The Types Of Women Most Likely To Cheat (According To Psychology) 

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The low self-esteem is the most common. Specially the women that know they're not physically appealing, those women are seeking most attention to feel better about themselves.

Dependent... So if they feel like they're the center of the universe... Even when you have children!

I agree with all except low self esteem cause most women have low self esteem that’s why makeup industry and plastic surgery makes soo much money 💰

Women cheat

​@@necromancer7712and nobody is disputing that.

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@@SurvivorBri no one is disputing that

Only to overly sensitive people. If you don’t get an std then it doesn’t affect your whatsoever unless you chose to let it.

She was on a business trip and not a date.

At least 70% of women you'll meet have that same interview style dating technique. Others will tell you a bit about their lives and you can judge quite quickly if you can or can't afford her as she won't stick around if you can't. The 3rd type are the ones who could get any guy they want so you have to think smart because she would have a guy if she could hold a relationship down, which obviously she can't and probably never has. It's a lot like something you've heard of before except in reverse as there's around 1-2% quality women, the rest are trash with 2-5 kids. Each child is reckoned to cost £6k pa 🤑 Some single women haven't dated in 6-15years as they got so damaged the 1st time they now don't have a clue and she'd be so sorely inexperienced in the bedroom that a block of wood laying under you would more be more fun 😂 As always most women see their genital area as the only way they've known to gain access to funding or safety not forgetting any man or woman in a high income job is highly likely to be a ruthless operator 🙌

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Asking how much you make? That is just rude!

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On top of that high stress situation make for great afrodisiacs. It however does ruin workplace atmosphere and often the female workers get the short end of the stick, literally and figuratively

@@onnol917 😂

Hopefully they can get chance to experience the long end of the stick occasionally, if I've understood you correctly lol

This is one of the best explanation I've seen. You've covered pretty much all angles.

@@LongHoang-gh6qs Thank you, Long!

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That's Corey Wayne's line.

I like what you said!

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Exactly they want to get men jealous to leave the man and a reason to leave the man sad

Narcissists can justify almost anything they do.

So why in the hell did you waste all of those years staying in a relationship with her?

@@moleahy6880 I did because the girl was hot and I enjoyed hooking up with her. I was like 21 and too young an dumb to care or even realize what a waste of time it was and what damage it did to my view and trust in relationships now. I don’t trust relationships or even friendships anymore because of the pathetic evil shit that these girls that I dated did to me.

Key word, Selfish. Facts

Do you mind sharing their concerning thoughts? Curious to see why they disagree with you. What you said seems reasonable.

@@dudejoe8390 they basically thought my views were too harsh. "everyone makes mistakes" that sort of thing. My retort would be something along the lines of "their second chance can be with someone else".... Then it'd be something about my attachment style and I'd tune out and go back to whatever I was doing

100%. I am no hypocrite either. Not that I would or have any desire to, but If I was in a relationship and I cheated, and you didn't just walk out of my life; you F ed up. If I cheated, you better be damn well sure it wasn't an accident.

@@MR-nl8xr cheating is never an accident.....it's a choice!

Nothing wrong with that 😂❤ Though I will say, JUST cuz someone cheated DONT make em a bad person….there ARE reasons 😂❤

I have been both shot and cheated on. I can tell you that the betrayal of cheating is 100X more painful than a bullet wound. That pistol destroyed some skin, muscle, and bone. Her cheating destroyed not just our relationship but my ability to trust, my self-esteem, and much more. It's been almost a year and I still think about some aspect of that betrayal day after day. I very rarely notice the small hole the bullet left.

cheating should be a crime punishable by jail time

@@DashSVK completely agree. Not to mention loss of all alimony and shared marital assets.

@@felixthecat4584 exactly, I was cheated on five years ago and it still bothers me.

Violence is absolutely the answer when it is between that and dying, or defending the people you love. Clearly you've never been in a life or death situation before. Your comment is extremely ignorant.

Seesh, sorry to hear that… how was her relationship with her father?

I'm very sorry brother, that's so painful I feel for you

That’s disgusting. Atleast you know it wasn’t you at all that was the problem .

Wow what a sickening woman Glad she’s no longer your wife bro. She never deserved you or your children

Sorry. that's one of the most dangerous personalities to be around

"iT GoEs BoTh WaYs"

Yeah I knew a girl, I loved her but she acted very hot and cold, acted like I didn’t exist via texts but in person threw herself at me but then also rolled her eyes if I didn’t do exactly as she wanted . I believe she has borderline personality . I don’t she she knows. Some white knight manipulator took over her life when I got upset and called her out for all the nasty things she did to me. She basically doubled down and made her feel she was totally right and I was totally wrong . He also project a lot. I feel so bad for her because I always sensed she could easily be manipulated due to her strong impulses and in the heat of the moment I described her and this guy saw it and basically said to himself “Easy target” . She then claimed they were soul mates a few weeks later. I showed her legit love for a year and a half at the least, she didn’t care . Strong borderline tendency , they also fall hard for narcisssists And she seemed to be drawn to guys like that and that last guy was the biggest joke of a wanna a tough/cool/righteous/romantic guy you could ever dream of. He’s almost a walking cliche, it baffled me how she could take him seriously , he’s like a cartoon

she cheated because of her choice. no other reason

Sh!tty excuse.

Whenever a lady says she’s just looking for “friends” it means she’s a h o e , same with “fun sized”

Fucking 💯 dating app are a blight on humanity, all by design too...

Don't ever feel bad for putting your own needs first. With the possible exception of your mother, no one else ever will.

bro, u did right. If she can leave someone for u, remember she can leave u for someone else as well!!

Your pee pee touched another man's skeet. Think about that.

My wife ruined my life and my son life and the nightmare stared like yours but I chose to betray my instic and marry her

Women generally can't do that. Remember that women almost always have your replacement already lined up while they're in a relationship with you.

Thats all I ever asked for. If you feel you need to cheat youre already gone so just get gone. No need to do something specifically designed for me to eventually find out. Nope. Chics all cheat knowing its going to hurt. Thats why they do it. They most likely dont even find the other dude attractive. Its all spite because they cant control their emotions. They get upset over literally everything. Even shit they make up

Tell that to my ex. She constantly reminded how miserable, lonely and unhappy she was in the relationship. When I asked her to walk away. She refused. It's better to have "miserable"supply then to have none. Eventually we parted ways.

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And don’t jump into another relationship quickly. Wait at least a few years.

Same, I usually asks girl on date on what's her hobbies, those easily bored type usually can't even commit to hobbies, their hobbies usually short-lived. This video just confirms my tendency to those who can't even commit to hobbies.

Maybe I am wrong, but most western women don't seem to have any real hobbies, especially things that involve using their minds, creativity, talents, etc. Most women seem to only watch tv/movies, listen to music, go clubbing/dancing with friends for fun. These types seem to be easily bored. They often don't seem interested in learning or trying something new and if they do, it's usually very casual. Even though there's plenty of female artists, writers, gamers, photographers, etc. there still doesn't seem to be enough of them.

​​@@Dj.D25 bingo..u beat me to it..I agree 💯 percent.

My ex broke up with me and told her i was "boring". The actual reason was because i was focusing more on myself and giving her less attention. She was a very selfish person and lacks and accountability for her wrongs.

@@Dj.D25 > Maybe I am wrong, but most western women don't seem to have any real hobbies I've noticed that too, specially in the last 10+ years or so. There was a time up to the beginning of the 2000's where I'd meet and be friends (or more) with a LOT of women who were genuinely into music, or cinema, or books, to the point I could have 1-2 hour-long conversations with them about a single author, director, a genre and so on. Now it's as rare as diamonds. I blame the rise of social media, subscription services, and the hard shift to digital delivery. People in general - men and women - are more easily distracted and have so many easy options that they can't really cherish what they do find to like. > Even though there's plenty of female artists, writers, gamers, photographers, etc. there still doesn't seem to be enough of them. Oh no, there sure are. The problem here is not quantity, it's quality. You just need to take a hard look at the state of mainstream writing, art and entertainment in general these days (regardless of gender, by the way). Most of the younger people on those fields right now aren't there because they really love it. It's because of multiple external reasons: they couldn't do anything else remotely properly, they entered these fields to avoid 9-to-5 jobs with more responsibilities, they can't deal with any real pressure, or they feel they can use art/entertainment to 'educate' other people or 'save the world'. That's why these people can't produce meaningful art or content, and their work often feels stiff, like the author is looking down on you all the time. And of course, such people will never be capable - and sometimes not even willing - to properly discuss or have any real passion for a piece of art or entertainment (unless it's through an activism lens, of course). That's why you don't meet genuinely interesting creatives around in the real world even if there are more content creators than ever, thanks to all these subscription services, new avenues to self-publishing, social media and other ways of selling your work easier than ever. Deep down, to most of them, the music, books, movies, games they create or help create are just another job that allows them to avoid putting on a suit or dealing with 'traditional' working hours. Nothing more.

Say more, please. I'm interested because my first hypothesis about this being a more surprising result was that the medical and social care fields are so dominated by women by percentage that it's inevitable many of the cheaters would come from that field without any particular causality implied. You've observed something specific though, which peaked my curiosity.

@@lunaslide_actual Of course, you're more likely to cheat with someone in your surroundings. Since you spend as much time, if not more, with people at work, a RN is more likely to cheat with a male doctor. But what photoman mitch is saying is that, woman date up, they prefer someone with more value than themselves. A doctor is seen as higher value. That's hypergamy. Woman rarely will date down and they certainly will not cheat down with a guy that's perceived as lesser value than she is or I suppose lesser value than the man she's currently with.

I'm sayin. Everywhere I've lived, I've seen and heard about one of two things. It's either a drinking problem or cheating.

@@pierrelevasseur2701 Appreciate the response. Unfortunately, I wasn't clear enough. I understand what hypergamy is, I was curious if he was saying there is some greater than average expression of hypergamy among caregivers. Rereading the comment though, it seems to be more of a personal experience than clinical knowledge.

@@lunaslide_actual I don't see why that would be, a higher percentage of hypergamy among caregivers. It's possible but I don't see an obvious cause and effect factor just based on one's job description. I think a person will cheat mainly because they are not getting what they want and need from their partner. It's why I suggested in another post to read The Five Love Languages. It would be why a woman married to a millionaire would cheat, not having to worry about finances is great but if her love language is quality time and her husband doesn't provide that, she'll find it elsewhere.

I wouldn't always blame one side or the other. You could have been stale, boring, playing it "safe" & "nice" in the way you treat her. A woman doesn't want to marry someone who treat her like his sister. Spice up your life and the relationship, push & pull is the best tactic. Or it might be her fault as well, having narcissistic tendencies and never ending attention seeking behavior that no one man can fulfill. But again, you don't solve that by cheating, that's disrespectful, rude & disgraceful. She can always breakup and hookup with whoever she finds better fit for her.

@@BolusTube I understand that but that’s still not/never ever a reason to cheat Especially if the one by your side cares about you

You probably know this already but stop going for broken people who need you to cater to them and cheer them up. It is not your job to fix broken women.

Dan, why on Earth would it be your fault? I don't get it.

> and also why I'm attracted to those .. I'm a person who wants to help all the time, who wants to cheer people up, etc .. I feel you. Thankfully, in my case, I had two 1+ year-long relationships at a relatively young age (19 and 21) that simply did beaten up this side of me to a bloody pulp until it was completely gone. At some point you'll understand that support and cheering are things that are earned, and women are not excused from that just for being women, or pretty, or having a difficult past. You save these impulses for those who are actually making an effort in the here and now. Note that this is true even for friendships, regardless of gender. Romantic relationships just make this mindset even more necessary for both people involved.

This is so accurate man

Unless you gave her reasons, yeah

That's definitely true. But think carefully and wonder if that big red flag is actually just a mirror.

@@theycallmedoorway9913it’s a mirror that she’s looking into. Because she’s projecting her own bad behaviors.

Women will always find a way to make it not their fault

This is why it would be better if you be in a relationship with someone who is an introvert rather than an extrovert, because introverts are less likely to cheat on their partners than extroverts. Most girls and boys these days end up in relationships with extroverts, this is the reason why cheating is very common among couples. But if you're in a relationship with an introvert then it'll be very unlikely that he/she will cheat on you

@@auberninja5090extrovert or introvert don’t mean shit, women will cheat regardless of what they are.

She read an article and she's relaying common sense. That was hardly a deep psychological analysis.

Only you can ever truly know how you feel.

Amen

Fact, Work became I have to look out for my guys, if my guys are there I have to be there. Husband and son at home but her guys where the #1 priority. Well at least one of them. Maybe he left his wife for her but I drought it.

Thanks for saying the latter, instead of putting all the responsibility onto women like "in the good old days". I personally think that people would do well, also, to basically care a bit less about sex for sex sake. And care more about things like: personal chemistry and passion and depth of emotional bond. Quality, basically.

It would be interesting to know from your wife how often men hit on them and what she thinks of it. They probably don’t tell their husband for fear of scaring them.

All you said is right but also girls need to stop being fat cuz there’s only a small percentage of girls we’d even want in USA

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@@CourtneyRyan See the money went bad in, and before, 1971 so we all have to suffer. ru-vid.com/video/%D0%B2%D0%B8%D0%B4%D0%B5%D0%BE-amBvPxILUA8.html

You will never be enough for some women. The last guy she dated was never enough. The next guy probably won't be either. Who wants to spend their life with that?

@@jmnthe3rd exactly. One of the many reasons I didn’t get take her back when she came crawling back. I don’t need that drama in my life. I’d rather be alone & have my peace than be with a woman who brings nothing but chaos.

Trash

I'm that type of guy who would give them at least three chances and then like in baseball they're out. Either they're out or I'm leaving that relationship. I believe that there is room for improvement for everybody but definitely if you're a Serial cheater you get no chances

@@mlggamer5296 Never give a cheater a second chance. It shows that you have no boundaries and don’t value yourself. Therefore you leave the door wide open for it to happen again.

@@No-handleneeded1 like I said it depends because if they want to work on themselves I probably would doesn't mean I personally don't have boundaries but what it really means like I said it means that I'm also thinking about the possibility of if they want to try and work on it and do better but it was a case where I hear from their friends that yeah they are serial cheater then I would agree with you

@@mlggamer5296 You know want man. Who am I to tell you how to live your life. My apologies for letting my past experiences get in the way of you finding your happiness.

@@No-handleneeded1 no problem.

I've slept with quite a few women with partners.. it damages u, u lose trust for women

Hypergamy

It’s called “monkey branching”

My theory is that the main reason people cheat is fear of being alone.

There's a saying in Chinese called riding a donkey to look for a horse

They cheat because they have no morals and are trashy

@@MikeyP109 My theory is that everyone is a different flavor and having options is all women are about. duh.

Supposedly in the US at least, a number of nurses put themselves through college by being exotic dancers.

You're describing a narcissist

Sounds like my ex wife sadly. I have spent the last year working on myself and improving my life, going to counselling on my own. Being a good father. Still she plays the victim card and believes she did nothing wrong in the relationship. To a point where I just kinda felt numb trying to get a little accountability from her. I recognise my faults and have/continue to work on them. She’s still in full belief she is Always right.

You hit all 10 on my ex girlfriend.. cptsd borderline narcist type. I feel bad for her kids

word of advice from a fellow autist - dont look at it like something that defines you. you are you, not the shit you're diagnosed with. never use autism as an excuse, just keep vibing. the second i stopped saying "its my depression/anxity/autism" is when my life started improving. take responsibility for as much as you can.

Because you genuinely are special and anyone special in the post-panddmic hyper conformist world must be extra, draining or a narc. Obviously. Was diagnosed with autism & adhd myself when younger twice (age 3 and 17), but suspect I actually have bipolar ii. Folks, mental health stigmatization doesnt make you sane it makes you evil and frankly I know why you wont hire people or befriend people who are genuinely different: because you're an egomaniac who feels special and entitled to not give a damn. You're in a state of panic and you dont like seeing reality for what it is so you need someone to blame. Ah yes, those who arent successful must be burdensome to us as a society, quick let's kill them and take them away from here! I'd be wary of the scientific authorities as well who proclaim we need to have genetically modified babies or eugenics. They want the perfect human without problems not because of its benefits, but because they're psychopaths without a shred of compassion themselves and literally believe in the law of the jungle. I mean think about it, in either warfare or hard times how does an organism survive without too much pain: they get sneaky and clever in their adaptations. And this is the true issue in our times: we are so focused on external locus of control and get upset when we're blamed but feel very comfortable and happy to have a scapegoat come in so we can rise to the top. But this is wrong because it seems to be common sense that the best way to have a better society isnt by taking peoples rights away or spending an exhausting amount of time on a hypercobformist ideological sentiment, but instead to teach people the virtue of SELF-DISCIPLINE AND SELF-RESTRAINT! Seriously folks, disciplining a child shouldn't be about punishment vs reward, but manifest destiny vs atrophy. Are you going to advance or be held back?! Because then you create power and social games which just screw up everything. But if you teach people to accept themselves for being who they are they they can accept others. If you can accept others then you can leave them alone because why?! Because they're self-discipline already and already are trustworthy. Trust, a lost art in society itself, and all because we didnt teach people to be autonomous and self-discipline humans we reinvented self-discipline and equated it with selfishness because you didnt need the system to impose its will on you and that meant the government could be smaller. So people hate all individualists (evil ones being dark triad), neurodivergents (bipolar, schizophrenia, autism, schizoid etc.) because they dont feel gravitated towards groups, they arent ooooh lookie I see shiny girl leggings, or coins. Lemme go manipulate and get some. Gimme that its mine! They raise us to be animals not human with our own souls or conscience. We can have a free society if we taught people to RESPECT their own dignity and their self-discipline. It's that simple. A society of self-discipline people is one where we dont spend our time distrusting and making people do a million little things for no reward and then risk getting cut off and burned. All my life I felt different as well and still do. The pain and alienation is so great I became a philosopher over the years seeking answers and wisdom. I'm writing books now debunking Nihilism. I think Nihilism is the worst philosophy ever created by mankind because once its embraced there is no more hope at all. Everything becomes perpetually lost, dark, meaningless etc. And we seemed to have entered it around last year.

Those are bottom of the barrel women. Run from those

food service industry is KNOWN to have the worst types (for dating). They often do drugs together and cheat often. Not sure why this is but it is well established. Never date a waitress.

All Facts. Restaurant/Bar workers, Flight Attendants, n women who work in warehouses. If ya woman works in a warehouse, she has cheated 😂

Oh and nurses be FREAKS. I went in a nurses house once and she had a stripper pole in the middle of her living room 😂

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Many flings to me means she’ll get bored with just one dick. If I know a woman has a high body count, I find it hard to believe she can walk away from that life all together

Why is that?

100% this

Have a great weekend my friend! ❤️

@@CourtneyRyan thank you friend😊

@@CourtneyRyan gotta wear red for your Friday videos 😬 (RED Fridays, Remember Everyone Deployed by wearing red every Friday, until they all come home)

Thank you ❤️

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Besides that, idk if I can ever date any girl that's a therapist, let alone in social work. I don't think they have the capability to switch that off during their off hours

You did the right thing

@@battletested2934 thanks

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Nothing said about cheating while away. Might be a fling with a good looking man while in summer college!

Facts on Facts

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@@CourtneyRyan sorry if my response came off as mean I didn't mean it that way truth is I think you give awesome advice!

According to the internet scads of women would cheat if they’re knew they would not get caught. Is that true? Maybe…maybe not!

How exactly does that work? How would somebody only find you after you focus on yourself?

Self improvement… when you pore into yourself you raise your value. By doing this you you’ll be more aware, higher standards and or just more in touch w/ what your true self wants / attracted too.

A year in the gym, building my faith, close to graduating w/ a masters… basically what I mean. Took time to do those things for me and the results were beautiful. A lot of men are externally focused… focus on self and what you can control.

I guess I don't have that experience. I got fit, I upped my money game, I've reclaimed my faith and walk with Christ. I've improved myself in every way and every woman I've dated for the past five years has some terrible red flag or is emotionally unavailable or just uses me for a meal and attention. I don't think it just suddenly works out just because you focus on yourself. There's something wrong with women as a group imo, they don't behave properly. Act like men or broken lunatics.

@@clanghampton7158 I didn't say they just change but your discernment comes from the changes you've made. Also everyone experience is different. I had dates plenty of women before and after. I also ended up choosing someone I knew from a while back because of my dating experience. I know what's outside like you said and it was easier for me to see that a person I had loved prior was the person I was suppose to be with. Will keep you in my prayer for the day. Keep working hard and looking. Plenty of women that fit any standards and have their own everything going on. Don't let a few women make you think something is wrong with all of them.

I work with nurses and they're generally horrible people.

Why were you messing with another man's wife? Pathetic behavior by you.

My dad use to tell me, women who drive fast are fast 😂

Maybe that’s why cops stop them. Pullover mam.

I disagree. I have many female friends that I only look at platonically, they've never put a strain into my relationships and my life would be worse off without their help. I find reasonable that my partners also have male friends. Seriously, if you don't trust someone not even as much as allowing them to speak to the other gender, don't have a relationship with them

@Juan Carlos it's really not about trust, it's about respect. There's nothing wrong with a man who doesn't want his partner to spend time ALONE with sexually available men. If you're cool with it, okay great this isn't applicable to you. If I had a serious girlfriend or a wife and she still wanted to go out with other men without me, or God forbid go to the club, then that's a dealbreaker. This isn't high school anymore.

Juan, lol you do realize 50% of people cheat right? that number is exponentially higher for people who routinely hang around the opposite sex alone without their partner in social settings (bars, clubs) or private settings( homes, hotels). Yes you should trust your partner but all i'm saying is anyone who isn't nervous about this is just naive and a sucker.

@@SHYKOOPA just because you have female friends and see them as a friends doesn’t mean your girls homeboys see her as a sister haha Those men are going to the shoulder to cry on when you and your girl go thru problems. I don’t have female friends cause they are a liability

​@@SHYKOOPAYou sound beta. What man hangs around women and want nothing from them. And is comfortable with your woman hanging out with guys? She going to cheat on you if she haven't yet.

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Why so she won’t leave you? You sound psycho

@@johnnyhandsome3424 Its not psycho to want to stop rewarding people for cheating. Not just women but men also. Putting children through that kind of mental anguish because she wanted a hot girl summer is abuse in my book. And statistically children do worse accodemically when raised in a broken family. Cheaters shouldn't get rewarded with child support, alimony, the house, and the kids. Hell family law doesn't even require evidence like criminal court does. So you get he said she said non-sense which puts the kids in the middle of an argument. The kids are the victims. Personally I could care less if a woman leaves me. A woman isn't my primary objective. She wants to leave.....leave,.....but I shouldn't be punished financially and have my kids taken away or lose my home all because she couldn't just be loyal. The person keeping the family unit together shouldn't be punished.

Punishable by jail

No people make mistakes.

@@glendavis1266 forgetting to pay a bill, that's a mistake. Intentionally sleeping with someone other than your partner isn't a mistake, it's emotional and financial abuse to your husband, wife, kids. Period. Being intoxicated doesn't bar someone from responsibility. You can't undo it. Even if we didn't "punish" cheaters we certainly shouldn't be rewarding them with money because they decide to ruin a family. No.... absolutely not. Good people shouldn't be forced to pay for other people's "mistakes". If someone wants to forgive, fine whatever.....but if someone doesn't wanna forgive they shouldn't be punished for doing nothing wrong.

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