The Art Of Ignoring Women 

I'd like to add, don't ignore them just to ignore them. Actually keep yourself busy. Workout, study, take care of yourself. You can be so much more productive when not answering texts all day.

As a somewhat older guy, I can attest that this is 100% true. Ignoring women and the ability to walk away from a relationship is a man's greatest leverage with women.

You don't need to ignore women....just don't put any woman on a pedestal. Put yourself, your goals and your purpose on a pedestal.

If she doesn’t find you attractive ignoring her does nothing.

Ignoring women is easy, especially if they are very beautiful. I ignore them because i know they would reject me and i dont want to give them the joy of embarrassing me.

I ignored her and she ignored me back. We haven't talked in over a year.

Don't forget to be tall, handsome, wealthy, and have status.

This is 100% on point lol. I kinda liked one woman, had a crush on her, so I tried so much to talk to her even when I felt she was ignoring me. No worries, after a bit I began talking to literally every other girl there but her. Not to get at her, but because she showed she's not available. Boy did that do something to her, she's now trying so hard to talk to me now, even sent me a request on Instagram (which I ignored lol). You lost your chance and I'm no longer interested in talking to you.

I mean, this is why I dropped out of the dating scene. A lot of modern women are insane narcissist that ironically, like being ignored and abused. When in college, I'd have women compliment me for my intelligence, and I'd tell them how grateful I am and what a considerate comment it was, compliment them back, and they'd lose interest and say they never give their number out to any men. Next week, I'd see the same woman complimenting a guy saying how smart he is and he basically just said "Yeah, whatever, you're actually just too stupid to keep up with me" and she immediately broke out laughing and begged him to give her his number, lmao. For some reason, modern women think "busy and uninterested" means husband material, and "kind and thoughtful" means creepy loser. No wonder they end up with abusive relationships 90% of the time.

When she mistakenly believes that I want something from her, I remove all my attention. Funny how they eventually always come back to beg for it.

I have 4 sisters. I learned this over 50 years ago. And yes, being ignored by women is pure bliss.

3:26 Men are super well aware that we're different from women. It's WOMEN who struggle with this concept.

When you ignore her, you will find out whether she cares about you or not. Either she will endlessly try to regain your attention or you won’t hear from her again. Either way, you win! So just keep busy by focusing on yourself, your studies, work ethic and goals for the future and the right person will see your potential without you having to convince or express yourself to be in someone’s life.

Similar to the no-contact rule which is a game changer and something all young men should be made aware of. I have found ignoring women works very well for getting them interested - the problem is I'm ignoring them *because* I'm not interested.

I had a girl tell me I didn't contact or write her enough. She said that if I wanted the best from her, I had to write her ever day. So I did the opposite: I completely ignored her. She came back, started writing me, and became more affectionate. Always do the opposite of what women tell you they want from you.

I chased after a girl for years... then just ignored her, met someone else, and got engaged... then she started to be interested in me, but it was too late... really sucks 'cuz she was the one I wanted all my life... just didn't work out that way. Last year, my relationship ended... almost a year later, when I'd been sure I was over my ex, I tried calling that same girl... to see if she was interested in meeting up for coffee. No answer. Ah well.

They think you’re paying attention to them anyway. That’s how self-important they are. If you even speak to one you don’t know, in their minds you’re hitting on them. It’s the funniest sh!t I’ve ever seen.

True story.... So I was at a bar sitting next to this smoke show 9/10. I start talking her up and she basically talks about herself for 20 minutes. She's talking about banging her BFs roommate, doing drugs and stuff like that. Total narcissist. She never once asked me anything...not my name or what I do or anything! I got to the point where I couldn't take it anymore so I just turned my chair and faced the other direction. She got noticeably pissed about it and made that disgusted exhaling sound and left soon after. So shortly after that some dude comes over and taps me on the shoulder. He said, "Hey, do you see those two across the bar?" He was pointing at this unattractive red head chick and some nerdy guy. I thought to myself "great...he's gonna set me up that red head chick." He said "that's my wife over there." I was like "uh, ok?" He said "that guy sitting next to her wants to know if you wanna go on a date with him?" I said "HUH? Dude I'm not gay!" He said "Sorry man! We weren't implying anything but we noticed you completely ignored that hot chick so we thought you might be gay." I said "No! She was a total B so I just ignored her!" We all got a laugh out of it.

Considering I spend all my time on camping & fishing trips, plus enjoying my hobbies and having total peace & quiet in my life, it is very easy for me to completely ignore all women.

Ignoring girls only works if you're on her radar to begin with. If you're not an attractive guy she doesn't even know you exist. She doesn't even know you're ignoring her because you don't even exist in her mind. If you're not an attractive guy the better thing you can do is tell her no if she asks you to do something for her.

I did this 2 days ago when my girlfriend broke up with me after an arugment. I never pleaded nor called or texted persistently. I asked her if we could work things out, but she blocked me right away and I kept my silence. I gave her the breakup that she wanted. A day and a half later she unblocked me and wanted me back... so yeah, doing the "no contact" approach or by selectively and/or periodically ignoring women, you do regain a lot of power and you keep your dignity intact. No real man disrespects himself and pleads.

Gives women attention: "This guy is desperate" Ignores women: "This guy lacks confidence" Can't win bro, can't win.

I did this 2 days ago with mine, and today I randomly came across this video, and it is HITTING. I can 100% confirm that this is the biggest and most relevant power you have in a relationship. You can't be abused, manipulated or taken advantage of if you don't engage. Simple as that.

I work In a warehouse so it like 90% men, we got a new female worker the other day, and we were all sitting in the break room where it's normally quiet with just us guys and this girl was acting like we were breaking the law by not talking lol . She kept asking "it's awkward in here, it's too quiet", keep in mind there was nothing awkward going on we were just minding our own business eating and looking at our phones etc... literally every 10 minutes she would say it's quiet , someone ended up saying "yeah it's nice and peaceful, relaxing", she looked at him as if he were an alien. At that point I realized women are wired differently.

Feeling compassion for a woman when the tables are turned on her is like picking up and feeling compassion for a snake hibernating in the cold. The moment conditions are right and it warms up; it will not hesitate to bite you even though you meant it no harm. It's simply their nature. Give them the chance to learn from their mistakes, it builds character. If they can't learn from their mistakes, too bad, so sad.

Another thing about ignoring women is it works better, even sometimes only if you're a high value guy. If your a nobody last thing she wants is your attention. Alex said that himself in his video about "why are women so cruel when rejecting men".

Ignoring them is the absolute best way to keep your sanity, and self control....

Being ignored as a man is not so bad, it's familiar territory 😅

I remember a video Alex made saying the best way to with someone cheating on you is to completely ignore them. My friend was recently cheated on I directed him to that video. His ex has since gone from being cocky and unapologetic to losing her mind, it's scary how affective it is. You're saving lives Alex lol

I learned to ignore women after decades of being ignored by them.

I just ignore woman to keep being out of trouble, my life is full of peace and I don't want to give that up, solitude and ignoring toxic people is something i became addicted to.

I'm 49 years old. I only learned this in 2017. I don't think that women born before 1990 were this insecure. I just don't recall women getting upset at me ignoring them before 2010 or so. I wonder if social media is partly a factor?

There's one text that says this, "Do not give your vigor to women, Nor follow ways that destroy kings." Proverbs 31:3 Lesson? Don't throw away your time, energy, and too much of your efforts into pleasing women, but rather stay on the path that builds you and seek the things that add value to your life. Keep your crown kings 👑 ✊🏼

Alex is a lifesaver. I was just looking to learn about not giving women validation.

Some thing to add to this. Ignoring women is even more effective the higher on the SMV scale they are above you. If a 5 woman get ignored by chad, she can get over that because deep down she knows shes shopping out side her price range. If a 7 woman gets ignored by someone she sees as below her, it really bugs them. Im a high5/low6. I see these woman all the time at the gym. They are good looking and they want every mans eyes on them. It very obvious when they are going out of there way to put them selfs in my line of sight. Now dont get me wrong, i know these women aren't interested in me, but they are interested in my thirst. They love it when the can hold their sexuality over a "lesser mans" head. When a 5 like me denies them a stare that they are expecting, they walk away super deflated. This is atleast a weekly occurrence at the Planet Fitness i go to. Frankly, i dont think most women really go to the gym to work out. If you look at the effort they put into the exercises they do, its very minimal compared to what the men are doing. Ignoring women dosnt really get the average man dates, or sex, or affection or what ever from women........but it does knock them off their high horse a bit.

It only works, if you pretend that you are half-assed interested in her, just to grab her attention a bit and then show her absolute indifference. If you are totally invisible to a woman, you'll stay invisible to her, no matter how much you try to "Ignore" her.

It only bothers her if she is being ignored by the top tier men.

Talk to multiple women at once, it makes it much easier to ignore one of them then

Remember this does not always mean you getting her attention back. Sometimes they get so angry that youll never hear from them again or a really long time no contact. So be prepared.. this is for strong men that have options.

So true, a girl that rejected me last year when I showed her interest was so desperate for attention when our paths crossed again at the gym two weeks ago, she started walking in front of me, stretching right next to me, started working out next to me for no reason, followed me in the gym for a bit. I just ignored her and minded my own business finishing my workout. She's got a boyfriend too, poor guy really, girls are so desperate for male validation...

I don't want to be the center of anything. I want to be LEFT ALONE and live my only life in peace and quiet.

ignoring and using the word "NO" is really effective in dealing with women ....

unrelated to dating market, but i learned to stop reacting to people who ignore me, happened so many time that i stopped caring, literally.

I was use to being ignored by women and then I had a post high school glow up. I would target girls who I considered on my level and started to notice more attractive women noticing me and responding to me. It's a weird game. I've realized women's entire world revolves around their relationships and status.

This only works if the woman is already attracted to you, like you said. And I agree that men have to be a LOT more selective about whom they give attention to, and how much of it. In general, men give WAY too much attention to women, whether it’s to compliment them, help them, or comfort them. If men had more restraint and weren’t such simps, the gender dynamics would be better balanced in the dating market.

I work at a university here in Japan and one of my female co-workers was essentially testing to see how I would respond in certain situations in a rather annoying manner. I'm just there to do a job, so within the first month I just resorted to ignoring her. She tried to hold a Zoom meeting with me wherein she would try to get to the bottom of what I was doing, but the ignoring continued. Now for a bit of context, I'm the youngest person and am also the only single guy amongst a staff that is about 70% female (mostly single). I can't say that this is a contributory variable for certain, but she's now quitting.

The women who were obsessed with me the most were the women I wouldn’t commit to. I still gave them meaningful attention and made them feel special when I wanted to but they knew I was making other girls feel special too, then I would forget they exist. I wasn’t ignoring them on purpose, I just simply didnt feel like talking to them so I didn’t. They would then go out of their way to be in my presence and to get my attention, so I entertained it almost as a reward for her. I also very rarely complimented them, if ever. You gotta make them earn it. This only works if theyre attracted to you or your personality in some way. I was basically bullying them in a fun way or making them laugh and sometimes being genuinely sweet. You cant ever let a woman feel like shes above you or she wont respect you.

When I hear women try to mock the “fragile male ego” I am totally amused by the nonsense of that statement. A woman’s ego can be shattered so easily and so effortlessly in a fraction of a second. We learn this truth at a very early stage of our lives (our teenage years).

I have no problem ignoring women i do it pretty much all the time.

It's always so pathetic to me to see how much validation my gf thinks she needs in order to walk through life with an ounce of confidence. She tells me things about what her friends say about me as if it's big news. "My boss saw photos of you on IG and said she thinks you're stylish." And then she gets upset if I'm not over the moon about her saying that. I spend a copious amount of money on clothes and looking good. So I'm aware I look stylish because I think I look stylish. I don't need to hear it from anyone else, nor do I really care to.

100% true, all the women I ignored and rejected became insecure and obese.

Being ignored is probably the single easiest way to mess with my head. Otherwise I’m left overthinking about why I’m being ignored. The lack of knowledge is extremely discomforting. And not receiving attention in reciprocation is itself a disappointment.

It’s true. In a different case, I’m a woman that work among 80% women. I’ve been at this place for 10 years, I’ve seen people talk behind peoples back and so on. To stay in my lane I ignore most of them especially when they try to start gossiping (I understand some gossiping is healthy) but I just want to be left alone. Just the past year I realized some of them wants my validation and it’s obvious. I’m sarcastic and when someone bothers me I speak to them right away, and the rest of the time I ignore them… it’s crazy honestly… because now they bug me more for attention. So yeah it works.

I'm not one to ignore women, especially the ones I love, being obsessive. But each time I ignored a woman, whether it was my girlfriend, or otherwise, it worked all the time. Always.

As a girl, I think this video is extremely important because you are 100 percent right. Sadly. It is difficult to get a relationship going, with toxic people until they actually see their mistakes and that they are in the wrong. Its like treating and raising an animal lmao. Give them validation and attention when they are being "a good girl" ofc in the right situations. THAT is the reality for most women.

Another bonus of doing this: Peace and quiet, and ... as a result = lack of drama

You forgot to mention that women only care that you ignore then when they are INTO YOU. If they don't have feelings for you they couldn't care less about being ignored. I've ignored girls that don't like me for months and they seem unaffected, but girls who DO Like me will always come back and ask why I'm ignoring them or get upset. So guys, if the girl isn't slightly into you don't think she'll become attracted to you just because you're ignoring them. You'll be waiting for months like an idiot until you realize she couldn't care less.

Its easy to ignore women that you dont know, its called "the art of not looking at them"...

What is common may be easily ignored and dismissed. What is uncommon demands our attention. It's like that old phrase "If you want to capture someone's attention, whisper".

This is so true. I had a friend who was talking about having a crush on someone. So everyone was asking who he was and she wasn't answering. I saw through her attention seeking and just said "Nice". She came after me later saying "sorry", "I don't want you to hate me. I was truly surprised by the behaviour but it all makes sense now

I’ve been red pilled for about 2-3 years and have been using this technique ever since. It always works.

I haven’t watched this video yet, but I can already tell you this is the most accurate thing I’ve heard

I once had a woman give me the silent treatment. She told me about it a few months later. I guess I never realized it was happening.

The fact that my girlfriend made a mistake just 30 minutes ago and I started ignoring her immediately, and then she started scrambling for ways to contact me in any way shape or form and THIS video pops up... hoo boi. This is too good to be be ignored, the timing is just perfect. I'll ignore her for as long as I can so she realize the weight of her mistake. *(Her Mistake: She made a prank of her cheating on me. Yeah... NOT FUNNY)*

Sometimes when I have a bad day, my fiancée asks me what's wrong. Usually, it seems, I'm really talkative (in her estimation - she's really introverted), and when I'm not, something is off. After this video, I guess the reason why she even noticed it that intricately is that she felt ignored by that. And the feeling of being ignored is quite hard on her.

Don’t completely ignore her. Acknowledge her, make eye contact, give her the nod up with your head to non verbally say “hey” then direct your attention to someone else and then leave. I guarantee you she is watching you walk away

Thank you for being willing to put "toxic femininity" into words.

I had a friend in high school who was a master of this. When one of the pretty girls said something to him he'd chew on the tip of his thumb, turn away, and make a sort of "pih" sound, like he was blowing whatever he'd chewed off of his thumb into the wind. Then he'd turn back to them, no rush, and say something like "I guess." I, foolishly, talked to them and was truly interested in whatever they were saying. Unsurprisingly (in retrospect) they had no use for me, but practically hung on my friend's every word. He also insulted them pretty liberally. He and I were about the same in physical attractiveness; neither ugly nor particularly handsome, but my friend got no shortage of female attention. This was about 40 years ago, for what it's worth.

I find this only works when you're the desired one. Even then I've known some women who will be petty and prideful enough to date someone else to get you jealous or they'll find someone else that looks like a discount version of yourself. Frankly I'm over the games and people not being honest with themself or me. I'll put in just as much effort as the woman but I won't chase, I'm not a dog and that won't win my respect. So when I move on they usually get shitty because I didn't play the game or treat them like a "Queen".

My father in law told me right after I married his daughter (I didn't have a dad around in my life) that I'll know I'm a man when I learn how to ignore women and when to be quite. I already wasn't a talkative or chatty person so it confused me a bit. I struggled with it but I did eventually understand what he was telling me. RIP Bob. You are sorely missed. Edit - 25 years of marriage so far. Ignoring is really powerful but DON'T take it too far.

Good guy...same here in Germany, I can confirm everything you said. Keep on informing the rest of us.

I cannot really believe that men in cavemen days were out alone. Imagine doing this today in North America. There are bears that can and will rip you in pieces. Still, if a group of men are out hunting for days, they won't have any contact with women.

This is 100% true My neighbor is used to turning heads The men in the street do what they can to pander to her and some are outright simps going out of their way to do things I ignore her and it eats her alive It does have it's drawbacks though, she doubles down on getting my attention, deliberately calling my name and waving when she sees me or she does obvious things like taking the trash out multiple times when I'm working outside in the yard I don't do it to be mean, she's a nice enough person, I'm just genuinely uninterested in her and frankly I'd rather not play those stupid validation games they love to play Plato mentioned something about no longer being driven by sexual urges and desires and the peace it brings, I'm beginning to understand just what he meant A bit like the movie a beautiful mind when John Nash decides that no one should go for the pretty blonde

Totally agree with this, and when I was single, I would do this. It works. Hot chicks expect attention, and wear it as a mark of pride when they get it. Deprive them of that attention and make them feel ignored, and it drives them nuts. They become interested in you and don’t realize it.

I tried that strategy once on facebook. A woman who would always post a pic. All them men who say beautiful. I simple said neutral comments to her. Like " oh, ok" or " why don't you ever smile in any of your pics?". For some reason i was the one she would respond to. One day she said why don't you ever have anything positive to say? Hmm. That was funny to me because I never dissed her ( i dont praise her either). I only typed back to her with neutral comments. Eventually she just blocked me. Lol.

You can love women or you can understand women; but you can't do both.

It's a common debate I have with a friend of mine; I think ignoring women works only when they are interested in you from before. Otherwise, they're more than happy for you to ignore them.

Yes guys, 100 percent true. Her fake disgust with you, and created drama, and princess b-c-h-i- ness, etc is all an act, to throw you off. Let her know. She doesn't have an audience with you.

My ex tried to threaten me with ending the relationship. I told her calmly and cold: Alright, go ahead. She never dared to. At the end I ended it one day because I was tired of her BS.

One thing, most quality women don’t need reassurance. It’s only the low quality incapable of critical thinking women who need it the most. Don’t ignore quality women, she will simply ignore you back👌🏼

I've seen this manifest in female managers. Every customer feedback is taken by the word no matter how absurd it is, leading to micro managing! They are simply not confident and are quick to shift blame. You're a manager, you need to protect ur team, be someone your employee can look upto. Instead of leading by example, they cry about how tough things are and how everyone is out to get them. They are literally undoing their own life's work. Talk about irony😅

Reckon that depends on the woman and the relationship you have with the woman. In some cases ignoring will just land you in a 17 hour argument.

I tried this yesterday to my wife after we have a fight, i ignore her for a whole day. And in the evening when i got home from work she's waiting for me right in the frontdoor and the moment i enter our bedroom she almost cried while apologizing and hugging me. It hurts me to ignore her for a whole day, but she have to learn the hard way or otherwise she wont learn to say sorry. I know some people may say that i have stupid man's pride, but its not about our pride, but about saying sorry when you make mistake.

Love doesn't exist... what exist is a need of validation, the obsession of that dependency is what we call "love", but it isn't love at all, it is just validation. Love for woman is the chase for the reward, love for men is the reward itself. (They are not the same and should have their own respective words)

This is so true. Ignoring them eats them up from the inside.

I have had two breakups where it wasnt even my fault. Ignored and blocked both. They still miss me 😂

When I ignore women, they in turn ignore me. I've never in my life had a situation where I've successfully dated a woman by ignoring them first, and I've definitely tried that a bunch of times. Slow replies, not initiating conversations once we've started chatting, literally pretending like they don't exist when you're at social events etc. None of it really works. I think it simply comes down to whether the woman finds you attractive to begin with. You don't really have control over that the way you think you do, but you know almost instantly whether a woman is actually interested or not because they will genuinely try to make conversation. It's just rare because of rampant hypergamy in modern dating.

I remember one of my exes was about to explode after ignoring her. for me the relationship was over, and I was not ignoring her to piss her off or something, I just wanted her to leave, she meant nothing for me at that time. she started using different techniques to get my attention just as you said, sending me her pictures with flirty lines and I respond with a like emoji, then start roasting me and criticizing my haircut n I also respond with a like emoji. she literally started begging me to say anything anything, even roasting would be better than the damn like emoji, she did not get a single word from me tho, yet followed me for days.

Ignore her and silent treatment. Having 5 sisters and a Mom can confirm. You won’t convince them with logic if they won’t listen with an open mind.

Ignoring women for me, just made them ignore me even more.

I worked with a girl who didn't believe I liked her because she thought I am gay, so I moved on and her and some of our co workers claim I am gay for not asking her out. I feel like ignoring her drama made me dodge an Amber Heard scenario.

The funniest thing you can do as a man, is to deny women sex .... they are really not wired to get rejected... specially not on sex... you can almost see it in her eyes... she is having a meltdown. ha ha ha...... as comedian said "it is like her brain is saying.... wh... whaa... whaaaat did the man say?"

Greetings from Spain. I have asked a few women why they go out with their boyfriends. They usually respond something like “he makes me feel like a queen”, “he makes me feel comfortable”. Some of them are excited about making a family. On the other hand, when I ask the same question to men, they usually underline some qualities of their girlfriends. Not necessary their beauty, maybe their character, feminity, intelligence, etc. so that they feel attracted to these characteristics and want to be with them. At the end, all the attention is focused on women. This fact is also mentioned in books on the topic, such as “Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus”. Men give and women receive. At least at the beginning of the relationship. Once there are children, the story changes. Both parents must give, this time, to the children.

There was this one girl who use to work where I worked she was kinda cute I guess but I wasnt really looking for a relationship, she was a couple years younger than me, she was a tall blonde girl. Anyways she would not stop staring at me like no lie every time I was around her she would stare at me and it kind of made me uncomfortable keep in mind we didnt talk that much she was overall friendy but I didnt know her that well this went on for months anyway long story short I was at a self checkout (I work at a grocery story) and in the corner of my eye I see her staring at me of course I ignored her as usual and she walked off like she was pissed. Anyway I end up seeing her a few weeks when shes shopping and she acts like shes about to be ran up by me and then when she "notices" its me she rolls her eyes and went to someone else probably thinking she got me good lmao the sad part is she would walk in to shop and walk by me striding her hand threw her hair like shes a 10 lmao dont get me wrong she was a cute kid but she wasnt anywhere near as cute as she thought she was. She ended up quitting around this time. Keep in mind im 6'2 decent looking with a nice physique so I can do better. This happened about a year ago but still makes me laugh at how petty and narcissistic women can be.

Mate this works like a treat i was talking to this girl for ages and could feel her slipning away, ghosted her for 2 days and now it's back on track

As a man I feel an intense need for social validation as well / can’t stand being alone or ignored.

Yes. One should not forget what I call ASIA, the Attention and Self Interest Agenda, that motivates all women every day. It is not the only thing that drives them of course, but it is there, to a lesser or greater extent, all the time.

He is 100% correct! I got dumped by video call. My response to her was 'I respect your decision. Take care'. In a calm manner. With that I ended the call. Honestly, you could have seen the look of shock on her face! Minutes after, this chick sent me a text insulting me, my house, bathroom and all. Then she blocked me! 😅

"At least you have some peace and quiet." ... GOOD ONE. ... I LOVE IT.... Made me laugh out loud.

Finally I see a video that talks about this topic, I have been applying it for a few years in a conscious way and it has helped me feel better about myself. Good stuff.