100% correct. I would add that no contact brings your energy towards you and not towards your ex. You might say or do hurtful things to them. Which is never ok. What makes this tough is its hard to move on relationship wise. Is that the only criteria for a relationship? She supports you? It's so much more that your ex set the benchmark.
I miss my ex even though she was bad for me and bad to me. It's illogical and ridiculous but if I can't admit it here then I can't admit it anywhere. I'm hurting and I'm tired of hurting. I just want the pain to go away.
Done! Lol I love your videos Kyle! They help me with my no contact. It's been a little over a month and I haven't broken down. He's not in a good place at this time. Don't need the negativity!
i'm glad they help!. Negativity is something you should avoid at all costs!. My life is as negative free as i can get it!. No contact is a great great time for reflection and growth!. You got this!
Just a suggestion for another video- "I cannot stop thinking about my ex." This is currently my problem. She is like 90 percent of what I think about during my day 😟
Good idea too!. Ill write that one down. This is very very common amongst my fellas that i coach. Iv'e been through this before as well so i can offer some great insight in a video about this!
Powerful Relationships Hey Kyle. I have another video suggestion for you. "My ex was my best friend." I miss having that person that I used to have fun with. That person to talk to about anything and everything. And that person that I was so close with and knew me like no one else did. We did everything together, and... I just really miss my best friend 😔
I'm there too. I dread waking up every day because she pops in to my head and I know that it's going to be a straight 18 hours trying hard to deal with thinking.
Absolutely! I'm glad you brought that up... we're so used to seeing things from movies were the man is always trying to buy or always trying to do something out of the ordinary 2 get the woman back..
Bruh the girl I dated for 2 months dumped me after standing me up on a date. It's fucked cause I know her fam and they always show up with my fam at mutual fam gatherings. She didn't block me on shit,but lately she hasn't attended things since we broke up and I haven't seen her. I went no contact day 1. Her break up text said I was the nicest person in the world, she really likes me, but we should be just friends. But why would she avoid me? And should I just move on?
Ay Kyle. You’ve got yourself a new fan. You are a kinder version of a Corey Wayne 😂😂😂. Take it easy. I’m also going to do videos of my own on how to get good with women for fun since I deal with them all the time and I’m good with women lol. Have a nice day.
C'mon men move on. Understand women don't love. You were fulfilling a need they had at that time. Relationships never work out. Marriages don't work out. Dont get so attached. Don't live with any of your girlfriends. Create some space. I'm telling if you stop obsessing there are hundreds of women that will be glad to go out with you. I'm 58 I have woman from 20-60 that will gladly take me off my ex's hands. Get off your ass. I'm not very spiritual but what did Jesus say to the man at the healing pool? Do you want to get well? If yes pick up your blanket and go. It's up to you.Most woman aren't coming back. Write them off.Im I'm hanging with my ex for a week or two until the house gets sold. I love her,she loves me but we don't like each other. We see each other in a different light now. We will never be a couple again it's ok
How do you deal with an ex who doesn’t let NC get very far, as in is texting from the get go. And make no mistake, it’s mere friend zone stuff. I flipping told her when I was dumped I dint want to be friends. There’s no interest in these messages. It’s just matey matey. Do you have to state “I’m off”?? Saying you’re in NC sounds a bit fake. I want to hear but only after she’s missed me. As it is she just feels she can pick the phone up for any old shit whenever it suits, sometimes a few days, sometimes a week. Don’t want to ignore it as she’ll end up sending gobby texts saying I’m being arsey and game playing and prob never ring again. Ugggh. Just want her to leave me alone for a bit weirdly without giving the impression I don’t ever want to hear again. I’m not instigating but I’m not ignoring. Maybe I should just say “look I need time to heal, drop me a line if you want to move forward but I’ve got to move on, all the best”
Hi I was dating this guy and after new years eve we broke up he was really rude out of nowhere. After a month he came back. I stalked him online and he had gon on vacation with this other girl. I guess it didnt work out for him. She either rejected him or she wasnt what he thought she'd be. When he came back he said: hey are we still in good terms? Are we still dating?? Imagine that after a month. I rejected him and said I was no longer interested.
I am really struggling. We broke up About a month ago... I did about a week no contact... Then I reached out and poured my feelings to her... We met a couple of times but then it went to shit again.. she told me on Sunday that she sent me her last message.... Told her I will miss her and love her and not heard nothing back... Its really hard.. Forcing myself not to reach out again.
I have gone no contact after she says she needs time I need time I’ve moved on like she asked but she’s texting me it’s only been 4 days I don’t want her
Good channel..and your very genuine and to the point...im on my second no contact with my ex...we got back together over the summer due to her reaching out after she had found out i had moved on and was dating...Foolishly i ran back right away....and it was great for a while..but i then overpursued...and became needy and pushed her away again.. ive mistakenly reached out over facebook...she says she loves and misses me..and hinted at wanting to see me..saying she would call or message over the weekend...she didnt..so i wont make the mistake of reaching out again...time to be strong.
My ex fiance blocked me on Facebook messenger and her phone I believe but she still follows me on Facebook she also returned her engagement ring and the keys to my apartment I begged and pleaded for her and she blocked me because she believes I took her love for granted I have been in no contact since
I went into a reverse no contact I guess. Was perfect at the breakup with the classic line “if I am still important to you just let me know” and walked away, but I broke NC half a month later with a good reminder text. Breakup was Jan 9th and kept breaking it during Feb. I have went true NC starting early Mar. I hope this can trigger the “thought I would hear from him by now”.
Fair points but why would a girl even come back when she could get another dude within 5 min? It's exponentially easier for women to get laid, it's not even a big deal to them compared to guys
You’re not wrong. My question is to you... what are you going to do about it? Complaining about how women have options is literally pointless. You attract what you are.
Can I go no contact she said she needed me I done everything her moms back in the hospital again I don’t want to talk to her anymore she said she needs space but she harassed me and is very damaged
Masculine Energy I was asking can I go no contact she is texting me and ask me not to not talk her but she needs to find herself and her mother is in the hospital again I help her with everything . I just want to be left alone and be free I blocked her turned off her phone still crazy but said she has feelings and and I shouldn’t to move on and focus on me which I always have I stopped caring about her didn’t talk to her in two days many to come not counting but I’m tired of her immaturity and back and forth feelings
