The moment the narcissist realizes they may have lost you for good 

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The narcissist was or is in your life for one reason. It's so you'll wake up from the illusion that you need validation or love through their affirmation, which they'll never give you. They're there to teach you that you have to find affirmation through reparenting your inner child and unconditionally loving yourself because you're a beautiful person and have intrinsic value. Learning to love yourself is not easy, but essential on this journey called life. Remember, you don't have to hate the narcissist. You have to understand them, as well as yourself, or you're bound to repeat the process of abuse. Don't be a victim like the narcissist ( or so they say), become an overcomer! 😊❤😊 Tip: Love God the Creator 1st. Love yourself 2nd, then your neighbor, so you'll have the necessary boundaries that you didn't learn as a child. 😊 Don't feed the narcissist your time, devotion, sympathy, or money. Walk away from the abuse, and learn to value yourself 😊

Love what you said about time being an ally of ours but always the enemy of the narcissist.

I didn't loose a dam thing but a minultive, controlling sob

65 days no contact and I’m actually getting better. Some days are good, some are bad had nightmares about them a couple of times too but I’m definitely way much better now than when they were actively in my life

Time does change the dynamics. However, even if you move on, the rumination seems to get worse. Even though you know it was all a façade. I've been in contact and would never take him back! It's the disbelief that someone could be so cruel to you that doesn't disappear.

Thanks Joe 🙏 and so the true pursuit of happiness begins… No drama No lies Just the wind No chaos No cheating For the win Let the pursuit of happiness begin. Peace and prosperity ✌️

Each day just keeps getting better and better!

Joe thank you for continuing these. I’ve been watching for a year and I still need the extra encouragement you give to keep on going.

I went absolutely no contact 449 days ago and I can’t stop ruminating.

10 days no contact and I am proud of myself 💃💃💃🇿🇦

Thanks Joe. Ultimately what was your weakness becomes your strength and what appeared to be the narcissist’s strength was never that because deep down they were always weak and still are ……

This is the first case, an abuser left victim!😂

They realise nothing. That would require them to be self aware. Healing from these creatures is as mythical as they are.

Good morning ! 🌞Joe treating us with a new magical video this morning ! Lets have a cup of Joe ☕☕ with Joe and enjoy it ! Thank you Joe ! 🤗 ❤ Happy weekend ! 😎 ⛱

My wife and have separated now for nearly 5, she’s been living her best life! Ive been in hotels pretty much that whole time other than the odd day being at home. It’s been hell

Thanks Joe

Thank you Joe I needed this today as my exnarc is losing his mind after 4 months of NO CONTACT we have never went this long and Im truly done for good. I appreciate your words ❤

Thank you!

Haven’t seen him, he instantly found someone got engaged married to me still, she gave me a call, never have heard from him, 1 1/2 year, he was grooming someone cleaned out my storage filled it with cheap junk trash so I would know

Excellent

She is all I have left, I gave her my word I wouldn't leave her, stemming from a conversation about her personality disorder. She's cheated or raped whatever and she is gone. I am here for her but. I won't be no more confusion of pain.

They will know for certain they have lost you when you found the King of Innocence. All you have to do is talk about innocence in any form or fashion and they will become uncomfortable and play devils advocate against unwavering teachings.

Hi Joe🪷

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Always the same fkn topic