the voice inside your head is killing your confidence. 

who ever sees this comment just know that you did great today be proud

I don’t know if you’ll see this comment, but I watch all your videos here, your second channel and listen to all your podcasts on repeat and follow you on instagram because honestly, I don’t know where I would be without your content. From healing my anxious attachment to making me the confident person that I am, I owe it all to you. Thank you so much , I hope you never stop making content because you help so many like me I’m sure❤❤❤❤

Thank you for all the effort you put into these videos Elicia! I'm starting to truly take care of myself since the start of the new month and your videos help shift my usual negative, mean, and berating attitude to myself. I have weight to lose, a certificate to study for, and lifestyle change that im striving to start on and succeed in accomplishing. Thanks for providing that motivational push and support to so many people!

you seem to make the perfect videos for how i’m feeling at the right time😭

I love listening to you when I’m in a bit of a rut. I often feel that our mindsets align 🥰

when i don't feel myself or confident your videos bring me back to reality!! ur the big sister i never had fr!

I’m so freaking happy that I found your channel you are my role model and I relate to you so much you’re literally a gift ❤

Literally DOING what makes me feel good in this season. Thank you for this!

Yes! This video. I needed it. I’m constantly comparing myself to my friend’s lives who have beautiful children’s & husbands and I’m alone… or why I’m not as pretty and smart as my coworkers. Help me trick my mind to think I am worthy of love and respect?

This video was spot on. Just focus and love yourself. But do stuff that makes you feel good and create life and routine and be committed and disciplined living your best life. And therapy and life coaches. And take and do the work to be your full complete self. And get rid of validation from others and situations and stuff out of you. You have to validate and love yourself cause people will fail you if your focus is others. The focus should be on you. I focus on me and only me and I keep getting better. Thank you for this video. The type of content I want to do. Just started doing what i eat in day videos weekly videos and weekly podcast episodes. And daily cardio workouts. Just started calorie counting and using food scale. I have good and bad days and I am glad im committing to putting me first and better.

needed this now....thank you so much, love how much your videos have helped me and allowed me to view life in a new lens...a lens that made me grateful to wake up alive...

The way you approach this topic has the realism and practicality we need as always. Cause that's the way you DO IT ELICIA!! Hope the Central Cee concert went well and love your look! This was such a comforting yet useful video. Thank You!

I really needed this today! Thank you ❤️😭

Thanks sis fr such kind reminders ❤

Beautifully said ! ❤❤❤❤❤

I needed this vid so badly thx darliing❤

Loving these videos, thank you ❤

You. Never. Miss. Thank you for posting so often lately I've been loving sharing the summer with you!! This video charges my mindset for the day you are so appreciated thank youuuu❤

thank you elicia!

Thank you for this ❤❤

Aahh sis... I'm screaming cuz I needed this really soon ❤

You are so inspiring and help me in so many ways Thank you🙏❤️

Yeah it be like that. Being confident in your own skin is HARD with how the media is these days

Thank you

Elicia you're so inspiring I love you!!

such a beautiful video. Thank you so much- this is a realization i was coming to rn too so ur timing is so perfect 💗🌟

You posted this just in time for my break at work 😌

Thanks I definitely needed this ❤❤❤

hey elicia

Thank you so much for this video I really need this! And you are so beautiful btw I love the finished look😍

Thank you so much sister❤️✨️you're very kind and you still honest and I appreciate that, very realistic 🫶❤

Hiii Elicia!!! I’m watching this when I get home because I’m in the gym right now! I absolutely loved your podcast last Thursday! Can’t wait to watch todays video! Sending you love and hugs as always 💜💜💜

Elicia you really made my summer 1000000 times better

Thank you for this video fr fr

I love your talk so much everytime I watch your videos i immediately go and write in my note a motivational words and describe myself with beautiful words

needed this ❤

It's Monday, I am off, and I am working on my design portfolio and binging your videos. Thank you for all the videos you make. I love that you are real and it gives the vibe that I'm facetiming a friend 😂😂

I needed this.

you seem to drop these videos at just the right time for me. just yesterday that little voice was in my head and i had seen you posted this video not long before. i'm curious, how do you handle that voice in your head when you want to relax but you feel you need to be doing something productive/progressive? thank you for always sharing your insights with us elicia🤍

youre making my day

I adore your beautiful eyes! Also, I'm learning so much from you and I just want to say, Thank You!

I just LOVE your eyebrows 😍Great video as usual 🥰

That voice in your head is yours is big facts. And definitely means that you should not listen to it all the time because you don't know everything. But you should know your self enough to have confidence and faith in the decisions you make in regards to your life.

Damn did i need this. Thank you thank you.

Love your videos ❤❤

thank you ❤

I always loved big eyes!!!

Good morning! Our thoughts actions and emotions are all connected . I started reading affirmations

I need this tomorrow. I can’t today but I need this tomorrow. I love you girl keep up the AMAZING work especially celebrating yourself and resting ❤

Let’s go girl! Just got me hyped up for a bikini comp I’m dou g this week!

TW!!!! Thank u so much, this came at the perfect time 🥺. I was fasting today because I had binged yesterday and honestly this video made me realize am never gonna stop this cycle if I continue to do what I always do. I suffer from multiple Ed’s and am stuck in the binge restrict cycle and heavily abuse laxatives. This video clicked a switch idk, I need to choose recovery I need to get better because I have lost everything due to this all. This made me realize it’s not school, it’s not my job, it’s not my parents or family. It’s no one but ME, and I need to change. If I really want to loose weight, get fit, clear up my acne, I need to do it the healthy way because obviously what am doing is not working, it may take longer but I don’t care, I want to heal and feel along the way. I have already lost everything, what else is there to loose, I must try a different way. Thank u so much for all of your videos, u are seriously the mother/older sister I had always wished for. I discovered you around a month ago and everytime I listen to your videos, a light always sparks in me. Thank u 🥺❤

Omg! It feels like you made this video for me! Thanks for the motivation, hope u have a wonderful day!😊

Good morning happy Monday morning and I hope you having amazing weekend and I loved your vlogs and you are amazing Supporter and I'm proud of you

SPEAKING STRAIGHT TO ME RN

I felt attacked by this title 😅 great vid as Always ❤️❤️

Can you make a video about limiting beliefs and how to overcame that please❤

Looking Great 👍

Lmao "What am I gonna do with a rapper" is so funny to me for some reason but facts 🤣

Hey Queen 👸 🩷🩵🩷🩵🩷

Ok girl I just downloaded like to know it

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No that voice is other peoples voice. Or else it would have never been in my head. Which means you have to avoid people that have negative voices.

But what if it’s factually correct? I’ve been made to feel ugly by even my parents. It’s just the truth - especially as a female it’s less common but it is literally true and it hurts like hell. 22 & no love experience and ppl have always treated me differently. It’s just factually true, not even comparing to anyone else, just looking at myself here. I take care of my body, at a healthy weight etc.

lovely Elicia, I resonated so much with this message, thank you 🤍 I've had my own journey of comparison as well (due to a very toxic relationship) but you're right about having to be your own source of validation because you are the deciding factor of whether you'll accept outside criticism and internalize it OR refuse to listen to anyone who thinks they know you better than you know you BECAUSE YOU KNOW YOURSELF.