I was on tinder for 2 years. I’m 6’4”, 200 lbs, average on looks and make 70k. I got about 20 matches, 18 were bots the 2 that weren’t didn’t reply. I’ve never been more suicidal than when I used Tinder.
@@user-dr4iu8mg5uBots are those "Tinder users" who, shortly after beginning the messaging process (in someone's inbox), they automatically beg you to see their OnlyFans page.
I've been on tinder for 6 years and in those 6 years I only got around 30 matches. 30 matches in 6 years. Not joking, it's that bad. And out of those 30 matches I did not get a single date, they all just ghosted me after a brief conversation. My point is don't waste your time on tinder, I wish all men would stay off of it so it goes out of business.
@@Tyson422Does that sound right to you? I don’t have the internalised hate for these dating apps as I’ve never had one but that just doesn’t right to me
@@viktore1375 I'm gonna tell you, most women are scared of really attractive men. They associate them with bad attributes (he must be with another woman every week, he's more attractive and succesful than I am therefore he won't need me etc etc.) and avoid them in general. If your picture was "too good'" they also could assume the profile behind him was fake and so on. This is not only black and white, Tinder is cancer however.
The problem with Tinder and other dating sites where I live. Is that most of the women on there are the absolute bottom of the barrel kind of people. Not just talking with looks. But a lot of their attitudes are awful. Or they have so many other issues going on. That they are just a giant walking red flag. It's very hard to find a sane woman with morals, values and respect.
I often notice this about half of the men I meet from there. Other men are more solid and have themselves together. Tinder is a mess, though. I'll never forget that one time I was matched with an escort!😳
@@fujimotochiaki2487 😂 That totally doesn't surprise me when it comes to Tinder. Tinder is best to just avoid all together. There are some good people here for sure. But there are a lot of people here who are jerks too. Most people's morals here has went down. Best advice is to sit back and get to know them. See where their heart is ☺
Why exactly would you expect it to be any other way? Of course the people that use online dating are not going to be a catch, otherwuse they wouldn't need to be there. Man up and ask women out in person.
@@anyamiranda9452 That would require courage, lol. I get hit on a lot, by little kids in their 20s so I know when guys my age in their 40s & 50s are looking in the grocery store or gas station. I'll smile and even say hi if they seem shy, but damn.. the egg doesn't chase the sperm, lol. You aren't wearing a ring. Nobody is with you. I don't bite!😂
I created a female tinder account just to see what type of men I’m competing with and let me tell you 🥵 every single right swipe was a match as a female from 18-60 year olds over 1000 matches within 4 hours and getting messages every minute from guys. So yeah 99.9% men have 0 chance lol
Excuses man put in the effort so you can have a attractive online presence. Get a photoshoot done, lemme guess you aren’t shredded 😂this is why the majority of men fail cuz they want it the easy way
From what I've read, if you swipe right too much, the algorithm devalues your profile. So just blind swiping right will essentially make your profile invisible. That being said I swiped based on whether I'd actually like to meet the girl or not and my reply/match rate was about the same as his.
What I've been doing is swiping left on every single girl and only swiping right on average looking guys, works wonders. Never let them know your next move.
The reason why you never actually meet most of the women there even after matching with them is because the men and women are there for 2 different reasons. Men are there to meet up, and women are there to get attention..Most of them have no intention on ever meeting uo with anyone.. this is why a woman will match with you and, at the same time, never respond to your messages. That in itself can be frustrating af.. The best thing men can do is stay off all these apps
@@Carolina3788 my opinion is that people in dating apps are absolutely the same people around us. There is no special galaxy for guys who are into dating apps
@@Fateslav I believe tinder is not for serious dating, its for something casual, some peopke there are cheaters some girls just sell their packs, nothing for the long run comes out of there
I got no chance on Tinder. But if i go to club, I can score hot girls pretty easily. But the relationship always end up with problems. Now the only solution is online date, which is every man is a loser. 😢😢😢 looks like im gonna stay single for the rest of my life 😢😢😢
I'd probably try a more natural setting like at the gym, in a supermarket, a place where you go for enjoying hobbies, etc. Clubs only attract a certain type of woman and usually not the ones that are wanting to settle down. Sadly phones have replaced human interaction.
I’ve never been on a Tinder date or even gotten a number. Matches fizzle out before a sentence or two. If they get back to me late, I know it’s because they wanted something else first. Hard for me to be excited at that point.
Yet we're constantly told about how women are the ones under pressure to look like models, meanwhile most girls walk around in sweatpants and a hoodie and still get 1,436 new DM's a day.
I have the same reaction when I match with Black ppl. No response. I even send the first message.. I did meet ONE person on Bumble. He asked if we could meet at his house😮😂 There's a new app for Black singles, tho.✌️
Only time tinder is viable is for men who are traveling. Do NOT use this garbage if you’re in your hometown or America in general. Complete waste of time
I saw this reality in action when I tried tinder in the Dominican Republic all of a sudden I was the prize and I had many dates lined up. I was the preferred stock being a Caucasian and could pick and choose whom I wanted. Something I had never experienced in North America. No wonder American Women are hell beasts to be avoided.
Fuck me 🤦♂️ idk why we just can't have decent women here. One problem I have is the only women that give me a chance are the ones with kids. The big problem with that is that it doesn't really go anywhere. Thankfully tho most of the women I dealt with are Hispanic 😍 white girls don't fw me (I don't have a problem with since most of them are trash anyways).
I got hella matches on Tinder when the pandemic started in early 2020. The choices were single moms, dog moms, fatties, bisexuals and married women. Boń A petit! 😢 Ended up smashing two very fit girls who leaned more towards traditional dating roles. Problem is that their mental issues showed up HEAVY within a few days of meeting them.
@@rodbelding9523 Yea, there it is. THAT is why you never got past a few "brief conversations", lol. If you believe that *EVERY* girl on Tinder has a "SEVERE mental problem", you're diagnosing MILLIONS of women, and probably without qualifications. You set yourself up to fail by putting any onus on your failure to get matches on the other party to protect your ego.
I tested this. Saw a handsome looking guy on social media. I took his pics, make a tinder account. Got some matches, 0 women replied🤦🏻♂️ tinder is a scam. No way an attractive man couldn’t get no responses.. what hope does the average guy like me have on tinder then.
Damn tinder has change a lot since I’ve been on it like 5-6 years ago lmao I’m glad I’m off there cause they putting all your business out there now no type of privacy you can’t even swipe a lot without someone seeing what you swipe that’s crazy
Tinder was good from 2014 to 2018. The ratio used to be 3 guys for every girl. Now it’s 30 guys for every girl. Girls are just pickier because they have too many options and that’s not including the guys in her DMs or friendzone guy friends who are secretly in love with her. In reality we all have poor social skills because of our second life online. Actually talking to girls in person will make you stand out. An old coworker of mine deleted all his socials and he probably sleeps with at least 30 new girls a year. He’s not watching Pron, in girls DMs, mindlessly swiping on girls profiles or liking her pics, he’s taking action and not making excuses. He’s mastered talking to girls in person and girls seem to be drawn by his presence.
Yet if a girl was having a 30 new body count a year, that would be awful. Not that I believe that claim anyway. Unless he really is only targeting low self esteem & lonely ones, lol
@@BelindaJon41 It’s probably more like 5-10 a year now. One girl said he’s an a** hole but in a good way. Probably wouldn’t date any of the girls he slept with they definitely did have baggage.
@@thisguyrools2807 I can imagine they definitely mainly have baggage, lol. Some guys are very charismatic however. Charisma beats looks when it comes to many women in dating every time & so if he is naturally very charismatic in person, then that must definitely help when he’s meeting & dating etc.
Tinder doesn’t work if your thirsty , make a couple solid right swipes every couple days, make a solid profile, you’ll get matches if you over swipe you don’t get shown and get no matches
guys.... GUYS i did it. I Deleted Tinder. im free.... im finaly free. now i am fed up enough with this nonsense that i will just go up to people in real.
I have probably swiped on hundreds of people on dating apps but I am not having any luck! Where are some good places to meet people. I just wanna find love😞
I'm 5ft 9 have a bit of a belly , was awkward with girls and after 3 weeks on tinder I met my current gf but I spent years on tinder 2 3 years ago and never got 1 match
I’m like a 6 and I’ve been on plenty of tinder dates. Currently going on 7 years tinder match. I keep seeing this statistic stuff for tinder but idk how it worked so well for me.. maybe you guys need better first lines. Honestly I was saying crap like “guess the difference between me and my couch; my couch pulls out” and getting replies.
I get matches on Tinder. Not swiping right on every profile increases your ELO score. Your profile becomes more visible. Your photos, bio and location plays a major role. Having traveling photos, photos with friends, photos with women, photos of hobbies gets matched. The problem with tinder is there’s a ratio of more dudes than women. This breeds more competition. Better off cold approaching in real life
I have a gf now. When tinder first came out? I had way more matches. These past few years something has changed. Before my gf I had matches there and there but it was very common to get matched but get no response. I feel like it's actually easier in person. Tinder you need to really be materialistic and have professional level photos.
Some of you saying Tinder is scam or most of the users are bots but some of you/ or your saying "i got a 3 year relationship from tinder" Who should i trust? should i buy the gold or not?!!
I’ve never messaged anyone on tinder but I’ve gotten quite a few messages and only about 20% of them will give you a chance to hang out. The other 80% of people who keep in mind messaged me first will just stop replying.
Ah man it's mad it's pot luck right place right time i was on there for like 6-8 months probably had like 4-5 matches and only had one conversation with a girl fast forward a year and a half and we are still together good luck lads there is someone out there for everyone 👍
Bro today I just put all my ballz in a hardcase to be protected from bullets. I texted her and she just deleted our match. Happened twice now. Could have been an accidental right swipe but then I wonder why they keep the match for so long instead of directly directly deleting it.
I downloaded tinder to try it out. I’m average looking, average heigh. I had it for one day and had 15 matches and one was absolutely perfect. We hit it off right away. This was not a hookup thing either. Both of us wanted long lasting relationships. We are in the process of setting up dates. It can be done boys. Stay strong.
@@MarkLinton-ik1zt do two things, get tinder gold for like a week and pay the $5 for the 30 minute boost around 7pm you will spend like $30 but 10x your hit rate. If you are looking for a long term thing it only has to work once. Try it, worst thing that happens is you are out $30.
“hey something actually came up rn would u be down tomorrow night?” This give me a vibe of never texting me back. I got her snap like how do I reply back for tomorrow?
Just be cool and say yeah that's cool . Than the next day just casually invite her to the mating grounds. Dont be like "hey wanna still go?" Just directly ask her be like "tryna get a room and watch a movie tonight.. and wait for her to say yes. Don't text again. And she will take you up on it prob that night maybe the next.
You have to know how the algorithm works. Swiping right on everyone used to work for a bit, but now it lowers your attractiveness score, so you appear lower in the deck for hotter women, number 1. You can complain and moan and whine about how the system is unfair, or you can learn it and meet the requirements it sets for you, or find a way around them. That is being adaptable. If you are not adaptable, then you don't deserve women, anyway. Not that you never will, just that you need to adjust your expectations, understanding, and behavior to *become* worth women. But yes dating apps are difficult for men. Everything is difficult for men, tbh. So that's why you have to become tougher, more resilient, and more persistent. Keep chipping away at your limitations and soon they will not be limitations. Blame the world, and you will always be a sad, pathetic victim.
I'm kinda guilty of this, I use tinder just to find people to play games with, it sometimes works, the people who do go along with it are quite funny. It's a whole lot better than going on a dating app actually intending to find the live of your life.
Bruh i was on there for months, swiped on thousands of profiles, got like 3 matches, 2 were OF girls trying to promote their content and the other one never responded and then unmatched me weeks later
When i was single i met my fair share of girls . I never had a problem. Im not the best looking guy but i always made them laugh and i guess that hooked them 😅
Brother did tinder, “ turn out they ugly people so never did tinder myself, so never dated either, i also watched catfish growing up. I’m a very smart person.
I'll say this it isn't a scam... It definitely depends on multiple factors regardless, looks play a part I'm not gonna say big part but depending on what your trying to do on tinder looks are important. Being able to read the type of woman you're talking to is important which is a reason I feel pics are important, like a lot of people say. Picture say 1000 words and they do. Bios are a hit or miss, You really don't need one because even the people who tend to only go for good bios will definitely still talk to you if the pictures hit right. Now if your pics don't hit I feel the only other thing that helps is how you carry the conversation. Can you? Are you actually a interesting person that's keep people talking to you? You gotta take that chance
Your math is wrong. It does mean 173 people swiped left for every swipe right. It’s not a ratio. 80% of those accounts could very well be inactive. We have no way of knowing how many swiped left.
Most guys who complain about not being able to get matches have dog shit profiles that show absolutely 0% of their personality. I’ve seen women not swipe on guys that are considered very attractive because they have absolutely no personality
What I've found is that most men believe they're more attractive than they are (same applies to women, but that's not the topic of discussion right now). A lot of you should try serious looksmaxxing before getting on these apps. If you are physically fit and well-groomed (straight + white teeth, neatly trimmed facial hair/no facial hair, relatively clear skin, clean hair with a cut that frames your face well, etc.), you will have an easier time attracting women than if you are overweight, have crooked or yellow teeth, and look unkempt while also having unflattering photos on your profile.
I’m 5’8 and I get at least a dozen matches a week with beautiful 8-9-10/10 women. This mindset is dumb. Are you working on cool hobbies? Are you lifting consistently? Are you sober? Are you a good person. Do you have good hygiene? Do you have a good career. Do you have photos of you doing cool stuff? Do you have a short and well written bio? Guys who put in effort get an unbelievable amount of matches it’s not about being a “chad” it’s about having an interesting life, being competent and confident, and having your shift together. Stop complaining and get to work.
Stop the cap it's bad even if you have all those criteria you listed Simple because Females are 10x less than men in there so they have very very high 'standards'
I've done all of that, and half of the dudes suck major at communication. Others will get me stood up, which is why I am putting myself out in public (starting next month). Whoever is lucky enough to meet me will! Don't rely on Tinder for a boost.
I just started tinder.. done my daily swipes, already have two matches, and I’m meeting with one 💀 tinder is not a scam. Realistically, I feel like it is an app that works mostly for “better looking people” but your profile and confidence in conversation play a MASSIVE role in it.. even the worst looking can get a date with confidence alone. Don’t listen to this guy, don’t give up!!
@@itsDjjayy how would 50-100 matches work? If the daily maximum right swipes is 100.. that would mean that either everyone is blindly swiping right, or everyone in Germany is attractive (which is not true 💀)
As a bisexual man, there’s a reason why I get way more likes from men than I do women. Unless you’re like a solid 10 (which is arguable) Tinder is a lot more harder for guys than girls. For example, I know some girls that are average at best and take really bad pics and can still get a ton of attention but for guys, you can have 4 good pictures but if that 5th one is terrible then your ability to be attractive is questionable. So don’t be so hard on yourselves.
And just think, the ones thats DID match....ALSO wouldn't actually talk to him....AND the LITERALLY TWO who were willing to respond and "talk" limited their responses to "k" and nothing else ever.
I’m not a chad but I’ve had success on tinder, however, it might be my age (I’m 19) maybe younger women have lower standards. Because I am by no means a successful guy, I’m 5”11 and I’d say I’m fairly average looking, I just have good game and do fun things
I use tinder premium, i got 30 match in one month no joke and i'm like a 5.5 or 6 man. They all ghosted me or ignored me, but finally i got one date. BTW i used tinder for 6 years and it's first time i get a date
Isnt the same anymore. las year i made a account and hat 140 likes in 3 days no premium. now i broke up with my gf, made tinder same profile but maybe 5 likes in 2 days
Yeah… tinder is a waste of time… just to talk to the girl you matched up with, you have to pay for the stupid subscription, like literally everything in that app you gotta pay for, even if you pay for the subscription, your luck of finding true love doesn’t even increase. Most of the women I’ve seen on here are basically fake accounts that live far away from you, they have their snapchats in their bios and it’s literally just spam about seeing their only fans, it’s bs!
