The 9 Qualities Women NEVER Admit They Actually Want In Men 

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When a woman says she wants a red car, she doesn't want any red car. She wants a functional, good looking, strong, reliable car, that's also red. The other qualities are expected.

There Alex goes again proving to us that he’s genuinely concerned about the boys rather than ad revenue by putting the list at the beginning.

"Just be confident, bro." -Chad

“I don’t care about making women look good, I don’t care about making them look bad, I just want the truth” Couldn’t have said that better.

Imagine being told for years during your young adult life that all women want is a guy who's nice and to just "be yourself"... It's any wonder so many guys end up bitter and confused...

The funniest joke a women can tell you is that they ONLY want a guy for their personality

This annoys me so much, because I've been saying this for yours. This is something I noticed since high school. For YEARS, I would say "what women say they want, and what they actually want, are two different things". And yet whenever I tried bringing this up with anyone (men or women), I'd be met with backlash. Sometimes even being called sexist. It's so exhausting.

My thoughts on this list: 1) A guy can improve his appearance at least a little bit. 2) Possibly the most unfair of the list, especially for dwarf men. 3) A skill that could be learned with less porn use and more self control. 4) Can really only be achieved with good connections and a lot of economic luck. 5) Achievable if the other conditions are met. 6) A side effect of #4. 7) Possible with the right mind set, but could still put you at odds against #1. 8) Men typically prefer younger women anyway. 9) Focus on things you're passionate about, and you won't idolize her.

I have few qualities that I looking for in dating partner. Don't be a party girl. Have a job and have you life together. Have a healthy figure and healthy diet. Hygienic and don't live like you are in pigsty. Less Sexual partners and never cheated on ur ex's. An overwhelming majority of upward of 90% won't make the list.

I like how efficient this guy is. Straight to the point. You deserve every dollar you make helping people.

So as a young man I was 6ft, 6 pack, high intelligence, competitive athlete, confident, not super model good looking but handsome enough to get hit on by desirable women a lot and also raised with good morals. What did I want? One woman, committed relationship for life. I was kind, patient, not controlling, generous, loyal, trusting, never cheated on her despite plenty of opportunity, supported her through a degree and masters degree (which she never used). It doesn't matter who you are, or how much you try it simply impossible to satisfy a woman she cheated and left, we are both now single. Every single woman in my extended family has imploded their relationship and is now miserable and depressed. The feminism that gets pumped into girls heads just makes them utterly miserable for life and then blame men for the contradictions in their own mind. The only way to win is not to play, just walk away.

This video is accurate. And of course, the reason why women won't admit to it is because it (accurately) presents them in an extremely unflattering light.

Lmfao that sponsor intro

Thanks for putting the list at the start. Will watch anyway, of course.

It’s so crazy that guys are portrayed as pigs because we are shallow, but my opinion and life experiences tell me women are way more shallow than guys.

"Just be yourself" says Chad to the short, poor, homely, awkward guy.

Alexander putting the list immediately, no baiting, no waiting... That's the quality content I come here for!!!

Looks (Hot, Tall, Body Confidence) Money (Wealthy, Older) Status (Status, Tall, Pre Selected, Older) Game (Good in Bed, Body Confidence, Pre Selected, Independence).

As a 5'4" guy, I can tell you from experience #2 is very true

When I was a kid, I was as skinny as a toothpick. Had girls, all the time. When I was a teen, I got fat, really fat. Empty queue, not a soul interested in me. Got skinny again, then got buff and as ripped as I could be naturally, in college ... Got so much attention that it sickened me, I was so jaded from being invisible when I was fat that I ignored their advances and turned girls down every time I was advanced on with the exception of one I did date briefly. Back to being invisible again these days but, working on myself again and focusing on education. When I was walking to class one day when I was buff I heard a girl go "ooooh," I looked over and she was scanning me, moving her eyes back up to my face, I took that as a sort of wolf whistle... So yeah... when they say they aren't into 'hot' men, maybe they can see past a few flaws, but they are just as hungry for beauty as us. It hurts to know we're all shallow but I suppose for reproductive purposes and ensuring good traits, it's necessary.

“Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create narcissistic women. And, narcissistic women create hard times.”

That last sentence killed me hahaha. "I don't know you, I don't know you at all. I just know women". Once you understand female nature you start to laugh when you see it happening.

I was in a big store today and there were many young women there. Some of them had wedding rings. When I was about to leave a tall, really handsome dude walked in. Suddenly every female eye was aiming at him. Like, literally, every single girl in that store was staring at him. I'm a good looking guy and there were many others there who were just fine, not a single gaze at me. But that model like dude got every eye on him. Guess the girls were aiming for his personality lok

Excellent video, I couldn't agree more. My only criticism is for reason 8 it should have been "older RELATIVE to the female". Most women want to date someone older than themselves, but that doesn't mean the older a man gets the more saught after he is, most men reach their peak looks-wise age 25-29. Nonetheless, great video.

Best ad read ever.

Women are very sensible to social judgement, so her answers will usually be more in tune with what society deems appropriate, virtuous and acceptable than the truth.

There was an interview with an actual relationship scientist on a local German radio once, he was totally non-PC and straight up said that social status is the number one most important thing, by far. And that you can get a higher social status by having a lot of money. He also said that hotness is a bonus but not actually that important.

1. Looks (Money trumps looks) 2. Tall (Wealth trumps height) 3. Good in bed (She will cheat on you with a guy that's better in bed) 4. Wealthy (She's going to cheat on you with a bad-boy) No matter what you have, or what you do, they're always out for better.. If you don't believe me, Brad Pitt John Schneider Will Smith Mel Gibson Paul McCartney Chris Rock If these great men couldn't keep their marriages together, how is the average man going to?

I have some qualitys of your list and it's crazy how women respond to that. I am 1,90m tall, confident do sports and wanna improve my life and create my own life. When I worked in different places some female coworkers came to me and wanted dates or more. Most of them made the first move and it was like an competition for them. Some told me that they hate small guys or "nice guys". The funny thing is that most of those woman behave exactly like the so called "nice guys". They give compliments, visit my workplace etc. That's a really shallow move. I treat them like all the other people here and believe me, if you're taller, groomed, wealthy etc. No matter what you say to them. They want you. For example. My small male coworker made a joke and my female coworkers didn't laugh. A few days later I told the same joke and some of them were laughing and told me I am so funny. Crazy world sometimes. Greetings from Germany 🍻

Alexander, excellent reverse psychology.. most users videos with “list type” click bait, etc, hide the content somewhere in the video and not upfront so typically viewers will start skimming through the video or comments trying to find where it is as oppose to listening to the video. The way you blatantly put it there in the beginning, at least for me, quiets my curiosity and allows to just sit back and fully enjoy the content

I've heard women say things like "I want to tall, confident, handsome man", but even then they usually won't say how they want a man with status. This is an interesting take. Thanks Alexander.

Since you're criticizing women's preferences here, for the most part I agree with your point of view. Women's preferences are various just like for men, not just limiting themselves at the utterly heartfelt ones (just like men are not limiting themselves at just the physical ones). That's indeed bs. The only criticism I'd like to give is: 1. That you seem to have rushed a little bit by putting all those qualities in the same category (preferences). I think there's a fine line between standards (primary attractions) and preferences (secondary attractions). Standards usually are fixed, preferences instead usually are prone to being somewhat compromised when the standards are entirely fulfilled. 2. That women usually don't admit their preferences when they're asked what they're looking for in someone. For the most part, neither women or men state all of their preferences right away, once they're asked what they find attractive in someone. This phenomenon happens more or less equally just as much, for the sake of sounding less superficial or less deep. It's more efficient and convenient for both presenting their standards first to make themselves look better (if their standards are more or less common: a mixture of physical/mental/emotional qualities) and making clear what they're looking for right away. The main difference here is that usually men are able to admit them as they're asked for the second/third time, while for women it takes longer. If I take me as an example, my standards are intelligence, faithfulness, respect, motivation, health, personality, hygiene, good humour, decent looks, family orientation and being supportive. My preferences are a man being tall, hot, wealthy, older, independent, good in bed, dominant, toned, darker, etc. My boyfriend fulfills all of my standards and half of my preferences. I fulfill exactly the same in his case too. None of us wanted to look for all of our preferences as we decided to pick each other nor did we state them right away, because we both knew they're somewhat subordinate. It took me a longer time though to admit mine as we became a couple. But at least for me, it was because I didn't want to make him feel any less. He had no problem in stating all of his preferences the second time I asked him though lol Just giving my two cents here, that's it☺️✌️ (PS: excuse the grammatical mistakes, English isn't my first language😅)

one of the few ads i didn't find distracting but also funny since you tied it back to the topics you talk about high quality women and relating it to the game

LOL I spat out coffee all over my keyboard when that add started. A+

Thank you. I was thinking everything you just said and almost everyone seemed to ignore. I was almost starting to doubt myself if i am actually mad. And then I saw this. Just the truth.

The fact that you put the whole list in the beginning of the video makes someone want to watch the whole video. Nicely done!

i like your personality says she, sitting in porche at hawaai, with a glass of wine, with gucci dress, all provided by him

Women want what the other women want 👍

Wow you're a great guy, putting all the things at first few seconds. This goes to show how honest you are with your viewers. Wish you all success❤️

Kudos for putting the list at the start. I watched the full video, but really appreciate that editing detail 👍

The ending sentence was bang on! "I don't know you at all, I just know women"

Alexander Grace, An Absolute Authority. Great intellect, Great Content.

The 9 qualities men want in women are 1) be virgin 2) be fertile 3) have gorgeous body 4) be excellant cook 5) be obedient 6) be a good housewife 7) be good in bed 8) take care of herself 9) be loyal So ,ladies, if you think you deserve the 2% of all men then fulfill the above requirements.

The more I learn about them, the less I want them unfortunately

Hi guys. Just here for my daily dose of depression. Carry on.

So are all women looking for *THE SAME* man?? No wonder alot are okay being the other woman if the man has the "go to qualities".

It's okay for women to say what they want for a men but if it's vice versa, everyone loses their minds.

All completely true, Alex. Thanks fir ALL your postings. Your videos make me want go to your Patreon.

You're the most straight forward RU-vidr i ever see, alpha af

I can't value your content enough Alex, every video is 2.5% better than the last. Great sponsor video 🤣

that sponsor ad was so well made LOL i admire your effort and humor so much, dude.

1:13 man that was BY FAR the best AD intro ive ever seen on youtube! LMAO The suspense really got me

Don't bother asking women what they want. They don't even know themselves. They only know what they emotionally respond to. Which is usually the bad boy fixerupper.

women: have demi-god-like expectations for how men should be men: *sighs* - pays for escorts without competing against their male peers women: surprised pikachu face

You're the first youtuber I've ever seen put the list in front. Thank you, very cool!

The fact that you put the qualities immediately onto the screen the first few seconds in is literally genius. It was like a hack for My short attention span brain. Although seeming counter intuitive it made me stay longer than I would’ve had, had you not done this. Smart move, smart move

This man stated the nine qualities in the start. Love this guy❤️ Alex really deserves more.

I've turned 46 this year, last girlfriend left me when I was 28, to this day I still have some qualities, women want, I'm independent and old....😂

Your videos are always so well-articulated. I appreciate your work a ton!

Ty man for doing this video!

Not gonna lie... probably the best Ad ever saw on a mobile game, that actually was "connected" with the channel, exceptional choice of words! I didn't thought I would enjoy watching an Ad. :D Hope you got more of those Ads.

Every word in Gold in this video! If you look objectively, the percentage of selfish, and virtue signalling people who are women is extremely high in society right now.

Boy... I'm so glad I have given up on women years ago... Y'all can have em.. I'm totally done

One of your best videos. I subscribed after I watch it & I’m just watching it again now.

Wow, the high level data right up front, I am impressed, instant like. But the follow up content is pure gold.

All that effort just to score some pinata. But you can’t escape the biological drive.

The way you introduced the promo was lit

This is actually really refreshing to get an accurate list.

Women want a guy who is perfect which includes "putting the work in." Well that obviously means she is high-maintenance, so why does she not need to be perfect?

Thank you Alex, you are always a great watch

Thank you for being real..im constantly getting rejected for being 5'5...and every one constantly says that height doesn't matter..thank you for being so honest

I love the way you get to the point. I wish I found this channel much, much sooner.

“Tall” and “Wealthy” needs to be judged by the woman. A woman who is 150cm and a woman who is 190cm tall are going to have slightly different views as to what they consider “tall”. Same for wealth. If she was raised in a large home by the ocean and her parents were in the top 1% of earners then you will struggle to appear wealthy. If she was raised is a middle class home then you could be in the top 20% of income earners and appear to be financially successful. Don’t think you have to be the best of the best just to find yourself a woman.

Women's behavior is the foundation of consumption and thus of the entire economy. Of course, there are also important institutions and powerful groups. But still, it is the basis of all consumption. A German sociologist.

one of the reasons I like your videos is bc they arent click bait and they are right to the point. Keep up brother!

THANKS FOR PUTTING ALL THE IMPORTANT STUFF RIGHT AT THE START, THANK YOU FOR NOT WASTING MY TIME

That sponsor segue haha

I am happy that you are happy in this video.

Gotta appreciate Alexander for the fact that he answers the question of the video right from the start - then gives a thorough explanation to the question - and doesn't drag it out till the end like a ton of others do.

This is 💯% spot on.

Your sponsor message made my day LMFAO !

one of the most useful channels in my list

The sponsor part was gold lol

Keep up the great work Alexander! We dudes need you Bro!

Me, when bars open up again: "Oh hi, let me guess the characteristics of your ex."

Thank you for this objective information. Ignorance is bliss but it can also be deadly. I'm better off hearing some hard truths than being told Pleasant lies.

True. Thank you!

Good list, quite accurate.

As a woman I totally agree with you

Why are women allowed to have so many requirements for mate selection whereas men aren't even allowed by women to have even the slightest demand?

I liked for the sponsor transition. Also, that "cold reading" thing at the end was awesome, lol.

Sensational video!!! Thanks for sharing Alex!

Hi Alexander, Been viewing your content for over a year and it is consistently excellent. I am out of the game now in my early fifties and a happily divorced bachelor but find human relationship dynamics fascinating and your insights are superb. I wish I had this sort of content when I was a young man. I think you could distill this insight into a great book. I would buy it for my young son!

I worry a bit about #5 for myself. I'm 29 and haven't ever been on a date before. While I have decent friendships and family relationships and (at least for someone with autism) have decent social skills, I do worry that the fact I haven't had a date is going to put off quite a lot of women, no matter how well I "better myself." I had a female friend of mine be very upfront with me about older male virgins and how guys like that are inherently "gross" or "broken" in her view, then I revealed that I was one of them and she didn't believe me and was very apologetic about saying it.

Thanks for the list, at the beginning 👍

I apprecheate the first 5 seconds. IT shows that you are not content-baiting. Very good to see

4 AM in USA 🇺🇸 , noti gang

Whenever a woman explains anything the reason is to convince you of how good of a person she is, not to explain the issue.

I'm happy to see, you are finally getting sponsors. May there be more of them.