Calling Brokeback Mountain a “non-woke” movie when its entire message is that suppressing your emotions and identity will only leave you isolated and scarred is just wild
They have no idea what woke actually means. They probably liked Brokeback Mountain because the gays were miserable like they're supppsed to be, and obviously didn't get anything else out of it.
I wouldn't be surprised if by "non-woke" the poster means that they're traditionally male presenting, without colourful hair and such. (The "meme" at 22:07 shows what I mean.)
@@prageruwu69 This makes me think: Is sonic the hedgehog the most woke character in fiction? (I already know the answer, He is, and thus, he's peak fiction.)
It's projection. The bloke with the fear of gay men looking on him with lustful eyes probably sees women as nothing more than sexual objects & judges them on how "hot" he thinks they are.
I was a trans lesbian even as a child. I don't think my existence was age inappropriate but being treated like my identity was inappropriate did lifelong harm.
@JuicyUTTP what the actual fuck is wrong with you. SH is not a joke or to be taken lightly. its a serious issue and is FUCKING DANGEROUS. please seek help.
@JuicyUTTP AAAAWWWWWW, thank you! I always wanted to be "the physical manifestation of sensory perception." Now all I have to do is figure out what that means and I'll be a real woman.
I often think about this when I see these toxic masculine types. All of them would get their butt kicked by most guys from the 1600's who wear wigs, high heels and powder their faces. These guys would think manly men today are complete women for not being able to ride a horse.
In retrospect, the Mystery Inc Velma seems to come off as a lesbian overcompensating by trying to turn Shaggy into the person she would have an attraction to. Velma: "Why, yes, I'm totally really straight, and I definitely would kiss this very straight man! Alright, Shaggy, clean yourself up, and stop saying like, and maybe... put on this wig and call yourself Marcie? For totally not-lesbian reasons."
*Literally just one person of any group who is marginalized* Literally just a bigot: "THEY'RE TRYING TO CANCEL STRAIGHT WHITENESS!!!! THEY'RE GOING TO TRANS THE KIDS, NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
People bitching at Riot Games for their lgbt stuff at both ends. The whole reason they removed lgbt characters from the game is cause a Chinese company bought them, now they are adding them back and people are upset because omg the gay couple from 15 years ago is gay again.
The same people who are hating on queer pride and saying that being prideful is sinful are the same people who say that they're proud to be an American.
About the shielding kids from LGBTQ It's funny because I grew up with a homophobic father, and I'm still bi. I haven't told him, but my mom supports me.
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My mtf son has a Satanic Temple sticker on the iPad he takes to school. I had to drop it off at school and explained to the admin that the ST is a great organization. Supporting LGBTQIA+ rights, pro-choice, and removing religious mandates from laws and schools.
Meanwhile bigots to their baby son dribbling on his baby rug whilst staring blankly in the distance, whilst their friend's baby daughter is doing the same next to him: "oh, aren't you the little womaniser?🥺 You'd make such a cute couple!🤩" That sexualisation of toddlers is more worrying in my book, but that's just me.😅
Legit they say that gay people force agenda on children when the straight people literally do that And worse sometimes with direct comments toward their young teen or teenage kids in general making them VERY uncomfortable Bonus poop points if that kid is uncomfortable with their assigned gender That kind of stuff makes people feel like they have no power especially when the comments are coming from a figure who is supposed to love and protect them, not traumatize them before sending them off into the world that will likely treat them worse
Honestly, for a homophobic website survey to say that 16% of them support, id take that for a win. Thats like saying 16% of people born in cults have a mind of their own and every little bit of free thinking counts.
Does being born in abusive, conservative, homophobic, political and criminal family, with having to undergo their religious education from the age of 5 until the age of 19-20 counts? Add political influences of the group and popularity of the usage of criminals (including exorcists)
@@zuzannanowicka6348 definitely, cults are more common then people think. Cult mentalities exist in way to many groups, both political, social, and of course religious. The cult of personality is definitely not just a great song.
@@demonheart13 yup exactly There are so many different forms cults can take Not just the classic meme cult stuff Cults literally direct how a person lives and behaves for their entire lives, harsh discipline usually follows when a member does not practice the belief exactly as expected To summarize cults are usually started from religious beliefs but it turns into a way to control people to fit the leader's version of the religious beliefs If it's a belief and that you can live a normal life with the rest of society, it's a religion If the practices and discipline for not following the practice are harsh and they have to live in an altered reality from the rest of society then they're likely a cult I used to live in an area where there was a church that claimed to be a branch of christianity. All fine seeming from the outside except people notice that their women are required to wear dresses and skirts and have a child every year, not allowed to listen to music or have any sort of electronic entertainment (phones only allowed for communication) It was when people saw and learned about the inside of that church is when it gets shady Not only did women have to wear skirts and have a child every year, their marriages are arranged, if a woman" was deemed "too ugly to be married she was sent to a "work camp" in some other state. Anyone who leaves the practice is completely cut off from their family. Many kids I grew up knowing showed signs of a certain kind of abuse that would be better left unsaid
@@zuzannanowicka6348 same. So much brainwashing I had to undo. I'm still finding things that make me go "Wait what?? How did I ever think this was normal?".
@@cryochick9044 Not for being straight. For having different opinions. Look at every person whose even remotely talked about being against LGBTQ: They've been cancelled.
Light refracting and separating into its spectrum of colours was clearly meant by the universe to only be used for the upper atmosphere above one planet in a specific solar system in the Milky Way Galaxy. Any appearance of the light spectrum visible to the naked human eye elsewhere is heresy and a crime against nature. We must destroy all glass, water, and other transparent materials capable of refracting light, and all iridescent materials too while we're at it.
I don't get why some parents think lgbtqia+ is bad for kids. When I was first told that Elen had a wife I just thought, "huh, that's kind of weird" because you know, I hadn't heard of a women having a wife before and then I just moved on with my day and didn't give it a single thought. I was in Kindergarden mind you
The parents who try to keep it away from their kids think it's a "lifestyle choice" that will infect their children. Of course we know it doesn't work like that.
@@dimetree1611yep! That was me as a kid too lol. Either way, I’m not straight or cis, but kids literally are like: huh, I’ve never heard of that but cool.
saw narcissism on the thumbnail and immediately thought of my dad who genuinely thinks transitioning is immature and narcissistic of the person doing so because it "doesn't take other people's views into consideration" lmao
Imagine thinking others are narcissists because your feelings are not the center of their universe... Talk about projection. I'm sorry OP. Turns out the apple tree you fell from stood on a hill and you rolled quite a few miles away.
It's a ridiculous idea from the 1950s. 😂 The flawed logic is that heterosexual people are attracted to the opposite sex. But being attracted to the same sex means you love yourself too much. Hence , they call you a narcissist.
They don't realize that most of the times. That's the problem. Those people tend to not realize that they hold different standards for different people. It's why I sometimes ask men if they would be happy knowing someone shouts the thing they shout to their wife, sister, a friend, or if they would like to knock that person to the ground when doing so. Sometimes that makes them realize that they continue to contribute to awful behavior that is not called out enough. Unfortunately some women also are contradicting sometimes: I literally saw someone on Facebook as a woman complain how MeToo increasingly appeared to be riddling every organisation or profession on the planet and that it was wild it was this wide, and that she wasn't surprised it was this big, but more that it took so long for some form of accountability to start happening. Not that long after, she shared an (obviously copied, because without spelling errors) post saying that "men can't do or say anything ever to women again because they can be called sexist immediately. I never hear a remark from construction workers anymore. What are we doing people!?" It was wild.
I might be crazy but I wouldn't mind to people look at me with lustful eyes. I would feel embarrassed at first but I will eventually get used to it idk.
@@FrozEnbyWolf150I guess so. Either way though, the concept of how people view sexuality has changed over the centuries yk. So the way people in the 21st century view it is very different from the way some cowboys might have in the 1800s lol
@@Suited_Natit's a bot. Uttp is an abbreviation for uTube police and a lot of bots I've seen got some sort of uttp mark. It's a stupid group spamming everywhere
1. He 2. Him 3. His 4. Himself 4. She 5. Her 6. Hers 7. Herself 8. I 9. Me 10. My 11. Myself 12. Mine 13. We 14. Us 15. Our 16. Ours 17. Your 18. Yours 19. Yourself 20. It There. 20 pronouns. All part of basic English and I didn't even need to use a single neo pronoun.
The Confederate flag is like wearing a jersey that says "Team Slavery" People act like it's almost a southern pride flag when no, it's a flag with some specific history, make a new one, queer people can help we love making flags 😂
Fr. My brother had one in his room and it literally had a deer in the center of it. Says it's "heritage", but it's not. Like, I know the flag of our state is ugly, but it's not ugly enough to use the "rebel", or whatever they wanna call it, flag. If he actually wanted to connect with our heritage, then he'd be learning our version of French and cursing the English.
The religious ones hurt, I'm so sorry people misuse faith to excuse their hatred. I'm a Christian and an ally, Jesus said we should love everybody. There should be no hate. Thank you Jamie for calling it out.
As one indicated by the my avatar preceding, I am well aware Jesus is about what the noisy anti LGBT ' Chistians ' are not, to have come to referring to such folk as ' Paulinians '
@@RadicalunarI don't know if you're doing the same but very often there is some cherry picking going on when people against lgbtq+ want to find arguments from the bible. I was raised a Catholic and although I wouldn't call the church i grew up in lgbtq+ allies, what they taught was that "love your neighbor as you love yourself" was the number one commandment. The very first rule that comes above everything else is love and compassion.
Atheist here. Straight and cisgender (means you feel like and present as the same gender you were born as) ally to the LGBTQ+ community. Jesus would be very disappointed in the majority of his “followers.”
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 Yeah but kids could be curious, would you decline an answer to a curious child because it was not your ideals? If a child asked me about what a religion was (I am not a huge fan of religions for personal reasons), I would answer them with the least biased thing I can muster, no malice, no saying all religion bad, just giving a simple response to let the kid figure out their opinion.
@@emotionallynumb not just input, literal facts that you would know if you did any research on animals. Also was correcting you, as you said "no other mammals" when that's objectively untrue.
I remember when Brokeback Mountain came out and people went to see it not knowing the characters were gay and they walked out of the cinema when they found out 😂
My brother worked at a movie theater together around the time Call me by your Name came out and had dozens of people ask for refunds when they realized the film was gay. 😅 It was the same case for the film Tove as well because the protagonist was bisexual.
For clarification, the 2 in "bisexual" is "my gender" and "not my gender" - Which covers a lot more than just 2 genders. This definition has been around for decades. First time I saw it in print was the Bixeual Manifesto from 1991. That's over 30 years people have had to get used to the idea that bisexuality does NOT imply the existence of only 2 genders. Quote: Bisexuality is a whole, fluid identity. Do not assume that bisexuality is binary or duogamous in nature: that we have “two” sides or that we must be involved simultaneously with both genders to be fulfilled human beings. In fact, don’t assume that there are only two genders. Do not mistake our fluidity for confusion, irresponsibility, or an inability to commit. Do not equate promiscuity, infidelity, or unsafe sexual behavior with bisexuality. Those are human traits that cross all sexual orientations. Nothing should be assumed about anyone’s sexuality, including your own.
As a nonbinary bisexual interested in binary ppl... no, but also yes. I'm not interested in my own gender, but also the genders I'm interested in and the genders I believe exist are obviously uncorrelated concepts. This take has always baffled me, because that's so obviously not how sexuality of any flavor works.
VerilyBitchie has a vid or two that goes into the strong ties between the bisexual and transgender communities right from day one. The concept that being bisexual means inherently anti-trans is 100% hater propaganda meant to divide the community. It has a stink to it similar to A in LGBTQIA+ is for Ally. You know the stench isn't coming from in the house but you can't quite pinpoint where from.
I also commented something similar. Glad to see this meaning of the word is getting more recognition becose it's the most modern and least problematic one!
My classmate/study mate is the "why do you have to make everything gay" and "we shouldn't censor the N-word in books" guy and I am still confused as to whether I should laugh or cry 😅
So, fun fact about that mod to remove the pride flag from the Spider-Man game; the creator didn't get banned from the site because of the mod. They got banned because they posted it using a sock-puppet account with multiple ToS-violating slurs in the name. They were trying to use it getting taken down to make some statement about Woke censorship, not expecting it would get traced back to their main account.
@@ekrtznekrtz5229”there shouldn’t be any flags in a Spider-Man game, especially when the game will be played all over the world. The game should take a neutral view” What a weirdly inclusive and anti-borders political stance to take. Very woke of you 😊
It's insane who easily you can destroy any homophobic or transphobic argument but they always still ignore it. I thought you said "Facts don't care about your feelings"
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 Knowing as I do humanity has moved on somewhat from it's fabled origins, if I sought to define both man and woman I would defer to the advanced scientific definition through the advanced scientific definition being representative of the pinnacle of human understanding.
@@ekrtznekrtz5229 How would you define yourself? If you define yourself by the beliefs that people like Matt Walsh told you to believe, then YOU are the one who is indoctrinated. You have a closed mind and you follow blindly the cults of Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro, and Jordan Petersen. You are a conspiracy theorist. BTW, I AM a biological heterosexual woman who was assigned as female at birth. I have no problem dealing with my gender and sexuality. The LGBT community neither threatens me nor defines me as much as it does YOU. I only have a problem with seeing marginalized groups demonized and persecuted by cisgender heterosexual white Christian males such as yourself. I hate bullies, and if you demonize a trans person, YOU are the bully.
Thank you Jamie!!! I'm married to a woman but I'm pan....aaaand a fair number of people have been utterly dismissive of my relationship with a woman WHO I AM MARRIED TO... because I'm 'basically straight with extra steps' 😵😒 It sucks
It does, another Pansexual woman here. Too many people try to force the black and white all or nothing approach. Good vibes and thoughts for your Marriage, hope y'all are surrounded by folks who love appreciate and understand you.
@@sarahthesarah2850TYSM! ❤️ Honestly, we are so blessed. My wife's name is Sarah actually 😊 She's my everything. Married 7 years, been together for 14 and the people around us are better than anyone could ever hope for. Hate the attitude that pan/bi people are either faking it to get a man's attention or we're incapable of monogamy. It's about the person...NOT the gender. Wish that was a more widely understood thing. Wishing you all the best lovely and thanks for the positivity x
i love how many labels there are in political cartoons like 4:42 fellas, don't you love wearing your "woke us military" helmet? a must-have for every wardrobe
Guys always say they’d love to be catcalled or sexualized but suddenly in practice none of them ever like it. I think the main problem is most guys when they picture the reverse picture like a beautiful amazing kind model flirting with them randomly and are like “what that sounds amazing!” When in reality it’s just a random person you don’t know while your just trying to get through your day
@@lucacianflone4128 I used to watch them until I found they support Israel, now I realised they make caricatures of the people, like Hamas, they interview the hamas member and he says he wants to kill Jews, like that’s not all hamas guys. I also realised that the right wing loves to show woke people as kids and cringey teens
I have appreciated the age appropriate education my children received, as I grew up in a generation where sexuality and gender weren't talked about, so they've been able to help answer some of my questions.
I wish I could have had it when I was in school. I might have realized my sexual orientation when I was much younger, realized it was okay, and not hidden it for well over fifty years.
Other way around. They think being a narcissist is what makes people queer. They have this twisted idea that people become LGBT+ because they're self-obsessed to the point of subverting their "natural" state.
@chrisbfreelance Q is the broadest letter, since it means queer or questioning, and can't be categorically singled out. I don't know where you came to that conclusion.
I'm Christian (and bi) and I just want to say that I love and accept everyone in the community. My take is that we're all made to be just who we should be, and we all have value and purpose. Lots of love
My mother told me Brokeback Mountain was Satan’s movie because it dared to depict homosexuality. Just so you know, yes. Homophobes raged about it 18 years ago.
I just saw a reaction to Ace Venture, I forgot how transphobic, offensive and hurtful the ending is. Can't even watch a comedy without being shown some outright bigotry and all the comments declaring it to be the funniest thing ever before the snowflakes ruined comedy. Beyond the pretence of comedy, the world is shown a trans woman, assulted, striped of her cloths, mocked and shamed as all the cops vomit at the thought and sight of a transwoman, but I suppose being protective over our own kind is narcissistic !
And that movie was deemed appropriate to adapt into a childrens' cartoon. So that's the golden age that people are talking about when they complain about kids being "indoctrinated" nowadays.
I never forgot. But I did not realize how transphobic it was until I learned that trans people existed 15 years later. Probably contributed to me not realizing that trans people existed.
6:50 As someone who went to an Indian school, we don’t learn organic chemistry till we’re 13-14. We don’t learn fractions in the womb. P.S. White Supremacy 101: Appropriate Asian culture because it’s ’traditional’.
The crazy thing about teaching children about love is it doesn't need to be taught!! My children, now adults, were never told being gay was wrong so they always knew it was normal!! This goes for any, " alternate" way of love!!!
My parents taught me the same thing, that love is love. So no matter what gender the people in a romantic relationship are, I think it's cute. I'm also pan myself 😅
While my mum got A LOT wrong, she had a very varied and inclusive friend-group from before I was born. The people I grew up knowing were just... people. I didn't actually know that this person was gay, he was just *him*.
The Rosetta stone to these memes is the understanding that it's all projection. If you view them through that lense it reveals how fragile and insecure the people are in their "deeply held beliefs" 6:20 don't tell them about how to stack street cones 😂 9:30 this is a perfect example of "removing all nuance" that dishonest people do. "They are both flags, therefor hypocrisy!"
Hii!! I just wanted to quickly thank you for not saying the f slur. I've been watching you for a month now and honestly it probably didn't seem like anything to you but it's very hard to find creators that leave out the slurs. The F slur is one of my trigger words due to a lot of bullying and harassment but a lot of people don't really mind using it (I'm not saying it's bad to use it when you are gay it's just that no one really cares to ask if everyone is okay to hear it.) So genuinely thank you, you are very quickly becoming a safe space for myself! I like putting your videos on as I draw and it's really nice because I get to mock these types of memes with you or I can laugh at silly garlic bread memes. Love you, and thank you
I never learned about 2slgbt+ in college...or highschool or public school or preschool. Actually it probably would have saved me decades of self hate if they had tought ANYTHING. Also, i love the clickity-clack of your keyboard when you go to look things up.
Rainbows has always stood for peace, serenity, for embracing change and welcoming things about yourself whether ready to accept them or not. The rainbows were never one to hide in shadows but instead are meant to embrace every aspect of their growth and transformation and let it run free. Out and available for any who are dealing with things to know where it's safe to go, where they won't be turned and rather be given the chance to learn who they truly are and embrace that person and for others to learn more about them in comfort and accepting without the whole all questions are not just automatically stupid questions, like when asked with the serious desire to understand who you truly are and what makes you seriously tick
@@ciwi. I believe that God made you the way you are for a reason. And to take Trans as an example, if God made a person trans then it isn't because a mistake was made, it is because some of the developments that their soul will develop in this particular lifetime will be done through the experience of being trans.
@@TallulahMorgana when I came out as transgender to my mother, she used the "so are you saying that God made a mistake?" and no, I'm not. I believe that if there is a God, then He made me trans for a reason. perhaps as a test of my resolve, or a test of my mother's compassion, I don't know, all I know is that I am who I am meant to be.
My counter to the people who say that teaching about non-cishet relationships in schools "will turn our kids gay"... I want them to explain how asexuality and aromanticism are also growing in public awareness alongside the other LGBTQ+ topics? I haven't heard anything about THOSE getting taught in even the broadest elementary school sex ed program. We may not be as numerous or visible as other sorts of non-cishet people, but if media representation and getting taught about it in school are what "turns" kids, how can ANY a-spec folks exist at all? It's still generally assumed you'll want *somebody*, and abstinence is only supposed to be until marriage not lifelong (unless you take some sort of religious vow and stick to it). And even in the vow situation, abstinence is assumed to be a sacrifice made out of dedication to your cause or deity. A willful denial of desires everybody has, not a true different preference.
They keep telling on themselves and they can't even see it. They genuinely think queer people *existing* is an offence on the level of *violently oppression entire races* and *trying to commit genocide*. No Cletus, Jadzia living her best trans life is NOT the same as you marching through my streets with a tiki torch declaring your desire to bring about a real-life Man In The High Castle/Handmaid's Tale crossover. It's a comparison that can only be made if you genuinely don't see certain people as real and full human beings.
Known fact: a rainbow was shown to Noah to indicate the end of the flood. IIRC, Bifrost, the path between worlds in Norse mythology, was sometimes depicted as a rainbow. The chakras are represented by a color in the rainbow (I'm not 100% certain if that's from a religion, or if it's just a hippie thing). I guess I'm trying to say that no one OWNS the rainbow.
People used to dye their hair blue and green in the seventies when I was a kid. It was rebellion (rage against the machine😂) and rarely, if ever, had anything to do with LGBTQIA+
When I was between seven and nine, my dad asked me for the male end of a cord, then got mad when I was confused because cords don't have a sex. Specifically because of that incident, I hold a special place in my heart for memes like the lightbulb one
I hate that argument, "oh you're gay dont be in my locker room". Like what are you thunking they are gonna do? Are you assuming they are going to act like aggressive heterosexual cis-men? Like is that what they really think? If so, then the problem is "masculine behavior" and aggressive sexuality. For context, i meant it as toxic masculinity that cis-hets generally think of as "basic man behavior".
What’s wild is they tend to be the same people who make the “not all men” statements about woman being uncomfortable around men. And it’s like so you feel the same way it’s not any different just because they are gay now.
My LGBT+ phobic cousin decided to come stay here as a surprise for a few days over the weekend. (She flew here, so, couldn't turn her away.) I'm closeted in front of her, because I'm non binary, asexual, and panromantic, and yeah. It was so uncomfortable. Just the panic which having to very casually go and hide my copy of your book plus some other ones, make sure my pride pins weren't anywhere visible, and not bind or anything for days, getting misgendered the whole time. I've missed getting to go onto a safe space like here to just be with my people. I love all of you guys 💜
@@NoodleIDK13 Hi there, can see you're leaving some unpleasant comments, but I'll give you the respect humans deserve and answer your questions. Non binary: as I was being formed in the uterus, various external factors resulted in changing the development of my primary and secondary sex characteristics, and my brain structure, leaving me as a gender that is neither male nor female. Asexual: I don't experience sexual attraction. Panromantic: I experience romantic attraction towards people for their personality, and their gender doesn't have any effect on this. The binary code isn't relevant, because "binary" can be used to refer to more things than coding. God bless!
Christians: Don’t learn about the rainbow kids or you’ll be gay. It’s okay. I’ll protect you! Also Christians: alright kids, let’s read this Bible story about what happened after a man named Noah left his ark following a worldwide flood…
The Cooper Donut's Riot happened in 1959. It was a protest of sorts that went wrong, three people were arrested, and in protest, people threw donuts at the police, I believe. Unironically, exactly a decade prior to Stonewall. Love to know that these people know and study the lore of queer history. Lol.
5:39 fun thing on the military- my Yaya (grandma) was in the military and she showered with the guys because everyone was gay and she said she was on of the only straight people.
No no, they are inferring that Broke Back Mountain is "acceptable" because one of the characters gets beaten to death, and the other dies alone and miserable.
@@LemonAid82 Please don't respond like that. I understand being frustrated/angry/tired of them, but what you're saying isn't really helping, and frankly, at least for me, and possibly for others as well, it just makes it even more tiring. Don't stoop to their level, please.
Ugh. I’m religious, kinda. It’s a complicated kind of thing for me. But I’m bone tired of religion being used to promote and excuse bigotry. It’s awful and I’m sorry you’ve experienced bigotry because of my faith. Also, Jesus could be viewed as trans, but Christians aren’t ready for that conversation.
You shouldn’t have to say sorry for other peoples wrong doing, even though it may be against your beliefs i, and hopefully others, will respect you for being respectful towards us, that’s all we ask for
If I have kids I’m answering all their questions, most likely with google, but I’ll answer them. How do you answer questions about romance when you can’t feel it though? Being Aroace is confusing.
Depending on how your relationship with your family is, you could go to an other family member with them and have said other family member explain. I always take to someone who can (better) explain things I'm not all to knowledable about. I ask those people if that's OK before hand. Like, my SIL is a transwoman, so I asked her for help answer the question my kids had about what that means. My mom is really good at fabric crafts, so if my kids want to learn about that, she's obviously the first I'll ask for help. Etc.
I have to laugh because I saw the rainbow "protecting children thing" forgot what this video was about and thought yes, we should protect children from church indoctrination.