Most Men Don't Learn This About Women Until It's Too Late 

I think you’re confusing high quality with well-adjusted. High quality women are not “above this”. They are raised or socialized in some fashion to avoid going off the deep end with such behaviors. There is no difference in quality. One woman is more well adjusted than the other. Mistaking that for quality is itself a mistake. This is I n the same fashion as a man who is socialized to be faithful to one woman. That socialization does not remove his biological interest in spreading his seed.

Great video in so many other respects, though, I hasten to add.

Do you get a lot of hate because of your channel ? I can imagine those crazy feminists who never watch any of your videos would basically murder you xD

Good move brother ✅ And I 100% agree with you.

Good stuff man

Key signs of a narcissist. Not you, her.

Dealing with modern women is pretty much like that.

I hear voices in the back...they're screaming..."mysoginist!"😂

Only women are allowed to break up

It's safer to pretend the did they break up. If you can engineer it so she thinks it was her idea, you're home free. But yeah, never go back.

yah looser game

Thats facts, although often times if you leave a girl she will genuinely want you back. But if she gets you back, she will lose respect for you most of the time because you just made a complete 180 on a pretty major decision. This loss of respect almost always manifests in her leaving you or cheating on you later.

​@@callanc3925 This happened to me. I should have never taken her back. I was blamed for all problems, she took her frustrations out on me, and her shortcomings were somehow my fault. When I finally had to discipline her with rules, I believe then is when she began working out a plan to break up with me a second time. That was twelve years ago.

How did you catch her? What other red flags did you ignore because you believed her "at all" lie?

@@williamclayton9566 I went to use her laptop early one morning to look something up on the internet and a half-finished email she was sending to one of them was open. Not platonic. After that I went through her phone. She'd cleaned up after herself mostly, but when you're as invested as I was you find the stuff she missed. And there was a lot, still. Turned out some other guys I'd been concerned about who she'd said had never been boyfriends but 'just friends' were more 'just friends-with-benefits'. I'd been concerned iirc because they were always liking her pics on facebook and instagram. There were a few other red flags, but they were mostly related to specific people and exchanges. I'd just say trust your gut. If you're jealous and you don't have a personality disorder you probably have a reason to be. We're evolved to detect these things. I was very naive and very indoctrinated and I paid the price for ignoring my jealousy. Hard lessons but permanent. And for that at least I'm grateful.

@@williamclayton9566 Another very obvious one was that she was very "private" about our relationship. She would say it was nobody's business but ours and that she didn't want to "jinx" it by announcing it. I was her happy little secret, supposedly. I pushed her hard enough to announce it eventually. I think I had to give her a straight up ultimatum in the end, one I was absolutely willing to stick to. She tried one piss-poor 'announcement' which could've been anyone at all she was talking to, and when I rejected that one and stopped talking to her she got specific. I found out later that she told her various 'friends' that she'd just made it all up to stop guys from hitting on her all the time. I remember even at the time I was thinking to myself that if I had a friend who was telling me this stuff about his girlfriend I'd tell him to break up with her, that she was almost certainly cheating. But she was an unbelievably convincing liar. Near the end I decided to test her on something I'd found in her phone (something I'd just found out which she didn't know I knew yet). I wanted to see if I could detect any kind of tell that she was lying. But there was nothing. Even knowing that she was lying to my face I believed her for half a second. When I looked into her eyes I saw nothing but sincerity and the girl I thought I knew. I don't think lying and manipulation is just a skill for them; I think it's a trait they're evolved to have. We have counter-traits in jealousy and critical thinking, as long as we listen to them.

@@williamclayton9566 Other obvious red flags: tattoos, blue hair, piercings, high body count, scars from cutting, progressive, bi, kink interests. And admitting past cheating. She blamed these on bipolar, which she'd been diagnosed with. She said she'd been on the wrong medication for it but had recently been put on more appropriate medication by a new psychiatrist and had therefore put that other lifestyle behind her. She said she hadn't been sexually active for a couple of years. I knew a bit about bipolar so was willing to believe her. And she really did have a diagnosis for it. But I don't think she really had it. I saw none of the other symptoms of it while I was with her. Antisocial personality disorder and histrionic personality disorder both matched her better. But from my time with her and from everything I've learned since I have two firm convictions: once a cheater always a cheater, and once a slvt always a slvt. There's no such thing as a reformed slvt. Not only have I never met one, but I've never met anyone who's met one. Though I've met plenty of people who know slvts who pretend to be reformed but aren't.

@@williamclayton9566 Sorry, I wasn't intending to drip feed red flags from smallest to biggest. I just don't think of her or the relationship much anymore. I've kept the lessons and left the memories. For a long time that was my whole world just about, I couldn't think of anything else. Now I barely think of her at all. But I do still try to warn guys from time to time to learn from my mistakes, in comments like these. And I think guys are generally getting smarter thanks to the internet generally and manosphere especially. But feminism is absolutely trying to make them dumber.

Period always makes a difference to women. See, fixed that for you😂 thank me later😎

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Thats Gold. I will NEVER Forget that

Shes possible a narcissist. They cant handle beeing cut off

@@George-W-Jenson"Possibly" ??????????

I have a slightly different experience... I left my wife of 15 years, 9 months, and 3 days with our daughter. In the state of NJ, it's 50/50 custody and that is to protect men. What I found weird is the obsession my x has with my dating life. She asks my daughter questions about it. However, unlike my x, I do not discuss who I sleep with to my 16 year old daughter. It's NONE of her business and it's definitely none of either's business. I have have a series of extremely meaningless "relationships" with 23 to 27 year old women over the last year. The women in my family like to ask me questions about my x wife and they seemed surprised I have little to no information. I don't like my x nor the way she lives her life which is why I'm not interested. I often say that I'm NEVER heading back to Shashank!!!

Yep, she's already come to the conclusion of whether she likes you or not. Anything you do will be used to justify that conclusion, so just live your damn life

Yeah, but attractiveness doesnt only express itself in good genetics. Self confidence, humour, being relaxed and seldom showing negative emotions around them should do the trick. If you think youre ugly, women will do the same. If you get frustrated by rejection, women will notice your desperateness.

Oh, and in my opionion the most important fact: try to always ridicule women in a playful manner. Demonstrate their inferiority (even if she is "out of your league" [impossible as you are a man]), but with finesse. They will love you for it

@@justanotherfan7491Yeah that’s almost entirely BS. If you’re physically very ugly then none of those things you mentioned are going to do anything for you. If you’re relatively good looking, then those things simply make you even more attractive. Don’t fall for the BS.

Ignore. Attractive or not. Because they are not the answer to your questions

Maybe, but I don't have the time and will to be someone's monkey. F that. If she's not entertainted, that's her problem. She can leave.

On the money with that statement

There are plenty of women who are like that but why'd you generalize it like that?

@@joshuaicoqnito4445 Plenty? EVERY SINGLE ONE is like that. Unless you expect to find this 1 girl that is magically biiologically different....

@@HyperVegitoDBZ That's simply sexist to say stuff like that and also makes you sound bitter. Yeah, my father's wife and my brother's gf are not acting like that, have their own opinions and values that dont just change through emotions.

LMAO! Women are NOT logical in the least! I had a bunch of female friends who complained about boys, and i came to the same conclusion as you! and like you it went very poorly for me too!

😂😂😂

There are so few eligible men who want a real relationship based in reality. Men have cultivated a lot of bad habits that make realistic relationships impossible.

Just follow 2 rules 1) be polite, honest, & direct. 2) say what you mean, & mean what you say. Or, your words & actions MUST ALIGN. People who matter, don't mind. And people who mind, don't matter. - Dr. Seuss Being this way is simple, though not easy.

Exactly my situation too. Good thing i figured it out pretty fast

People want what they can't have that's why.

@@Userkaf_II like children

I've noticed this too and struggle with it. Why would I want to be around someone I think less of? Yet treating women like less is the only time I have "successful" relationships

💯. I struggle to make sense of it but can’t. It’s really frustrating and part of the reason I gave up.

>divorcee

Height is literally money and vice versa for women. How successful (ie: does it give you an economic advantage, other than time, over other men?) is your business and did you have a business when she left you? Sorry you went through that experience; although your pettiness at the end I think was unwarranted. You may have had other reasons to do so though.

Well she got with guys your height at least twice. Her referring to him as tall guy might reveal something underlying, of course she's attracted to tall dudes. But look at her actions, at least the ones that you know of...

Why wasn't she being shunned?

What kinda business you running my brother?

But the way women deal with reaction, shows how shitty they are. I can't deal with rejection either, I'm a male, instead of being angry and nasty about it, I simply don't acknowledge people anymore. I am so afraid of rejection, that I simply pretend to not care, because it hurts, and people aren't nice to me, my thoughts are very abstract and complicated and people treat that like it's a disease. Literally everyone treats women with so much respect. I have seen so many women laugh at me, when they saw my weakest self, and they love the power it gives them. But I wouldn't be able to do that to another human being, lot of women are spoiled rotten.

@@benegmond6584 yup, people worship women nowadays. You will find someone who enjoys and loves you abstract thoughts :)

lol

I always try to get them to dump me so my property doesn't get vandalized.

Very simple. Many females doesn't want to learn or to develop to a better version of themselves. They usually harm themselves and get outcasted in one way or an other. Their own created misery not our. cut them short early on instead. they are just no quality partners.

Stay safe bro, she aint nice she just puts on a front around people she doesnt have tied up.

Block her number!

Because women are compassionate & very gullible, and that combination makes them a very compliant voter block! Politicians seek the female vote above ALL else!

deep

But once you understand them you will never love them

@@scorpion1828 That's why he said one or the other. If you don''t understand, you can love em, if you do understand them, you can't. Only the high value men can.

@@jamesjennings3108 stay strong my mate and once your boys are old get her out of your life

​@@scorpion1828 Truer words have never been spoken.

Damn man that's true.

You do make a point there. romantic freedom and boundary less options wrecks people.

Fathers have been deliberately kicked out of the home. Fathers give discipline, chastity and prudence. The US has less fathers in children's lives than any other country.

Yeah, it's not a surprise that promiscuous people tend to do a lot of drugs and alcohol, self-medicating themselves.

Bro all this stuff I feel like i only hear in western countries ffs

Terrific Point 🫡 💯

Their illogic is pretty stunning isn't it?

Show interest to get into a relationship. Once in a relationship reduce interest. Adopt IDGAF attitude towards her

Just act like how they think "men" act and you're golden. I mean you'll be acting fake the whole time but meh 🤷‍♂️

Be chad LoL

Just be hot and tall like me bro.

Damned if you do. Damned if you don't.

If you contact her too much, then you're creepy and clingy, if you don't then you're distant and uninterested, either way she'll lose interest, unless you're an Alpha in her eyes, then she'll forgive it anytime and you will have priority

Basically it depends how she feels about you. Women go on their feelings

Better to be the latter than the former! Do you get attention from women? The best way to show a prospective lady your value is through pre-selection (having other women around you)! Once she sees that other women like you and she may have to compete for you, she will esteem you more!

lol

Yeah I've had that. Though it was more of a fake dumping to try to control me. Then she was wanting breakup sex as I ushered her out the door. 😂

They are weak like children. Men don't instinctively bend over 60 women immediately after getting out of a relationship. Only women do this.

Its wild how girls will claim body count doesnt matter but they will attempt olympic level mental gymnastics to come up with reasons to not count dudes.

Extremely well put

This is why women with high body count cannot bond properly with a man in a long term relationship even if that's what she says she wants

Good points. May I add that it spells INSECURITY to worry about gf's exes. I'm friends with my ex husband, but there's no chance I'm getting back into relationship with him.

​@@Epiphany_nz Insecurities can be perfectly valid and nothing to be ashamed of, because they can be an instinctive signal to protect oneself or loved ones against harm. For example, I'd feel very insecure about the prospect of eating feces, because, even though I've never experienced it, my instincts warn me against it. Women will often try to control men through shame by mocking their insecurities in an attempt to emasculate them. But valid insecurities don't make men any less masculine, they just make them smart and unwilling to risk their livelihoods for the benefit of other people who don't really care about what's in their best interest. Men have similar instincts towards promiscuous women and would be very smart to listen to their insecurities. You can tell men you'd never want to go back in a relationship with your exes, but you might be lying, and, even if you aren't, it doesn't mean your past relationships and the experiences that are forever imprinted in your memory won't poison the next one, as I have described in my first post. It doesn't mean you won't go back to them for a night, when your current relationship hits a rock, in a move to boost your low self esteem and mood for example. Good men who are looking to build families through a stable and lifelong relationship won't be willing to risk it all on women with promiscuous pasts.

And then they realize at 30: "Now I know what I want in life! A husband with the best qualities of all of my exes in one person!"

Exactly, whenever he describes high quality women it's like the unicorn that jumps over the moon at night, who has EVER seen it?

Only low quality women get dumped by men anyway.

@@moneylineparlay105 Every woman I have ever met insisted she was a high quality woman, so does that count? LOL

Women are so solipsistic, self-centred, entitled and egotistical that they think that the "bad boy" is either willing to change his ways/attitude just for her (because she is SO special; right?) or that she can somehow change him into what she thinks he should be.

​@@JJ-wi2uw and if she succeeds in landing him then what does she do? dGrape him because he's now "boring" and no longer the man she fell for

On so many levels knowing Patrice. What an OG

Not necessary. Many women are attracted are bi and some are lesbian

Unless you look for high quality people, though sounds like it's hard to find that in the west eh 💀💀. So shallow, so prone to their base irrational desires and instincts, it's a shame. Countries with stricter cultures don't suffer through this for a reason, it's alot more, ironically civilized I feel like. Knowing that the US is THE developed country.

​@@technoloverish How does mentioning this solve anything?

Women are attracted to men with rebellious tendencies, and there is a scale to that, and yes women are attracted to power because it's something they naturally don't have, not the way men do. The Bible forewarned all men of this... Eve wanted the power and knowledge the fruit would grant her, and she chose the rebel(Satan) to get what she wanted, instead of listening to her husband(Adam) which eventually fell because of his wife. Think about it bro...

​@@Userkaf_IIive been saying this for the past few months myself. The bible warned us of actual female nature.

Getting a vasectomy is borderline gay. Sounds like you were the 3rd wheel

That's not the main problem. The main thing guys have to be worried about now is the INFINITE and INSTANT options on her cell phone, either from dating apps or social media. 95% of mere mortals can't compete with that kind of competition.

You both make valid points

​@@BrokeCanadian haha, goes for both genders, but yes, more attention for women than ever before in history, all at the press of a button really. I think that in this day an age, a 'unicorn' woman would be one that doesn't use social media or have a smart phone.

So date younger women, if they are not interested due to your height, your lack of money, or most like your lack of game skill, go where the competition greatly skewed to your favor, get a passport

Travel to Thailand or the Philippines. It's a game changer. But remember, they are still women. But at least their juice is worth the squeeze. Since I've been to Thailand this year, I look at dating differently. I'm 60 years old and divorced. Most women have high body counts these days. So I pay upfront. Beautiful message girls in Manhattan. I've been with more beautiful young women this year than in my whole life combined. I just work and save for my next trip. I'm going back to Thailand the last weeks of February.

and they change those thoughts / expectations back and forth on whims .. and don't remember any of those changes

That's what players are to. You just need to channel it correctly.

@@gentlebabarian be the player? not worth it

Heels are not for their height. It makes them look vulnerable and uncomfortable which men are attracted to. It mimics the Damsel in distress situation. It also makes their ass look a certain way.

Their ass looks differently in heels. Triggers primal feels in men.

It tightens up the calves, thighs and ass by forcing the associated muscles taunt. It's like a magic trick really, an illusion. And the vulnerability is like cat nip to men. I like everything about them but think about it, it's like modern day foot binding.

High heels make their ass sway more when they walk.

I think it's because it opens the door to taller men. If her reference is a 5'7 guy because she's short, by wearing heels her new reference is automatically going to be taller

I've heard that women look at men much in the same way men look at nature/reality around them. A man is always looking for the best environment for him, the one that's conducive enough so he's safe, but also challenging enough so he's motivated to strive for the best version of himself. And he always derives greatest pleasure/fulfilment from "civilizing" or "conquering" the "roughest/toughest" environnement, thus validating his competence as a man. Now, consider a reasonably competent and successful man (in most areas of life) who has one thing, one task/challenge-perhaps from when he was younger and more unsure of himself-where he FAILED woefully. That challenge/task, which may be as trivial as riding a wild horse 🐎 successfully, will HAUNT him. It would have a "special place in his heart", regardless of all the other objectively more impressive tasks he's completed successfully (e.g climbing Mount Everest, creating a good family, or nurturing a successful company. If that man is on the verge of sealing a big-money deal for his company, and a time-sensitive opportunity to ride that darned horse 🐎 shows up at the same time. Well, you'd better believe he'd be TEMPTED to "risk it all" to ride that horse 🐎 one more time. Whether or not he does make that seemingly rash decision, depends on how much growth and self-reflection he's undergone in the meantime. Now consider a woman in the same scenario, with a guy she never "conquered", bearing in mind that "self-reflection" isn't exactly a woman's strong suit. All of a sudden, this phenomenon might make a lot more sense to you.

I think this is because they are spoiled to the core and can't stand the fact that someone dumped them. Simply because of this day and age and how degenerate and weak people are.

A man who wants to gain power over a woman must follow the example of women and condition his sex drive. If he succeeds in becoming as cold as she, she can no longer bait him with sex into the role of provider. At most she could offer herself as an equal sex partner, as dependent on him as he is on her. If men could abstain from sex at judicious intervals they might even succeed in normalizing the female sex drive - even make women desire them more than the other way around. Esther Vilar

@@mathiaslimbodal667 Well this goes to the root of the general imbalance in sexual dynamics between the two sexes since indeed in the conditions of deregulated sexual market place women having on average 10 times lower libido than males have a massive advantage. However, it is not practical to advise "abstinence" to men. Men do have an extremely high sexual desire (unseen in almost all other mammals) and for them to achieve "coolness in abstinence" requires monk-style spiritual work which can only be performed by a tiny minority of men who may as well go full-time spiritual and abstain altogether like true monks do. Abstinence or other solutions such as pornography cannot be a wholesome solution. The only way for men to gain the upper hand is the usage of prostitutes and the circumstantial engagement only with non-prostitutes where the situation favours them (e.g. a woman that actively seeks the man, puts him on the pedestal etc.). By satisfying their libido through prostitution men are far less controlled by their libido and thus can see clearer the situation around them and the extent that a specific woman is willing to interact with them sexually without applying the usual luring tactics of throwing money ( = > which anyway is akin to prostitution). Remember that when Solon took up power in Athens, the first reform he did was on prostitution : he regulated it and promoted it all while legally punishing pre-marital and extra-marital affairs of any kind among men and women of "citizenry" (i.e. women of citizen fathers were banned from sex outside marriage and any man was banned from approaching them sexually). It seems that 200 years later and a 100 years into Democracy, the city of Athens reverted on these laws and thus Plato was re-proposing the same regulations again in his later and most prominent work that conveyed his personal opinions rather than those of others.

Intuitive economics i guess. You can't buy something therefore it must be of high value therefore you absolutely must get it because high value correlates with high quality generally at least. And sometimes value is confused with utility

I think because really the guy who took her virginity should've been her husband. Now everytime she gets dumped that sense of self worth diminishes bit by bit

Rejection breeds Obsession

That's why you want a woman with the least exes if possible, otherwise she'll stack you up against a huge array of experiences and you'll most likely lose

he is inside your walls

​@@fatfingersman It's an inside job 😂

It was planned

Women never spend enough alone. In fact, they normally get a new man before dumping the old man.

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Big facts !

Good man

Precisely. Them wimmin will always bring it to a lose-lose situation.

LMAO! amen

You didn't listen properly. That's for LOW quality women. Those women have insecurities about themselves that make them think that way. High quality women don't think that way about themselves

Yes the extent to which they favor a man being tall and having a new car versus meaningful measures of value is absurd.

k bro

Keep a girl but don't be in love and don't be attached. Gotcha. That's what "relationship" is today. It's worse than keeping a pet dog or a mule 😂

You must lie a lot, lie like a friggin' rug.