixon3248 we are all worthy. Each of us can offer a different skill, opinion, advice and way on dealing with things in life. That's why we need each other to get advice and help each other through things so all of us are worthy, amazing unique creatures and deserve the best.♥️ It's a complete fairytale and lie when we don't believe we are worthy because each and everyone of us is crucial to the human race. I don't know everybody on here personally like you said but what I do know is we are all unique creations of the universe with a unique mind and if I asked for advice or help you would be able to give me something I don't have or would think of so we ALL are important and all are needed. ♥️ Once you know this truth, you will have great self worth because you know you have a power that is completely unique to you. ♥️

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I hear you. I was that child too. Hugs 🤗

Me too but we can believe in each other 🙏

It did the same to me. I actually broke down having my coffee and then sent it to my daughter hoping she will listen to it. I want to share it more as so many of us nee to hear this valuable advice.

You’re not alone. As a baby, I was not nurtured or given attention. It lasted 18 years. There was abuse and frequent rages but the worst for me as a child was I couldn’t get my mom to like me. She grieved for her actions in old age. Turns out it was generational abuse, she was 1 of 2 girls treated this way while the other siblings were shown positive attention, as it was in my family.

Rosemary We all love you❤️

Rosemary, Avery human been borne with Grace!!, I am so proud of you just for say what you want from you mom. You are so wonderful, thanks for your honesty!!

A mother's job is to help your children be the best they can be.

You are 💖

I relate to this

There you go. Even though we are not perfect, we should love ourselves , no matter what.

Good for you Christina Brasilevsky

@Jon Jacob Smith..I hope and pray for blessings of love peace to follow you and your loved ones

Hi there! Thank you so much for your kind words towards Marisa, I will be sure to pass them on (Kim - Marisa Peer Team) 🌺

Hi 👋

Then maybe you subconsciously didn’t feel it was earned/deserved or even accepted it

I think it comes down to your beliefs, the things about you think about yourself, you can make your own conclusions (with or without your parents help) you can come up with negative ideas, negative beliefs..... all on your own. It's your perception.

No .. you need to be responsible for your own self chatter, negative or positive.. ?make it positive !💕

It was when I went out into the world, junior school, then it starts when you get put down ..., not necessarily to do with family.

It's undue high self esteem people suffer from they can't live up to these high expectations, self centererdness lost in thought, esteem vendors can only sell you low self esteem, when we engage in the voice in our own head we reinforce the bondage of self, stop listening and just mapdptwtgat voice, it's not you it's an imposter

You've got this ❤️

Diane Roberts my Sister you are beautiful, and you are more than enough. I myself grew up as an abusive child my self esteem all down, but I always manage to look in the mirror and tell myself I am more than enough. Sometimes I forget and I go walk around like I am nobody's child, but we have to remember to pick ourselves up and affirm ourselves again. Practice practice practice. And remember God loves you.

@@wilmapatt what a lovely thing to say hun bless you sista xxxx 😗 youv made my day im gonna try to love myself

Cathy Keen Look forward to becoming my own shoulder to cry upon.Also, I can’t wait to tell someone to listen.

Hello

Exactly!!!!

Yes, I needed these advices, too. I was almost forgetting about myself. Fortunately, I realised it in time. I will practice them always.