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Never underestimate a woman’s ability to rationalize bad choices And Avoid all accountability

If she don’t find you attractive it doesn’t matter what you do.

Try it if you want, if you are not attractive (looks,status,wealth) your attitude means nothing. They couldn't care less.

I think more men are over it. I for one have stopped trying to date and I'm far happier.

Flipping roles only works if you are attractive to begin with. If you try that as an average dude, she will just laugh at you and move to the next guy.

I guess I’m not wired that way as a man I want to treat my date with the respect that I would like to be treated with. I get the flirting aspect of it, but if someone is not paying attention or being bratty on a date, I’m not going to point it out to them or make it a big deal, I’m just going to walk away or not call them after that. I don’t have time for child-like games, I want someone who is serious to be with me.

How to impress a woman?? You don't.

Just so you're all perfectly aware, 6'4 Chad doesn't need to do any of this.

I did self improvement for the last 6 years, was doing cold approach etc. etc. and I got very self confident but found no woman. If you are a 5 like me and you want a quality woman who is like a 6-7 its very hard, woman turn you down a lot and you cant even use this stuff ur talking about. Its all true but no use. Truth is that womans expectations are through the roof and If you dont look good, you dont even get the date.

A minute ago saying literally 0.8% chance of an AVERAGE(not even ugly looking) guy has no chance. I like this guy, he seems to understand reality, and is honest and has the data backing up the ugly truth. But he then contradicts himself when he goes: "Just look down on her and flip the script bro" Won't work. You'll still be invisible to them.

The 1 in 115 doesn't paint the full picture. In a case of matching you will go through 2nd round of evaluation and you will fail that in about 50% and get insta unmatched.

Sounds good but not blackpilled enough... None of this "think like a top 20% male" will work if you're not actually in the top 20%, which is mostly about looks

This is the very rare miss from Alexander. I dont think he understands how brutal the dating game is.

That 1 in 115 is misleading. What % of those likes are from unattractive women? What % of those likes from attractive women resulted in tinder convos ? What % of those convos lead to dates? What % of those dates lead to sex? What % of those 1st time sexual encounters lead to future encounters or long term relationships? It's probs more like 1 in 10,000 for the average dude 😂!

I went to meet a woman I was dating at her house and she was about to leave the house wearing jogging bottoms. I was dressed casually but smartly. I told her she needed to wear either a skirt or tailored trousers if she was going to walk down the road with me. She looked shocked at my request but did change her attire. Women do respect men with standards.

i think it's all bollocks. if you are not attractive enough, not high enough, not athletic enogh, no masculine enough etc, it all doesn't matter. your attitude doesn't matter, you can think whatever you want, you can say whatever you want, you can behave however you want but women won't be attracted to you. they are much bigger lookists than we are

Part of these data are explained by the oversaturation of males on these apps. Around 70% of the uses are Tinder are men. So of course the women on the app will be very selective, they literally have their choice. If you're not a very good looking guy (8+/10), probably steer clear of the dating apps. Alex, I think you're right about the teasing thing btw. It works well, just not on the apps.

This 80/20 graph confirms my experience. There was NEVER any place for me in the dating market. If I want to play, I am competing for one of the bottom 4% of women. My time is better spent on the river fishing or on the golf course.

The entire "make her think she has to impress you" thing doesn't mean much in the world where online dating apps is how people meet.

I wonder what would happen if I went up to a girl in public, showing her all the matches get on dating apps and ask her if she help me pick the best ones? I'll be like, "hey can you help go through my matches? I just got so many options I just dont know where to start"

This info is golden bro and presented in a professional, great way

we need female robot that can conceive children so we can be done with this.

Great video, Alexander

Looking at the hoops I have the go through to get a girlfriend, I at times genuinely think of Stockholmmaxxing some insecure, plain looking, lonely, asocial type of girl

4am squad

What can I do to impress a narcissist?

One reason for the disparity in the timeframe of answering messages is that women get 30X the number of messages than men because there are so many thirsty simps. It takes women longer to respond because they have far many more messages to go through!

Get massive amounts of money. Flaunt your wealth with all sorts of high-end status symbols. Act confident everywhere you go. You *WILL* attract beautiful women. They won't be high-quality women. But you'll definitely attract them.

Yes I am so glad to find this channel

this is gold

You continue to top your best videos! 🔥

I was frustrated with dating women in the U.S. The dating apps were a nightmare. I changed my focus to women in non western countries. Game Changer! if you are broke, ugly, old, you probably still won't do well. If you are a normie I think you will find good success. The women in those other countries really like normies.

I have been doing this from a month! It works wonders

Women can't respond quick because they already have 2000 requests per hour ahead of your message, while dudes can reply to their 3 responses instantly

great channel! Keep making the vids!

They wait for you to message them first and they block you if you don't. LOOOOOOOOL I guess they can't handle the feeling of "am I not good enough?".

@alexandergrace are you going to be doing another bootcamp type thing in Asia?

Men are the prize man. Most women havnt faced half the challenges or difficulties a man has

This is solid advice Alex, and ties in very well with what Todd V teaches. Be a high value man, and flip the script on women.

Online dating might just work if you are dating abroad. women in western countries use the dating app to get a small but fake confidence boost

I'm the one, the unique. My only real possession is the ego, which is the only thing of value that everything else gets their's from

Get fit, get your hobbies on, work hard

There are no longer any dragons to slay to impress the princess.

Here is an easy fix. Average, below average and high value is relative. since some chick living in a trailer park is not going to be around the same kind of "average" guy as some women living in a affluent suburb. You can be seen as above average in one scenario and below in the other. Why do you think foreign women in poor countries value the same american male while american females wont value the man as much? Because to that foreign female you would be high value and to the other you arent. Point is that because it is relative and women want to date up to whatever they see as high value, it is situational, and you will get more hits going after women that will believe you are high value based on their circumstances. Your chances increase based on environment. Perception is relative to that.

Finally you learned it

The sad truth is that attitude is generally downstream from looks and status. I stopped believing in game for a number of reasons but probably the biggest is that in my experience women can always tell when you fancy them. Being aloof or negging only works when you mean it. If you actually think a girl is chopped liver and aren’t that interested it makes her want you. If it’s an act it’s arguably worse than being obsequious or putting her on a pedestal.

Honeymoons are temporary.. DOOM IS ETERNAL!

Exactly, always told men to work on their craft and better themselves, and love themselves, never shape your life to please others, shape it to serve you

So the rule "Fake it, till you make it" works here?

It's been a while.

"You need to start thinking like a top 20% man" No, you need to start LOOKING like a top 20% man. Women do not care about your "masculine frame" mentality. If you're a 5 and you try to act like you're a top 20% guy you are going to come off as incongruent, arrogant and silly. Trust me I've tried.

I can’t believe the crap I used to read on the internet when I was searching how to get a girl to like you when I was in middle and high school I was an absolute clown 🤡 it got me cheated one twice

it's okay, i also look down on 90% of them

I like 90% of your content but I feel like you've missed the mark on this one a bit. Your attitude won't matter of no one cares or finds you attractive to begin with. This reminded me of my favorite non-advice (not that this is non-advice, just made remember it) in one of those shitty "Do *T H I S* to make EVERY woman chase you!!!1!": Just IGNOOOORE HER!!. Wow, genious. You can only ignore someone if they actually care.

That’s sad, she chase when you’re least interested but it makes since, as she ignores men on a daily.

Women's respect is essential with a majority of this.

9:00 This is the most important point IMO. It's so simple and seems obvious, but really letting it set in that women are neither universally evil nor universally ethereal goddesses has been so helpful to a couple of my friends. Women are Literally. Just. People.

5:50 I honestly think it's 90%+ looks at that stage.. Cockiness will make ugly guys seem like creeps. Just my opinion.

The best answer for men is to dress in a suit for your profile picture. I went to a wedding and had a friend take pictures of me on a golf course. My current GF of a year said she liked me because of the picture. The suit shows success.

4:50-e true

As always, great video Just wanted to share that I think this is only good for the beginning of attraction. Afterwards, if the man isn’t pursuing and making the girl feel valued, why would the girl stay if she has a brain? I was in love with a guy who had this mentality (I fell for him because of other reasons mainly though- he was exactly the man I was looking for in regards to religious and political values, easy to talk to, attractive etc) and he wanted me to chase him (even surprisingly told me this in person lol), even though I knew what he wanted in a wife and that I was even more than what he was looking for (especially age wise I guess). Since he continued the act, I gave up on him, despite being in love with him still. The logical part of my brain was telling me he isn’t worth it since he isn’t pursuing and making me feel special. Im over him now and have no regrets. The deep love I had for him was annoying and painful when I didn’t feel it reciprocated well

I look down on the people who workout at the gym who are too prideful to ask for help but had bad form

One thing though is you can't look at averages like they apply to every single woman. For exemple if you make an average between 2 types of women "Will never date a man with long hair" and "Loves men with long hair" you might have an overall disadvantage for you with the whole population, but if you go only for that niche it's actually an advantage. It's not exactly a linear thing, and sometimes the "average" can represent a thing that doesn't really exist in that form. Also the goal is not to have success with all or most women, but just find 1 x)

So teach the PUA techniques!

i got fed up with dating apps and started swiping right on pretty much every girl just to match and ignore them >:D

This video is so realistic

Spot on mate! Perfect advice for the current times

So you say fake it until you make it?

anyone have good playful teasing examples for when the girl is boring, entitled, not present, or has an uninterested expression?

I think we have to get beyond ego/competitive/pecking order in our own selves first before we can attract a genuine partner (male or female). Just as an intelligent sensitive man can get beyond the biological urge to spread seed and can see value and enjoyment from fidelity, A woman can also grow beyond hypergamy. Those are in the biological realm also in the level of the ego and competitiveness mentioned earlier. Living in a world where you are constantly measuring yourself against someone else as to whether or not you are good enough is a form of hell. Peace of mind and true connection lie beyond such dynamics. We are all capable of getting there we just have to see the trap of the former mentioned. Just in the same way that for some people getting drunk is a short-lived experience because they don’t like the hangover. Maybe some people never give up heavy drinking but there are many that do. If you see the trap of the ego and skirt chasing and hypergamy it’s not that attractive to follow it with the zeal of a religious nut.

The way I see it, the effort should be about 50-50. If not then she's just not interested (or your not interested). In any case, women generally expect guys to make the first move -- I mean, if he does then he's likely to pay for the whole date.

"let's say you walk into a party" Who said that?

Although using a dating app's data is a good starting point to showcase this, but there are inherently many biases that come with this data. For example, a huge percentage of people on dating apps are not looking for a stable relationship, but a fling. As guys tend to be more horny that girls, it is a possibility that guys set a lower standards just to get 'laid'. Furthermore, the dating app culture also plays a role here. By this I mean, people who tend to join dating apps are well aware of the fact that many use this app just for a quick fling, and hence girls might be more picky in this sense as they want to secure a better guy to lower the 'risk' of partnering up with a low quality guy, taking into the account the fling culture. Finally and the biggest flaw of all, is that the dating app sample size is not even close to a representative of the entire population of people who are looking to date. Girls especially, who tend to take things slow and develop feelings naturally via unintentional interactions instead of actively seeking a mate through a platform. Therefore, generating a whole conclusion based on this data is inherently flawed, though it can provide insights to people who are actively using dating platforms. I would like for you to look at this data at a more scientific point of view, but i still applaud the fact that you attempted to use data to explain this. Thanks!

I want to have genuine conversations with women, learn about them and let them learn about me, and see whether we connect. I’ve been failing to connect for a few years now. And women seem to have very bad social skills anymore, which I need to compensate for somehow.

Cocky is NOT the same as misogynistic. We can assume we are worth high standards WITHOUT hating on ANY other group bc we can apply the standards PERSON BY PERSON and not on the entire group!

women can see straight through mens desires, curb your enthusiasm and youll be more attractive

I think most middle eastern and slavic countries are most likely better environments to raise families in this day and age. Women seem to act more like adults compared to the selfish mental maladjustments in this side of the world.

I dont talk to 99.8% of my female matches. Im 193cm. And of those 0.02% I ask out rarely even 1. Because all of them are 5s or 6s. Which i dont need aside from casual sex.

It's interesting, that there are tons of videos, about what a man has to do, to get and hold on to a woman. But as I see it, there is almost nothing, the other way around.

I have a thing to add. You also should be valuable in order to put value on yourself. Chase excellence not women 💪

I also think something that Alex fails to realize is that this type of behavior will only be tolerated by most women if the guy is good looking (especially the "resting b*tch face" comment). Alex has acknowledged the importance on looks and how it alters peoples' perception of your actions / the things you say before.....so I'm a little surprised that he didn't mention that in this video.

"What can I do to impress a Woman?" Nothing.

Guys, I would still suggest wanting to make sure you put SOME effort into wanting to impress her; just don’t go overboard like simps. Otherwise girls are gonna feel u don’t care about them

looks maxing is the way forward bro

I choose the alternative solution, I am not good enough? That might be true , but I won't jump thru any hooks either I'll just ignore women.

to me both ways are not genuine ways to know another person. For real just be yourself. don't be braggy and avoid braggy people. don't feel like you have to entertain nor that she has to entertain you. If it's meant to be you won't have these kind of problems.

JP himself also said that it's my fault and only my fault that 99% of women don't like me.

PUA 101...

I hate buzzwords like "cocky".

I think cockiness is annoying because its fake. Its confidence without having tangible evidence to back it up. I could say that if i got in a fight with Conor mcgregor, I'd win. Sounds stupid right? Thats cause it is.

How did relationships work before indoor plumbing was invented? Queen Elizabeth the 1st took pride in taking a bath once a month. That wasn't feasible for the average person. Imagine trying to get a date when you're absolutely filthy and smelly.

So he says "Don't try to impress women" but later says "Be a high value man" which are the guys that impress women.

Searching for the truth between Hamza and Wheat Waffles, I think I may have found it here but not completely

Just try making a profile on dating app as a woman looking for women, and one will see women reply very quickly and often be ready to meet as soon as possible. The elephant is the room that is rarely being discussed when focusing on the disparity between male and female interest in each other, is simply that women are much less heterosexual than men, their interest in men is focused on resources, status and emotional needs. It would be interesting to know how many percent of women, women find attractive.

don't listen to this video.. Don't try to impress women with something YOU ARE NOT.. Be yourself a high quality men according to YOU.. Don't search for validation. If someone likes you it must be for yourself

These two graphs look almost the same

As I age through my sixties, I find that the guy with the biggest walker gets the babes. Uh, maybe. --Old Guy

Well I see the good and bad points that you're doing I appreciate your content as a fan but I want to tell you my personal deep desire feelings I look at life from a realistic point of view okay there's a lot of people out there they don't look at life in a realistic point of view they wonder why there's no good man it's because all they do is attract losers and what I mean by losers is the Chads it's like they know they know they know they're no good there are men out there who have a even balance of being the good guy and the bad guy at the same time which makes them a gray Zone if they would stop being stupid and actually go for the decent people and listen to someone who's trying to help them out the women would actually get ahead the men would get the women you got to follow your own path and be your own man and live by your morals and standards by doing this you will achieve greatness

1st world problems.